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PilotBass/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:43 AM
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PilotBass/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:25 PM
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I went through this. It is not sustainable and you have a 1% chance of her improving after owning her part. You cannot live any kind of regular life when yoked to a woman like this. After you’ve done all you can, and it sounds like you are on the way, at the end of the day it isn’t your performance that brings the bad results. It is her. The BPDfamily forum online gave me a ton of insight. You cannot live any stay and survive or leave. Just my opinion. I left. It was and is hell, but way better …
/r/RPChristians27/08/25 02:25 PM
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Misspelled RAPE again smh...
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/20 01:28 PM
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Yeah I got banned because I posted a one sentence comment on asktrp. I have never tried to post or comment on FDS. But I do get a chuckle out of it from time to time. Talk about the most entitled place on reddit, right there.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/11/19 04:18 PM
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/thread She has probably been reading he FDS sub
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:56 PM
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Dogs return to their own vomit. Read the sidebar and stop being a faggot. I won't waste any more of my time laying it out for you.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:46 PM
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Man here. So I apologize if this comment is an invasion of female only space. I have already boycotted P&G over their "toxic masculinity" razor ads. They are going far left on all issues. The whole transgender thing is crazy. As a straight, masculine, quality man, I can say that these males who grow their hair out and compete in female athletics are LOSERS that could not compete with their own peers. It is sad what they are doing to "women's" sports. But neither male nor female, it is the "woke,…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 04:16 PM
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You are doing too much. Do 5 sets of 5 bench presses, with the weight that your max would be 5 sets of 6. Always leave one in the tank. You can do it every other day.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:26 PM
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I second that. Step back and look at the big picture. This whole ordeal is TRP in a nutshell. See everything that happened! Anyone who has digested the sidebar could accurately predict the next part of your story. She wants an orbiter. She got wet for you when you were a cold mysterious unavailable asshole. You went beta and she disappeared. Now you blocked her and she is trying to get back in touch. That is how this all works in a nutshell. She now sees you as unfuckable but still craves the at…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:05 PM
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Pretty much nailed it. Too often. Especially when we are new at this, we are in the mindset of having to do _____ just because she says so. Not the case. Maintaining frame in this scenario means being who you are to your kid (a great, loving, caring dad) regardless of how you are treated by BM. Whatever is is writing, that is what you have to do. No more (and if you choose, you can do more for the benefit of your kid or your relationship with your kid). But u would set strict boundaries and do n…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:56 PM
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Game and bang other babes. You are too caught up in this one. Believe what girls DO not what they say. This one is clear that she wants attention and nothing else. I would soft next. If she sees you banging other babes she will be interested again and then it's up to you if you wanna bang or plate her.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 06:23 PM
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Yes, basically what I said.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:13 PM
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Red pill is amoral. It is a factual look at biological truths. You can be religious and red pill at the same time. The religion is your guide for right and wrong. What you will and won't do. Red pill is the situational awareness about how men and women are, and both tend to advise you to be your best.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 12:54 PM
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This^ / comment thread. And specifically by digesting the sidebar and going from there.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:17 PM
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3 weeks in, she is love-bombing you. She won't take responsibility and feels ok going ballistic on you. You have a cluster B girl and if you stay are in for a toxic, codependent, roller coaster of a ride. Hard next and never look back.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 02:26 PM
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Instagram. Gold digger who wants attention and orbiters. Not interested. Waste of time.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:58 PM
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It's called the last minute resistance. It is described well in detail in "Rational Female Psychology."
/r/askTRP08/08/19 06:30 PM
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First time actually FEELING the experience, so you only have that one girl to attach those feelings and memories with. The first is always memorable. But NEVER the best. Read all the required reading in the sidebar and trust it. If a girl behaves, keep her around. Also develop some abundance and see that there is much more out there.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:28 PM
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Thanks for sharing ideas to look more into (for me, at least). The way I personally have read it and learned, is that before Jesus left (in the flesh, after dying and having risen) is that he commands the Apostles in Matt 28:18 to Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have com…
/r/RPChristians14/07/19 01:48 PM
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Correct. And in Acts, when the apostles found believers, they asked what baptism they had, and since they only had John's, they were commanded to be baptized again. And everyone who came to believe in the Acts, was baptized.
/r/RPChristians12/07/19 03:51 PM
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The way I read it, is, Jesus was still alive in the flesh when he forgave the thief. Baptism that Peter preached at Pentecost and that is explained in Romans 6 is under a new covenant that was fulfilled with Jesus, a command to repent and be baptized, participating in the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus. That is the point of salvation post Jesus in the flesh, and the point when we are forgiven and receive the Holy Spirit.
