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I'm 25 and it was hard growing up as a boy back then, imagine it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:44 AM
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So that means I'm trying to rape male friends as well since I paid them for drinks all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:59 AM
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Just ask again lol
/r/askTRP07/07/19 06:45 PM
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They were opportunistic that's what all of them have in common. They knew how to put themselves in the right place and the right time everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:35 PM
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I never saw a happy couple when the man loves more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:34 PM
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I used to be vague as fuck when I was younger, then I gained some balls and started being upfront, they still wanted to fuck. though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:33 PM
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lol so a girl punches me with full force but im supposed to like it? Have you ever been punched? If any girl hit me I wouldn't want to fuck them either. What is even your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 07:20 AM
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I mean, I'm glad shes explainingit, when I was younger I used to take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:23 PM
1

US is so expensive, more than 50 euros/pounds here would be a robbery.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:16 PM
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Morleys fam
/r/askTRP02/07/19 06:43 PM
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Is it her responsibility too to not make him feel like a monster? Or is just women feelings that we're supposed to protect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:03 AM
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featherweight fighting heavyweight is fair and reasonable. These are fighters, big men are for the most part just normal civilians so that comparison doesn't make much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 10:05 AM
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You are obviously very unable to put yourself in women's shoes and show a sliver of empathy. It has nothing to do with empathy, it just gets tiring over time to always be perceived as a threat. I no longer go out of my way to make women feel safer, as it is never appreciated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 10:01 AM
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I just have that reaction when she's portraying something different than she is. I just get disgusted when I hear pure Jane got threesomed and cummed in the face, when she's always slut shaming other women. we
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:42 AM
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Maybe that just hit home, that definitely happened to me and she wanted me to see how "special" I was since we were building something worth more than sex, while Dude B meant nothing and I should understand that. I had the biggest onetis but I lost it at the same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:49 PM
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I mean if we're seeing eachother and beginning something and you're fucking some next man is normal for me to lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 03:18 AM
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Honestly I don't think they do.. I can't cry if my life depends on it even if I'm alone with 0 judgment. So it's really annoying when people are always repeating the same thing, even if it's a legit concern. I think men's mental health issues have more to do with lack of masculinity than lack of femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:08 AM
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First time I went clubbing, I also asked a girl to dance, but that's a huge no-no.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 02:17 PM
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Best troll on asktrp loool
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:16 AM
2

Wow, that sounds great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 09:35 PM
1

Lol it just sounded that they were not interested in you to begin with. You're just rationalising if BPD people are 2.7% according to you, how much do you think TRP men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 12:09 AM
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I was thinking about this the other day, I was definitely not respected in my first serious relationship after awhile and I'd rather be respected than Loved by far. It's like their brain chemistry forces them to like you, but they logically hate everything about you, fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:59 AM
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This is so true, I don't even know how to go on the first date without trying to be sexual, and when that happens I don't even bother texting for a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 12:52 AM
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See how fast she turns when you say you need time to know how you feel, if she goes psycho it's a huge no. If she's positive and receptive maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:46 PM
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You think attention is validation to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:41 PM
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Thank you Wokein, now I'm woke! Every time I feel down now, I'll talk with women and make my ego high again (mmeha).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:38 PM
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That nice double talk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:31 PM
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Or MDMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:00 AM
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Do you drink? Drink!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:56 AM
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I value my friendships too much. There's no amount of hotness that would make me betray a friend, she could even be Beyonce my answer would still be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:53 AM
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If I don't know the guy I have no problem, if it's my friend then it's a solid no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 12:55 AM
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I thought the same think but srs really grew on me. First time I listened to nowhere2go I thought earl lost it, now I think it's one his best songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:11 PM
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"Some Rap Songs" from Earl, the most depressing and the most weird hip hop album I heard. Still love it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 11:52 PM
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I don't cry alone either, and there's no social pressure on me not cry alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 06:27 PM
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So if a guy is angry you would rather seeing him cry than punching a pillow? You'd be just creating a bigger problem
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:27 PM
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So you think the reason men cry less is cultural? I just had a female friend now texting me she has been crying in class all day because of a dream she had. The concept is so alien to me I can't even process it properly, I don't think any amount of socialization would make me cry for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:24 PM
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How did feminism improve your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:03 AM
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I don't think I would care if she was honest or If I knew it from the beginning, the ones that act like they are so above it and then I find out they were hoeing their whole lives those are the ones who deeply disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:51 PM
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How could you get that from the comment? He's just saying that red pullers are looking to take control of their livess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:22 PM
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But if you are asking them for tips, they won't date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 01:29 PM
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Then you should be pretty calibrated to what to on a date if you're not that alienated from touching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 11:57 AM
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The thing is even relationships between male and female friends are different I usually hug my friends all the time etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 01:17 PM
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When men treat women like their male friends, the one thing I see about my friends who don't get girls, they barely touch them or hug them etc.. it's this weird relationship with no touching.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 04:54 AM
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Which is exactly my point, it has value. I was saying you can't sell something consistently without value. What might be confusing you is the fact that it doesn’t cost you anything to sign up to post on Reddit RP. Nothing is confusing me, I'm just saying that if people are reading it consistently then it's valuable to them. Introduce you to a service on a free platform and give you just enough to peak your interest and create value in your mind so you are willing to pay for the next step. Which …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 09:47 AM
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Those are valuable to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:16 PM
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Even if it's just controversial to make peoppe angry and click links that's valuable to them or they wouldn't waste their time on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:08 PM
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Lol what do you smoke round there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:24 PM
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You can consistently sell something with 0 value? Teach me how. Plus how is it business focused? 3 guys supposedly make money from it according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:38 PM
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That's ridiculous, I knew some guys who used to get the most girls turns out they would go to hookers all the time too while they had girlfriends as well. While guys who don't get any, tried to shame men who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:36 PM
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Kind of a dumb point, even if it makes money it has to have value. If it had 0 value it wouldn't be making money in anyway shape of form. Your point about TRP being a business makes no sense either, so 3 people out of 500,000 are "making money" and that's the whole point? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 02:26 PM
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Nothing to do with jealousy, I was interested in a girl my friend told me he has been with her and told me in detail what and how it happened, I lost interest. I was not jealous, she just lost her shine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 01:12 AM
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Wtf does it have to do with jealously?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 12:34 PM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 04:44 AM
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You know Atlas is a woman right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 01:31 AM
1

lol? I don't know if you know what drug abuse means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 12:12 AM
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The woman, a man whith drug abuse/mental ilness is gonna get his children removed from him. That's what you completely missed, if it is a woman people will invent excuses of how unfortunate situations may lead to that situation. If it's a man he's a dead beat and don't deserve his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 06:20 AM
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MKBHD? The video was great, it tells how much brands influences our minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:11 AM
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I get the point you were trying to get across, but your reasoning is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 11:45 PM
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I don't want compliments from my female friends, I want it from the girl I'm with at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:33 AM
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I know exactly what you mean, the only girl who complimented me constantly could get me pussy whipped for life, it was not even an ego thing, I just felt so appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 06:38 AM
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It's her job/life she can't just decide to be the best therapist overnight over a Reddit comment you are all taking this too serious is not like all of us are trying to improve every aspect of our career 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 06:32 AM
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Not in my case but I can't deny it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 12:17 AM
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I mean I'm not looking to be a dad any time soon, but I would definitely limit the time my son could play video games. My point is I doubt any man is happy being addicted to video games or masutrbation. Unless he was competing on eSports and making millions I would never let him turn out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:05 PM
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So if you have a son you just accept that kind of behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 08:45 PM
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This is accurate and happened to me recently and I never felt more gay in my life.. The last time I felt like this I was freshmen in highshcool, I'm 24 now..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 07:08 PM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 05:24 AM
1

I don't get it, are you happy? If you are keep doing you.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:53 AM
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Sublime will show up here any second saying she doesn't see any shaming at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:02 AM
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Lol pleasure is not linked to texture
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 08:55 PM
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Honestly I used to care now that I'm selfish, they can't get enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 08:51 PM
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Women don't really want to have conversations on dating apps, they want to be entertained. Having normal/boring conversations with their 30 multiple conversations would bore them to death unless you were a 10/10 when even your "Hey" would make you sound interesting. Nowadays I just have fun with my convos even if it doesn't take me anywhere but when it hits they usually go crazy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 02:51 PM
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Maybe other guys are different, but too wet is definitely a thing. Why do people use lube then? It has to be atleast slidable I would rather not enjoy sex and have a tight pussy to be honest. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 12:46 AM
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We do I find it hot because she's wet but at the same time and all the noise it makes, but if my brain didn't work like that physically it wouldn't feel great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 02:36 PM
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What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 11:21 AM
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I love how women just project whatever they want into male minds so they can make their own sense of the world.. That's so ridiculous but for some reason it keeps getting repeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 05:05 PM
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wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 05:02 PM
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How old are you? What you're saying makes no sense at all. Who goes clubing and talks about a future relationship?? Things just happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 03:26 PM
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or to punish bad behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 01:14 AM
2

Lol there's so much wrong with what you said. I'm talking about TRP philosophy specifically, which involves implementing dread This a completely different topic, dread is encouraged in relationships, has nothing to do with plates. rewarding 'good behavior' with the illusion of commitment or otherwise 'choosing' a plate to move on to an LTR based on who serves you better. You just made this up, trp don't say you have to give the illusion of commitment to anyone. I'm speaking of this here in neutr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 10:18 AM
1

Am I the only one here who legit likes to pay to people? For me it feels good, I just don't do it so I don't get played but if its close friends I pay a lot of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 01:38 AM
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Do you have a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:39 AM
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I can cum from being grinded on, I'm sure at least on mdma. So yes it's sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:22 AM
5

Hmm.. that sounds really white
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 04:21 AM
1

West to Spain, is Portugal out?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 04:11 AM
1

wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:39 PM
1

You sound more normal that I once thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:53 AM
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but if she genuinely wants me to be a better person I don't think anyone would find this bad. For example women try to change me all the time, they think because I'm quiet, I don't have strong opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:16 AM
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A girl who wants me to drop eveything I'm doing so I can text her 24/7 is not about her wanting me to become a better man, she wants me to become a better man so it benefits her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:39 AM
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I think you missing the point, the objective is not for you to get better is for you to be better for her. This is a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:20 AM
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If woman A told me that to my face, It would kill any attraction lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:06 AM
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I was just debating your first paragraph why the emotional childish woman and the manipulative women are in fact the same one. I was not comparing it with men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:05 AM
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not in my experience, actually I rarely ever heard about men talking about lack of girls irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:57 AM
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The bizarre duality that TRP often reveals, in my experience, is the simultaneous attribution of both no agency (women are children) and infinite agency (women are conniving puppetmasters controlling the sexual marketplace) - with the assumption that women, generally, have absolutely nothing else going on in their lives but, depending on the point being made, childish/inane pursuits or strategically and deliberately working to amass male attention. Most of the time the women who are like that, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:35 AM
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This is assuming that "dudes" complain only about lack of women. Which I don't find true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 12:25 AM
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I was with you, until you said the worst empathy offenders are RP. It's like "We are supposed to do a little better but RPs are of course a little worse than we are, but we can still work this out". If you really wanted to get your point across, a more neutral position would be way more helpful and you wouldn't get the negative responses that you got. All of this when most blues are disgusted by rp new comers trying to improve themselves and they are labeled as misogynistic, self entitled, low e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 11:47 PM
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For dudes or for incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 10:58 PM
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I disagree, maybe we're just in different countries, but where I'm from is not like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 10:56 PM
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Never heard that "compliment" aimed at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:59 PM
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Haha exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:58 PM
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Haha same I would cringe too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:48 AM
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IF you're a woman, do you find being called a man a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:47 AM
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My mother is amazing, I grew up without a father though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 12:43 AM
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wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 09:54 AM
1

Lol this is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 09:52 AM
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How is it toxic? Because is male centered?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:41 AM
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lol her all comment was basically if you were mentally stable and not neurotic you would figure it out, she didn't suggest a better option than lifting weights, in fact she didn't suggest nothing at all. I can't see how her comment was benign at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 10:29 AM
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I know we had this argument anytime, so I can understand you, what does "shaming" means to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:25 AM
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It's how he sees it, how do you suggest he replies? It's almost pointless to debate something that has different meanings to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:41 AM
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I don't really care, I just dont want to date one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 09:48 PM
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I'm watching ozark show and his wife is so manipulative and cold that I hate her with everything I have, if it was a guy I would praise how good of a strategist he is. Double standard exist unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:06 AM
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The only thing I think I gained was knowing that I can rely on myself even against biological urges but apart from that, I don't know lol. To this day I feel guilty about 85% of the times I masturbate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:45 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:22 PM
3

How can paternity fraud happen accidentally?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:59 PM
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good strong summer in terms of?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:57 PM
2

My longest run on nofap lasted 2 weeks, I don't know how you guys can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 08:30 PM
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Accidentaly could you expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:30 PM
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What happens when you change your title many times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:33 AM
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zzz
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 12:33 AM
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Honestly I really like when people are like that and honest about it even women. But when mainly women manipulate lie and act like they don't know what's going on just annoys me to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:27 PM
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Sometimes I wish I could, It's not that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:20 AM
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Lol because it's all men complaining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 01:05 AM
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I have had problems we things like that again. I remember i know a guy who died because he stopped 3 guys beating one guy he died stabbed 3 days later. The way I handled situations like that was by telling the agressor that it's really "bait" and he should go. I play like I'm on their side just to get them to stop.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 11:46 PM
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I could be married but if I found out my wife had a three some my attention would die immediatelly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 03:44 PM
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It's the same when it's the opposite.. I have a female friend that I tried to wing for but I was so lost as my advice didn't work at all and she's attractive, I just realized I had no idea what I was doing. However the opposite is the same, I hear so many bad advice from women, we all understand what we like consciously, but is subconsciously when all fall short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 08:58 PM
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You're missing the point they do get it, they just can't feel empathy. That won't change any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 04:08 PM
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Wtf.. cringe..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 04:20 PM
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Lol who has to know? Why would you tell any potential partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 09:10 AM
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Now you're sounding dumb on purpose. Yeah you're right, that 9 months dictator!! Stop talking about thing you don't know about. This i just petty at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 01:18 AM
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Data goes until 2017, they changed presidents late last year. Why are you sending me this link? Look my question was just curiosity since you mentioned a country I know. I've been there before. It was just funny that your point doesn't apply anymore, but you keep trying to defend something that doesn't makse sense. I just said is not a dictatorship, I never even talked about democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 12:22 AM
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I didn't talk about elections, I talked about a new president. If a new president is not sign of end of dictatorship I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:44 PM
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Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:19 PM
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Russia didn't change presidents a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:01 PM
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Lol you're a bit too late, they changed presidents a year ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 04:38 AM
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What's the political situation in Angola?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:22 AM
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I have no clue of what I read.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:24 AM
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If I don't know him, I feel 0 empathy to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:22 AM
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I see myself as a manly man, but I would resent any girl I'm in a relationship with that doesnt make a an effort to understand me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:20 AM
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Or because that fantasy was beaten out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 11:24 PM
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I don't get what you are trying t
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 03:21 AM
1

This is what happens when men open up and become sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 03:06 AM
1

Double-talk and my attraction goes to anger pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:21 AM
1

What if you're low eq?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:08 AM
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I'll assume you're new to the sub. Men are the biggest victims of crimes at night. How are they safer than woman? So do you agree with teaching black people not to steal since statiscally they steal more?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:40 AM
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Furthermore if you approach women with the sole intention to have sex (I mean, these men are willing to enter relationships and things like that but their main aim is sex, as reading through TRP clearly shows), you are less likely to be successful. Seeing women as just other people, will allow you to socialize better and be normal around us. Everytime I tried to go for a relationship instead of sex I got rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:33 AM
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I mixed up to different comments. My point wasn't that I never had good conversations, I was exclusively talking about relationship with women. I never had a serious argument/discussion with an ex when both parties came out enlightened and understanding each other. The only times that seemed to happened, it was just a fake understanding and it was building resentment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:40 AM
1

Whether that is true or not it really doesn't matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:10 AM
1

Vai tomar tu!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:03 AM
1

maybe I was unlucky all my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:54 AM
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I never dated a man, so I wouldn't know, but once again I never had a problem with a close male friend that we couldn't solve talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:54 AM
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I don't really get how your reply is related to what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:53 AM
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Now I want to know where this happens in the real world? This good communication you talk about, every relationship I had, conversation was always a waste of time, girl usually just hear what they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 01:19 PM
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3 times now, last time I hit back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 05:50 PM
1

The problem is the price, if it was priced like Thailand in the western world the sm would change drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 03:36 AM
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I don't agree with the op but anytime I find a girl who can fuck I get pussy whipped!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 10:57 PM
1

I get rejected all the time and I never lashed out and I don't no one anyone who did, the funny part is that most women that like me think I'm chad and that I can get any woman I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 03:27 AM
0

Go to Africa, legit only place where I felt objectified as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 05:38 PM
3

How often women use shaming tactics as a legit argument. When I came here for the first time I really thought I could have a good insight on the way women think. But that's just 35% of the women here, in my experience the rest hold the same or more resentment and anger than the trp's they criticise about it, but always use a higher morality ground to justify all their ridiculous positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 05:36 PM
1

You're naive then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:29 PM
1

hahaha ok, that sounds ridiculous, but maybe he's on a different age group then I am. Nah I just have fun and from time to time I ask for their opinion or their approval, just some small cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 03:32 PM
1

I didn't read all of that but my way of being a wingman is by acting like I value my friends opinion more than anything and it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 02:59 PM
1

