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DISCUSSIONPinkFloweryBranches/r/RedPillWomen27/12/15 01:47 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTPinkFloweryBranches/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 04:30 AM
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Hair length is a relevant. A tip that I got from my professor was just to make sure that when you were presenting, that you weren’t constantly touching your hair (e.g. tucking bangs) because sometimes women aren’t taken seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 02:48 AM
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I believe that other woman is doing the right thing (being by her husband’s side). Not only do I believe they are wrong for gossiping about her but also for thinking that she’s wrong for taking care of her husband. Whatever she chooses to do, is HER choice. I suspect that if she did come out with them, they’d judge her for leaving him alone. Sometimes you can’t win... I hope that there’s at least one woman in that group that is just agreeing to save face, but knows better. A dishonest man spread…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 11:20 PM
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If you check for autoimmune & gut issues, I then suggest a sleep specialist because inadequate sleep can cause depression, too. The reason I say check for autoimmune and gut issues first is because poor sleep quality may be a symptom of a untreated medical issue.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 10:41 PM
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A lot of things in life are hard, but you still gotta' get 'em done. (Example: H.S. Chemistry, putting up with an annoying sibling/parent, losing weight, quitting smoking, etc.)
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 01:13 AM
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In my dictionary, cheating is anything you do that you wouldn't want your significant other to find out about.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 01:11 AM
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I'm in school (I'll graduate in May!!!). I have a lot of weight to lose and I'm very insecure. I feel that any attention I get from guys my age is strictly sexual and it makes me uncomfortable. Now, I could be wrong about this, but I'm not sure. I just started interacting with people after several years of isolation. I plan to be out of my monk mode in about a year.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 12:04 AM
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In my opinion, leggings and t-shirt (one that at least covers your bum) is appropriate or old school pajamas like these from Soma
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 10:11 PM
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No, elders have to be married in order to be elders. I'm basically saying he has to have the characteristics of an elder.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 11:11 PM
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My standards for a husband are mapped out by the qualifications of an elder (high position in church, basically deals with church discipline) in Titus 1 because I'm a Christian: *Must not be arrogant, quick-tempered, a drunkard, violent, or greedy for gain *Must be hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined *Must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught (aka must be a strong Christian who doesn't twist scripture) *Must be able to give instruction in sound doc…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 04:29 AM
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Have you considered going into another discipline? My mom just went into Informatics to get away from the bedside because she see nurses in their 60s struggling with the physical demands of the job.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 08:47 AM
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I'd also like to add eShakti. You can customize the sleeves, neckline, the length, and even add pockets. You can choose regular sizing or enter your measurements.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 10:47 PM
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"Babe, thank you so much for _________" (mowing the lawn, walking the dog, taking the trash to the curb, etc.) "It made my day when you __________" Ask him if you could rub his feet Read The Proper Care of Feeding of Husbands by Dr. Laura Schlessinger
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:39 PM
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I do my nails on a weekly basis. I work with cash, so it's necessary to change my polish on a weekly basis. I keep mine trimmed down and I change the paint every couple of days.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 02:04 AM
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Just curious, if a lady was a dancer (I'm talking ballet, tap, jazz, not stripper), how would she carry herself?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 02:02 AM
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And I disagree... HPV can be a huge thing in a monogamous relationship! And the number of past partners is a risk! HPV can cause cancer. I don't know anyone who's relationship wasn't affected by cancer in one way or another. Are you saying that the reason why people don't get tested is because they're inaccurate and expensive?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 02:25 AM
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Actually, HPV can stick with you (depends on the type). And almost all cases of cervical cancer are caused by HPV... You can also have genital warts, benign respiratory tract tumors, and precancerous changes at the cervix. HSV 1 is the typical cold sore type of herpes. However, if someone with HSV 1 performs oral sex on someone else, that person can develop HSV on their genitals. However, most forms of genital herpes are caused by HSV 2.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 01:51 AM
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Yes, a high n-count is a turn off for a number of reasons. The first is the risk of HPV. Dr. Laura (Schlessinger) warns against this because she says that he'll compare you to his exes. And personally, I'd worry if I was good enough for him or if he fantasized about females from his past while having sex with me. I pray that my future husband is a virgin like myself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 12:55 AM
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I would like for him to be supportive of me being a SAHM mom who homeschools the kids (I believe homeschooling is the best educational choice). I'm a Christian, so he has to be a bible-believing Christian as well. Therefore, I'd like for him to meet the qualifications of an elder. /u/versebot [Titus 1:6-9 ESV] What I'd like for him to bring to the table: I'd be looking for someone who works hard (but isn't a workaholic). Always willing to learn. Holds the same opinions as I do in regards to mode…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 11:41 PM
