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Just think about the last 5/10 you saw. Did you stare at her, and think in depth about what kind of person she is? No? The same thing applies in the beginning of relationships. Looks draw you to the person, but you view them through your own eyes and idealize them no matter what. You don't think about "understanding" who they really are. An impression is all you have energy for. Better to make sure that idealization is the best it can be at the start.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:51 AM
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You've misunderstood my point completely. It comes down to responsibility. It should never be the woman's responsibility to shoulder the emotional burden in the relationship, because women are inherently more emotional than men. In short, if you can't keep your shit together; it makes her world a whole lot worse. Be emotional and show "vulnerability" when it's appropriate. It's about expressing your short-comings in a way that is excusable, and even better, attractive. OP's LTR and he have been …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:46 AM
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You helped a lot. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:53 AM
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"Deep, philosophical conversations"= Only interesting when the guy she's talking to gives her tingles. Otherwise, he's boring her to death or "really weird." I'm extremely introverted, and was never the party guy. Is it possible to do that without being extroverted? I'm an engineering major, and mostly just sit inside to do research for my work. I keep up with working out, but only the basics. "They really don't care, they want fun, they want "feelz," " < This is exactly what I need help with.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:21 PM
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Which section?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:23 PM
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She doesn't know that she loses respect for you. Biologically, it makes complete sense. Women want the strongest men to reproduce with, and it must be a man who can withstand the pressures of life in order for her and her kids to survive and thrive. If you struggle in life, that image she has of you is completely tarnished. It indicates weakness, and your value is lowered as a result. Women don't understand this on a logical level, and it's pointless for you to explain. They just feeelll that th…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 01:28 PM
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Hey, most helpful here. Will definitely take a read.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 11:13 PM
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Fair. But what about the next relationship? I could avoid the loser-ish things I did in this relationship, but it never goes to the level of the girl pleading to come back.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 05:13 PM
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The only problem is the texts afterwards , and possibly accusations of you "leading her on." If she's attracted to you, it's going to drive her insane when you don't make a move lol. Let her down easily, and "slow fade" when you can. Do it on a good note, in case she comes back better in the future.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 12:30 PM
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Care less about it until you eventually don't care.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:15 PM
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What type of cringe? Annoying/clingy cringe? Fat land whale hunting after you cringe? If you dislike her that much, just ignore her.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:15 PM
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You don't have to cut him off entirely. Tell him how he's behaving @ "he's being really negative...constant downer, etc." And then don't respond. He'll most likely be offended and boil it down to you being an asshole, or he'll see the light and realize that he's a loser in his way of living and needs to change. It takes a lot of strength/energy for somebody to take the next step (taking the Red pill, for example) and it doesn't happen overnight - if at all. If he does decide to change, he has yo…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:08 PM
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The fact that you'll take her back is enough of an apology. Operate from that frame.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:01 PM
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Just be high value enough. It only increases your chances if she's had less contact with other men. Also good for you, because less drama and baggage.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:57 PM
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"So oppressed that you aren't able to proudly blow me." Say that next time. In all seriousness: When you're given everything you want in life, you begin to think you somehow deserve to have it. On top of that, it trains you to not be able to take any hardship in life, so the slightest "nudge" hurts. If you've been punched, a pinch means nothing. These girls have suffered neither, but have society giving them hand-outs since their birth.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:55 PM
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"Then, you're in for a surprise. Come by at..(Whatever time you're available.) " >Referring to the sex. Use that for next time. You're welcome.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:50 PM
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She sounds annoying. Stop trying to win her "game." Date other girls. If she comes back (if you're interesting enough,) then it's a plus for you. If not, that's fine as well.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:25 AM
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Pull through. Just focus on the things you want to improve, and write them down. "Decent ones realize I'm insecure quickly and move on." This, for example. What did you do wrong in that specific scenario? Did you fall to her frame and agree with what she said because you gave up? Did you lose control of the relationship? Acknowledge it, and don't do it next time. Remembering why you wanted that dream/particular thing is also a good way to motivate yourself. Think of moments where you have succee…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:17 AM
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Agree with this. The girl is turned off by him anyway, and will react accordingly. He's making it too easy for her to be disgusted by him (if he's that "friendzoned douchebag," as you put it in your post.) Why are you even worried?
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:52 AM
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