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I wouldn't be alone. To be honest... it's probably why I felt so alone in my life. This hollowness because of the horrible things that's happened to me. Childhood trauma can be debilitating. Besides the active act of abandonment there is also a hollowness because you don't have that base of a loving mother and disciplinary father to lean on. So you have trauma but you are missing the foundation of confidence as a person. These underlying personality issues is something that don't get addressed e…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 03:07 PM
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Obviously just leave her and move on. Then because you did not write anything about how the fighting happens this is an utterly useless post. Wtf do you think to learn from this? The lesson would be how to manage conflict with a woman. And even if you had skills like that she might still just not be worth keeping. She's seen your weakness it's a rotten foundation to build on. She's at her prime, you are not. You can only win by moving on. "Trying to make it work" is just desperation. You are 24.…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/22 05:19 PM
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This is a really dumb take. Alpha and Beta as concepts have nothing to do with some wolf biology papers. Alpha means confidence, beta means not. Among a hundred other things.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/22 12:43 PM
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You don't start a conversation by bringing up a concept made up of a thousand ideas. You start with the specific idea. Like men being men and women being women in a relationship. And there is no "seeing through your tactics". You have standards that you uphold and act accordingly. It's ultimately not about being red pill or representing red pill. It's about a world view based in reality helping you to achieve the results you seek. Getting caught up in representing red pill is the wrong lane. If …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 02:16 PM
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I am a firm believer that you CAN have it all That is an impossibility. No one can have it all. If you have a high hour career you are sacrificing time at home and with the kids regardless of hiring or having help. If you have a high stress job you are sacrificing energy from the relationship. There is no having it all life is about sacrificing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 07:14 AM
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Yeah. No way around it. You have to choose. Can't have it all. High hours. No time to be a wife or a mother. High stress. Less focus to put into a relationship. High salary. Makes it more difficult to find a man who out earns you. And on top of that it makes you less attractive in relation to a lower earning woman because it makes whatever the man is earning less significant along with diminishing his provider role. It's not that education itself makes a woman more unattractive but just makes he…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 06:07 PM
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It's definition dependant. Feminism as in rights of a first class citizen, rights to own land, right to vote and so on. Or modern feminism of men and women are the same, women should earn the same money, have the same career, have the same responsibilities maintaining the household, men aren't better in any sense and so on. Usually it's about modern feminism when talking of feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 11:26 AM
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should be self-sufficient and be able to take care of things without someone else always needing to help them Being able to yes but trying to just do everything in life without help is just a bad mentality. Yeah everyone should be able to do laundry and cook food but that's not about male to female relationship dynamics. It is an ability to be self-sufficient but it's a disability to be incapable of asking or accepting help.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 11:20 AM
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So you haven't talked about any of these things and it's rather something that just from his perspective happened in the relationship? I'm not saying you should've have done anything I'm just interested in the process how it went.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 07:33 PM
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just random every day things, then he completely resigns/waits and i brood and get angry that he is being so passive Very typical. Woman can't let go and let it sit has to keep harping about it. Usually it dissolves if you just let it sit. You can later continue conversation to reach some actual destination rather than just keep hammering your head into a wall. But impossible to really say what is going on from this amount of information. Is he actually not being manly or are you just nagging? C…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 11:24 AM
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Yes because it tends to ease the hamstering women feel. You can tell yourself your man is less likely to have sex outside of the relationship because you are more attractive than him. But reality is regardless men want to have sex with other women no matter how attractive you are. It's not a phase, it's not something a man gets out of his system, it's how men are built. So it's more about easing insecurities than any tangible difference in likelihood of sex outside of the relationship. Because i…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 08:48 AM
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Also, there are many men who will not date a woman if she significant out earns him from an ego perspective. This is the you are insecure if you don't accept me garbage. Usually you hear this in relationship boundary conversation where men don't want to date bitchy women and then that comes "you can't handle me because you are insecure." It has nothing to do with ego. Why would a high value man choose to date someone for an LTR when they have a high requirement high stress career. There is no us…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 08:44 AM
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I don't think it's that the men don't want them. Some men do, and some men would prefer a woman adjusting to their lifestyle. It's not some men it's the vast majority. 95% of hetero sexual men would choose to make enough money for the whole family and their woman working some low requirement flexible job and being a SAHM. The reason it's not so is that something like 5% of men make enough money for that to be realistic. Majority are dual income because of necessity not because of choice. The vas…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 08:41 AM
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Has a few problems with his dad but I've had a lot worse and managed to overcome it What does his problems with dad have with you overcoming some other problem and how do you even know you problems are worse? Very toxic assumptions. Imagine someone's dad dying and you telling them your dad dying was worse. You don't get to define those things for other people. he just has no drive to do anything and it comes from how he lives, especially wanking and escorts Not exactly. Those are reflections of …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 07:56 AM
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So was there a conversation on what happened to you with the SO? He had to have noticed that something changed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 07:46 AM
