| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"? | PianoOwl | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 02:34 PM | |
| 8 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss? | PianoOwl | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 05:24 AM | |
| 5 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends? | PianoOwl | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 09:44 PM | |
| 1 | If you had to summarize your mindset at clubs/parties in a couple of sentences, what would you say? | PianoOwl | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 07:00 PM | |
| 1 | Where do I go from here? | PianoOwl | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 07:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How do I look?This is the unpopular opinion, by far. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:36 PM |
| 7 | Did anyone get more attention from women after getting bald?Yeah, early signs. Most guys will have a decent head of hair/won’t have to shave until their 30s. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:41 PM |
| 10 | Did anyone get more attention from women after getting bald?“Evolution would have eliminated the trait at some point” you realize balding happens later in life for most people, right? By which point, the men have already settled down and possibly had kids. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating Sucks? Try This...What about this is wrong? You don’t like nice haircuts/clothes? Or do you have an issue with dudes who are in shape? | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 14 | Do you guys agree that women in dating apps average 2-3 points lower in real life compared to their pics?This is not the same, though. A beard is natural and looks (or should look) the same in person. A filter is neither natural, nor real. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 04:08 AM |
| 10 | Did she block my number?Lmao this is so stupid. If they ask you to let them know you made it safely, what’s the harm in that? It’s not like you’re professing your undying love and dedication by doing so. There’s nothing “needy” or “desperate” about it. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 12:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol wtf do you mean sounds like an incel bro, he literally is an incel. | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Lifting....Changed everythingUsed fake weights, promotes having an unhealthy/ unrealistic bf% to be an “athlete”, gives ridiculous workouts such as 10x10 squats at 70-80% of 1rm with 1min rest intervals (which is quite literally impossible). And that’s just off the top of my head. I’m not randomly hating just because. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Lifting....Changed everythingThat guy is a hack* | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 12:39 PM |
| 4 | First harsh rejectionAh yes, because politely approaching a girl when she’s with a group of friends to back her up is equivalent to catcalling. Just because you don’t have the balls to do it, doesn’t mean people don’t get dates and build relationships this way. | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | First harsh rejectionComplimenting a stranger is “being a creep”? The times we live in… | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 04:02 PM |
| 5 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?It’ll make you look better and you’ll gain a ton of confidence as a result. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 10:03 PM |
| 8 | [22M] Just graduated university a kissless virgin. Absolutely devastated and have 0 hope. What now?You can’t even deadlift your bw once. After 1.5 years, lockdown or not, you should be way, way beyond this point. Follow a well known, tested program and fix your nutrition. With those lifts and your bw/ height, you must be extremely skinny fat, which is definitely not helping you at all. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 31 | I keep making out with girls at the bar, but can’t closeUntil the right guy comes along… | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 03:15 PM |
| 15 | If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with others“If you aren’t needy, you won’t come across as needy”. | /r/seduction | 09/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 0 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.Being bald is not “a sign of testosterone”. It’s only a sign that your hair follicles are sensitive to DHT. And being bald and getting a buzzcut with an NW0 hairline are NOT the same thing. Oh, and I’m not bald. I’m just being objective. Men care about going bald because we intuitively know that it’s a sign of aging, and it’s universally seen as unattractive. Stop lying to yourself with the “higher testosterone levels” bs. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 5 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.“Vin Diesel, the rock, Jason statham just to name a few” Tell me, if these are only a few, who are the others? Because these are the 3 names I keep hearing every damn time (and sometimes Bruce Willis too, even though he looked way better with hair). You’re picking out people who are famous, rich, and taking copious amounts of gear to peak for roles. They’re not representative of the average bald male whatsoever. And for each of these bald dudes, I could name 10 more with hair who are considered … | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I Never Thought I'd Get Laid After Going Bald.Anyone who downvotes is in denial. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Kissless virgin of 28 years has success with online dating, turns out he was just a 6'7 attractive white guy all alongI know man, honestly. He’s undeniably tall af tho haha. Then again, height isn’t an excuse unless you’re like 5’6 or below | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 5 | My 3 year dry spell ended last nightNo. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What is your hobby?Classical guitar. One day I’ll play for a girl, one day... | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 04:34 AM |