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Write in my prayer journal at least 3x per week Go to coffee or nails w/ a friend Lose 7 lbs. this month 30 min. of exercise 5x per week I'm working on a "Power of Words" challenge that encourages us to think before we speak. No negative talk, just words of encouragement for the whole month. I really need to watch what I say.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 11:32 PM
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I don't think you can. The two of you are on two totally different wavelengths. Ask yourself why he didn't want you to hold the phone. Is it because he's afraid you'r going to look through the phone again? Is he afraid that you'll find something suspicious? And frankly, I don't recommend continuing the relationship. He's already cheated on you, so if you were to marry him, don't be surprised if he does it again. In my dictionary, cheating is anything you do that you do that you wouldn't want you…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 08:02 PM
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I don't know how Christians and Jews marry and raise kids (assuming they want to engrave some sort of religion). Are you gonna' teach your kids that Jesus is a teacher or the savior???
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:47 AM
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One of my coworkers married a guy that everyone hated (family and friends) and she still did it anyway. She, too, admitted that she shouldn't have done it. ETA: They're divorced and she's not a fan of him.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:45 AM
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I used to be subscribed to her radio program, so I was able to listen to her show. I'll have to see if I can find a clip on YouTube. I used to be a subscriber, so I'd listen to her radio show. Whenever she gets the calls from women with the alcoholic, cheater, or just plain jerk husband, she'll say something like, "You knew that before you married him and you still decided to marry him and make babies with him. That's your fault." And most of the time, they will admit to knowing that he was a he…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:41 AM
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Just curious, how old were you when you got married?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:39 AM
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A marriage is "unfixable" when one isn't willing to change. And secondly, I disagree. After talking to many divorced people, I learned that the majority of people KNEW that they shouldn't have gotten married usually because they ignored or downplayed the red flags (and Dr. Laura Schlessinger will agree with this).
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 01:32 AM
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As someone that spoke to many divorced women, I learned the common theme was that they knew that they shouldn't have married him in the first place, but did so anyway due to fear of embarrassment, getting too old to have kids, spent a lot of time together and didn't want to date again. Many ignore the red flags (heavy drinker, can't hold down a job, total jerk, etc.). Just curious, how would you feel if you found out that your husband had $50,000 sitting in an account that you had no idea about?
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 06:56 PM
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Well, I just read about divorce insurance... Safeguard Guaranty - Divorce Insurance
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 04:02 PM
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Well, I'm currently single so if I were to be alone for the rest of my life, I'd have to learn to be content with that. I'm still following my plan of finishing my bachelor's (next May), starting career in HR, paying off debt, and saving for down payment on house. I'd like to get married someone in there, but if it doesn't happen, then I'll have to learn to be content with that. I say "learn to be content" because right now, I do have the desire to get married and have kids. In reference to thos…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 03:56 PM
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I'm looking into the following for myself: piano lessons (I started as a kid and I miss it), DIY/crafting classes at Home Depot, Lowe's, Michaels, etc., kickboxing, etc. I'm already in my church's single small group.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 11:14 AM
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If the high-income earner is also smart with his money, he would should have things like an emergency fund, critical illness insurance, hospital indemnity insurance, short-term and long-term disability insurance. Regarding losing his job? Hopefully, he can find another (preferably nearby but if it has to be across the country, then so be it).
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 02:13 PM
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My faith (Christian) doesn't influence my decision to follow Red Pill. My bible influences me behave a certain way which matches up with a lot of what RPW says.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 06:48 PM
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I've been having similar thoughts, but the only reason I don't want to leave Atlanta is because my parents are here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 12:07 AM
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Yeah, I'd love to do that. I think parents can do a better job of catering to their child's academic needs (especially when they're younger).
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 12:31 AM
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Using alcohol to "make myself feel better about everything" sounds like a form of drug abuse. Stop now if you can. Do something with your life. Have you considered moving to a bigger town? You say you don't have the money for counseling, but you have money to go out and drink... Call your insurance company and ask how much the co-pay would be... I'm sure you can afford $20-$40 a session. Don't worry about guys or dating right now. Do what "makes you happy". Maybe you should read "Boundaries" by …
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 03:07 AM
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I guess the definition of "Millennials" changed, because I swore the last batch graduated last year". But anyway, As a millennial myself, I pray that I find a husband who understands and supports the idea that I stay home (and I'd like to homeschool). SAHW? I don't know about that. But if it happens, I guess that's okay. I was thinking I'd quit in the middle of my pregnancy. I have met a few millennial guys who are in total favor of wives being a stay-at-home-mom, but that stems from the fact th…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 04:20 PM
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What's wrong with your breasts?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 12:10 AM
