Pickingmakesitworse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How often do women approach men? I’ve always gone after guys that I wanted, life is too short to play silly hard-to-get games. I’ve walked up to men I’ve found attractive and slipped a piece of paper with my phone number into their shirt pocket, they were pleasantly surprised.	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:06 AM
2	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good I meant OP’s imaginary script - women are begging for his dick in his dreams! Apologies if that wasn’t clear, I was agreeing with you, not contradicting. I’m not insecure in the slightest, I have all the intimacy and love that I need and get along very well with the type of men who are not angry about their lack of success.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 09:25 AM
3	for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than good Yeah right, I’m sure that happened, especially with the unnatural robotic dialogue.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 01:56 AM
0	What sexual but non-threating move can you make to know if she's interested or not? I truly am, my husband and I have a fabulous time at swingersheaven parties where respect and consent go hand in hand with more fun in one night than you’ve had in your whole life.	/r/seduction	08/11/21 11:29 AM
2	What sexual but non-threating move can you make to know if she's interested or not? Ask her what her body count is, then judge her when it is inevitably more than yours. Negging is sooo attractive and effective…	/r/seduction	06/11/21 09:15 PM
1	What sexual but non-threating move can you make to know if she's interested or not? Don’t even think about touching people’s butts without consent then, or you will face the consequences of being a creep. Use your words like an adult, tell her you are attracted and she will let you know if she is interested, your ideas about making sexual moves are outdated and embarrassing. Women are your equals, treat them as such.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 09:06 PM
13	What sexual but non-threating move can you make to know if she's interested or not? Just announce in a monotone ‘I’m an incel creep with no understanding of women and I want to perform a disappointing sex act on you without even bothering to date, blink once for yes, twice for no’.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 05:43 AM
2	[deleted by user] Great sound advice.	/r/seduction	06/11/21 01:28 AM
2	[deleted by user] 7 is very low, less than one per year and within a relationship too. Most women I know (and they are nice, well educated, respectable, and contribute a good deal to the community) become sexually active around 16 and have between 20-50 intimate partners in a decade. You would be far better off if you can do the therapy to drop this irrational judgment and shaming, a woman who loves sex is one worth marrying, my husband enjoys my loyalty and my extensive experience because he is not insecure or s…	/r/seduction	06/11/21 01:26 AM
1	[deleted by user] So how many people have you had sex with, and why do you believe that has anything to do with a successful relationship? You are going to miss out on this wonderful sounding woman, and possibly end up alone, due to your archaic and naive attitude. What is important is someone who brings you joy, who has intelligence and personality, who has a healthy interest in intimacy - do you honestly want someone who is so insecure/immature/hung up/dysfunctional that they are still a virgin or incredibly in…	/r/seduction	06/11/21 01:01 AM
1	How does Russell Brand flirt so successfully? It’s because he is a handsome, witty, famous and wealthy guy that is well spoken, confident, sexy and powerful. Anyone with all that can get away with flirting, especially when he is not invested in it and is merely having fun and playing up his reputation instead of giving a desperate and sex focused vibe.	/r/seduction	13/10/21 11:26 AM
0	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? Have you had any actual mutually loving relationships? The amount of casual or otherwise sex each person has had is at the bottom of the compatibility list! A meeting of the minds and an appreciation of the other’s personality are the chief factors in a successful romantic partnership. This intense and immature focus on body counts as a predictor of character is so counterproductive.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 12:57 AM
1	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? I’m genuinely trying to understand, what is the negative of casual sex if it has been done carefully and safely as I documented? As I said, whenever I was partnered I was completely faithful and monogamous so the theory that a high body count leads to cheating is incorrect.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 12:40 AM
0	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? Are you one of those that believes the the amount of penetration changes the physiology of the vagina? Or can you not emotionally handle that someone might be better at sex than you?	/r/seduction	26/06/21 12:06 AM
1	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? Why would it make any difference?	/r/seduction	25/06/21 11:37 PM
1	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? I love sex and love hook ups and casual encounters when I’m single, I am totally monogamous and loyal when I’m partnered. I’ve never had a STD or an abortion, never had a pregnancy outside of marriage, I’ve had sex with over 100 different people by age 35 and have had two very happy marriages (ten years into the second one now). My husbands loved that I have a high libido and can talk openly about everything sexual, we experienced so much growth in our intimate lives due to enthusiasm and commun…	/r/seduction	25/06/21 11:12 AM
19	As a man are low body counts attractive to you? This is the smartest thinking on this thread, a woman who loves sex is going to keep loving it, and be good at it, and be able to communicate about it. My insecure friends that couldn’t bear any comparisons and settled down with low libido virginal types are so unhappy a few years down the track.	/r/seduction	25/06/21 11:01 AM
3	[deleted by user] Approaching in person is very different from a note on a car though, you can see and hear what the suitor is like in person, if I found a note on my car it could be from a revolting looking methhead stalker!	/r/seduction	19/06/21 10:39 AM
3	[deleted by user] Not creepy because you had a really decent interaction and conversation beforehand, it’s creepy when it’s a cold approach from a stranger.	/r/seduction	19/06/21 04:54 AM
3	I paid for sex again, and it's making things worse Hell yeah! Relationship sex is the best, better than paid sex or pick up artist dross. You can build a level of trust where you can explore really interesting scenarios and kinks, and it becomes tailored to both people’s particular preferences. Anytime, anywhere, with endless variety and such an increase in quality.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 11:10 AM
3	I paid for sex again, and it's making things worse If you have a serious relationship you get to have sex all the time, which beats hook ups anyday!	/r/seduction	31/05/21 05:27 AM
0	Female Perspective: Empathy in Dating Your point about the ‘hey, hi, hello’ is so valid - if I’m lucky enough to be flooded with matches and messages, a generic low effort opening is going to sink to the bottom.	/r/seduction	04/05/21 10:04 AM
11	Does sex play a role in keeping girls around for a long time? Yes it does. If the sex is amazingly good the guy is instantly more attractive. I spent years with an awkward, arrogant weird looking guy because the sex was so incredible - in my experience 60% of guys are lousy at sex, 30% are okay and can be steered toward improving and only 10% are highly skilled and provide guaranteed multiple orgasms!	/r/seduction	04/05/21 09:57 AM
2	8 Non-Personal Reasons Why You Got Rejected This is great advice.	/r/seduction	04/05/21 09:45 AM