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25-30 are best looking but it doesn’t mean I would date one when I will be in my 40s for example. I want a guy similar age +/- 1-3 years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:56 PM
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Lucky I don’t know any like this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:49 PM
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Average height and handsome face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:36 AM
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Sorry to disappoint you but no. I don’t actively look for a partner so I don’t have many options. But if I met people I want to make sure we match long term since I’m not looking for hookups and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:35 AM
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After a long conversation I realised he is a mommy boy. Bragged about how rich is his mom, how he is going to have 3 houses in Europe after she dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:33 AM
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For me for example if a guy starts to brag about money. It’s an instant turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:52 PM
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Wtf no I didn’t fuck with him and I’m not going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:50 PM
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Usually face is most important and don’t be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:36 PM
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Sometimes we just know it’s not going to work out in a long term. Now I’m started seeing a guy he is attractive and we have quiet similar interests but I just don’t see us as a couple. And next time I see him I will tell him that because I don’t want to give someone hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:07 PM
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Similar like my cousin was in ectopic pregnancy. They also treated her for “anxiety”. All the time she was dying from pain were “panic attacks”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:47 PM
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I would rather be a woman. I feel like I would have more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:45 PM
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Women over 40 have higher risk pregnancy not exactly high. Same as very young girls in their teens. Everyone reaches the point to be “looks good for his/her age”. Ageing is natural. But what ages people a lot is actually having kids. Sleepless nights, stress, being tired and not eating well. I see women with terrible partners not helping them with kid they age years in a few months. Most women want to date 2-3 years older guys. Unless she is a gold digger and anything with a fat wallet is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:30 PM
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Probably. Because every time a woman complains or is unhappy about something people assume she has mental issues. For men it’s the opposite where they are being ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:43 PM
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If someone is born pretty and takes care of their skin and body they are going to be attractive to literally old age. Both genders can be hot af in their 50s. Men here are trying to punish women for having easier time to have sex with randoms so came up with the idea that at 30th bday woman becomes broken, old, infertile etc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:43 AM
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I would expect my fiend to run with me after thief? That’s what I would do for my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:06 PM
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Yes we plan this from birth to fuck everyone until 30 bday. Then after blowing 30 candles on the cake we suddenly become wrinkled, infertile and desperate and fall in love with the guy we called a loser in elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:59 PM
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I would trade to be a man. Doesn’t have to be handsome just big so I could train my strength, material arts then go around and beat up creepy perv guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:57 PM
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Yup, many are closeted pedos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:50 AM
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Looks like you “hit the wall” of that magic 30-35 where you magically turn ugly, undesirable and unworthy. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:08 PM
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Well after high school you can find a woman that was actually into this type of things. High school kids would do anything to be noticed or piss of their parents. Adults that are actually interested in punk/hip hop/metal are more likely to date someone they can go to a concert with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:16 PM
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Solution is simple. Men have to stop being lazy and expect their partners to do all the work. Men keep forgetting it’s not the 50’s anymore. Why would any women want to be in relationship where besides having a full time job she has to cook, clean, listen to her partner complain about his job, take care of the kids, do groceries and so on? They don’t have to settle anymore for guy that besides job doesn’t have anything to offer. Still a lot of men lack basic hygiene. Start with that !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:24 PM
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People just don’t care about “friends” from school if they are not like real friends anymore. I don’t see a reason to accept someone’s invitation that I barely spoke with in high school. Also a lot of women just don’t want to follow guys out of respect to their partners. Just because you hooked up with someone it doesn’t mean they care about your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:40 PM
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It’s like they expect women to be virgins but also magically know how to do all the nasty things from porn films and somehow know from birth who to loose virginity with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:33 AM
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RP and their theories pulled from the ass are almost as funny as flat earth community.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 08:48 AM
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By the questions you asked you lack it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:56 PM