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I could've wrote this. I'm 22, single, and studying special education, too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 02:13 AM
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Lol, SO TRUE! There some from modern times that are literally about f-ing someone else's b*tch.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 11:20 PM
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I stopped listening to rap and hip-hop about a year ago because I have a lust problem. As to guiding your future children, here's an idea: You obviously won't approve of your kids doing drugs. Therefore, don't let them listen to people who make music about getting high. Music is a very powerful influence. What do I listen to now? Dr. Laura, sermons (Matt Chandler, Voddie Baucham, Paul Washer, Mark Driscoll, John Piper), Bible teaching (Kay Arthur, Dannah Gresh, Nancy Leigh Woglemuth (Demoss), an…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 06:30 PM
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Yes... As a fat person, I notice that I look better and slimmer in dresses and skirts.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 01:24 AM
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LOL!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 01:41 AM
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A real woman doesn't do certain things (throws tantrums, sleeps around, plays games - these are things that girls do). It's a semi-disrespectful way of being polite enough to not call her a little girl.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 09:13 PM
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I think it's better for a woman to be a housewife. I believe that if a working woman tries to balance motherhood and a career, she'll put one before the other. It wouldn't be fair to her children if she put her career first, and it would be inconvenient for her employer to put her family first. That's why if she does work outside the home, I believe it shouldn't be in a demanding position (i.e. manager). One income is enough for one family, assuming they paid off their debts before starting a fa…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 11:34 PM
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Yes, and I think the rift is caused by women wanting the same things as men but still wanting to be treated like ladies. Which is a stupid concept and ticks men off. Part of the whole feminist movement was for women not to be seen as sex objects, but I think women do just that. As far as millennials and an increase in STDs, that's because they don't give a damn (just like their parent's). They are willing to sleep with someone just because their horny (which to me is a stupid reason to have sex …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 08:17 AM
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Lol, that reminds me of when clients are giving me a hard time and they say, "I'm not trying to be difficult!". WHAT A TOTAL CONTRADICTION!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 12:44 PM
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He's right about the loop holes. Here are some examples of how a prenup gets thrown out: -They claimed they were coerced or under duress (I.e. He told her she had to sign it right before the wedding, so she did...) -He undervalues his assets or doesn't disclose them all -One party signs without legal representation -Things like "No child support" or "She must stay 120 lbs." are usually thrown out -If one-party gets everything and the other party gets nothing, that is usually thrown out, too
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 01:35 AM
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I decided that my idea of the type of husband that I want were definitely unrealistic (and worldly). The particular passage talks about what it takes to be an elder in the church (which is obviously an honor).
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 01:08 AM
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"He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it." -Titus 1:7-9 This would also include, no smoking or drug use. He must be supportive of the idea that I stay at home once I become a mother. Stable career that doesn't requi…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 03:02 AM
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I'm a black female and I'm very out of shape. I know this is most likely the reason the nice black guys don't pay me any attention. Some will tell me that I have a beautiful smile. I don't blame them. I'll be honest, I don't want a fat husband. I strongly believe that once I lose the weight, I'll attract the nice black man that I want. I'm in monk mode right now because I need to finish school, lose weight, join a church, and draw myself closer to God. This time next year, I should have complete…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 03:04 PM
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Do you know if she has any chronic illnesses or undiagnosed symptoms? Sometimes this can cause depression, too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 01:03 PM
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You need help with your anger and your wife needs help for her germaphobe issues. The germaphobe issue should've been a deal breaker before marrying her. The fact that she's unwilling to seek help says a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 07:20 PM
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It depends on how much. That's why I think skin care is more important than makeup. If you're uncomfortable running errands without makeup, you probably rely on it, too much. It's so annoying when I'm at work (bank) and some lady drops off her deposit right before her workout and is like, "I know I look hideous without makeup on." (or something to that effect). I don't wear makeup every day.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 02:37 PM
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Thank you!!!
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 12:41 PM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 02:52 AM
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Yeah, this is something I'm gonna have to learn. This is one of those situations where I know better but I'm not doing it. And now that I think about it, it's probably because I fear making a fool out of myself and making the wrong decisions. And I also am aware that we all make decisions that we may not like, but you can't reverse them.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 02:51 AM
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I can do that. Is there a boundary of where I discuss plans or do you think that I should completely never discuss them with her?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 02:51 AM
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Totally agree with this. It actually brings me to tears because this isn't the woman I want to be! On the brighter side, I can still change.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 02:47 AM
