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This. Out of all the red pill advice this is one of the most important things. Because once you have this down the holding frame, the abundance mentality, the IDGAF are with you. You don't have to play hard to get, your finally just hard to get. Getting good a fucking woman is awesome but having a mission will make fucking girls a background noise that doesn't really matter, which you can then fuck even more chicks.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 01:26 AM
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If you want something that will make you stand out, give her you number. You can ask her what she's doing this weekend and of course yours should be cooler. Give Her your number and tell her to contact you if she's interested in coming. Not only does that scream IDGAF. She'll be thinking "who's this cocky dude who doesn't take girls numbers out" Of course you gotta have basic red pill principles down to pull something like that off.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 07:01 PM
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Defeintly a shit test. And you failed it. Not a big deal, just walk into class and go about your normal day. You obviously like this girl enough to come ask the pill, sounds like you don't fully have abundance mentality. I good response would have been something like "well I'm getting pizza. Let me know if you wanna tag along"
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:36 AM
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I get what your saying but it wasn't meant to sound serious. But it's better if he doesn't use it cause vocal would be left out. This is a classic shit test mate. She's look for 1. You agreeing 2. You saying she's not a kunt. After second thought I'd just ignore it.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 08:14 PM
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Did she call herself a cunt? Or is she saying your a cunt.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:53 PM
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"That's what I love about you"
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:45 PM
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I'm not gonna speak for the whole red pill community. But drugs have there place in my opinion. If you've done all the important shit in your life there's really nothing wrong with smoking from time to time.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:50 PM
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Just wanted to say that line about doing both at the same time was pretty fucking cheeky.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:46 PM
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Seriously?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:42 PM
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To answer your question, yes.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:41 PM
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You shouldn't have to ask us for permission. Sounds like a good time. Do what you want to.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:36 PM
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Maybe your not good looking. There's no right answer on these types of questions.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 12:01 AM
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This is 100% a troll. Go fuck yourself OP.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 01:24 AM
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You can't trust anyone. Even your closest friends may not have your best interest.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:15 PM
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Take into account that you'll feel uncomfortable wearing something because it feels like it "isn't you". But in 2 weeks it blends back into yourself. For you question, look up celebrity(Ryan gosling, David Beckmann) look until you find something you'll like. These famous people have a person that is solely into finding out what will look best on them. Fit>quality>;brand Should be an obvious, you could buy a blazer from a high end store but if it doesn't fit it's actually worse than a blazer from…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:28 AM
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I see. Well there's nothing you can really do about it, there's subs out there devoted to making your dick bigger. Just own it man. Your girlfriend cheating on you and not wanting sex defeintly didn't help and you probably feel like it was because of your dick. I doubt it was. Improve what you can control and. Accept the things you cannot. Good luck. Edit: and 6' is not small.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 12:47 AM
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All gotta start somewhere. Only straight forward advice is to read the sidebar. I could write a small book about what you could do. But that's what the sidebar is for
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:11 PM
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It's been found that setting a reward is not the best way to achieve it. The best way is a possible negative consequence. If I don't lift hard I'll never have the body I always wanted and admired, etc. It seriously works well. Try it
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:15 PM
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This is textbook shittest.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 01:08 AM
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Being dominant isn't the same as being domineering. Being dominant is just holding your beliefs and doing what you want despite anyone's testimonies or judgments. It's about owning your shit 100% and living by your shit. Edit: spelling
/r/askTRP04/10/16 12:17 AM
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He poked at your insecurities, you didn't even know what they said, you just assumed it was bad. Reframe it so its benefiting your thoughts and actions.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 03:52 AM
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Someone is "acting" needing when there pulling pulling pulling. The girl feels backed into a corner, as woman really like to be chasing, its like a fun game for them. Someone is "acting" non-needy when they push away somebody. not responding to a text for a long time etc. But indifference should be at your core, it's not about "playing" hard to get. It's about just being hard to get. Once you truly believe feel like you don't need her your indifference will show.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:25 AM
