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DISCUSSIONPiperZepp/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 09:51 AM
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This is very well written, thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/16 09:41 AM
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Just a voice to counter the "all men are like this" comfort spiel... my husband is extremely affectionate with both words touch. I've never thought about who was more loving between the two of us, he's definitely the more aggressive cuddler. He would never say I wasn't able to give him the love he needs. Your husband is not right about that, your post makes me sad for you bc your husband does not sound like a kind person :( Edit: just looked over your post history... you seem extremely unkind so…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/16 04:07 PM
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??? Where did you learn THAT? Being a woman is a wonderful amazing thing and it's totally sick to think one gender is "better" than the other, although if I had to pick I'd pick being a women every time. I think you need to see a therapist for your self hatred issues, I have a feeling if you were born with a penis you'd hate yourself for that or for your skin color or cultural background. Edit: I just saw you have had issues with eating disorders, I would say how you are thinking/feeling is diso…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 09:03 PM
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4 months in and it's like this? This relationship is not working out. I would dump him before him dumps you, which sounds like it will be very soon.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 12:26 PM
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The red pill says to marry young, but of my 3 friends who married under 25, there are now 3 divorces. I really think it's better to meet/start dating a potential life partner after 25. People change so much in their 20s. I met my husband at 26, started dating at 29, married at 31. I'm very very happy with that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 10:57 AM
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I plan on having a garden with fruit trees and berry bushes and making my own jam and cheese and harvesting honey from a beehive. and then I'll constantly give it as gifts to my neighbors and family. The old man going after young women is a movie troupe, in real life it doesn't happen often. Nothing better than an old wife and an old dog.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 10:54 AM
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I have a very wealthy husband. I think it was F Scott Fitzgerald who said something like, if you want to marry for money, befriend lots of rich people, then marry for love. It's the same with "upper middle class" I'm sure. From what I've experienced, with wealth comes very active social lives. It feels like you know everyone. People in this circle are not using online dating apps or chatting up strangers in bars. You meet people socially through friends so taking the chance on 'strangers' is com…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:30 AM
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You should have finished How to be Single!
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 08:45 AM
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I definitely believe gender is hard wired. I nannyed for a 1.5 year old that had two older brothers. I don't think they bought her any additional toys bc the boys already had piles of them. I watched that little girl play mommy and baby with robots and soldiers all day long, no one taught her that. It's just how she wanted to play.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 05:55 AM
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No, he has a NCAA national championship ring though! Which is enough to make him royalty in our state forever.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 07:50 AM
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This has happened to me in a way, a guy I turned down in HS went on to be a successful basketball player. But when the whole thing is superficial (I wasn't attracted to him then, later the only reason I would have been into him was bc he was 'famous' and it would have been a cool story to say I dated him) the feelings/emotions were very superficial as well. Like momentary damn it! Nothing that really bothered me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 02:14 PM
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Not profound at all. Today was the first day my husband asked who I voted for. I asked who he voted for and was actually surprised at the answer!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 07:03 AM
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I appreciate the idea of cherishing what you have, but the opposite happened to me. My high school and college boyfriends were sweet and loved me deeply but I broke up with both of them bc I was bored and thought I could do better. (Isn't just thinking that awful enough that the relationship should end?) I met my husband at 26 and he's just perfect for me beyond words. 7 years later and I could never ever say I'm bored. I know I could never ever have done better than him, I was born to be with h…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 10:01 AM
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Marriage!!!!! Children benefit greatly from NOT being the center of the universe.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 06:01 AM
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I'm not really sure why you have that impression- one of the major things we talk about here is that women are the "mood setters" for the family. Happy wife = Happy life. Children feel secure and at ease and develop best with a calm, happy mother who is not frazzeled and stressed. A happy wife doesn't resent caring for her husband and paying attention to him. She has the energy and mood to be bright and sunny for her husband. Self care and "me" time is very important for that. Thats actually one…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 04:39 PM
