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| 4 | What made you realize your plate is not LTR material?Her friend was long-term cheating on a guy; her and her smarter+older sister would chat about this like they completely supported it. Saw a bite mark on my skin from another girl and physically attacked me. Was sleeping around when she was just-a-plate but was really bad at lying about it. Tried too hard to convince me to move in with her. Pretty much just admitted how "alpha-widowed" she was. Asked to borrow money for some BS reason (after like full year of being a perfect FWB). | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 6 | Is this girl a virgin?The easiest lay I've ever had was also the worst in bed (age 26). I also had a FWB who was pretty awkward at age 27 (but she'd been hooking up with various people since age 24). Just find out if you can "teach" her to be good or not. I wouldn't outright ask if she's a virgin, if she didn't tell you then she probably doesn't wanna bring it up. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 10:11 AM |
| 11 | Dear Michael from Toronto…you need to stop.Yeah, come on, whoever did this just confess; we promise we won't be mad! | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 10:45 AM |
| 3 | See LTR of 1 year differently after she got tipsy and talked about her past. Myriad of red flags that I never would have guessed.Is that what America is like? Damn. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 08:52 AM |
| 5 | What is the most NUCLEAR SHIT you have heard/said from/to a girl.I broke it off with a girl by using a meme. Another went around saying that I was gay because I rejected her. Jealous girl told me "whenever I see you're offline for more than an hour or two I know you're fucking another girl" (which was almost accurate). | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 01:52 PM |
| 10 | Why do women continue mentioning past sexual "abuses"?Telling a sob story is a way of pushing boundaries and testing you. She outright tells you that she's fucked up, then: A) if you "don't stick your dick in crazy" then you were never a prospect for her. B) if you change the subject and play it down without much reaction, you keep her as a plate/FWB and she knows you're low-drama. C) if you buy into it and act all sweet and protective then she knows you're a chump who can be manipulated in a relationship as a sweet/supportive boyfriend. When A or … | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 10:38 AM |
| 12 | How to train boring in bed gf to be more sexual?Nah I've been with an illiterate slum girl in India. They're certainly "shy" but if you just do your thing they'll go along with it. All of Asia is a bit like that, non-consent kink is like the default, they say "no" but don't actually mean it. It's like that scene in Lost In Translation with the hooker. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck are women so broken mentally?Right. But unfortunately in the modern political landscape they're lumped together (the identity-politics people tend to be the ones who are left-wing economically). Peak irony are BLM Marxists who've absorbed every Marxist theory but frame the whole thing as black-vs-white instead of poor-vs-rich. I can respect an old German guy advocating for labor unions or an Indian talking-up the success of Kerala. But when a green-haired non-binary person is demanding higher taxes to fund special-interest … | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What’s the longest time you’ve kept a plateContinuously with weekly meetings, 6 months. But with distance/disruptions, unlimited. I had a married lady I met 6 years ago hit me up recently. Another I've met 3 times in 3 years. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Rejecting girls who are willing to have unprotected sex?Also in the literal jungle; girls from developing countries are usually not risk-taking like that. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:17 AM |
| 12 | The quality of dating apps in 2021...Bruh same. "oh you don't wanna dance with me? You don't wanna hold my hand? It's OK, because you're gay, right? That's fine, you're gay" lmao | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 3 | What are some good chores for plates?For me it's always food. I'm young dating young girls, so if they don't cook well themselves they bring something from their moms/maids. It works best with certain ethnicities, because you can just be like "oh I haven't had good Indian food for a long time" and see if they rise to the challenge. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 03:22 AM |
| 5 | Status is genuinely everything and I’m speaking from experienceI know a guy who's game is only that, rich guy game. He's fat+short and the least-successful of a prominent family. Dude just finds model-hot girls on social media (who have mutual friends with others) and invites them to a bar (which is illegally open during COVID). 100% of the time they'll suck his dick in the underground parking garage. He doesn't even have his own place or a fancy car, but he just tells the girls who his family is while they share a bottle of wine and then they'll do anythin… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Are you guys cold approaching with masks on?For real. My eyes look better than my face when I smile, I can never do the right amount of smirk/smile to be attractive. Same with an "intimidating" face. The mask makes it easy 😂 | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Plate/potential LTR hit me with an ultimatum out of nowhere. Need some advice.I've struggled with one like this, too. I pretty much told her as such, like "I don't negotiate with terrorists, give me time to love you without forcing it or rushing with ultimatums" but she'd just bring the ultimatum back every time, so I could never commit. If she shuts up and lets you do things on your own terms then you can LTR, but you can't LTR in response to her demands. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 10:42 AM |
| 7 | Plate/potential LTR hit me with an ultimatum out of nowhere. Need some advice.That's it. I've never had a girl actually permanently leave when I declined exclusivity. If you hold frame they tend to get addicted | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 09:44 AM |
| 13 | Do any of your LTR’s best friends hate you?It really do be like that, they want their friends to be on their level. Back in high school/uni I wasn't "redpilled" but I had the frame to keep an open relationship. LTR's best friend was a drug addict who dated weird stoner guys (one was a literal cuckold), and she was always trying to convince my girl that her relationships were better than ours. It worked eventually, she dropped me and started dating her friend's friend (who seems to be like a stoner Napoleon Dynamite-lookalike who works in… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How can you make a plate shut up about her abusive relationship sob story?She's talking to me about, and posting on social media about, a guy who she says she hasn't seen for over a year. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How can you make a plate shut up about her abusive relationship sob story?Yeah I just wanna hear if people have other ideas. I mentioned 3 responses, but open to hear more. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How can you make a plate shut up about her abusive relationship sob story?Yeah no I've had pleasant surprises with at as well; sometimes when I get more intimate with a girl and hear about their past then I find out that they're not as bad as I'd imagined in my head (it's like, I assume they're a hoe until proven otherwise, but I've found some unicorns and honest ones). But for the particular girl who sparked this question, I don't think it'd be worth the effort lol. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | LTR mentioned how they are struggling that I am shorter than themThese answers are all so negative, just chill. You can start mentally preparing for a breakup and start finding new plates, but this is probably the least-bad height shit-test ive ever heard. Her admitting that she's insecure is a lot of self-awareness. She might be heading to a "it's not you it's me" breakup, but so what? If she breaks it off you know it's her problem, not yours, then you carry on. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 09:01 AM |
| 4 | LTR contacted me a few days after she broke upWhy would he not fuck anyone else for a year? And why would he TELL her that?!? No dread, not a good idea to get back with her if he hasn't even tried other people | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Kissed a transgender woman accidentallyThey probably are in middle school | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 05:17 AM |
| 30 | Girl threw up on my dickI live in Southeast Asia and 10-15% of the girls I've been with are reluctant to give blowjobs. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Would you live with a former plate if her apartment was perfect for you?Damn thanks for the wisdom. I can't live in a car but I'm glad this thread has something useful. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you live with a former plate if her apartment was perfect for you?Well that worked for my last female roommate because she was good-looking and she'd set up double-dates (she knew I had a lot of girls and helped me meet more). But this one I want nothing to do with again. We don't have mutual friends. There's a slight chance that she'd tell my other plates that we'd smashed. But I don't care about my sex life much right now, it's the practicality of the place for this time in my life right now. I won't bore you with details of the local property market but not… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 4 | I see my "turn" is nearly over, what do?Good advice. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 06:07 AM |
| 3 | I see my "turn" is nearly over, what do?Right. But I'm wondering how I respond to the latest tantrum. Last night I held frame again, she asked "so if I wanna be with you I need to shut of my jealousy about you fucking other people until you're ready to love me? " and I said "yep" and she feigned acceptance. If I "soft next" she'll probably go fuck the dude. If I act like nothing happened, she'll know that she had another meltdown mentioning another dude and I kept dangling the LTR carrot. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 2 | How common are flakes/let downs for you guys?Sounds kinda cringe | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 09:15 AM |
| 6 | Is It Possible To Get Used To Getting Too Much PussyExactly. You start to feel relieved when they cancel, and you think "wait why am I even doing this? " | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 10:38 AM |
| 6 | Do most women ride the cock carousel in their late teens/20s?Great analogy | /r/askTRP | 05/11/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Would the ‘After Sex Happy Text’ really work to show consent and prevent a false rape accusation?Canadian radio host Jian Gomeshi was acquitted of several charges because emails proved that the accusers were lying (there were several). Still lost his job as a public personality tho (on-and-off trying to sue or settle with the company). | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?The much-older girls I've smashed were tourists; nobody cares about age gap when it's a spontaneous holiday fling. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?Yeah this is what brought this question to mind. I pursue high-quality women and I never "promote" plates foolishly, but if I'm doing submissive shit with a chubby older Asian girl I feel like "this isn't very masculine of me" | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 04:58 PM |
| 63 | Do you have any "guilty pleasure" plates?"do as I say, not as I do"?😂 | /r/askTRP | 26/10/20 12:20 PM |
| 7 | Keep getting ghosted after first date, even after sex! What am I doing wrong?Agreed, I've had the same. A lot of lower-SMV girls who had good sex in the first date get regrets; they feel slutty afterwards and they realize that they'd be just another "plate" so they ghost. Just don't text them for several months. It's never "over" until you talk too much, they might come back eventually | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 4 | I just realized the reason why so many people are fake at work.For sure. I think it's hard for one to get any adult life experience if they grow up upper-middle-class, do an Education degree, and then go directly into teaching. Like, they can go their whole lives without any experience with wealth or poverty or risk-taking or big-picture things like politics. They can really only be interesting people if they have a lot of hobbies. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 09:02 AM |
| 10 | I just realized the reason why so many people are fake at work.Some of my parents' friends are 30-year school administrators, and their work stories are all about how they're basically babysitting adults (a lot of teachers literally never grow up after high school) | /r/askTRP | 26/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Is this plate broken?Every time I've encountered behavior like this it's turned out they were cheating on people (if not exactly "cheating" she had a main guy that she wanted a relationship with). | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Meeting girls during quarantineI mean girls from dating apps who have jobs. But the ones who are using dating apps while they have unlimited free time aren't actually interested in meeting. So just keep using dating apps but focus on the ones who are still doing stuff (I use that as a conversation-starter, "you still work or stuck at home these days?"). | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 16 | Meeting girls during quarantineAll of the girls I've met in the past 4 months have had consistent/essential jobs. Literally none of the stay-home unemployed/students swiping on Tinder have had a high enough interest level to meet me. Those with normal life routines still wanna do normal things. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 05:23 AM |
| 5 | What was your easiest lay? (online dating excluded)With "social proof") an awkward older girl from my school came to a house party at my place when I had a girlfriend and only stuck around for a few minutes. Exactly 1 year later she messages me out-of-the-blue to ask "hey you ever try FWB? wanna fuck?". I only hit twice; she was the worst I've ever had, but it was so easy. With a complete stranger) Went to a kind of business "neworking" event. Didn't notice a girl sitting with her boss behind me. 5mins after a presentation ends, her boss leaves … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 05:08 AM |
| 5 | Generational Shift in Body Preferences?Personally (as an early-20s guy) I have a theory; perhaps an older guy can comment on it. I think the ass fad in pop culture comes from the body-positive thing. Previous standards of beauty had more emphasis on thinness, and boobs were very sexualized. But boobs are more genetic and thinness is rare while ass is attainable to overweight western people. In African/Asian countries where more women have naturally-great asses they don't fetishize it as much. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What goes through a cheating woman's mind?? Curious about the dynamicsI think you're missing some of the "narrative" part. If she's dissatisfied in some way, she may also start thinking/saying "he doesn't love me any more", "he's being cold lately", etc.; people tend to come up with excuses to blame the other person. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?That's good, but mandating that in law and punishing police departments who fail to maintain that should happen. The recent fuckery is a clear sign that the police can't be trusted to police themselves. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go to BLM protest, I am strongly against. Thinking of breaking up with her if she goes. Am I overreacting?I wasn't really aware of everything before this, but the whole situation is fucked. There's so many videos of cops straight-up murdering and assaulting people unnecessarily; and the fact that police don't record 100% of their interactions is absurd (I bet for every 1 George Floyd on-camera there's several undocumented similar cases) | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Are the girls you match with in online dating in your league?My experience is that Bumble girls are near my league but Tinder girls are not. If I were getting "average" on Tinder then I would think I'm above-average. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | how many plates do you find optimal to still get your shit done IRL?I'm not dorky enough to do an Excel table or use a scheduling app, but I just keep a note on my phone about logistics (girls' locations, living situations, jobs, anything else relevant to when/where we can meet). | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 03:37 AM |