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That's seriously fucked
/r/askTRP01/10/16 12:07 AM
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I've do this every single day, the reason it works for most is because physical pain is very similar to emotional pain or discomfort. The tension your feeling from eye contact is just emotional discomfort. There was a study on rats that linked the two together. There's no way I'm gonna find it right now. Just try it for a week. You'd be surprised
/r/askTRP30/09/16 10:20 AM
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Are you seriously suffering from PTSD from a relationship? That might sound judgmental, but I don't see how that could be possible. Create some new memories by there, spend some time there. Honestly I feel like your psyching yourself out
/r/askTRP27/09/16 08:32 PM
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Great way to get sugar pills. Those Indian markets are sketchy as fuck. I take adderall every day as prescribed and it isn't that great. The "benefits" are a shit load of dopamine for 6 hours. Than you comedown and feel like 7 different kinds of shit. It's really not that hard to get. Just avoid Indian markets for sure
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:48 PM
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Get a journal and right down what you wrote here. Look back on it in 3 months and update. 6 months so on and so forth. If you gotta question let me know.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:43 PM
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Don't judge yourself man. Some days you'll be on. Some days you'll be off. Accept when your off, laugh about it. Suddenly you find yourself "feeling on".
/r/askTRP27/09/16 03:52 PM
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Go in the shower and set it to as cold as possible. Pick a spot on your shower wall and just hold your eyes on that spot. This will give you a similar feeling to holding eye contact and will dramatically improve holding eye contact.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 02:12 PM
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Options 1. Troll 2. Cuck Don't know which one is worse
/r/askTRP25/09/16 03:20 AM
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Stay the FUCK away from Xanax. You'll loose every last bit of your inhibitions. 5 years ago I took Xanax, that's the last thing I remember before waking up in jail for the night. I'm not trying to scare tactic, it just isn't that fun of a time and never ends well. I think drugs shouldn't be used if there used as a social lubricant because that's the only way you can "let go". If your already comfortably than have at it, smoke up.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 01:42 AM
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How tight we talking about. If it's skin tight than its a no go. Shirts need to fit though. In the end you can wear whatever the fuck you want man. If it's comfy do what you like.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:49 PM
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It's because when someone is an alpha playing hard to get "or in this case cheating" doesn't make him want her more. It actually dose the opposite. It's part of abundance mentality. It's indifference at its core. On the other hand, woman love a challenge and "playing" hard to get( after a while your just hard to get. No playing) works wonders. It's the other side of indifference. Applies to both contexts.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 01:53 AM
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Well alert the fucking media
/r/askTRP23/09/16 12:09 AM
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Look at the bright side. An ugly girl can't become a hot girl. We may have a lot of work to do but that's fucking awesome. It's the experience of becoming the fucking man you've always envied or wanted to become. It's not even about what happens externally. If you keep at it you'll fuck a lot of girls. The afterglow May last weeks buts what really sticks is the feeling of who you became during the journey. Sounds like a bunch of motivational bullshit to a beginner but most who are farther along …
/r/askTRP22/09/16 10:53 PM
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It's not always about leaning more material. You should be mastering the things you've learned for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 05:07 PM
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Cmon man. Your really curious to know if she still is interested because your still interested. Understandable but investing time and thought into her is a lost cause.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 11:57 PM
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Yeah it would be awful. But I'd accept my terms and make the best of it. there's a lot more to life than being attractive, this coming from someone who has been in both shoes.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 09:58 PM
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Sad story but why are you on hear spewing it. I'm not trying to be a dick but this is probably the worst place to vent. I'm gonna just give you advice like I would a dude(I'm still not 100% this is for real so I'll keep it short) Stop focusing on what you don't have and focus on what you do have. Whining about how fat and ugly you are is a waste of time and just downright pathetic. Make the best out of what you have.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:43 PM
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You feel bad for driving up her count. That's a terrible perspective. Honesty It's pretty obvious her "count" is above 3, and I feel like you know that. It sounds like your insecure about not fucking a lot of girls and feel like your not worthy of this girl. If that is true that's understandable. I wouldn't really LTR her without knowing a lot about her. Plate her and if you feel like she's LTR worthy take that step.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 08:38 PM
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Russell brand has high status humor. There's a video on YouTube where he goes and litteraly takes over some shitty news show. The way he flirts is highly attractive
/r/askTRP18/09/16 04:36 AM
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I can't fucking stand these posts. Does the answer to this question have anything to bettering yourself?
