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| 2 | 30 and GF said she would still love me if I quit my job. Myth or plausible?Possible but not likely in my age group. Why would you quit your job? | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 11:57 AM |
| 33 | [deleted by user]I believe that you are being unrealistic about it and care way too much about the topic. I (male 50) stopped caring in my late teens about someone's sexual past. Do you feel this way because she has had more partners than you? | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | How have people here gotten over the mental block of getting into the game late?Yes you are acting silly. It is what it is so let it be and relax. You are doing well in life so believe in yourself. Women will care more about your self confidence (or lack thereof) rather than your sexual inexperience. Go forth and slay young King. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Am I the problem? Or I'm just not ready yet ?No, no, yes, no and not really. It will happen when it happens. Chill bruh . | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you are interested in him and have a way to contact him, text and ask if he wants to meet for a drink and keep your boundaries. Have 1 or 2 then leave saying that you have work tomorrow, etc. It will build his interest and respect if he is even remotely interested. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Does she still have an interest in me?No. You should have gotten her number instead of going through a mutual friend. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 11:10 AM |
| 18 | I met my match and ended thingsMore of the younger guys would be successful if they would learn this. | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | How to know what this guy is thinkingYes, I believe that he is interested in you. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Don’t be this guyApparently I stepped on feelings 🙄😂🤷 | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:44 AM |
| -1 | Don’t be this guyWhy do you assume I'm doing bad with women? Male millennial problem #1: false assumptions. Your friend sounds like great dad material, 5 kids out of wedlock. ✌️ Nothing left to be said there 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 4 | Don’t be this guyYou missed it again, stick to your video games. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Don’t be this guyAll I can is some of us are born with it and the rest are late bloomers. I wouldn't care to pay his child support though. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Don’t be this guyThat part is a given and went over your head. However average guys that meet the criteria that I mentioned with a good personality can pull women. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Don’t be this guyAssuming introducing yourself is a "cold" approach. We didn't even have a word for this when I was in college. It was considered just being a man. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:48 AM |
| 7 | Don’t be this guyYes although I'm male I've had women do the same so I get it. At the same time I see guys post here talking about "slow play", cold approach, etc and it's all bullshit. As a 50 year old man it's very basic. Have your shit together. Be in shape. Dress and smell nice. Don't be a dick. Be confident. It's that simple. The women will flock to you.and you don't have to play stupid games or come to Reddit for advice. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Worst first time rejection at clubNot sure about your age, location, etc, so is it possible that maybe she thought you may be trying to sell her drugs? Next time you are out and if a woman makes eye contact just look her in the eye and smile. Walk up to her and introduce yourself. This sub makes you younger men overthink shit. I was seducing women before the internet existed. Just be a man, it's pretty simple. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Weekend encouragement!Enjoyed that, thank you. | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women at barsSay it LOUDER 🙌 👏 Mark Manson is one of my favorite Authors and so is that book. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Hot take: if you have a lotta childhood trauma or little man syndrome you need all the bigger balls, grace, and hard workMy thoughts are that you could benefit from using punctuation marks. | /r/seduction | 26/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | As soon as I open my mouth girls are no longer interested.Fair enough. | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | As soon as I open my mouth girls are no longer interested.Do you make them aware that English is your second language? What about taking a language course to improve it? I've dated women who had english as a second language and didn't find it as a turnoff but rather a turn-on. | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 3 | About to go possibly lose my virginity need advice!What freakbul said. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Striking while it’s....Lukewarm?!Act like it doesn't bother you. Continue to say "hello, how are you, etc and engage in small talk. However, don't even acknowledge her attitude; just act like it doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Need help determining a course of actionIt sounds like you are doing well so far. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Hangout with my friendYes it's clear that she isn't interested. | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | I gave her my number and she actually hmu. What do I do from here to not f*** things up and escalate?Just respond when you receive it bro. However don't sit there waiting for a text either. Also after you respond, let her send the next one. It's about the ping and the pong, the Yi g and the yang so to speak. In other words, just let it flow and relax. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Best programs/courses that helped you with women the most?The question and responses leave me shaking my head, allow me to explain. There is no "game," noun nor verb. It's simply: 1. Being confident. 2. Having your shit together. 3. Being genuine. 4. Don't be a dick. 5. Being straightforward about your intentions. Stop thinking so much. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 20 | Is it okay to not have any girls I'm talking to at the moment?Yes it's okay just relax. Work on your self while remaining open to meeting a woman. | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 01:16 PM |
| -1 | I just asked this girl's instagram and got it.Only text her if you cannot see her in person. Plus, give it 2-3 days before you go back. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 01:10 PM |
| 4 | I just asked this girl's instagram and got it.Messaging rather than seeing her face to face will make you look weak. All of the "inner game / outer game" stuff is bullshit, everyone needs to just stop with that. Go in person and show confidence. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 12:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm an older guy who wants to try talking to younger women. How do you go about it without looking a creep?At 49 and living on my own since 17; I'm saying a stable career, your own place, your own vehicle (unless you live in a large metropolitan area where some people just rely on public transportation), free of any drug and alcohol problems, and a really big one is that if you have a child / children, being a great Dad. If you can check each of them boxes that apply to you, then go forth young King and find your Princess. | /r/seduction | 10/07/20 11:44 AM |
| 3 | I'm an older guy who wants to try talking to younger women. How do you go about it without looking a creep?10 years younger, 22 is still in your wheelhouse. 14 years younger at your age will probably be more difficult. Just approach, be yourself and if you have your shit together; then they will find it appealing. Not all, but some. | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 0 | My First and Last Field Report: Dear Women I WinCongratulations and I'm in the same boat my man. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 24 | Approached a girl - worst experience everNo, she does not need to know how "good she looks" from a complete stranger. If she is, she already knows it as she hears it regularly and could have a different guy each day of the week. I'm not saying she would, but she could. Hell, even unattractive women can get laid as often as they want, but that's a different conversation. In the beginning women want a challenge too. Bring something different to the table. What you should be focused on is an opportunity to have a second conversation. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 43 | Approached a girl - worst experience everYeah I can see where it may have creeped her out. Maybe next time try smiling and saying "hello." Your response should be based on her's. If she gives a friendly then introduce yourself and go from there. Besides, you gave the power away with a lame compliment. It's all in the "ping and the pong" bro. Better luck next time. | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Is my female friend of 5 years trying to make sparks fly? cause it's workingIf you like her go for it, seems like she is giving you signs that she is in to you as well. | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 02:15 PM |
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