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| -1 | Is a man still high value if he invests his money instead of showing it off?Rich people are rich, because they invest and save more than they spend Middle class are middle class because the spend the same as they earn Poor people are poor because they spend more than they earn Keep investing in your future. Material possessions are waste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Are some people fine with going without love or a long term relationship?Possible, but I can only hypothetically think what that situation would be. I think for serious long term commitment to build family’s and strong bond both people need to be in a place of emotional maturity and intelligent. I see a lot of people in relations with and without children that are just sort of going through the motions. It’s abit like a job, most people will stay in a job as long as it’s good enough because it takes a lot of energy to find a new job, they will only leave that job if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Are some people fine with going without love or a long term relationship?If I wasn’t a farther I think I’d been further down the grind route. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:06 AM |
| 11 | Are some people fine with going without love or a long term relationship?I feel on the fence about it. I’m 34 male, separated from my daughters mum. Life is easy as without a partner, like I can achieve so much in career and hobbies without having to worry about someone else. But on the other hand it would be nice to have someone to come home to and financially life’s always easier with two incomes. But right now I’m so career driven, with that studying, hobbies and being a dad I don’t think I’d have the time for a partner that they deserve, and I’m also very happy b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:53 PM |
| 9 | Just observe couples offline for a while and you’ll realise the bar isn’t as high as you probably think it isObtaining and keeping a relationship are two different things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 06:20 AM |
| 7 | Men don’t get to have male spacesI never understood why my gym has a female only space but not a male only space | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of single men could get a girlfriend by losing weight and spending a few months at the gym. Change my mind.My face looks way different at 18% to 12% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 11:55 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of single men could get a girlfriend by losing weight and spending a few months at the gym. Change my mind.You wouldn’t know what your facial genetics are unless you lean down and uncover it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 11:44 PM |
| 8 | What is the source of men's motivation for working hard?I’ll speak generally 1.) Men what status and respect from other men 2.) Most people work hard to achieve they life style they want 3.) Status, money and life style gets chicks. Being broke to man is like being a slut to a women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 01:03 AM |
| 7 | Does a man age matter when dating?You will lose coin chasing after women, but you won’t lose women chasing after coin. Men have to build their value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for?Tired looking for that, found it a and get bored really quickly. I want a partner who is those things but also intelligent, has hobbies and interests and a personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Why Are You Single?I’ll bite. I’m 34 got divorced about 2 years ago. I’m single because I’m concentrating on re building my self, both physically mentally and financially. And trying to be a good farther to my 3 year old daughter. Iv tried dating apps, yer they can be good for a hook up but try and find a long term partner is like trying to find a needle in a bay stack and just isn’t worth the time. Nearly ever profile looks like there wanna be instagram influencers and there hobbies are doggos, food and Lulu lemo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?I find most women boring af, every dating app is the same I’m a foodie, I like yoga pants and going out to brunch. Zero actually hobbies, zero banter and zero personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What is something that men find attractive about men that women are generally indifferent to? What is something that woman find attractive about woman that men are generally indifferent to?Totally agree, I find women who are plastered in make up a massive turn off they sort of give off a I’m so insecure about my looks vibe I’m over compensating, and WTF are they going to look like in the morning ? A completely different person. I prefer the natural to minimal look, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Would you date a single dad?I think the question should be reframed as “should I date a person who is the custodial parent”. I say this as being single and being a farther. Because it’s a way different dynamic when your not the custodial parent. I also think the relationship between the two parents matter, because a kid with two parents that are co-parenting well this kid doesn’t need a step mum or step dad, these are just labels given. Now I would totally recommend anyone under 30ish not date anyone who has a child, as at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 05:25 AM |
| 7 | Q4 Red Pill Men - what is your opinion on single fathers?Single father’s come in many shapes and sizes. There are those father’s who are the custodial parent with majority of the day to day care. There are equal split father’s, there a father’s like me who don’t have an equal split but pay child support and weekends together. There are fathers that just pay child support and don’t see there kids and there are father’s that don’t pay child support and don’t see there kids. So the term single farther is two board of a brush stroke. But I think TRP would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesWell the amusing thing is, I simply don’t care. I’d rather be single and surf. There probably is all around me, but I’m often so stoked and focused on the waves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesSame can be said for any hobbies. I fricken love surfing and literally any spare time I have I’m at the beach. Which makes my dating life very poor, when the waves are in I’d much rather go surf that date some chick. Iv turned down dates, cancelled them and put zero effort into dating because i just wanna surf. Just I fricken love ir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 11:41 PM |
| 4 | If you start doing looksmax prepare to be ridiculed (by other men)This isn’t just isolated to looksmaxxing for men. It’s everywhere in your adult life for both men and women. People don’t like to see other people improve, doesn’t matter if it’s money, looks, career, a new car etc. if you find people family or friends that are genuinely happy to see you make any improvement in your life, these people are rare and worth keeping around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementBitches will never be happy, accept it, use it to your advantage and live life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 12:58 AM |
