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The word "study" is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:35 PM
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I'd say the average man is POTENTIALLY attractive to the average woman. Most women don't see men as sexual beings unless he is extremely physically attractive and chad OR she is first romantically interested in him, in which case looks become something that can be compromised on as long as he isn't repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:29 AM
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I don't think about the attractiveness level of men unless: A) they are either really handsome or really ugly B) I get close enough to them that I consider them partner material, in which case they become the most attractive person in the world to me All other men are neither unattractive or attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:49 PM
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I'll give a quick glance, see the look of absolute disgust and contempt Maybe that's just what their face looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:47 PM
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People generally like when a certain thing benefits them, and dislike it when that same thing harms or inconveniences them. I don't know why you think you're dropping a nuclear hot take here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:16 AM
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Women are individuals, so the opinion of one woman might be contradictory to that of another. I'm not sure why you're acting like you uncovered some big secret. Why are you as a man so concerned with the opinions of terminally online women, considering you seem to regard their advice with contempt? You can't get arrested for hitting on someone in a grocery store as long as you take "no" for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:31 PM
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My problem isn't with women entering age gap relationships (which aren't all that common in the first place), it's with girls doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:23 PM
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That would just widen the gap even more. I wouldn't sign up for a dating site that was trying to get me to "settle."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:14 PM
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The person they pick might reject them and choose someone else. I could pick the most "high-value" man but he can say no and date a woman more to his tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:35 PM
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They have to pick what they get, unlike women who do can pick and choose better but don't. That makes zero sense. There's a roughly equivalent number of heterosexual men and women on earth so we all have the same choices available to us, depending on our "value." And men will have sex with women they wouldn't want to date or marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:02 PM
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What makes your definition more valid than mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:37 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:02 PM
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I behave in a very sexually forward manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:50 PM
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I would signal interest in a male acquaintance or friend by flirting very blatantly. If he did not ask me out, I would assume a lack of interest. And if not, he's either unbelievably oblivious or shy to the point of dysfunction, which are bad traits in a partner and render the whole thing moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:50 AM
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Some men seem to be heterosexual but homosocial. They simply don't have a lot in common with women or outright find them annoying as people. They select girlfriends based on how much social capital dating her gives him, but secretly fuck women who don't fit that high standard. I've spoken to self-avowed misogynists online who didn't see the point in having anything in common wife one's wife, and expressed confusion at the idea of being friends with a woman. Women are for sons, sex, and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:17 PM
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Is it really that shocking? Men date the women that are available to them. If most women have had a "ho phase," most straight men are going to end up with a former "ho."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:28 AM
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That was quite possibly written by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:39 PM
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It's pretty ridiculous how MRAs bring up society's reluctance to endanger women in wartime as some sort of "gotcha," as if presidents and generals are basing their policy decisions on feminist principles. Women as a whole are not suited to combat. The state doesn't want us in combat. The military doesn't want us in combat. I might as well say, "Men, if you like 'equality' so much, you would donate more of your breast milk." Illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:47 PM
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Cute of you to put those words in scare quotes like the idea is preposterous. I'm basing this on lived experiences. I like engaging with men on a platonic level, but you're nice to the wrong one and he's gunning for you. I have no interest risking my safety or even my peace of mind for the sake of this public service you're proposing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:36 AM
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The comic with men being approached by other men is the original. The one with female aggressors is the replacement. Like the artist edited it as a "gotcha" to say, "Yeah we wouldn't like other men saying this to us if we're not gay, but petite attractive young women and feeble old ladies are fine!" Which seems pretty reductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:17 AM
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This isn't some chick and the egg problem. If women literally just started complementing men on the daily, they would stop conflating complements from women as romantic interest. You'd have to be downright Christ-like to risk that sort of harassment and reputational damage for the sake of making it easier for other women to randomly compliment men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:13 AM
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Some women might be interested in dating or at least having sex with you as a novelty, but they still have to be attracted to you. If there's anything off-putting about you, like if you have a weird voice or you're just creepy it doesn't matter how tall you are or how big your dick or chiselled your jawline, because that will negate any attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:12 AM
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You can't logic people into overriding our powerful instinct. Your argument is essentially, "I'm more like to be assaulted, but if he picks you, it's probably gonna be rape." The fact that we live in such a violent world and men are even more likely to be attacked is not a source of comfort. The fact that you're telling women, "Please remember to take male feelings into account when you're preserving your safety!" is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:19 PM
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You're a man and don't date men, so why do you think you're qualified to speak on which men women should want to date? Going along with the metaphor, you're someone who has never eaten ice cream and never intends to try ice cream giving advice to people who regularly eat and enjoy ice cream, and telling them they're too picky when they don't want to get the sardine or onion flavor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:39 PM