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Yes, there is some shift blaming. I blame her for pressuring me into doing something I didn't want to do and I blame myself for not doing what I want to do and going against my intuition. Sadly, I let my mother's opinions rule my life. And yes, $3,000 out of my own pocket is now gone. Yes, monk mode for the next year. I have to lose weight so that's what I'm focusing on. I have plans to move out once I'm done with school (May 2018 would be the latest).
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 02:33 AM
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Make-up bag (I don't wear a lot, so I just bring all of it even though it lasts all day) Gum Ice Breakers Peppermint Chews Hair ties Chapstick Kleenex Pocket Pack Feminine products Motrin Compact mirror Pens & pencil Sunglasses Hand sanitizer Hand lotion Post-It Notes Water bottle I think that's it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 05:42 PM
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When my BMI is 24.2, I'm a size 8 and 150 lbs. I could only imagine how tiny I'd be if I tried to go by BMI. Personally, for my shape I think a size 6 is the smallest I should go, which would still be above a 20. That's why we were going by BMR, not BMI.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 12:00 PM
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As someone with narcolepsy, I'd like to add one tidbit. GET GOOD QUALITY SLEEP EVERY NIGHT! I cannot reiterate this enough. The two most important organs to take care of are your gut and your brain. Sleep deprivation causes brain damage. Stop with the "I'll catch up with my sleep on the weekend." Stop bragging about how you only get 5 hours of sleep last night. As someone who wishes that she can sleep 8 hours straight like she used to, I'm begging all of you to not take advantage of sleep!!! It'…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 07:14 AM
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-Lose weight -Finish my degree -Get married -Have kids -Get into Pilates -Finish reading all the books I bought this year -Learn to sew clothes -Get a standard poodle (yeah, I know... but Poodles aren't dogs; they're Poodles)
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 05:20 PM
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Getting approached at work is a no-no. It's awkward and frustrating a lot of the time.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 03:14 AM
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Yeah, I'd say the same for a few close friends because I believe allowing a little bit a leverage means breaking the rule (even with the highest privacy settings). And obviously, if someone is non-responsive it is rape. I was referring to situations where both the guy and the girl were drunk and responsive (obviously, they can't meaningfully consent) but she decides to accuse him of rape.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 12:57 AM
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Because there are predators lurking on YouTube family vlogs and mommy blogs. Why are folks telling their "friends" about your kid losing their tooth? They aren't your real friends and they don't really care. People tend to share too much. It's disrespectful to share personal pics of your kids (such as them naked in the bathtub). The world doesn't need to know your kid's baseball team. People may think, "oh, it's no big deal" but it really is. Just by posting prom pictures, a girl in my area gave…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 02:20 AM
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Yep, it's your choice to use drugs. You have a variety to pick from. Once you start get hooked with one, your chances of trying others increases.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 02:14 AM
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As in, signing them up for daycare and dropping them off while you go to work. When you work 9-5, you'll only be with your kid for an hour our so each morning before you drop them off. And then, when you come home, you only have a few hours with them before they go to bed. A kid that goes to daycare while mommy works full-time spends more time in daycare than in the arms of their mother. What's the point in having kids if you're not even going to raise them? Then, most people send them off to sc…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 02:12 AM
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Yeah, I understand. Women aren't as passionate about pleasing their man as they should be.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 02:09 AM
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A machine can't clean like the human hand. It won't be able to get down to the nitty-gritty. And to add, remember that feeling you get when she's sucking you off and looks into your eyes? I highly doubt that a robot can't make you feel like that.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 11:36 AM
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In my eyes, marijuana is a gateway drug. I've heard plenty stories where people who smoke it regularly have tried other drugs "for the fun of it". Some get hooked on the more hard core drugs and others don't. Secondly, it's been linked to heart issues, memory issues, and fertility issues (slower swimming sperm).
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 05:21 AM
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Dog shaming is when you publicly share something bad your dog has done. For example, someone posts a picture of their dog and a sign that says, "I like to go into the trash can and eat used q-tips." I don't think that's funny and I think it's a sign of a bad owner/training. There's a whole website dedicated to dog shaming.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 11:59 AM
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Yep, it sure is. And what these women don't realize is that there are perverts out their that prey on single women just to get to their kids. And secondly, a child of divorced parents as already been through enough, it's not fair to bring people into their lives to cause more chaos.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 11:54 AM
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Yeah, that's the dog shaming that I'm referring, too. I don't find it funny. If people consider their pets to be their children, why would they ridicule their "fur baby" like that?
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 11:52 AM
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-It should be illegal to shack up with your boyfriend/fiancé when you have custody of your children who are minors (unless he's the father of the children) -Premarital counseling should be required for all couples -One shouldn't have kids if they are going to dump them in daycare or with a nanny -Marijuana should only be used for medicinal purposes (and stuff like "itchy elbow" doesn't count, I'm talking about cancer, seizures, etc.) -Posting pictures of your kids on social media is morally wron…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/16 11:47 PM
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Thank you SO much! That means a lot!!! I pray that I find someone who thinks the same way and will support my dreams (wife & homeschooling mom).