/r/RPChristians12/07/19 03:38 PM
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Bang other hot chicks, or at least flirt with them and game them. If you have any success or even perceived success whatsoever that this girl sees, your value will go up in her eyes, and she may start to be more interested in getting you first.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 05:33 PM
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Holy fuck you beta faggot. The first few lines told me all I need to know. If you are a worthwhile man, then ditch this bitch. You don't have to have anything to go to, because you should be fine by yourself, and free of the abuse and drama. That should lead to peace in your life. Cut the codependent blue pill cord and have a better life.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:17 PM
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Not a woman, I'm a guy, but I can probably speak for almost all men when I say that your nose is about .001% of your attractiveness or lact thereof. A real man would want an authentic, real woman, who maximizes what she has naturally (maybe that's some makeup, but does not cross the line of being fake. As always, keep in good shape, be feminine, and have a pleasant personality, and you are 90% there.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/19 01:39 PM
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Nothing. She is like every other woman, wants more than she has. Very few women can contain that desire and be faithful. She cannot. Count your lucky stars she is gone. Move on. You should never be a cuck, and that behavior should never be tolerated.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 06:20 PM
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Well, he has apparently educated himself and looked into the risks. Maybe he swallowed the red pill and decided (for now) that it is too risky. And he is right. When you are 21 you still have no idea what you want. Girls want to ride the CC and guys want to be the CC for a while, biologically. Maybe he knows what I wish I knew at that age, that people change throughout their 20's, and when you do, you could in 10 years get bored with him and change your mind, then when there is a young kid, your…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/19 11:34 AM
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Non-disordered is boring for a BPD person. They have to have insane histrionic excitement all the time or they are bored. I wouldn't read too much into it. Suicidal and death-wish activities would be the only non-boring type of relationships for them.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:28 PM
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Cincinnati, for the time being, still has a great cost of living. Big with Macy's, P&G, GE, 5/3 bank, and more. I'm not in the industry but it seems like a lot of opportunity here.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:37 PM
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My wide does that to me too. She gets emotional and irrational. I dont. She thinks I am psycho that I dont ever freak out and keep in control. Dont worry about it. As already stated, children name call. Carry on.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:26 PM
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If you start a new life you will feel the same as you do right now unless you do something different. That is the key. Your actions will determine your life and feelings. Dump the boyfriend. Then work towards what you want. (Hint: not something that would rely on another person, since you cannot control that.) Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 06:07 PM
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It looks like you did exactly the right thing. We follow Jesus, and you did acknowledge your shortfalls and repented. And you did not engage with the terrible behavior of her. That is called leading and you led in this situation. You even surprised her. Hopefully, though not guaranteed, you convicted her by your example and she will reflect, take responsibility, and repent too. Good job.
/r/RPChristians27/03/19 05:57 PM
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She is a selfish entitled brat with other issues. I'd go ghost and soft next while procuring other players to spin. Do not be all butthurt or a whiny faggot. Just a grin and let it be. In your head it is not what you want and you are not sticking around to see.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:51 PM
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"You want it? We can trade shirts. Right now."
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:25 PM
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Yes and no. You kind of got RP wrong. Men are designed by God to be strong and lead. Women are designed to be followers and supporters. While they do have strengths and roles, they are like children mentally, so they need to be treated that way. When entering into a LTR you do have to become kind of beta in a sense, as in, you will not spread your seed anymore til the LTR is over. You have found a good one that behaves well. The LTR will go as well as you lead it. A good woman will follow your l…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 11:05 AM
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She has already checked out. She wants an out if her new plan fails so she wants you to stay in her orbit even though you'll be far away because you are familiar to her. Save yourself the trouble and RIP the band aid off. Do your plans and you'll find another in no time, if you want.