| 2 | how many plates do you find optimal to still get your shit done IRL?They just need to have different lifestyles. Have one who's only free on weekends, have one who's good for weekday evenings, have an out-of-towner who visits occasionally. Have students, have workaholics, have different ages. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 8 | The rest of the world following the West on its downfall.I admire the Thot Patrol but I wouldn't follow a religion and/or give up democracy to get there. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherHow about "let's just be friends"? If she has a good sense of humor you can even use a meme (some sort of ridiculous image with an "I lied, I don't like sex" caption). | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 10:23 AM |
| 24 | The rest of the world following the West on its downfall.IDK man. I know westernization has its downsides, but middle-eastern Islamic regimes are pretty bad. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Intruder Alert : As a female reading this sub makes me scared asf to date ANYONEThe consensus here is that if you're an easy-going non-crazy FWB then men will like you and if you catch feels for a certain guy you can start treating him well until he reciprocates (be someone who's worth more than a "plate" and he'll notice it). Surely you can do that. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Dating is necessary to even kiss in India. How to spin plates here?You just need to comb through more people to find ones who will sleep with you; don't invest time in girls who don't put out. Connect (online or however), text for logistics, meet up and make it physical, then move on to the next if it's not working. I know what you're saying, I live in Asia. There are jobless women who live under the constant watch of their parents/families who truly won't fuck you; it's not just "girls seem innocent but they're actually hoes", there are girls who are impossibl… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 06:56 AM |
| 10 | 28 year-old male kissless virgin here. How am I supposed to go from this point to spinning plates? I need advice on how to handle my insecurities and how to put things into action.Yeah you sound like this guy I went to university with, very popular and became the centre of a social circle by just being kinda funny and not giving a fuck about anything. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 01:37 PM |
| 21 | What elements of TRP do you not abide by and why?I feel like there's people here who insist that the best state is to be the stoic mysterious macho-man 24/7 and that you should achieve that 100% by having no time for silly emotions and no episodes of softness. Personally, I have my "cheat days". I do rant and complain to some friends; I do act like a goofy clown in some social settings. I also have women who I act more "beta"/weak/submissive with; I'm fully aware that it'll kill attraction, but I'll do it with women who I'm not-attached to as … | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 05:14 AM |
| 9 | Who are the most redpilled celebrities ?He's supporting 8 baby mamas tho | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What is sex like with older women 27+ ?Generally better in bed but not always. I'm early-20s and I've had a wild 33 year old rim my ass without me asking; best-feeling vagina I've had was a 29 y/o. So that's what most of the comments here are attesting to, they can be fun. But it depends on the context. I'm currenty in a country where the level of prudishness was much higher in the previous decade. There's a lot of late-20's girls who are "starfishes" who refuse to suck dick. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 04:19 AM |
| 32 | Have you LJBF'd a girl? How she reacted? Do they even give a fuck about it like we do?Of course they get it, they use it constantly and most know exactly what it means. It's a sudden surprise to them that they don't have complete power over you with their sexuality. LJBF'd with a meme (the "I lied, there's no sex" memes are funny). She laughed on April 11th, then on April 16th she colored her hair pink, then she didn't invite me to her birthday on the 18th (which she'd told me about a million times; I LJBF'd because she was messaging me way too much). | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 10:44 AM |
| 3 | What is the most fulfilling relationship you had?She clicked the friend request button, which gives me a notification. After I click on the notification I can see that request was cancelled. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 04:41 PM |
| 17 | What is the most fulfilling relationship you had?University, my 2nd girlfriend. I wasn't aware of TRP but I inadvertently handled things pretty well: -Got her through "social proof" because I was popular on a social media app at the time. -She was a virgin (unbeknownst to me) but I made my un-spoken expectations clear and we attempted to fuck on the 2nd date. -She was a "side chick" for the final 1 year of my high school girlfriend (a doomed relationship I'd "opened") and she never schemed to make me break up. Nearly 12 months of vetting when … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach as the economy re-opensYeah depends on your eyes and hair and stuff. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:20 PM |
| 7 | Frame to cancel out large social media following?I just kinda ignore it. The ones I've had eventually end up getting into relationships with wealthy guys who simp for them. Like, there are dudes with money (some more attractive than me) who's thought process is "oh this girl is so hot, all her followers are confirmation that she's good; better buy her stuff and take her on cool dates to impress her". | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach as the economy re-opensI believe I'm more attractive with the mask. Plus I'm growing a beard under it so there's gonna be a big reveal for people who know me. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:11 PM |
| 5 | Cold approach as the economy re-opensSame in Asia. Less-attractive girls who I haven't seen for months are messaging me when they're horny; attractive ones I try planning to meet are like "yeah seeya when things are better". | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else get bored with girls easily?Yeah me too, maybe once per week over 6 weeks. Then she hits me up 3 or 4 months later and we meet up and I immediately remember that I wasn't missing anything special. I've been stuck in a remote area during this virus situation and I realize I probably only needed about 30% of the sex I was having. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 11:14 AM |
| 1 | What's with the lack of "red-pilled" queer, trans, and gay men?I don't remember the details, but didn't his whole downward spiral kinda begin with based/redpilled comments about gay people? Like, he pointed out that gay older men and gay young boys like to sleep together and everyone blew up at him (kinda like how in TRP most think we should ignore the stigma of age difference in relationships because it's natural). | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 09:25 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts about eating pussy on a one night stand?I only do it if A) I have a strong desire to B) she's too-tight or not wet enough. These have usually coincidenced with the same hookups, but situation A is easily avoidable. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 06:35 AM |
| 8 | Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s?Less-attractive or otherwise less-desirable girl. If you've got a less-attractive girl she might be down to do anything for you while you focus your attention on your own life and goals. Dating more-attractive women tends to require giving them more time/attention (or maybe it doesn't, but if your interest level is higher than hers then it'll end up that way) | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 07:21 AM |
| 11 | Ho Girl SummerMost of us have over 12 years of education plus optional years of university; from childhood to early adulthood we get used to the idea of having more free time during a seasonal break (and there's an increase in nightlife/parties, too). | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | What age did you lose your virginity, how old are you now and what is your current number count?Ah OK. I think we all go through different phases, too. 6 months of my single time was being bluepilled and seeking an LTR (3 casual partners in 6 months; I'd just moved to a new city); then 1 full year of being single and knowing what I wanted (26 casual partners in 12 months; I have a healthy social circle). | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 7 | What age did you lose your virginity, how old are you now and what is your current number count?You're gonna get messy results from this survey. I'd suggest you ask "How many years have you been in LTRs? How many LTRs? How many years have you been single? How many casual partners have you had?" Because I'm guessing you're trying to find out how many girls the commenters have hooked up with in an average year (or some other straightforward number like that). For me: -lost virginity at 17 -5 years of LTRs (4 girlfriends) (9 side-chicks) -1.5 years single (29 casual partners) | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 7 | How are you guys getting girls during quarantine?Yeah no Tinder is extra-bad right now. In my area I think 40-50% of the profiles have 2 or 3 grainy pictures and a bio like "just looking for someone to chat with during the lockdown" or "just trying this out while I'm bored". | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Trying to spin a “Unicorn” but catching feelings?Enjoy the moment but give it time before you commit to anything. Like at least 6 months' time (not "talking" time, steady fucking FWB time). I had such a girl and it took over 4 months of hooking up before I realized that she was insane. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 09:23 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally?You know, "let's just be friends" works pretty well in most cases. That's why women use it (they don't like being direct either). The effects are the same. I LJBF a girl on April 11th and she'd died her hair crazy colors by the 16th. Didn't even invite her "friend" to her birthday which she was excitedly telling me about a week before. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 09:14 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else always beta out of relationships intentionally?I've done this; if you're in a country with anti-virus lockdowns right now then it's a perfect time. The best tactics are online; tell them you miss them and don't miss other girls, ask them about their day every day, beg for nudes, react in a sappy/cute way if they send something cute, vent and complain about whatever's on your mind. It all kills attraction very quickly. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 09:11 AM |
| 15 | When she says “Let’s get to know each other here first” and it’s derivatives on tinder, instagram...Personally, I find these explanations like "I prefer to meet in-person" and/or "I don't wanna chit-chat" to be pussy-drying. If she doesn't give you her phone number (or whatever your preferred form of communication is) as soon as you ask, then she's a low-interest waste of time. After that, you message for logistics only. Specify when and where exactly you wanna meet up, if she curves you, you just say "OK" and move on. Maybe she'lll come back in a few weeks and say "hey you still have time to … | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How much cyclical craziness do you accept from a woman your genuinely enjoy? (how much on-again-off-again will you do before you just decide to "next"?)This one is kinda trying to let herself break. The last time she was being moody, I set the boundary of "no more of this" and now just yesterday she's said "OK I can't do this I'm too crazy for you". But I have a feeling she'll be back, so IDK what to think. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Getting rid of oneitis when abundance is momentarily impossible?I just want to get the details straight. If you're unable to meet new women, does that mean you're not meeting your GF either? (are you also forbidden from going out to fuck your girl?). If you're not even sleeping with her right now, what's to lose? You're apprehensive that you won't be able to meet up with new women, but are you meeting up with the current one now? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How much cyclical craziness do you accept from a woman your genuinely enjoy? (how much on-again-off-again will you do before you just decide to "next"?)What I want is to continue ignoring, but I'm asking the guys here "at what point is a recurring annoying behavior too much to ignore?". She doesn't actually stress me much, I'm just wondering if there's a point at which it's too much (ie if a woman acts up once or twice and you ignore her then you've "passed a shit-test"; but if it's a recurring thing and you always ignore it then you start to look like a pushover). | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Ex plate blocked me after saying this. Was I actually wrong? WtfWell you'd think that a poor country with civil wars in an election year would be a bad place during a pandemic, but so-far-so-good. Burmese people are accustomed to constant fuckery (delays, things being cancelled with no notice and having to wait around for a long time, 100k people per year dying of preventable illnesses), being overly-cautious and lazy is the culture. As far as women/dating, it's too complicated to describe (ethnic diversity, urban-v-rural and regional differences in culture)… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 08:35 AM |
| 5 | Not Being a Girls Number One OptionHave you ever experienced being multiple womens' number-one option? It's exhausting. In the current virus situation, I'm RELIEVED to not be #1 for some. The fact that one of my plates is alpha-widowed and that another (from abroad) is probably getting tingles for guys abroad means that neither of those girls will text me and I can just hit them up when it's time to smash. Having 4 high-interest girls trying to text me is an annoyance, I already dropped one of them because there's no point in giv… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Ex plate blocked me after saying this. Was I actually wrong? WtfThere are different cultural norms, though. Women I've met in Myanmar have been so much more overtly crazy than any woman I've met in the west (blocking and unblocking, angry phonecalls demanding exclusivity after 2 or 3 weeks of hooking up, crying, physical violence). | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 31 | How old were you when banging different chicks became your ordinary life?Age 21 was casual sex but getting overly-invested in every girl. 22-22.5 were a couple of stupid 3-month LTR attempts that helped me understand TRP. By my 23rd birthday I had the girls from the previous year reaching out to me and I left them all on "read" because I'd figured things out. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Living with my girl for a month, bad idea or no?No reason not to, you just have to have to be able to handle lost attraction if it happens. I had a tourist girl who came back to my city several times and we ended up taking multi-day trips together; later I stayed at her place in her city to save on hotel costs. Undoubtedly there's less attraction now than there was when we met the first few times staying at our respective places, but no regrets (live in the moment, focus on now, and if you lose some attraction layer who cares?) | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 04:22 AM |
| 1 | What would be the most socially aware and strategic way to address paying on the first date?They pay for their own stuff; if they offer to pay for both then I politely decline until they insist. Never paid for a girl (for 100+ dates across 6 countries). I don't know why you'd think about it so much. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 11:44 AM |