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 05:11 PM
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No, I haven't been taught the role of a mother and keeper of the home. My mom is a career woman. I was raised by nannies. My dad has showed up to more of my concerts, practices, etc. than my mom. She has admittedly said more than once, "If I could do it again, I wouldn't have had kids". If I ever need anything, my dad is who I go to. I've learned things about being a homemaker by watching videos of SAHMs on YouTube (cleaning routines, meal planning, etc.). People don't know how to raise a family…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 09:06 AM
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OMG! Thank you for making this because anytime I mention my desires I get burned with how I'm "disgrace to women" and all that crap. I'd like to get married in a few years and be a SAHM with 2+ kids who homeschools her kiddos. I don't want to work. I don't see the point in working full-time if you're gonna have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 12:49 AM
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I think anything that is there to "fix a problem" is fine; such as a breast lift/tummy tuck after kids is fine, skin removal after massive weight loss, breast reduction due to neck/back pain, breast reconstruction after mastectomy, etc. Anything else, I'm not fond of. I think one should leave themselves alone.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 11:36 PM
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I would, but right now I'm in monk mode. I have to get my health under control (which is partially my fault for neglecting it).
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 12:28 PM
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I'm not exactly sure if this is RPW or not (and from what I understand, they won't discourage waiting till marriage, but they won't encourage it either). Before I was a Christian I always said that I'd wait until I was married to have sex. Here's my secular standpoint on abstinence until marriage (applies to most, not all women, so please don't start with the "what about infertile women" stuff): The human body is amazing. We have the ability to carry a child. Our vaginas have a gazillion nerve e…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 12:27 PM
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And ya' know, I think those who aren't bible believers are crazy, too; so it goes both ways. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 12:14 PM
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Marriage; which means at least 1 year.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 04:45 AM
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It can be unhealthy because there's a possibility that you put your desires before logic causing you to settle for anything, which means you'll either be unhappy or divorced. I'd like to be engaged within the next two years, too; but I don't know if that's gonna' happen and I'm not gonna' beat myself up if it doesn't happen.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 04:44 AM
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You're right, that's the way I believe it should be this way (and there's nothing that's going to change that). Prior to becoming a Christian, I already had these beliefs.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 04:41 AM
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No, I don't believe there's a correlation between whether or not a guy will marry you and whether or not you have sex with him. The reason I say that is I believe a guy should be willing to lay down his life for you before he is given access to your body. God gave women the gift of child bearing. And I find it disrespectful to Him and to yourself when you turn your body into a sex-object.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 09:18 PM
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That's true. She added in details and based on what she said I would add that with the next boyfriend, she shouldn't shack up or give him sex.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 06:15 PM
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NEWSFLASH: There are red flags all over this post!!! Together too long w/o a ring & a wedding date. 4 years? Chances of him marrying you are slim! (Assuming you'd like to get married; if not then ignore me and feel free to continue to put up with his B.S.) Sending e-mails to another chick? If she's just a friend, then he shouldn't have been so damn secretive. In my dictionary, cheating is classified as anything you won't do in front of your s/o or anything you wouldn't want them to find out abou…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 03:46 PM
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It's a period of time that one takes to "better themselves". I need to figure out who I am. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2qfw0e/guide_to_monk_mode/
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/16 02:41 AM
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Me! See my flair...
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/16 11:56 AM
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Here's a link for a used copy for $35 at Amazon
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/16 05:04 PM
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Yes, you're right. I was talking about the majority of women and I should've mentioned that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 03:37 AM
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I've always strongly believed that when gender roles are reversed, one person usually ends up feeling resentful which leads to fights, problems, and eventually divorce. ETA: I am talking about the majority of women. RPW are aware of their words, actions, and attitude; whereas, the majority usually don't give a damn.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/16 03:33 PM
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I feel the same way. I'll be 22 next month and have 2 years of school left. I don't have a bf/husband but I want to be a SAHM that homeschools her kids. Thankfully, I have a meeting with my advisor, and I'm going to ask her if there's anything else I can major in so that I can get out of here already! ETA: I like my part-time job as a bank teller and would like to do that until I get married and have babies.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 08:42 PM
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Honestly, I want it all. The man, the money, beautiful house, nice car, intelligent & good-looking kids, and a banging body without having to work outside the home. How do I determine which one is most important? I'm not completely sure if I know the answer to that at this point (need time to think it over). If that circumstance comes my way, I'll just ask the Lord to guide me to the right guy. A guy doesn't have to be attractive in order for me to fall in love with him (it's all about emotional…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:50 AM
2