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Women don’t like desperate men that fuck a everything for a long term partner also.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:48 PM
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I think the worst advice you get are from other frustrated men. They don’t get women at all but blame them for now wanting to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:20 PM
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No, it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:32 AM
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If you are a lazy, ungrateful slob it doesn’t matter how hot you are. After some time women will get fed up with you BS and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:42 PM
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It’s predatory. +30 has literally nothing in common with such a young person. Even for casual sex I think older person must be really manipulative and creepy. Probably convincing young one with good old “you are so mature for your age/ you are not like other girls” or looking for one from bad/abusive household to be “protector”. Younger person is going to realise after time they were used as a fetish toy for some old creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 01:40 PM
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Same for me with men. Guy with a kid is a dealbreaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:33 AM
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It’s same with guys here wanting women to sleep with them casually but also hate women that slept with multiple guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:07 PM
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It’s pretty normal on this sub. Every time you mention how men can look better if they tried you will be flooded with excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:14 AM
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Not wanting to be touched by the guy you have no feelings for or you are just not attracted at all is being selfish hahahaha best joke ever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:01 PM
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All the excuses in replies are hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:58 PM
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I hope they do, I’m hopeless romantic. But I will be fine single the rest of my life if I never fall in love. I can’t be with someone just for benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:18 PM
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I don’t know a single woman that is particularly looking for a man with a degree and some specific job. I think for majority it’s important that adult men is working, has money to go out on a date and doesn’t rely on anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:16 PM
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I’m a woman but I don’t feel like this question is for me. I there are few job I would not like my partner to work like anything connected with night clubs, dj, porn etc. Besides that I don’t really care what he is doing. And degree I don’t really see it as anything important at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:13 PM
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What you give in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:44 PM
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Because average looking guy is not looking for the average girl. They all look at some barbie looking girl that is sleeping around with “hot” guys and come here and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:45 PM
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Such a BS I never wanted drama or ups and downs in any relationship. Relationship should be comforting and loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:07 AM
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No, they are ex for a reason. I’m not going to be someone’s “emergency” girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:58 AM
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Yeah every single day they come here to complain that their ugly, shot ass has to date obese women to have sex. And how average and above average women are bad because they don’t have lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:52 AM
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Or hit on girls that are ok with sucking a dick under table or go fuck a stranger in the toilet. Easy to spot this type people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:40 PM
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Imagine believing what daily mail says.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:38 PM
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Dominant and passionate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:19 PM
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This is take from the 90’s. There are plenty of people now that just chose to be single for many different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:18 PM
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No, where did you get that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:03 PM
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I would be pissed if my partner wanted paternity test. I would never cheat, I never cheated in the past. Must be great to sacrifice body and mental health for a guy that would run to make sure his baby is his because idk ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:31 PM
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It’s literally both. Dominant and passionate. Not jackhammering. You watch too much porn if you think that’s what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:26 PM
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That’s true. When I give someone advise it would be based as something I’m interested in which is a long term relationship. That’s why I say how important personality is. But I guess if some guy wants to attract women only for sex then I don’t know what he can do. Except getting his looks on point probably be also approachable. Too many guys that know that they are good looking seem to be really stuck up and intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:12 PM
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I guess you must be fun to be around. Guys on this sub really underestimate how important character is. Women would rather spend time with a fun guy that maybe isn’t the most handsome than a hot guy with 0 personality or straight up rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:09 PM