/r/askTRP18/09/16 02:15 AM
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I'm almost certain they are fake. RSD has a lot of dick riders and I honestly don't know why. I'll probably get crucified for this but it needed to be said.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 02:11 AM
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"Arianlover2"
/r/askTRP17/09/16 02:07 AM
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It matters. You don't gotta spend a lot of money either. Seriously my go to outfit is a black deep crew t-shirt some nice jeans and cool shoes. Throw a blazer over and I'm ready to head to the club. Accessories make a huge difference too. Edit: another thing that's pretty paradoxical. You wanna look like you didn't take much though into your outfit.
/r/askTRP17/09/16 02:04 AM
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This is my well thought out philosophy on this subject. Everyone is born an alpha, some more than others. But even the most alpha will turn in to a beta pussy if he's sheltered by overprotecting parents, taught strictly to have good manors(Btw having good manors isn't natural). Kindergarten teacher telling him he's not good enough. It's why you have to unplug. When men are constantly being told there stupid, worthless and incompetent they start to believe it. Alpha/beta has more to do with nurtu…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 09:16 PM
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Kicked adderall and now on dexadrine....hmmmmm. It's your life man but those are basically the same exact drugs, dexadrine is actually stronger. I take ADHD meds also so I'm not trying to be judgmental. You know if it's ever becoming a problem, but if you did abuse adderall before just be careful.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 06:44 PM
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Time to flee the country. I'm pretty sure reading the red pill is 20 year sentence.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 07:19 PM
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Who says we have to act like adults? Nobody can really tell you what she's talking about or why. She's really the only one. If you really do value her as a friend you could always ask her what she means. Maybe you guys just aren't in the same place you used to.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 10:43 PM
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seems like your own worst enemy. Do you feel like your not worthy of success, I've had similar feelings before. Find your purpose. It can be very hard but that's one of the most important things, once you truly find a purpose that excites you you'll know. The moment I found mine it brought fucking tears to my eyes and I'm not very emotional to begin with. It will drive you to do things you wouldn't normally feel like doing. Instead of pushing through the work your vision will pull you through th…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 10:23 PM
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Haven't been a case. HA. Your a senior and honestly maybe you are a pussy For NOW. All gotta start someplace. Start lifting and head to the sidebar. Worst thing comes to worst you have a shitty year. But then you go to collage(if your doing that) and you start totally fresh. Do the best you can for now, but the future holds more water.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 09:55 PM
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Don't compliment someone on there god damn looks. Compliment someone on something they have worked hard for or value very highly. This will hit ALOT harder and they will probably think about it for days following. But don't compliment for the sake of a reaction.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 08:47 PM
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Fucking pathetic. Hope this is a joke. Stop your self loathing and keep fucking going if your For real.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 04:02 AM
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I'm not from the west coast but it your looking into this to much. I'm assuming your not white or black. It's something you can't change. Accept your race. This question has no good answer. The answer to your question will not better you. Move on a ask questions that will actually give you viable info so you can take action. Peace.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 03:32 AM
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Dive in to the side bar my friend. You've got a long way to go. Just start by making small changes everyday. Forget about the girl. Your in collage and in large city, your surrounded by a lot of very open girls.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 12:43 AM
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Time "for that". You defiantly have time to lift. I understand it's hard but if its a high enough priority it'll come before sleep. Is staying up and hour later a sacrifice you can make to lift. If not then that's fine. I'm sure you'll find in the future.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 12:09 AM
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You can't think for your friends. Here are some options you could think about Either 1. Find some new friends 2. Accept your friends may never change and continue hanging out with them. You can't spoon feed your friends despite how badly you want to, it's a tricky situation but your friends may end up holding you back.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 11:50 PM
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I agree. I do feel like some people take this too far. But then again I had red pill beliefs far before I found the subreddit so I don't value it as highly as someone else. It's still a great source.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 11:42 PM