I was always told that women who taken birth control pills for an extended period of time (especially if they started as teens) have an increased risk for breast & cervical cancer. Source 1: Cancer.gov & Source 2: Komen My narrow-minded opinion: Despite what the CDC, scientists, and doctors say, no one is going to convince me that it's safe to put foreign and/or artificial chemicals into your body. No one is going to convince me that there isn't a link between doing so and the development of aut…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 12:54 PM
2

Actually, no I don't see what you mean because I'm not familiar with Fountainhead. Could you please provide a link with it's description? A lot of the things that we've discussed as wrong in the RPW threads align with what the bible tells me is sinful.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 03:33 PM
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You might've heard people say "Proverbs 31 Woman". They are referring to verses 10-31. This is the definition of a woman who fears the Lord. In Christianity, fearing the Lord is a good thing (one reason why we fear Him because of His power to give and take away). The Proverbs 31 woman goes out of her way to prepare herself to contribute to the household. God doesn't mind a woman working outside the home, as long as she doesn't put her career ahead of her household, husband, kids, and the Lord Go…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 02:29 PM
2

Women aren't allowed to speak in the church (1 Corinthians 14:34); however, some denominations ignore this part of the bible. It's seen as acceptable for a Christian woman to write a book/blog, host a podcast, speak at conferences, etc., but it's not okay for her to preach. You'll also here churches refer to "elders of the church". The qualifications to be an elder (Titus 1:5-9) include things like being a married man (no divorces), have believing children, hold firm to the word, etc. The elders…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 08:18 AM
3