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No. This sub only cares about sex so if you are asking if it’s easy to have sex for woman then yes. But in many aspects women have it harder. They have to work way more and better than their men colleague’s to prove they are not dumb and didn’t get job because of the looks. People in general expect more from a women and blame them for everything. Which is really clear on this sub also.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:05 PM
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Don’t, it’s another cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:33 AM
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High n count people just fuck each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:51 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:48 PM
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When you know you are doing something wrong like idk drink too much or you are stealing stuff. Just trying to change. You are obese ? - start diet, go to the gym or walk more. No value men for me are the ones that do bad stuff and don’t even want to hear about change.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:33 PM
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You turned your life around that’s actually really good. I’m proud of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:30 PM
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Criminal, someone who dumped their kids, is not a student but doesn’t work and doesn’t look for a job, lazy, whiny, has millions of excuses not to do something with their life, dumb, doesn’t learn from mistakes, addicted to drugs/alcohol/gambling, narcissist, incel and expects everything from their partner while not doing anything himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:46 PM
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We are but not in 1min pumping and in general passionless sex. And don’t even start with “JuSt ComMuNiCaTe” because with some men it’s pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:55 PM
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TRP can always move out to countries where they can buy a young wife. There is plenty of 50+ rich dudes in Norway with Asian 18-25 years old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:33 PM
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It should be a no brainer that if someone is fun and gives you pleasure you want to do it often. So I would agree that good sex mostly depends from men. 1min fast pumping doesn’t feel any good and most women would rather be left alone than have “sex” like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:46 PM
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Only by judging looks: 10 - Marlon Brando when he was young obviously. Henry Cavill, and for me personally River Phoenix (RIP) 5 - Ryan Gosling if he wasn’t famous I don’t think anyone will say he is super hot. 1 - Boris Johnson but in general fat, ugly face, no style, doesn’t care about appearance, stupid hair and facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:03 PM
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I’m a millennial so probably times changed a bit now and hooking up is more normalised than ever. But I literally know only 2 girls that are into it, rest one has sex with the guy they are in relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:45 AM
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Maybe not pick just to look cool. Find a hobby, find clothes that look good on you, do a hairstyle that will match your face features instead of doing whatever every other guys does. Show your interests, if you are going to wear for example accessories with your favourite show, video game, music it’s a great conversation starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:43 AM
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I think you are right. I’m a “typical” metalhead. When I had tinder I used to swipe guys that were alternative or when I’ve seen a guy has similar hobbies. Unless guy wasn’t fat and super ugly I would swipe right. But I on the other hand had over 9k swipes after first week on my profile. And most of these guys I had nothing in common. Also most of them are boring af. Plain clothes or sweatpants, zero effort into appearance (hair, eyebrows, beard) mostly interested in Netflix and food. Also guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:40 AM
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I don’t really fantasise. When I’m very horny I will just go grab a dildo and hydrating gel and just do it. If I’m just a bit horny I will masturbate without penetration. Maybe when I’m about to orgasm I will imagine I‘ m doing it with a guy but not a specific person it’s more like some fictional character. But usually I don’t really think about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:26 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:39 PM
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It’s what men assume that every attractive woman was a slut in 20s and then is looking for a provider. It is true in some cases but in majority it’s not. Most women are serial monogamists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:39 PM
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I feel like many men are scared to try something different not to be labelled as “gay”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:39 PM
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I think for women it’s difficult because most men want just something casual. Women if they want to they can have sex easily but finding a comparable partner that doesn’t have issue with “responsibility” is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:20 PM
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I think it might be a deeper subject. She might still not be over him so she rejects every guy because if you still have feelings for ex it’s difficult to date new people. After having experience with one relationship you know what kind of traits you are not going to tolerate in the next person you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:16 PM
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But you you know, stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:10 PM
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Maybe because most men you pass by on the sidewalk look like a copy of each other? I was always drawn to men with unique style.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:53 PM
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I have male friends but they never did anything to make me uncomfortable so I don’t care if they think about sex with me or not if they keep it to themselves. I cut the contact with a few guys that pretended it’s “just friends” but every chance they had they tried to make a move or I had to watch what I’m talking about because they will get offended like for example when I mentioned I’m talking to someone on tinder. Also for me when I’m not interested in seeing anyone it includes everything. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:46 AM