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That why its referred to as "red pill theory", nobody should Believe everything there told without some question. From experience many can say it works. There's also a bunch of evolutionary things that come into play. Since attraction has to do a lot with evolution.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 11:32 PM
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Lift Dressed better Body language Hair
/r/askTRP10/09/16 06:38 PM
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Do you want to do it.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 05:24 PM
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Bro. There's kid starving in Africa. Men who can't walk down the street without the fear of getting shot and your complaining about losing a girl, good thing is oneitis is good. But it's only good if you let go of her and realize sometimes you'll have a girl and sometimes you won't. Ask yourself "if I never talked to her again would It matter". This is the start of your life, celebrate finding such a goldmine of info and forget about this girl, you've got your ENTIRE life infront of you.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:14 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Funny thing is I hit the gym 5 times a week and eat for it. I'm guessing it will pass with time.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:47 AM
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I'm not even trying to be aloof. I'm just feeling great apathy no matter what. Even what makes me normally happy. It's strange. A month ago I was fucking pumped for life. Now I could care less.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 01:41 AM
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Not gonna tell you how stupid that is. Have at it. Look around at what everybody else is doing and do the same. I'm sure you'll end up having your dream life.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:17 PM
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Honestly most music is blue pill. Reason being they want woman to be listening to the radio because they are most influenced by the ads that come on. If you really like the music. Listen to it, just understand that it will be going into your subconscious. There was this one song called "I love myself". I'm sure you can guess that someone would actually start loving themselves if they got it stuck in there head.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 02:09 PM
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Yeah it's awesome. But it's putting her in YOUR friend zone. It's totally different than the "friend zoned guy". Works best in social circles, most girls in your social circle should be in your friend zone. There's a few girls you always wanna have in your friend zone. Girls that can connect you with lots of other girls. It better if there hotter so you can get desensitized to the hot girl and avoid putting other hot girls on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 11:48 PM
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They don't even care what your doing, they care that your excited about what your doing, you could work at McDonald's but if you seem super ambitious and excited about it there memorized.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 06:19 PM
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It means they want a man who's on his fucking path in life and doing what he actually wants to do. It's rare as fuck. Most people are working boring 9-5 for asshole bosses they hate.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:58 PM
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Hollywood has really attributed to this. all the "soul mate" bullshit and whatnot. When kids watch these it's buried into there subconscious that there's one true love. Even I gotta make sure it doesn't happen. If I'm watching a show(rarely these days) I'll have to think about the context and reject it if it's a BP belief.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:06 PM
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Actually after further reading I don't even think she's trying to get a raise out of you I think she's just living her life. I'd go on the date and see what Happens. If you end up inside her great, if not, also great your still awesome. Just keep meeting new girls and going on more dates.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:24 AM
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Yeah it was weird when I was your age also. I lifted and had a pretty high SMV. even collage girls would flirt with me, but when older woman would(30+) I wouldn't even realize it until after the fact because it was just so unheard of. Just enjoy it and keep doing what your doing.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:39 AM
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Losing your frame would be showing some sort of reaction. Even if you may not have reacted it could still seem like her comment pissed you off.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:35 AM
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For starters you should almost always go with your gut feeling, sometimes logic isn't the best way to go. It's really just a test. Shes seeing if you can get a rise out of you. It's not like your exclusive. She should go on other dates and so should you so it's not really a big deal. It's also not disrespectful. The only times something is actually disrespectful is when someone interferes with you time, energy or property. Also a protip for future endeavors: never believe anything anyone says ab…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 04:30 AM
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Obvious reason about SMV, but it seriously hardens your emotional control, especially if you do your best to minimize the effects of the physical pain on your emotions. If you can squat 315 with a straight face do you really think girls shit tests will get to you