Yes, Ephesians is the 10th book of the New Testament. Here are some RPW-minded things one can find in the Old Testament: Genesis 2:18 - Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Genesis 3:16 - To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.” Proverbs 21:19 - It is better to live in a desert land than…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 07:29 AM
2

Birth control does different things to different women. For many, it's just fine and for others it's horrendous. I already have health issues, so I'm not going to put myself on any birth control with chemicals. Here's what I wrote in the most recent birth control thread: I'm not a fan of using traditional birth control just because of the links to cancer, the fear of blood clots, spotting, thinning hair, etc. I'm already on a few meds for my narcolepsy, so I'd really like to limit what I put int…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 10:22 PM
0

I disagree. TRP is about common sense. -It's common sense for a wife to love, honor, and serve her husband. -It's common sense to dump a girl who thinks she's the head honcho. -It's common sense to do self-reflections and set goals for yourself (recommended by psychologists, spiritual gurus, people of religious fields). -It's common sense to say please, thank you, and apologize when you're wrong. -It's common sense that when someone is denied sex from their spouse to feel hurt, angry, betrayed, …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:01 AM
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-Being a SAHM/SAHW doesn't mean that you'll have no savings or work experience. There's something called a Spousal IRA which is something I'd recommend. The link compares the Traditional Spousal IRA and a Spousal Roth IRA. -I'm a firm believer in your thoughts become your actions. If I were you, I'd tell him to stop thinking that he can't sustain a house, wife, and kids on one salary (although, this might be anti-RPW, so that might not be a good idea). If he continues to think that way, it'll co…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/16 06:30 PM
2

Agreed! I want a man who can lead my family. I want him to guide our children onto the path of success. I'm also one of those "radical" Christians that takes the bible very seriously and believes that the man should be the head of the household. Sure, my opinion matters but if he feels that his is better, then I'll just have to submit and let him make that decision for our family.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:05 AM
1

Oh, really? Well that put a smile on my face! I've always figured that any man I marry will have already had sex (I honestly would prefer a virgin). I probably should stop engraving that thought into my mind. Sharing is out of the question, but I'll admit to thinking about it throughly.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:19 AM
1

Theory doesn't have to mention it. It's part of TRP culture... It's mentioned a plethora of times by members. For a lot of guys (TRP & non-TRP), no sex before marriage is a deal breaker.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:17 AM
2

The first time I wanted to wear make-up, I went to the MAC counter and them do it for me. It's free as long as you buy something. She showed me one eye and I did the other. We tried a number of lip products, and I chose the one I liked the best.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 09:11 PM
1

Well, I should've said, "The only part of TRP that I don't like is that it's okay to have sex before marriage."
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 06:35 PM
1

Actually, I'm a 21 year-old virgin (so technically, I don't lay w/ anyone). I've always been turned off by guys who sleep around, even prior to becoming a bible-believing Christian (although, I have a big crush on Drake who obviously has slept around). The main reason why I read and RP/RPW is because it's the closest to the bible's interpretation of marriage and relationships. There are few Christian bloggers who get it right For example: BiblicalGenderRoles.com. The only part of RP that I don't…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 03:49 PM
1

Yes and no... 96% effective in reducing HIV transmission in couples where one partner has HIV Source 2: aids.gov Source 3: avert.org Source 4: cdc.gov
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 07:49 AM
3

I've honestly thought about sharing a man but I refuse to do so because I'm terrified of catching: -HPV -Antibiotic-resistant gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia -Herpes
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:46 AM
1

People (specifically women) lie to their spouse and themselves about how they truly feel... Example from Dr. Laura's radio show *Keep in mind, I'm not a huge fan of Dr. Laura (Cutting people off while they're talking is a pet peeve of mine)
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 01:55 AM
1

I'm not a fan of using traditional birth control just because of the links to cancer, the fear of blood clots, spotting, thinning hair, etc. I'm already on a few meds for my narcolepsy, so I'd really like to limit what I put into my body. If I HAD to be on some form of birth control, it'd probably be the Nuvaring. You can take it out for 3 hours (which is long enough for sex). Pulling out and one of the fertility awareness method (FAM) are what I prefer. Here are some FAMs that I like: * Cycle B…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/16 04:07 AM
1

I've read about that. I have no reason why I haven't jumped on the bandwagon.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 08:51 PM
1

