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RELATIONSHIPSPinkNinjaKitty/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 03:59 AM
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It sounds like he’s guilting you into losing weight, not supporting you like a friend and loving partner would. I’ve been in a similar situation and I got really hurt in the end. Maybe think about it this way: His unkindness lowers his value. Can you live for years with an unkind man?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/21 01:59 PM
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What sort of things does he say about your weight, if you don’t mind sharing?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 02:22 AM
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I've been reading "Wife No. 19" by one of Brigham Young's wives. The full title is "Wife No. 19, or The Story of a Life in Bondage ; Being a Complete Exposé of Mormonism, and Revealing the Sorrows, Sacrifices and Sufferings of Women in Polygamy." She tells her life story and recounts how suicidally miserable the multiple wives of the Mormons were. Polygamy may have been a prevalent type of union throughout human history, but I'd argue that it's not an evolutionary desire for women. It could poss…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 10:03 PM
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Yeah, I’m more in your boat. I’ve been nannying professionally for about 7 years and I love it, but it’s a job and can be exhausting. It involves both physical and emotional labor. I’m often glad in a guilty way that I do get to leave in the evening and have the night to myself, lol. Moms and dads give up a lot for their precious kids.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 06:34 PM
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You’re so welcome! I hope for all the best for you
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 09:35 PM
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The responses on this post are too negative. There’s no actual prohibition of dating a younger man in red pill women philosophy. In western culture, at least, it is unusual for a man in his 20s to marry a woman in her 30s, but it is not unheard of. One reason for the usual practice of dating within the same age range — fertility and children — is a non-issue for you both. People are commenting here that he’ll change his mind about wanting children; heck, he could change his mind about anything a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/21 06:29 PM
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Yeah, sometimes I’ve posted and people focus on something I wasn’t really saying. Obviously money isn’t the big issue for you; it’s what your husband is doing/providing you with (or rather, not) as he makes money. I’m so sorry. It must be hard.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 11:25 PM
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^ Yes, this. Very good advice
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 11:22 PM
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Edit: There’s no way to replace resentment with appreciation; those are just emotions and you can feel them and acknowledge them, then look at them critically and decide what action you want to take as a result. (Another thing I learned the hard way from my therapist.)
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 11:17 PM
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It makes sense that you’re hurt. Your husband’s career and devotion to it is admirable when considered on its own, but it’s important for a man to prioritize his wife and family over work. Of course, I’m not talking about the hard work needed in temporary seasons of life to get a promotion or a better job or to make enough money to support his family. It sounds like he’s not in that kind of time of life now; he’s just absorbed in his career to the detriment of your relationship and your child’s …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/21 11:14 PM
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I hadn’t seen that post, but now that I’ve gone back and read it, I’m disturbed that many comments ignored two huge red flags: He also has forcefully pushed me on 2 occasions Long story short he’s an incompetent beta male who has a history of saving half nude women on his phone and I can’t seem to get over it. Just no. No woman should put up with that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 05:06 PM
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Yes!! I've been so frustrated with online dating because texting the guys I was matched with was like pulling teeth. I didn't understand it at all!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:24 AM
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On alt-right sites they talked about disrupting the vote and putting everything into chaos. They were stupid enough to have no long-term plans. Did they think they could live in the Capitol Building? I'm disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:15 AM
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Argh I hate that too -- "ask me anything." Way to put the burden of conversation on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:58 AM
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That’s terrifying. I hope he had no sexual interest in her daughters. That would break my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:46 PM
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Can I ask how you first got together with him? What were your feelings then?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 03:27 AM
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I wonder if the lack of emotional intimacy in your relationship is a large part of your dissatisfaction. There’s a large part of your feelings — that you don’t feel butterflies and are worried about whether you should have gotten married; plus the feeling you mentioned in a comment that he pushed you into a bigger wedding than you wanted — that you’re keeping hidden from him. I’m not sure if you should bring some of these up because of the ramifications, but I can’t help but think that if he kne…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/19 05:35 PM
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“Eye looks range from smokey neutrals, solid color pops that coordinate with my eye color (hazel leaning green) and LOTD, to just a winged liner with mascara.” I don’t think there’s anything wrong with your eye makeup per se, but maybe using color (vs neutral) eyeshadow and winged liner (if noticable) is giving you a younger look? I associate those looks more with evenings out or with teenagers who like to experiment with color, etc. It may not be fair, but maybe other people are making that ass…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 11:49 PM
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Coming late to this party. How long have you been dating? I read in Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus that sometimes in the initial stages of dating a guys talks about himself to impress his romantic interest (without realizing it’s a turn-off). Do you think that could be what he’s doing?
