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| – | Men don't ask women to have low standards, they ask women to have realistic onesThey mostly do- you’re either in a relationship with someone you presumably like or you’re single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.…they’re not romantically interested in you. Which is perfectly normal for friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 01:33 AM |
| 3 | If you could be born as a woman instead, would you?What social mores are you upset that women don’t “have to” ‘adhere to’? In what ways are they ‘neurotic’? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)They said “people”, not men specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Be funny, hygienic, kind, respectful, thoughtful Normal human being stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Men Don't Want Traditional Wives. They Want Adult Children Who Can Also Be Their Mommy.Right, but how do you know until you actually, ya know… go on the date lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men Don't Want Traditional Wives. They Want Adult Children Who Can Also Be Their Mommy.I guess I’m still not sure what exactly your point is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 10:44 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Men Don't Want Traditional Wives. They Want Adult Children Who Can Also Be Their Mommy.What’s the middle? You think it’s not ok for women to date. Therefore she must marry the first man who asks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men Don't Want Traditional Wives. They Want Adult Children Who Can Also Be Their Mommy.Is this a good or a bad thing, in your opinion? I can guess based on your flair but would be interested in hearing your reasoning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Men and women do not live the same lifeCan we plz _not_ refer to girls/women as “cum bucket(s)”? I get you’re doing it for effect but there are too many folks who don’t understand nuance and will just believe this is an ok way to refer to somebody 💜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 06:14 AM |
| 2 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.You can say female humans! As female is an adjective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 01:41 AM |
| 0 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.You treat your boss/employee the same as your partner? Odd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:55 AM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.“Female” whats? Female human beings are called women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Do you care to actually elaborate on what youre trying to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:45 PM |
| 3 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.I have no clue what you’re talking about. I said women date unemployed men- there’s a whole term for it, “hobosexual” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:40 PM |
| 3 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Why? Like why do you need that progression, I mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:37 PM |
| 5 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.I’ve dated unemployed dudes yep as have a lot of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:34 PM |
| 5 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Money is more important how? If anything it’s less important as most women work full time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 07:05 PM |
| 10 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Yeah.. no one is arguing that folks aren’t entitled to romantic relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:45 PM |
| -1 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.The relationship you have with your boss/company is different than the relationship you’d have with a romantic partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:44 PM |
| 2 | If you are not willing to adapt to the dating market, your complaints about dating is unreasonable.Do you care to elaborate? What’s the “system problem” that people not in a relationship face? What does “advocating for change” look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like itAgain…Why would you do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:06 AM |
| 10 | Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like itFuck your pointy ass headed ex husband 💅 (Not literally, stay away from that play safe in traffic lookin ass) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like itWhy would you just randomly tell a woman she’s put on weight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like itThat’s why the nomenclature says “energy” I don’t like it myself but if someone’s gonna use it they apparently need to verbally express this 10yo saying is referring to general vibes aka being an incel Again, not a fan of the term myself. It’s reductive and cruel for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 02:26 AM |
| 11 | Men aren't more critical of women ,we are just treating you equally and you don't like itI remember the post. Some dude was complaining that more women don’t just randomly approach him and tell him he’s physically not their type (he kept just using the subjective and rude “ugly”) We were like yeah, no that’s insane behavior why would anyone just randomly insult someone’s looks? Especially women to men. So many of them were like- begging for it. Had to be some sort of humiliation ritual. I’m glad so many of us opted out of their foolishness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 02:23 AM |
| 1 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menShouldn’t he just not be acting like that then? If you have to act differently around different people, that doesn’t sound like a good or healthy thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:58 PM |
| 2 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menSex is supposed to be mutually beneficial though. Why is a dude “killing it” if he has sex? I kill it by getting an A on an exam, it’s black and white and it’s only beneficial to me. Sex is supposed to be fun for all parties involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:52 PM |
| 0 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menMaybe more dudes shouldn’t say something sexual too soon-therefore, it wouldn’t be a common sentiment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:46 PM |
| 4 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menBecause the person hiring you for a job isn’t the same relationship as two people learning if they want to date each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:43 PM |
| 2 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menWell, they are.. ..The hostile environment in question is just other men. And I’m sorry that happened to you 💜💜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:27 PM |
| 0 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menYou don’t see women as fully formed human beings. I’d think less about other men if I were you and focus on the bigger issue at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:26 PM |