/r/askMRP27/03/19 10:46 AM
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We may be in agreement, just explaining it differently. I was referring to behavior and my treatment towards people. I do agree that respect, as in mental reverence for, is to be earned. I guess what I meant was courtesy.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:24 AM
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You're only 16. It'll be fine. Learning to be smooth with disappointment now will help you net even flinch in the future. Dont give a shit and game someone else. Chances are this girl will come back to you anyways if she sees you don't care. All SHE wants is validation. If you refuse that to her if she doesnt put out, she may go that extra mile.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:51 AM
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I respect everyone. It is who I have decided to be, a respectful person. It has nothing to do with anyone else. Even if their behavior does not deserve respect. I have my boundaries and opinions. But I have no time or energy for stepping into anyone else's frame anymore.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 11:44 AM
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She I feeling you out. If your DTF anyways, she probably is too. But she would not suggest it if she thinks she would look bad. She is giving herself an out if you're of higher moral ground than her without looking like the slut she is. Do her and move on.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:40 PM
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Girls have their feelings, which directs their lives. If they are getting the good feelings, they will do the things people with good feelings do. They don't have a conscience. If you become a plate to them, even if you don't know it, they will like it and the excitement comes back. It's a fantasy they are living out. Getting it from all sides.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 06:32 PM
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I have gotten a new vehicle. 2, in fact. I'm working on my pilots license. Paid off a lot of debt, lost 20 pounds. Playing music behind moderately famous people. She hates all of it (except for the annually increasing earnings). Most of her shit tests are around the gym, and doing things I like.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:30 AM
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Day 4 of the red part of the cycle.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:47 AM
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Been lifting. A lot.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 11:31 PM
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Correct move. She has no abundance right now and is trying to recycle you for validation. Exes should always stay exes.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 05:17 PM
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There is always a shower within 8 hours previous of any possible encounter. It's what I'd want, so I do that.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:59 PM
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I have the opposite problem. Tons of great sex but not enough BJ. I say take the blowie as much as you can. Prolly legit reasons. Especially if she swallows.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:24 PM
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If you cannot afford therapy then buy a DBT book and get to work. Dialectal Behavior Therapy. Your BPD will ruin everyone you date if not under control. Fortunately, you have a diagnosis and are owning it. That is a lot to expect from a person with BPD so you are ahead of the game and there is hope. A typical function of that disorder is never owning your actions and not caring how others are affected by you - it is everyone else's fault. Hang in there, and do not date until you have done some s…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:15 AM
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BPD REALLY messes with you. I'd would recommend finding a good therapist and being honest. You would be shocked how damaging that mindfuckery that is. After you have worked on your mind, then get back out there. Or during, but NO LTR'S!
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:16 AM
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Exactly!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/19 01:40 PM
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Have your mind made up. If she is going to respect you and your time, and there is something in it for you, as far as friends go, then cool. If not, next. If you ignore her, she may likely become attracted to you, as now you are a challenge. Cool. Fuck her IF she behaves. But anything other than friends of fuck buddies, no way. Listen to what she does, not what she says. I would ghost for a bit until she starts behaving, then plate at best but I would not put too much energy into her unless she …
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:37 PM
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Ok dude, first do some reading. She is dominating you and you are her orbiter to whomever she can get attention from with no give in return. Value your time, as in, you are not wasting your time with a negative, hypocritical woman who is playing games. Why would you put so much energy in anyone who does not care about you one bit? There is nothing in this for you. Next.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:58 PM
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Everyone is a product of their genetics, and their environment. If they are genetically gifted, most women will not work too hard on themselves. Same mentally. Because they are hot and surrounded by simps, they addict themselves to the attention. And since said simps never hold them accountable for their behavior, they grow into a sense of ingrained entitlement. So they act badly too. This explains the phenomenon of the prom queen becoming a land whale with a bunch of kids, and the plain Janes b…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:20 PM
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I think you handled it pretty well. Be sure to not appear needy or have a scarcity mindset. You are a plate to her. She wants you as an orbiter, on the back burner for times her options are scarce. You were front and center and valuable to her at the clubs when she didn't have other options at the time. You seem to have passed her tests-bravo. Next time I would say close or soft next. Do not lose frame or she will become the jealous type. Find and spin other plates and do not appear needy.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:30 PM
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Hard next. You have not done the reading. She is overtly telling you that you will be worth it when her value goes down and yours goes up. Drop her and get to the gym. You are in her frame. Find other babes and make yourself a 21 year old desirable Male.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:24 PM
