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Pinnerforever/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 04:28 PM
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I did and it hurts but a year later I got a new little one.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/25 09:57 PM
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I am in the process of putting the money together for my divorce because she is never going to follow through on anything she says she is going to do. I have no regrets and am happily starting over in life.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 05:57 PM
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When she didn't want to go chill and my friends apartment across the complex we lived at. I should have listened to myself then.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 02:23 AM
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She had hers off before I even left. I took mine off a month later.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 09:38 PM
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Not legally but on her social media she did.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 04:11 AM
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Yeah she's raising his newborn and his five year old and sitting on her ass while he pays all the bills. She got just what she always dreamed about. I wouldn't let her just be lazy like she wanted. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 06:02 PM
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No, I walked away a month and a half after the day she got all dolled up to go meet the other married pile of garbage. I spent the month before trying to save our marriage. The grass is never greener. Why would you want those other guys lawn clippings.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 06:46 AM
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I might just use this if need be. Thanks for the post.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 06:41 AM
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I had to leave my other pup behind as well I understand. Time heals and just know you are not alone with this. It sucks but as time goes by you will heal.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/24 06:22 AM
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You are not in control of your ex's pathetic ness. You will find a new friend for your other dog it just takes time. Side thought email all the shelters in the area you both live in and send a picture and ask them to let you know if she drops your pup off at one. I am looking slowly for a new pup just not there yet.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/24 01:15 AM
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I am truly sorry man. I had to leave my pup behind in my divorce. My dog I had for twenty years passed a month before my ex-wife destroyed our marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/24 10:29 PM
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She told me that she once cheated on her boyfriend that had cheated on her first. I said in the beginning that if she ever cheated on me I walked. Well 12 and a half years later she made her choice.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 10:04 PM
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The shitty part of things is I wish her all the best in the end but know she probably never will find the peace she needs. Her mom did a number on her and she still runs right to her when she wants something. I am sorry we both had to go through this.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 02:39 AM
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She made a choice to cheat on me so in the end now I will never be there for her again. She has everything she wants now. She doesn't have to work and gets to sit at home all day taking care of his newborn and his five year old. She chose this. I fought for two years to save our marriage. She is going through exactly what she wanted.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 01:27 AM
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Yep to the name of her step dad that also did not so nice things to her when she was a teenager.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 04:36 PM
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I am not even divorced yet and she discarded my last name the moment she moved in with her married boyfriend.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 06:45 AM
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She said she is going to file. That was last June when she threw away our marriage. Now the funny part is her married boyfriend and her are raising his newborn and five year old. In the state they are in she can never legally adopt the baby while still married. She would have to get my permission. So part of me says make her pay for it and file like she said she was going to. Then part of me is going to do it next June on the day she cheated on me. Try and have her served on that day. I left her…
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 01:00 AM
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Way to go I did the same.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 02:55 AM
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I am sorry brother my wife stopped loving me after her ectopic pregnancy and then got in her head I never wanted kids with her then a few years later cheated on me four months ago.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 07:46 PM
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But I am going to have to file because she is pathetic and never follows through on anything besides cheating.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 07:31 PM
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It took my ex-wife's bestie two and a half years to turn her against me and become a cheating whore.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/23 06:54 PM
2

Thank you all I left my wife the moment she cheated. I still have small moments of hope. But reading this does let me see I made the correct choice. Op I am two months out now from leaving my wife. You and I and all the others here dealing with this will be good. We got this and will find a better life for us.