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His family is life is decent compared to other people I know who don't have his problems Doesn't sound like it from what you've described.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 06:25 AM
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I said we were the same You are obviously not the same. Literally everything is different. If he went to the gym and had a job he finds purposeful then sure his confidence would be better. But that's not the situation and even then you don't have the same personalities. Red pill for most starts off from how do I get pussy. But that's not the real purpose. The real purpose is to live the kind of life you want to. To attract women it can't be sole or main focus. For you you are heading into the ri…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 06:18 AM
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So you are a sex worker and have sex with other men? It doesn't really matter if you are getting paid for it you are still having sex with other men outside the relationship. You can't hide it behind it "it's my profession." It's not a matter of defining it as mono or poly. Regardless of how you want to define you are having sex outside the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/22 06:00 AM
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It tends to be younger guys who are hyper focused on looks. Once you get older you start to realize the wife range is around 6-7. Otherwise be just be healthy. The looks only carry you into the introduction but after that it's about who you are as a person. For 9's and 10's because you are pretty and that alone gives you access and attention there isn't really any pressure to develop yourself as a person. There are many horror stories of getting married to very attractive bad personalities. It r…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/22 05:34 AM
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This should really be a bi-weekly sticky or something like that. Failures in certain topic. Often the problem with advice is it's not related to an actual situation but rather the higher level abstraction of a ruleset. But these are actual concrete real world examples.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:49 AM
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If you lose a significant proportion of your reproductive female generations the nation might never recover. But lose that same proportion of males and you are back to the same population levels in a few generations.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 04:01 AM
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And it’s not just women, the majority of people shouldn’t be able to vote. Yes. How many people actually understand enough about geopolitics to have an understanding of foreign affairs decision making? It's less than 0.1%. And even domestic decision making is complex and usually people have this first level understanding of some basic aspect of an issue but not even 1% of what is needed to have an opinion on the matter. Like raising prices of gas for greenhouse but then not understanding the cas…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 03:55 AM
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Red pill woman for me would be comfortable being lead by a man and specifically be below a man. If that's true then I can teach everything there's no need for the woman to have experience in red pill. Arguing is the best indicator that immediately shows if a woman is masculine or feminine. If she has to be right that will most likely make her a masculine female. Can you exchange ideas in a civilized manner or do you just reject ideas. Having an argument over perspective will pretty quickly tell …
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 03:48 AM
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I fundamentally believe that women need men (just as men need women). The relationship is more important for a woman. So no in that sense a man doesn't need a woman in the same sense a woman needs a man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 03:41 AM
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How do I turn my feelings around so that I don't sabotage our relationship and make his hardship about me? Just tell him you feel quilty so he can make you feel better. It's not about solving the situation. You be a woman and let him be the man. (even when he called me to let me know he was in an accident) that he doesn't blame me for the accident and that it was not my fault in any way. Already happened so it's time to let go. Don't keep hamstering it. He also has insisted on finding a car hims…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 03:34 AM
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but the reality is many women don't want a man who believes he is her superior. That is what you think. Not the reality or what majority of women want. And again this comes from your feelings of aversion towards being inferior. You have a clear problem there. She wants a man who excels in the areas she needs him to be competent because she can't be, just as he wishes her to excel in areas that are outside his wheel house. More of this equal stuff. No. It's not equal. Women want men that they thi…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 06:08 AM
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I don't think you really believe yourself to be so so superior to a female, but you sure do come across that way. How? This sounds more like your own aversion to not feel inferior. There isn't specifically anything in there about me being superior. Do you want to explain what made you say that? Because there is something there whether you want to admit it or not. What triggered you to think it's about being superior that I want personal space and food in a specific way? Everyone is specific in t…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 01:41 AM
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Yeah attraction doesn't work the same both ways. The feminist idea is that men need to express emotions like females and that's somehow strength. But what heterosexual females are attracted to are strong males that remain that in times of conflict and difficulty. It's just an idea that is born out of not understanding the difference between sexes are born out of deeper necessities. Necessity being a man who can't control his emotions under duress is no good. Beyond that it's just the fabric of o…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 10:52 PM
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Cooking and controlling your conversation. Scenario I'm in the middle of some stressful cycle at work. Meaning when I come home I'm mentally drained and still attached to trying to figure out a solution. Meaning I'm not at all present mentally. The worst mistake a female could do here is to pry about the problem. I don't want to talk about it when I've been engulfed in it for a workday and now I'm basically being asked to explain it to an intern. Just pisses me off. I'm trying to come to a solut…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 07:17 PM
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Yeah it's why when you are young you tend to think it's either a 9 or a 10 for a wife. And it keeps dropping to 6-7 as you grow older. It's both that in a longer relationship a pretty face doesn't matter anyway as you get used to everything. And personality wise because of the access most attractive women enjoy there is no external pressure to develop it. 7 with a good body and personality rounds to a 10 but a 9 with a boss bitch personality rounds to one night and get out I can't even plate you…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 06:20 PM
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