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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 41 | Went to the bar last night with my friend (story time)Yeah my bestie is married to one. He is the definition of lvm. No job, showers 1 x a week, wants to be a full-time twitch streamer and she‘s paying for the rent. She married him, because at least he was faithful and had no friends (that‘s the way she ensures this dude stays at home 24/7 and never has the opportunity to cheat)😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:29 AM |
| 25 | Went to the bar last night with my friend (story time)Yup, this behavior was rampant in my relationship history. Makes me not want to be in a relationship ever again. It gives me major anxiety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:25 AM |
| 303 | A clown in his natural habitatTextbook narcissist. His whole demeanor screams „i will abuse you and gaslight you until you‘re just a shell of who you used to be“ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:33 AM |
| 16 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?Also it is a major operation for women. My auntie had it done about 15 years ago and afterwards the wound got infected. She was in a coma and had to spend 3 Months in hospital. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:03 AM |
| 21 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.I can relate. My ex also gaslighted the sht out of me, he had some inappropriate friendships with college girls. He used to go out for drinks with a girl, sleep over at her place, go to the beach with her and i should‘ve been okay with that because they we‘re just platonic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:44 AM |
| 12 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Ugh i know. I used to tell him that i love him just the way he is, lookswise. Even after he‘s gained weight i always complimented him and tried to support him. Such a waste of time🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:39 AM |
| 21 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Yep, i used to stay up and refuse to sleep before he went to bed, because i needed to control him. Never was more sleep deprived. He used to stay up until 3 am and i usually go to sleep way earlier... i‘d never sacrifice my sleep for a porn-addicted cheating scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:36 AM |
| 148 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Depression, anxiety, loss of any self-esteem i had left, body dysphoria, suicidal ideation. I had to go through therapy to manage all those issues. The biggest step was cutting off and blocking my ex, because he literally drained the life out of me. Also he was a porn-addict who wanted me to fit his favorite porn category (he proposed getting a Brazilian Butt Lift and Boob Augmentation) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 106 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?Exactly. When i was on birth control in my early twenties, i had a blot clot forming in my leg. I was fortunate, it got dissolved but i stopped bc after that, because i will always be at risk to develop another blod clot. After all of the visits to my doctor, my scrote ex-lvm had the audacity to tell me to look for another bc method because he was allergic to condoms😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:14 PM |
| 251 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?Researchers don‘t even bother with the „male“ birth control anymore, because these poor men experienced side effects during the initial study... they just couldn‘t continue because men refused to participate further😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 6 | 🔥🔥The Female Dating Strategy podcast teaser is now live on Spotify! Check it out! 🔥🔥I am sooo excited! This is exactly what we need😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Coom Yourself Stupid, Brahs (COO of PornHub)He looks exactly like a 9gag meme 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 24 | Not All MenThis hits home. I wish i knew what it feels like to walk home in the evening (we‘re not even talking night-time) and feel safe. I wish i wouldn‘t have this constant fear and i wouldn‘t have to turn around every minute to check if someone is following me. I make sure to be as quiet as possible to be unnoticed. I used to wear Heels and dresses in the summer, however i don‘t feel comfortable doing so anymore, after someone followed me and grabbed me between my legs. It was the most disgusting, humi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:16 PM |
| 83 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilityJust had an argument with my brother about this today. He is super angry about feminism and told me straight up: nobody talks about men‘s issues. We could get beat up and murdered too. We can‘t even have a discussion about the dangers that women face everyday without men interjecting „what about misandry“ i‘m so tired of this tbh. And then he went on about „female privilege“, that‘s when i just refused to talk to him. It‘s just so sad that we live in a reality, where women are not allowed to voi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Therapy saved me from my abusive Ex-LVMThank you for sharing this. I always thought i was the only one dealing with this BS. It took a while for me to process the mental gymnastics i had to do, in order to stay somewhat sane in this relationship. I guess after all, it was worth going through this experience. The only thing i deeply regret, is telling him about my childhood trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 6 | Therapy saved me from my abusive Ex-LVMHe thought i would come to my senses🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:46 AM |