| 7 | LTR Hypothetical CheatingLmao I'm gonna use this one when I can | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Girls who say they had "omg the best time ever" on Contiki tours is definitely a red flag yeh?Right. Surely you have no need for an LTR with such a girl. And don't forget t do some solo travel of your own, if you can. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 2 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?My first LTR had gay friends, smoked weed, and changed her hair color several times. But she was surrounded with a friend group of Christian good-girls so I convinced myself it was fine. In the first year she was hanging out with the church friends less; yet she remained close with her best friend (who'd started dating a bisexual stoner and became a radical feminist). By the 2nd year she was failing out of university, smoking weed before every shift at her McDonalds job, and eventually fucking a… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Have you given up on exclusive relationshipsNot necessarily, I've just not met a good-quality woman for like 2 years (and I'm fine if it takes 2 more, then maybe I mess that one up then it's 12 more). | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | If a girl likes you will she beta bux aka simp for you.Interesting. I hope to never encounter such a woman lmao | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 4 | If a girl likes you will she beta bux aka simp for you.Why though? Was it just a "because I can?" situation? I've had similar for like 2 or 3 meetings, but eventually I wanna smash (that's just natural). | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 09:20 AM |
| 4 | What‘s to know about women with no mother figure?I think, if they see what their moms/stepmoms do to their dad, they're gonna think "I never want to be like her". | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:55 AM |
| 113 | Does hook-up culture end after college? Depressed after graduating last yearLPT: You can fuck college girls when you're no longer in college. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:07 AM |
| 9 | What‘s to know about women with no mother figure?Is it weird that I've found them to be good? The few girls I've encountered who were raised by single dads (or by divorced parents but they preferred to be with the dad) have actually been alright. Maybe my view is skewed because my first 2 LTRs were like that. Both of them were aware that their moms were hypergamous psychos. The first's dad was terminally-ill, so his kids had sympathy for him. The second's dad was an extremely cool dude who'd knocked-up the mom at age 18 (and ended up being a g… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Are we gonna get a red pill mass awakeningKids in middle school would make fun of other kids for being "whipped" yet the same dudes are in LTRs with 6/10s that we went to high school with. lmao | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 8 | FWB Stolen by Betta Provider?Dude a few months is nothing. I had a girl cheating on her LDR who felt bad about it and then came back 2 years later. 23 y/o girls can feel like they want an LTR around Christmas and then be hamstering a reason to break up with him after Valentine's Day. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 04:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you let down plates that you're losing interest in?She's almost a man, pretty redpilled, totally fucked in the head. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you let down plates that you're losing interest in?Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I've had abundance for some time; but how can I reduce how easily-excited I get by women?Right, hoping to get some suggestions on how to fix that. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you let down plates that you're losing interest in?That's a great point, actually. They might tell their friends "he's weird, he ghosted me for [made-up "hamstered" reason]", but they'll probably keep it to themselves if they just get dumped directly. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you let down plates that you're losing interest in?I have too many, I'm asking how to "put in 2 weeks notice", wondering what's the best way to say "I don't have time to fuck you because I'll be too busy with sexier people". | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:05 PM |
| 2 | How do you let down plates that you're losing interest in?10/10 said this as a joke once and she said "yeah I'll probably get it eventually" and didn't care. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 12:02 PM |
| 3 | How do you let down plates that you're losing interest in?The second one half-works. Back around November/December I told a couple of plates that I was getting serious with a girl. I didn't end up doing so, and then I was travelling for 2 months. But in February all the girls came back like "so how's the GF? No GF? OK, come see me!". So using that tactic was a good way to temporarily "park" those plates, but they all came back. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 10:24 AM |
| 4 | Tips on getting with a milf?Neighbors don't feed you lmao. What's she gonna do, call in a noise complaint for next year's birthday party? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Tips on getting with a milf?OP should ask her to meet him BEFORE his birthday. I made the "invite" mistake once (had plans to go to a club with uni students, asked a 30 y/o foreign lady if she wanted to come) and she basically said "nah I'm good" and came over to fuck around 4pm. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Would askTRP fuck a liberal woman?I LTR'd one girl who was very "SJW"; that was a strong and high-quality woman who I loved and respected, we got over our differences. Other than that, never met a girl who had any consistent belief system or values (in my home country, or in 3 other countries). | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Is this quarantine making it easier to fuck girls and turn them into plates or is it much harder than before?Social media exists, though. They're getting online validation more than ever. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is less more with dating womenAnd the answers here now aren't even good. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Why is less more with dating womenI've never appreciated the unhelpful people who comment this but... Sidebar. Read the sidebar. Or read any old post on this sub on this topic. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 02:50 PM |
| 13 | Plate told me she didn't want anything from me anymore so I left her. She has now reinitiated contact after two weeks. More insideShe probably switched to a different messaging platform, which is even more desperate. I have one like that, blocked her on 4 different channels at one point because she was calling my phone constantly when I was with friends. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Why Did She Smell So Good?I'm afraid she was a short-term visitor to my area. In any case, I think you gotta determine if the "training" is worth it (based on your schedule). If I'm seeing 3 girls in a 2-day weekend, I don't want to have to train one of them. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | If you're "vetting" any plates/FWBs for an LTR, what do you watch out for after an extended absence? (Ie. what to expect from an LTR-worthy girl during several weeks of "social distancing" separation)For sure, that's what I'm asking about (when it's time to re-assess, what should I be assessing?) | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 05:48 AM |
| 33 | Why Did She Smell So Good?Don't get oneitis lol. I had a similar experience too. A girl's kisses and smell gave me a rush that I haven't felt since my first high school girlfriend; and then she was pretty bad in bed. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:06 PM |
| 2 | If you're "vetting" any plates/FWBs for an LTR, what do you watch out for after an extended absence? (Ie. what to expect from an LTR-worthy girl during several weeks of "social distancing" separation)That's a good point. The December-February absence she bought lingerie and started sending nudes and going to a temple for prayers every day. So I should expect something similar again, I guess. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'd considered LTRing just revealed how damaged she is; how can I carefully back-away?That's a good one. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you meet up with tinder dates during the corona lockdown?Not everyone lives in the same place | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Girl I'd considered LTRing just revealed how damaged she is; how can I carefully back-away?I don't know why people are commenting about it, I'm just asking for advice on how to drop her carefully. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 07:55 AM |
| 51 | Is there anything you can do to avoid being seen as Beta Male Provider if that’s what women seek from you?Ngl, this is me too. I have an Asian FWB who squeezes my cheeks and takes silly photos of me and wants to go out to cute date spots. She's treated me to meals, I've paid for nothing, and we fuck every time we meet. I don't care what she thinks, I'm enjoying it. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Is online dating full of fat girls everywhere?In western Canada I find they're not fat but just kinda trashier. In Southeast Asia they're not as overtly trashy, but just below-average. Tinder girls are essential because they usually speak English, but they tend to be less-cute than the people I find irl | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 05:27 AM |
| 2 | do you guys ever just enjoy yourself?The "analyzing" is just my nature, I use the "cheat code" without thinking, and I do enjoy it. Took maybe 3-6 months to be on "auto pilot", but I enjoy every minute. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 07:49 PM |
| 6 | Disrespectful or no?Nope nope nope nope nope nope nope. I've half-way done this myself. I was being hosted by a foreign plate in her hometown for a few days and some Tinder matches from previous solo trips started messaging me. It took me 10 seconds to process "nah this is dumb, I'm here with this girl and I can enjoy this girl". See if you enjoy the feel of "hate-fucking" once and then throw her on the backburner until she's gone. Also never spend money on plates again. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 11:18 AM |
| 2 | How much sex is too much sex? Do you limit the amount of sex you have like you might limit your masturbation (IE no fap)?It sounds whack but it's just crazy enough to be fun. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you have the same success rate with every race?Nah my hometown is less than 10% Asian but they've always been easiest (in Canada). Just did some Tindering while visiting there and struck-out with a black girl but got 2 Asians. Women who are studying abroad or working abroad alone have newfound sexual freedom. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Women and regretI don't think so, but a breakup can mess with them if they had their own issues stewing beforehand. For example, if she was slightly self-aware about being a thot, then settling down with you might have been her attempt to be a "good girl". So when that ends for her abruptly, she might think "oh God I tried but even the nice pushover guy didn't want me". It she has a little confidence she'll hamster that "he just couldn't handle me" or "he didn't know what he wanted"; but if she has self-esteem … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 06:32 AM |
| 34 | Plate says I just use her for sex. anti slut defense?It's just her attempt to get a relationship, ignore for a couple of weeks and act like nothing happened when you want to smash again. Looking back in my records, I've experienced this 11 times in the past 2ish years. 4/11 totally accepted their fate of being consistent plates, 3 broke completely, and 4 still reluctantly smash while trying to test me repeatedly. You could spin 2 or 3 of these at the same time, as long as they all don't get moody at the same time. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Do you have the same success rate with every race?I'm white. I find Indian girls the most difficult, followed by African girls (not, "black" American, never met one). Living in Asia, I've found that east-Asian girls are just as easy as white girls as soon as you learn to cut through the cultural ASD. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Can any degree of looks or personality compensate for bad sex, or will you always be dead in the water?Sex is more mental, though. If you act bored and if the overall vibe is boring then she'll be bored. Women just judge based on feelings. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Why ugly / average girls on social media / Tinder are disrespectful?Bruh I even got that from a girl who didn't have a profile picture. I was curious what she looked like and she just shot it down immediately 😂 | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | What are some of the subtle difference between low quality women and high quality women?I don't have a theory to explain the nurse thing but it's 100% true; I used to have a job that involved working with nursing schools. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 02:51 AM |
| 3 | What's up with all this redpill stuff about her being very experienced in bed being a relationship red flag?Yeah it's hard to be precise. But we mean the 27 y/o with 10k insta followers can be worse in bed than the 18 y/o who grew up with strict parents. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What's up with all this redpill stuff about her being very experienced in bed being a relationship red flag?Agreed. I've had 3 overtly-slutty girls recently who all did the same thing; they just bent over and said "no anal" (English not their main language but I still found that funny/sad). Best one I've had recently was like 24 with a body-count of less than 10. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 12:45 PM |
| -3 | If a girl sends a provocative picture unexpectedly, what do you say?Yeah this works for me too; I just send some kiss emojis or something, positive reinforcement for being overtly sexual | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 12:48 AM |
| 2 | When is it a good idea to ask a tinder date directly to your place?When there's some sort of time limit (ie she's a tourist, or you're going off on a trip in a few days). | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend went out for drinks last night with her friend and just text me that she got assaulted. She comes home in 5 hours of this post being liveUpdate sounds legit, but leave the thread up because it's good discussion. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Fiancee threw a butter knife at meStart working on that exit strategy there, dude. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Most girls on Tinder only use it to boost their insta followers right ?Where are you from? I'm in Canada and tried hinge for the first time. The girls on Hinge look better, but with the exact same profile pics as my Tinder I get ZERO likes on Hinge (almost 6 weeks now). | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Any guy here been hit by their LTR/plate?Yes, but mine was more out-of-the-blue (you're talking about fits of rage and hitting her previously; I've never been like that, I was even laughing when she hit me). Same thing, called my phone 120 times, messaging me about her feelings in the middle of the night. That was early December. I told her it was over and she knew I was going on a long trip mid-December. She's already sending nudes now in January so I'm responding positively to that and I'll probably keep her as a plate when I return … | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Is a broken plate redeemable after a long enough "soft next", a girl got crazy drunk and hit me but she was otherwise a "unicorn" and now she's trying to come backShe had a bit of a breakdown (calling my phone 120 times, etc.) and she said something like "I just wanna go back to the way it was a few weeks ago" (ie. when she was strictly a plate and she never asked any questions about my personal business). | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Does going to developing countries for easy sex with hot women only work if you're white?Not really related to your target destination, but I think in Southeast Asia you're good also. Brown dudes tend to get the same girls as white dudes; there's Burmese girls who specifically chase Chinese guys. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Is Tinder Even Worth Using?I've found that it depends on location. But just don't invest too much time in it. Swipe like 5-10mins per day when you're bored and expect nothing from it. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 12:02 AM |
| 30 | Is it better to have less attractive plates than no plates at all?I'd say yeah, as long as they're not consuming a lot of your time. I have 2 less-attractive girls who live walking distance who will come whenever I call. No regrets with either, but the one tries to chit-chat with me way more than the other one. There's been times in the past I've driven 40+ minutes to hook up with people I didn't like that much. Couldn't help but thinking "this is a bad use of my time". It's not the most helpful answer, but just do whatever you want | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 10:40 PM |
