Picardgrrl69 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
186	'Just say no': He already understood your refusal	LIES MEN TELL	Picardgrrl69	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 08:49 AM

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14	Dating in Scandinavia Yeah, keeping the standards high with minimal cultural adjustments is important, and most FDS principles work fine for me as they are. If you want to continue this discussion, feel free to message me!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 07:57 PM
22	Dating in Scandinavia I too find that interesting. However, in my culture first dates are almost never dinner dates unless you already know the guy well, and even then it doesn’t really happen. From my point of view dinner in a restaurant as a first date with someone you don’t know well sounds even a bit unreasonable, since I’ve never even heard of anyone that has done it in my country - and I’m an academic woman in my early thirties.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 07:43 PM
59	Dating in Scandinavia Scandinavian here. I’ve noticed that the FDS principles have developed around american dating culture, and some of them need adjusting to be applicable to other cultural enviroments. The walking dates, drinks or coffee dates are one example. I find them acceptable in my culture, as dinner dates are something that is usually done only in relationships, so that’s one of the things I’ve adjusted to scandinavian culture. But then again, even though it is rare for men to pay even for coffee dates, I …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 06:52 PM
38	The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy) I’m not sure pouty is the right word. I know I would become disgusted if my partner started fucking another man in the ass, and I sure as hell wouldn’t want his dick in my vagina anytime soon.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 09:28 AM
5	Forgive the shitpost, but this is a mood: When FDS describes what most men are really like Violet is who I want to be when I grow old.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/21 10:37 AM
199	I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡 Also going on about months of planning that went to a trip to the reptile museum. Like are the directions to that place hidden in some bizarre pirate map, or is the reptile museum located between the Mountains of Doom and the Swamp of Horror? No? How come it took months to plan then?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 01:35 PM
6	I hate Adam Sandler’s films. A male friend and I once went to see an Adam Sandler -film at a movie theatre. His choice. After 15 minutes or so I just couldn’t watch that garbage excuse of a human being for a second longer and walked out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 09:53 AM
10	'Just say no': He already understood your refusal I'm glad to hear this was useful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 05:51 AM
6	'Just say no': He already understood your refusal Yeah, this applies to all communication, but unfortunately sex and sexual assaults are the situations in which 'she didn't say no' is often used as victim-blaming. But also in other situations it is of course good to be aware that men who pretend they didn't understand are doing just that - pretending.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 05:50 AM
6	'Just say no': He already understood your refusal Happy to do it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 05:45 AM
37	Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!! ”She keeps insisting on me HELPING her cook and clean around OUR apartment.” Full mask off. I fucking hate it when men think like that, and unfortunately many of them do. By the way, I’m a full time PhD student employed by my home university, and it really is a demanding job, much more so than calculus in community college. Also I’m close with the research assistant of my group, and that is also a demanding job which requires following strict schedules. It sounds like she has no other funding fo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 04:23 PM
1	That fucking slug story broke me There’s just something very visceral about the slug story that kinda sticks with you, it’s like the ultimate body horror. I too have felt nauseous every time I think of it, and it’s kinda hard to forget. I kinda wish I never read about it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 07:38 AM
5	The Empathetic i Am oN yOuR sIdE Male ” Arguing for the sake of it and always playing the devil's advocate which upset my girlfriend quite a bit as I started to learn. Despite having so much love for her we were world's apart in some ways and our headstrong'ness meant we butt heads quite a bit.” He confesses to arguing for the sake of it but it’s still ”our headstrongness”, not ”his”. ”If I could summarise our differences I would say she was commited to the black and white of things where I was always concerned with the grey” Yeah, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 10:13 PM