| 5 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?I agree with your message as a whole, but I don’t see how getting mad at traffic lights has any relation to self esteem. | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Women Want Men Who Are Superior To ThemYes, acknowledging that men and women are fundamentally different is sexist. Exactly. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Is it true that when you find the one it will feel easy?Fuck, this is depressing. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A woman's POVThey only say they hate it, but in reality it’s extremely flattering for them. How could it not be? Let’s be real here. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 10:12 PM |
| -1 | Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself.Well said. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | The amount of theory here to find women is nonsensical, does it really have to be?Wtf... | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is just like any other skill.Most guys are too scared nowadays to cold approach. It’s a mistake to assume that most hot girls get approached a lot; even guys who get lots of girls probably resort to DMs or tinder. If you’re comfortable cold approaching, you’re automatically putting yourself above the competition. Take tinder, for example. Even if you get lots of matches, there’s not much you can do to be noticed by the girls you want above all the 100s of matches they have. But when you cold approach, you cut out all that b… | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Gonna approach 3 girls tomorrowDid you do it yet? | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 0 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseWhile this may not be entirely correct solely on the basis that even amongst attractive girls, there will always be some who are more/ less attractive than the others, while still technically both being “1s”, I like the simple mindset and understand your point. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What causes you to lose interest in a girl?I’ve sometimes found that some girls can come off as being uninterested when in fact they’re just shy/ socially awkward. This could be why you get approached initially, but then it seems like they lose interest; they just think that YOU’RE not interested in them. Just my 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 13 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"Hahaha this was so funny to read. Good on you for learning not to care. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Where to have sex when living with parents?Do you have any friends who drive SUVs? Maybe they’d be willing to let you use their car for sex, it’s not too bad in an SUV if you put down the rear seats. I had a friend do this for me in high school. | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A big misconception a lot of guys have about their looksSo you’ve never seen a 10/10 walking with a nerdy twig on her arm? Because I sure have. Nobody is saying looks don’t matter, but they’re not ALL that matters. | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 05:54 PM |
| -5 | Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance.And you came to this conclusion after reading a a single, unrelated comment that I left? Your powers of perception are impressive indeed. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 02:46 AM |
| -4 | Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance.Stop leaving spaces before your question marks. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻Hahaha that’s a good point. | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 53 Progress ReportOne day I too will find the motivation to commit to a challenge like this. I hope. Good shit bro. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 01:34 AM |
| 1 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanThat’s a depressing thought. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:18 AM |
| 2 | She hit him with her car and then came back and got what she deservesJust so you know... you’re not supposed to leave spaces before exclamation marks. Also, she clearly hit him on purpose. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/04/20 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Why you must tell the girl you like that you like her😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Who here has become successful at their career, started making significantly more money, made a dramatic change to their physique, and dresses way better than they did before and actually had that lead to the kind of dating/sex life that they wanted? What's your story?The real question is... do you still play the bassoon? | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you change a belief about yourself ? How to change your self image ?If you put in the effort to change yourself enough, your self image will follow eventually. At least that’s how it was with me. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Simple Question: PORNCurious to hear people’s answers too. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 04:47 PM |
| 10 | [FR] From Friendzone to FriendboneGreat FR op. Could you elaborate further on the whole being comfortable in silence thing? I often feel the same way but then I start worrying that people around me will think it’s awkward etc, so what’s your advice on projecting that confidence, what’s your body language like in those situations to make the people around you feel more comfortable and so on. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meI see where you’re coming from. But as other people are saying, you can’t expect him to not try his luck with other girls after you reject him. It’s either that, or sit around feeling depressed about getting rejected. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 11:44 PM |
