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6

Good time to do it was when you where younger, best time to do it is now. What are you going to do? Wallow in self pity for another 2 years pick up no chicks and then be even more upset or pull your finger out. Better yourself and get out there. No one is coming to save you bro you need to save yourself.
/r/seduction21/03/26 08:54 PM
3

Should keep watching for signs.
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:53 PM
1

If she was interested she would have made it known, shes using you for dinners. If you havent even made out after 3 dates move on, your being used.
/r/seduction27/11/25 05:28 AM
2

Which is why logistics is one of the key factors.
/r/seduction10/11/25 08:31 PM
1

This should be what your doing for all dating. Few drinks then home.
/r/seduction28/10/25 07:44 AM
1

Eye contact and enthusiasm
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:23 AM
4

Late 20's, I finally had some money and gym had started showing some real results.
/r/seduction04/09/25 09:55 PM
1

Also decide where you are going and have a secondary location to move too.
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:31 AM
49

If you want to bang before he leaves just take the bull by the horns and jump him.
/r/seduction25/08/25 11:36 AM
3

She knows what you want to do so you just need to man up. Just say I want to keep talking and should we have a drink at mine? You both know but she wants it to 'just happen' not have it stated that's the reason.
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:58 AM
2

Also if you move on and just leave her alone she might get jealous when she sees you out and about. The one thing that won't get it back is continuing to push her
/r/seduction07/05/25 11:10 PM
37

You're back from traveling and love the idea. Few questions: What would you do for money? Whats the end game? These girls usually arent looking to settle down while traveling This wont be dating life, it will be transient hookups at best. Do you put yourself in position to meet people in your current life? I would focus on that.
/r/seduction27/04/25 01:01 PM
6

100%, she knows whats happen. Logistics are very good. During the conversation mention something that you have back at yours that you would like to show her. Fish tank, pet rock collection or a wine you like, whatever. She knows your going back there for one thing but in her mind she can say I went there for this and things just happened. She has the ability to s**t shame herself into not doing things if thats the only reason shes following you back to your place.
/r/seduction15/04/25 01:26 AM
9

Basically if shes getting comfortable with you you'll be given some leeway, so usually you can keep going till she doesnt allow it, back off and start again. eg touch her leg if your next to her, eventually you'll be able to leave your hand there and just keep escalating from there. She knows you want to sleep with her, she just wants to know your not a creep and know what you want. If you havent kissed after the 2nd date she will lose attraction and think your not interested.
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:27 AM
5

She's out with you. You need to escalate, start small, hand on the lower back to guide her through somewhere, short playful touches and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:07 AM
144

It's on you to escalate, not her, you didn't.
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:13 AM
11

Alcohol helps and it's low risk for her. If you're weird she can bail after a drink or two rather than stuck with you for a 2 hour movie and dinner after or whatever your planning on doing.
/r/seduction22/02/25 08:18 AM
6

How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Also if you need to wear a condom to prevent STIs does it really matter? I was like this in my early 20s but then wanted kids once I met the right girl. Just a massive procedure early in your life. I recommend freezing some sperm in case 15 years down the track your in another life stage.
/r/seduction16/02/25 07:54 PM
1

No need to save face, just move on. If shes only out of a long term relationship for 2 months it might be to early for her. Also shes disrespecting you by accepting and cancelling on you continually.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:12 AM
55

Invite him over for some Netflix and chill.
/r/seduction24/12/24 07:10 PM
3

Hes asking how he can negate her ask of settling down so he wants to still have sex and know how to say what she wants to hear while not giving her what she wants.
/r/seduction16/12/24 03:34 AM
5

She probably doesn't want to at first as well. Then she catches feelings or realises that you're a good catch and then wants to become exclusive
/r/seduction15/12/24 08:47 PM
12

Just to add, if you do go exclusive you don't stop having sex, you usually end up having more sex but with the same girl. That's my experience anyway.
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:38 PM
13

Communication isn't going to fix the fact that she wants you to be exclusive. You either do that or she's going to end it and look for a guy who wants to settle down. Also it's a bit selfish if you keep stringing her along.
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:29 PM
2

Basically you didn't make a move on the 1st date and she's labelled you as 'beta'. You were in her bed naked and didn't push it. After that she didn't see you as ONS material.
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:44 PM
2

Look to meet up ASAP and get their phone number I knew so many girls who were on tinder and they are like we have been talking for 2 weeks when is he going to ask me out. No dinners, coffee/drinks at a bar so you can bail if there is no vibes.
/r/seduction27/11/24 11:44 PM
4

You've need doing it for a month and your trying the hardest game, solo clubing. I would recommend some school clubs, coed sports league etc. All GF I found were through friends of friends or someone I met at a social club, never found a gf at the club
/r/seduction19/10/24 08:26 AM
1