/r/askTRP30/08/16 02:05 AM
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Some of use on TRP started with game. It's sorts a start up, I later started putting my focus on other things like becoming a naturally attractive man. Game really isn't needed but it's still something to have in your back pocket. Overall it's not a bad place to start but after a while you should work on other things.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:48 AM
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Highly recommend Jason capital.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:21 AM
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They have red pill ideas. I've only seen some of Tyler's videos. Although there interesting it's really just a bunch of his philosophical thoughts. I'd skip. They have some useful info but it's not very concentrated and structured which some people need, I think there's better mentors to learn game from.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 05:17 AM
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All those answers are qualifying yourself too the girl. Just keep it light and joke about those answers.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 03:27 AM
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Possibly. But most people ask this question because they're looking for some sort of validation. We've all got a basic idea of fat being unacceptable
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:25 AM
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Ha really dude. You look good. Looks won't make or break you they'll suck make your life easier. Really hope astrp doesn't turn into "how do I look"
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:25 PM
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Always let her come to you with plans. Also when she says your too short say something like "your right, your wayyyyy to talk for me anyway. We'd never work"
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:20 PM
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No problem man. The red pill is great and all but a mentor is really gonna help the most. I came on the redpill months after improving by having a mentor. Had the same exact ideologies without evening knowing it. I strongly recommend checking out "Jason capital". It's like a concentrated red pill.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 06:15 AM
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Eh. Woman are fickle. Attraction doesn't have a memory. It's really just out of your control. There's so many reason why that may have happened.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:58 AM
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Workout. And you never NEED woman. But it's nice to have them around. Keep fucking going dude. Your going to fail, your going to succeed. Failure is part of it. It's the man that doesn't loose enthusiasm despite failing that really wins. You've got years ahead of you. Are you really gonna let one girl rejecting you deter you from becoming the man you want to be. Have long term perspective.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 05:24 AM
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Not reading that. Srsly dude. Who cares. You know your too interested and attached when you make a post asking if she's interested. Edit: I failed to give value, should have pointed you in a better direction. A girl liking you is out of your control, it's not worth thinking about. It's a great way to lose indifference which in turn you'll likely never "get" the girl. The way you can improve your game is by letting go of any "supposed to be's" there's no such thing.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:24 AM
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Never. Throw all the shitty advice woman give you and look at who there actually hooking up with. There's your answer.
/r/seduction27/08/16 03:42 AM
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Answered a similar question he other day, this ones a little different so I'll give it a go. I've got pretty bad ADHD so I have so fort hand experience. ADHD has nothing to do with emotions, my emotions are always in line it's my thoughts that bounce back and forth. Honestly you can use it to your advantage, ADHD gives me rapid thoughts and high energy. I can bounce around in conversations but I do have to control how quickly I do this. I was medicated a few months ago. I'd take 10mg of adderall…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 10:22 PM
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I've got pretty bad ADHD and actually feel better off my meds. Well not better, my thoughts are all over the place but my meds make me feel like I'm not really me. Of course it depends on your dose. When I would want a little more I'd take up to 90mg and I'd become a god. But then there's the crash....I bet your dose is too high. On a low dose my thoughts are just more in line and I feel calmer. Edit: get better at being alpha without your meds, if you need something to make your "more alpha" yo…
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:42 AM
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How much emphasis is placed on looks around here. Of course they matter but there's other aspect I feel could be the missing factor in becoming a joocy redpiller. Things like body language, vocal tonality, finding your path.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 02:36 AM
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That's silly man. Having no respect for woman just because there woman. Seems like it could close you off to some opportunities. Why don't you give respect to the people who have earned it whether there male or female.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:49 AM
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Id honestly stay away from RSD, over complicate simple things and overall make you a social robot.