I'm not even surprised to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 10:14 AM
2

Tell me how that would be like. Divide available work to race? How many races would be eligible? What about mixed race people would they have a bigger percentage of jobs or would they be a race of their own? What about merit? I'm not saying racism don't exist, but that doesn't mean we have to try to fix it with terrible ideas.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:03 PM
5

That's a terrible idea.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:53 PM
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Ok what do you suggest? White people should stop taking those jobs? That's not gonna happen anytime soon. I don't believe in white privilege to begin with.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:21 AM
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Why does it matter? If I was white and I got a good job, I would just take it, I wouldn't think about the black people who didn't take it. If you live your life with a victim mentality you will always be a victim.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 11:38 PM
2

It has nothing to do with morality for me, and I'm so used to seeing cheating around me that I almost expect it from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 05:11 AM
1

Second would be a deal breaker, I just have no respect to women who had a threesome with 2 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:01 PM
1

I cringe if it's too quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:03 PM
1

They are good looking but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:37 AM
1

What can I tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 11:37 AM
1

I have friends that go out and get laid every night they are attractive but they are not all that. I'm far from Chad (almost the opposite) and I can get laid 50% of the times I go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 02:36 PM
1

TIL Toxic femininity = internalized misogny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:09 PM
1

We do, just in a different way and not necessarily just for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 12:06 PM
3

You can. I was more interested in the why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:51 PM
1

You don't know what dread means at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:49 PM
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Because it's true, I never saw a woman irl holding up to all of their requirements in a relationship, once there's a certain attraction the list goes out of the Window.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:32 PM
1

It's biology, why do you sound mad about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:29 PM
3

She can't ever agree with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 10:30 AM
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I'm still young so I don't know, but I doubt my reason to date a 20 year girl younger than me would ever be to exert control.. that makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:04 PM
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I didn't talk about shaming men at all. I get your point, I was doing something else when I replied (I didn't even finish my edit). I just think that what can seem really obvious to you can be completely pointless to other people. That was the point I was trying to make in my first comment. If I take the trash out every other day and you do it every day, you will start resenting me if I don't take it everyday, for you it may be obvious (hygiene, smell, whatever) but for me the simple fact that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:51 AM
1

Let's follow your logic, you said that you can start resenting someone if they are not attentive enough.. If they are not attentive "enough" what would you rather do? Wait for them to be more attentive? or simply tell them what you think the problem is? Because if they are aware of what the problem is and still don't care that's an entirely different problem. If they are not aware what's wrong with explaining? If you're not shaming what are you doing? why is relevant to say someone who dont see …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 03:22 AM
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That's one of my biggest problems with the blue side, "if you just dont get it", you're autistic, you're obvlivous etc. If there's ways to make people understand each other better why shame them instead of comunicate with them, makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:11 AM
2

I am. By a system I dont mean, a full schedule.. Something simple as every thursday, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 01:06 AM
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That's why creating a system would make it easier.. for me cleaning the bathroom would be every 3 days if you think you need it every 2 days you have to tell me because I won't be paying attention at all until the 3rd day. My point is simply paying attention is a bad advice because you could be in total different pages, he's paying attention just not to the sam things as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 11:10 PM
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If I live alone there's certain things I won't pay attention to ever.. So simply being more attentive is not good advice.. be more attentive is too vague.. be more attentive to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:57 PM
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That is not just women is blues in general. You should know everything but using their timing and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:50 PM
1

I am confused about how your opinion on that topic is relevant to the thread topic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:48 PM
1

Dumbest thing I read on ppd, so you're saying if a woman beats a man 20x is not her fault for him to hit back? Or that theres no problem before he hits back?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 02:46 PM
2

If I start unfriending all my friends who cheat I would lose 85% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:17 AM
2

Still doesn't make him an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 01:53 PM
1

That doesn't sound alpha at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 04:57 AM
1

I would still enjoy it, I would feel no different if she bad mouthed me afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 12:18 AM
1

They asked that to a woman? Or in the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 01:56 PM
1

You were the one calling men delusional.. the point you made doesn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 01:55 PM
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Is my dick big? I don't believe a man would ever ask that lool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:50 PM
1

So many times I went out with my female friends or cousins and they would just appear with a bottle from nowhere, just because it doesn't happen to you, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:45 PM
1

This will sound silly but for me that's the worst thing about being in a relationship, my ex legit thought I owed her entertainment..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:01 AM
1

I would say maybe Michael B. Jordan...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:44 PM
0

For me it's not even their partners, it's how every women here is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:26 PM
1

I'm completely desensitized to it, I've seen it happened at least 3 times and made no difference to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 03:52 PM
3

For me the worse was the anhedonia.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:53 AM
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If you don't feel like it's a problem then it probably isn't. For me it was
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:29 AM
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It’s all moot; I need the SSRIs, probably... I probably need it to, but fuck that, never again..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:08 AM
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I don't want to scare you, but it would be good if you looked into PSSD, it sounds like what you're describing, srris can fuck you up for a long time so sometimes you might need a break of a few months or more before you start seeing improvements. Can you elaborate on this? In a sense that I had no libido, I could see something teenage me would get uncomfortably horny, and have no reaction to it while I was forcing myself to like it when I clearly didn't, my pleasure during sex was -20% so I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:04 AM
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By this comments you will realise you're mostly right.. I would like to meet women like the ones in PPD in real life. They are all so strong with clear values, clear boundaries wouldn't cross them for anybody and the ones who do are so weak willed or crazy. I never met women like that in real life, the only one I thought it was like that, got drunk in a work party and all her boundaries went out of the window. I don't even know men like that and I'm talking about people that I admire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 03:53 AM
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did you have sex before start taking ssris? Because that would change everything, when I was on ssris I felt exactly like you're describing, I would be literally disgusted during sex sometimes, I would notice every imperfection, no girl could ever manipulate me using any kind sexuality etc, and I would cringe if they tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:51 AM
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Well I was on ssris, my dick was so numb it was uncomfortable just touching my boxers, orgasms were worse than a sneeze. When I was off of it for 2 months I realised what I was missing for so long and why I used to put woman on a pedestal, sex was just amazing after it and I forgot what it felt like. Try get rid of that poison and tben ask those questions again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:43 AM
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I have sex because it feels good. I like variety, Chicken is good but sometimes I like beef too, are they cows and chickens screening me too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:08 PM
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How can he take 20 women out of the aldating pool simultaneously? Nah I'm just saying a man who just dated one girl all of his life it's missing out.. I wouldn't want to hear his advice or anything when it comes to relationships.. what's a man like me?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 07:41 PM
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I don't need it at all, I think that's projection.. I could fuck woman and she may think I was the shittiest sex she ever had but if the sex was good I wouldn't give 2 shits about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 05:14 PM
1

I can't see being in only one relationship for decades a success for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 03:40 PM
1

I was really really skinny and I didn't even put muscle on just regular weight when I was 19, women started approching me and complimenting me on my appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:36 AM
1

Maybe is just me but I like a girl to be witty, intelligent who teases people a lot. If she's plain in terms of personality it does nothing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:59 PM
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If she says she's a feminist, I automatically think she has a low iq.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 11:57 PM
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I used to care, but not anymore it just so happens that a lot of times what I like make them feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:16 PM
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Every time I approached a girl with rmv qualities I shot my self in the foot. If I want a relationship or something casual the best way is to be leaning towards smv at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 01:34 PM
1

I usually approach every time I feel like to, sometimes I don't even want anything and approach just to amuse myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:19 PM
2

Jesus, even if he's a narcissist why are you so angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 02:17 PM
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I see I'm not the only one, It's something I think about all the time what could have happened in their lifes to turn some men into feminists? I'm really intrigued.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 10:40 PM
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That's exactly the point. I wouldn't want to see her again either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 02:01 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:26 PM
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You're absolutely right baby, don't let them tell you otherwise. I already oppressed 8 women alone this week I'm just 2 women short to fill my weekly quota. Thank you speaking the truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:06 PM
2

I'm so confused. milf with mum? What does that mean?
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:59 PM
2

Lol I wish I could live my life like that, everything someone don't like about me I would frame it as their weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:06 AM
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As a man I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 04:05 AM
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I never understood why women want to take men to a negative place to begin with. That's one of the reasons I'm single.. I'm too disconnected to play this stupid games
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 03:46 AM
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As someone who was castrated by anti depressants. I'd like to keep my urges intact, sex is amazing, you have to be out of it (libido, etc) to really appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 03:35 AM
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I agree with that but at the same time I feel like a woman feeling unhappy in a relationship is not always the man's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:23 AM
1

Can you give any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:22 AM
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Now I get it, now I understand why women are repulsed by PUA and TRP. Hearing this sound weird as fuck, but it's probably true. My first reaction was thinking this wouldn't work on me but it probably does...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:21 AM
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That's what I'm thinking, they think they deserve cookies for no reason and get mad if their slave don't get them some. Maybe I'm too autistic to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:13 AM
2

Maybe but I don't think if a man is 100% happy he would cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:09 AM
2

I've seen more men cheating just because I hang with men more, but from my experience women cheat worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:08 AM
1

What are the reasons for cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 03:06 AM
1

This makes no sense. Do you think that the majority of men are assaulting women in the work place? The men who are afraid are the men who saw other man thrown to the bus for no good reason.. is not about revenge is about protecting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:44 PM
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Lol if that was an offense I had to report a quarter of my female colleagues when I used to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:36 PM
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It seriously sound like you're trolling. You're saying a girl that brings a guy from the bar home and shows you it's good ltr prospect? You're trolling for sure.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:24 AM
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I see it as shaming because it implies their point is invalid. If it's in a different context it wouldn't be shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 07:17 PM
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It's shaming like when a man is trying to make an argument and the response is something like "oh but rp's are not known to be good with women" Yes, they don't specifically say "you" but is their way to try to dismiss a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 06:45 PM
1

I don't think everything is shaming, but there's definitely too much shaming going on here and on reddit as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 05:47 PM
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It's a waste of time, I'd rather go clubbing or some shit. I get 2 matches a day, my profile is low effort, 1 pic no bio. Some women message first, they still expect me to entertain them and the women I message first put me on trial, when I'm on a really good mood I can entertain this nonsense and get some really nice dates out of it, but If I'm just ok and bored the audtion becomes just painfull and I move on for something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 05:42 PM
1

Narcisistic? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:24 AM
1

Every woman I know would assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:06 AM
1

If you play league of legends add me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:47 AM
1

not an incel but I had a friend who lost his virginity at 22 and it was note even my advice it was the girls in our group they tell him he should be a bit more evil. It worked!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:46 AM
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I find it bs and take it personally. Maybe it comes from a good place but my subconscious don't care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:45 AM
1

nah, it just sounds bad, but is not that bad..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:42 AM
1

This can sound a little bit crazy, but why you don't kill her? I definitely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 02:33 PM
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My life would be much better as women that's for sure. No one would resent me for being depressed. I would have value just by being l, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 02:05 PM
1

Are you playing GOD? Can I play too? So as a man I can't put variety as my focus I have to focus on a single relationship so I can please you? Because your self-righteous self decides what's good and what's wrong, I want to be god too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 02:02 PM
1

4tu world war?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 01:58 PM
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Feminism is for feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:53 AM
1

Same as creating a fake look, but tbh I disagree..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:44 AM
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this comment is really interesting, probably she thought there was no planning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:31 AM
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I'm not saying she's great, but most people who are talking about her just watch this video, never watched her movies and are opinated about herm she's not even anti-feminist? She tried to have a dialogue with feminism and they shut her down because she came with new ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:36 PM
4

It is fun but would you go to a club with no men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:15 PM
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Do you think it's different for men? The difference is men don't say they just dress to themselves, if these were true you would see men chilling in their home in a gucci suit. I try to dress well not necessarily for women but to at least try to portray a way I want to be seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:14 PM
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People are wrong then. This is her TED talk, really relevant to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:03 PM
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and dishonesty/hidden agendas (things you CAN'T see) These are your words no one is applying morality to the "manipulations" only you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:59 PM
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She was legit a feminist. It was not a trendy stance she has a lot of interviews explaining where her feminism comes from and they are all reasonable. from the descriptions in this thread (which i don't think even OP has disagreed with), it sounds like she took 'feminist' to mean that any past inequalities experienced by women entitled her to take take take and do whatever she wanted even at the expense of other people, especially men, without consequence. I see it this way when you always belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:53 PM
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I was being vague, in the actual date I'll be thinking where's the best time and place to go in for the kiss, for example "Is this too crowded? She's shy, she will probably won't be comfortable kissing here, I know a place, I'll suggest going there, is she nervous? She's being touchy, ok, she's defintely attracted to me... etc." I'm not using any techiniques and I'm still looking the best outcome for me and my goals, obviously I'm enjoying the moment and this thoughts are on the background. What…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 04:27 PM
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Concerts and music festivals I get the point. I used to go to a lot of battle raps back in the day and they were 98% men. But do you think you could go to a club without a single men? If you can wouldn't it be cheaper to just go to your friends house and listen to music and dance there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 04:20 PM
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Not really, I see manipulation everywhere and I don't think it's always malicious. If you ask your friend to pick you up at 4 am, he denies and you remind him that you paid for his lunch 2 months ago, you're manipulating him kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 04:18 PM
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Ok I'm sorry women can't possibly manipulate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:45 AM
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It's not manipulation even though she knows I have a girlfriend but she comes to my house with leggings because "she heard weird noises in her flat and she's scared"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:33 AM
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Why do you sound so angry? lol It depends on the intent? If a woman over hears me saying I like big booty and wears the tighest jeans she had, she's trying to seduce/manipulate me somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:27 AM
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I'm 23
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:24 AM
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Push-up bras? Every guy above the age of 12 can figure out a chick is wearing a push-up bra. Make-up? Duh, every woman is coated in make-up even if you don't see it. Blonde hair dye? Who cares. So if you don't see it is not manipulation? I thought that was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:15 AM
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You're extra..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:14 AM
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lol. Women dress like that because they enjoy dressing like that, like I enjoy wearing tank tops to the street, even when it's cold. Because I enjoy looking at my arms and feeling sexy. Women also feel that way. They revel in their own attractiveness, they feel good about it. They're not doing it to attract men. This is exactly what I'm talking about, do you think you can feel sexy in a vacuum? Do you think if you were the only person in the world you would care about feeling sexy? Do you think …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:13 AM
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What are these ''most men experiences'' you're speaking of? Are there men who've encountered manipulative women? Sure. Are most men meeting these women? Would that mean most women are manipulative, or most men are drawn to women who are bad for them? If you're saying that most women are manipulative - shouldn't you be motivating men to stay away from women? if most men are dumb to get involved with bad women.huh, is it also women's fault men think with their dicks? I really have no idea of what …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:03 AM
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Which is true a good tip, but you have to be really naive as a woman if you think that guy gained his muscle commuting to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:59 AM
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Maybe I didn't express myself well, I meant they say they just go clubbind and doll up just so they can go and dance with their female friends. When in my opinion they wouldn't do it if there were no men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:58 AM
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Not that I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:46 AM
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I'm just shocked to find a woman who reaches 39 and it's clueless or pretends to be clueless that men have to act in order to get something. Your problem is that you are seeking permission to learn how to manipulate people(I dont think you are actually doing but many people who make these types of posts are doing this so I wrote it anyway), that doesn't make much sense does it? I was actually not, but I get what you mean, but in the context of sales which is not gendered is completely ok to lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:37 AM
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This is true, but if you ask any women on ppd, their boyfriends/husband never did anything (chased them, seduced them, etc), they simple fell in love and were compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:30 AM
2

Concealed intention doesn't make it evil though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:29 AM
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Sometimes I'm really curious if they all believe their lies or if it is some secret female code, because I will hear these lies repeatedley by completely unrelated women. The typical, "I only dress for myself", "I just go to clubs to dance with my friends" (Like they would go to clubs with no men, I 100% doubt this unless they're lesbians). Or I'm projecting who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:28 AM
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This is just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:37 AM
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You're 39 but so sheltered. I strategised since the day I started being interested in girls, I'm thinking you probably just don't know what the word means and life for you just happened. But for most guys we have to make things happen and if I failed once I'll make sure I won't fail again, is that manipulative? "If I approach a girl in front of all of her friends and I notice that I can't really get her attention, I'll try later when she's by herself, if I noticed this works better." (This a shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:35 AM
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She was a feminist for 10 years and made 2 movies related to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:26 AM
1

This was obviousy written by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:21 AM
1

Your point being? Never said it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 04:37 AM
1

It depends on the case, if its a deadbeat parent by all means. If you agreed you're be the only one rasing the child, then it's on you to raise the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 06:06 PM
2

lol like this is good for guys? I don't want to break anything..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:55 AM
1

It actually could be more like, both of them creating a fund where they contributed for college. Why is something like that has to be forced by law?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:50 AM
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I meant give to adoption, "giving to abortion" makes no sense. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:48 AM
1

And I agree an 100%. Both cases are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:46 AM
1

It's dumb because they could reach an agreement. It's just like pointless backstabbing just because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:45 AM
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I forget that college in the us is crazy expensive, but it's still a dumb thing to do. As it would be dumb if she gave her child for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:30 PM
5

Not at all, they would ask men why would they put themselves in those situations. I never seen empathy for men being mainstream, never.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:28 PM
0

For me child support is dumb nothing will change my opinion on this, it just makes sense if both of the parents agreed to raise the kids and then one of them bails. If the father agreed to raise her alone, then raise her alone why go back to hit her with child support? When she could easily just give the child to adoption?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:23 PM
1

It's on her but it's till shitty to do. Even when the father says he doesn't need it. We're literally replacing the gonverment for decency and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:14 PM
2