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I think that’s really sweet. I don’t see anything malicious in it. When people love and respect each other it’s a pleasure to do nice things to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:20 PM
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Maybe it’s a fetish? Or romanticised view how a bad boy only loves them and is good around them? I have no idea how someone can be attracted to criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:49 PM
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Yay finally a post how evil women just wait in a que to ride a Chad while the rest is watching and begging for a piece of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:47 PM
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Just because woman was not as attractive as a guy that was hitting on her and she wasn’t interested doesn’t give you a free pass to lashing out on her. Maybe in her mind you are the ugly one. I know this sub is trying to mathematically solve dating but it’s not as logical. For some one guy is 10/10 for other same guy is 3/10. There are also plenty of reasons someone might reject you. It’s not always about your looks. There are a lot of people that can offer everything besides personality. It get…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:39 PM
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I don’t want a guy to talk to me. I mean what did they expect after I say I’m not interested in dating, they insist it’s just as friends because they are also not interested in seeing anyone. Then try to make a move and are offended by rejection. I don’t want this type of people in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:32 PM
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Once, but it was a weird story. I talked with a guy for like 3 months prior to meeting him you know cliche good morning texts hearths and rainbows. We slept together when we met in person and then again and then he got back to ex. So I guess it’s my only casual sex story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:12 PM
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I guess I will stay single. I don’t feel like being a wallet or a babysitter. Casual sex with multiple people is gross in my opinion. Time to get 9 cats and a house in the forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:05 PM
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They are dumb if they think someone coming up to you saying “you are cute” is a harassment. If someone is stalking you, walking behind or next to you commenting how you should give him his number even after multiple times you said “no”, forcing a hug, kiss or any touch is harassment. Women that accuse normal guys approaching them as harassment is why dating is so fucked up. Most normal men are just scared to go and talk to a woman. Creeps are going to be creeps anyways so nothing changed for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:00 PM
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Dated but probably married someone they have more in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:55 PM
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I’m not talking about yelling at someone and harassing them. That’s why I mentioned about accepting rejection in a normal way. But when you come up to someone and say “hey nice tits wanna fuck?” I would much more prefer that than someone pretending to be my friend because we share interest just to try to make a move and when say no they never talk to me again. Like wtf did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:56 PM
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Actually yes but only if they take rejection normal way also.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:29 PM
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I think it’s hard if you are looking for an actual relationship. Too many people are undecided and casual dating multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:27 PM
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But starting something with a lie leads to being blocked. Bad strategy I would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:25 PM
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I have quite a lot of female friends and only one of them is dating 12 years older guy. Rest has max 5 years difference between them. I’ve seen teenage girls being attracted to old guys but they were usually just looking for a father figure in their life. Usually when they grow up it passes. Dating much older people is not common or something people look for. There are exceptions obviously, and people love to talk about those cases the most. Or bring celebrities as examples of something normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:24 PM
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Purpose driven all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:56 PM
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Nah, people in relationship don’t interest me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:08 PM
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I don’t see much young women dating old dudes. Maybe some with daddy issues or just looking forward to share his fortune. Usually people date around same age. And the delusion that men are hot older while most don’t take care of their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:05 PM
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When I was naive teenager and young adult I had low self esteem so I thought that maybe men actually want to be friends with me. Now I can sense bs from a far. I don’t know why some men will be like “ let’s grab a beer l together, no worries just as friends” or “it’s not a date” and later try to kiss or touch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:10 AM
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It’s like every single day there is a post like this. Blah blah WoMeN bAD sLuTs MeN gOoD, WoMeN eXpIrE oN 30tH bDaY
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:02 PM
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Ok I get it nobody loves you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:25 PM
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Oh right forgot how old ugly rich celebrity represents all male population. In cases like this it’s a transaction not a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:24 PM
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2-3 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:25 PM