| 2 | "Women are people too. Just treat them like they are human". Is such anoverblown, and hella misleading advice for menFemale humans* aka women Female is an adjective, woman is a noun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?So you’re either completely unaware of or just don’t care that a person can do something and then realize they don’t like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"You’re changing the subject | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"Which part is silly? Maybe I’m confused by your wording | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Kinky sex is not "treating a man better"A lot of the “kinky acts” people are thinking of involve the woman’s discomfort. Maybe you’re thinking of men who enjoy getting pegged, slapped, choked, spat on, tied up, etc but let’s be honest, it’s usually the woman being ‘degraded’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?We don’t know, you’re making up hypothetical scenarios. Most relationships are evenly distributed, wherein all people are happy to be there. It’s 2026, dude. Women generally aren’t being sold off and they have an equal say in divorce and how the household is ran. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:22 AM |
| 8 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?Do you have other suggestions? Dating is an all inclusive activity. No one should be going on dates begrudgingly, nor feel like it’s ‘work’… it’s supposed to be fun for all parties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?How so? / wdym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:17 AM |
| 7 | Woman of Reddit. What is your usual response or reaction when you hear guys say "Women are too much work"?Viewing sex as “getting” it (or “giving” it) is already an issue. Sex is a consensual act that all people involved should be enthusiastically participating in. It’s not some “reward” when having it. Not some “punishment” to be ‘taken away’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?“Unfortunate”, how so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:51 PM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.Sounds like a you problem, dude. Stop letting other dude’s looks get into your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 04:35 AM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.I can objectively say if someone is conventionally attractive. I only, like most folks, date people I’m physically attracted to. Who tf dates someone they don’t want to have sex with or kiss or cuddle with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 04:02 AM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.Break up with him if that aspect of your relationship is of the upmost importance to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:57 AM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.I just don’t understand wanting to know about your partner’s past sex life- like?! Why would this convo ever come? Why would anyone indulge in such a convo? Why would someone get upset about “been there, don’t that, not my thing”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:44 AM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.Didn’t take long for your misogyny to come out full swing did it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:41 AM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.No, bc I’m still me and he’s with me bc I’m me. I don’t want or like anal, so him having an ex that was into anal has no bearing on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:34 AM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.Girl this is a little cray 😅 I’m 34yo so maybe that’s why these things seem extremely trivial but it’d be wild to not listen to favorite music or watch favorite movies, etc bc I’m still hooked on my ex apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 03:30 AM |
| -4 | Disabled man gets sexually assaulted at hotel, feminist reaction is vile.It’s not whataboutism though. These comments are clearly satire, as they’re things that men have said when women are raped | /r/MensRights | 10/05/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What is wife material, and why women should want to be wife material?You sound like you’re describing a dog/mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 02:18 AM |
| – | Men have more agency than women. If we're not the same, it makes no sense to pretend that we are.An underage “woman” is a girl. A 13yo kid doesn’t “pursue”, she had a crush and the creepy 19yo friend’s brother took advantage of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 04:11 AM |
| – | Why can't women just tell men when they're unattractive?If you can’t say your opinions irl you clearly recognize that they’re shite opinions and you’re ashamed/embarrassed of them. Maybe delve into that. Go to therapy, genuinely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 11:09 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONUnfortunately, men are very likely to leave their partner if she gets sick (think cancer or something chronic, etc. Not just like the fly or smth) that doctors specifically warn the sick women of the stats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 02:24 PM |
| – | young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol.If only the fathers of those children would’ve stuck around and parented them huh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:02 AM |
| – | young men were not a priority until the red pill came along. Suddenly they need to be "protected" Selective Righteousness and Narrative Caontrol.You _should_ care. Young men being radicalized by hate speech never ends well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 07:00 AM |
| 1 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationHe’ll never respond to these types of comments but I really wish he would | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 01:15 AM |
| 6 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationPeople like/don’t like all sorts of things from all sorts of people. We don’t know why this hypothetical woman may want to be approached/flirted with or not in that moment. But most people don’t want to be stared at. That’s just human nature. It’s unnerving, doesn’t matter who’s doing the staring. Especially when they continue doing so when the person being stared at has shown that they’re uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:50 PM |
| 2 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationSincerely, I recommend therapy. There are ways to learn how to interact with people and work through your social anxiety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:27 PM |
| 2 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationWhat’s funny about someone needing a job and choosing to work at a place she wants to work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:18 PM |
