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Field ReportPine-Fern/r/seduction29/03/21 09:19 AM
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Thanks for this, I kind of know what to do in theory but think my execution is a bit off. I'll DM you my profile and hopefully there is some glaring mistakes haha
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:25 AM
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Good points! What do you think are the keys to building a male dating profile that stands out? (My online is a barren wasteland and I'm decently attractive so I must be doing a lot of things wrong).
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:35 AM
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Yea good point, I appreciate it. Will try to get some field repots posted and see if anyone can decipher sticking points (probably hard to do without being there but nevertheless). Would love to record my self because I feel like watching it back would clearly highlight mistakes, but don't have a good way to do it haha.
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:33 AM
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After just getting started (maybe around 25 daygame approaches), I find it really hard to objectively look back on an approach and see what went wrong. There's obviously a lot that did being so new to this, but It's kind of like a 'you can't know what you don't know' thing. I've been trying to write notes in my phone straight after a session but I struggle to remember the conversations and it feels like I can't grip onto anything tangible that I can say - next time I will do this differently. Ad…
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:03 PM
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Good job buddy, take all the small wins
/r/seduction09/03/22 12:31 PM
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Crab in the bucket mentality, stop pulling people down and saying this hurtful bullshit.
/r/seduction24/10/21 02:28 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3MI5FZ2t5s&ab_channel=TheYash91100 OP is the kid, the subreddit is stiffler
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:28 AM
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Gotcha, thanks for advice
/r/seduction25/09/21 03:14 PM
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Just for reference she isn't actually moving away, just going away for a week or two. Also, she was receptive to kissing and hugging, but moved my hands off her ass a couple times (albeit not every time). So I took that as a signal to not escalate too much further, seeing as how we were in public and on a first date. I also subtly mentioned coming back to my place as an option at the end of the date while the vibe was good but logistics were bad (two cars and a decent drive away from mine or her…
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:40 PM
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Happened less than a week ago and we last talked about a day or two ago. I can just sense its not gonna get to a date two really ... something in the air haha. Yep probably gonna wait around a week, reach out and see what happens. Thanks for your comment.
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:30 PM
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Yea you're probably right. It goes against my instincts, but I gotta learn to just not get so invested when it all seems to be going well and I'm having a good time. So how do you walk the line between being a boring guy and one that is overly invested. Seems like a balancing act and I would rather be on the non-boring side. Thanks for your comment though, appreciate it.
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:27 PM
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Yep I think this was likely an issue. I did pull away a couple times when kissing but overall I think my intent was coming across needy.
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:21 PM
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Women date across or up, they do not date down lmao
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:54 PM
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Drop the "How does Tuesday evening work for you?" part and a "sometime" to the "let's grab a drink" part. See how she responds to the initial thought of meeting up, then if positive ask when she's free.
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:02 AM
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https://steverosephd.com/do-positive-affirmations-work/
/r/seduction20/09/21 10:45 AM
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Bro stop commenting about height in every single thread, fuck sake
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:31 PM
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Jesus that site is so scammy haha
/r/seduction08/09/21 07:38 AM
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Bit dramatic
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:57 PM
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You're only going to know if you communicate your concerns and see how he responds, he might be stressed about something else but who knows.
/r/seduction29/08/21 03:57 PM
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Yea it's hard man, right now I'm struggling to not let my self worth be determined by if they like me or not. My confidence tanks when they just slowly go cold on you and you can feel the attraction dying out, just feels like you are less of a person
/r/seduction14/08/21 08:02 AM
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All things considered, while yes you may be a virgin, if you want to start making a change you're probably early not late my man. You'd be surprised how quick you can catch up, but try not to equate your self worth with this, or any, societal metric.
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:26 AM
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This reads like a fever dream
/r/seduction11/06/21 09:32 AM
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Do you do that routine everyday or weekly? ... asking for a friend of course ;)
/r/seduction29/05/21 12:42 PM
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lmao ok dude
/r/seduction27/05/21 02:45 PM
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Someone above mentioned Dr. Huberman, he has a video about this very topic explaining how it was discovered and the neuroscience behind why it works. If you're into that sort of stuff it's real good content!