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It’s pretty normal thing. As we age our priorities change. I’ve never had a “hoe” phase but I’m definitely a different person from when I was 5 years ago. I used to like to go out and dance with friends now I rather stay at home and do something that will help me grow as a person. Read books, study or take another course. I was not looking for any relationship but now I think it would be nice to share a life with someone with similar interests. I feel sorry for people that never had a time being…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:23 PM
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People shame other people since the start of humanity. Everyone has different standards but some behaviours are shamed by majority of people. Get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:54 AM
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Tell men to stop dumping whole family for a young pussy that is using them for money. Too many people grow up without a father and people are okay with it. If mother doesn’t want contact with her child she is labelled as a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:21 AM
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But there is something. Some people you know, like and you know they are attractive but it will never be anything more than a friendship. With others it’s hits totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:13 AM
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Maybe it is more of an American thing as someone mentioned. I’m from Europe average person is having healthy BMI. Maybe younger generation is slightly on a chubbier side. Back in my school days maybe 1 person per class was a bit chubby and in whole school of over 1k students 2 - 3 fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:42 PM
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It’s simple. Most women are looking for LTR and to have a family. Woman is the one getting pregnant which in some cases makes her unable to work for the whole pregnancy, after birth it’s even worse she has to heal and also take care of the baby, it’s 24/7 job. She can pick some loser she can’t trust that is going to take care of her and children during this fragile time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:45 PM
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Sometimes it’s just simple beyond control who are we attracted to. I can’t be intimate with someone I don’t have some feelings for. I met very attractive men that were great in general but there was no “spark” no emotions attached. Nobody is going to lower their standards to help some whiny b1tch get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:42 PM
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Just don’t hit on tall women. There are plenty of couples where a guy is short but so is his girlfriend. Outside of dating apps women usually want a guy taller than themselves. But because of you guys being so insecure about your looks a lot of you are just fcking dicks and it’s not your height but your personality that lacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:42 AM
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For me it is very important. The first sign as something is wrong in relationship is when people avoid intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:27 PM
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I don’t believe men find every woman that isn’t obese at least as average or Are you guys really that desperate recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 07:26 PM
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Statistically you and your dog have 3 legs. So I would really pay that much attention to “studies” that ask like 100 people opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:08 PM
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Bar is in hell - is more targeted towards woman that are praising their partners for not cheating or changing their kid diaper once a month. Like you know, something that was supposed to be normal human thing to do women are happy their husband took a shower or didn’t hit them. It’s not targeted towards normal good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:05 PM
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This is so boring. Same topic over and over. There is no right answer. People are different, people grow up in different environment etc just don’t be a dick for no reason and you will find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:20 PM
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Why? Maybe for her bf she is 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:23 AM
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If you are sure she is into you, then yeah break that barrier and touch her but it’s not a good advice to just push yourself on people. It’s a thin line between doing next step with a girl and harassing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:08 AM
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Who would waste time on someone that is seeing other people? Nobody wants to be an option. It hurts when you get attached but your crush picked the person he was seeing. Also it’s not like men don’t shame women for seeing few guys at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:47 PM
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Obviously there are “different types”. I also have 3 good male friends. Two are actually very attractive but they are so weird. In a group of friends girls would try to hit on them but guys would respond with one word or they would go somewhere to play alone on their phones. Some have a lot of female friends but never make a move on anyone or the ones that have such a high standards for a girl they will never find anyone. But every single one of mentioned situations is something lacking in socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:09 PM
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The most important thing is personality. I know nobody wants to hear about it but every guy I know that is “forever alone” or an “incel” has same traits as being just damn socially awkward, never speaking, never messaging first, never trying to ask people to meet together. Many are gamers that just never leave the house so obviously they don’t meet any women. Then comes not caring about the appearance. Unfortunately men are very stubborn to understand times have changed and just having a good jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 03:33 PM
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I think it’s pretty reasonable not wanting to be friends with someone you have feelings for or crushing over. As a woman I don’t like being friends with men that I know don’t cut the contact with me because they expect something might happen in the future. It makes things awkward and it’s a toxic situation for both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:14 AM
6