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Being used in the court would be the eventual logical conclusion. Because if he does hurt you, you can't even do anything about it. It's a lot more dangerous without at least the possibility of legal intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:26 PM
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It's pretty common for women to have personal security hammered into their heads from a young age. Women my age and younger tend to be very aware of how the police and courts could work against us when it comes to DV/SA. It's not this very specific scenario you've latched onto where a woman is imagining a potential court confrontation every time she goes on a date. It's more like, "If I'm too honest about what I want, this guy might do something I don't want and actually hurt me, and then..." fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:50 PM
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Why do you think you have more insight into the average woman's mindset than I do? At least I'm basing my posts on lived experiences. You're just making assumptions about what women must really want or think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:11 PM
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The "rough sex" defense has been used by murder defendants, and rape defendants arguing that they believed their victim consented has been the case forever. Disclosing a preference for these kinks exposes a weakness because if a predator knows it's a long shot in court, he's not risking as much by attacking you - he knows you know the same thing and is hoping you won't bother as a result. It's a calculated risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:59 PM
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I bought it up because its existence would make even trying to prosecute fruitless, but he'd still have a good chance of avoiding a conviction if all he had was his word. The burden of proof is not on the defendant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:04 PM
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It's not weird or complicated. You just can't put yourself in the position of a woman worried about intimate partner violence. Do you think a lot of guys are going to go around recording conversations during dates to get a woman's word that she likes rough sex. Or any court will take up man's word for it that the girl he spanked so hard she has bruises on her backside actually wanted it? That's not how the legal system works, at least not in America. He doesn't need to prove that his explanation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:31 PM
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Women with these fantasies are smart not to disclose them for safety reasons. If a man can testify in front of a jury that you told him you like rough sex, he has a literal get-out-of-jail-free card for assaulting you. Of course women aren't spilling all their 50 Shades of Grey desires on the first date, they don't know if they can trust you yet. I think most women would rather work off a low baseline of sexual expectations to begin with as well to ensure they're comfortable. A man probably won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:40 PM
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When I say unemployed it's in the sense that somebody needs a job and isn't doing any other productive work. A full time student, homemaker, or carer isn't really unemployed IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:18 AM
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Men aren't being shoehorned into a conversation on a subreddit where the subject is gender politics. Mentioning that my criteria for a low-value person is about the same for both sexes is absolutely relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:45 PM
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Virtually everyone engages in this behavior. When someone cuts me off in traffic, it's because they're a careless person and a shitty driver. When I cut someone else off, it's because I was having a bad day and got distracted. I'd also say most people are inclined to see some aspect of larger society as oppressive to them and whatever their in-groups are. But who is society, exactly? You could say society is the women who run their university's feminist alliance, or you could say it's a male-dom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:24 PM
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Basically the same traits as a low-value male. Impulsive and selfish. No education or intellectual curiosity. Unemployment/underemployment. Promiscuity. Substance dependence. Poor hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:50 PM
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There's no surefire for an escort to reliably know if customer has an STI just by looking. They might not even know they have one. So the best thing to do is not have unprotected sex, which makes whether they have an STI or not almost irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:19 PM
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I wouldn't have a problem with it as long as it wasn't an addiction, but that also goes for stuff like gambling and internet use.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:13 PM
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We don't actually want to be friends with men. It's just something we say to men we don't want to be polite Some women do like socializing with men they meet naturally. What you have to watch out for is random men cold approaching to be "friends" because it's obvious their idea of friendship would be tinged with gradually escalating romantic/sexual advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:12 AM
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That post was fake. OP was lying about being 13. https://imgur.com/gallery/OxrCjkk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:13 PM
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I also think that helps the girls develop self-steem. You should try actually talk to teenage girls... actually, don't. Take my word for it when I say teenage girls don't develop higher self-esteem from being propositioned by older men, at least not the emotionally healthy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:39 PM
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I would be very wary about marrying a man so concerned about youthful beauty, considering I won't fit that standard for the majority of our marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:23 PM
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Also that's why the sb business is booming, women are making out like bandits with out even having to show a toe. Sex work isn't as outrageously lucrative as some people would have you believe, and sugaring is notorious in the SW community for being a terrible return on investment in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:18 PM
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If men had the choice... They don't, which is why I'm not worried about "The Wall." 20 year-old women date guys their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:16 PM
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Do you consider yourself a nice guy, by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:21 PM
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It doesn't matter how hard it is if women aren't impressed by the high n-count itself. Most are put off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:19 PM
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Straight woman: a man who slept with 100 women? What a stud! Count me in as another "fuck no" vote to this. I don't know any woman who would be impressed by this, let alone want to sleep with the man. A woman who was very promiscuous herself might be into it, I guess. But it's the opposite of universal. Everyone has internalized misandry except gay men. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:24 AM