I feminine women but they have to be honest, if it's all gaslighting I lose respect for them really quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:13 PM
3

This just sounds like projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:12 PM
2

Even though is the law is so stupid, she didn't want the kid, she was willing to give it to abortion. She made it easy for the father to have the kid and he hits her with child support...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:10 PM
2

Why do you you think its your fault when you both lost the train?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:58 PM
4

Black people of reddit some of you are confused about what constitues stealing so I'll give you some tricks and tips to help you. If it's not yours, don't take it. If you ask and they say no don't take it. If you borrowed something, make sure you returned when the lender feels uncomfortable. If someone gives you something but seems sad, give it back (...)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:50 PM
3

Even though I don't agree with you, you're basically agreeing with the comment you reply to. Telling men what to do or not to do is dumb. Because those set to rape will still rape. Nothing would save that 56 year old man and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:45 PM
1

This reminds me of my uni seminar where they teached men not to rape, I obviously walked out in less than 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:28 PM
2

So you're saying that this same 56 year old man wouldn't rape if went to a rape seminar?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:22 PM
1

What refute do you want to read? That rape is good?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:19 PM
2

WTF?! So bizarre. I hope you're doing okay now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 05:09 AM
1

Only reason I'm single right now is because I can't find a nice no selfish, not entitled girl. Any girl I start seeing start showing some unreasonable behaviour in the first 3 weeks of seeing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:36 PM
2

I don't know whats the point of this post. But myself with some red pill beliefs I never have to pretend anything, I'm almost the same everywhere and I don't think any of my views is "abhorrent" but once again I never dated a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:28 PM
1

being cheated on is not common?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 03:04 PM
2

How was she raped if they didn't have sex?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:40 AM
3

You're comment is the typical "if the man was dumb enough to trust his wife, then its his fault so he should pay". Many blues do really think women have no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 02:50 PM
4

If the father put his name on the birth certificate, he has the obligation to pay child support and I think he should, the mother should not be punished. This is plain misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 02:36 PM
2

I agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:43 PM
5

Something being amoral doesn't mean you as a person can't be moral this is a ridiculous point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:30 PM
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"Why don't you take a moment to think about the fact that you need to come up with some outlandish scenario that has no relation to the real world un order to twist the woman into being somehow the victim and not responsible for her own life?" He basically said this example has no relation to reality, op just made up a rapist called him rp and asked trp to defend a position no one has.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:27 PM
9

This is strawman in so many levels. I'm almost certain that if a man is having rough sex, 80% of the times it's because the woman wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:12 PM
5

How would you reach that conclusion from what he said?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:10 PM
2

explain to me whats a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 06:14 AM
18

Lol yup if women fail they were somehow wronged if men fail they are weak. All your comments are like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 06:10 AM
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I don't think anyone needs to spell this out to you. It becomes harassment when it makes the other person uncomfortable. Battery is a crime; you straight up can't touch someone if they're not cool with it. This is and always was my problem with bp, then the shaming begins oh if you don't know it, you're autistic. After saying stuff like this you (blues) also stay stuff like oh yeah you should know putting your hand on her shoulder for the photo was making her umcomfortable even though she didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:37 PM
3

I don't know if it's easier or not, but everytime I get into casual sex with a girl it always feels easy to get a relationship, they always try to hint about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:10 PM
2

I understand the term creepy I just don't agree with them most of the time. If I see a guy talking with one of my female friends, if he gets shy I see it from what it is, he got shy. When some of my female friends (usually one), will tell us how creepy that guy was. She was in no danger, the only thing that was threatened was her comfort.. Yes a shy person can make us umcomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 01:07 PM
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being in an abusive relationship It happens both ways.. So I don't get what you mean by this? Or do you mean only men are abusers? You didn't get my point The difference is women internalize the pain and harm themselves typically, while men typically externalize and harm others. If this was the case, men wouldn't suicide more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 11:37 PM
2

I never understand these kinds of questions... If we're at least having sex why would I care if she's not begging me to fuck her? Number 1 without a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 09:02 PM
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If that was totally true men wouldn't suicide at the rates they do compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 08:58 PM
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I like how low value men are blamed for all of their decisions but women are just depressed and have low self esteem. Sounds fair and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:09 PM
1

looooooooool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:07 PM
1

I just heard it like that in reddit, before that it was more like "stop being a nice guy, girls don't like that". It never meant he was a giant manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 05:48 PM
2

yup if she was not my gf, I wouldn't care at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 09:58 PM
1

I'm black, I like black woman, but Michelle Obama is not attractive in any way shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 04:50 AM
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My theory about why there are so many loser men who play video games is because video games offer a safe, rejection free environment with clear, directly solvable problems and infinite retries. Gaming has been everything but a safe space.. Online games are the most played nowadays I can't see how that's a safe space.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:24 PM
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I never dated a girl like that in my life.. I believe they exist, just not in this continent..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:03 AM
2

This question makes no sense..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:50 PM
1

I'm just trying to figure out who's on the anger phase LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 02:07 AM
1

lol how was empathy supposed to be shown?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 02:03 AM
1

This is the reason I'm still on ppd, little things like this give me so much insight on what's going on in women's heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:51 AM
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What changed for you? Is not like things are really different and at least in my case millenial girls don't even have the same priorities as they used to.. after my relationship I swear I was done with relationships (not in a mgtow way) but in the back in my hand I'm always hopefull that I find a girl I could see myelf dating, they're rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:41 AM
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You sound just like my ex but with self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:34 AM
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No, you’re a hypocrite because if this was an unattractive woman that everyone was encouraging to date within her own league, we would never see people like you having any problem with it. Or voicing your disagreement with it. Women should date within their leagues or lower but men should only date hot women who give them automatic boners. Ridiculous. You're ridiculous, you're calling me a hypocrite for holding a position I don't hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:21 PM
6

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 01:55 PM
6

Any men who says he wouldn't like to try something like westworld is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 01:53 PM
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If you’re poor and starving, and there’s literally no other food to eat and you haven’t eaten in days, weeks or even months, yes, you should eat second hand food. Do you know that second hand food is literally shit right? This guy has been here on PPD long enough now and has described his sexual and romantic life as such, and he’s attributed it to his ugliness. The solution is to date equally ugly women. The solution to what? I don’t even see why you have a problem with this, because every time …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 01:50 PM
1

Even tho I don't agree with that I thought it was average guys, not 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 01:43 PM
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I am, it still makes no sense "Oh if you're so poor why don't you eat second hand food?" that's how your comment sounds to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 03:25 AM
1

I don't know where you live, but I'm pretty sure it's really common at least in London.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 12:03 AM
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The only men i know who went to see prostitutes were the ones with more girls chasing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 12:01 AM
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Why would he want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:59 PM
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what kind of question is that? Of course.. If I liked her already and she happened to have money.. even if I didn't like her and she was a billionaire..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 11:54 PM
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I'm not sure if I would call that rape..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:52 AM
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Nope most men are clueless. So whats a good example for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:42 AM
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Yup using make up without disclosing the fact that you don't look like that should be a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:38 AM
2

What do you describe as your feminine side?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 08:19 PM
1

that post its literally useless to discuss, it will always be personal "Oh, but I'm not like that" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 05:03 AM
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Oh the emperors the 0.0001% of men. Yes going to war is way better than being a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 01:55 PM
2

whats even your point? That I want my father and my brother to go to war?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 03:34 AM
2

so men would go to wars they didn't even understand but you're saying is still men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 03:28 AM
1

How would I know? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 01:59 AM
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if they smell like women and feel like women, I'd definitely try lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:51 PM
3

I just have a friend who was "conned" by his girlfriend the thing is he has no money, after that as I was expecting she didn't let him see his son. There are just women that want to be single mothers.. they don't feel loved and at least their baby will love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:47 PM
1

What world do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:32 PM
1

So you're saying that all the girls and friends I met at night were a mistake? I apologise then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:31 PM
1

"MEn Are not entitleD to My tiMe"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:30 PM
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I think you should take some time off of reddit, hang out with your female friends and try to appreciate life. I'm not trying to be mean or anything, I just don't think what you're doing it's healthy at all, it's like you're constantly over analyzing what happened to you over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:52 AM
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"Women are more empathetic.." to other women...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:03 PM
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So a random man went to a neutral subreddit to spread a narrative? For me that's reaching. If it was only the op I would "believe" but the other accounts, makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 04:09 PM
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For me this sound exactly like women would write about it "it just happened" and describing emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 04:08 PM
1

some mental gymnastics..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 03:16 PM
2

how was this written by a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 03:04 PM
2

any reasonable explanation why men would comment there as woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 03:02 PM
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I get annoyed of kissing easily, annoyed like "won't she stop" and most girls think I'm being playful, but no, I just don't want to kiss anymore. My ex obviously concluded if I didn't like to kiss 24/7 then I didn't lovd her..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:32 PM
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With posts like these I can understand how a brain on feminism works.. The delusional is too real..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 03:02 AM
1

finally someone who know that..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:57 AM
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You're kinda the guy tbp talks about... That's what an alpha sounds like to you?
/r/askTRP14/01/18 05:28 AM
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nope, being shy is a behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:38 PM
0

thats how I feel in a relationship with woman.. they try to manipulate everything every 2 mins.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:36 PM
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Not in my experience.. more like unactractive guy/Socialy awkward/shy = creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:33 AM
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You're free to do what you want I don't really care, I'm just trying to understand the logic behind it. I still think unattractive guys approaching = creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:25 AM
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1) I don't like the idea of cheating and since I'm not ready to settle down, I'd rather fuck around. 2) I'm not interested in those kind of movies at all. Almost all of my hobbies I'd rather do it with guys. 3) What's the point if I'm stucked in a relationship? 4) Last time I did that I ruined my relationship, opening up with a girl is one of the dumbest thigns men can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 12:33 AM
1

what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 12:22 AM
2

But if it was a 16yo rapper he would be called out to be mysognistic if said how he wants to fuck some random woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 05:19 PM
0

lol your answer makes no sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 05:17 PM
1

You're wrong tho.. if you get a woman used to getting off with oral she will not respect you the same, especially if she's a virgin. Poor me at 15, she would rarely give me a bj but I would go down on her because I liked it, until it was the only thing we did, when I brought to her attention she's not giving as much as I'm giving her (our sexual life was me basically getting her off) she easily dismissed it. That's why I know dread works.. next 2 times I got her to give me head and pretended to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 02:10 AM
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lol a random women asking you to order food for her on tinder is still trying to extract money from men, a woman who goes on a date just to get free dinner is extracting money from men. So no, it's not only the ones you consider gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:25 AM
2

Yup, you're perfect.. we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:35 AM
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I can't tell at all.. Maybe because I'm a man.. I find it's way easier to find a man being insecure than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:32 AM
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I'm not saying that at all, I was more in agreement with the op talking about double standards. I'm not talking about the choices more about society response. Also, people are allowed to change their minds, especially about potentially life changing events like having a child. You don’t have to like it, but it doesn’t necessarily mean the other person is shitty. Having kids is no joke. A man who decides he wants to have a son and sucessfuly convinces his wife not to abort, so later he leaves her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 01:59 AM
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Still you think that's always the sensible answer? My brother cousin just got his first daughter, when his gf told him she was pregnant he literally cried, imagine 2 weeks later she comes and say "nah, I'm not ready yet, next time bro". It's all good for you I see, it's her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 12:47 AM
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What would being held responsible look like in your view? It sounds like you would prefer the decision re: continuing or not continuing a pregnancy to rest with the father, but wouldn’t that just be creating another version of the situation you seem to have a problem with in the first place? I never said that at all. I was pointing out hipocrisy, I mean it's a woman body and I understand it, but how would you feel they both plan it and later on she says "I'm not ready to have a kid" and and abor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 12:45 AM
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I mean I didn't know they were feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 11:41 PM
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lol wtf, you had women empathising with you, literally on your side and you say something like that? makes no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:53 PM
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the hipocrisy is that women are not held responsible while men are. You missed the point again, no one is saying women should be forced to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 10:42 PM
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I mean if I had lack of awareness I could see the world through your lenses and to be honest that helps me understand the world. As a blue pill person I don't approve of stay-at-home-moms, and I don't think men should marry way below their socioeconomic status just to get a hotter and more submissive wife. But even in a red pill marriage, or any type of marriage, divorce has to exist, because otherwise abused women would be trapped, as they were in the past. I also don't approve of the word "hub…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 07:31 PM
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You saw it wrong then, I changed it to clarify what I meant as soon as noticed I didn't write random. The one you quoted, didn't say random and it still doesn't say random.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:40 PM
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I changed to random 2 mins after posting. So how did I change goalposts? When you read it, it was already saying random.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:00 PM
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Whats cringey there?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:58 PM
1

You don't think women are more collectivist than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:52 PM
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My claim is that men won't defend a random men over a random women. Men won't believe/defend/empathise another random man over a woman unless there's proven evidence that he may be right. How are you defining one of us? People we know? Then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:40 PM
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I agree with that, I'm just saying men won't defend random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:34 PM
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You just ignore what I said and replied with nothing. Coercing? So they know there's no chance they will have a role because there's some more talented women out there for the role, they suck his dick willingly so maybe they have a chance but is coercing? A woman who has no chance in acting or whatever has the oppurtunity to suck some dick to get ahead, if she does it maybe she gets ahead if she doesn't she will be in the same place how was her carrer ruined?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:32 PM
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There are definitely still 'old boys networks' etc at play. Men at the top of their professions are more likely to cover up for each other. Look at this from writer John Grisham - He's trying to say that men are thrown into prison for just 'pressing a few wrong buttons' and looking at child porn. That doesn't happen. He's trying to excuse his buddies: I never denied this happens, I'm talking about random men. They are not defending random men. You don't get how patriarchy works. The people at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:17 PM
1

I think power is relavant for sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:12 PM
2

Do you think these clubs are shaping society?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:11 PM
1

I proved that power exist and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:10 PM
1

How if you never had a carrer to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:09 PM
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You changed my views.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:08 PM
1

??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:07 PM
2

Would they defend random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:07 PM
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We're really close. Moments like that are the ones that make me think female collectivism is real. It usually just works when the topic is women vs men. Like in football when there's club rivalries but everyone gets together when their national team plays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 11:20 AM
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Don't you think men do the same thing though? Maybe not so obviously, but a guy will often blame his ex for a recent breakup and his friends will accept that. This is normal if he's my friend I'll take his side because I know him but nothing would change if it was a female friend I would take her side too. I don't think is normal to ignore the people you know and defend your gender, unless you know the person is shitty which I think it's not my case. Yeah this changes your thread completely. Wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 11:05 AM
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It covers more but it's irrelevant to my point. My only point in this chain was I don't think it matters if a man named it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:55 AM
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But at the same time I see where they're coming from in their arguments, because your assertion is pretty baseless as I see it. I don't see women being particularly collectivist in my day-to-day life. In fact the common stereotype is that it's women who bitch and gossip behind each other's backs and all that, which is again the opposite of having a collectivist attitude towards their gender. I know what you mean, but I think they act like that until they have a common enemy. This actually happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:52 AM
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Women here are offended because I said they are more collectivists than men, like that's exclusively a bad thing. I was focusing more on the projecting, I didn't know people would question the groupthink part. Now whether what OP is saying about women having some kind of hivemind is true, I dunno to be honest. Not been my experience. They tend to fuck each other over like men do, just in different ways, and that seems to be basic human nature. Self-preservation and self-interest. I agree, but ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:58 AM
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If you tried to understand what I wrote you would see I barely touched on patriarchy apart from the title. The comment I quoted was talking about rape culture, so I have no clue how my views are wrong on something I didn't even touch on. I didn't touch it because I didn't think I needed to. The first paragraph I was simply comparing how men think, how women think and how women might be projecting the way they think into men. In no way I was describing what patriarchy means. "Definition: Patriarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:56 AM
1

Thank you, you changed my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:59 AM
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I do think its possible, I just don't believe it. Do you think if no woman ever complained, some men would get enough and call it misogny? I highly doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:26 AM
1

Without hearing complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:18 AM
1

So wait are you saying that were men who said "Oh wait, maybe we're a bit mysognistic" without any influence of women? Do you believe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:13 AM
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For me it's pointless to debate with a gotcha mentality, especially when it's a cmv, but I still like to see it. I know you're implying her point makes total sense and she got me but I still find her point irrelevant and that "gotcha" didn't help at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:07 AM
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This is more about feminism than gender, why are people thinking I'm attacking women collectivism?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:13 AM
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Not to the same extent. Can you give me examples of how men are collectivists? It's not a competition though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:58 AM
1