| 10 | Is it normal to be so replaceable for girls?It's not even cavemen tho, our grandparent's generation had WW2 (yes there's some sweet old widows, yes some girls who hooked up with Nazis were shamed, but life moved on for tens of millions of people with dead or injured boyfriends). | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Tinder is done right?I just saw a guy who'd done a PSA, and the bio was like "I made a blank profile for a 23 y/o women with a cartoon puppy as a profile photo and matched with 115 dudes with 30 messages in 3 days". IDK how accurate that was but I believe it. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:47 AM |
| 8 | What’s your average lifespan for a plate?3ish weeks initially but then they come back a few couple months later. Longest consistent ones were 1 year (wanted to date me) and 6 months (totally hated my personality). | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 8 | Would you accept a friend request from a female who rejected you?Accept and immediately unfollow; don't view her "stories" or react to posts, don't message her. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 08:49 PM |
| 5 | I going to the Philippines and have almost 100 WhatsApp contacts. How to avoid gold-diggers before the date?What I can tell you is that Filipinas are high-ASD. The first one I smashed claimed that she'd been a virgin up to age 24 and been with 3 guys in the recent year. The second one was the best in bed I've ever had but claims that she "doesn't fuck around"; she lived in a shared place and when I went to see her in her city she rented an AirBNB just to keep my visit a secret (she didn't even live with family, either, a 27 y/o working professional). | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 11:00 AM |
| 7 | I going to the Philippines and have almost 100 WhatsApp contacts. How to avoid gold-diggers before the date?Probably not, I've only had 2 (expats, I've never been to Philippines). "open relationships" are cuckery anyways. Filipinas will hook up with you, probably hide you from their family and friends; enjoy | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 10:32 AM |
| 13 | I going to the Philippines and have almost 100 WhatsApp contacts. How to avoid gold-diggers before the date?Just don't pay for the first date. Target wealthier girls if you can (if you're in Manila that shouldn't be difficult). I've been in Southeast Asia for 18 months and never had a problem; I've been paid-for but never paid for a girl. But I see it happen. I see guys who are more -attractive than me taking my less-attractive plates to weekend getaways and fancy restaurants, I've just never done that. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Should I Bring someone on a date to a location that I’ve never been to?I do, but the thing has to be unique, like "oh yeah I've always wanted to check out [cute cafe in target neighborhood]"; I'm not gonna go across town to eat at a chain restaurant that has a branch walking-distance from my place. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What underlying behaviors do you guys use to calibrate to a socially natural level or handle attacks to your frame using mainly body language? I know about A&A and all those other tricks, and already use them, but I'm seeing a lot of potential with body language.Oh God this just makes me think of the Joker | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Where and how do you guys even meet girls?In Asia it's more popular with young people. But I'd guess like 20% of my old social circle from back in Canada are still active on Facebook | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Where and how do you guys even meet girls?I live a fairly low-budget life in Myanmar and I'm like 60% Facebook, 20% Bumble, 20% real-life (friends-of-friends; the only cold-approach I get is if the girl approaches me). It doesn't really cost much money to chat up a random girl on Facebook and arrange to meet her at the nearest bus stop by the cheapest noodle shop. Redpillers tend to hate on social media and Redditors tend to hate Facebook, but the more you do it the more "social proof" you gather. Wealthy girls and models who I'd never … | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 08:53 AM |
| 5 | How to game leftist women who know about the redpillersI did this once when there was a big language barrier. I think girls like my voice, so even if she didn't catch like 50% of the words, she probably just liked me talking to her like it's a lecture. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 03:45 AM |
| 9 | What does TRP think about male gold diggers?Same as poor women; keep your finances and career plans separate from hers. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | In the transition from plate to LTR, do you worry about "revenge-cheating"?Right, the "not good enough " line is straight from her mouth. But if you can't turn plates into LTRs then how would you ever get LTRs? My best/healthiest LTR was a side-chick for an entire year before I chose her as a girlfriend, so I thought I could do that again. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:43 AM |
| 0 | In the transition from plate to LTR, do you worry about "revenge-cheating"?Well that's what I've been saying in my head, but if I think about it objectively she's actually pretty reasonable. She's a pretty traditional "good girl" who grew up with strict parents; she cooks for me, reigns in her clingyness, never tries to invade my personal time or privacy (basically is in denial that I've had plates over the last 5 months while I've only been meeting her about once per week). The actual detail of us being exclusive is where she's wrong, but she's a girl to the "Akshuall… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.Yeah that's kinda what I'm theorizing; the shorter girls just want to appear that they have high standards so they just choose a high standard that has no real relevance to them. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:26 PM |
| 7 | Do you have any observations about women's height requirements? To me it seems like height standards are correlated with craziness and I want to hear your takes.Agreed | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | For expats or remote workers, what are the best destinations for girls?Yeah that's fair, I've been in Orchard and Clarke Quay so far. Also the white people I've seen here are some of the least -attractive I've ever seen. Maybe it's just heat and jet lag killing them but I actually feel handsome here (not rare but at least cute lol) | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | For expats or remote workers, what are the best destinations for girls?So I saw this thread a few days ago and am now just visiting Singapore for the first time; I'm not sure that I follow. I've been living in Myanmar where it's measurably better to be white (ie. average local height is like 5'6 and average income is like $200/month so if you're a 5'9 English-speaking white teacher or NGO worker you're desirable). So far in Singapore I see white people at literally every mall and office building. Presumably most people in Singapore are bilingual and have decent inc… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 2 | When to end LTR?Yeah just do it right after. One of the most fun nights I've had at a club was my ex's birthday and hanging with her sister+br. Did the breakup part in the morning and moved on with my life. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Ever post photos with your best plates on social media?I'm under 25 and I don't really know Instagram people (ex. my most notable plate has 50k Facebook followers and 1600 on Instagram). | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Ever post photos with your best plates on social media?Yeah no it's popular where I am and the problem with concealing the privacy is the "Likes". If I hide the photo from my ~5 current plates it's fine. If I hide it from everyone then it will have suspiciously few "Likes" (everything else I post has 80-280 Likes). | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Ever post photos with your best plates on social media?I'm in college and 6 of my most recent plates have been straight from Facebook. What would you say happens she girls "see through it"? | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 04:45 PM |
| 7 | Ever post photos with your best plates on social media?This was one of the first things I picked up on when finding the Redpill. My last ex from my bluepill days was an attractive Indian girl who posted photos of me on her Instagram, and I've pulled Indian girls months later with that "social proof" because they're a pretty small community. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | brown guys in CanadaSoutheast Asia | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 20 | Girl I rejected at the gym is walking around telling people I’m gay ."Herpes Hailey is on a witch-hunt because she wants me, she really really wants me. Even if I was gay, which I'm not, I'd be the best gay at the gym, I'm very popular with the gays, they love me". | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Plate dropped another guy who was way better at sex for me even though I am just using her for sex?Maybe he's just a dick. In my town most of my plates have been through these two other dudes (who I don't know personally), they're handsome but they're Indian and apparently they just cringe everyone out. Also perceived status. Quite a few of my plates have been through this dude who moved away from town exactly the time I arrived (we have many social media mutual connections, but I've never met him). Several told me that he had a small dick; but I see that he was a well-dressed lawyer who dabb… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Is it bad to get into an LTR when you're about to have a vacation and lifestyle change?Yeah that gives me hope, I think this one could out a similar way. The Dread will work for me because she doesn't necessarily know that I'll be sleeping in my childhood bedroom, she'll probably presume that I'm back in my home country and loving it. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Started treating a FWB like a girlfriend and she's gone off the rails immediately. Ever get over this type of thing or should I just give up now?I mean her mother noticed that she was going out more than usual so she admitted that she was seeing me (maybe showed her a photo of me or something); she keeps it secret from the dad+siblings. Which is part of the bigger picture; she should know herself that she can't rush into an ltr given her circumstances (if we hang out once or twice a week now, that's already the max she can do). | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Started treating a FWB like a girlfriend and she's gone off the rails immediately. Ever get over this type of thing or should I just give up now?Sorry maybe I didn't explain the timeline so well. We were just fuck-buddies up until last month; she got drunk and asked "what are we?" in early October. Most of the cutesier stuff has been happening in the last month (fairly smooth/natural progression from FWB to relationship, we fuck but then we go out somewhere nice). It's just in the last 3 days she's being moody and sending me messages at 3am, so IDK how to respond to that (I can't be like, "oh sweety I see you have mood-swings and exam st… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Started treating a FWB like a girlfriend and she's gone off the rails immediately. Ever get over this type of thing or should I just give up now?So pre-Redpill I had one of these and I fucked it up but I actually did enjoy Bluepill paradise for about 3 months (which was perfect because she was moving abroad in a few months anyways). This one I think I can handle better. I'm just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this phenomenon (plate is so good that you want to treat her like an LTR but the crazy comes out instantly). | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 06:34 AM |
| 0 | Started treating a FWB like a girlfriend and she's gone off the rails immediately. Ever get over this type of thing or should I just give up now?But I mean she was acting better before. When we were just-FWB she invited me to meet her friends, told her strict asian mom about me, cooked food for me, etc. So I responded to that by taking her out on more dates, being generally warmer (we still just text for logistics but I call her cute names and stuff). It's just recently that she's showing her stressed-out moody side. So I did actually want to LTR her (hence coordinating a vacation with her) but she's started acting up now, so I can't rew… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Took my girl of 6 years on a date. Ended with her slamming the door in my face. I'm trying to soft next for at least a day. She is sitting in front of my house now.Pro gamer move. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | All the previous Asian girls I’ve been with have said European men are more favored over Asian men by a long shot. Does the Alpha/Beta dynamic play into this?I swear I see the delusion all the time; 30-something attractive westerners come to Southeast Asia and smash some high-maintenance 25-year-olds and go home saying "OMG asian girls love me because I'm white". The most attractive girls in Asia are not even at the clubs where white people go. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 10:04 AM |
| 14 | Would you prefer it if western society was more religious and conservative?The veneer of wholesomeness isn't worth much; human nature is still underneath. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 04:16 AM |
| 5 | No social media for 30 daysI did 9 months without it and hated it, but I was in a particularly boring city and kinda living "monk mode" with boring jobs. If you waste a lot of time on social media then it adds to your stress, but if you're already using it as an efficient way to connect with people then it's a good tool. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | All the previous Asian girls I’ve been with have said European men are more favored over Asian men by a long shot. Does the Alpha/Beta dynamic play into this?Don't read into it too much. The Asian women who are hooking up with you are seeking you because you're white (Asian immigrants in your white country; you as a visitor in Asian countries). If you live in one Asian country long enough you'll realize that it's the craziest ones who like white guys. In my experience, if she verbally says "I'm not into Asian guys" or "I only like white guys" it's a 1:1 correlation with BPD, anxiety-depression, daddy issues, or all 3. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 10:10 PM |
| 14 | Girl I’ve been talking to since July hit me with the “I can’t see us as more than friends”The right-hand side of the page is full of links to important reading material | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 04:48 PM |
| 10 | Woman miscalculate my smv, how to react when they reconsider.*MAGA hat | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 11:01 AM |
| 1 | The women in my office found my TRP-inspired private journal ramblings. How do I recover my dignity?Mom found the poop sock | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who's lived abroad able to help me examine my social life through TRP lense?But what I mean is that sometimes I do feel socially-retarded among the foreigners (those of them who almost-exlcusively hang out with other foreigners; I feel like I'm not part of the club). And yeah the "mixed dynamic" is good for friendly outings. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Relationship with LTR feels like father/daughter. Is this good or bad?Maybe someone in this thread can advise on something related: I'm developing this with a girl but it feels like "impostor syndrome". She's 24 while I'm 22 and she's far more educated than me (and is bilingual in a country where I don't speak the language, essentially tourguides me on our dates). I call her "babygirl" and she's said "I love it when you call me a good girl"; but really I have no idea where this dynamic comes from. Anything I can do to try to keep this dynamic up? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 06:02 AM |
| 0 | A girl from a dating app told me that she wants to “lick my nuts and eat my booty”. She’s very forward and almost masculine. She wants me to come to her place right now and gave me an address, is this safe?She just started doing it without warning and I kinda chickened out lol she asked after-the-fact and I explained I'll still try but it was so sudden. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 12:15 PM |
