PinballWizrd Archive

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2	First date ever at 28 and got rejected next day As plenty of others have already pointed out, you fucked up. On a couple different counts. That being said, the self awareness and humility you've shown by admitting to those mistakes and working to improve on them is going to get you far. We've all had bad dates, said stupid or inappropriate things, and have had cringe moments. The difference between people who fail and succeed is whether or not you are willing to learn and grow as a person. Learn from this and keep putting yourself out there 👍	/r/seduction	14/07/20 09:30 PM
4	Okay folks, we need a thread on not getting quickly attached Lol it's definitely not ok but that is the humor style of the show. If you haven't seen it yet it's definitely worth checking out	/r/seduction	16/02/20 10:39 PM
1	I’m legally blind how do I sell myself to a woman knowing that I have a visual disadvantage and women may think I can’t take care of them or I can’t amount because I can’t drive or something and how do I handle not being able to say visual cues like a wink You don't need to sell yourself to anyone, we don't really do slavery here anymore :) Serious answer is that your disability will make it harder to attract women, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. If someone doesn't want to date you because you are legally blind, then it makes it easier to weed out a lot of people you'd otherwise be wasting your time with. Your blindness is a part of you, own it. Be honest and upfront, have a sense of humor about it. Maybe instead of saying "I have to ha…	/r/seduction	12/01/20 07:21 PM
19	You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them. Definitely nothing more to read into there.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 10:02 PM
3	How to deal with sexual depression Maybe. You can find some success stories about it online, but you might just find a new mental block (i.e. "I'm not a virgin anymore, but I've never had sex without having to pay for it so it doesn't really count") If you do decide to try it, do it safely and legally. If you're in the US, IIRC the bunny ranch is legal and is near vegas	/r/seduction	19/11/19 03:33 AM
1	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience How's your social life? Start doing activities that give yourself more exposure to women and people in general. Social skills in general directly effect your ability to attract women. Join a coed sports league. Ultimate frisbee, kickball, or volleyball are great options and pick up some dancing classes like west coast swing or salsa. All those options (particularly dancing) are a great way to make new friends and meet women. For reference I'm 29 and just started doing all those within the last 2…	/r/seduction	23/10/19 02:21 AM
1	No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experience You can't expect to be good at basketball by just watching the NBA and you can't expect to be good with women by just watching YouTube videos. To get good you've gotta pick up the ball and start playing. You'll miss a lot, but with enough practice you'll get better.	/r/seduction	22/10/19 11:44 PM
11	The fool-proof way of making more connections, meeting more women, and meeting likeminded people. This is impossible to mess up. Dancing is insanely good. EASY way to meet women and non dancers are attracted to someone who knows what they're doing on the dance floor	/r/seduction	16/10/19 05:40 AM
6	[Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women? Sounds like you need to meet people, not just women. Have you considered joining any coed sports leagues, a dance club (like swing or salsa, this is the easiest one to meet women at specifically), hiking, board games, meetups, etc?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 11:50 PM
2	If you find it “weird” or “creepy” to approach women, READ THIS! If you want to successfully approach women, you must normalize the fact that approaching others is entirely normal. This first step starts with YOU. Mark Manson's "Models" has a pretty good section on this issue. I'd also recommend checking out The Art of Charm podcast. There are some good episodes from a while back on talking to strangers. Not a huge fan of their more recent stuff though	/r/seduction	09/10/19 07:53 PM
2	Depressed virgin. I am typing this right now inside my parents' house. I am socially isolated and having moderate amount of FOMO. It is another Saturday night and I have no plans or anything. What would you suggest? Check out your local Meetup groups. Find one that interests you and go regularly. Join a sports league - I recommend something like kickball or ultimate Frisbee, they are social sports and have fun people. Dancing, find a local dance studio and start taking lessons, it's ridiculously easy to meet women there	/r/seduction	23/06/19 01:04 AM
1	Does anyone else find pulling girls from tinder to feel like it doesnt count? Not socially acceptable as in someone may physically assault you or not socially acceptable as is some random stranger might think you're a bit odd?	/r/seduction	17/05/19 10:52 PM
1	Does anyone else find pulling girls from tinder to feel like it doesnt count? Not really if you approach people and read then correctly. Even if you do everything perfectly some people still might find you a bit creepy. You have no control over how other people respond to you so to me it sounds like an excuse :)	/r/seduction	17/05/19 10:34 PM
1	Does anyone else find pulling girls from tinder to feel like it doesnt count? If you're holding yourself back because you're worried about judgement you're crippling yourself. It's easy to find excuses to not make approaches.	/r/seduction	17/05/19 09:45 PM
1	Does anyone else find pulling girls from tinder to feel like it doesnt count? Why is it a no-no?	/r/seduction	17/05/19 08:53 PM
2	Does anyone else find pulling girls from tinder to feel like it doesnt count? If your goal is just to have sex, of course it counts. Just because you haven't had luck in in-person circumstances means nothing. For all the girls that swiped right on you, imagine how many swiped left. The real world is the same way, either they are or they aren't attracted to you. Tinder just allows you to avoid facing those rejections, even though they are there. Clearly if you are still having success on tinder, you're doing something right in person. Just need to increase your surface are…	/r/seduction	17/05/19 08:36 PM
1	What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/Seduction Thank you!	/r/seduction	17/05/19 05:44 PM