| 3 | women do not hate objectification, they hate low value objectificationThank you 🙏 Was it OP who responded? Now I wanna know what he said 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesIt’s the same principle though. And those places _do_ exist. There are dating apps, speed dating, sex clubs, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 09:02 PM |
| -16 | Men No Longer Even Trying to Date: The Reason Is Obviousr/MenAndFemales | /r/MensRights | 03/05/26 10:06 AM |
| 17 | I think a large percentage of men are dropping out of dating because there is no love at the end of the tunnelDivorce rates in the US have been dropping for decades.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 08:53 AM |
| -3 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesI like how you compare men to dangerous, wild animals who are statistically more likely to “maul them” (them=women) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:07 PM |
| -2 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesAnd yet you’re all over this thread and in your OP blaming women for men’s actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 11:00 PM |
| 0 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesYeah OP keeps trying to equate guilt with empathy/sympathy and it makes zero sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:59 PM |
| -5 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choices“Guilt” and “not feeling bad for what happens to women” _are not the same things_ Also, one big reason you’re “unselected” is your clear disdain towards women. Calling sex/relationships with women as “access” is such a disturbing way to view her body/heart/mind/soul You gain “access” to get into a building, not a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:51 PM |
| – | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesWhat an abhorrent comment. You sound miserable. I hope things get better for you and you’re able to grow and evolve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:45 PM |
| 2 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesYou don’t understand the difference between personal accountability and being the type of person who calls out others (aka try to hold them accountable) for their bad actions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:43 PM |
| -1 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesAlways wild to me how so many people (let’s be honest, at least on this website, it’s typically men) who get more upset at the parent who chose to raise their child (usually the mother) and don’t ostracize the “parent” (usually the father) who chose to not be in their child’s life to even close to the same amount. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:26 PM |
| 1 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesu/Avanni24 if you don’t mind, I’m interested in your thoughts on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:23 PM |
| 0 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesu/Low-Contact6500 I’m curious as to y your thoughts about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:21 PM |
| 3 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesWho’s Lisa Ann?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:18 PM |
| 2 | unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choicesYou really need to look up the cycle of abuse. Read “why does he do that” by Lundy Bancroft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 10:17 PM |
| 0 | I don’t agree with any of the pills but blue pill advice is far worse than red pillWild how people give the parent who actually takes care of their children more shit than the one who walked away. Do you care to elaborate on why you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life.Wait am I misunderstanding you or are you saying stability, compatibility, and shared life goals are less important than sex in a romantic relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menSounds like men need to start lifting each other up more. We live in a patriarchal society- be the change you wish to see. Also, that’s not what feminism is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 08:25 PM |
| 12 | Modern women overrate their value way more than menThe friendzone doesn’t exist. It’s men who put women in the “fuckzone”, aka pretending to be her friend all the while hoping she’ll eventually have sex with him. Whereas she thinks she has a genuine male friend. If anything it’s the men in these situations leading the women on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Redpillers are rude and that's why women here are unsympatheticPeople definitely care if people are rude irl. Most folks are just more emboldened to be rude behind an anonymous username behind a screen in the comfort of their home instead of real life bc in real life if they’re rude to the wrong person they’ll get real life consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers are rude and that's why women here are unsympatheticThat’s just patently untrue. Divorce rates, for example, have been declining for decades in the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?What? Men on these types of subs are forever claiming it’s more common to see a “10” man with a “6” woman or w/e, even though it’s so much more common to see a more conventionally attractive woman with a less conventionally attractive man that it’s been a trope for decades | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Be the change you wish to see. Compliment other men on their physical appearance. Lift up your fellow bros (metaphorically speaking) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:21 AM |
| -2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Women* Female is an adjective, woman is a noun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Bruv you’ve gotta chill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male ConcernsThat’s not at all the flex you think it is holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male ConcernsBe the change you wish to see. Create positive male spaces. Volunteer for Big Brother. Call out other men when you see/hear them behave inappropriately. And encourage your friends to do the same, and if they don’t- drop them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Women need to embrace, modernity all the way.What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think women are hypergamous?Do you find it at all disturbing that your worldview is “all men are attracted to women young enough to be their granddaughter”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/26 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Is there a way to make dating fair for men ethically - without reducing the rights of women, or challenging the autonomy of others?r/MenAndFemales | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 02:34 PM |