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How difficult it is, isn't relevant to whether women are impressed or not put off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:22 AM
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I just don't understand what sexual liberation or the freedom to pursue a career has to do with whether women are inclined to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:30 PM
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If she's a 9/10 she doesn't need to approach a 9/10 guy or any guy really, because they'll come to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:45 PM
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Good relationship > no relationship > bad relationship Some people have had poor luck with romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:16 AM
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If she's looking for a 9/10 like you mentioned, why would she bother approaching an average man? Especially because she's already getting plenty of offers from that average man. There's just no reason to do it unless she feels a particular inclination, and a lot of women just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:47 AM
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The average woman will be approached by men that range the gamut from literal toothless bums to good-looking, successful men. If she wants a 9/10 she just has to wait. I don't see how women asking out men would save anyone time, because men would still continue to ask out women who aren't interested or are already in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:34 PM
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You keep saying stuff like, "Okay women, you can have rights, I guess... but you have to pick up the slack and approach men now!" No, we don't have to do that. With a few exceptions we have no incentive to do that, other than the idea of "fairness" you've been appealing to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:01 PM
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Men are more inclined to say yes to a woman who approaches them despite a lack of interest on their part, whereas women won't just date or fuck some random schmoe just because he offered, because we get so many offers in the first place and it's riskier for us. If we like a man enough to engage him romantically in the first place, it means we do value the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:06 PM
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A while back, I ran into some Mormon missionaries who offered me a copy of their holy book. I didn't have to pay for it, so I won't care if I lose it or it gets damaged. I was never really interested in it in the first place; I just took it because it was offered to me, and it was free. This is the attitude a man might have towards a woman who approaches him romantically. A lot of men won't turn down the possibility of sex with a woman they don't care much for, as long as they don't find her rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:26 AM
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It's a mixture of both. I was in romantic relationships with two of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:37 PM
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I've spoken to real incels and I try to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:21 PM
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I'm talking about the incel mindset moreso than fitting the literal definition of involuntarily celibate. Some incels might be happy with abusing prostitutes, others want a virginal wife who capitulates to them instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:54 PM
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$100 American? A woman charging that much for a night is a trafficking victim or an addict. If you go to a legal brothel in a place like Nevada it's gonna be several hundreds for a handjob in one of the cheaper places.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:50 PM
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I don't think a lot of men COULD pay for regular visits to prostitutes. Economic insecurity seems to play a large role in men who cannot find partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:47 PM
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I said I'm in favor of making it legal, didn't I? But it's like putting a band-aid on a broken bone. Like, homeless shelters and soup kitchens seek to serve the needs of people in bad situations. But you can still get kicked out of those places if you harass the staff. Some people are homeless not because they hit a rough patch, it's because they're incapable of observing the social contract and helping them comes at the detriment of others. Many men with incel mindsets would be refused service …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:40 PM
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I'm not sure it makes sense to blame modern women for millions of years of past sexual selection, unless you think the consciousness is passed down through the maternal line I guess. Plus our ancestors wouldn't always have had that much agency in who they procreated with. Not saying it was always rape, but if cavemen were killing each other over mates of course the winners would have the most reproductive success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:19 PM
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I'm not against legalizing prostitution, but it's not a solution to the incel menace. Prostitutes shouldn't be relegated to the role of meat shields protecting "good" women from male violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:09 PM
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Sort of, but IRL it's men twice my age and skagged out toothless bums. Online I get attention from normal men my own age, but that's because I'm a very, very, very minor e-girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:35 PM
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More than one men has outright told me they find 14-18 year olds very attractive and claimed that all men feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:30 PM
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An individual woman is going to have insight into how she'd like to be treated, but her advice to you will be at least somewhat self-serving and self-aggrandizing, even if she's trying to be honest. And she can only speak for herself, not other women. But what do you consider success in terms of "dating women"? A man who's had a long string of casual relationships is only going to know how to do that. A man who married his high school sweetheart is only going to know how to do that, and he's wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:53 AM
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I don't think that's it. There aren't enough wealthy men to afford sugar babies that would explain the large discrepancy in female obesity rates. Higher income is just associated with better health in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:10 AM
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It indicates he wants to be perceived as taller, and there are some good reasons for feeling that way. Maybe he gets made fun of for being short. He might want to be taken more seriously in a professional context. He thinks it will make him more attractive to women. Or he just likes feeling tall. What's unfortunate is when they do it out of deep insecurity. I don't think of this as a sin, but that can be comorbid with certain toxic behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:28 AM
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As an Average Anna myself, Adam sounds great. Companionship? Women have friends and family, much stronger social circles and networks than men. My boyfriend or husband is ideally my best friend, and I'm happier and more comfortable with him than anyone else. On top of that, I think most people desire romance and a heterosexual woman can't get that from family members or friends. Sex? On tap every night of the weak with at least a guy a bit hotter than Adam. I had to laugh here. You think this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:39 PM