I agree with you on that, but is that enough to say we live in a patriarchal society?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 05:12 AM
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Scenario: "Well men claim they are discriminated in a university, a female teacher makes a study and gives that kind of discrimination a name. Then she publishes a study about it, how does that change the source of the sentiment?" My reply to a different comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 05:10 AM
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Scenario: "Well men claim they are discriminated in a university, a female teacher makes a study and gives that kind of discrimination a name. Then she publishes a study about it, how does that change the source of the sentiment?" Go to sleep. These gotcha moments, is why I post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:57 AM
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I agree with system of powers I jsut don't think they can influence our daily lifes that much. Feminists would have us believe the women who came forward in the Weinstein case for example kept silent for years because they were all intimidated or felt ashamed. More likely many of them used that incident to further their careers and in the cases of them telling others, the others used it to further theres. You can't blackmail someone who is in jail after all. Definitely. My friend is a lawyer, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:52 AM
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Yeah 4 am here. I meant I'm not saying it's a concept, it's just the way I can make sense of the push for patriarchal theories. Saying that men started it, dont really change my view, since it outgrew them already.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:50 AM
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Never said it was a concept. It's the only thing that makes sense to me when I see peoples till pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:38 AM
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Of course I believe women are mostly team women. But I think that's more due to similar thinking patterns than out of some sense of loyalty. But I also think most guys are susceptible to such things. So on issues like, sexual harassment, you'll have a bunch of men thinking "hey I do that all the time and it's not so bad" as you would have women saying "hey that happens to me all the time, and it's the worst!" I'm not saying team women is a bad thing even though it is many times, but what I'm dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:37 AM
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My point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:31 AM
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Ughh I'm not a feminist, but from my understanding of feminism - not all men are supposed to benefit from patriarchy. The only sort of solid definition of patriarchy is that it keeps women down. Wether it keeps other men men down or not is inconsequential. Then that defeats the purpose of the whole opressor/opressive. Sure. I just don't think the defining line is male/female for this issue. It depends on the issue, patriarchy by feminists is definitely gendered. I know you don't agree with me on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:14 AM
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Why does that matter? It matters because it shows that men are not benefitting from Patriarchy at all. No on this matter, people are people. They will defend the people they think are right and condom those they think are wrong. Yes with loads of layers of bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:00 AM
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How is my AWALT not true? I didn't even define patriarchy how was it a strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:50 AM
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Except that's exactly what happened under "the patriarchy". Remember the Polanski thread from a couple days ago? That was exactly a group of men (from a certain era) saying "he's one of us, we got his back". I didn't add that I was talking about men in power defending random men. If they defend each other it doesn't really change anything else, unless they're defending random man. Again I disagree. If everyone at the top knows each other's dirty secrets, that's all the more reason to protect eac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:46 AM
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Explain how?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:44 AM
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Coercing? So they know there's no chance they will have a role because there's some more talented women out there for the role, they suck his dick willingly so maybe they have a chance but is coercing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:08 AM
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Because tht's the only thing I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 06:07 PM
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Can you understand why a woman who thought she was in a safe environment is suddenly confronted with a masturbating man? Because to me, that behavior tells me he is a crazy person. He's definitely crazy and it's a shame because I was a big fan and I'm not trying to defend him in anyway shape or form. I understand his behaviour tells something is not right with him, but it doesn't mean he intimidated someone he definitely put them in a hard situation, (men are stronger, women get scared to act ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 04:53 AM
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So you're saying its intimidation based on gender? Would you defend the same thing with the genders reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 04:13 AM
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I'm picking this nit because I'm not convinced it's intimidation. If my boss asked me to suck his dick I would definitely be fired, I wouldn't suck his dick. If I did no one would be defending me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 03:34 AM
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It's defintely fucked up. My problem with it is that what if they come tomorrow and said they didn't admire him would it change anything? In terms of him intimidating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 03:21 AM
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If beyonce or whatever came to my room and ordered me to lick her foot I wouldn't do it. Even though I admire her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:35 AM
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In my experience, maybe I'm a minority but women are always trying to find you're weak spot so they press it and I'm talking about relationships. i never got where that myth came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 11:17 PM
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So how can you explain because someone is a hero they intimidate you? How is this not irrelevant? Would that hold in court? "he intimaded me", "How?", "He was my hero". Makes no sense even for blues.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:02 PM
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How did you prove me wrong? Feminist got the right to vote without the cosnequences, that's a fact!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 09:11 PM
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So for you that makes more sense than the fact that she's interested in gender conversations? Because when she was a feminist for 10 years because of the roles she was getting (typical blonde dumb white girl) her documentaries were reasonable. Now that she's documenting the MRM she has an agenda? Even though she tried to get financing from feminists and they cut it when they realised that she wouldn't bash the MRAs. What's even her agend? getting paid my MRAs? When feminism is way more lucrative…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 08:29 PM
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you ignored everything I said. You're acting like everythingis equal because some feminists are fighting about it, and I just told you that's not true, it is still not equal. How am I trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 08:23 PM
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So currently there's no discrimination? When men in some countries in order to vote they are forced to be on the draft??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 07:34 PM
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What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 06:52 PM
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None female friend that I can count of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 06:51 PM
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Well raising awareness is not enough for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 06:31 PM
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Nope, just pointing out the background from which she came. It's relevant. I didn't assassinate - I stated I wasn't saying it as a certainty. I have no issue with actors from low-budget horror films. But if they swap from that to making documentaries, I'm watching carefully to see what their real intent is. Her first documentaries were all feminists. Now that she made one about the mrm she wants attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 06:29 PM
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Gosh, so much bullshit in one comment. I just hope people in my day to day life don't live in a bubble like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 06:27 PM
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As a typical feminist you went to the advantages but forgot the consequences. Women got to vote without the responsability of the draft unlike men who only could vote if they were placed on the draft. "Women should not vote, because they will never be subject, in any meaningful way, to the draft." If you just read women can't vote you're more naive than I thought, once again feminism gain a right without responsabilities but you're blind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 06:25 PM
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Congratulations? I was not even bragging or anything, Im just saying regardless of having sex I still find women rarely have empathy for men. And now you know why. As clearly stated in my post, it’s because most of the time, we’re insulted for doing so because we did not give the guy the sex he really wanted when he claimed to want ‘empathy’. Nah, I think you're getting this wrong when men complain about lack of empathy from woman we're usually not speaking of an individual women. Collectively w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:32 PM
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I mean I get it but what do you take out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 05:50 PM
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I literally want to know why I just dont get it. I never got the point of going out of the way to get offended, its clear some people feel better when they perceive others as dumb or inferior. I just don't get it it would be like me creating a sub to criticise/make fun of feminism subs. I would just be wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 05:48 PM
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Why? You don't agree with it, they're going their own way anyway how does that concern you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:28 PM
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How can a man be a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 04:02 PM
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Nah I get sex often enough to keep saying women don't give a shit most of the time, they have 0 empathy for men, while men can have empathy for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 03:41 PM
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So the question is: does the average guy have to fake this abundance mentality? basically act like he has options when he knows from his daily experience that he has very few? yes. If you act needy you're out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 10:30 PM
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I think the ones that help and care are the minority. Girls usually make you up in their head (a combination of you and an image of what they want) and if you deviate a bit from it they will start to ressent you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 10:28 PM
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I don't know if it's a gender thing but I cant really see what's so disgusting about it, it's probably something really personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 10:25 PM
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The crazier shit I usually see come from woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 10:23 PM
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So you have a friend that gets drunk every time you go out and everytime you have to baby sit her and tell the men to fuck off at what time will you tell her to stop drinking if she doesn't want to be in those situations? Or you'd rather not to at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 10:23 PM
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You're disgusted because ment want sex? What if they prioritize sewing would you feel as disgusted? Is it the sex or the prioritization that disgusts you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:58 PM
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If you don't care about anything else why are you on a debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:56 PM
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My friends would never hit on a wasted girl to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 07:41 PM
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True, there so many things that society get away with based on gender that would be outrageous if it were based on race. Imagine a club where it was free to black people but white people had to pay, everyone would go crazy of how racist it is, but ladies night is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 01:10 AM
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what am I even supposed to do? Tell random men not to rape? Since I'm black I should tell black people to stop stealing too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 12:49 AM
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"Western values are superior" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 12:46 AM
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The shades.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 07:41 PM
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if they get hyped up they have more chances than if they are all depressed thinking they make people faint with their looks. I don't think any men really think that all of a sudden he will become trey songz.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 02:56 AM
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I still don't get it, are you saying that some men should just shoot lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 01:37 AM
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I don't get this post at all, what's even your point? That some men shouldn't try so you don't get uncomofrtable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 10:17 PM
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Things I heard from my friends suring my last 4 years studying CS in 2 different countries: "I love when there's a woman in our group because they always know a guy that already did the coursework, that will help her." "I have no idea how that girl got a job, she didn't know anything in uni." "I won't include her name on the coursework, I know she won't do anything. I heard this so many times. The thing there is a lot of girls who try to sweet talk into making their work, there's lot of girls wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:28 PM
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Why would you ask to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 07:36 PM
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I want 10 million pounds on my account without working am I hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 07:19 PM
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Not at all, is it supposed to? Edit: I can't even understand what kind of point you're making. You're uncomfortable with men who want to be with multiple girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 06:50 PM
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It's positive for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 06:13 PM
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You ignored everything me and everyone else said here. Ressentment is a feeling not an action. You're comparing things that are not equal. If my "gf" would find someone else in her job attractive that would be her problem to deal with, If she cheated then it would be bad for me too. If you want to sleep with multiple women, what do you think of your partner/ wife also sleeping with multiple men? If I want to literally sleep with multiple women I stay single. You’re implying that a woman who does…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 06:05 PM
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Of course you find it disgusting, every view that is different from your beliefs makes you sick in the tummy. Well I don't resent it, but as I can't see myself without touching another woman for the rest of my entire life, I'm single. The scary part is I'm not seeing myself coming with terms with it any time soon. Bring the shame "oh you're just not mature enough", etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 05:25 PM
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Nothing, I never really get this point. It's not like women are suppose to give it out on a monthly fee basis for incels. The ony thing I can see changing is the perception that most men are powerless probably society would stop shaming men so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 04:58 PM
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trp usually have shit posts this is not one of them, yes he was complaining, yes he got mad many times but you're being really disingenuous about it. ask her if she wants me to "burn the house down so her bitching isn't a problem." If you think this is a serious threat you need to take your bias glasses off. Where's the evidence the kids were there? I started focusing on losing the weight instead of being an overweight wannabe powerlifter type (bench over 400 lbs, but weighs 275 and only stands …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 01:11 PM
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There's just no point in arguing with righteous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 07:28 PM
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zzz.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:42 PM
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Sorry for the late reply. To be honest, never but that was years ago, so maybe it changed now. In uni recently there was a workshop teaching men not to rape (with different words), I walked out lol. After I did a lot people started leaving (men mostly).
/r/askTRP26/10/17 05:28 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 05:25 PM
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But making a point to be That Guy who feels the need to say that maybe she shouldn’t have done x,y,z doesn’t help anyone. Of course it does, it helps to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 11:09 AM
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There's no trp on the post?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 04:18 AM
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Nope, I don't expect anyone to wear make up. Psychopathy are your words. Edit: You can't just project your values to someone else. If you want to wear make up by all mean it doesn't mean I have to accept, make up, push up bras, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 02:15 AM
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Is that enough to be called a moral system?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 02:08 AM
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What's the moral system again?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 02:01 AM
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??? How is it different than TRP and its tools? The person is still the moral agent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 01:54 AM
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This makes no sense. If a woman wears make up and I later find out she's not that attractive but I already paid for dinner and the hotel, would you still be outraged?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 01:53 AM
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Amoral means people choose how they want to use it. If I don't want a relationship and I lie to the girl I'm seeing leading her on,I'm being immoral. if I am upfront about it, I'm being moral. Is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 01:47 AM
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what about if the person using the gun kills a terrorist that was about to blow up a building? Was the person moral or immoral? Can't you see the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 01:46 AM
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How do we prevent disproportionate violence against women in your opinion? I'm really sorry you were raped. I don't think that even people on this sub condone rape of any shape or form tbh. Well I think the first misconception is thinking violence disproportionately targets women. When men are the victims of 80% of violent crime, yes most of it it's men on men crime but still men are victims too. I don't really think it's equal just to try to solve a half of the problem. Domestic Violence it's a…
/r/askTRP23/10/17 01:20 AM
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If the relationship didn't work, they chose to end it. Well.. you got me right? They chose it because they weren't in relationships to begin with. Most cases I know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 12:51 AM
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This is just strawmen now. I never mentioned forced relationships. I said people who choose to raise their kids alone. If the relationship didn't work, then they didnt choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 12:35 AM
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Well as the few of the boys here raised by the single mother, I don't blame my mum at all, my father was just... But if I had the choice I would choose 10 out of 10 times to be raised by 2 parents. Why is that any of your concern? It is the concern of the mother and the father. There is nothing that says they need to live together and have a romantic relationship to raise a child. Is my concern because I care about the child. For me it makes no sense to celebrate single parenthood. It's just rid…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 12:03 AM
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'm sorry that you were so trapped in your emotions. If I have sons I'll teach them about communication, vulnerability, trust and respect because they deserve it. Thanks, but that was years ago, I'm passed that. That's great but make sure they have a father figure too because there's much they can learn from it. I am also very dismissive of the princess complex, especially amongst women who have an education. It's hard to be in a relationship but I think if communication doesn't work it's the wro…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 11:54 PM
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That's your perspective and I can see how you could reach that conclusion. Trying to get better with women, trying to save your relationship is all but focusing on male female relationships in a negative way. It just for the first time caring about men first and that makes people uncomfortable. As a men I found about trp first because I was looking for advice on how to make my relationship work. All the advice I got was based on how she feels, it was incredible, even people who only knew me woul…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 11:16 PM
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Why is it insane that children are being raised by a single parent and no one cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 10:35 PM
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You need to come to London and see the amount of single mothers, its insane. If there were no father gonverment I doubt they would be that irresponsable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 10:20 PM
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It's funny because its the same way I feel about feminism, I feel like the majority hate men, maybe that's my confirmation bias maybe I lack the nuance to get over the men bashing It's just how I feel. I don't consider myself rp so I don't think that comment was aimed at me and for what I know I dont think the lack of getting laid is the origin of the subreddit. Again, not asking you to join a club. People have a variety of opinions. I'm ok with that. I don't like the blatant disrespect of women…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 10:18 PM
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Read my comment to this thread to see why I disagree with the feminism label. Apart from that if you are for equality what difference does it make what label people choose to have?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 09:29 PM
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Don't you find a bit hypocrital to ask someone to join feminism when you couldn't join the men's right movements?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:45 PM
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Why don't you join men's right then?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:01 PM
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I'm not even that into RP but in my opinion feminism is the main drive for spaces like the RedPill it's like calling someone monster repeatedley and then get surprised when the "Monster" goes on a rampage. I don't have anything agaisnt you or feminists who are like you but you're part of a bigger problem. First you say you're for equality but you're part of a movement called "feminism", this wouldn't be a problem if feminists wouldn't fight for the change of words like firemen and policemen to g…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 08:00 PM
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I'm not saying its right or wrong, but they seem normal accomplishments from someone who wasn't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 10:26 PM
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I realised girls think see guys relationships in a really different light. I have female friend who think I'm chad, that I never get rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:31 PM
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I'm curious to know where your self worth comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:16 PM
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I wonder where that comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 07:14 PM
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So much bullshit!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 10:38 AM
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Then again what you're saying its common sense no one has a problem understanding that, the problem comes when thing aren't obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 08:15 AM
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Girls that think I'm alright and are planning to change me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 08:58 PM
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The only times I blacked out all my friends thought I was sober. So your point doesn't make much sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 08:56 PM
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I main Lulu as a solo laner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 06:28 AM
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Maybe happy wasn't a good word to get my point across.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 06:18 PM
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Well what if he's doing keto? He would need more fat and that would be fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 06:17 PM
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I really thing that the abuse thing is normalised, even here you see peopel making of other for not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:51 AM
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That's my point actually. There's the 80/20 theory (which I don't agree with) and the counter to this is theory is that there are a lot of men happy in LTRs my argument was just because they are in relationships don't mean they are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:50 AM
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True, I was curious tho. Tbh I wouldn't care if the answeres weren't that serious. I mean I get what you're saying but I don't really think that's a majority of at least my generation. I would say people that are able to make it work without resentments are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:47 AM
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That's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:51 AM
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Well do you think everyone is at the same level of satisfacton in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:51 AM
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lol go for it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:50 AM
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Can you be 100% apart from yourself? The husband in the article could be seen as perfectly happy as well, I mean he has a wife that loves him and even corrects him when he's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:41 AM
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I swear I want an AMA, I'm so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:31 AM
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This is so dumb, who draws the line? can you tell exactly when someone blacked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:21 AM
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That's why I think it's BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:56 PM
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lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:43 PM
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It's definitely bs, but was an interesting read, I wonder how they come up with these stories, was he at the gym, saw a hot girl and imagined all that or did he created it from scratch.. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:39 PM
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lol so do you believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:20 PM
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Feminism it's actually growing on me, I mean I won't be a feminist any time soon, but I'm finding it really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:10 PM
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I'm not saying the story is true or not, but how is he a predator?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:03 PM
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I mean I used to have the same happened to me and I'm a man, I don't think that's gendered at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:59 PM
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theres usually 1-2 carry roles out of 5 so I don't get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 12:56 PM
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Your comprehension skills are bad at best. Rapes happen because there are some individuals who are so narcissistic that their impulses are important enough to them to justify sexually violating another person. Note that this has nothing to do with being male or female. It's not because some men think that being nice to females means that they deserve sex in return. That's exactly what he said. That's the reason rape is not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 03:19 PM
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You're basically saying men would make girlfriends of every women they sleep with? 100% disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 02:58 PM
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What you're basically saying is that men are evil because.. but women have their reasons to be evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 01:56 PM
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Animes mostly: Dragon ball, Hunter x hunter, Full Metal Alchemist. From Disney I jsut watched "Life with derek". I don't really believe the narrative that tv shows misguide men, I would think they misguide women more. If enough men are being misguided by this shows then I think its a more of society problem. Did you use them as a guide on dating and what did you learn? Were they presented by your parents as representing the reality of how dating works? I rarely watched anything romantic, so don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 04:03 PM
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I tried to avoid it anytime I could, I didn't really like it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 03:19 PM
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I have female "friends" but to be honest I'm not even sure they are my friends, I don't think any of my female friends (that I'm not having sex with) would pick me up at 4 am if I called unexpected while all of my male friends would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 02:50 AM
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I thoght he meant something like okcupid who's interested joins the sever if it was something mandatory than you're right. As a woman, that sounds like the stuff of nightmares. If it was mandatory it would be terrible for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:30 PM
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I didnt get that at all from the op, I mean I don't think that's any solution, I don't even think there's a problem, but if some people thinks it work for them how is it disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:04 PM
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it's not based on genetics but its based on everything else. If it's mandatory its completely ridiculous but I didn't get that from the op at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:00 PM