1	Does anyone else find pulling girls from tinder to feel like it doesnt count? Count towards what?	/r/seduction	17/05/19 08:30 AM
-7	What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/Seduction Being rich and having a big dick don't matter 99% of the time.	/r/seduction	17/05/19 01:35 AM
99	So simple and accurate, yet so deep. Are you gonna talk to her? There's a saying that goes "people don't remember what you said, they only remember how you made them feel".	/r/seduction	30/04/19 07:19 PM
1	At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial Era Great post. I really like that most of what you said has nothing to do directly with seduction, but just being a better you. Taking care of yourself and being confident has so much more impact than any other tricks I read on here.	/r/seduction	24/03/19 06:15 AM
1	Virgins are demonised, yet apparently most men can't get laid? Different people have different goals at different points in their lives. I'm passed the desire to just get laid and want a solid relationship as well.	/r/seduction	11/03/19 08:58 PM
2	Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ? It varies. I've had gfs who initiate 0% of the time, and my current one does almost 100%. Depends on their libido and personality	/r/seduction	14/01/19 12:17 AM
2	Never had any luck with tinder, changed my first picture to one of me smiling super wide. I have 30+ matches in 2 days, the fuck? They can tell when you create a new account with the same email. They don't delete their data on you just because you delete your account. I'm mostly just throwing ideas out there. I think this is an interesting discussion	/r/seduction	03/01/19 12:41 AM
1	Never had any luck with tinder, changed my first picture to one of me smiling super wide. I have 30+ matches in 2 days, the fuck? Different email or same as old accounts?	/r/seduction	03/01/19 12:37 AM
4	Never had any luck with tinder, changed my first picture to one of me smiling super wide. I have 30+ matches in 2 days, the fuck? There may be some reason behind that. Maybe it's a better photo, maybe you have a charming smile,and maybe it's more psycological where you seem more approachable because of it. But remember that Tinder is very manipulative in how they present matches. They show tons of inactive accounts that have a high rate of right swipes to make it appear as though there are more attractive and active users than there are. They will increase and decrease these numbers in a way designed to try and get you to …	/r/seduction	03/01/19 12:29 AM
1	what are the chances of me staying virgin? Do i really have to approach them to get a girlfriend or get laid? Someone has to make the first move - but it's just as scary for them as it is for you. There have certainly been women interested in you just like you are interested in them, but because both of you are too afraid to make that first move, nothing happens. becuause honestly approaching is scary There's a common philosophy that almost everything you want in life requires you to step outside your comfort zone. Learning to be comfort…	/r/seduction	19/12/18 04:20 PM
1	Seduction is making me depressed. I HIGHLY recommend you read this post from yesterday, it sounds you really need it right now (Watch the linked video too): https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/a35m3k/this_youtube_video_i_found_kind_of_fucked_with_my/?utm_source=reddit-android Being harsh on yourself when you are not successful is like kicking yourself while you're down - it doesn't help, it just makes it worse.	/r/seduction	05/12/18 09:25 PM
1	I don't care about girls. Is it something wrong with me? Most guys my age seem to live just to go out with girls and it makes me wonder if there's something wrong with me. I'm also a bit of a loner and an introvert, I prefer to spend time alone. Hormones will do that. Most guys your age are interested in getting laid more than anything else. They also effect everyone a bit differently, maybe you are just on the lower end of the bell curve. Do you not have that same desire? Nothing wrong with being more of an introvert, so long as it doesn't prevent yo…	/r/seduction	21/10/18 09:34 PM
1	Why are comments like this allowed? I read that as sarcastic. I can see how you could take it seriously but I think he was probably poking fun at you, although in a jerk way.	/r/seduction	08/10/18 04:02 AM
1	Beta/Alpha male dichotomy: what's your opinion? I think the words themselves are useless because the terms are so poorly defined. Everyone has their own interpretation of what those terms mean. For example, I'm sure you've seen your fair share of aggressive douchebags looking for fights who consider themselves "alpha". Rather than focusing on being alpha/beta, I think it's more productive to focus on positive vs. negative traits such as being happy with yourself, confident, outgoing, etc. You don't need to fit into any particular archetype to…	/r/seduction	08/10/18 01:40 AM
2	Where to meet women as a 23 year old guy? Seconding dancing. Not only can you meet women your age at the lessons, but you can also use those skills at weddings, bars, concerts, etc. Women like men who can dance	/r/seduction	30/07/18 06:15 AM
2	Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub. There are a lot of positive aspects and focuses in the community that I like, such as: Building self confidence Overcoming and developing fear and anxiety Pushing your boundaries and experiencing new things Improving physical and mental health Developing better communication skills I see seduction and self improvement as the same thing and I would like to see a stronger community focus around those aspects. I think what turns people away is that sometimes people get lost in the details and misun…	/r/seduction	09/05/18 09:49 PM
1	How to feel more confident in myself/about my looks? Detach your looks from your sense of self worth.	/r/seduction	19/11/17 04:46 AM
3	Guys who have game, what do you think about Tinder? The bar for any kind of game on tinder is extremely low. Has a girl ever let you read through the messages they get? 90% of the messages are nothing but "hey" or "how's it going?", 9% are "want to fuck?" or a copy-pasted pick up line, And 1% are genuinely interesting conversation starters. Game on tinder isn't hard, but it is still a numbers game. Even if you don't have game, its much easier to stand out in the real world because for every hundred messages a girl gets on tinder, she probably onl…	/r/seduction	11/10/17 08:36 AM
3	Something more feminists should hear. Does that excuse men from it? His point still stands.	/r/MensRights	16/11/13 11:19 AM