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That would be passing a shit test.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:31 PM
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Dude, I know this interaction very well. Because of my first marriage to a woman who was BPD/NPD. You really should look up Borderline Personality Disorder, and how to handle those outbursts. Regarding divorce, I would encourage you to study marriage in the Bible with a fresh look and not just what the conservative pastor types have been saying all your life. The nutshell is that we as believing MEN can take along a wife THAT IS WILLING TO LIVE WITH HIM. From your post I would be hesitant to cal…
/r/RPChristians07/03/19 06:07 PM
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At age 21, looks matter more. The alpha is too needy. Beta is not really that Beta if he doesn't care. Women go for that.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:22 AM
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21, so you have been only with him since 17. He is spoiled, and has no reason to stop using you and be a lazy ass. If you love him, do not let him continue this way. You need to get and set boundaries and that may mean an ultimatum. You probably do not know what a full world of quality men are out there because this is all you know. It is unlikely to get better unless you act now. And thank God you are seeing this now. Your gut is right.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 01:27 AM
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/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:24 PM
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Cop
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:24 PM
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I love lifting. I love airplanes and flying, and I am pursuing my private pilot license this year. I love music and I play professionally. I practice a lot and write music. I love reading and documentaries and learning in general. And not that I necessarily love it, but I work a lot to save to have a great retirement, so that I can enjoy those other things even more. Work involves guns and tactics and awareness. So I am always trying to keep those skills sharp too.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:25 AM
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Women tend to think as a collective. You just said so. "If Hot, high SMV women like him, then I like him? If all he can get with is a 5, then something is wrong with him." -no matter what his SMV is, if a woman thinks WOMEN want him, then she does. And vice versa.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 08:15 PM
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The good advice and truth has already been said. I am post 40, and technically "behind" most my age. I make decent money, but my first divorce and court wrecked my credit and financial life. So my investments, savings and such are behind and I am renting a house still. I have goals, though, and on track to be debt free in 2021, and retire on time, as well as pursuing new passions. I have kids and am married again. If all I listen to are my peers talking about their retirements, houses, and boats…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:51 AM
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Thanks for the comment. We are Christians. And I have been a beta blue pill nice guy until I decided to leave my first wife. I went more alpha before really knowing what it was. Not after swallowing the red pill, I am leading my wife and family, and in the lifelong process of becoming more and better of a leader and man. It is in some ways pushing her to improve herself, but more subconsciously. My question stems from the man always working on himself, and the woman always at the mercy of her em…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:38 PM
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Yeah, I have seen and browsed that sub. Still, they seem to KNOW, but not set out to improve.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:34 PM
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As a repentant Christian myself, I can say that a quality Christian man would have an understanding that everyone has a past. In fact, having a past and repenting of it is a telltale sing that you know where you have been and where you are going. You have done some work on yourself and have lived as if you know your need for God. 5 years of solid repentance and celibacy, I would say would be a proven track record and you are the real deal. And as others have said, you do not need to be specific …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 02:21 PM
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Capable of YOUR financial responsibilities? She is speaking to women. Sorry, I won't be taking care of anyone else's financial responsibilities other than mine.
/r/MGTOW28/02/19 05:39 PM
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Nothing in common. Fem: force their views on others, lobby to get laws passed, demand to be heard/seen, and society, government, and media give them all legal advantages. MGTOW: yeah, mad as hell for many of the above reasons. But they realize they have a lot to lose so it is not worth the risk to be with a woman. Want to be left alone and let others be in peace. They talk about female nature because it is important to let the younger ones know of the realities and risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 05:02 PM
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She probably has borderline personality disorder. Run and never look back. At the very least she is very codependent and you will lose yourself if you get involved with her. Either way, it is clear she gets her sense of being from someone else (you). Whenshe uses you up or gets bored she will move on. Trust me, those 10's are still a dime a dozen at that age, and you have plenty of time. Do not stress. Keep working on yourself so when you land a 10 you will not lose yourself again.
/r/RPChristians16/02/19 01:11 PM
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I thought all men were FROM Mars!!!
/r/MGTOW10/02/19 08:23 PM
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My gut reaction, if you are the alpha leader, you are secure. You want her to know you know things. I'd tell her and laugh it off. She is yours and you are no cuck. And she should already know clearly where your boundaries are. Then tell your friend thanks, and warn him that the devil should not get a foothold because he strikes when we are down (his marriage troubles).
/r/RPChristians09/02/19 05:24 PM
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Your title=true. Remember that. You lost your job because of YOU. You could have said no. She would have given you hell, for a short while, then she would follow up by either leaving you, or respecting you. You are becoming familiar with the Red Pill. It took me years to swallow it and figure out MY part in the dynamics of the relationship with my ex. You let them suck you dry and you stop being yourself and an empty shell instead, well, they are not attracted to that and will immediately move o…
/r/MGTOW08/02/19 08:22 PM
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