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How is that any different than okcupid that uses a an algorithm to match you with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 04:00 PM
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I'm not agreeing or disagreeing but how is this disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 03:36 PM
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Have you ever read or spoken with men with mental illnesses such as depression? There's even campaigns with hundreds of men's stories about how feeling like they couldn't discuss their problems made them worse and even suicidal because they couldn't reach out without feeling weak. I'm not sat here saying it's the only reason men commit suicide at alarming rates but it's a big factor. This has nothing to do with toxic masculinity though, as someone who was depressed, it was not because I wanted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 12:03 AM
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Validation? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 02:11 AM
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That's exctly what PUA is!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 02:10 AM
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That would change if it custody was 50/50. You can't compensate that making the father pay more. Edit: I was lazy earlier. I mean you can't really count things like rent, it makes no sense to enforce the father to pay half the rent in a place he's not living.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 07:17 PM
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If you can't rank people by your own criteria you should just marry the next guy you outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:08 PM
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They have no foundation, you just called everyone you disagree with misognystic and called it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 01:03 PM
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True I didn't notice it. Don't you think 900$(2 450 halfs) is enough to raise a child
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 05:12 AM
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What about the mother? She's supposed to pay the other half.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/17 04:53 AM
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ad hominem is not a valid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 01:37 PM
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Are you saying I can't have my own rank to categorise looks and personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 02:47 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 12:57 AM
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Where did you get that? in the storyline you rarely have to kill women. I actually don't remember anytime I had to, while I can't finish the game without killing men. The game is not supposed to be men killing women, have you played the game high? Do you know what a hack is? Because that's the biggest stretch I ever saw in an argument it would be the same thing as me saying rape culture doesn't exist and someone replied to me that they saw a rapist. That would be a hack in real life someone not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 11:31 AM
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Lol wtf no the point was sexism if another game wouldn't be sexist with the genders reverse, GTA is not sexist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 11:22 AM
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But even if it doesn't become a hate crime, do you really think policing language by law is correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 12:44 PM
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You know there's consequences or avoid ir or be clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 02:22 PM
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Seriously, women give 0 fucks and you should too. Just live life the way you want it, if you have a problem talk to your male friends, mine usually help me if I'm blindsided I think that's enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 10:32 PM
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Read the book from Norah Vincent. Here's the trailer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 10:29 PM
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Lol because I would stay with my wife if she described our sex to her friend? I couldn't give 2 shits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:25 AM
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If I talked lke that, I would be the one getting anally fucked next time. Why women want men to speak like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 10:46 AM
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A guy gets drunk and murder your parents, would you absolve them of any wrongdoing?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/08/17 08:37 AM
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I would too, but my money is important to me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 01:52 PM
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That's not my experience at all. The first 3 girls I had dates on tinder, they were literally in my house. The funny thing it was not even me suggesting, maybe Mancunians are just wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 10:48 PM
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On tinder is stupid, can you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:44 PM
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How can this even air lol. They demonise men so casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 03:19 PM
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I definetely think women suffer from sexism, I just don't think that they suffer more than men. I even think the same sexist attitudes that men and women suffer come from the same source, ignorance. I don't think those clients consciously thought "I'm not gonna trust a woman to do my job" they simply didn't trust them. This is mostly because if you adress and show how that was sexist (even if it isn't sexist "google manifesto"), society will punish those men. Seeing how TRPies think that women l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 02:47 PM
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I treat women way better than I treat men generally unless I'm trying to pick them up or if they disrespect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 02:19 PM
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Now I get why you're so tense all time, I was discussing ideas, trying to get your point, I even could relate on some of the things you said. I was trying to show what I was trying to say as well. You on the other hand have a "gotcha" mentality. Well there's way more posts around. Because you're saying because it happens to women as well then it means it' not gendered (the specific case I was talking about). Well police are killing blacks in the US but if they sometimes kill whites doesn't mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 02:09 PM
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Because you're saying because it happens to women as well then it means it' not gendered (the specific case I was talking about). Well police are killing blacks in the US but if they sometimes kill whites doesn't mean it wasn't gendered when they killed blacks. That was my whole point maybe you do agree maybe you don't, but it's not a string of nonsense. I talked about man flu because I thought you were saying it's rarely gendered and the fact that a word like that exists, it means that I have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 08:21 AM
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I explained why I think there's times it's a gendered issue, then I added manflu because it explains my point, why is that even a word?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 05:03 AM
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How do you explain man flu?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 10:41 PM
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once again it depends, if I look at your feelings and dismiss them because you're a man and you shouldn't be "whining" then its gendered. Also thing like men flu exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 10:39 AM
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Ofc women have problems with that too, I'm an example of that in the way that I lost attraction for my ex the way she handlled her broken foot. But I ended up enduring it because for me there wasn't another way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:49 AM
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I don't think like that at all, I was just giving examples. When I say fel like there's no plcace to them in the world, that makes sense in the sense men nowadays feel loss to find their vocation asap
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:47 AM
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I based the post after reading one post in r/askmen when most men there were saying they were all almost forced to open up just to get biten in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 08:23 PM
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Being emotional has to do of how you display the emotions you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 08:21 PM
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The researchers say the findings support an “evolutionary argument” that low-status men with low dominance have more to lose and are therefore more hostile to women who threaten their status in the social hierarchy. This doesn't apply only to women, they are more hostile to everyone. So that point is kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 08:20 PM
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It's not a leap but it ended the relationship when he opened up and that was my point. For you it's obviously all justified, but in my opinion if you're a man, you have no reason to open up it's dumb and you have no clue which leap she might do. I
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:58 PM
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The thing is I don't think they do, think about it, what other reason would they have to say every men is evil and still want them to join their cause (feminism). I can't insult someone who I know has feelings and then invite him to dinner to discuss how I can improve him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:53 PM
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Then maybe men should tell them. Not sure that's a good idea at all. read the comments on the r/askmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:50 PM
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Well I had an Ex who told me that, that was pretty surprising back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:49 PM
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I was obviously talking about relationships. Women definitely are concerned by the emotions of men in their lives, however. Have you read the op and the r/askmen link?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:47 PM
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With all due respect, unless you were there when he told her, and every time they were together since, you have no real idea what was and wasn't called for. And it certainly wasn't out of nowhere. That's not the point, he wasn't even talking about her, he had no clue why she broke up. I kinda figured it out and later on she told me what I told you. That he scared her, even though he wasn't talking about her, he was talking about his father and how his abandonment affeced his life. She took it pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 11:07 AM
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Oh definetely I agree with most of the things you said, mainly the 4th paragraph I've seen that being done too many times, people expect other people to change their whole behaviour based on one past experiences or traumas and make it so it excuses every current bad behaviour they have. But I still think a lot of women are not ready to see "their" men get emotional, because they don't expect it so deeply. I've seen it too many times. The example you used sometimes its used but in reverse, one of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:19 AM
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Then why are you putting "Highly emotional" and "violence" together?there's more emotions than anger. The way you phrased your sentence it made it seems like you're saying women leave men when they open up so they don't get killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 07:03 AM
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Are you saying that a men who opens himself emotionally is more prone to violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 06:48 AM
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Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:18 AM
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The thing is testosterone levels are decreasing drastically, I don't think most men nowadays have the privilege of being that confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:08 AM
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I agree, I just don't agree with men on average being confident especially when they have all this pressure to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:53 AM
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I know, but there are too many people (mostly women) who think open up is good adivce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:43 AM
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True. I'm doing way better now, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:43 AM
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Have you read the comments? I'm a guy and I have no idea how deep men's emotions run. Me neither. Seriously, you homos need to increase your testosterone or something. I'm not even trolling tonight, emotional men creep me the fuck out. Get your hormones checked I have emotions but I'm far from emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:30 AM
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That's good, mine resented me when I had panic attacks. While people like you exist, people like my ex exist too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:28 AM
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Now that there are more cameras we're seeing false accusations being exposed monthly, people talk about how actul rapists got away but forget about how many innocent men were wrongly convicted. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4761818/Security-footage-nightclub-clear-USC-student-rape.html This would be another guy convicted or expelled from university if there was no cameras. So I don't know how big is the problem neither do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 09:28 PM
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So you're saying men who try but still get rejected are confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:53 AM
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I'm not one of the ones who wants to fight for change, but even if I wanted to, there's a really bad stigma of being a male and a victim, if I posted on my Facebook that I was fighting for men's rights my life would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 08:04 PM
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If you're a woman, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 01:58 AM
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Lower standards don't mean unnactractive, I doubt men can have sex with women they can't have boners with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/17 01:48 AM
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I agree I just don't think its a good analogy because the OP was clearly talking about women who want casual sex. He was also criticizing the claim that women don't need to do anything in order to get sex. Maybe I just replied to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:50 PM
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It's implied, he talked about women who go out and get available for chad. Imagine if he said it like this "Eating fish it's an effort and it's not free, most people that you see eating fish had to fight for it (working, etc.)" and then the first comment would be, "oh but you're projecting because most people don't like fish".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:35 PM
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Men won't sleep with a woman he's not attracted to either. Analogy still makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:24 PM
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But if a girl sleeps with a random guy it mean she wants it, I can't see a straight man sleeping with another man. Analogy makes 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:29 PM
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I just don't understand why everytime there's someone saying that women who like casual sex make themselves pretty for Chad comes someone with a pointless analogy of how men are projecting, it's pretty obvious he's talking about women who like casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:27 PM
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He's not saying it's right or wrong i lost way earlier and I still feel like I missed a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 08:12 PM
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Every relationship I've been in all my exes tried to maniulate me somehow etc. Other thing I noticed is that if women (my exes) get their feling hurts, everything is justified to them like telling things they know it hurts you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 05:07 PM
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Sometimes I forget Saramago won a Nobel and think that people know about him outside of Portuguese speaking countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 09:31 PM
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Are you Portuguese?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 07:32 PM
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Lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 03:12 AM
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when men fail women/society they are sexist when it's the other way around its still men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 03:03 AM
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This. Even if I try to cry I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 02:19 AM
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Seriously I'm not sure if she's trolling or if she's that delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:36 AM
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Basically the problems affecting men are they are inferior to women. That's why I can't take feminism seriously, this question was so simple but you managed to fuck it up. I mean if it was women staying behind at education it would be sexism, but now that it's men, it's because men are lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:19 AM
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Lol fighting is just swinging arms madly now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:08 PM
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Well, ok. I'm actually watching league right now lol, it's my guilty pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:34 PM
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Everyone keeps mentioning the bathroom while I think it's uncomfortable I don't think that changed anything, what changed was the fact that she gave a poor hj and hated the experience, if it was good the bathroom wouldn't matter. My impression is she's in a worse state than he is. This is just your bias, you can empathize with women easier that's all. I'm not saying this like you hate men or anything it's just bias, because if he was so well he wouldn't vent in Reddit to begin with. I hear this …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:20 PM
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He was upset too, isn't that obvious? If I leave someone without saying anything, later when I'm calm I would call and explain why I left them hanging and I would apologize no matter how much experience any of us had.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:07 PM
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But she's the one who left? Edit: I mean I go on a date with a girl I fucked up somehow, she leaves me there and I'm the one who should call?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:02 PM
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I agree, but my simpathy go for both, for the men for being clueless and the woman for being in pain. Like I do in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 06:00 PM
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I mean if I see an old lady struggling carrying her groceries I can help her (I usually do) that would be the nice thing to do, but if don't it won't make me wrong. This is my opinion. Everything you saying applies to her. Me as a men if I had the reverse experience I would be calling her to know if she was hurt and if everything was okay even apologize if I hurt her. Don't you think he would feel better if got a text like that as well? When you say I putting men Vs women is just me not dismissi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 05:55 PM
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After sometime I know what we're disagreeing with. You think if he doesn't do a nice thing he's doing wrong while if think if he doesn't do the nice thing it doesn't make him necessarily wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 05:42 PM
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I'm not projecting I'm doing the same thing you're doing, trying to empathise. <If you express you're being hurt, and someone don't listen and just keeps doing it the way they want, they're a pathetic asshole that should be dumped asap. End of. Agree. Again I'm not saying she did it on purpose.. My impression of the situation is that something that should be done on her terms and for her, was made entirely about him and his pleasure. Something I can understand, but that in hindsight might be wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 05:17 PM
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I was not talking about her case in specific, I was just saying he has feelings too that's my whole point, if someone hurt me already I would still being hurt especially in such a sensitive place, so anything else would be painful. I had a similar experience when she got mad everytime I "corrected" her. She got mad at me years passed and today no one can convince me I did nothing wrong. My point maintains it was a shit situation he should do it in a better place, he tried to make her comfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 05:00 PM
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I'm not making men Vs women at all anymore. Well it depends of how things went if I was bleeding I had no intention of putting how she's feeling before how I'm feeling, there's just no shaming that would made me feel bad for her before me specially if I was hurting. I don't get how is this hard to get to anyone. This is when you say I'm making this men Vs women, but I think it's the only way people can understand my point, I doubt a girl with vaginal pain would put someone's feelings over her es…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:39 PM
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How is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:24 PM
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I didn't mention this before because I didn't want to bring the conversation that way, but she has agency, he mentioned the bathroom one time while I think it's bad as well, she could still say no. He thought he was about to kill two birds with one stone. She would kill her curiosity while he would get pleasure somehow. It obviously backfired, but is that wrong? If a female friend made me a similar proposal should I go there not thinking how I would feel at all? Just so she could experiment with…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:17 PM
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Again, I'm not saying he should expect better, I'll I'm saying is he shouldn't be bashed for what happen. When he even tried to make it right and make her comfortable. He did everything he could, I doubt he wanted to continue for 3 more minutes, I'm assuming but the only reason he would do it is because he wouldn't want to hurt her feelings. Even then people say he should do more to protect her emotionally, it's like we men sometimes have to put up with weird things girls do in the bedroom becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:03 PM
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Seriously I don't get how people don't get this. I see this everywhere I see men getting beaten by women and people suggesting she might had emotional reasons to do it, but if he hits back he's on the wrong because violence is not reason to more violence (which I agree)but for some reason emotional distress is the worst offense in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 03:35 PM
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I don't think you get my point, I'm not saying that she did it on purpose, I'm not even saying he deserved better. What I don't get is why should he be bashed and why should he apologise, he tried to guide her (his own words) even demostrated, she couldn't follow and ended up hurting him. You say you can empathise with men (I have no reason to doubt that), so how can he be in pain and his first thought be going after her? Dont you think he could be there and start asking himself if she's hurtin …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 03:31 PM
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This last saturday I've been with an unexperienced guy, when it came to getting intimate he just fingered me mercilessly like he learned everything from porn, It was hurting really badly, I tried to teached him but he got annoyed but ended up moving a bit, I got really dried to the point I couldn't stand it anymore, he got pissed and left the room. Who would you be defending?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 03:22 PM
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This last saturday I've been with an unexperienced guy, when it came to getting intimate he just fingered me mercilessly like he learned everything from porn, It was hurting really badly, I tried to teached him but he got annoyed but ended up moving a bit, I got really dried to the point I couldn't stand it anymore, he got upset and left the room. Now you can answer who you would defend. Example above. Again, I have empathy for it not being pleasent. But the location, and his way of going about …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 03:10 PM
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Would you agree with sorry if she apologised for hurting him too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:56 PM
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For the ones downvoting me, I'd like to see the comments if the genders were reveresed. Imagine it was something like this: This last saturday I've been with an unexperienced guy, when it came to getting intimate he just fingered me mercilessly like he learned everything from porn, It was hurting really badly, I tried to teached him but he got annoyed but ended up moving a bit, I got really dried to the point I couldn't stand it anymore, he got pissed and left the room. Who would you be defendin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:51 PM
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Ok I don't agree, but I see your point. In my opinion no one should apologise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:48 PM
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But how was he the one coercing into something if she was the one suggesting the blowjob?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:30 PM
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Oh, I'm lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:21 PM
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My edit on the r/sex thread For the ones downvoting me, I'd like to see the comments if the genders were reveresed. Imagine it was something like this: This last saturday I've been with an unexperienced guy, when it came to getting intimate he just fingered me mercilessly like he learned everything from porn, I tried to teached him but he got annoyed but moved a bit, I got really dried to the point I couldn't stand it anymore, he got pissed and left the room. Who would you be defending? You woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:20 PM
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I don't get why he's getting hated at all, I'm not saying she's right or he's wrong but damn..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:10 PM
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True but why are people blaming him and ask him to apologise?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:07 PM
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Lol this actually hits home, I had a similar experience and decided that I hated handjobs for years, I was sore for 2 weeks. The worst was she thought I should be gratefull and cum from that massacre.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:54 PM
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I guess to not hurt her feelings, what other reason would it make him stand 3 minutes of torture?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:45 PM
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Every comment is bashing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:42 PM
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That made me cringe too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:42 PM
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He did say he corrected her and she acted annoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:41 PM
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Before I would be annoyed at people who would be angry at you because of your constant questions, but seriously you need to go outside and socialize if you try to learn every detail of relationships with that detail you'll come across as autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 09:03 PM
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But if something like onetis and tingles exist to TRP, it mean feelings are real. Not believing in a certain love doesn't mean is not a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 01:37 PM
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If feeling aren't real how can you manipulate people with them?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:29 AM
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Howdo you know he didn't, this is about how did become red pill not how he became a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:25 AM
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If they are noo better or mo worse why does it matter where it comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:20 AM
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Even if that's true how is one more immoral than the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 02:26 PM
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Lol I have women calling me an asshole for not giving my place in a queue and things like that all the time. Things that most guys wouldn't even ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:34 AM
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What do you mean especially when men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:21 AM
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That's not good above at all, women find it offensive when men treat them like they would other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 08:06 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:51 PM
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How did you reach that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:37 PM
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How did you reach that conclusion? I said again, because is not the first time you dump links without reading them and without pointing out what's wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:32 PM
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I have nothing against your argument, but the "real men" st101 was not needed in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:31 PM
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Here it comes the "Real men" shaming tatic 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 12:24 PM
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Lol again?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 12:19 PM
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I can't really watch a 12 mins video on feminism at 3am. I'll watch it tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 02:07 AM
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I'm addicted to League for 6 years :S. Still EU>NA!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 08:58 PM
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Nope. That's your projection. And how terpers justify hating half the planet. TRP doesn't affect me. It's a weird corner of the internet that I peek in on from time to time. No projection at all, you're just showing it in every comment. But yeah, I'm sure your hatred of feminism is irrational and misinformed If you don't think you're bias you have to take a good look at yourself. So you have every reason to hate on trp and the image you created on it, but if for some reason I hate feminism I'm m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 12:17 AM
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You're in the anger phase. Like how feminism made me feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:33 PM
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So much anger. You seem more angry then the trp sub. Blue pill would suit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:50 PM
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According to Heartiste "I like your clothes" is a shit-test. It could be tho, just imagine a confident guy with some awkward clothes, weird color, shorts too short, etc. If she says that and becomes insecure about his pink polo, the attraction is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:36 PM
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I would at 20 without any second guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:17 PM
1