Yeah I have a childhood friend who is smoking. Best wing women ever as you're preselected.
/r/seduction15/10/24 08:20 PM
2

2nd date. Something easy you can bail on if you're not feeling.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:44 AM
2

Ask her to catch up for a coffee.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:10 AM
7

Don't do three years in high school. Are you trying to pick up 14-year-olds? Don't. Get in the gym, find a hobby. If you've talked to 200 girls you're in high school with, you're known as the guy trying to pick them all up. Better yourself first, and people will notice.
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:58 PM
7

Hi
/r/seduction28/08/24 08:30 AM
8

Find out what shes also wants from the relationship. Maybe she just wants to be FWB and have a bit of fun. If you cant see that you could date her then make sure she knows what you want upfront. Otherwise later on it gets hard.
/r/seduction18/07/24 02:34 AM
7

Mainly they don't want to feel like a s*ut in that sex was planned, they want it to be 'it just happened'
/r/seduction31/05/24 05:36 AM
43

This has happened before when I was younger. Then she got mad at me that I never made a move.
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:31 PM
10

No one wants to think about their decision on a 30 min tram ride home, get the closer one. Also as long as you did enough the room shouldn't matter
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:33 AM
45

3 dates in Miami with nothing more than kissing while she went to your hotel room? You weren't taking the lead enough and her interest disappeared.
/r/seduction11/04/24 06:36 AM
1

Just keep your eyes out for signs.
/r/seduction18/03/24 08:12 PM
79

If your keen, after dinner go to the bathroom and walk back out in lingerie and heels. He'll get the idea.
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:29 AM
2

This is a terrible idea....
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:09 AM
32

Also make sure you dont have your headphones in. 100% girlfriend to being a cockblock.
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:03 AM
3

Funnily enough, ignoring her and just leaving things on read while being out with other people is a way get actually get for to become a bit more invested.
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:24 AM
1

Are you working on ways to find women to fill that void, easy to say I have no women in my life but are you taking steps to change that? Also 100% on a hobby, not only makes you more interesting but also will allow you to do someone else when the urge strkes.
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:00 AM
2

When is your Sushi date? I hope you just didnt ask and then not confirm a date in the next 2-4 days.
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:45 PM
20

wtf, dont do that anymore.
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:11 AM
14

Yeah who says you only need to hangout with the engineers, join some clubs. Especially whatever nursing is doing.
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:14 PM
43

No girl is playing hard to get for a year. She wasnt interested in anything more than a friend/backup. Need to talking to lots of girls at once, if your at a girls beck and call you're a pet not a potential partner.
/r/seduction09/11/21 04:18 AM
14

Its the exact opposite as shes thinking about having sex with you. Not saying you can go home with her that night but shes interested. Most times if you catch up for a drink at a later date it they have already let you know their keen as long as you dont fuck it up.
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:32 AM
103

Anything but a yes is a no. Funnily enough if you start dating other girls she will probably get jealous as shes losing her confidence booster (you). Only message if she messages 1st, go out with other girls. Hang out with people and live life, you'll find there are pently of girls out there.
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:58 AM
1

Only reason I prefer a coffee/drink is to screen the girl, who wants to blow time and money on a date if the girl is as plain as a piece of wood? If she isn't then go on a date and escalate. The coffee is only indecisive if you don't let your intentions be clear.
/r/seduction09/10/21 08:49 PM
2

Dont ask for a 'date' just say you should both grab a drink/coffee whatever. Date makes it to formal.
/r/seduction09/10/21 01:55 PM
10

If you think you sometimes friendzoned you are 100% always friendzoned. The only way to maybe get this girl is to hit on other girls, hook up with other girls and she'll maybe realise what shes missing. In short, stop trying and it might work.
/r/seduction08/10/21 10:23 PM
4

I’m black, 6,3, but pretty fat and need to lose weight. Bro, hit the gym and your golden.
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:10 AM
7

Yeah, I'm just saying what would be more brutal than Im not into you.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:34 AM
13

Or the 'I now have a better option than you.'
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:52 AM
12

Good job, just make sure next time you escalate, girls will read into this that your not interested if you dont. A girl knows what would probably happen if shes sleeping at your house overnight, so its safe to make a move, if shes not keen she will say no. Wont be an issue just doesnt want to do it straight away.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:19 AM
89

You already have approval from another female. You're not a creep which makes you more attractive than 80% of the males that approach her who she has no idea about.
/r/seduction07/06/21 06:22 AM
3

The fun doesn't mean having sex, I see it more as meeting people and doing fun stuff. When I was using tinder it was all about getting them out for a drink and see what happened from there, some nothing, some went home with me that night and others we dated for a bit. It's about getting past that 1st shit test which you fail if your like I just want to bang (Which only worked once for me)
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:48 PM
26