/r/seduction23/08/16 06:12 PM
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You should be polarizing. Would you rather have 10 people that kind of like you or 5 people that fucking love you and 5 people that hate you. Say what you, do what you want. This will attract the people your looking for and a bonus is even if a girl doesn't like you she still will want to fuck you if your doing exactly what you want to do.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:46 AM
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If your asking if you lost frame you probably did.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:43 AM
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He's a kid dude, he has a lot to learn and is just ignorant to how it really works, social conditioning has fucked him up at his core. It's great you have a solid understanding of red pill principles, try and seriously help him. Become his mentor. Don't do this by putting him, instead find a way to challenge him up.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:33 AM
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After reading all these comments I hope to fucking god your trolling. You sound like a fucking woman who cannot except the truth. Instead except that you were a pussy who didn't go for the kiss. That's fine whatever, next time go for it. From these posts you could have a self esteem issue. That's why your ego is so inflated. Your never gonna get better if you can't except a failure.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:45 AM
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Well it's different for everyone. I'm focusing on creating music ATM. But it's just finally living your own vision. Do exactly what YOU want to do. It can be hard to find since you must break down all the social conditioning but once you find it you'll know. Edit: I recommend reading "the way of the superior man" by David deida, it really gives a clear picture about it.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:07 AM
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You feel sad because nothing is feeding happiness. You took away your external sources(good job by the way) but forgot to achieve your happiness internally by the way it sounds. I had to go through the same thing, you need to find your path, your vision for yourself and once you find that and focus on it you will feel fulfilled.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:51 AM
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Destroying her self esteem is awful info. She WILL not like you, unless she hates herself deep down she will defiantly not fuck you. What would "separate you from the rest" would having other girls showing interest in you, that's the ultimate attraction trigger. So just go our and meet other girls.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 02:03 AM
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Your never going to date an attractive girl if your sad about not Dating them, that's how need and attachment is created and those are probably the most unattractive traits. Getting a girl will not make you happy, it's also never a done deal. Your ALWAYS relating, you never will fully have her and she should never fully have you.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 11:42 PM
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What's the point if this question. You were real with her and didn't tell her what she wanted to hear. That sounds pretty good to me. You can interpret anything anyway you want to.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 07:59 PM
1

Just curious why you think the west is collapsing
/r/askTRP20/08/16 05:38 PM
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"Stop trying to control everything and just let go"
/r/askTRP20/08/16 05:53 AM
1

From an evolutionary standpoint woman. Men's looks defiantly matter, just not as much. I'd say it's about 50% looks 50% status.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 05:09 AM
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Oh I gotcha, maybe I'm wrong but it still kinda sounds like it could be bothering you. If so maybe I'd be a good idea to start lifting. Totally up to you.
/r/seduction17/08/16 05:28 PM
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Question isn't very clear at all. "How to approach girls" is very vague, you've gotta give us some more info on what your struggling with. Also wanted to point out "would never go to the gym with my girly build" or something along those lines is pretty silly. Only way you could bulk up is by going to the gym.