| 3 | A girl from a dating app told me that she wants to “lick my nuts and eat my booty”. She’s very forward and almost masculine. She wants me to come to her place right now and gave me an address, is this safe?I did have that once and I wasn't mentally prepared for it. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?Yeah I heard it phrased once like that; "shorter girls technically have higher SMV, because in the supply-and-demand they're more demanded". | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 03:37 PM |
| 3 | What to do when a girl show off her tinder/instagram?Just gotta appreciate how their stupidity saves you time though lol. My best plate right now is trying to date me; I've been spending more time with her because I'm enjoying, but she gets mad that I don't accept all her invites to stuff. She got a tattoo within the first week of knowing me and then went on a vacation and told me a tale of sucking a guy's dick. Literally within the first month she'd indicated that she's not worth any real time/financial investment from me. She's doing a favor. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Would you agree to a short trip with a plate?I mean I'm happy she's not posting pics because it's better if the girl at the destination thinks it's a business trip or something. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 12:27 AM |
| -2 | What is your opinion on Greta Thunberg?Cringe so strong that it should be unavoidable. I envy anyone who's passionate enough about the message to be able to avoid the visceral cringe. I wonder what portion of her supporters are just gritting their teeth for professional/political purposes and when their strength will break. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 11:34 AM |
| 1 | You have any success (or memorable failure) orbiting a hot girl but making connections in the process? (Maybe soon to be a "field report" but for now I'm in the situation).I mean really it was partly on me. There is the whole fake-LMR phenomenon in Asia (weird sex noises, saying that it hurts, "stop"/"don't stop confusion). I really didn't hesitate so she might've thought it was rape-y (plus, as I've explained, the sugar babies are programmed not to give it for free; she was saying like "no sponsor" during the foreplay and she knows I won't pay for sex). It is weird but that was months ago now. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | You have any success (or memorable failure) orbiting a hot girl but making connections in the process? (Maybe soon to be a "field report" but for now I'm in the situation).I have enough plates that I don't care about the F-close. It's more that if I tried to fuck her on the first date and I've continued to hang out with her then I'm kinda "in her frame". At least I only hang out with her if it's something interesting, I don't meet every time she asks. Generally sounds good but I still wanted to post here for get some perspectives; this sub has taught me a lot. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys respond when she is not sure or says no to meeting up? (Possible shit test to see how needy you are) Do you respond at all with a short “k” etc or just soft/hard next?The contrary school of thought is that "let me know" and "I'll let you know" are to be avoided. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Why do sorority girls all present themselves in the same way?So I'm not from the US and have no experience with the whole "frat/sorority" thing, but I've seen it through media and online discussions. Isn't it basically like a club that you buy into to buy friends? Like, instead of just sharing an apartment with roommates you're basically joining a social club? If so, it's obvious that impressionable girls with few friends would do that. I think I've seen the same thing happen with foreign students as well (groups of girls from a particular Asian country n… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Fucked my 20th chick today and I feel like my general relationship with women is very damaging. Help?Following this because I'm in a similar spot, but for now I just think "I'm too young for an LTR, I'll think about it in like 5 years" (and I'm not planning to be living in the same city for a long time, so it's easy to not care about your #3). | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Taller girl makes herself look smallerThe female height obsession is their own insecurity. I'm 5'10 and I had a girl who was 5'7 who was self-concious about that difference and wouldn't wear heels. She literally said to me "you're the first I've had who's not 6 feet"; since then I've met two of her exes and they're both the same as me. It's all BS lol | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Are Indians better than all other asians?Looks-wise? Sometimes. Behavior-wise? Heck no; you must know that South Asian cringe is the cringiest cringe. I think well-adjusted Indian dudes can do well among east Asians (for example, in Myanmar some of the most popular dudes I know are Nepali origin). Some asian girls like dark skin and beards. But the main thing is the social conditioning (it might be socially-acceptable for a Buddhist girl to be seen with a Hindu guy; Indian guys are "asian enough" in terms of appearing family-oriented a… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | So you have any observations or theories about women who are naturally masculine?Yeah like when texting. 2/4 times they wanted to see before meeting, 2/4 they wanted after meeting a few times. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 02:38 AM |
| 1 | So you have any observations or theories about women who are naturally masculine?Personally it's a really specific situation (in Southeast Asia, mostly girls from strict-ish families who publicly act normal, study hard, don't drink much; in this specific environment they don't have the kind of N-count they would in the west). Great warning, though. So the physical manliness isn't necessarily related to their personalities? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | So you have any observations or theories about women who are naturally masculine?I mean overtly doing it and having no slut shield. Sending her own nudes, being horny constantly, being the one who sets up the logistics of meeting. This is like the 4th time I've experienced this, all with women who are a big strong and tall (not necessarily masculine-looking but the one I'm dealing with now has mad jawline). Like, the only common factor for mine is that they've been nympho+BPD; but that's not much of an observation. I'm wondering if TRP has any wisdom about masculine women. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | What are your observations or theories about interracial dating preferences?Sorry I mean not your personal preference but your observations about others' preference (though a RP lense, in general). I would say that your suggestion is pretty popular among Indians (hook up with all types of people but eventually marry at Indian to please the family later). | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What happen's in a girl's mind when she sees a beta who looks alphaIt depends, in most cases it's just a miserable relationship for the guy but she'll string it out as long as possible. I have a female roommate who loves them because I think she loves the drama. She's got like 2 long-distance dudes and 1 in-town saying they all love her (and sending dick pics, and getting jealous about her other dudes, and listening to her complain about her day). She starts stupid arguments with all of them constantly but they'll still fuck; she drags the attractive guy out fo… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 01:58 PM |
| 5 | What does healthy self esteem look like in women?LMAO yeah I didn't get this before I lived in a touristy city but now I do (catch a tourist on Bumble about once a month). The photos of exotic food she posts are with me sitting across the table; she posts her sightseeing photos at midnight when she's lying in the hotel bed. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?Yeah for sure the good-looking Indian dudes slay here in Myanmar. And I agree about the bad-in-bed thing, but they're still not out-of-my system. Maybe I should just go Tinder-ring in Calcutta for a week or something. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?This is what I mean. I'm learning to use my time better and better, but they are my weakness. Like, an objective 7/10 looks like a 9/10 to me if she's my type; if I see a group of said 7's at a party I'll think "hey this is probably a waste of my time but fuck it, let's go". The only good it's ever done me is dread. A few women in my circle know that I had a cute Tamil ex; if a plate asks me "what's your type?" I'll tell them it's Indian girls and it gets them hamstering. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?I'm not an expert but I've had success with Japanese (as a tourist, speaking some of the language), Thai(as a repeat business traveler), Philippine (travellers visiting Myanmar), and Burmese/mixed (as an expat, plates of various durations). Even in Canada I found the Chinese foreign students way easier than the Indian ones. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?All good insights. But what I meant about the pickiness is that they're especially picky about white dudes. Like, the Southeast+East Asian girls seem to assign white foreigners some extra SMV points merely being exotic and non-clingy (not even the money thing, plenty of rich Asian girls want to hook up with penniless white dudes) but the desi girls here don't seem to bite. Like, if they're willing to take the risk of dating outside the race they want the white guy to be top-5% (ex. the 5'2 Chine… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?Yeah no I agree like my perfect BP fantasy would be an Indian wife but we're here to talk reality about getting laid and keeping attraction (which is a prerequisite for all the healthy family stuff). | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?Yeah so that's the thing. I've lived in 2 locations where the population is like 10% South Asian. Despite being 10% of the women, I've probably put 20-30% of my approaching/effort into into them. But I always have ended up with white/asian girls. Here in Myanmar I know a couple of very attractive desi guys. I've noticed that they have the Facebook/Instagram following of all the desi girls but when I actually see them in-person they're with Burmese girls every time. I don't know if these few guys… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?Good points, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 07:38 AM |
| 5 | How many of you found TRP after dating a BPD?Yep. She went into therapy for a month and came out to blitz Tinder+Nightclubs+Instagram; I started spinning plates and had analyzed the whole relationship by the time I bumped into her in public. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 01:37 PM |
| 3 | I asked a girl if she wants to come to a party with me tonight, and told her we can carpool. She told me her and her FRIENDS can just meet us there and asked me for the addy. How should I handle this?Thot Patrolled | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Fairly new plate kinda dissappeared for a week for a "mental breakdown" and I re-spun her by caring. Any advice going forward?Yeah no I've fucked 2 new ones and set up 2 potentials since last Saturday and today's re-meeting her wasn't planned. She's my favorite though. I'm more just asking the question to see how guys deal with the anxiety/depression excuse. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | “How many other women are you seeing?”Too much dread, not funny enough; sounds like a brag unless you get the tone exactly right. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Chick went to bar last night. Best decision to make?You agreed to exclusivity...why? Mr. "don't act blue pill" should re-think this, right? I think you know B is the answer and that should be a relief. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl that I approached then texted just responded the next day that she can't come Sunday and asks if I'm on campus today. I have no clue how to continue and would appreciate some guidanceThe one exception is language lessons; foreign girls can fuck with you under the guise of "language lessons" and you can act like a dumb student. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 03:18 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else notice women tend to be terrible with money?I think women are >50% of students, though. Especially in majors which are for less-lucrative careers. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 09:11 AM |
| 19 | My friend is doing everything against trp advice but it’s working for him ?"Whirlwind romance" is definitely a thing, it's just not sustainable for a long time. If "John" accepts the temporary nature of it he can enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Plate breaks it off then invites me to a swingers club the next day"she wants to go but doesn't want to go alone" But do you want to go? That's all that matters. If I were you I'd check it out as long as you've got the time/interest. just a one-time thing | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | 1.5 year LTR wants to have lunch with old friend/new colleagueIt sounds like you'd be better off with a fresh start. Don't get stuck in "sunk costs", this girl isn't valuable to you. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 07:42 AM |
| 3 | 1.5 year LTR wants to have lunch with old friend/new colleagueThe fact that she brings it up in advance shows that it's a problem. Either she's consciously mentioning it for dread, or (more likely) she's subconsciously knowing there's something wrong so she's asking permission. A healthy LTR girl who goes for lunch with a friend can just do that nonchalantly and mention it after-the-fact. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Plate going overt about her platesYour gut is probably correct. Carry on. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth to wear elevator shoes?Not exactly "elevator shoes" but I've been living in a place where flip-flops are the standard footwear (so wearing nicer shoes with heels can be an impractical choice but I'll consciously do it). My advice would be that you don't wear them on dates. Day-to-day (going to events where you'll meet new people or joining with your friends at a club or something) then it's pretty harmless; it just makes you slightly more noticeable to onlookers and potential dates. But if you're one-on-one meeting a … | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 07:13 AM |
| 16 | Dropped an LTR for „not telling“ the truth. Have I overreacted?Strictly research purposes, lol | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Ghosted before date, apologized afterShe knows it's disrespectful, she apologized. Up to her now to figure it out | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 07:08 PM |
| 295 | Dropped an LTR for „not telling“ the truth. Have I overreacted?Good move. It's oddly satisfying to read this, actually. Not in an LTR and never had this type of scenario but I'd like to think I'd be as strong as you. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it a huge red flag that girls unmatch after I give or she gives her number out?I think it's more like they just don't want you to see them continuing to look for new dudes online when they're seeing you (like, if you take a cute photo of them and they put it on their Tinder profile, they don't want you to see that) | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Fundamental non-negotiable criteria for LTR?Having had a real job before. Having grown up in a situation where there were some consequences for something (not necessarily strict parents but at least some learning experiences). I've met too many spoiled rich girls who are mid-20s with impressive education and some "work experience" from their dad's company or internships. It doesn't matter how book-smart they are, they just don't develop critical thinking if they've never faced difficulty doing anything. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 08:48 AM |
| 1 | What is your age and lay count?Too much of a high-context number (starting age and years in LTRs vary by person). Same with asking women. You might meet a 19 y/o who honestly tells you "5"; but maybe she just moved out of her parent's home last month and all 5 of them were from 1 month. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Ever been through a major decrease in SMV (and environment)? Any tips to prepare and make the best of it?Yeah mainly I was hoping people would tell their personal anecdotes of how they self-improved (like, "I started balding and had to move to a remote town for work but I learned to play guitar and started hosting parties", etc.); hoping for some inspiration. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | "don't shit where you eat" grey area; female roommate's friend?So roommate got a date and made the friend third-wheel; they tried to invite me to a bar I was uninterested in so I just told them I'd meet at home. Roommate's date was an attractive and cool dude. Her friend was indeed 7/10 but they were all sloppy drunk. Roommate didn't smash because apparently the dude didn't have a condom. Friend was drunk and on her period and we had drunk period sex while trying to be quiet. Friend hasn't hit me up and probably regrets quiet/drunk/period sex; have not aske… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 06:56 PM |