| 2 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meLmao he asked her out. How is/was she not special to him? | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Building up Kissing Confidence - The Cheek BrushThis is very high value information but I had one question. You say if she looks away that's not good, so what do you do then? | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Mindsets to help you eliminate approach anxietyActually ended up reading all of it. Great read bro. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?So I guess once you're out of high school the only time these "leagues" actually play a part is when it comes to looks because social status stops becoming a thing when you move on in life so in that case I understand the concept but still don't agree with it. Like some people on here have said, as long as one person isn't a model and the other a complete train wreck, it doesn't really matter who looks better than who or by how much. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Sounds like a solid way to think. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?I'm starting to finally reach a point where I actually see the fun. When I first started I wanted to get girls but I was extremely scared and that took away the fun from it because I was at a point where I was scared to talk to new people so I just would get lazy or flake on people but now it's gotten so much better and hopefully will continue to do so. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?I see. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:58 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?That's what I always wanted to believe but most other people seem to think differently so I started to think maybe I was just lying to myself. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?I've thought about the same thing before too, being pretty big on sports myself but yea as you said we can't really do too much about it :P | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 09:28 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Don't you find that this mindset can end up hurting you though because this way you would always go in expecting to get what you want but as everyone knows that's not always the case? | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 09:27 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?That was so well written and informative. It's funny, this response along with many others in this thread are telling me what I wish to be true and what I guess I already know in a sense: that leagues don't really exist and I just need to continue working on myself and not set myself back unnecessarily by creating some sort of invisible boundary for myself, and that if I get rejected by said girl then it has nothing to do with leagues, and it should just be a signal to keep working to improve my… | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?That was an amazing response and a great confidence boost. I think I will do it after all. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Thinking about the fact that this is my last year really puts things into perspective, I just wish it was easier to realise that no one gives a shit if I fuck up or get rejected or whatever, no one is going to make a big deal out of it or remember it or anything and I won't see most of these people in a year so I need to lose this fear of thinking it would be embarrassing to get rejected by someone "out of my league" just because they're popular or whatever. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?That's what I like to hear. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Someone told me not to be afraid of getting rejected because by being afraid to take action I'm just rejecting myself, and I guess this goes hand in hand with that. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Thanks, I will check them out. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:15 PM |
| 6 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?It's funny one of my friends who said this to me followed it up with "anythings possible, so prove me wrong." I personally think leagues are bullshit and just because I'm not Mr. popularity (Mind you I'm actually decent) doesn't mean I shouldn't go for a girl who is popular or considered hot by the majority of guys in the school. The only reason I start to consider leagues at all is because everyone else seems to think it's a big deal, both guys and girls. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Hahahaha | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Wouldn't you need to meet a certain standard to be considered in the first place? | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 04:04 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Yea exactly I think she's attractive but definitely no model but I also think I can be pretty decent on a good day so I really don't think it's a crazy mismatch. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 03:18 PM |
| 6 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?Thanks I get what you mean and I do all of those things (straight clean teeth, dress well and do my hair etc.) and I'm also starting to carry myself a lot better with a lot more confidence so hopefully that will mean something. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?I mean they usually do cheer me on and they eventually told me to go for it, I think they were more looking out for me than anything but I see what you mean. I think I will eventually go for it for sure though. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 03:15 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when someone is "out of your league"?So you mean it could be anything basically? | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Turning 40.....need to start over and need help!!I second what the thee guy said, I'd love to see more of this hypnosis shit. | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?Hahaha I'll try | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 04:37 AM |
| 1 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?That's a very interesting point that I don't think I've ever seen anyone bring up before to be honest. Maybe I need to start enjoying the uncertainty that comes with the whole world of girls a bit more rather than fearing it? | /r/seduction | 25/12/16 07:20 PM |