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/23 07:31 PM
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Thank you I am definitely trying to find myself now. I gave up so much of myself for her and now I am working on me.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 04:27 PM
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I am two and a half months out. I am doing ok but at times I have issues. I will get there in time.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 04:19 PM
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Sorry you had to deal with that. Hopefully you are free of her and moved on to a better woman.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 11:24 PM
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My pathetic wife changed her status already in a relationship. So I changed mine to single. I am waiting for her to file the divorce papers like she said she was going to do. But as for she never follows through on anything except cheating I will probably have to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 09:28 PM
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Holy shit mine said the same thing.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 04:15 PM
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You got this sir. You are making the correct choice for yourself. You gave it a go and she drags you down. Now live life for yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 05:32 AM
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For her she might be worried and want to have kids before she hits 40. After that age the likelihood of a healthy baby goes down. She might be worried about that ticking clock as to say. Talk to her about it and your fears.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 02:47 AM
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I picked mine out and paid $1200. It's gold with meteorite and Zirconium. So I am just going to wear it as my ring. My father used to wear rings so to me it's normal. For now it sits on my 3D printed Monkey Butler with my late father-in-law's ring that fits my middle finger on my left hand. So one on my right and one on my left till I find another ring that calls out to me. When the divorce is finalized I will start wearing them again. They are mine after all.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/23 09:25 PM
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Go practice target shooting.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 06:41 AM
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They do that and expect us to just be ok with it. Well give her what she wants and cut her off from your life.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 08:56 PM
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Mine chose her girlfriend on the phone daily for hours on end and then listened to her about how her cheating was so great so mine made the choice to cross the one line I put down at the start of our relationship. Now she is just a cheating whore. We have all had some messed up chapters in life.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/23 06:18 AM
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I did and one last F-you to her and her new man I jerked off on her backside so he would have to touch it if he grabbed her backside. I knew something was up when she tried to say she was going to help her friend clean her house to prepare for a new baby. She would not be doing her whole makeup process and lotion and such. So I did that to let her just burn everything down so I could exit with my head held high. Sadly things had been going south for awhile. She let her girlfriend talk her into c…
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 03:57 AM
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Your welcome..
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 02:06 AM
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Mine is already moved in with her married boyfriend and now works for him cleaning houses. She never cleaned ours very often so now she gets to clean all the time. He is paying her bills and making her life choices for her after asking her why she isn't more independent. Pretty funny how he took all her independence from her now. She used to work with kids and loved it. But not my problem. She gets to pay for the divorce well he probably will just to show he takes such good care of her. He is a …
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/23 01:10 AM
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I had to watch mine do the same thing but she was trying to feed me a lie. So I jerked off on her backside so if he got lucky and grabbed her backside he would have to grab my jiz. My way of saying f-you to him. I am not stupid and saw through her lies. One last way for me to say I'm out. I gave her one line not to cross. I am sorry you had to go through that.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 11:50 PM
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So do I. I am going to be staying with family till I can get myself on my feet again. It's my home state so I know what I am in for. Should I ask you for your ex's name to stay away from her. Lol 😁😄
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 11:39 PM
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I plan on it and am going back to my family to rebuild my life. It's my home state and it's what it is. Just expensive sadly.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/23 02:12 AM
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I am going 80 as I am heading to northern California.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 07:46 PM
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I will be listening to it on my first drive on Saturday. I am going to see the St Louis arch on my first day out.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 06:59 PM
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I am in Shelbyville. It's nice here but my marriage exploded here so I am not going to stay. We visited three times before moving. Now I will be back with family till I get myself back on my feet.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 06:55 PM
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I don't hate my ex I just hate the choices she made to get us to this point. I loved her with all my heart even to the point I knew she was going out to cheat on me. She broke the one line I asked her to never cross. I am now moving on with my life and she can deal with her new verbally abusing married boyfriend with a kid. She has already given up on all her goals she had for herself and letting herself be with a worthless pile of shit. Not my problem now. I fought for almost 3 years to save ou…
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 03:59 PM
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I am this Saturday morning thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 02:29 PM