| – | Question for Women: How does female social hierarchy work for you?The fact that you personally think Conor mcgregor is a “high status man” (and you believe many other men agree) says everything someone needs to know about you. Please seek help. You have a narrow mindset that’s dangerous and very black or white thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 04:13 AM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.I wouldn’t word it like that, we choose to be with our partner, we don’t need them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 10:09 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.r/MenAndFemales | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.There’s no magic number. You get to know each other and get romantic if/when the vibe is right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Everyone wants validation, but the redpill and their ilk take it too far.That number seems high 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 08:17 AM |
| 0 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.Insane that this got downvoted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 03:00 AM |
| 2 | “Men want love too” until you explain that relationships should NOT be seen as the cost of sex.You deserve better 💜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 02:53 AM |
| 1 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.It’s simply a known phenomenon. Men specificity will become abusive/neglectful once they’ve “locked down” their partner (marriage, kids, etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 10:56 PM |
| 1 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.Shame on the adult being “barely functioning”, as many times they don’t begin the relationship that way, otherwise there wouldn’t be a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 10:54 PM |
| – | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenBruv, you’ve got a supercomputer in your hand as we speak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:10 AM |
| – | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenSingle women are the happiest demographic… after married men. Hm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 01:57 AM |
| – | Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most womenMost men that pursue 50% custody get it… most men just don’t actually pursue 50% custody. Also, women are far more likely to be financially ruined by divorce than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Men, why are you surprised that attractive women are attracted to attractive men af/bb? And should women feel the same?Why do so many men naysay women for having casual sex when that’s what they want? Also, getting 1k DMs from people you’re not interested in is like getting 0 DMs from people you would be interested in.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 01:01 AM |
| 5 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".There’s literally a whole trope about women developing superhuman strength in emergencies and being able to lift a car off of a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:57 PM |
| 5 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".A person starving for food and a man wanting sex are so far from comparable that I will choose to believe you’re in on the joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:56 PM |
| 0 | "Choose better" until men also have to choose better. Then that's just "female nature".Many abusers don’t start out as abusers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themAnd I already contribute. Why do I have a “duty” to put my body and mind and life at risk to add another human to the population? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themI heard something interesting that’s always stuck with me- when men (specifically) say they don’t like cats, it’s a bit of a red flag bc unlike dogs, who are friendly with everyone, cats you have to actually respect their autonomy and give them time and space to warm up to you if they feel like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:45 PM |
| 16 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themAre you 5yo? Saying randomly online that you’ll chat with someone irl is absolutely not a promise. Idk any woman who’d meet a stranger online irl to help him get sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:18 PM |
| 14 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themBruv, just scroll through the sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:17 PM |
| 9 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themWhen we do approach and ask, they get pissed and call us cat ladies 😅 as though that’s a bad thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:15 PM |
| 10 | Women of Reddit are not interested in helping men, they are more interested in abusing and bullying themWhy do I have a duty to society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:14 PM |
| 9 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?Then like… don’t pay attention to those people? I truly don’t know what you want me to say. “If it doesn’t apply, let it fly” and whatnot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:11 PM |
| 2 | I think left-wingers sometimes "grift" on dating difficulties too.Tbf, politics were much different back then. Now it’s a basis of “do our values align, bc our values affect how a vast majority of humans live (or die)” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:50 PM |
| 6 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?What do you mean? Like what does a man being “careful” around women look like that’s different than just a man being normal around other humans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?Ok? Again, why be with someone you feel you must “walk on eggshells” around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?It’s never serious it’s just a dumb TikTok joke. And the “does this make me look fat” thing is so 1980s it hurts, no one’s doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:42 PM |
| 7 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?If you don’t understand nuance/joking then idk what to tell you other than life will likely be a struggle for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?Again, that’s not a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 09:38 PM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Sounds a dude friend group that I wouldn’t want to associate with 😅 do y’all not just have friends who are women? Is no one in a relationship? Do all these women know you all are interested in all of them? Sounds very… “playing by numbers” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:05 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?You’re making no sense. You keep pushing on this idea that you must know if your “partner’s friends” find you attractive or not. And people keep answering you with their own anecdotal evidence that nah most folks literally don’t think about if their partner’s friends find them attractive or not, and don’t think about their partner’s friends in that way either. It’s one thing to find someone to be a good looking person, but that’s a blip in your mind when you first meet them just like anyone else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:04 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Artwork can be sexy. I don’t want to have sex with artwork. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:53 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?It would be utterly bizarre and antisocial to “let it be known” to your friends that you find their partners ugly Do you… have any friends? Or a partner? Have you ever? Genuinely curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:49 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?Sounds like more men need to open their minds then lol what she’s describing is perfectly understandable and I’m not sure how much more specific one can get. Not everyone is for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:43 AM |