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It seems like there are a LOT of "how do I attract a man?" or "will he propose?" posts here and I'd like to see more discussions on RPW life/relationships after the wedding.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 10:08 PM
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Can't you practice cooking and baking while helping your family? They sound like the perfect people to cook for!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 06:00 AM
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I think you should let your sister know you love her and are always there for her. And then stop trying to influence her. It never works, people make their own mistakes. Pressuring her to do something in her personal life will just push her away from you. So... Mind your own business, not your circus not your monkeys, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 11:58 AM
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He's not serious about you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 08:16 PM
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I don't think he means it like you're the Fonz or anything or CoolGirlTM. I think it's more of just a throw away compliment z d you're over thinking it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 04:39 AM
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Idk I hear all the time. "How are your new co-workers?" "They are pretty cool!" I think it's equivalent to "nice". I know my husband described me as "cool" when we first met. It's not very specific or meaningful bc he doesn't know you well yet but it's a positive description.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 04:36 AM
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I think it's just a generic non specific term for "likeable personality." It's such a commonly used word that I don't think it's meaning is specific or significant.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 04:20 AM
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I guess the biggest thing is I've always been "lucky in love". My high school year book quote was, "everything works out for me, my life is perfect." Which was a joke with friends but we joked about it bc it was true. Every man I've wanted has wanted me too and loved me deeply. For example my high school boyfriend was the star athlete etc etc and I had such a huge crush on him I would turn bright red if he was in the same hallway as me! He was wonderful to me and I never even slept with him bc I…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 02:05 PM
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I have natural large breasts and I'm also very thin, so I've gotten comments on the street about plastic surgery, things like men stopping me on the street seemingly needing directions or something, only to ask if my boobs are real. I've also had women actually grab my boobs to feel if they were real. I didn't like any of this, at all. I don't appreciate being stopped on the street bc I have places to go. And now I don't stop when anyone trys to get my attention so I sort of feel like I've been …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 01:45 PM
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I got a masters later in order to move abroad and get a visa, but I was working before that and it had nothing to do with my career. I did meet my husband there though! It seems like masters degrees are a lot more common now. It definitely wasn't necessary when I graduated but that was ten years ago. I think a lot of people went to grad school during the recession and maybe now it's expected? I would not get a PhD. My friend (same age) got her PhD in genetics and it took her more than a year to …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 04:26 AM
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I really really wouldn't say that most women look like a completely different person with makeup on. You really need to be wearing a LOT for that to happen, no? Clothes wise, we should be wearing flattering clothes or our birthday suit all the time anyway. I would never say unflattering clothes were the "real" me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 08:27 AM
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Not who you are replying to but I majored in Biology and worked in clinical research and there are lots of very flexible and work from home jobs in this industry. Pays well and can have lots of travel. Usually you start as a Clinical Trial Assistant and work from an office, the Clinical Research Associate which is travel/office then travel/work from home, then Clinical Project Manager which is office based or work from home. Depends on the company- you can find what you want. Work for a CRO to g…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 11:10 AM
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Church is definitely the best place! Men who were raised by a SAHM will see the value in having a SAHM for their families. I would be active in your local church community and be friendly with everyone. Enjoy your career but make time for lots of socializing. The more people you meet, the more likely you are to find a compatible man who you're attracted to and click with. Remember, you only need one! :) Also, I don't know how helpful this will be for you but this is the strategy I took: I knew I…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 10:18 AM
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I think from your posts you have a girlfriend, yes? I would ask her if she's noticed anything different/concerning about your behavior lately.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 10:09 AM
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The "Red Pill Women" ways instantly appealed to me and just felt right. It felt like my natural instincts were being confirmed in a world where everyone was telling me to do the opposite. If it doesn't appeal to you, don't do it. It's fine. We're not trying to convert the world.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 09:32 AM