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I notice this when I'm in an area lower on the socioeconomic scale. If it's a middle class or upper middle class area the women are more slender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:53 AM
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Yeah, I'd agree with that. I'd rather be approached by someone if I knew we had some sort of connection as opposed to knowing they just like my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:00 PM
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I'd say a woman's sexual past is the equivalent of a man's sexual past. If I met a guy who had dozens of sexual partners it indicates he either had a lot string of failed relationships, or was undiscerning about casual sex. I certainly wouldn't call him a slut or used up, but that sort of thing is so far off from my own personality and lifestyle, I wouldn't think we'd be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:50 PM
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Men I find desirable do approach me. Of course for every one of those guys, there's gonna be a couple of literal toothless bums holding empty vodka bottles, which I feel like I'm entitled to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:29 PM
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If you kinda know the woman from talking to her or being in the same space as her it's more of a warm approach, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 04:54 PM
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We shouldn't discourage men from approaching women in public settings. I've seen other women saying men shouldn't approach them at the gym, the grocery store, or even at a bar. I think it's perfectly reasonable to ask a woman out if you're taking a college course together and you approach her after class, but there are women who say you can't even ASK because "I'm here to learn, not get hit on by men!" The stigma on approaching women has contributed to online dating becoming the prime method of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:13 AM
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The problem with the girls is that they are used to guys being extremely into them even as friends. Paying thier bills and taking and leaving them home. I do think there's validity to this. As a young woman attending community college, older male peers would do favors and buy things for me. I knew their game because it was pretty blatant but I can see some women getting used to this and thinking it's a normal male/female platonic friendship dynamic if she doesn't think too deeply about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:54 AM
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We'll protect each other. If I'm going to risk my life for a female (that isn't related to me) then I better be getting some pussy. If you protected a smaller and weaker male friend from an assailant, would you expect them to offer sex as a thank you? The rest of this post is anecdotal, but I can tell you from experience that most adult women are aware of when a male friend doing them favors and buying shit for them unreciprocated, it means there's romantic/sexual interest on the man's part. A m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:39 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 07:23 PM
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Sure, but what does that have to do with approaching? If I don't like a guy who approaches me I can reject him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:47 PM
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Why do women NEED to be more direct? Because it would be more convenient for men? It's not like there are hordes of women sitting at home alone because the men they're interested in aren't responding to their hints and they're just too stubborn to change their strategy. There's always gonna be men willing to cross the picket line and do the approaching. For women, waiting to be approached isn't just about being too shy or afraid of rejection. Let's say you see someone on the street giving out fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:26 AM
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Sure, but those super models would (generally) prefer men their own age and are probably dating/sexing them on the side. Older men can be attractive, but the ones who aren't don't become attractive because of their money/status/etc. It's just that opportunistic young women are willing to overlook their lack of physical attraction for personal again. Also, I'm talking about the average person here. Millionaires and super models aren't average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:20 PM
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A lot of people have what seems to be a natural desire not to conform to what you'd consider their natural gender role. Women in particular are vocal about it. There are definitely things that one sex is better than the other at doing on average. The question is, what should be done about it? Some people propose that men and women be "encouraged" (effectively coerced into) conforming to whatever it has decided the gender roles are, in the interest of preserving humanity/civilization. But to what…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:03 AM
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I agree with most of these but as to point 4, a lot of the women might be saying this in a reactionary way - pointing out how ridiculous it is to talk about a female-exclusive "Wall" when men of that age also tend to deteriorate in terms of pure aesthetics. A lot of men talk about the Wall in terms of a revenge fantasy, like they're going to be that 1 in a million Leo DiCaprio pulling 20 year-olds while women their own age are alone with their cats. Of course said women are gonna wanna burst the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:28 AM
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I keep hearing people insist that "leftists think nonces should be in the LGBT!" but never seen an actual leftist advocate for this. Pretty much every leftist I know thinks what they should be in is jail... at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:16 AM
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You observed that female models have mostly male clients and said that as a male you would therefore like female clients. It's not like female models are attracted to their male clients even if they are heterosexual/bisexual, and it's not necessary for that to be part of the dynamic either, because ultimately it's a job or at least a way to make money, not a love connection. So it's odd that you believe your inability to attract female clients would preclude you from participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:54 PM
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The top earners aren't average women posting nudes they took in their bathroom. Some of them were already in the entertainment industry and built up followings, others are genetically gifted women who work out, eat right, engage in fastidious grooming, and probably have surgery - and they still had to build up followings. It would be impossible for the average girl, even the average hot girl to make six-figure salaries doing this - who would be paying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:16 PM
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Why does your sexuality matter? When I was a stripper/escort many of my colleagues were lesbians. They actually seemed overrepresented compared to the general population. You seem to have unrealistic ideas about what the sex trade entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:03 PM
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