| 19 | Therapy saved me from my abusive Ex-LVMI always wonder how men are the logical sex, when they are doing the mental gymnastics all the time. When you point out the flaws in their thinking, they gaslight you... since starting therapy i really believe that every person has a certain energy, and i just always felt empty and mentally & physically drained when arguing with my ex. The angry outbursts, the humiliation and constant criticism really impacted my life negatively, and just like you, i had suicidal thought and i really thought i w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 105 | I finally broke up with him, thanks to FDS.Girl i can totally relate. Had a similiar situation with my ex-lvm. He used to follow so many accounts and he always gave me the excuse „it‘s just the internet, what matters is that i am with you in real life“. Honestly i was embarrassed because he had pictures with me on his profile and all these girls he followed probably thought „what a stupid girl for staying with a porn-obsessed dude who tries to slide into my dm‘s“... i cringe so hard thinking about this. We argued a hundred times about th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 25 | What were some pivotal things your friends said that made you reconsider your relationship?Not a friend, but an old lady, who witnessed our fight at a public swimming pool. When i went to change my clothes, she pulled me to the side and told me that i was in an abusive relationship and i should never marry this dude. Later on i told this my ex-lvm and he was outraged, calling me a stupid bitch for listening to a stranger „who was jealous, because she‘s probably a bitter spinster“ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:33 AM |
| 75 | MENTAL CLARITY ACHIEVED. THE BIG FOG HAS BEEN LIFTED! Also I have an idea for you to try — If you haven’t already!I‘m happy for you! You are taking amazing steps :) i also found that cutting off all male contact benefits a lot. All the energy, i‘ve wasted on male relatives, boyfriends, and so called „friends“, i could have easily invested into my progress. Keep going queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:00 PM |
| 16 | Stop competing with porn stars. You will never win.I watched this documentary too! I even recommended it to my pornsick ex lvm. Of course he thought it would be some kind of arousing experience... he switched it off after 10 Minutes... i guess because „mUh DiCk DiDn‘T lIkE iT“ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:33 AM |
| 27 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?One guy brought his niece to a Date, who turned out to be his daughter. Also, he pretended having no contact with his ex, well she called him in the middle of the date😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:57 AM |
| 25 | To all of us who grew up in households with toxic borderline abusive fathers, and mothers that stayed, just being in this group means we won’t continue that generational curseWoah, i relate so much. Since I started therapy, i just have no tolerance for the bs that men do and say. I‘m so glad that now at 28, I figured out that my abusive dad was responsible for the nvm‘s that i settled for in the past. Just like these guys, my dad always made me question my self esteem and my purpose in life. 2021 will be the year to remove toxic people and shine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 144 | FINAL FDS TIP: Don't date anyone who is on Reddit.Reddit is just a trashcan nowadays. Don‘t get involved with trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:36 PM |
| 4 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.I‘m just heartbroken, really. It‘s nothing new to me that reddit is supporting mysogyny, but this is just too much. If they ban FDS, i‘m leaving this women-hating place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Just a FRACTION of some of the subs banned for sexualizing minors on reddit. I’m honestly disgusted by thisIt‘s gone now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:18 AM |
| 23 | NVM doesn‘t even try...I guess NVM do... disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. I’m typing this from the bar, drunk.Dry your eyes, put on your best perfume and channel your inner queen 👸🏼 you dodged a bullet. Now it‘s time to level up 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 09:36 PM |
| 25 | I use art to stop myself from craving male validation.Wonderful🥰 You are very talented my dear :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 81 | Men and their “trust issues” 🙄The girlfriend experience with no strings attached - every LVM‘s dream 🤮 Meanwhile men are the ones who are causing us trust issues all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:53 PM |
| 33 | Why you should never pay for a manIn my experience, 50:50 is a sign of LVM behavior. Someone who is high value wants to pay for you to make you feel special. If you ever have to debate money, this man is just not worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 05:22 PM |
| 39 | I dumped him.You go girl! Now it‘s time to level up and live your life as a queen 👑 treat yourself and surround yourself with positive, like-minded energy ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:52 AM |
| 70 | If only some men realised thisYup. Or just real coins when they take you on a date and expect you to put out🙄 I NeEd A bEnEfIt FoR mY iNvEsTmEnT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 08:23 AM |
| 3 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedAt least we have learned our lessons! But these losers will never improve... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 06:38 PM |
| 3 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedNow it makes sense 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedElaborate on that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 06:24 PM |
| 7 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedHey :) i guess my post was a little bit unclear on that: I didn‘t exactly tell him about this community and he doesn‘t know about reddit (we‘re not from the US, and it isn‘t very well known here) I just told him that i was inspired by a community of women who share the same values as i do, since he always made me look and feel crazy for calling him out on certain behaviors. I just wanted to let him know, that there are women out there who share my beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 05:57 PM |