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It can be very uncomfortable to have additional, um, matter? Inside of you when you don't want it. Like after a full meal someone saying "eat this piece of steak!" It's a good piece of meat, but sometimes there just isn't room.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 08:12 PM
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Also there is a big difference between "getting along" and "clicking". OP finds all the people around her who don't want to sleep with her (this is why it's easier to get along with men) fake and over sensitive. She's not lamenting that she can't find a BFF soulmate. There's the saying "if you meet one asshole you met one asshole. If you meet assholes all day long you're the asshole." Op is not saying that she doesn't click with the women around her, she's saying they almost all suck. I don't kn…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 03:15 PM
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I'm sorry if it makes you feel bad, but no I really disagree with what you are saying. I've lived in the northern US, southern US, and now German speaking Europe. There are all kinds of people everywhere and the differences between individual personalities are far greater than the differences due to variations in local (western) culture. Thats just my personal experience.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 03:09 PM
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If you can't get along with almost 50% of the people in the world, you're the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 07:57 PM
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No it's definitely not. I worry that since you're so young your idea of "normal" isn't set. What you guys have is an alternative lifestyle. That's your choice, but you should be aware your involved in some really hard core kinky stuff! If it works for you, okay. But I wonder if you had met a vanilla guy that would have made you happier. Probably. Your situation doesn't sound appealing or viable for the long term (honestly he probably won't get off on seeing you wearing polka dots and playing wit…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 06:50 AM
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I hope you didn't post this here because you think you and your fiancé have a RPW relationship. I don't know if it's abusive, but it is definitely a very strange dynamic you have going on. I'd say this is more like a full time sub/Dom alternative lifestyle kind of thing, at best. Like people who agree to sleep in cages and wear dog leashes. It's very strange but I don't know if it's abusive... Anyway, whatever yalls deal is it's not "traditional gender roles" or Red pill woman.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 06:41 AM
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These are great suggestions thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 05:29 PM
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Oh that sounds perfect for me! I didn't know these existed. What brands do you have/where can I find these magical warm leggings?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 02:13 PM
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haha I was just watching an episode from the first season this morning where Betty is trying to figure out how old her divorced neighbor is. Glen: How old are you? Betty: I'm the same age as your mother. How old is your mother? Glen: 32. Betty:smiles, can barely contain how pleased she is to be younger I'm 28. Oh Betty, what a bitch. lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 03:24 PM
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I don't know, I think the outcome of this probably depends on how hot OP is in comparison to him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 08:25 AM
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I don't think it's impossible. Just be upfront about it, I think the stereotype that college men just want plates is hugely over blown, men like to fall in love and have regular sex with someone with common interests and goals too. You don't have to trick them into it! The fact that he's texting a lot with you makes me think he'd go for it (if of course the emotional chemistry is there in person too). I don't think he'd bother texting "just a plate" over summer break. Have you hooked up with any…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 08:51 PM
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I think you can have a relationship with this man if you love him, but you cannot have a RPW relationship. A big part of RPW is trusting your captain's decisions even when you disagree, and you'll never be able to do that with this man. You'll always HAVE to think (for the sake of your children, you AND him) is this my husband making this decision, or is it his BP?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 08:23 PM
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This probably goes with affection, but I think mens number one need from their first mates is praise and admiration. Or maybe that is just mine :) He beams, seriously beams everytime I compliment him for his looks, actions, character, etc, which I do A LOT. He never seems to get used to it or take it for granted. I think men in general get far less compliments in their lives than women (male friends aren't telling each other how handsome they look and what a good friend they are, etc) so we don'…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 05:26 PM
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This is a good movie about getting serious serious about finding a life partner: https://itunes.apple.com/us/movie/patti-stanger-married-in-year/id413211179 It's not about desperately marrying the first guy who asks, it's about dating with a purpose and screening for qualities that you want in a husband and starting a relationship with the dynamic that leads to a lifetime partnership. Making sure you have compatable life goals and personality traits etc before you spend too much time and emotion…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 04:43 PM