| 11 | How did you guys meet your plates or girlfriend?The king of lineups. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How did you guys meet your plates or girlfriend?I don't really know the terminology, I mean randomly adding on Facebook and starting a conversation about nothing. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Reply to "Not having sex with you tonight" ?Usually just say "alright" "cool", etc. Keep kissing though; don't let all the energy drop the second she says it. Live in-the-moment and be indifferent (you're sleeping with enough other people that this shouldn't be an emergency). | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 10:47 AM |
| 9 | How did you guys meet your plates or girlfriend?1 Tinder with good logistics; 1 Tinder but it took like a year to finally meet up. 1 mutual friends. 1 randomly added on Facebook (and I found out we had mutuals layer); 2 randomly added me on Facebook. 1 bought me a drink at a business networking thing. Tinder one just uses me for dick appointments and doesn't even seem to like me. Last one is obviously the most into me but she's a clinger and she's penetrating my social circle. Best is the one I randomly added on Facebook; I found her cute eno… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 09:35 AM |
| 11 | How do u respond to a girl when she says you like another girl?Laughter, non-response, "yeah she cute, you'd better watch out". | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 10:21 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts on excessive cuddling/kissing on first bangSame. Gotta adapt the RedPill tips for the environment sometimes :( | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.Oh that's an interesting way of putting it. Yeah, I suppose that if you're specifically meeting girls who are not-girlfriend-material then that make sense. It just feels like there's something a bit risky with the "higher quality source" thing. Like, meeting a girl and presuming that she's a "unicorn" because of some background thing isn't very Redpill (RP advice would be like "assume she's a common thot, regardless of her background or how you met, until proven otherwise" or something cautious … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.I mean, yeah, if they have an interesting enough personality that they can stand on their own. Worst-case scenario is that they wanna fuck one of my homies or something lol. Yeah maybe a message a couple days after meeting, then reply a day later about logistics for next meeting. Get the odd "you don't reply fast enough" or something else to ignore. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.I think the mind-frame of being "preparing for an LTR" isn't good. Like, you're not gonna get into an LTR when you decide you want one (after the end of a phase or something); you're gonna get into an LTR when a plate is treating you so well that it just happens. I've only tried LTR 4 times and only 1 time was healthy; it was when I started seeing a "plate" who'd been around for a year. Like, a year of consistent goodness was why I wanted her; but I didn't want an LTR in itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.I mean, I'm the same, didn't actually enjoy it being every single day so I just let that fall off. As far as the keep "warm" I just add on social media. Give weak answers to "how was your day?" type of questions but send a meme or two. I also invite plates to events (if they come it's fine, if they're too busy they still appreciate the effort, if they outright refuse then it means they're happy with the no-strings thing). | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 05:40 AM |
| 5 | LMR keeps screwing me over. How do I close successfully?Withdraw sexual attention, playfully shift the activity to something else where she can escalate later (you remain outcome-indifferent). I had this recently. Invited a girl to my place for a 2nd meeting and she rejected a kiss in the doorway. I said "OK cool, nevermind then, you hungry? There's a Pizza Hut nearby where you can buy me dinner". It actually wasn't so near, she had to drive me there and drive home. When we came home she came in to smash. Even if it didn't go well and it became a "le… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a plate who you keep for your "soft" side (if applicable) or a "cuddle buddy"?I think they do even less with other dudes, though. Like, one said "there's someone who's been really taking care of me, but dang I keep thinking he's not you and I feel like I am a horrible person just to think of that". It's like she's not mentally prepared for full-on cheating but she can mentally justify sucking my dick (reportedly still a virgin). | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a plate who you keep for your "soft" side (if applicable) or a "cuddle buddy"?Yeah no dad is dead and mom is chill, they're not middle-eastern. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Those who travel a lot: how do you spin plates you've met abroad?For me it's social media (Facebook friendship). Unfollow their posts but occasionally click on the stories. Hit them with the odd question about something ("oh hey, is [blank] as popular in [their country] as it is here right now?", etc.). Just keep the conversation on-topic about comparing their country to yours and mentioning potential travel plans. If they start asking about your day every day just soft-next and be "busy". If they're visiting your area then it's up to them to start logistics.… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 06:01 PM |
| 8 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.ONS girl better have a 2nd night soon or cut off completely. Try to set up logitics to fuck the 3 other girls. One's total rejection and 2 are "busy"? Back to Tinder or some other form of game. There's a chance that if a couple of them aren't smashing you now, they might come around in a few months. Personally I set a rough goal like "meet 1 new girl each week, see existing girls once a week" until the roster was full (and when it's full, it's fine for 1 to fall off each week). Idk if your lifes… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 08:29 PM |
| 13 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.Personally I'm not at that level. My best plates are 7s; recently had a one-night-stand with an 8 but I fucked up. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 05:21 PM |
| 19 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.But I think the humanizing/relating thing is key. Maybe "she doesn't care if that pisses you off or if you never hit her up again", but maybe she does a little. Feeling shitty about cancelling people, but doing it anyways, is strength-building. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 03:55 PM |
| 21 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.Maybe, but I mean it's valuable to fuck up a bit (to the point where it's a socially-damaging). If plates break because they feel neglect/jealousy, there's a chance that they go around telling people that you're an asshole. I've broken plates by being unable to get an erection because I was tired of sex, that doesn't help social approval. I've also hard-nexted a girl over a single message, turns out we have a few mutual acquaintances and she told them and now they think I'm a weirdo. Having a hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 03:50 PM |
| 109 | Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles.Yeah. What I specifically mean to say is that you need to feel the bad feelings. Like, incel-ish guys get jealous of women's abundance and the sex-for-attention transaction; but the key thing is to realize how sleeping around is stressful. Also helps give full understanding of flakiness. I've heard someone on RP describe it like "abundance is feeling a little relieved when a plate cancels a hookup because you actually wanted the time for yourself". | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/19 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you have a plate who you keep for your "soft" side (if applicable) or a "cuddle buddy"?Basically that's what I'm here to ask about (things I should consider, ways it could "bite me in the ass"). | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | how do americans do in asian countries with chicks?SMV is relatively higher. RMV is lower (unless they're golddiggers who specifically want to marry a foreign guy, be wary of those). It's good practice learning to talk less (in-person there's language barrier; over messages they'll send you stuff constantly but you'll be so busy that you learn to ignore them). I've learned that you need to provide more "comfort", though. Even the ones who casually fuck you will want to post your photos on social media or go on dates occasionally. If you don't do… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 07:41 AM |
| 1 | A 38 year old woman wants to meet for drinksDoes she make more money than you? Are you visiting her town or is she an immigrant in yours? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for getting good group photos as "social proof"?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?80% of the girls make the logistics of meeting complicated, every new plate involves a coffee/drink meeting; gotta devote a bad amount of time to "recruitment". | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?I can't afford pregnancy scares though lmao if they gold-dig hard enough I gotta flee the country. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 10:45 AM |
| 5 | Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?As far as the money thing goes, we never actually discuss it. It's just that I tend to meet them at cheap restaurants and curve their invites to fancy clubs. As far as communication, there's this language barrier thing where the locals tell each other they "love" each other after like 2 weeks of dating. The local-locals mistake "like"/"love" while the westernized ones are westernized. But yeah I guess minor tweaks could improve things a little each time and stop the dread from being too much. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 07:33 PM |
| 7 | Plates break quickly if I ignore them; they find higher-SMV men who will spend money on them. I'm not even salty about it, but how do you think I can reduce the turnover? Any experiences or thoughts?Yeah no I just make it clear from the start that I have no money. I get the odd "model" who turns me down for sex after finding out I won't be her "sponsor" but I'm mostly working with girls who are financially OK. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Girl I haven't fucked yet invited me to her place to smoke with her roommatesI think home is fine. The don't-meet-friends-before-you-fuck thing is more true for outings (you shouldn't, say, go out for lunch with her friends or go out to an inconvenient bar with bad logistics for sex). If she's inviting you directly to her home (with the "plausible deniability" of drugs) she's trying to smash. Be nice to the friends, of course; presume that she does this to a different guy every week and her friends are helping her judge which ones to keep. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to agree to exclusivity with a girl you just like having sex with but consider a hoe?Yeah I think lots of us have been there at one point. It's still better to be real with everyone. In my case like this, the girl wasn't really hot and the chemistry in bed was "meh", so it was way easier to not-give-a-fuck about things like crying (soft nexted and she came back a couple of weeks later). If you're having a super fun time with her and she's hot, just imagine how you'd treat her if she was less-attractive. If "the plate breaks" then you can do this again and handle it better with a… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Is it ok to agree to exclusivity with a girl you just like having sex with but consider a hoe?Oh so you just mean lying. What's the point? If she wants to fuck you then she will, if she wants to fuck in exchange for exclusivity that's unhealthy. RedPill theory is that being too-available (essentially "giving up" exclusivity for little/no effort from her) is unattractive (she'll have more fun competing for your attention with other girls). Like, just why? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok to agree to exclusivity with a girl you just like having sex with but consider a hoe?"You are still free to do whatever you want with whomever you want" in "exclusivity"? What? | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Setting two dates with different girlsPropose 2nd date for Wednesday girl with a rough timeline like "this weekend" and then Friday's something like "next week". Don't rush to confirm the 2nd date with either of them; they'll understand that you're trying to arrange multiple options without you needing to say it. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Setting two dates with different girlsThey're 2 days apart. What's the problem? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Accumulating PlatesTry different channels. Tinder, Bumble, lower-SMV one who adds you on social media, higher-SMV one who you add on social media, a couple from real-life events (ex. bring a Tinder girl to a party and meet two others while you're there). I'm enjoying the variety right now. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle events where plates+potentials+exes+friends+colleagues all intersect?They're 26 y/o self-employed, 19 office secretary, 19 local student, and ex 20 going to study abroad; all living in different parts of a city of 7 million people. I couldn't reasonably forsee this when I invited the potential one. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 03:33 PM |
| 2 | 5' 5" Should I go for shorter girls?Women just want to feel normal. If she's like 3 inches taller than you then it's harder for her to feel normal. If she's within your range she doesn't have to feel weird. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Do popular movies irritate you since you Red pilled? Most "chick flicks" are basically Porn for womenEver seen Don Jon? It talks about this a lot | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 07:33 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys feel about open relationships?Two of the answers so far bring up money and time, that's a factor worth considering. A true open relationship would be one where you have separate finances and spend time together in a healthy way. Bonus points if she pays for more than you and contributes some other value to you (cooking, etc.) but that's an extremely rare situation. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Why do good-looking men date ugly women?Median incomes in most African countries are less than $3k/year. An airplane ticket to North America costs more than most Kenyan people's annual income; international student tuition fees are often $20-$50k per year. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 05:01 PM |
| 5 | First date advice for a super innocent girl?Be yourself, lead, escalate and let her say "no". Even if she's not gonna fuck you, she can still get excited. I think I "alpha widowed" such a girl a while ago (realized I shouldn't be in an LTR with a virgin at the moment). We never had sex, but she would get so wet it was through her pants; I teased her constantly. When she finally decides she wants to fuck I will have left a good impression. You can do the same. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | If you left an LTR because of distance but then consider "rekindling" after reunification, what would you look out for in re-vetting?I suppose that's one approach (vetting as if it's a fresh new person, forgetting the past attachment and starting from zero). Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Assuming a person has a 10/10 personality, what is your minimum requirement for looks?6/10. Anyone who's a 10/10 match with me can make the effort to make themselves at least 6/10 physically by working on themselves. Wanting to be attractive for me is part of the good personality. I knew a girl who was facially 7/10 and super wholesome+sweet but anorexically skinny, didn't wear makeup, and didn't eat much or exercise. If she was really into me long-term she could have put in the effort to make herself a 6/10, but she didn't. My first BluePill LTR (high school girlfriend) went fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/19 05:42 AM |