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I just joined audible and downloaded both those books to listen to on my drive back to California.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 02:04 AM
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Nope that's why there's no looking back. 😆😄
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:35 AM
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I will send him some form of tities type of art he collects them.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:28 AM
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I am going to look out the windshield and not the rearview mirror like another commenter said. And have a great drive back across the country. Thank you for commenting.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:26 AM
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I have made up my mind on that front and I am out of this state on Saturday morning by myself. She has made her bed and can sleep in it. When I posted this she had made a phone call all crying and whining. I almost fell for it. But it was pointed out in another comment. I am leaving this Saturday and she knows this so she is trying to fuck with me. I am a dummy but not a dumb ass. Sadly she has no redeeming qualities.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 01:21 AM
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I would think you could. But it all depends on the judge and other factors. I am not an expert but it still is some proof.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/23 12:48 AM
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That is true for sure. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 05:02 PM
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I am Saturday morning and I am going to be on the road by myself.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 03:29 AM
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That's for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 03:04 AM
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To all who have responded thank you all it has helped me stay my course. Her dad went to her apartment to get her new man out of her place and she begged him to please leave and that she was ok and such. He is not going to play her cry wolf games and he might not be there for her when she really needs him. But I will not be here for her as well. My mom is getting older and I at least have family that still loves me. So California here I come to build my life over again. Kinda messed up I have go…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 02:57 AM
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Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 02:52 AM
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I have no plans to take her back. When she sprung all this on me she asked if I wanted to be her roommate. I said hell no why would I want to watch you date other men. She then tried to get me a puppy when she found out I was moving back to California. Told her as well why would I want an animal that would remind me of you. I would resent it because it came from her. And a month before this all happened my dog of 20 years passed. So I am moving on this Saturday. I have my whole router planned ou…
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 02:22 AM
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I am moving to another state on Saturday to get away from mine. I am figuring it out as I go but also her own dad has had my back through this.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/23 12:56 AM
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I told her she threw me out like garbage and I am doing what I need to move on with my life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:09 PM
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Her dad has actually been a great person and helped me with my getting ready to go. He isn't happy with her choice and has done nothing but speak highly of me to other people. The neighbors across the street told me as much. So at least I have him to treat me like a human being.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 11:07 PM
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I am sorry man but you are correct it shall pass and we both will come out of this stronger.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 05:30 AM
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Mine lost her shit when I turned off her phone after asking her to get her own because she was cheating on me. I was nice enough to give her a set date and then I turned it off. It was in from there. She is the one who will pay for the divorce as stated above. I am moving out of this state we moved to for her and back to my home state. Thankfully her dad is backing me up and helping me till I pick up the moving truck and I am out. She chose this and she can have it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 04:46 AM
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I am going through this same thing but she has gotten her own place already. Protect yourself and hide it from her till you are ready to leave that cheating whore. Don't let her know till you are ready.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 03:34 AM
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Because she gave up not me. I fought to the bitter end. It seems you are just trying to white knight all the worthless bitches that let their true colors come out. They can only hide their true colors for so long. I am not responsible and will not take responsibility for her pathetic choices. Not to mention she chose to cheat like a worthless whore. Get off your high horse and stop trying to blame the men who tried to save their marriage when you yourself are just a failure.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 05:03 PM
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I only stopped trying when she turned to a friend after a long distance move that we did for her to be closer to her family. She then turned to her friend and talked to her every day for hours on end on the phone and made me a second choice in her life. I gradually stopped showing her the same love I used to because I was not getting it in return. So over three years it was less and less no matter how much I fought to get her back I finally stopped trying. She made this choice not me. I am not t…
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 01:40 PM
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I am right here with you. We got this and will come out on top in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 05:09 AM
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Way to go I am going to be moving in the next few weeks to get the hell away from my now ex. I am moving back across the country to my home state. It's a revealing feeling. Congratulations to you.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 02:39 AM
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Who was lying?