Yeah, nobody wants a fat guy unless you want to be used for money by some gold digger. Qualities are not interchangeable, some women might not care if you are fat but many will. Especially educated, intelligent and hot woman has better options than a fat guy with high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:21 PM
2

Women desire good looking men. But Redditors prefer to find any excuse not to do anything about their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:30 PM
2

I don’t understand it either. Just have the guts to tell someone to get lost instead of pretending you don’t know them and run away every time you see them in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:07 AM
6

I think it’s something every person should do no matter the gender. I know too many women that jump from relationship to relationship since night school because they are afraid to be alone. Even if they hate their boyfriend they are not going to break up until someone else isn’t in the picture. They have no personality, no interests and don’t know what they want from life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:04 AM
-5

And here we go again blaming women for attracting men that are aholes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:58 AM
4

Yeah but people in general prefer when their significant other has hair. Being bald ages most men at least a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:08 PM
8

Like women don’t spend thousands. Even regular women you pass by on the street usually do some facial treatments to have nice and younger looking skin. It’s not woman’s fault that men will fuck them as long as they have vagina. How many times everyone heard a joke that you can just put a paper bag over woman’s face to have sex if she is ugly? Times have changed people are expected to work and take care of themselves without spreading it by gender roles anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:49 PM
-3

Only height. You can get a hair piece, hair transplant or visit a doctor early on to help you maintain your hair. Improve your hygiene and I don’t mean only showering, start actually taking care of yourself. Instead of crying online start taking actions. Women are doing everything to look best for many, many years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:36 AM
1

Of course intelligence matters. I can’t stand dumb people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:05 AM
2

It’s no one’s job but I don’t like to make a move first. It boosts guys ego too much and he thinks he is some hot shit that can get everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:49 PM
38

I live in London and quite often I use public transport. Unfortunately I every time there is at least one smelly person each time and 9/10 times it’s a guy. The funnies was when I overheard three guys complaining about not getting any matches on tinder while all of them stank like sweaty, unwashed armpit from a far. Not to mention it’s not only about taking showers but many men don’t do anything about taking care of their hair, eyebrows, beard, nails, ears, teeth, skin and clean clothes. Don’t u…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:20 PM
1

What if I can’t use my phone at work? That makes at least 4h of no texting back. Also there are a lot of spots with no signal like the tube or big malls. People like you make this harder on yourself. If she is not interested it doesn’t mean she when she text back whenever is a sing she just wants to keep you around. You know friends exist and women are usually friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:03 AM
5

Totally agree with you. Face is most important when it comes to looks. I also dated a man that was shorter than me but he had beautiful face. Besides that a man that is not fat, has full head of hair (I prefer longer), no beard or just a slight 1-3 day, groomed so doesn’t have one eyebrow, hair in ears or long one poking from the nose. overall masculine features like sharp chin and jawline and inverted triangle body shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:46 AM
2

It’s definitely some +. It shows the guy is responsible and not selfish to just expect woman to take care of contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 10:33 AM
7

Just be gender fluid and have sex with your friend that identifies as a women at certain time. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:45 PM
2

It all depends what is someone looking for. I can ez get laid every day if I wanted to but I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:49 AM
11

So are we supposed to feel bad that you would put your dick in anything but we don’t feel like allowing anything into our vaginas?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 11:11 PM
0

That’s why I don’t date anymore. Men lack honour and honesty. Something that was supposed to be “masculine traits”. All you do is lie and fuck everything that doesn’t run away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:39 AM
3

I only slept with one guy on a first date but we spoke online for a long time. But I have low n count. So sometimes it’s a matter of situation or feelings. I really was in love with the guy and he made me feel safe to sleep with him. But that was one time and I never did or will do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:44 PM
1

No 2 was true until you added your suspicion. I know I could have sex if I wanted to. But I won’t because I need to be emotionally attached to a person to feel comfortable when he touches me. I masturbate when I’m really feeling like it. I don’t have casual sex at all. It’s almost never good for women. When I masturbate I’m sure I will have an orgasm. Just because a woman is single doesn’t mean she is feeling bad about it. I know men love to believe single women are unhappy because of lack of bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:57 AM
1

