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| 1 | What was dating like after being divorced?What kind of entitlement issues are you encountering? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 08:44 AM |
| 1 | 34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake?Oh yeah she’s loco | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 11:16 AM |
| 4 | 34M. Experienced with dating. Met a girl I liked a lot & dropped other options. Then got dumped. What’s my mistake?She may be hot enough to date a young multimillionaire but she’s not young enough to marry one | /r/seduction | 25/06/26 11:13 AM |
| 4 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.😆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 03:57 PM |
| 5 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.My divorce is complex. I’m also high net worth individual. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 03:56 PM |
| 4 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Get legally married again? I don’t see that happening. Not for a long time. She would have be to independently wealthy and there would have to be a very in depth and comprehensive prenuptial agreement in play. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 03:48 PM |
| 5 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Not everyone has our experience. I know many marriages that are successful. I understand that we have all been through a lot. My divorce has officially crossed $200,000 and 35 months of litigation. I got another 50 K to go approximately. So I speak from experience. That Said I know couples that are happily married and have their families intact and they are building their lives together. And I also know that a lot of people would not have a divorce as nasty as mine. Just because we suffered does… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | I Hate that She Put me Here: Dating in 2026 is HorrendousI’m right there with you. I also do what I want. I have more money and I am a more present Father. My faith in Christ has gotten stronger as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/26 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Dating After Divorce With Kids… Am I Being Too Cautious?How old is she? Does she have kids of her own? Do you want more kids? These are the questions you need to ask yourself. Pump the brakes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/26 09:57 PM |
| 16 | I have friends, a job, and a full life. I've also never felt more alone. Is this normal?It’s part of the transition process. Heal. Take your time. Do the things you want to do. It gets better I promise you. I am 32 months post separation. Was with my wife for 11 years. 2 kids. High conflict divorce wiped me out financially. I’m still here. In great shape. Healthy. Strong in my faith. Living single. I have dated here and there but Im comfortable being alone and it’s a great place to be. I have full agency of my life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/03/26 10:11 PM |
| 5 | Why rush back into a relationship? What is wrong with living singleTake your time learn how to be single again learn to rebuild your identity outside of a relationship. You’ll thank yourself in the future. You can avoid a destructive rebound that will trap you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Divorced dads, have any of you opted for every other weekend with the kids?I have them every Wednesday after school till Thursday evening. And then I have them every other weekend from Friday until Monday morning. So my weekends are three nights when I do have. I think it comes out to 60/40. It’s a very good schedule. In addition, I go to virtually all the practices that are on Mom’s time. I see my kids as much as possible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck?Yup | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 06:10 AM |
| 3 | What the fuck?But not being around that energy is magical | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 06:08 AM |
| 3 | 53M. Married 26 years. Found out she never really loved me. Trying to understand how I stayed.You will get through this day by day | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 11:33 AM |
| 2 | I’m losing interest in ever wanting to be in a relationship again after my divorceThis is simply your nervous system being worn out and exhausted. Take your time. Take your time to heal your heart. Divorce is traumatic. But you will find your groove again. It might take you several years and that’s okay. Don’t force it. Do not force it at all. Ignore women on a romantic basis. Work on yourself work on your hobbies work on your income work on your faith. Treat women as friends if you want. I have a few female friends. I have had two relationships since my divorce. I’m on a pau… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 10:49 AM |
| 3 | 5 months out and AI hits me with a new word. "Contempt".My AI disagrees with me all the time lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/26 04:19 AM |
| 4 | You know you’re hitting your New Normal when?This is where I’m at. I’ve also had 2 ex girlfriends since my divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/26 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedDo you want proof? | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedSouthern California | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedMy profile had 5 ft 8. I had 500 Matches in 4 months | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?Requires a certain level of emotional mastery | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/25 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Recently divorced, how do I get back into dating.I’m with you man. I didn’t date the first year. After the 12th month I ended up in a rebound that lasted 6 months. She tried to take over my life. I dumped her. I then took a few months off. Then I went on a online dating frenzy. Went out with over 20 girls. Banged a few. They ALL WANTED A RELATIONSHIP. Went hard stop again. Back into monk mode. Enjoying my freedom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/25 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Divorcing a narc wife - real life experiences needed200k in costs 27 months litigation and ongoing My narc wants to drink every last drop of my blood | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 05:00 AM |