| 7 | Why do good-looking men date ugly women?Rich girl was the big mistake that led me to Redpill. Wholesome girl was just bad timing. Like "I could marry this girl but we're 21 years old so that would be dumb". | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 03:14 PM |
| 9 | Why do good-looking men date ugly women?Any Nigerians/Kenyans you meet in the west are probably from the top .01% of the richest in their society while black people in western countries aren't anyone special. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Do women find smoking attractive?I don't really smoke, but suggesting "going out for a smoke" is a pretty reliable way to isolate and escalate with women in group settings; I do carry cigarettes and a lighter in my bag most of the time. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 08:37 AM |
| 33 | Why do good-looking men date ugly women?If a guy has slept with a wide variety of different girls, he might find a "type" and get attached to a specific thing. In my hometown there were very few black people, I had a lower-SMV black plate who I specifically found based on her race; she treated me exceptionally well and I made her an LTR. In my current city there's a big Indian community; I have a thing for "brown" girls. A brown girl who's objectively a 5/10 can be a 7/10 in my eyes for some reason. I met one who was cute-ish and she … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Sitcky situation: how do you "soft next" after bad sex with a fairly new plate?Lol if I'm lecturing a plate I'll go science-y on them, I've got the nerdy vibe anyways. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 07:41 AM |
| 3 | False allegations of cheating. Ex might be telling people that I cheated on her; do I confront the rumors?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Sitcky situation: how do you "soft next" after bad sex with a fairly new plate?Right. But was she more keen to set up the logistics for "next time" or did you wait an extended time for "next time"? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Sitcky situation: how do you "soft next" after bad sex with a fairly new plate?Yeah that's good advice generally. But I mean, how do you handle the times where's she's actually bad? If you can't get hard but you're having a good time then she might start hamstering "oh gosh he's not attracted to me" but in this case I legit didn't like what she was doing. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | How does RP apply to women outside of the western world?I've only been to Japan twice but I liked the girls there because they don't talk so much. If you're a dude who naturally talks too much you can just be comfortably silent. My Japanese is really basic-level but I only really needed "I'm by ___ station, let's go to my place" and "oh it's so hot, I'm gonna take a shower". | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 08:38 AM |
| 6 | How does RP apply to women outside of the western world?"Date" and "fuck" are different, though. We can smash girls who "don't date foreigners" | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 05:49 AM |
| 3 | How does RP apply to women outside of the western world?Really? I'm in Myanmar and it's not really that different. Things from RedPill still apply, just in a different way. 1) "Plausible deniability" is very necessary. International-schooled girls will meet from Tinder/Bumble and hook up, but everyone else there must be drinking. You must have a bar walking-distance from your place so that she can rationalize "we were just going for a drink and then ended up at his place and things happened". 1b) ASD and LMR are high. She's gonna say "we just met, I … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 05:41 AM |
| 15 | How the fuck do Escorts have boyfriends?Might just be a "boyfriend" in title only. Might be "open relationship" where she's paying most of the bills and he has a lot of plates. You don't know his long-term plan. She might cling to him emotionally while he maintains complete power to "next" her at any time without feeling bad about it. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 02:42 PM |
| 5 | What's your conversion rate?Different channel, but I'd say I'm also 10:1 for random Facebook adds. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Do short girls have higher SMV?They have more people pursuing them | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | My [22M] default/preferred sex style is lovey-dovey and it hasn't proven a problem so far. What is your experience with this?But in the last couple months I've had visitors 27 and 33 (re-visited twice and saw me); I've nexted a low-SMV 29 who still contacts months later, and my favorite current plate is 24. Could you (or hopefully another commenter) tell me more of what I should try to understand/learn? Like, I get the general idea that "she'll think you want more than sex if you're too sweet" but I'd like to here some examples of where this has gone wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Comedian Bobby Lee Realises That His Girlfriend Is A Golddigger - Why people get laid to those bitches ?I remember hearing Bobby Lee on a podcast a few years back and he said something like "I'm not interested in meeting girls at bars, I find 18-year-olds on Tinder and take them to Disneyland". I don't know what to make of that in this context, but it helped me as a high schooler "think outside the box" about dating style. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Girl only wants to HU when she's drinking. Has a BF. Thoughts on situation.Hookup, background, anti-slut defense | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Any short guys want to share their red pill success stories?It's not, just a commentary about height in general. If OP is like 5'3 he could make 5'4 girls love him but simultaneously be losing 4'11 girls; he'll certainly be shit-tested by all of them. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 02:00 PM |
| 49 | Any short guys want to share their red pill success stories?It's really just the basic "watch what they do and ignore what they say". Do they ask you how tall you are on dating apps and ghost? Do they know you IRL and curve all your plans to meet? Then it's a physical attraction thing and you can move on. Does she call your short 10 minutes after you make her cum? Does she say "I usually only see guys over 6 feet" or "you're not the type I usually go for"? Then it's a shit-test you can ignore. Does she fuck you but then also try to dread-game you by ment… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 06:51 AM |
| 3 | When a very blue-pill plate tries to get to you, do you ever use the hurt/damaged/emotionally-umavailable/sadboy routine?I think a lot of dudes improve their lifestyle after a failed relationship. Most guys can tell a story like "I got cheated on by a ho and now I don't get into relationships with hoes and handle my women well" but I'm wondering if anyone dresses that up into "I have trust issues" or something more socially-acceptable. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Tinder: When they give you nothing to work withYou can get way better deals at the meat market by starting normal conversations with people lol. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 09:06 AM |
| 3 | What was your personal experience that proved TRP was real, What's you one biggest piece of advice?Moved to Asia; surrounded by cringey levels of blue-pilled traditional culture everywhere. I'm not higher SMV than many of the local guys (except for with the girls who fetishize white guys, who I rarely see). Most women's attraction to me is that I pass their shit tests; I get "you're so mean"/"foreigners speak so frankly about sex"/"you're so rude"/"why are you kissing me if we're just friends?!?"/"how do you have so many girlfriends?!?" from almost every girl I fuck. The girls have handsome+r… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is TRP Women about?I think the "learning phase" is a common way that women justify their dating decisions when they're young. A lot of women's teens/early-20s are comfortably their "learning phase" because they can not have personally responsibility or think about the future. They can be willfully ignorant when they're young and then "know what [they] want" in their late 20s. Honestly, as a dude, that's how you can explain your own lifestyle to BP people. If someone is appalled by the number of women you fuck you … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesMost scatterbrained/ADHD/attention-seeking+rich girl I dated would never dare going out to bars while dating me. Even if I was unaware of being cucked by the ex she wouldn't have the audacity to go to clubs to my knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesI think people say peak male attractiveness is mid-30s and for women it's early-20s. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 04:42 PM |
| 20 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesOP should remember this "getting ready to blow up" line. When you drop her you might expect full surprise and tears and desperation, but you also gotta prepare for the opposite (where she says "oh. this in the breakup? OK, cool, seeya"). Women's mental preparation doesn't always catch up to their questionable choices but sometimes it does (I've seen RP guys use the term "she's waiting for you to kill the puppy"). | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesIn this case I had it good for a while; my "dread" was based on the fact that I've had multiple healthy relationships but I was her "first real boyfriend". I'd basically alpha-widowed my ex while her dude was a not-approved-by-parents rich dude who'd buy her weed. But my thing with the exes parallels this situation. She hinted that she'd be doing something unacceptable, I asked for a little more details just to verify that she was truly not LTR material. However, OP knows about this thing BEFORE… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 08:21 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesSome people are more in the "if she has the audacity to propose it it's already too late" school of thought. But in this case she might just be dumb and in this case in was OP who asked about clothes in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 08:07 AM |
| 16 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesThis is a good line. I kinda fucked up a bit with one like this. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and ended it and immediately had some rebound dates with my ex. I SHOULD have just said something like "oh yeah OK cool I'll chill with my ex too, she's so nice, ya'll should meet" because I could've probably kept her as a plate for longer instead of clean break. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 08:02 AM |
| 44 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesBasically this. It feels patronizing but it's true. When you're 19 it feels emotionally good to have some exclusive lovey-dovey thing but you gotta be self-aware that it's an objectively bad idea and prepare for the end of it. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 07:59 AM |
| 5 | In LTRs, is it dump or be dumped, basically?Agreed. The risk of "oh no I could've just tried one more thing instead of dumping her" exists, but 90% of the time you should know it's doomed for multiple reasons. The hardest part is getting out at the exact time when you've stopped having fun (because "perfect timing" means you'll miss the fun times) but it is how it is. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 04:08 PM |
| 6 | Girl looked like nothing on her profileIDK where you live but I've never met someone who didn't pay for themselves. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 05:07 AM |
| 16 | Why have male attraction standards for looks increased so much relative to female standards?I mean, traditional BluePill society was a lot of dudes making lifelong financial commitments to one girl I don't envy the old-school 1950s Beta Bucks. Living.in Asia I see this daily cute women in marriages to ugly/short+awkward+clingy dudes. It appears wholesome but it's just sad. Enjoy the decline. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Did I mess up with my tinder date/plate?I had this happen 2 weeks ago then smashed 1 week ago. Just invite again like it's a normal thing. Tell her you enjoyed the last time but don't chit-chat about anything; just make the plan for her to come again. I've done this a lot (lame BJ leading to later meetings). I don't like blowjobs, but I'm immersed in a culture with high ASD and having a nice dick is a big part of my value proposition so I'll do it just for the sake of doing it. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 06:37 AM |
| 2 | How to show value on social mediaI post photos with friends & coworkers and nice-looking solo photos if I visit a new place (even just a new restaurant). For pictures with girls or anything else spicy, I use the Facebook/Insta story with limited audience (I think Snapchat you can do the same). I have a privacy list which is just close friends, exes, plates, and girls who I want to be plates. Post a photo with a cute girl and she'll be honored she made it on your story/Snapchat but actually it's just private. I posted a self-dep… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Best way to maximize my SMV as a tourist in a foreign country?Not really "maximize SMV" as much as a general tip; don't act out-of-their league. Don't take girls to expensive foreign restaurants, ask them to take you for normal local food. If she just wants you to take her around to pricy places she's not worth it | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Teasing with beta bait?I had this work once but it was a very special case. She was crazy and only 19 and looking for her "first real boyfriend" but moving abroad in 5 months. We had a very long and talkative first date and I talked about reluctantly breaking up with my wholesome unicorn ex because she was a virgin and not putting out (saying I wasn't ready for that commitment yet). After a couple months of hooking up, our first meeting came up, and she told me "what got me was the way you talked about your ex, you so… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:13 AM |
| 1 | This girl is adamant about me giving her my height and she’ll give me her number. I’m 6’, but no way I’m. Giving into her frame. What can I say?I always tell them but if they're short I express disappointment 😂 | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 06:03 AM |
| 2 | If a girl tries to change your date plan and you don't bite, do you still meet with her later or is the entire evening off?This happened in this case; she asked if her friends could come to my apartment, I said no, she said my place is too far and it's too late. RIP me. But she's a set-up by a former plate so zero effort's been put in from me. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 04:58 PM |
| 4 | If a girl tries to change your date plan and you don't bite, do you still meet with her later or is the entire evening off?Yeah no there's a 0% chance I'd join her thing. The question is, when she offers to hang out after and I say "yeah let me know later", should she even get sex later? Like should I let her know that I'm just chilling at my place waiting for her to come fuck or should I just say I'm busy later to teach her it's zero-tolerance? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Can "chemistry" be built upon?Yeah no it takes a while to get used to but if you can be totally deadpan and lame and still smash. I'm living in Southeast Asia. There's often big language barrier and the girls are culturally very modest. Sometimes I won't tell a single joke or break the "touch barrier" at a coffee meeting but then just be like "we go to my apartment now" and suddenly in bed we have chemistry. Just push through the awkwardness, don't think too hard. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 01:36 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing more devastating than reconnecting with an old fling and finding out she got chubby.You've got the freedom to not-fuck whoever you want, dude. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 07:31 AM |
| 2 | How to maintain girls during their exams/vacation?Have some students, some working, some working weird hours, some who don't work a set schedule at all. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Quick question: what are your views on FWB realtionship with your ex ?I'm gonna get my first chance to try the latter in a few months, but I'm gonna add some sort of consideration from her. My ex's family maid cooks really good food, so I think if we smash later I'm going to demand food. I think that's worth thinking about, NSA sex but also ask her to do something else for you which proves she's really in your frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 07:06 AM |