I’m not. It’s pretty obvious everyone should try to look their best. But looks isn’t all. If you are going to fix what you can go to the gym to get in shape which also fixes face a lot, have your eyebrows and beard (if you have one) groomed, get hair transplant or hair piece but your whole personality is gym bro or your beard don’t be surprised. A lot of people that want to improve they looks change their whole life and personality around it. People want to know the real you not listen you your …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:49 AM
-1

At this point I think it’s mostly personality. Since most women are looking for long time relationship. Sure they would turn their heads seeing a hot guy but in the end they would rather be with a less attractive guy but with great personality than some handsome moron. Same is with guys and girls they would just fuck and ones they want to get to know better and be with them. I realised most women even the very beautiful ones are with average men. But if you want to fix yourself just be more stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:22 PM
1

I’ve seen in multiple times. Some girls will be very “popular” among men but then everyone will just “pump and dump” them. But usually it’s a stereotypical bimbo that maybe has looks but intellect of a brick. But if a woman is attractive, nice and intelligent men act totally different way around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:42 AM
2

No. Maybe it’s easier to date because a lot of people feel the urge to settle down after passing that magical 30. Some women will be desperate because of society and family pressure so they will date a guy that is not the best looking but has stable income and is a “safe” guy to have a kid with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:07 PM
2

No, it should depend on how many hours people are working or who is home first. I don’t like to use people and nobody is going to use me. I’m not going to be a full time working + a housewife because I have vagina. I don’t cook or clean with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:34 PM
1

Just don’t be a creep or the “I will convince you you want me” type of guy and nobody normal will think you are harassing them. Also don’t just walk to a girl and start with “hey sexy / nice ass / nice tits or why aren’t you smiling?” and don’t stand way too close to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:39 PM
0

I like dates with people that don’t ask standard questions. After a few times it’s just so boring. Where are you from? What did you study? Where about do you live? What is you job? And then multiple job questions like it’s a job interview. But it’s fun with people that can talk about different hobbies, interests or funny stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:45 PM
8

Don’t try to understand stupid. There are a lot of contradictions in “dating” related societies. People created only more problems and it’s harder day by day to find sane people to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:23 AM
4

I think I might be difficult one. I could date easily and I did when I was dating. But I really don’t feel like seeing anyone anymore. I’m not interested in casual dating where people date others, I don’t want casual sex or fwb. I don’t want to date men that “don’t know what they want” or “explore around” or “try to find themselves” and so on. But in recent years seems like less men are interested in LTR with mutual love, admiration, respect etc. So back to the topic if I wanted to just “date” a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 11:11 PM
1

I go to the gym at least 5x week. I have similar body type to Jennifer Lopez I guess. I don’t aim to be skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:28 AM
30

This is so true. Guys will make effort only at the start of the relationship and then decrease doing anything when time passed but will expect of their wife to always do everything. Women adapted to todays world where they have to go to work and have less time for everything else. Many men still feel like only thing they have to do is work and expect their partner to do the rest and also burden them with their mental issues but never listen to their “nagging and bitchy” wife in return. I’ve been…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:42 PM
2

No, they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:28 AM
5

I don’t know how I’m suppose to know who is in my “league”. I only dated guys I was attracted to. But they don’t fit into conventionally attractive type. No one is 100% perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:35 PM
2

Dumbest take ever. Why would you even hit on someone you don’t find attractive? Why would women that in your opinion are not attractive be attracted to you and happy to be pumped and dumped? Also just because someone is hot af doesn’t mean we want to do anything with them. Some people are awful and only positive thing about them is they are pleasant to look at for a far.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:40 AM
0

Most women are like that. It’s not about any social construct. Of course we find some men very attractive but it doesn’t matter I want to sleep with them. I’m just interested to get to know them and see how it goes from there. If he is a narcissistic idiot I don’t care how hot he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 07:01 AM
0

It’s not a myth. Super handsome guys a lot of girls are willing to just have sex with on the spot are rarity. They usually will research the guy and get some attachment. For a woman’s logic it’s like “if its going to end up to be only a one night stand with him at least he was hot”. That’s why even not so good looking woman will go for a “Chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:57 AM
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