| 7 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsI can tell you that my ex-wife was dysfunctional from the very beginning. I picked her knowing what she was. I think a lot of of us did that and we were wearing the love blinders. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:10 PM |
| 10 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsThank you for sharing. There are healthy people out there. It’s just really hard to find them in your 40s, especially when you’ve already had kids. For me dating is very hard because I have two boys and I just don’t want them to meet anybody. I have quite a bit of Custody so it’s hard for me to navigate a relationship with everything else going on in my life, including work and parenting and my friends and my hobbies. I’ve chosen to stay single for the time being. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]I’ve had similar experiences | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Be honest: how many of you were still attracted to your wife when you divorced?I’m not attracted to anyone anymore. It’s great. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/25 06:49 AM |
| 2 | I truly hate being divorcedVery dumb lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/25 01:23 PM |
| 7 | I didn't expect that divorced women would find hook ups so easy ....Selfish avoidants hahah lots of those out there | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 02:37 PM |
| 3 | I truly hate being divorced20 lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/25 11:08 AM |
| 6 | Pregnant wife and staring at divorceSorry to hear about your struggles. First and foremost, stop snapping. You need some anger management. And you need it NOW. You need to enroll NOW. Find the nearest program and start doing it. Two benefits of this: 1. You will learn to control yourself better. 2. You will have documented your attempts and bettering one self. This marriage is going to end. The question is when. When she learns that she can no longer bait you one of two things will happen. She will either calm down or she will tur… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/25 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Ended my first real thing post divorceI got rid of my rebound after 6 months as well. It was hard and it crushed me. But I did it and feel strong now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/25 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Single againEnjoy your time alone. Make your kids the priority. Soon they will be grown and they won’t be kids anymore. Women come and go. It’s not easy being a step parent I’ve been on the other side of it. Just take your time and don’t rush into something new. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 11:22 PM |
| 2 | 'Not in love'Wow. You know some people are REALLY good at hiding how they really feel. Your wife very much most likely has been harboring these feelings for years dude. Probably at least 2 full years maybe more. Sometimes it’s nearly impossible to see the signs because they hide their feelings so well. It’s not healthy to be able to wear such a mask. Anyways I hope you will have a swift recovery | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 05:31 AM |
| 2 | 'Not in love'Oh wow 30 ways in this is brand new. Sorry about that. I remember when mine was this fresh. I filed and I was forced to file in a very hostile environment. Our divorce exploded into high conflict. 130k spent in 15 months dude. Do you have kids? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 05:20 AM |
| 2 | 'Not in love'Se la vie my friend. How is life for you now? Have you recovered from the divorce emotionally? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 05:12 AM |
| 2 | 'Not in love'Go back 2 years prior to the date she said that. Did she start kissing you less? Did the things she say to you change? Maybe you can see where the shift began | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | 'Not in love'Do you have any idea why she fell out of love with you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/24 03:50 AM |
| 3 | How is your online dating experience after separation?And what if your divorce takes 3 years lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 01:56 PM |
| 14 | How is your online dating experience after separation?That’s not the common experience | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Is having sex on the first date something significant/important?Who cares if she’s had better. What matters is if you are having a good time. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I existSorry you are so depressed. You can get out of it. It’s hard and some men don’t make it. Don’t be a statistic. Fight for your kids and move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/24 09:04 PM |
| 4 | GriefMediation is the best course of action for getting the divorce settled as soon as possible | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | The end …Is there a new female in the picture? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/24 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Same. I broke the chains! Shattered them Into pieces | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Sorry to hear. Are you thinking of leaving? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?Man that sucks. How did it wreck your relationship with your child? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/24 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Anyone is staying single permanently?They are wants not needs | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Externalizing everything still miss herNot everyone does. But lots do. So why get married? Tax benefits | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Externalizing everything still miss herCorrect | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Externalizing everything still miss herAnyone can leave at any time for any reason | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Externalizing everything still miss herSounds about right. Spoiled little children | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 07:42 AM |
| 5 | New man at drop off!Yup. I expected it from the very beginning. But so far she hasn’t brought anyone around | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/24 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Remind me never to get married again😂😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 07:28 PM |