| 24 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedHey girl :) We are not from the US and he doesn‘t know about reddit or this sub. He just knows that i‘m talking to strong empowering women online. I told him that talking to these women inspired me and made me see the real person that he is: pathetic and a loser. So i guess that the title is a bit misleading and i understand your concerns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 05:48 PM |
| 125 | I just dumped my LVM thanks to FDS and he is outragedThank you!! Well he is 33 years old already and basically lives in his grandmothers apartment and pays no rent because he wants to save money. His grandparents currently live in Spain, so he took the opportunity. Well, unfortunately he doesn‘t save anything and has a history of spending way too much money on gambling, weed and gaming. He doesn‘t own a car and has anger issues. He still wants to travel the world with his buddies who are all in their 30‘s, but still have no ambition to settle down… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:54 PM |
| 114 | This is what happens when you compromise and date a pornsick man. This guy chose porn over his girlfriend and told her to fuck off and thinks he’s not the asshole.The phrase „my body my choice“ is completely bs in this context. Women use this phrase to protest against sexism and the rape culture which is imposed on us by the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Does a HVM travel with his buddies to a party destination?They take those trips 1-2 a year and he said it‘s the only time he can see all his friends, since they‘re living in different states. But i had a weird gut feeling, and you just confirmed my suspicions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 07:24 PM |
| 10 | Does a HVM travel with his buddies to a party destination?This probably involves hooking up with girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Does a HVM travel with his buddies to a party destination?Sounds like a huge party trip... would you be comfortable with your bf going there? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:48 PM |
| -2 | Does a HVM travel with his buddies to a party destination?So you‘re generally against those trips? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 05:48 PM |
| 7 | What to do when your bestie is a pickmeishaThis. People rarely change. She has to learn it on her own, the hard way. I feel so enlightened since following FDS, but many women just don‘t see anything wrong in their attempts with those losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:05 AM |
| 18 | This is his idea of an opening line?Looking like a queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:01 AM |
| 63 | I hate this trend so muchI want to time-travel so badly to the past, where kids didn‘t grew up with the normalization of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Nostalgic older songs that you realize are super pick me or LVMAlso, just listened to Lana del Reys „Blue Jeans“ - it‘s another prime example of pickmeisha attitude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Nostalgic older songs that you realize are super pick me or LVMPick me, pick me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:20 PM |
| 13 | How to figure out if a guy watches porn or not?Been there, such a turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 11:35 AM |
| 15 | Nostalgic older songs that you realize are super pick me or LVMYeah.. it‘s so sad that she had to go through this. I feel so creeped out, looking back at her baby one more time video... she posed as a sexy school girl... she was so sexualised at such a tender age. It‘s heartbreaking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:22 AM |
| 47 | Nostalgic older songs that you realize are super pick me or LVMBritney Spears - Born to make you happy. Oh my god where do i even begin... it basically tells girls that they are servants to their men... so wrong on so many levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:11 AM |
| 38 | How to figure out if a guy watches porn or not?3) can absolutely confirm. They dont‘t care for foreplay because they think the girl gets aroused by only seeing their limp dick. This is what porn makes them believe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:31 AM |
| 132 | the absolute state of r/sex. what happened to vanilla?Vanilla is real Sex. These people are so brainwashed and insult each other being „vanilla“. I hate our porn-sick society. Even girls take it as an insult when someone is being called vanilla. I hold men responsible for this kind of twisted thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:26 AM |
| 35 | He quits porn because of my naggingI am so tired of trying to change his views. I feel like it would be so hard to find a man who shares my values nowadays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:37 AM |
| 16 | He quits porn because of my naggingYou are lucky... most men don‘t even want to talk about this topic because they feel sooo entitled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 20 | He quits porn because of my naggingThank you so much! I really needed to hear this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 91 | Double Standard: Men ALWAYS ask women for nudes and to take on the brunt of the risks to their career and reputation. But they NEVER offer to send any backYou know whats even worse? These so called „men“ share those pics proudly with their degenerate friends and don‘t give a sh*t about the girl being unwillingly exposed to a large group of strangers. And they always pretend to be discrete about the pics 🤣🤣🤣 please don‘t ever send nudes, no matter what they tell you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:38 AM |
| 18 | I highly doubt it.Men are degenerates. I just talked to a colleague of mine about pornhubs trafficking scandal and all he had to say was: „Oh too bad... but they can‘t shut down pornhub!“ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:20 PM |
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