True but pick up can actually become you while make up not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 04:45 PM
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Why do you say tricked? What specifically was manipulation, what did you do that you really didn't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:20 PM
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Well you're could say skilled as well for the PUAs, Make up artists could be smart for applying it. Still you didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:19 PM
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Are men who fall for Make up naive or are women make up artists smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 12:04 PM
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Before I even discovered this side of the internet, I used to go out with friends all the time and try to pick up girls. Until pick up videos started happening and I just realise no one gives a fuck if he's rejected or if he's not. Real eye opener of me at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 11:51 PM
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You still don't get it, morality being different, doesn't mean it's worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 04:44 PM
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This is what sounds like. The thoughts that they probably were maniupulated at ome point is terrifying for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:57 PM
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1) How would you rate yourself physically, 1-10? Can you find a picture of someone with similar SMV as yourself? Can you find a picture of your hairstyle? Clothing style? 6/10 At least I'm tall, I'm 1.88 90kg. Apparently this guy looks like me 2) Are you overweight? No. 3) How many casual sex partners have you had? 9-15. 4) How many romantic relationships have you had? 2 5) What social hobbies and activities do you engage in? Football (soccer), fighting sports, video games, clubbing? 6) Did you …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 09:43 AM
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Is not logical because is not easy to know. A 43yo male doctor or 29yo male soldier are both on a sinking both who is the most responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:57 PM
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Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:48 PM
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0 apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:48 PM
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And why do this "mental superior people" have to be "more moral"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:41 PM
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You said mentally superior people, you're just double talking now. No, mental superior people are people and they dont have to be "more moral" (I have no clue of what this means) then other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:36 PM
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You ignored everything I said. Also, TRPillers say that women are mentally inferior people, therefore men will always be the more morally responsible for this. This makes no sense, mentally superior people are not hold to higher moral levesl, do we demand geniouses to be more morally responsible? What TRPillers do is similar to encouraging suicidal people to kill themselves. What??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:31 PM
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I'm really not, you think is the responsibility of the men to warn the woman of some hypothetical scenario. The billionaire is aware of the consequences of his actions, these women are not. Society labels women who sleep around sluts, but you're saying women are not aware of this. As I said before is not that rp men are playing dumb or giving your fake answers, you just can't accept different answers from what you want to hear. So if I'm on a diet and my friends knows this and still invites me t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:24 PM
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Not really, How could he be aware of cold winter nights when he always had a heater?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:14 PM
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Helping someone skip classes is unlikely to permanently damage them. What is damaged for you? if a billionaire gives you his fortune so he goes live in nature would you be immoral to accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:09 PM
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Are they immoral or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:02 PM
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Are tobacco companies Immoral? Are they immoral or not? Imagine a friend is skipping classes to help you move out, are you being immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:00 PM
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Are tobacco companies Imoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:55 PM
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Because I don't believe that, plus I don't believe I should make a choice for others,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:54 PM
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I lean red but this post doesn't make any sense. Would be the same as me saying "feminist belive all men are rapist" and then ask you to defend yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:46 PM
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Or you're not open to anything else, you want reds to share minds but that simply doesn't happen. I lean red and I won't ever see casual sex as immoral regardless of any shaming tatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 01:41 PM
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19/36 Feels bad to be the only one!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 12:00 PM
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So basically women have no agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:42 PM
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But that's like everything, I spent money with her but she ended things it happens. Sometimes we still had a good time sometimes we didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 08:37 PM
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it was bad, but not because of the sex. What if the sex was good but the relationship sucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 07:56 PM
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This sounds o ridiculous to me, you know women get to keep their vaginas right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 12:30 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 12:26 PM
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Nah I can lower my standards but 100% unattractive is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 08:38 AM
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I still think it's really common and its not exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 03:14 PM
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Wait what? Is that weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 02:28 PM
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She gave him an oppurtunity to do something, she said it was ok. He still fucked it up. Do you want her to have sex with him out of pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 08:02 PM
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fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 08:00 PM
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one hour and a half.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:35 PM
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Are you saying that you're right and I'm wrong? Not at all. Glad you enjoy discussion and listening. You learn more that way. You should try it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 07:34 PM
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Just because you don't like the conclusions people draw from TRP doesn't mean they're incorrect. So you're right and I'm wrong? So why are you here? I enjoy discussion, but I actually like to listen too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:28 PM
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You like to argue other people or your own assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:22 PM
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This is not a good message at all, this scare men the same way TRP scares women because of the tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:09 PM
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Why are you on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:07 PM
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They subscribe to a belief system that says it doesn't exist. Where does it say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:01 PM
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Seriously that's why I sometimes think feminism is just trolling, do they just sit, discuss and reach the conclusion that this is a good idea? This doesn't sound like discussion this sounds like punishment!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:00 PM
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So do you think every rpiller has the same personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 05:56 PM
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I got your point a while ago, it just doesn't make much sense to me. So you're saying religious people can't understand nuance because of their belief system?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 05:51 PM
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ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 05:46 PM
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He wanted sex but didn't try, it's his own fault. She was pretty nice actually, most girls won't tell what went wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 04:49 PM
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lol ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 09:25 PM
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trpexplaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 08:56 PM
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You know you can use nuance in somethings and don't use in others right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 08:41 PM
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That's some really long stretch, one thing is not to care another thing is to not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 07:53 PM
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How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:49 PM
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lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 12:24 PM
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The same feminists that say that men are more agressive, I don't know why people think agressiveness it's a physical trait instead of a psychological one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 12:53 AM
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Forced meaning as in "be yourself" means "be the best version of yoursef" When anyone could interpret it in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:51 PM
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agreed but he obviously has been actively sabotaging his chances of forgiveness. He's mentally ill, the only way I can describe porn addiction, it's an ilness and it has nothing to do with RP. I don't think you get how most of this works maybe you're just a naive person drawn into a cult idk. I'm purple, but I actually like debate. You asked how red pill promotes belittling women, I answered. Yes, I don't agree with your meaning on those things, but theres no point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:21 PM
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I think if the relationship is doing nothing but hurting both of them then one should walk away. Of course it's him that's doing nothing but hurting both of them but you know she has to share in it. My way of looking at it is the way dreadtm is supposed to work according to the red pill so maybe you're more blue than you think. If she thinks she will nevr forgive him end the relationship, thats my opinion on that. I think red pill women are lazy women who want to be led. I don't actually think, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 03:02 PM
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For how long should he make amends that was my question? when will it be enough, for you he should amend his entire life, I don't agree with you on that. how is that not an attempt make her insecure or worry about his loyalty? Of which he already has shown he has none. As I told you that's one way of you looking at it, the other one is you know improve himself wich for some reason you think it's wrong. I didn't say anything about racism in regards to the red pill. Misogyny has no racial boundari…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:40 PM
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When did I defend him, I'm just saying you can't say he's being mysognistic or that he's lowering his wife self esteem, because he isn't, at least we can't see that from what he wote. Even though he made a mistake it doesn't mean he can't improve himself (you said he shouldnt improve himself anymore because he made a mistake, that's just so ridiculous.) I think you have a big problem in your everyday logic. You can't isolate anything, if he cheated (which I find wrong) it means he's woman hater,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:13 PM
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ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:43 PM
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You lack common sense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:21 PM
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This was literally the most voted comment. You have been beta your whole life. Not just beta, but not a leader, not that guy she could depend on. You forced her to take the lead of the family while you wanked off. Had an affair, then another, then wanked off some more. The fact that she came back to your bedroom and was having regular sex with you; well, it is a credit to her desire to make it work. Your improvements are short lived, inconsistent, and in the stream of your relationship with your…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:19 PM
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Why are you here then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:46 PM
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You already quoted this so you should know that he did in fact do those things and all of them are suspicious He shouldn't work out, groom, buy new clothes and go out more? WTF He should have no self worth he's a porn addict who cheated on his wife. WTF? So he should be a slave until he amends for all his sins? She can do whatever she wants now because at one point in time he made a mistake. When does this period ends? Those are all encouraged red pill behaviors and dogma that have produced my s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:46 PM
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Can you show me a link of someone recommending cheating on rp? Rp is amoral and its up to the person to decide their own morality, people will cheat regardless if they are red or blue, depending on their morality. es anyone who claims they're "woke" and see the world for what it really is and now hates on women and tries justify it by a list of made up characteristics and while still simultaneously being obsessed with women is an asshole; and anyone who engages in activity meant instill insecuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:36 PM
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I don't debate like that if he said he's trying to make his wife jealou I would agree with you. I was ready to agree with you before opening the links because they were many and I was sure, they had some merit. I don't think you would be complaining if those posts were in a different subreddit, you're seeing everything with hate glasses that's it. He's going out, dressing up, and lifting, even kids know that's a sign of infidelity because they've seen the Incredibles and know that made Mrs Incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:33 PM
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So are girls who cheat automatically red too? I give up on you, if he did something bed before he knew what rp was he was defitely red. So everyone who cheats is red is that what you're saying? Edit: I don't really think you're here for a debate, you're just trolling or something and that makes me understand the mindset of some blues too, there's no way you could see someone grooming and think he's pretending that he's cheating. So if someone says he's red, he is automatically an asshole indepen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:20 PM
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I don't actually think you it's worth to debate this anymore, you're really close minded. and now you're acting like you're cheating Again this are your own words. Obviously you can't remove your bias to anything red, if you took that from what the op said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:18 PM
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Lol I don't think you read any thing he wrote, but he specifically said that he cheated when he was blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:04 PM
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Been working out again, grooming myself better, buying new clothes, going out more This is the red pill tatics he described(dread), the rest is just you reading between the lines and failing to make sense. Can tell me what is wrong with grooming, buying better clothes and going out more?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 12:03 PM
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And you're forgetting about the "forced meaning" that bp advice supposedly have when it could be applied in different ways. Is very debatable if the extreme stuff is the majority, I actually don't think it's the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 07:18 AM
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Why you use common sense to one and not the other? That's what I dont get it. You just proved my point too. In RP for you common sense doesn't apply, you don't see your double standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:54 AM
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No that's just dishonest. Be yourself could also mean be awkward, don't change, don't improve yourself people have to accept who you and you shouldnt change for anyone. That's because the extreme views are a problem. We don't really care about our notice the milder stuff. If someone thinking fuckin his wife's best friend is reasonable you wouldnt change his mind, so why debate? You can't say you don't care about the milder stuff and then say rp is useless and don't work and is just women hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:26 AM
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If you want people to see red pill for a more nuanced point of view, you need to stop the promotion of extreme points of view instead. I don't share brain with anyone tho. My point is most blues just pick a extreme view and call it a day. This doesn't help any debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:04 AM
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That isn't quite what was said in that post. The idea was that "be yourself, but follow social norms" is perfectly acceptable advice for the majority of the population. What about the ones who don't get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:02 AM
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Do you think a woman playing hard to get is as nocive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:33 PM
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I'm just saying that if blues can read "be your best self" in "be yourself" and say it's good advice, then assume trp can't have any nuance is dishonest, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:31 PM
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Ok, what's bad with the first one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:28 PM
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Wow lol I read the first 2 and I don't know if you're actually serious or if you're reading between the lines and assuming the worse in everything they say. I've been working on dread. Been working out again, grooming myself better, buying new clothes, going out more. I feel good, and between this and reading TRP it's made me realise that if this doesn't work out I have options. I am 36, I earn good money, I am not a bad looking guy. I consider that 20something women would be comfortably within …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:09 PM
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of course there is, getting busy, going to the gym more, free time for one of your hobbies (passive dread) is completely different then to flirt with a woman in front of your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 10:01 PM
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wich is fair, my point was if you understand nuance exist, why are blues sayin their advice works if you understand nuance? why is this different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:56 PM
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Because if you say things have nuance it should work both ways. As you clearly showing now. If you can interpret it in the worst extreme you could clearly do it in the best extreme as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:49 PM
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Look, red pill is all about extremes and over compensating for perceived (or real) lack. If you're not into extremes, red pill might not be for you. You just told me is amoral? So why is not for me? As we have all different morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 06:11 PM
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Don't you think the examples of the post are extremes too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:16 PM
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Can you link some?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:10 PM
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I consider myself purple but it's a bot tiring debating the same things over and over again strawmen don't hep any side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:39 PM
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I'm starting to agree with you. I'm here for more then 6 months now and the straw man is the same, they didnt even bother to change the clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:15 PM
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Thank you for your amazing contribuiton.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:15 PM
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But do you know what does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:44 PM
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This, I agree with this, but I see too many BPs calling people who didnt catch nuance in that specific use case (bp advices) dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:43 PM
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are you at least aware this is a straw man? Where do you see shaming being promoted? You know negging is often just flirting but i can understand how you may see it diferently, but dread and amused mastery i have no clue on how they are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:08 PM
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I'm like that too, I rarely bail out after sex, only if it was terrible. So it's time to get to know eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:32 PM
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This is not men vs women. It's just a not compatible situation on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:14 PM
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You were the one making about incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:09 PM
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One of the weirdest ideas I've read about in the pillsphere is that if one woman says she likes sweet, sensitive poet types and another woman sleeps with a convicted murderer it means all women are lying hypocrites who secretly want the bad boy. This again? I hear more bps talking about it than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:07 PM
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Seriously people you all need a break from reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:06 PM
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How is that a good point? If my teachers explained me something that I would have to research after would that be good adivce? I seriously don't get how people don't get this, you learned it good for you. But why the outrage for people who didnt?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:21 PM
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Thats good until your girlfriend resent you for being emotional or depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:14 PM
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This is the reason you left and the reason I "joined". I was feeling like every relationship I had girls thought they fulfilled their part by having a vagina and I should be grateful for it. Every time I would ask help externally to fix something in the relationship, I would hear that I'm not comunicating enough that I should do this and that. At what price tho? My hapiness was never questioned, just the ways i could improve my ex girlfriends lives and this was coming by people I knew too. I had…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:12 PM
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How did you get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:50 AM
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So everyone that frequents eli5 is dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 05:25 PM
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How do you think trp talk to women? I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 05:23 PM
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I don't agree with anything he wrote. Like 0. It's a pointless debate at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:47 PM
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It's really not, if you want to get somewhere (wherever it may be) a debate sub won't help you. I'm just saying once you figure it out, just stick to it for awhile before you turn to the debate sub again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 12:06 PM
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Sometimes I wonder why you just don't post at r/tbp I mean. You won't convert anyone who doesn't want to be converted, people here are on a debate sub, because they are somehow open minded, but you keep debating a strawman all this time. What's your end goal here? Tell everyone how awful trp is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 11:53 AM
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Choose a side and roll with it, second guessing yourself and self doubt won't help you rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 11:50 AM
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This is how I see most BP relationships. http://www.tickld.com/x/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 04:15 AM
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I see, sorry then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 04:13 AM
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You're debating more TRP that what he's saying as usual in this sub. Be yourself it never means take action.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 03:01 AM
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And the attempt on shaming begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:58 AM
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yes, but if you tell to someone who's not charismatic to be themselves is that good advice? How is this hard to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:56 AM
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You did fine, what about the people who didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:51 AM
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The responses and the fact the push up bras, heels, make up are all acceptable but a men who wants to appear taller is disgusting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 01:59 PM
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1: My older cousins, they were all players, they still are honestly. (I lived with them) 2: They were all red pill af, most of the time were just them explaining and telling their experiences. 3: it was very positive in the first years of my teenage years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 10:24 PM
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How did you get girls if you were awkward af? Are you super good-looking? Not at all, I'm average, at least I'm tall. I couldn't parse the meaning of this sentence. Can you rephrase it and expand on it? I was always getting into fights or having arguments with teachers if I felt I was being wronged, as I grew older I stopped picking every fight I had the chance to. It's why I said I was awkward, I couldn't understand why someone would say they hated the way someone treated them but wouldn't do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 09:30 PM
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1: Male. 2: I was literally suspended half of the time and the other half was actually cool, good grades, etc. I played futsal (indoor soccer) so I was always somehow popular, I was awkward af but managed to get girls regardless. 3: N/A. 4: I should stop standing for my self all the time sometimes is better to let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 09:06 PM
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I'm literally so confused reading this? I don't think the majority of men want to hit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 06:55 AM
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What do you call it when a boy is interested in taking dance lessons, but he's worried his friends and family will think he's a pussy? I just had dance classes recently, no one gave a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 07:57 PM
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Because crying isn't just used that way..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 07:28 PM
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I read it some article that i can't find now that encouraged woman to seduce their man when they knew they did something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 07:27 PM
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I could say you could say no to all trp principles and there would be no problems in the world, why are we even debating in this sub? 'm not even going to acknowledge the last one because you're a fucking idiot. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 07:26 PM
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what you are it's irrelavant, but you can't have a problem with one and not with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:10 AM
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what do you think about seducing a man when he's mad at you? Is that moral? what do you think about withholding sex? What do you think about crying when you know you're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 03:04 AM
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have you ever read the side bar? at this point this arguments just get annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 02:50 AM
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They do it all the time the same way trp does it. If they say pick a sexy lingerie to seduce him you see no harm, but for some reason if trp brings game to the conversation it's some kind of maniupulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 02:48 AM
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That's good on you. I will protect my self tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 02:45 AM
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You're assuming I'm sexist or something but I'm not. I didn't have anything happened to me personally but from what I saw I knew I had to deal with women differently if I wanted to keep my job. Thankfully I work alone now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 02:16 PM
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that becomes a problem when you can't criticise a woman's work like you would a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:16 PM
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If companies do that they will naturally fall behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:13 PM
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Walking aroung eggshells in a job with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:12 PM
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they have when every company is forced to enforce that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:01 PM
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I don't get how discriminating people based on merit is a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 01:00 PM
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Since a smart, confident, mature woman won't fall for it fall for what specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:33 PM
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She isn't yours; it's just your turn Where is the shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 08:06 PM
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I can respect women feminists easily especially when they are aware from what they're doing but men feminists...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:32 PM
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What culture encourage men to be abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:29 PM
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I'm not saying what you're saying doesn't happen. I've seen a lot of it actually, but they were never ok, they were still suspicious, mad and jealous. So if someone keeps getting hurt so they can keep their bfs etc. They have low self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 11:13 PM
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So you're saying some women are ok with cheating as long a no one knows? If it's planned beforehand between the two is not called cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:54 PM
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I think you're confused with the word cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:47 PM
2