| 6 | Is Getting Married in the US that bad?Your gut says run you fucking run! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/24 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Kill myselfNo man you love yourself more than her. Fight through this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/24 06:15 AM |
| 3 | Wife asked me to move out this morning…Lmao Don’t leave | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/24 09:15 PM |
| 2 | What did you gain through divorce?Copy | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What did you gain through divorce?I don’t understand this saying? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/23 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Discovered she is cheating. Calming down, not reacting?Sorry to hear about this. I went through something similar. It’s hard. But you’ll get through it all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 05:59 PM |
| 2 | It´s incredible how all this changes youDang. That sucks. European rules are harsh for the man. I understand the situation now. I hope you can find new meaning to your life. Consider going to church and praying | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 02:12 PM |
| 2 | It´s incredible how all this changes youI can’t imagine how pissed you would have been after you found out she booked it with the kids. Did you have any warning? Did you file an emergency ex parte? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | It´s incredible how all this changes youWow she moved the kids in with the affair partner! What a monster. How are the kids with you now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 12:47 PM |
| 4 | It´s incredible how all this changes youI filed 3.5 months ago. Separated since end of June. I’ve become pretty numb myself. I still feel the emotion of anger but other than that it’s hard to feel anything. My case has been difficult. I live with her still AND with her 16 year old daughter that’s been turned to hate me. It’s 2-1 but I’m still here | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 12:17 PM |
| 6 | It´s incredible how all this changes youThats me bro. I don’t care | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/23 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Not sure how to proceedSorry you are going through this. At least by meeting someone you can get her off your ass. In the meantime your son can she what a piece of work their mom is. You stay the calm, sensible and responsible parent. Let her get sucked in the new relationship. Cling to your son and I hope he will cling right back to you | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/23 10:00 AM |
| 4 | Steps to Get Over ItLet it out brother. I cried heavy. And it helped. I cried heavy on 5 occasions. It’s good. Find a sad song on YouTube and it will help I promise | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 02:40 PM |
| 9 | Steps to Get Over ItI was the one that filed. I was the one that voiced the divorce. But I didn’t want it. She forced my hand with her lies and drinking and chaos. We have a family and I wanted to keep us under the same roof. But she’s too fucked up. I feel your pain bro. Stop messaging her. Leave her be. Let the pain out and cry. Don’t try to get back with her again. If she wants you back she will voice that. Good luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/23 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Good luck gentlemenThat’s terrible advice. You don’t leave the marital property. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | I fucked uplol my wife fucked everything up and she wants it all | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 05:25 PM |
| 3 | New boyfriend visiting child in hospitalUgh sorry to hear about your struggles. If it’s any consolation to you, as soon as she hits puberty she will treat this man like absolute shit. Trust me I used to be a step parent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/23 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Yuck. No thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/23 06:26 AM |
| 6 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Im a lawyer and i work with a divorce lawyer who is a friend. I see the cases where the men get involved with a new woman and their custody cases get so messy. The new lose focus on their kids. In addition, the new women take control and make the issues even worse! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Wow!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/23 04:25 PM |
| 13 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?A woman is far more distracting. You can fall in love and get really fucked | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/23 04:20 PM |
| 16 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?I think men are highly susceptible to falling into a rebound relationship. This is a dangerous setup because if you are vulnerable you can end up with someone who is not good for you. Especially if you have kids. If you have kids you have to take things slow and give the kids time to adjust to the new reality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/23 04:18 PM |
| 21 | Why are we telling men to wait a year before dating?Dating can be highly distracting | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Finally Going to be FREEI appreciate it! I’m alright | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/23 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Finally Going to be FREECongrats. My divorce is a disaster. 3 months post filing. 3 court dates. 1 investigation so far. A child custody evaluation has been ordered. 30k in attorney fees and counting. And I still live with her | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/23 09:00 PM |
| 5 | It's over.Good luck on your journey. Do you believe it’s possible to Find happiness without having a romantic partner? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/23 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Divorcing my wife for cheating on me with my father😂😂😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/23 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Just in a slumpOh man that’s a gamble. If I did This to my STBXW she would get full custody and take the kids forever. I’m glad it worked out for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/23 12:44 PM |
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