/r/seduction20/05/21 05:27 AM
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You probably know this already, but this precursor bilateral stimulation technique is the basis for EMDR therapy used in treating PTSD symptoms. A theory for why PTSD memories don't diminish in their severity over time is that the memory is stored in a frozen and maladaptive state in the neural network. Thus, when any trauma-related stimuli (i.e., a helicopter flying overhead or a dog barking) is perceived, the associated feelings, thoughts and memories are triggered. By using this technique and…
/r/seduction20/05/21 04:19 AM
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Lol @ the boomers in here thinking the phone number is the end all be all
/r/seduction05/05/21 04:25 PM
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Yea honestly this just isn't gonna work, but props to him for asking I suppose
/r/seduction05/05/21 04:20 PM
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According to research, women unconsciously rate guys with higher waist to shoulder ratios as more attractive. I.e broader shoulders, thin waist (creating a 'V' shape with the upper body).
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:18 PM
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Don't give up bro, just learn and keep moving
/r/seduction21/04/21 11:33 AM
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I really enjoy MBTI and think its fun, but I'm a Psychology student that did a research paper on the test-retest reliability of MBTI. Similar to the existing research, the study we performed showed that the MBTI is not a statistically reliable form of personality measurement (in contrast to what their sales pitch would argue) and that people would commonly get a different result on a different day or circumstance. Studies usually find that the results are influenced mostly by environmental/exter…
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:05 PM
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Get that upward spiral (positive reference experience) going and you'll be making big progress. This stuff is a skill, it can be learned :)
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:59 PM
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Quick question on this; say you've had a first date and it went well but schedules aren't lining up for maybe a week or two for a second one. I feel like if you don't have a bit of back and forth text in this time the connection is just drying out and attraction is dropping, leading to a higher probability of a flake or her seeing at is disinterest? Seems counter-intuitive to me so would love some insight (20-24 yr olds)
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:52 PM
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I personally don't think you should go for dinner on a first date
/r/seduction08/04/21 12:10 PM
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I think he means that over time and repeated experience, people figure out a metagame strategy for literally any task or skill. It's why the level of proficiency for music, martial arts or in this case game has just been going up and up. Those that get good can deconstruct what works and what doesn't from experience, and build the best/highest chance of success strategies.
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:29 AM
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Fellow Aussie here good to see ya m8, I'd say be honest with yourself and set small goals that match where you're at. Maybe just start with holding eye contact and nodding at people while you are both walking past each other, or trying to get a bit of a convo going with cashiers or really wherever you can. In essence, just keep trying to push the comfort zone without going too hard.
/r/seduction04/04/21 11:46 AM
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Great job man I'm proud of you, sounds like you and me are in a similar position. Interested in being online accountability bros and bouncing back (and upwards) off of each other? DM me sometime :)
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:29 PM
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Be careful with the stories and fantasies you tell yourself, they breed the one-itis. But definitely see her if you think there is something there. Good luck brother <3
/r/seduction30/03/21 01:59 PM
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Yea I overthink as well man, that's why I had to just literally force my feet to walk at her while my emotions were like "noooo what are you doing stop youre about to die". I think a key thing that helped me was that while I was walking towards her it would be more awkward at that point to do like a 180 and walk away (and she would have noticed), so the less awkward thing to do for my scenario was to approach. Once you're talking you will be fine, believe that you will be and try your hardest to…
/r/seduction30/03/21 01:47 PM
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Yea I understand it's a bit simpy in a way, kind of a levelling behaviour. But for my first time I thought this was an easy way to show my intent and just get into an interaction. I texted her the next day (today) and she replied quickly and was very positive. Thanks for the kind words though :)
/r/seduction30/03/21 01:54 AM
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You gotta do it bro, let me know how it goes
/r/seduction30/03/21 01:50 AM
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Good shit man, keep it up
/r/seduction29/03/21 01:10 PM
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Thanks mate, appreciate it :)
/r/seduction29/03/21 11:50 AM
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