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/19 11:33 PM
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“Either she is ugly, she was locked in a basement her whole life, or she is tragically bad socially.” There are many reasons a person could be single for a prolonged period of time, and they don’t have to be this extreme. In Christian circles especially, it’s difficult for women to find Christian men (the ratios are off), and there’s also still an undercurrent discouraging dating (re: I Kissed Dating Goodbye). I’m a Christian who’s been frustrated more than once by this aspect of Christian life.…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/19 03:06 PM
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raises hand Nanny here! I found myself in this career partly because someday I want to be a stay-at-home-mom and because I enjoy children. I used to think that full-time mothering was the best way for children to be raised — no strangers, daycares, nannies — but my views are more nuanced now. I still think that kids need full-time care from 1 caregiver for the first 3 years or so — this provides stability in their life — and that ideally this caregiver should be mom. But nannies and daycares are…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 10:44 PM
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“Now, your making your one day, birthday super special.. considering it's not” In your opinion. Lots of people consider birthdays super special, especially their SO’s birthday
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/19 09:15 PM
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Thanks for this! I’ve had a hard time figuring out budgets and this bloggers’ ideas seem like a good fit for me! I’m considering trying them
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 10:09 PM
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I think your work ethic and the fact that you overcame your upbringing sound awesome, though I agree that most men won’t care much about it at first. You mentioned that men like your pictures and then want to meet, which is consistent with my experience on dating apps. Maybe your biggest concerns right now are losing that weight, especially since you were highly rated on Rate Me when you didn’t weigh as much. If New York is as full of younger, beautiful women as I imagine, it is tough competitio…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 08:12 AM
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Well said
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 08:01 AM
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I feel for you. My insecurities are struggles with adult acne and with protruding ears. I couldn’t really do anything about my ears except keep my hair down, but I would be sure to have makeup on to hide my red face. I felt like my face was really ugly and longed for clear skin. I started dating my current boyfriend in December, and I did wear makeup as I was getting to know him, but he soon told me that he preferred me without makeup. Later, when I told him how much I disliked my ears, he told …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/19 10:44 PM
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Yes! My mom instilled the habit in me of a banana with breakfast and then a fruit and vegetable with lunch and with dinner. I also grew up on wheat bread instead of white, and although I hated the crust I’m thankful to her now for getting me used to healthy eating.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 02:20 PM
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I’m glad you’re seeing a therapist! That can help a lot. A boyfriend who gave me many of my firsts and even said he wanted to marry me broke up with me in 2016, and like you I was heartbroken for a long time. At the beginning of 2018, I started seeing a therapist for that and another issue. That was invaluable. Two things that helped me the most: one, I had to allow myself to grieve. I thought I had been grieving for two years, but in reality I was hiding from the crushing sadness that the love …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/19 10:18 PM
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“O shut up” is a little harsh . . .
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/19 10:04 PM
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Congratulations on your engagement :) Yes, one guy I talked to for a few weeks on a dating site said he wasn’t interested in the end because he wanted someone “with more ambition than to be a housewife.” He knew from the beginning, though, as the desire to be a SAHM was on my dating profile and we had talked on the phone about it. I cried after his phone call breaking it off because I’m a baby. 😅 But only a month later I met my current boyfriend, who from the first has been supportive of my desi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 07:14 PM
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