| 6 | if a man peaked later in life, what type of women will he get compared to his 20 year old selfThere is no valve added by trying to understand what you could have got in the past or what you can get in the future. Understand your current situation and aim to improve from there, that is the your reality right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: why don’t you prefer relationships?Yep nothing against women at all or my ex for that matter. It’s the system I stick my middle finger up at and the kids never win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: why don’t you prefer relationships?From a wealth and lifestyle perspective I would think so. She now owns a house, decent car paid off and only works 3 days a week as a hairdresser for a career. Now it’s very hard to obtain those material possessions and working life if you were only a hairdresser for a career | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 08:10 PM |
| 25 | Q4Men: why don’t you prefer relationships?Just got divorced 1.5 years ago. Lost all my wealth, the opportunity to be around my daughter on a daily basis. Modern laws and society have destroyed my soul going through the process. I’m scared shitless of getting in a relationship because the risk and consequences are two big for me. I’m only just now finding my feet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessReddit would be boring if every one was grammatically correct. Adds some spice to the conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:25 PM |
| 24 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessMen will be told straight up by his peers, society and partners is he doesn’t meet standards, where as for women they use copying mechanism. For example a guy get me fat, his mate will tell him straight up your fat get your ass in the guy. His level of attention from women will decline If a women gets fat, her peers both men and women will tell her, beauty at all weights. You go girl, and still get attention from simps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody else sort of wish they were gay?Yep, my best mate is gay. He’s been gay his whole life. And when I talk about how challenging dating is for a straight male or the quality of women he just can’t relate. We have some good conversations about the differences. There is no power struggles in there relationship they are just neutral and happy. And one thing I found out is not all gay guys are man whores like you would expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsBy who, women ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Men Now Face More Unrealistic Beauty StandardsWomen’s body standards have become what we men have put up with. We set the standard, if men didn’t fuck or marry fat chicks they would have the motivation to slim down, but we do. Flip it on it head and you see us guys bitching about women’s standards for men, women won’t accept a fat dude, so we don’t get fat it’s our motivation. So to all men stop banging fat chicks, then there slim down and we all have hella fine shelias to smash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 07:21 PM |
| 3 | True wealth is mostly invisible, so how does "getting money" improve your chances if it can't be seen?Same with status, it’s only relevant in the circle it operates in. For example in my work environment I hold a fair bit of status due to my role. In the gym I have zero status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think gym maxing works for men who are considerably unattractive?That’s the point, men should go to the gym or be active play sports for all the other added valve it adds to life. And if it also increases your smv or results with women that’s a net positive. Literally exercise has 100% return on investment, even if that exercise is only walking daily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 02:07 AM |
| 37 | Do you think gym maxing works for men who are considerably unattractive?It will always add valve, not just in physical appearance, but confidence and mental health. I’d rather be genetically ugly and jacked, than just genetically ugly. I won’t turn you into a chad, but it will always add 1 or 2 smv to everyone. If that means you go from a 3-4 then that’s great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Relatively speaking, loneliness is not worse for men because they do not need to be as social as womenI totally agree with your observation. I myself are what you would consider a lone wolf, and that’s out of preference. I much prefer doing a activity with my friends like hiking or surfing rather than doing a social activity like going for dinner or drinks, I find it boring and I bond with other people much easer that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Question for All. What would you do if you we're an ideally attractive male? would u sleep around? who would u date? would u date at all etc.I’d go to smash town for a while to get it out my system, then start the hunt for a wife how would want to stay at home with the kids. Then move to Bali live in a house by the beach and just live a low key life, surfing and never wearing a tshirt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 06:57 AM |
| 3 | What are the traits the opposite sex find attractive that you think are actually easiest to cultivate? What do you think stop so many people disgruntled by their dating prospects from doing so?That’s the wrong way to think about a hobby. A hobby should be something you do to add valve and enjoyment to your life, not to attract a women. If your doing it to attract a women it’s not a hobby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | What are the traits the opposite sex find attractive that you think are actually easiest to cultivate? What do you think stop so many people disgruntled by their dating prospects from doing so?Totally agree, and what iv found for myself and nearly every other bloke iv met in my life is that, men feel emotions and can comprehend them and see and understand other people emotions. But the difficulty men has is having the ability to articulate their emotions and understanding of others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreFood for though, hitting your 40’s, 50’s, 60’s without kids ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 07:08 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Most complaints about dating stems from not understanding how value worksThis is a logical explanation of how a basic market works. Although I agree in looking at a persons dating pool as a market, we also forget the emotional human point of view when viewing things through a logical lense. I agree with what you say, but there is another layer to it and that’s human emotion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Men: What is your age, how much money do you make and how does it affect your dating life?32, make $117,000 in New Zealand which is far above a average her. Just scraping by in current economic climate. Divorced 2 years ago, pay child support. In terms of dating the first date I went on after my divorce I’d pay for dates, be dating with a purpose I.e to get laid or get company, but this was unsuccessful. Now I make dates go Dutch or do free stuff like hikes, motorbike rides, beach days with a zero expectations mindset. I x10 more successful in dating. So short answer is as long as yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 03:15 AM |
| -2 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?No matter what changes in society, men can always bring protection and integrity. You cant perform us in that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Something that I have noticed on breakups.If you think that’s bad, wait until you get divorced. The women wins every-time, in every western country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:37 AM |
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