I would say it's only a lack of self respect if she had stayed with him after the whole business was out in the open... Then it would be admitting she cannot do better. Admit to who? If she's comfortable enough to let her boyfriend have affairs why would it be open to the public the deal breaker? if it wasn't a deal breaker in private how would it be in public? It would be the same as someone stealing everday from a shop and be considered a person with integrity and only a "bad" person when peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:55 PM
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It would be normal if it was something planned, but if he was specifically cheating and she puts up with it she doesn't have self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:51 PM
1

But is that an MRM deology? "Our actions won't have consequences"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 04:26 PM
2

Guys who don't buy drinks are deadbeat? What does not buying drinks has to do with the MRM?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:22 PM
5

I like how when women say they don't dress to any men just themselves, they are not liars but for some reason if men don't give an answer you want to hear he's a liar all of a sudden.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 02:55 PM
2

The only thing we disagree on is that I belive a person can both dislike catcalling and lewd gendered insults in a public setting yet become turned on by them in a private sexual context. I don't disagre with this at all. I just don't like the lying if a girls says she finds submissive women pathetic and then demand me to dominate her in bed I'll lose all respect for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 09:04 AM
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so it's naive to assume a man will assume that a woman who just told you earlier she hates being humiliated because she's strong and independent ask you to call her a little slut (this actually happened). it was not me that assumed it, it was her. I lost respect immediatelly. If someone says something and acts in different way she's being dishonest. I don't really think there's any nuance here just lack of self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:31 AM
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It's called consensual fantasy play. Cause I have no say? How did I consent? In the end of the day that can make me uncoftable as well or men have no say? you're missing my point, because it makes sense in your mind and it's so common doesn't mean it makes sense in mine. As we can see here (PPD) men and women have different communication styles, so it's naive to assume a man will assume a woman who just told you earlier she hates being humiliated because she's strong and independent ask you to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:15 AM
1

Seems like they care about truth when they're the ones being lied to... Then how did you reach this conclusion on this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:57 AM
1

Every relationship in the "good wife" paints men in a terrible light I stopped watching it because I was getting "triggered" all the time. I found it funny because I had a friend who tought exactly the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:09 AM
1

lool?? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:02 AM
1

Was this really what you got from the replies? It seems to me that you were disappointed in the answer you got, but still want to believe lying is RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:01 AM
1

This actually needs to be explained, if a woman say she doesn't like slut shaming why would she all of a sudden say she's my whore? It doesn't make any sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 03:10 AM
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I don't really think women empathise with men, yes, even outside PPD and I'm saying this as a man and not as an RPiller. I had a converation with one of my close femae friends and she admitted that woman don't feel empathy for men because men don't show emotion like they do it's life she felt as if we don't have emotions. I coudn't feel empathy inside of a relationship, so I'm not even expecting it anywhere outside of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:47 PM
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Stop generalizing This was your comment an hour ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:32 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 03:07 PM
1

lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 03:05 PM
1

I like how you say sexism vs men is less than woman then say men have no empathy for women problems.. Imagine you're angry you dont eat for 4 days and someone comes and tells you hunger in africa is worse, That's exactly what you're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:27 AM
2

I think it's correct but honestly the majority of subs are circle jerks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:47 PM
9

I like how weekends for dads == Custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:39 PM
2

I mean I agree with you in the sense they don't know how but I don't think that's malicious. I was raised by a singe mother and she's the best person in I can think of, he never bad talk my dad even tho he didn't give no shits, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 02:24 AM
1

Wait men not crying is a societal brainwash? That's new to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 11:28 AM
1

It's fine to be disappointed in the outcome. But it's not fine to lambaste the person who didn't give you what you wanted, when they did not owe it to you. I agree with you, I just don't think it's entitlement. Let's agree to disagree. Edit: I think it's normal to have expectations and it's normal to be disappointed if we don't meet our expectations. If we lash out at somebody else it becomes a problem we both agree at this point, but we called it different things. I call it anger, because if sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:20 PM
1

What is entitlement to you? If I go talk to a girl I expect something out of it even if it's just to lift my mood does this make me entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:29 PM
1

He tried to win he couldn't and he got angry and tried to protect his ego. This is my version.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:02 PM
1

Well I just finished an online game 4 minutes ago, where my opponent called me trash and told me I was just lucky etc. Was he entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:44 PM
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which happens a lot too, but doesnt make them entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:50 PM
2

So my gf abused me because she prefered when I had short hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:58 AM
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Your football team plays, they lose. You scream at them for losing, are you entitled or angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:52 AM
1

No one is saying that is right and wrong. We're just saying is not entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:51 AM
1

How do you disagree? If you curse your team after they lose how does it make you entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:49 AM
3

How is he entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:46 AM
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Oh I agree with you. I don't think those words are needed to get his point across. I was just saying how his points still stands (not that its right or wrong) and how I still dont find it misognystic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:33 PM
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Again, if you switch the words "bitch and moan" for "complain" there's nothing wrong with the sentence, even if you disagree with what he's saying it's a huge stretch to say he's being misgnystic. I guess I am reading between the lines too much... I find this too common here, everytime I'm arguing with someone they are debating my character (at least their notion of my character) instead of my logic. Again comes to what I said earlir in this comment threa "So showing hostility for everyone who r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:01 PM
1

Can you pick one and explain what's misognystic about it? I just don't see it. feminism (which in my definition is about sorting out women's issues first and foremost, not men and women's issues - but I know this is not everyone's definition) if you can understand this, you should understand how not all rp are the same. making assumptions of what we believe without backing it up This is a debate on subjective issues kinda hard to back it up on both sides. Saying we have lots of advantages and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:52 PM
1

Can you point out whats misognystic about them? Are you referring to the op or to the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:07 PM
2

Surprised that there are some women on this sub that do see both sides, which is refreshing This was definitely refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:37 PM
2

What are this misognystic wordking you talk about? Can you show some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:26 PM
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I mean I said that, I don't really feel, like searching for it right now, I'll do when I get home. People here forget that we are in a debate sub, if red here were all mysognistic they wouldn't bother being here. So showing hostility for everyone who represents a different pill doesn't make much sense to me unless you're disproving his point. How do women lack empathy for men? Have you seen any man raise a problem here, he will just be shame for it. Shame because he didn't get it, He must not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:13 PM
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Good thing we're in automod. If you read the article you would understand what I mean, this behaviour is cultivated in socieity everyone thinks it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:06 PM
1

Did you read the article?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:00 PM
1

My bad then. Though I still think it can be applied that behaviour is so normal in experience that most people don't know they are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:45 PM
1

As as real life cruelty though, what about all the women who say they are happily partnered and attracted to their spouses/boyfriends? Do they sway your opinion at all? It was obviously a direct answer to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:39 PM
2

Most supposedley happy relationships I see in real life are like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:24 PM
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Actualy I've seen both. It's somewhat justified by how this people (men they don't agree with) make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:02 PM
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Well I was about to write good things that suprised me, but to match the mirror thread I'll follow their example. How easily they shame men, I always thought it was the women I knew, I didn't know it was global. They have 0 empathy for men. How they act as a group in general, men for some reason don't do this. How common they double talk here. How society had no say in their lifes, they learned everything by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:54 PM
1

No! but is he supposed to be RP? The only thing RP about it are 1 and 5 the others are poor strawmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:34 AM
1

Read r/niceguys. Some of them say things like "you're a ho anyways, bitch" when they get rejected. The ones posted. Most of things I read on there are making my point valid, they are clueless. Who takes flowers to a strip club? "You're a ho anyways, bitch" As I can tell is just a stupid ego protector. Definitely not right. In the real world, there's no right thing or wrong thing to get women, there's no formula. A supermodel could be rejected by the guy of her dreams. I was taught the same thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:13 AM
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I think people don't get nice guys at all. I know at least 2 nice guys I grew up with them. Both were raised in a really traditional christian households, they never broke any rules, they had 0 malice in them. They reached the age they were attracted to woman, they made some friendships with some, they gave them the world and still got rejected. Yes they became disappointed and frustrated. There's nothing wrong with that reaction at all. Mainly because they thought they were doing the right thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:54 AM
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No, I was slapped twice by 2 different girls. The thing is even tho I look like the most chilled person ever, I got the worst temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:44 AM
1

It's like saying someone who saw make up tutorials of make up or fashion on youtube are worst that ones that teached themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:28 AM
1

On my short time here, I can tell you're the most open minded blue of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:26 AM
1

I really find surprising the amount of trp you all find in real life. Second 5% of the people that go to the gym are body builders.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:55 PM
1

Double talk once again. He writes a handfull and you pick something you don't like proceed to mraxplain and add something no one talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:22 PM
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Toxic femininity is manipulation, shaming and deflecting blame. This was basically women brainwashed by "patriarchy". Just a way to imply it exists but still blaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:40 AM
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ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:32 AM
3

Men deal with emotions worse than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:10 AM
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I know more women do it than men. Men usally (mostly friend) are just seeing another potential FWB or ONS. Women in my group of friends are usually the ones bad mouthing them. Yes, but I dont think that's a compliment, Unless is not bashing other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 11:21 PM
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Men are more logical but it doesn't mean they are more inteligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 11:19 PM
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I understand that, she was more like how she knows how women think and they were all to get me (lol) more jealousy. But she slut shamed a lot, I really didn't like that for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:35 PM
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oh yea she definetely did. But at the same time she had to bash my kind lol. At the same time she says how she likes that I never talked badly about women. She shames women more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:09 PM
1

That is not a compliment anymore nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:04 PM
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Why is my example too specific? I just think men and women generalise in different things. Thats why I said it was too specific. It would be the same as saying women are mot slut shame than men. Men are shamed in a different way. Your gf just wanted you to feel special In a way, but at the same time she always said that, and she's not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 09:35 PM
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That's too specific, I mean women probably don't generalise as much in that kind situations, but in different situations they generalise more. I mean when a girlfriend feels comfortable enough to tell that all men are dicks but you. There's definitely a lot of generalization and blaming, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:27 PM
1

I've seen you say this so many times but I don't agree at all. Could you show examples even if they are only on your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:46 PM
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The only reason you don't see it, it's because it's completely acceptable nowadays. Things like "all men are dicks", "they just want sex", etc. Are completeley mainstream and no one challenges that. No one tries to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:45 PM
3

I was thinking about it all the time, where's his father figure?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:30 PM
1

My whole life, until I was maybe 17. I was basically suspended from school every 2 months. I always had problems with authority. It was never fun tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:14 PM
2

Why are they rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:48 PM
1

It's deep because you use your inteligence more than your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:43 PM
2

I don't really get why mandatory paternity testing is not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:21 PM
3

I agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:16 PM
1

The mum part was what got to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:16 PM
2

Huge strawman,
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:06 PM
1

I'm 6'2 and I seriously don't think I have a height pereference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 09:14 PM
2

Not all active dread, but specifically flirt with other women in front of your wife/gf. This is just plain disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 05:27 PM
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I mean I would still think it would be better to join a gang willingly then to flirt in fron of other woman just so she feels insecure. But that's my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 05:26 PM
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I liked the OP but you lost me here. They think that they're owed sex by just being the opposite gender. Anyone who has been to tell knows that they don't blame society, for instance if one failed with a woman the sub would only blame him. They're terrible at flirting. You can't believe the red pill and be a good flirt, though it'll make you more confident and you'll be more detached if you believe the red pill, which is why it has success for nerdy aspergers guys This nonsense as a fact really …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 04:46 PM
1

And the majority of trp too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:46 PM
2

lol you ignored everything the op said and went straight to extreme one. Doubletalk at it's best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 12:04 PM
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A, although I don't think it's possible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 09:06 PM
1

What's even your point? Who has it worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 10:04 AM
1

I actually agree with this, it's like women are more emotional but on the other side they know how to deal with it better than man. I just don't think women take things less personal than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 09:09 PM
1

I'm basically saying me showing LMR. A definitive one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 07:41 PM
3

Women, by far. Have you ever rejected a girl in bed? She will hate/resent you forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 10:08 AM
1

Single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:54 AM
1

It's all reasonable but imagine I have sex with my girlfriend and she doesn't give me a a blowjob and I tell her how terrible are blowjobs are anyway and that I wouldn't feel anything anyway. I also think that if his girlfriend wants him to take her out to dinners a reasonable amount of times per week, there's nothing wrong with her expecting it. One thing it's expecting it another is trying to shame me into it, like oh you're just a student I should've known you couldn't afford to take me on da…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 08:54 AM
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Both tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 11:53 PM
2

I lose respect for women trying to shame me for not doing things like taking them for dinner. It's so pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 06:34 PM
1

lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:54 PM
2

Actually forget about what I wrote on the other post, you're delusional. You talked about mansplaining then proceed TRP/PUAexplain. So by your logic if I've been studying women for years, I can explain for them too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:51 PM
1

the guy is ugly as fuck, which is probably why he has to make fake videos on YouTube. That's not the reason why I think his videos are fake. I told you all the reasons why I think it's fake already. That's all I've said. Some contradiction there. Those are your words and I ask you a question, I don't know why are you getting all emotional for. Unfortunately, to me, he doesn't. Your likes are not universal, so saying he's not successfull because you dont like his personality lol. I talked to you …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 12:41 PM
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No, your point was that everybody tries to deny they've been manipulated when in reality it happens all our lives, and that is simply not true. PUAs want to normalize manipulation, rationalizing that "people have been manipulated all their lives, I'm just one more manipulating them" but it ain't normal. If you (or anyone for that manner) have been manipulated all your life you're hanging out with the wrong type of people. Loving families don't manipulate their members, good friends don't manipul…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:30 AM
1

The fails video, that I linked after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 09:02 AM
2

Try to be really drunk and sick and a girl thinking is the perfect moment to get it going on. You on the edge of puking and this girl think it's the perfect situation to ride you. You would be like wtf too especially because you were sick, actually you would hate her and be digusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:47 AM
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I didn't say I was 100% certain, I said fairly certain. That is just because I study you guys for a long time, online and in real life. I'd have no problems proving your point and saying I'm wrong if it happened, and I told you this because you said you believe people are terrified of being manipulated and they get defensive. I'm telling you I'm neither terrified nor defensive because I'm fairly sure it can't happen to me after I know so much about you guys. Sorry to burst your bubble but it's n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:31 AM
1

I mean the friendster thing was obviously a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:40 PM
1

Lol do you like stand up comedies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 07:45 PM
1

Also from the way that guy talked I can sense that he's someone who seems to see sex as a conquest rather than a mutually enjoyable experience. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 07:44 PM
1

So I take you met a lot of PUAs in real life. That's good. I wonder how many of the successes actually turn into something, or if the guy even cares to follow up with the women after scoring their info? Not sure if he just does it to post online and say "this works," or if he is actually trying to hook up with them in real life. Most have follow up videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:14 PM
1

ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:46 PM
1

Why would they be talking about those things in the first place? Its mainstream as in youtube comments, 9gag etc. Personally I never hard it. Except for Cuck I'm always hearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:56 PM
1

Lol what? you know words like Alpha and Cuckhold are completely mainstream?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:36 PM
1

You met redpill people in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:18 PM
1

k?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:09 AM
2

How? everytime I show my interest to a girl, makes me a PUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 11:03 AM
1

I mean, that's a giant straw, but I won't think I'll change your mind any time soon. But the point of the video is that TRP/PUA are normal and casual, not surprisingly enough, he's creepy to every bp standards, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:56 AM
1

Yet he's successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:53 AM
1

You completely missed the point of everything I said. First you act like all my social interactions are this video lol. You know I live in real life first and I talk to people, even girls can you believe that? you can't be this naive. He is showing you what you want to see. He is not going to show you failure after failure and expect to keep his channel lucrative, this is pretty obvious. His audience is enjoying his videos, and if he has to fake them to keep his audience happy, so be it. You're …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:52 AM
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I mean as an app developer while I want to make money I want people to enjoy my apps is not a hard concept to get. That's actually what it looks like, when you see a lot of these videos (pranks included) it's really easy to see which ones are fake and which ones are not, this one is not fake (I'm almost sure). I think people are terrified of being manipulated that's why they get defensive about it, when in reality there's no unnatural manipulation in the video. I bet if the video didn't have any…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:03 AM
1

Not really, cold approach with a woman with no self of humour at all is the most awkward/borinf interaction one can have. So it wouldnt look better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:25 AM
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lol. Cause PUAs don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:22 AM
1

Oh so, he wrote a scenario about a cake at home, got ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:18 AM
1

What techiques if you don't mind me asking Edit: Most have rejections as well on their videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:16 AM
1

care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 06:14 AM
1

ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:23 PM
1

I didn't say he was "only" trying to amuse himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:13 PM
2

lol not naive, I just you know watched more than one video.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 08:10 PM
1

I knew it was personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:59 PM
2

Not really, when I used TRP (I dont check it in 2 years) most people joined because of dead bedrooms, oneitis, etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:58 PM
1

You're saying that whatever reason he is doing its goal is to win. Is this something he told you or a conclusion you reached? He's just he or everyone who approaches woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:51 PM
1

No, but the BP users of this sub can all tell, which is the actual question you asked in your OP. This is twice now that you've moved the goalposts. I have no agenda, I can't make questions to understand your point? Also using the word "amused" is a huge TRP tell, every person in this sub is familiar with it. He's not TRP. No one who makes a series with any sort of production value to put up on YouTube is doing it just because. His pitch is that he's doing it to "amuse himself", yes, I can see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:49 PM
2

So you're saying that every girl he chats with knows he's a PUA? No, he wasn't hitting on a girl and filming himself doing it to "amuse himself", he did it to make a YouTube video for money and maybe get laid as a bonus. I saw this a lot today, I'm wrong because I am, you're right because you are. Ok I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:38 PM
1

Doesn't really matter what he's getting out of it, it doesn't change what it is. Whether he's doing it because he wants to bust a nut, or he's doing it for sport, or he's doing it because he craves validation, or he's doing it to make money by making videos... it doesn't change what it is. Like, if you're playing a game of sport, let's say football... the point of football is to win by scoring more goals than the opposing team. Now maybe you have fun playing it, and maybe you play it to have fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:36 PM
2

Yet it's working pretty well for him, again and again. It was not scripted he thought of something funny(humour is not universal), that's not trying hard at all. He said something ridiculous to amuse himself more than to get results.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:30 PM
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Exactly that's my point. People imagine red pill to be some sort of script when its not true, you can see some red pill cores here and there. Like the way he leads. (give me a hug, etc) but that's it. Most people here think he would be trying to lower her self esteem or something weird like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:21 PM
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Maybe. Probably in the case of most applications. I know I've had to bullshit a lot to get jobs. Fair enough. try to conceal their sexual interest etc. They don't beat around the bush, but at the same time they instinctively escalate at a natural, yet firm, pace. They're aggressive, but very carefully tow the line between just that and threatening, and even better if they're able to gauge how aggressive they can be depending on the girl. This is what girls like, this is what actually turns them …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:18 PM
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That's my point, it was a normal conversation where both seem to enjoy each others time. Edit: This has nothing to do with "amused mastery".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:11 PM
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Lol you're making the same thing you accuse men or Trp of doing. You are no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:10 PM
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Well like I said, the entire time he's trying to obscure the fact that he is really acting in order to have sex with as many attractive women as possible. This is what pickup, at its essence, is all about. Pickup relies on its insincerity, because if you give away the fact that the girl you're talking to is interchangeable, and that you're relying on certain techniques, roles, and strategies in order to seduce her, you'll fail. Even the name, pickup, is crude. Straw, so If I sent many cvs I'm be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:50 PM
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That's what I wanted to ask, I think there's a long rationalization going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:38 PM
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Oh but if you flirt or make a joke is pretty obvious. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:31 PM
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Sure I am. I do think pickup is insincere. It's pretty much the point anyway. PUAs want to have sex with as many attractive women as possible, and of course they don't want to convey that to the woman they're approaching at the time. Does that make it wrong or evil like you just claimed I think? No, maybe, but I can't possibly think that because I don't care about the ethical implications of pickup. So how is it insincere? So what you're saying is that Hitler did nothing wrong? How can you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:29 PM
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alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:16 PM
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Do you know anything about modern pick up? Because if it was for feminism or something I have no interest in I would be as clueless as you are. So you talk about somethign you almost don't know nothing about as it was a fact and want me to take something from it. they aren't; it's a numbers game to them How can this be a fact? I could say feminism hates men, for them is just a supremacy game and would be as ridiculous as you are being .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:11 PM
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it's not even remotely surprising that you're into pickup and can't discern any difference between sincere and insincere behaviour. So you're not associating pick up with insincere behaviour? You called me a liar, you said that is not surprising that I'm into pick up and associate it with me not understanding sincere behaviour from insincere. You're obviously saying that pick up has to be insincere. I know you want comunication to be this black and white thing, but it doesn't work like that, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 06:09 PM
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You don't know anything about me. Now to your point tell me how else can I interpret what you wrote? You clearly associated clumsiness to authenticity. The guy in the video is not awkward or clumsly. What do you mean about the guy on the video then? I'm revolted by you and your comments in this thread, and it's not even remotely surprising that you're into pickup and can't discern any difference between sincere and insincere behaviour. Its actually you that doesn't get it, you associate being PU…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:52 PM
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So do I have zero interest on the girls I approach? You don't actually know nothign about modern PUAs. I met my ex girlfriend in a shopping centre.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:46 PM
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Was it your comment? if not why are you so emotional for? Edit: Maybe if you made it a habit, followed certain procedures and techniques etc. That would make you a PUA. If you just occasionally saw a girl you were attracted to and tried hitting on her then I wouldn't really call you a PUA, but guys like that don't act like the guy in the video. It's generally much clumsier, but clearly more sincere and genuine. it was actually you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:37 PM
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That's not the point, I'm not a PUA but I approach a girl that I find cute how would I become a PUA all of a sudden? Because I'm aware of what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:20 PM
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I was so tired that i forgot the rest of the sentence, but yes thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:18 PM
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for this to be true, every man would have to be a PUA but that's not the case. some of them want to get to know someone instead of solely wanting to sleep with them. the difference between the two is obvious. This is rationalization again, who told you PUAs are not interested on the person? I highly doubt a PUA would sleep with a girl he doesn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:17 PM
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Listen, my first point is that game is just like a normal conversation instead of being a script (this means there's no techniques being used) but trp/puas have different ways to deal with different scenarios then bpillers. I don't undertand how you don't get what I'm saying. Let's agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:11 PM
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You're probably right, but the thing is if you dove through the thousands of related videos you would realise they are successfull a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:06 PM
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I mean, I'm dark enough to know he's nothing like me. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:03 PM
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How am I supposed to get that from "Nowadays is just adivse like don't be needy" when just before that we were talking about "game," not pick-up? ok No, but you've been implying (and this is what I said, not that you claimed "all he ever did was game me") from the start it isn't possible for a guy and a girl to get together without "game" being involved in their interactions somewhere. I disagree with that, because I disagree that a guy "being his best self" is "gaming." ok? Nope, "how they mana…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 05:01 PM
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That's a good thing for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:46 PM
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if he's ugly and successfull with women just proves it works somehow. How is he dark skinned tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:46 PM
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Lol?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:44 PM
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lol that's not game, that's just... normal, everyday advice. I didn't say it was. I was talkign about pick up. That's what you said, not me. I said there was game involved aka seduction. I didn't say that all he ever did was game you. How is this hard to understand is beyond me. We're so far away from the original topic though. If you remember, you used "game" in the OP to refer to a red-piller's or a PUA's "game": "I can spot PUAs/Red Pillers right away, and their "game" will never work on me" …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:43 PM
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I really like it, like how everyone notices it but her. It makes me wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:33 PM
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that was about some of the text frames, not the conversation. i think he got a little braggy here and there in the video itself and the first couple of text frames were good, but then he revealed himself to actually be a douche with some of the later text. You probably didn't notice but he's clearly joking. it's obvious because you're making things up that no one is saying, and not listening. ok? you're not, for the reasons above. that's why you don't have a clue. I don't have a clue because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:32 PM
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Nowadays is just adivse like don't be needy, don't be too intense, etc.. etc.. It's not like it used to be. You're thinking like every interactions is game. No it's exactly like seduction. If you don't want to call it game then don't lol. Your boyfriend didn't game you, he seduce you, there, happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:28 PM
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But most BPers here don't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:24 PM
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I agree but I really think they are the minority. I certainly dont want to pay all the bills by myself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:23 PM
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What's even your point? Everyone is different and approaches in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:20 PM
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Being yourself" to me is not game. "Game" is a term PUA and TRP use and attempt to implement. "Being yourself" is what the rest of the world does. You probably don't know this but the concept of game that you have is at least 15 years old. Nowadays game is about being your best self so I can't really know what you're talking about. He probably did try. I've gotten to know him by now, and that's still who he is. With me, and with other people. Sober, and drunk. when you like someone is hard to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:20 PM
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The video was all about being self amused as away to enjoy pick ups. So I just think, he's having fun and not taking himself really seriously. He never claimed to be a natural player or anything does he sound like anything close to Mistery?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:12 PM
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he seems more and more like just another douche What did he do to be considered a douche? i didn't say anything remotely like that. You didn't but it was exactly what he did and you consider him a douche for a reason. i'm not sure what conclusion you reached, but i'm sure it's wrong and the same one you started with. you're not here to listen, which is sad because there's a lot to be learned from people here. You reached the conclusion that my conclusion is wrong without knowing anything about i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:09 PM
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Why is that game, and not just being yourself? How do you define game? Game doesn't have to be conscious. Almost the samething as seduction. You can have game and be yourself, just because you're making a conscious effort to be a better you doesn't mean you're not being yourself. What if I said something dumb near a girl I like and the next time I consciously tried not to repeat the same mistake, wasn't I being myself now? What's the equivalent to this that my boyfriend did to "game" me? He didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 04:03 PM
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What's even RP beliefs? Apart from lifestyle there's so much to have in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:52 PM
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So he's confident is fake now, why again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:49 PM
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I didnt even comment on what you said anymore, I think I reached a conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:48 PM
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Yes that's exactly game. I know you want to believe game is some evil thing, but to be honest with you it's not. What do you think seduction is? What if you knew your crush (or whatever) was a ass guy (as in like ass) and you wore a dress that highlights your curves, would that be evil? No. What If he tried to show he's funny so you like him more, is that evil? not really. That what game is about making girls like you. If someone is not genuine hiding is intentions, claiming he wants a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:46 PM
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Lol even If I showed you a video with more conversation and less compliments you would reach the same conclusion. I'm curious, if a man can't be funny with you, can't joke (you call it a neg), cant be physically attracted to you (or can't compliment you), then how one wins you over?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:35 PM
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I got it now, I read on different comments he's not genuine because he have good social skills, he had to be more clumsy and more awkward to be more authentic but then again he would probably be called a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/666558/q4theredpill_why_are_red_pillers_so_angry_if/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:29 PM
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Maybe if you made it a habit, followed certain procedures and techniques etc. That would make you a PUA. If you just occasionally saw a girl you were attracted to and tried hitting on her then I wouldn't really call you a PUA, but guys like that don't act like the guy in the video. It's generally much clumsier, but clearly more sincere and genuine. So if a man improves his social skills makes him less genuine, he has to be clumsy to be authentic, rationalization? This guy isn't even good at this…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:25 PM
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So true, but from what I'm seeing for the comments most are "triggered" by him trying to figure out her logistics, like its really evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:20 PM
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So your boyfriend didnt try to seduce you in any way? Honestly I just think that girls are so used to be passive in the attraction phase, that they are not aware at all that we're trying to do our best to seduce/game you etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:17 PM
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They don't know what trp sounds like in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 03:04 PM
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It's still a pick up, but it doesn't make me a pick up artist. Every guy that approaches women outside it's a pick up artist? He's just dominating it and directing it into whichever way let's him apply PUA techniques. She didnt seem bothered at all. The whole 'oh you like to sit at home and watch netflix while you binge eat cake and think about how sad your life is lulz' line was so predictable Because only pick up artist try to be funny. But now I'm curious if a guy can't be funny, can't compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:57 PM
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Or naturally confident guys? Most men do not act like that Most men don't have success with cold approach either. "here's what we're gonna do, I'm gonna take your [friendster?] and add you.." Something I noticed while I was still a teen, if I ask a girl for her number I would get way more NOs than if I just "demanded it" (give me your number, let's hang out). Was I a PUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:52 PM
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They interact with someone they are attracted to, they flirt a bit, they fuck up a bit here and there, they stress and panic sometimes, they try to escalate, they analyze texts to death, they spend ages wondering if the other person likes them back -- but all of this is a natural, fumbling-along process that they didn't actually plan out. It sounds exactly like the video on the post. He's meeting someone he's attracted to, etc. So because it makes an effort to have an interaction does it mean is…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:48 PM
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i think your OP may need revision, because you started off quoting BPers as saying that RP/pickup was totally obvious, not mysterious. Because this was a normal conversation the type I had before I even knew what PUA was. BPillers act like it's all scripted with neggings, etc. no, i can tell that he's trying to pick me up (and may be a PUA or just interested in something that i'm not). that's enough for me to identify that he's a type i'm probably not compatible with and don't want to waste time…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:43 PM
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No, I had to know if were sexually compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:38 PM
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I mean that was the whole point of the opening, showing his intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:33 PM
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that he's trying to pick her up, of course. That he's trp or a pick up artist, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:33 PM
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That was not my point at all, I was talking about gaming as all this mysterious, manipulative techinques that every bp talks about. if he's also trying to prolong conversation, ask questions (indirectly or directly) about what i'm doing or my personal life, or get any kind of contact information, that's also a sign (and i guess you could call that a manipulative technique, but just directing conversation seems like a better/more accurate term to me). So basically you're saying you could tell thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:32 PM
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peacoking has been dead for 10 years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:22 PM
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That's obvious, he approached her and complimented her looks. I'm not saying that he's not trying to pick her up, I'm just saying that there's not obvious manipulative techniques going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:19 PM
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Pick up artists didnt invent pick up. I mean I approached women before I even knew it had a name. So I don't really get your point. talking about things besides how attractive enough you think she is for sex may make it seem like an authentic conversation, but in reality it's all just a show. Says who? The video is about self amusing, so for you he's not enjoying the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:17 PM
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The only way the opening line was a signal was if you were paranoid, since in pick up there's millions of ways to open (direct, indirect, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:11 PM
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Have you even watch the video?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:06 PM
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Maybe values was not the right word, maybe core would fit better. What I meant as PUA/TRP will react in a different way to certain things than a BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:02 PM
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Female advice from my female cousins growing up was really good. They were really upfront about it, they would introduce me to their friends and tell me to just be upfront and dominat sexually (there's no words for this in english) and it worked. P.S Being from African descendence helps. Edit: Back to the real world all the advice was shit, but I never really need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 03:08 PM
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When did this become a thing? I'm average and I get hot (above 7) girls all the time. The thing is I don't even rate myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 02:45 PM
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I think if anything disney lie to women and put higher expectations on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 05:30 PM
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Satire? theres no satire there.. Just hate and anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:46 PM
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Lol the hate is realy, you just went from nice guys to TRP for no reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 06:11 PM
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What you don't understand is that you can just "help/convert" who is here. So this a pointless debate, you hold r/ppd RPillers with the same stigma you hold to r/rp RPillers. The ones here are the ones open to debate, but every debate start as if they are hold accountable for every post made on r/rp not for what they say. If you look well enough you will find the so called "bad advice" elsewhere too, that's why it's called confirmation biased, you just use what you want to you use.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 05:14 PM
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Lol point me to a post who says something like "it's not your fault, don't change nothing about you. Blame society" Things like AWALT is just expecting the worse from people (I don't agree with it). You don't find any good advice because you have confirmation bias, you focus on the "bad" stuff and supposedly good advice is "common sense" to you. What brings you to PPD if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 02:48 PM
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Every person in this sub thinks trp is about excuses, "you're just suffering because of X and Y". Trp is actually the opposite, it gives you the truth and everything else that happens after that it's your responsibility alone. The way they give advice is also really harsh is not pretty not good but necessary. Chad is just a Goal you have to reach. You will never reach it because there always will be someone better than you but it makes you improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 02:08 AM
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Lol what's your problem with a hero of a particular subreddit? If it makes goals clear why do you care if he exists universally or just partially?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 01:45 AM
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