Yo that's creepy as fuck.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:41 AM
38

'I'm looking to have fun and see where it goes.' Girls are ok with that. They aren't looking for a commitment right then but also most girls aren't keen to see a guy once, bang and then never see them again. If you sleep with a girl 2 times a week for a month then it fizzled out cause you aren't compatible that's a better outcome.
/r/seduction31/05/21 03:27 AM
3

She was probably outside and couldnt get in? Why wouldnt you answer?
/r/seduction31/05/21 03:00 AM
147

100% find a hobby, exercise, dancing, rock climbing, spearfishing, stamp collecting. Girls prefer a guy who has his own thing going on rather than trying to bang the 1st things with legs. Also its unlikely a girl is going to be up for casual sex if your just stating it plainly. Catch up for a drink with them and see where it goes. Half the time you end up sleeping with each other for a month or two and it fizzles out. A girl you date isnt all of a sudden the only girl you will spend the rest of …
/r/seduction31/05/21 02:58 AM
4

100% agree practice putting on a condom. Sounds stupid but worst thing to be doing is trying to figure it out in the dark with a girl waiting for you.
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:20 PM
6

If you're a nerd you can also code a program that'd be able to read the girls' answer and respond accordingly since game is not about what you say but how you say. If you know anyone able to code that send me a pm lol So be the 1st person in the world to complete the turing test?
/r/seduction05/12/19 09:23 PM
11

Girls looking for an ego boost.
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:18 PM
2

Definately ask his name and see if he wants to go for jog or coffee or something. Thats basically how it will start and go from there.
/r/seduction23/09/19 04:23 AM
7

I was about to say the same. A girl will always have time for you if she’s keen. If she actually cant do a time and she’s keen she’ll suggest another exact time.
/r/seduction20/09/19 06:17 AM
10

You are her BF without the sex at the moment. She cheated on you with your best mate when came running back to you because you’re safe (not a good thing) and she knew you would take her back. Get some self respect and fuck her off. She’s using you. Also having her around will make it harder to find another girl.
/r/seduction20/09/19 03:05 AM
4

Stay away from one-itis by all means hit her up, nothing happens? Oh well, but you need other options.
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:56 AM
5

Id try once more, with all the holidays etc seems like it could be true. If she flakes again etc its done. Move on.
/r/seduction05/07/19 03:24 AM
1

To be fair their probably aren't that many fake guy profiles and if you had the chance to hook up easily with an attractive person as if you wouldn't.
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:56 AM
2

Maybe they can sense your self loathing and don't want to be be involved in a pity party. I think you need to work on yourself and your self-worth before you start approaching girls again. Hit the Gym, find your passion and everything will become easier.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:59 PM
4

Take control of the situation. She's wanting you to take charge but your waiting for a sign. You want to have sex? Go have sex with her, I highly doubt she'll turn you down. Don't bring up the relationship, just let things progress naturally. You're already fucking so In unsure what you mean what should I do. You need to take charge otherwise she will get bored.
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:24 PM
3

This was awhile ago so take it with a grain of salt. ​ When I 1st used it it was good, got alot of matches. Then was in a relationship deleted it. Started again and was just swiping everything yes and got almost no matches. Deleted the app and restarted but being alot more selective with my yes swiper and the matches got ALOT higher
/r/seduction14/01/19 09:10 AM
9

No games, not afraid to say what they want, experience, 30's is where women reach their sexual peak. Hooked up with an air hostess when she would fly in international. Always the most crazy weekend of sex I ever had.
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:26 AM
1

Any other girls on the radar? Or has it been a dry 6 weeks and your getting desperate?
/r/seduction07/11/18 12:11 PM
4

Indirect gets you friendzoned. Be and man and take the lead, don't follow her around hoping for her to notice you. Next time you see her ask for her number and start texting and set a date. At least then you know either way. EDIT: 'Sees me as genderless', do you agree? Was sort of Beta mentality is that? Are you just going to mope about not having muscles? Hit the gym, exercise, get fit. It will do wonders for your self esteem.
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:46 PM
3

Ask her to meet for drinks. If she says yes, awesome. If no, oh well, now you know and move on.
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:08 PM
3

I really hope that was a /s. OP you might be coming on way to strong, unless you've already built the sexual tention before getting to the house the girl isnt going to want to sleep with you. You need to just chill out, have a chat, listen to music, have a glass of wine, playfully make fun of her etc and one thing will lead to another. If they think they are coming over to hangout and maybe hookup later and you jump on them of course they are going to be a bit freaked.
/r/seduction21/09/18 05:03 AM
3

"I can kiss you at your place"
/r/seduction07/08/18 08:46 AM
9

Depends if you want to be an asshole in her eyes, once you work that out you answer your own question.
/r/seduction04/06/17 08:52 PM
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