/r/seduction17/08/16 06:55 AM
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Just fully go into it man. Of course it's okay if someone you love Dies. The sooner you experience the full emotions or her death the sooner they will pass.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:52 AM
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One that I've used with great success is while I'm walking in public, I'll shake my body in the weirdest way possible, looks totally fucking crazy to others and that's what I'm going for. I hold my state despite the looks. Another one that I've heard being used it strapping a dildo on your head. I personally think that's a little much, but same idea. Holding your state despite all the weird looks and judgements. Really just anything that will make you uncomfortable in a social setting, something…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 08:16 PM
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Great stuff. I'd just like to add a few examples he could possible try. Cold showers- this one is a must, you wanna make it as cold as possible, the key is to not freak out and attempt to hold your state Isometrics- something like a wall sit or a plank. Same thing applies. Just try and keep your state despite the pain. And of course just making this a life practice. Anytime something unexpected happens that you perceive as negative, just practice keeping your state.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 05:55 AM
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Just let it go. There really doesn't seem to be a reason why you need to respond, it kinda seems like your searching for this girls validation by what you've said here.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 05:50 AM
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just to add if you want to change a woman's emotions it's never going to work by the use of logic. "change her mood, not her mind" is what has worked for me. I'll over exaggerate to the extreme while agreeing with her about the thing I disagree with making it seem totally ridiculous. she starts laughing and Whatever I wanted she'll go with.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 11:12 PM
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that makes sense, you shouldn't try and be exactly like a certain character. But I Defiantly think it's a good idea to look deeper, look at the characters mindset(not giving a fuck about what anyone thinks for example) and apply those to your everyday situations.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 08:01 PM
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Looks aren't that big of a deal to most woman. They'll SAY they matter if they don't like how your acting to rationalize unattractive behavior but will totally forget about your flaws if you have your game down. And working out is never a waste of time, it's a challenge. Instead of working out to get girls, work out to challenge yourself. Much better mindset.
/r/seduction20/07/16 04:13 AM
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Good job on taking that first step. I'd get a little more knowledgable about game and correct mindsets, you could search around here or check on some things online. Just keep approaching and tweaking your approach, and always try and step outside of your comfort zone like you did today.
/r/seduction20/07/16 04:10 AM
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Great advice. But just to add a little. Make sure the cloths fit. So many people are concerned with the brand that they forget fit. Fit>quality>brand is what I go buy. I used to wear more expensive cloths that didn't really fit. I then innovated my style by picking up a 10$ black v neck, some nice jeans, cool high tops and some cheap accessories like bracelets and it's a total game changer. So much cheaper also.
/r/seduction20/07/16 02:14 AM
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Atleast dress well. Beard can be pretty cool. I think it's a decent idea. Just forget how you look and just flow like you normally do
/r/seduction20/07/16 02:11 AM
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Good one.
/r/seduction19/07/16 01:43 AM
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It's called building rapport. Basically you can ask her something like this "what's your most embarrassing child hood moment". You listen, you can still tease a little, the fun and playful vibe should never be totally off but it should be minimized in the rapport building period. Then you can share something that has similar emotions[in this case it's embarrassment] that's how you make a connection. Edit: there's two types of rapport, wide and deep. Wide rapport would be how you both can't stop …
/r/seduction19/07/16 01:25 AM
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Go for it, it's cool your speeding knowledge about this kind of stuff. Most men have totally backwards ideas on dating and attraction
/r/seduction18/07/16 11:07 PM
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Just the name of this thread gave made me herniate. I'm not trying to "woo" a girl. She's trying to "woo" me. That was awful.
/r/seduction18/07/16 04:41 PM
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Do you mind if I use your line. I found it somewhat poetic and touching.
/r/seduction18/07/16 04:35 PM
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Can you teach me?
/r/seduction18/07/16 04:17 PM
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What I'd say is that's totally true. No one really knows what they want, applies for guys and girls. What we say we want is usually totally different than what we end up with. This applies to woman more than men. It's a very seductive idea to think woman can give you great dating advice but in reality it's coming through a logical filter. At the end of the day woman feel attraction based on emotions, logic is used as a rationalization latter to either explain why they like or dislike someone (ex…
/r/seduction18/07/16 05:01 AM
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Let me know how much pussy you get with that plan. Sky's the limit
/r/seduction18/07/16 04:46 AM
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What. Woman have always loved sex. Society or "social norms" have just made it seem like woman aren't as interested in sex. When in reality there just as sexual as us men. Your question wasn't very clear
/r/seduction18/07/16 04:37 AM
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I'm gonna be 100% honest with you. It seems like your rationalizing not talking to these girls. Either that or your focusing on the outcome too much. Who cares if it's a lost cause or not. Just go up there and practice your skills and have fun. You said your a high value man. You also said you have low-self esteem. Those two things totally contradict eachother. If I were you maybe it's best to raise your self esteem. How can anyone love you if you don't already love yourself?