| – | Why do women always claim the men their friends date are ugly and unattractive?They’re just… not? 1) my friends are dating them so they automatically are like brothers to me, 2) we’ve never been interested in the same men, 3) etc etc etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:42 AM |
| 5 | If men prefer women under 25, what women expected to do about it?Says the man on Reddit yapping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doBc many men want kids the way kids want a puppy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 11:44 PM |
| – | “Choose better” until that means women wont fuck a stranger.Angelina Jolie dumped Brad Pitt bc he’s an abusive alcoholic asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:55 PM |
| – | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsYou’ve never spoken to a woman have you 😅 hyperbole obviously but “being a good father” is at like the top of the list for most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:50 PM |
| – | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsPlenty of women date and marry and are with men who don’t work… you like to cherry pick. Spend some more time on relationship subs and you’ll quickly see. Or just like, make friends with all genders. You’ll see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:47 PM |
| – | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsYou clearly hate women. You don’t have to try and be in a relationship with them. In fact, please don’t. No woman deserves to be with a man who speaks with such disdain about their mere hypothetical existence. If having a convo with (presumably, the love of your life, mother of your children, life partner) is simply her “yammering on” in your POV, and spending time together is “taking her on dates (that you don’t enjoy)” then why tf are you still pretending to be interested in women? You want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:45 PM |
| – | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsMost mothers work full time jobs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:37 PM |
| – | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsCare to elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:32 PM |
| – | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsYou’re speaking in absolutes. If you truly don’t know any man who wanted to have his children, I feel sad for you and the community you choose to interact with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:30 PM |
| – | Self-centered men just can't handle the change that comes with having kidsA man that cheats on his pregnant wife is still a man. It’s disingenuous and belittling to infantilize or “other” grown adult males who choose to cheat on their pregnant/postpartum/breastfeeding/childrearing partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 06:23 PM |
| 7 | Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated?r/MenAndFemales | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 10:07 PM |
| -1 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenSo why aren’t men also dating women that they’re, you know, attracted to? “Passing the looks threshold” just means finding your partner attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:26 PM |
| – | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenHey. You can just… not date women. Since you hate them so much 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Oh dear. You’ve never heard of condoms? Or vasectomies? Or abstinence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 07:35 AM |
| 37 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Why aren’t you shaming deadbeat dads? Single mothers stuck around and raised their children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".?? Women are in college and getting degrees at a higher rate than men. They’re also choosing to not marry/have children at high rates. “Women’s game” has definitely changed, have you been living under a rock? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".Men like you are why women are happily walking away from heterosexual marriage and having children That utter disdain that so many of you have of us simply existing, while ostensibly still expecting sex, childrearing, paychecks, household labor, etc from us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Why are you “blaming” the child in this situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t women like passport bros?“This happens” aka that’s the point? The men go to these countries to flaunt their “wealth”, the women concede because of perceived wealth/better life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like passport bros?I just feel bad for the women of whom’s countries these guys are flocking towards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like passport bros?You keep bringing up “man vs bear” debate… passport bros are still choosing women, they’re just choosing women who they feel are more subservient/ have fewer options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like passport bros?And making another woman their problem :/ I don’t “wish that evil” on any woman! (Obvious hyperbolic quote, sentiment remains) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like passport bros?They’re also insulting the women of those countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 08:55 PM |
| – | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?TBF, we’re talking about a woman who’s your friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 08:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men.Does everyone in your life know that you’re blatantly misogynistic? Genuinely curious. Blaming a woman for a man’s actions is straight up dangerous behavior, and I hope that everyone in your life knows exactly where you stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:56 AM |
| 0 | CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men.The most dangerous time for homicide is when a woman is pregnant… her murderer being her male partner/ex/father of the child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 11:50 PM |
| – | Where does this idea that looks don't matter really come from?Yes to all this except saying sorry at the beginning of your comment 😶 💜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 10:28 AM |
| 1 | What's the point of sleeping with someone you aren't attracted to?Genuinely asking- do you mind naming some of these male celebs with “pretty unremarkable” wives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.That’s the point- the age of someone who is 18 vs 24 means the traits of wealth, status, life experience, etc are a problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 01:41 AM |