| 2 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?I understand what you're saying. For now I think my priority's gonna be working on kino so that I don't have to be so nervous about the kiss itself because it'll just feel that much more natural rather than 0-100 all of a sudden, and it should also improve my ability to read girls so I'll also have a better idea of whether or not they're going to be ready for it. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/12/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?I'll go with something along those lines it sounds like it'd be a really good tension breaker. And I do need to be a bit more physical rather than being scared of it. And thanks I'm just gonna go out and experience as much as I can tbh! | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?I've heard people say that this makes for an awkward moment though because it puts all the pressure on for the last minute and people end up messing up because of it. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?I think I need to focus on this because I relate with the hardships of escalating from 0-100 all to well. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?Well the second one wasn't really "I'm going to kiss you now." It was more along the lines of "What would you do if I tried to kiss you" and even then it still sounds a bit ridiculous but we were really close and given the context it seemed like the best course of action. But your reply was very insightful I really do need to read up on kino and start looking at the whole kiss thing a little differently. | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 08:58 PM |
| 2 | What's your guy's approach towards the whole kissing deal/when to kiss?So I should be physically escalating the whole time and use that as a sort of judge so that I'll basically be able to predict what kind of response I'm going to get? Also can you give an example of the statement of empathy? In your experience is the no response usually a small deal that can be brushed off? | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 06:36 AM |
| 1 | I'm throwing in the towel...I don't know how to stop caring what people think that's one of my problems. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 06:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm throwing in the towel...Point taken. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 04:24 PM |
| 3 | I'm throwing in the towel...Is that really what you're going to focus on? I was on my phone so it's pretty hard to focus on the format. Besides, I've just been called insecure and self destructive so forgive me if I'm not really too worried about how the neatness of my message. Edit: there, happy now? | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm throwing in the towel...Alright thanks I'll read it now and get back to you. | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here?Ok tyvm, sorry for not following the guidlines. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 08:18 PM |
| 1 | You are 100% Responsible for Every Aspect of Your LifeI completely agree with what throwawayPUA said. There are some things which can't be helped. However, I wouldn't say that one word sunk the entire post. People still understand what you are trying to say. | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 03:55 PM |
| 3 | You are 100% Responsible for Every Aspect of Your LifeYou are right about most of that, but I disagree with a few of them. Depression and ADHD are both pretty significant clinical 'conditions' if you will, and they can both be extremely overwhelming at times. Also, in regards to the job thing, it sounds like you are saying anyone can get a good job if they stop being lazy and feeling sorry for themselves, which is just not true at all. | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 03:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] An example of how I used Confidence Persistence with a HB9I don't know how I could do some sort of tester because she's gonna know my intentions from the start. I have prepared myself to the point where I think I'll be able to approach her on her own. Now I'll just try doing the same thing for the group scenario. I think if I pull it off well, it'll put me in a great position. A lot harder than it sounds tho :P | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 12:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] An example of how I used Confidence Persistence with a HB9I doubt asking indirect questions and such will work because she already knows I like her. I think i'm just gonna have to go with the group approach thing eventually, but just thinking about it scares the shit out of me lol. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 11:59 AM |
| 1 | [FR] An example of how I used Confidence Persistence with a HB9Damn man, great job. I've yet to approach my crush for the first time lol. you are lucky you managed to catch her on her own, mine is always with her friends :/ anway I rofl'd at "are you the girl that does arts?" XD | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends?well its more like 1.5 years, but thats besides the point. Last year I was sooo awkward not just with girls, but with guys too. Barely spoke to anyone etc. I've improved drastically this year tho and become fairly popular with the guys and not too too bad with the girls. ty for the advice btw | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends?That's gonna be hard for me, but I'll try! | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends?Man just thinking about this makes my heart race, especially since one of her friends is another HB10. I can see why it would help me though. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends?Yeah, I am still in highscool. FB isnt an option though since she doesn't have an account, and neither do I. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 12:02 AM |
| 2 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends?so nothing really changes when she knows? Also what about when she's in a group and such, would it just be better to catch her on her own? And is it normal for me to start greeting her out of the blue, and would I have to greet her friends aswell? so many questions :( | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Eye contact when walking past someoneLol it's as if I wrote those words myself. I feel exactly the same way | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 03:52 AM |
| 2 | "Go up to her and be confident"Excellent post, thanks for sharing. I'm gonna make a post soon explaining my current situation and helplessness when it comes to her ( or all girls for that matter :D). | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 02:28 PM |
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