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Oh man I bet! I would just say "lets cross the bridge when we get to it" and assume it's not his for now. I mean, ONS, he typically uses condoms... there's a good chance it's not his and this whole thing is just a super stressful blip. He'll remember and appreciate you staying calm and continuing to be a "happy place" for him. On the other hand, if it is his, babys have 100% custody with the mother for the first year or so, as long as they are breastfeeding. Fathers can visit the child and maybe…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 04:18 PM
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As you describe him, I would never elect this man to be the leader of my family. You get to choose your captain, choose carefully. Drinker, pessimistic, unemployed (bc he'd rather live off the government while he, what, thinks about one day having a business than working while thinking about one day having a business, PLEASE don't fall for this excuse for laziness and unproductivity)... I would say "pass" before even hearing about the BP. Are there things wrong with you that you think that you a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 03:29 PM
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How long have you been together with him? When will he find out the paternity of the child? I wouldn't really say or do much til you know if it's his or not.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 03:25 PM
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Also, if the sex IS good... wouldn't you want to do it again and again? It's either going to be dissapointing or super frustrating.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 07:35 AM
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I've never seen promiscuous behaivor that wasn't pathological. I have a very good friend who was raped when she was young, and ever since she's been very promiscuous, I think as a coping mechanism. "Sex isn't that precious/important so what happened to me wasn't so violating". Also very common as a lot of people here have stated, it is for the short term attention/validation. These women feel even WORSE afterwards, or they feel nothing at all. It's really sad and shouldn't be encouraged.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/16 07:32 AM
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Ah yes I definitley didn't mean to imply she should sit and wait. I meant more, if its the right relationship she shouldnt HAVE to do this.... he'll be progressing it himself. And if he's not she should leave. But maybe that view is a little strict.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 10:20 AM
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Let him take the lead on this conversation. That's the RPW way. When he asks you to move in just say, I don't want to live with someone unless we both know we want to build a life together...(bc it's not the way I was raised OR breaking up with the last man I lived with was so difficult, I just wanted to get out but couldn't etc etc". You can drop in some comments like, when you're with the right person it's something both people are sure about relatively quickly. If after two years you're still…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 07:43 AM
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If he needs "encouraging" to marry you it's not the right relationship for either of you. I see RPW philosphy as basically "traditional gender role" romantic relationship interactions... (idk, maybe I am wrong here) but any man who is into traditional gender roles is into marriage. Its part of the package. So a man who is not into marriage is not a match for a RPW. If he says he's into traditional gender roles and thats what he wants, but he doesn't want to marry a particular woman, well... chan…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 06:58 PM
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True, true! I tried to qualify it with"unless you are planning a marriage/family" but it wasn't strong enough. I'm a big believer though that women should be into the WRP/tradition gender roles lifestyle because that's what they want, not because they happen to have fallen in love with a RP guy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/16 07:14 AM
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I wouldn't limit your birthday fun for a 23 year old RP guy. If he's really into the RP he's not into commitment this young. Unless you both are on the page that this relationship is building towards marriage and a family I would forget him and do what you want. Don't limit your life for someone who doesn't plan on being around in a year or so.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/16 06:12 AM
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Also, if you are thinking about long term possibilities- I want to add it is EXTREMELY difficult to be in a successful traditional gender role marriage if you don't admire the HELL out of your husband. You have to respect him in order to trust the decisions he makes and be willing to follow him. You should genuinely think that his character and personality are the best of any man you've men- and thats why you are willing to be his helpmate and choose him to be the leader your family. Yes, his ab…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/16 01:28 PM
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Spending more time together- I would NOT request that he spends more time with you or complain about him not making enough time for you, no matter how light hearted you try to go about it. This guy definitely sounds like the type that has no problem asking you for dates and will not appreciate you asking him. It's making a demand on him, and at the end of the day he is spending as much time with you as he wants to... the only thing you can/should do is make the time he spends with you more enjoy…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/16 01:00 PM
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