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 09:16 PM
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I have let her go. I have 12 days to go and I am packing my belongings in a U-Haul and moving back to my home state. She is getting what she wants and I am starting off fresh to build my new life. I realized I bent way too much in her favor over the years. We moved twice for her. This time I am moving for me. She already cheated before the bed was cold. We talked when we first met and she promised to never cheat on me as it was done to her. But now she is running around just like before I met he…
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 03:37 PM
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Mines boyfriend said something about he can't divorce his wife because he owns a business apparently. Not really sure what that actually means besides he is a pussy and too afraid to get a divorce. I am hoping he knocks up my ex whore and then dumps her ass with the baby so she is stuck with having to deal with him for the life of the kid. I will never ever take her back. I asked for one and only thing and that was to not be cheated on. She broke that promise and burned her bridges with me. Root…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 04:08 AM
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I just looked it up and it has gone up in value. Now selling for $1875. So no way am I just going to toss it. I will take a pocket watch from our first anniversary and shoot it at the place I proposed to the hoe. That will feel gratifying.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:54 AM
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I am keeping mine I paid $1300 for it. It's gold and meteorite and Zirconium. So it's not going anywhere unless I sell it if I need some extra money. I just wear it on my right hand now. I am pretty sure she tried to steal it a few days ago. She had rooted through my desk looking for something. She knew I would often leave it on or in my desk when I would go to work as my hands get washed a lot while I am at work and it slowly rusts away. But too bad for her I have been taking it with me because…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:50 AM
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Mine tried to ask me to be her roommate and then when she found out I was moving back to my home state to just get away from her she tried to give me a puppy. My response was why would I want to live with you and watch you date other men. And why would I want a dog to remind me of you. And she said "would that be such a bad thing." I said yes I would have resentment for the animal because it came from you. The look on her face was priceless.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:28 AM
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Oh hell yeah I am dealing with the same thing. Is yours dating a married man as well? Worthless whore that she is.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 03:13 AM
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I am just going to wear mine on my right hand. I paid over $1300 for it. It's mine and if I need to at some point I will sell it or go to a pon it off. I am on a new five year plan. Pay off the one credit card I have and then put money in the bank and apply for a property loan and build my life from there. Then my now ex can see what she lost out on. Too many years of being with the wrong person for the great sex. Literally that's all she was good at the lazy bitch. She is just a cheating hoe no…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 01:31 AM
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I am at the end of month one and in two weeks I am moving back to my home state and taking the 25% of the stuff that is mine and I am out. Her dad told me to make her pay for the divorce as she is the one who cheated and he saw that I tried my hardest to save my marriage. He will not let her bring her married boyfriend over to his property where our belongings are stored so she will have to move it herself. It's funny as hell to me. I packed up and moved my own stuff that needed to be packed. An…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 12:54 AM
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I got lucky and STBX's father let me stay at their place and is more or less on my side as she cheated and I offered to do counseling 3 months ago and she said no. Now she is super pissed and saying I got her family and blah blah blah. I am giving her the one car we had and 75% of all our belongings and in the beginning she said take what I want. Now the worthless twat is saying this and that. I only have two more weeks to go and I am moving back to my home state with family to start over. I am …
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 12:45 AM
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You don't take her back ever. She made her choice and now will have to sleep in the hole she dug.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 11:10 PM
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I am right there with you. I am making her pay for the divorce you should do the same. After all her and mine are the cheating whores. We did what we are supposed to do to love our wives.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 11:05 PM
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My ex wife is totally doing this exact thing.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 10:59 PM
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I truly hope so. She has hidden her true colors for so long that I didn't allow myself to see that we were falling apart years ago. We even did couples counseling for three years before getting married. I didn't want something like this to happen. But oh boy am I dumb.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 10:53 PM
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My now ex wife is 33 and the downfall of our marriage started three years ago after a move of three thousand miles. She got a new birth control that failed us but the baby was not a viable pregnancy. She gained a lot of weight and her antidepressants have not been checked in way too long. She also stopped her birth control after the pregnancy issues. Then just let a younger girlfriend taint our once happy marriage. Then about two months ago she decided to find another man and he is still married…
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 10:36 PM
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I feel you on this one a thousand percent. My now ex-wife is such a pachelent child now and she was the whore that cheated on me as well as called it quits on our marriage. I have given her the car and 75 % of our belongings and am just two weeks away from moving away from the state we moved to to be closer to her family. Sadly we ended up having to live with her family and she chose to talk to her girlfriend from our old state every day for hours on end and let her poison my once loving wife. I…
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 10:12 PM
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