| 3 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.You’re an absolute menace who needs his hard drives checked Very skewed views of underage girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 01:39 AM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.You sound like a pedo bc you’re making pedo arguments, you’re aware of this fact, yet it’s so important for you to sing your thoughts from the rooftops that you continue to double down on your strange, frightening view of children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 01:36 AM |
| 1 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.That’s unusual. There are many teachers in their 20s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the bait“The male loneliness epidemic” is literally a bunch of men winging that women are happier being single/not having sex with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 01:37 AM |
| 11 | Women complain in hopes that men will take the baitLook up the cycle of abuse. “Why Does He Do That”, “She Divorced Me For Leaving Dishes In The Sink”, etc Blaming women for men’s bad behavior is just.. so classic. A neglected woman is treated poorly not because a man treats her like shit, but bc she didn’t know beforehand that he’d treat her like shit once he locked her down! Of course! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.r/MenAndFemales | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionLots of folks just want peace/happiness/contentment It looks different for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:24 AM |
| – | why do so many men look down on sex workers (escorts, prostitutes, onlyfans model, sugarbabies etc ) but at the same time also consume their services/content?Most people would love the Pretty Woman treatment. You don’t want some hot smart successful charming lady to fall in love with you???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 01:09 AM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?ahem trashy married And single men gossip about single women (at a higher rate, I’d assume) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:23 AM |
| 0 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Most men dream of Henry Cavill and Jason momoa* you’ll find women’s celeb crushes to be quite different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Marriage doesn't make Men the happiest group because they are marriedI feel sad for you, and for the people around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingIt’s typically other men who are doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.It’s more common to see an objectively attractive women with a less conventionally attractive man, physically speaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.You need to look up the cycle of abuse, though I believe you’re just being a troll… which is a sad existence as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.The fact that you think the two options for men are “lacks empathy” and “simps” is exactly the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 01:24 AM |
| 0 | What options do high income women have?“Norms and status”= the patriarchy, which many women actively fight against. “The male loneliness epidemic”, a term which I hate as much as “the friendzone” is a direct response to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:50 AM |
| 2 | What options do high income women have?You realize it’s better to want to be with someone, rather than need them, right? Women have been saying since the Dawn of time- just don’t be a piece of shit, make us laugh, respect us, be romantic/sexually compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Most women want to be the primary caregiver for their kids despite complaining about it.What? You’re resentful of something that hasn’t happened yet, based on something totally within your control? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:08 AM |
| 6 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Why does it matter though You’ve got a whole threads of folks saying 1) dudes already wear what they want, and 2) if you wanna wear a crop top and short shorts freakin go for it You’re at the gym. Wear what’s comfortable. Live your life. You’ll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.You can’t assume someone’s sexuality based on their wardrobe though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?You’re unfamiliar with the reality that people end relationships for all sorts of reasons? You date to get to know someone. They don’t have to be a bad person to be a bad fit for you personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?How do you define universalism/ in what way(s) is it failing? Do you mind expanding on your comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:12 PM |
| 0 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?Is it one of the first questions you ask when you meet someone (in whom you have a romantic interest)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:10 PM |
| 15 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?More often, they’re the men who wish they personally could be ‘sluts’. They praise men and disparage women for the same acts. Basically, ya know- old fashioned misogyny. As to be expected with such viewpoints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:06 PM |
| – | Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrificeRight! Op is defo a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:41 AM |
| – | Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrificeYou hardly ever see an attractive man with an unattractive woman. Women are more likely to fall in love with personality. The man gets more attractive as the relationship builds. This is why you tend to see less conventionally attractive men with more conventionally attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing? You often experiment with streetwear style yet you believe that style “should not be accepted by women”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?We do, you’re getting it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 04:59 AM |
| 0 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?Read through the comments. Women are dressing for themselves. Not to “get you”. Get over yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 04:46 AM |
| 2 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?Your gf is a gentlelady and a scholar 💅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Woman loses lawsuit against school district which banned her from volunteering after learning she works on OnlyFansRight. reading through these comments is depressing. not to mention weird and annoying and the misogyny is just 🙄 bleh | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/02/25 11:59 PM |
| 7 | A sad truth.That’s a great fucking point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:26 PM |
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