| 1 | You ever have a reasonably successful time with a girl after losing frame from the start and then wonder "how the heck did that even happen"?Yeah that was it but it was bizarre. I was like her "first real boyfriend" and felt like I was the settle-down after her "party days" except she was 19 and lost her virginity at 18. So basically I was like "how am I the BB if I have no money and she has threesomes with me?" | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Problem with my GFThis is "Iron Rule" number 3 and also straight-up dishonesty. I think if you have to ask then you know the answer (she's not your GF). | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 12:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I make moves with a girl who doesn’t speak English? [Language Barrier Escalation]More context please. Are you trying to hook up with a tourist? Recent immigrant? Are you living in a non-English country (which country? The culture probably matters as much as the language thing)? | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 09:15 AM |
| 9 | Quick question: what are your views on FWB realtionship with your ex ?Most on this sub follow Tomassi's "Iron Rule" that getting with exes is like rooting though trash. I've seen a different theory of a "4-month rule". If you have absolutely no contact with an ex for 4 months you can try to smash (if she's found a new boyfriend for <4 months she's not bored of him yet, reset the timer and check in after a few months). | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 09:12 AM |
| 7 | Insecurities about my penis size have stopped me from having multiple sex partners.14? This posts reads like something one with a 10cm dick would say. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Why is American college price so corruptGreat discussion here, but why is nobody questioning what this has to do with RedPill? Lol. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:05 PM |
| 10 | How do you deal with parents?Tell her the one you were seeing before wasn't good enough for you. Your mom would rather hear that you have standards (that you're not just jumping into a relationship with some loser). EDIT: You can have great success. My parents liked my side-chick better than my girlfriend and then they were thrilled when I promoted her to girlfriend. Wholesome moms are hypergamous too lol. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 04:26 AM |
| 2 | How many times, if ever, have you cancelled same-day plans with a girl in order to see a better one?This is something I do. But what I've experienced women doing is totally cancelling last-minute because they've found a better option; I'm just here to ask if any guys do this. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 03:02 AM |
| 4 | How many times, if ever, have you cancelled same-day plans with a girl in order to see a better one?Yeah no me too but I've seen some savage Redpill guys and I want some insight into their savagery. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Girl [23F] I've [25M] been dating for 1 month wants to take a breakOn the bright side, you had a great learning experience in one month and it sounds like you thoroughly enjoyed it. I had a 3-month "whirlwind romance" fuck-up recently, but I learned from it and enjoyed it and have no regrets. In my case, as in yours, there were no major social consequences or other loses. Don't dwell on it (dwell on the lessons you learned), you'll be smarter next time. EDIT: In my case I realized how doomed it was and ended it myself, though. I understand that in your case it … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys know some successful/sustainable LTRs where the girl is taller?Yeah no I knew this girl who idolized Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas (like 5'5 and 5'6) but was simultaneously insecure about us being 5'7 and 5'9. Hollywood success stories help (thanks Nicole Kidman). | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys put in a little more effort to chase introverted girls or is the abudance just about having many people who chase you?I might just be doing things on easy mode; I'm a foreigner in an Asian country so usually plates act like tourguides to me (even the one I was exclusive with initiated sex 90% of the time and planned outings). I should snap out of it and be less passive, but the IDGAF-about-seeing-you-at-all attitude has been doing well for me up to now. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys put in a little more effort to chase introverted girls or is the abudance just about having many people who chase you?I'm talking about situations where you tried to play it cool by leaving it on "we'll go to [place near your apartment] sometime" or when you saw one in-person once and she left it with "I'll let you know [when she wants to come to your place]". Like, if you've got her "tingles" then she'll arrange herself, but some people just don't arrange themselves. Have you ever had success double-texting (going from "maybe I'll be free this weekend" to "come over at [specific time tomorrow]" after they didn… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Trashy power move; leaving some sign that you hooked up with another plate recently. Anyone have thoughts or experiences?The vibrator thing made me laugh more than anything I've heard this week lol. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Asian Men in White CountriesHope that K-Pop's rise continues. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 02:18 PM |
| 1 | What is the most effective non-traditional mating strategy?Maybe be like rappers Chief Keef and Future. Be consistently unreliable but rich and have 5-9 baby mamas. Just fuck your shit up, fam. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Women in my Country Have an 85% Chance to End up as Spinsters. Any Idea Why?I think number 3 is also true for east Asian countries. The westernized middle class are the cultural trend-setters, but the real rich and widely-respected act very BP (as do the working class). | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Low-SMV but well-connected plate?I'd not considered that. Thank god in this case she's used to International life (I think she's had an Open Relationship because her boyfriend travelled all the time). Any tips on how to deal with mate-guarding if I'm subject to it? | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Help! My girlfriend calls me bro! What does this mean?Just have fun with it. "I friggin love you dude. You're gonna make me cum, bro. We should, like, watch Netflix together man". Like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WmHeGpn-ag | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | American brothers on this sub. Why do American women place a lot of emphasis on Height?The talk-within-24h aspect can be kinda handy, though. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 01:25 PM |
| 2 | American brothers on this sub. Why do American women place a lot of emphasis on Height?They're a product of their environment, too. The most height-conscious girl I knew was 5'7 in a country where the average is like 5'6M and 5'1F. However, she spent much time with the international-schooled expats (being on a school basketball team in in a country where most people don't play basketball); she'd actually describe herself as "average" and I feel like that was defensive (she didn't want to feel tall). | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 12:29 PM |
| 2 | American brothers on this sub. Why do American women place a lot of emphasis on Height?Yeah definitely. Bumble invites you to add height to your profile, but it's like "nah, I'm not gonna have a statistic where she sees the number "5" and swipes left". | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 12:24 PM |
| 12 | American brothers on this sub. Why do American women place a lot of emphasis on Height?Very true. I was seeing a girl who used that for dread ("you're the only guy I've ever been with who's not 6 feet", "I'm usually really picky and you're not conventionally cute but I like you", "I was gonna wear heels to that event but I didn't know you were going"). It actually kinda did get me hamstering a bit until I remembered "hey, wait a minute, she hooked up with me on the first date!". Best ignored. Probably a good time to make short jokes but I'm not funny enough for that. EDIT: In this… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 09:00 AM |
| 2 | American brothers on this sub. Why do American women place a lot of emphasis on Height?I mean I guess it's the same everywhere, but Americans are just more into giving unsolicited opinions. I'm sure Chinese girls think the exact same but we just don't hear them say it. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP apply to different cultures than the West (i.e. China)?Living in Myanmar, it's extremely BP. The local dudes are generally attractive (a little short but still), but some of the most attractive dudes get girlfriends and say "I love you" in like 1 month. The same wholesome young guys are jealous and clingy; then when it comes to LTRs a lot of them beat women and low-key cheat. Communication with women is more difficult. Abudance/pre-selection/competition works, but it's way more complicated. If she's seen you with a girl, she'll say "oh no I can't se… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP apply to different cultures than the West (i.e. China)?Living in Myanmar, it's extremely BP. The local dudes are generally attractive (a little short but still), but some of the most attractive dudes get girlfriends and say "I love you" in like 1 month. The same wholesome young guys are jealous and clingy; then when it comes to LTRs a lot of them beat women and low-key cheat. Communication with women is more difficult. Abudance/pre-selection/competition works, but it's way more complicated. If she's seen you with a girl, she'll say "oh no I can't se… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP apply to different cultures than the West (i.e. China)?Living in Myanmar, it's extremely BP. The local dudes are generally attractive (a little short but still), but some of the most attractive dudes get girlfriends and say "I love you" in like 1 month. The same wholesome young guys are jealous and clingy; then when it comes to LTRs a lot of them beat women and low-key cheat. Communication with women is more difficult. Abudance/pre-selection/competition works, but it's way more complicated. If she's seen you with a girl, she'll say "oh no I can't se… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP apply to different cultures than the West (i.e. China)?Living in Myanmar, it's extremely BP. The local dudes are generally attractive (a little short but still), but some of the most attractive dudes get girlfriends and say "I love you" in like 1 month. The same wholesome young guys are jealous and clingy; then when it comes to LTRs a lot of them beat women and low-key cheat. Communication with women is more difficult. Abudance/pre-selection/competition works, but it's way more complicated. If she's seen you with a girl, she'll say "oh no I can't se… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP apply to different cultures than the West (i.e. China)?Living in Myanmar, it's extremely BP. The local dudes are generally attractive (a little short but still), but some of the most attractive dudes get girlfriends and say "I love you" in like 1 month. The same wholesome young guys are jealous and clingy; then when it comes to LTRs a lot of them beat women and low-key cheat. Communication with women is more difficult. Abudance/pre-selection/competition works, but it's way more complicated. If she's seen you with a girl, she'll say "oh no I can't se… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP apply to different cultures than the West (i.e. China)?Living in Myanmar, it's extremely BP. The local dudes are generally attractive (a little short but still), but some of the most attractive dudes get girlfriends and say "I love you" in like 1 month. The same wholesome young guys are jealous and clingy; then when it comes to LTRs a lot of them beat women and low-key cheat. Communication with women is more difficult. Abudance/pre-selection/competition works, but it's way more complicated. If she's seen you with a girl, she'll say "oh no I can't se… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Meeting up with her newly single 'friend'Yeah no that's a "next". I had this last week. She went for dinner with her ex under the guise of "friend", so I went for lunch with my ex and now I've fucked 4 people this week. It's renewing confidence in myself; if she wants to come back she'll have to work for it and if she's gone she's gone. Hasn't been in social media for days, though, so idk what she's doing with her life. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Slut friend of potential LTRRed flag. The friend might be totally harmless until she has a failed relationship or two of her own; she'll cope with her breakups by trying to mess with your relationship. I seent it. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Totally destroyed frame but seeing a girl who's leaving town in 3 months, plenty of people to meet in the next 2 months for sure; play this girl to my advantage or just break it off now?I think virgin unicorn will tolerate me having side chicks. But the question is should I accumulate plates while I still have the current girl around or should I just be single? Some RP people would say "keep the hot one around as chick magnet until she leaves" and others would recommend a total reset. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Totally destroyed frame but seeing a girl who's leaving town in 3 months, plenty of people to meet in the next 2 months for sure; play this girl to my advantage or just break it off now?I mean yeah I get what you're saying (just start treating her more plate-like, if she catches on just be indifferent). I'm starting new classes at school for 2 months so maybe I can just start spinning some new plates there (her circle and my school don't overlap at all). | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 05:47 AM |
| 0 | I feel like the settle-down/BB guy despite being 22y/o with no money. Obviously all I can do is improve SMV and age; what advice do older guys have for this early-20s transition?I should, I'd just better be prepared for the rejections. I haven't really left the "comfort zone" enough, I was "friendzoned" once in middle school, curved by a 7/10 in high school, and I've been ghosted by 4/10s on Tinder; but I've rarely tried to fuck anyone who's turned me town (and, thank god, never been dropped after hooking up the first time). Also I'm a foreigner in a country where 80% don't speak English, so I guess if 9s and 10s don't want me I can use "damn that language barrier" as a… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 08:35 AM |
| 0 | Do you teach any Redpill knowledge to women in your life? Sisters? Wing-woman friends? Exes?The single mom hasn't really figured out the whole "settle down" thing. She's Asian and her kid is with a local dude but she hooks up with different white guys every week and I kinda just want to spell out reality for her. She lives with an aging father but probably actively ignores his advice. The current girl is like powerful and weak at the same time. She knows she's attention-seeking and has ADHD but I still don't think she realizes how easy she is to mess with. At the same time, she's made … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Which relationship was your "awakening" on redpill stuff? I'm 22 and I've made every mistake in the book already' how many times did you mess up before you really got it?Myanmar. I don't think "child support" is in their vocabulary. I even know single moms who exclusively try to date foreign guys lol. It's wild. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Porn and the myth of female sexual availabilityThe movie "Don Jon" addresses this in a fun way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/19 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Should I drop an upcoming 2nd-date hookup over a rude cancellation?I guess this is it. Hook-ups we can reschedule, outings/activities are on my schedule for things I wanna do. Then if she's ever like "you only like my physically" I can point out that she's always the one cancelling "dates". | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Should I drop an upcoming 2nd-date hookup over a rude cancellation?I guess I should think more in terms of "DLV" risks. The last time I did it I guess I was just lucky, it worked well (I called a girl "not girlfriend material" in front of her friends; the friends hate me now and she doesn't tell them we still fuck). Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Asian girl is crazy but hot and knows I have no money; am I dumb for keeping her around?I have 3 others but this one is best-looking and best English speaker. Still, always sound advice; thanks. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:44 PM |
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