I spent a lot of time thinking about the woman I want to be. Yep, it's a long list but I know I can do it. A lot of the things I want to do just require effort but I don't always make the effort to do those things. I have heard about the book, but I haven't got around to reading it. Some of the goals are a lot easier than others. Sometimes I
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 08:51 PM
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Yeah, I have a lot to work on... I'd be happy to join that chat room. I had no idea it even existed! I hate to sound like a complainer with a sob story; however, narcolepsy changed my entire life. I literally lost all of my friends and do nothing except go to school and work. I'm starting over and that isn't necessarily a bad thing. I'm happy that I found some ladies that think the same way that I do.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 03:01 PM
2

Lose at least 60 lbs. this year (I lost 33 lbs. this year) Purge crap out of bedroom Start working out Pay off CC Have $6,000 in savings by August 2016 Try a new recipe each month Join a bible-based church Join a bible-study Go to lunch with co-worker Wear make-up daily Read bible daily Keep prayer journal Repair relationship with brother Get a hobby Work on sleep hygiene (I have narcolepsy) Take iron supplement daily Take care of skin and nails
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/16 04:04 AM
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I've fantasized about this before (several occasions) and then I say to myself, "What the heck is wrong with me? Why would I ever want a man to do that to me?" I have no explanation for my thoughts. shoulder shrug
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 05:48 PM
1

Even though birth control pills are 99.9% effective (when taken properly), you have to remember that not every gal is going to take it like she's supposed to. That's why the success rate is like 70-something... You don't want to be stuck with child support payments nor do you want to contract something like drug resistant chlamydia or HPV. I think your best bet is to only have sex with your wife. Don't have one? Find one. Otherwise, you're taking HUGE risks.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:00 AM
2

*I did a poor job of allowing stress to get to me. I have narcolepsy, and stress will trigger a "sleep attack". This makes it hard to get a good night's sleep. *I exercised one day last week (which is great because the last time I exercised was several months ago). *I also procrastinated on 3 separate school-related occasions and I'm paying for it *I must remind myself: LESS YOUTUBE MORE BIBLE! *Started Christmas gift shopping! *Need to stop beating myself up for my mistakes because it doesn't d…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 01:23 PM
2

I remember reading this article a while back. It made me feel good about my desire to be a housewife. I've always secretly wanted to be a housewife, but I would say teacher just to please my feminist parents.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/15 02:03 AM
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This is something that she knew prior to dating Tebow. If she wanted to have sex, then why waste her time with him? OH, I KNOW! She probably thought that she could change him!!!
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 03:00 AM
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I like the list! I think #s: 2, 7, 14, and 16 and excellent questions. I also think 15 and 17 are great choices.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/15 01:08 AM
2

As someone who has a serious sleep disorder (narcolepsy), I urge you to have a sleep study in order to figure out what's going on and how to get great sleep. Sleep is SUPER important and affects many parts of ones life (mood, energy level, sex life, etc.). Now regarding the topic at hand: I suggest reading "Boundaries" by Dr. Henry Cloud. I don't think you understand that you're enabling his bad behavior by not saying anything (which I think you should've said from the 1st time it happens). I un…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/15 07:58 AM
1

I've been reading this wonderful book on forgiveness. It's called "How Can I Possible Forgive? Rescuing Your Heart from Resentment and Regret" by Sara Horn. I got my copy for less than $5. It's a wonderful book that talks about forgiving others, God, and yourself. Even if you're not a Christian, I would still read it because it's not like the book filled with a plethora of biblical talk; it's sprinkled throughout each chapter. About the tampons, I always have feminine supplies with me because of…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 02:12 AM
1

What do you do in the winter time? Even though I live in Atlanta, it gets REALLY cold.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/15 03:29 AM
0

My parents are religious when convenient. My dad never went to church with us and we stopped going at age 12. I strayed away from religion. My mom is the breadwinner and my dad is emasculated. They have marriage issues. I recently became a Christian again and I'm a strong believer in traditional Christian gender roles.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/15 03:17 AM
0

Turbo Jam Booty Sculpt & Abs or a 30-minute YouTube video. As to why? I'm too embarrassed to go to gym because I'm morbidly obese.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 11:14 PM
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