/r/seduction18/07/16 04:22 AM
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Just keep going. I know it's tough but it's either quite or keep getting better. You could get rejected by 1000 girls but 1001 May be yours for the taking.
/r/seduction18/07/16 01:42 AM
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Awful. I'd go back to the white board.
/r/seduction18/07/16 01:40 AM
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Sexual innuendoes. Just by changing you speech a bit by saying hard, wet, etc. will sub consciously show her your a sexual man. Wanna know what'd be even better. Just openly talk about it. Like its no big deal. If you've got a sexual question like "what's your craziest sexual fantasy" ask it. Much more attractive than subtly trying to do it.
/r/seduction18/07/16 01:38 AM
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Female attraction is based on emotions in its simplest form. The way you look, how much money you have are logical reasons that latter could be used to either rationalize her liking you or disliking you. Logic is the enemy, that's why it should never be used in seduction. What also attracts woman is a guy who's fun and challenging. Fun because your giving them the good emotions. Challenging because she has to earn your attraction. Two things woman love. Third and lastly being high status. High s…
/r/seduction18/07/16 01:20 AM
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You can't know what's going on in her life. Maybe she just got dumped and is pissed at all men. Maybe her cat died. Who knows. Rejections happen, just tweak your Approach and forget about it.
/r/seduction17/07/16 06:44 PM
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I know it works. Thought it wasn't common knowledge. Edit: this actually is a great time to point out how content vs context largely weights on human interaction. What the fuck do I know about seduction, I know that some random guy giving advice on the Internet isn't always a trustworthy source. Fuck dude, I wouldn't take advice either. Most people don't know what the fuck there really doing. Anyway The context is I challenged your sense of power and inferiority, which is why you didn't like wha…
/r/seduction17/07/16 07:59 AM
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Girls don't know what they want. What they say they want is totally different than what they really want. The idea that woman can give you the secrets to getting other woman is very seductive. Just remember that it's not always as it seems. And the way oh get of the Friend zone is by putting her in your friend zone. Sounds totally crazy but it totally works. You could even say "your totally in my friend zone". Also the reason many guys fall into the friend zone is because there to safe in there …
/r/seduction17/07/16 03:22 AM
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All of those are true expect for physical appearance and money believe it or not. Of course those things help but I've known a lot of fugly dudes who gave really hot girls the chance to fuck them. High status is probably the most important trait out of all of those
/r/seduction17/07/16 03:08 AM
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Also, I should have added that looks are only about 5-10% of attracting woman. what woman are attracted to is high status. Perfect real life example of this would be jay-z and Beyoncé. Jay-z is a pretty fugly dude. But he's SUPER high status. There's a reason he has a 10. So focus on getting super high status. Just to hammer home the truth behind this. I myself have experienced the difference between being low status vs high status. When I was lower status woman wouldn't think I was attraction o…
/r/seduction16/07/16 06:23 AM
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First things first. Don't go to the club to get woman. Even if you are. Go to the club to have a good time. It's all about having fun. Your taking to a girl just to have fun, not to sleep with her. If you do hookup that's awesome but it's just about the fun. If a girl doesn't wanna have fun with you that's her lose. There's hundreds of others girls that would so that's cool. That should be your mindset. Approaching Is not as complicated as you'd think. Just walk up in a confident strut and say t…
/r/seduction16/07/16 04:51 AM
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I was once in your shoes, I understand how that's felt. It hurts. But today, right now. I'm totally indifferent and I want to help you find that indifference. First things first, the way that I became indifferent is over a girl. I was so attached too the outcome of having her. I Needed her. Sound similar. It's a good thing this is happening if you keep pushing you'll come out a much better man. What fuels indifference is a bigger picture, more woman and just an indifferent mentality. Let's start…
/r/seduction16/07/16 04:32 AM
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