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Change of app is always a scam. Say you.wanna talk by text, and ask for her number.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/26 05:56 AM
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South Asian leftover woman. Um, no. She needs to find a dude much older and/or poorer than her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/25 03:12 PM
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Bear in mind, it's 80% of women looking for men on dating apps, not 80% of all women. And it's 20% of men looking on apps, not 20% of all men. Something like half of all people are ALREADY paired off, so it's just the half that aren't, and of those it's just the ones that use the apps. To get a woman, a man does what women have always found attractive: be tall (or at least appear tall, fix your posture and wear lifts or heels), and show dark triad bad boy attributes. Once you have her, you can t…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 02:00 PM
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I always date younger women. And while I'm pretty well off, I generally date those near my bracket. There's really no substitute for being a tall bad boy.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 01:47 PM
-9

Because most women are capable of finding someone to cheat with at any moment. There's no need to increase her capability.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/25 01:45 PM
9

I have a Johnny Bravo fridge magnet.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 02:13 PM
1

They can date each other
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/25 04:06 AM
5

Turns out she was just a plaything for the rich dudes all along. When she aged out, they just got a new one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/25 09:45 PM
7

Not really no. But I do get a lot of swipes from women who seem near, but are actually overseas. That's already a red flag, politics notwithstanding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/25 11:52 PM
1

7000 km is the UK?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/25 11:49 PM
6

https://forums.studentdoctor.net/threads/orion-taraban-psyd-licensed-psychologist-or-red-pill-guru.1501063/
/r/ExRedPill18/01/25 04:07 AM
15

Did anyone notice that she was off in the Maldives with one guy, then only sought men in private, members-only clubs? This is a woman who refused to ever look outside her socioeconomic class for a decent guy. If he was a guy of mere modest means, he was an automatic reject. Then she gives us the WAATGM. This is just high class gold digging, and her gold mines are all dry. And then trying to freeze eggs at 35. That almost never works. You wanna freeze eggs, you do it young. Better still, IVF them…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/25 10:12 PM
0

Women don't really get excited over nice men, anyway.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/24 08:46 PM
3

Be as nice as you want to be. Fall into what comes naturally to you. but don't use niceness as a tool to attract women.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/24 09:18 PM
15

My advice would be to switch teams, and date a fellow FDS subscriber. Sexuality is fluid this week, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/24 10:09 PM
1

Don't be a single mom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/24 08:49 AM
1

Yes. Be tall, rich, conversational, smart, well-cultured and -travelled. I myself have some middle age spread, but it doesn't veer into obesity. I still have most of my hair. Then just get out there, and confidently engage both men and women socially. Once a specific scene knows you, the single women in it will come to you, if they want. You don't have to actually tell anyone you have money. In fact, it's best if you don't. But being generous with small amounts of it goes a long way. Do talk abo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/24 05:57 PM
2

In the 70s, when I was a kid, I read ours, cover to cover (to cover).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/24 05:45 PM
2

There are definitely a ton of those 5-over-1 pedestal condos being thrown up everywhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/24 09:30 PM
13

Yep. But 1% is still a pretty big number.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/24 11:20 PM
7

That's right. Don't bring them back here. For visits, sure, but not to stay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/24 11:17 PM
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I'm in my 50s. I date women in their late 30s and early 40s. I have zero intention to marry. My standards are what they've always been. She can't be fat. She can't be a leech. She can't be a bitch. No stds. Now, I do have lots of free time, as I retired early. And I have quite a bit of money. And I'm 6 foot 1. So I do ok. Women need to learn that men want to date younger, and they had better get used to it. They can date older, or get a dog.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/24 07:50 AM
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That's right. But its especially true to freeze them young. Much worse odds when you get older. Sure, if she expects to be a single mom, using an embryo is a good idea. Or if the dude she wanted married her. But its delusional to think most guys would buy into getting hitched, then having her thaw some one else's kid out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/24 08:52 PM
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There's also IVF, with donated eggs. Or if they had both money and foresight in their early 20s. they could have even frozen some of their own eggs. But often you see older women freezing their eggs in their late 30s, and thinking it's some sort of panacea. It's not. Eggs get less healthy with freezing, not more. And in the late 30s, they were none too healthy to start with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/24 04:30 AM
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Yes, isn't it strange that they ALL were? She must be the most unlucky woman on Earth. Or... we could look at what it is they all had in common. Oh yeah, it's her, she picked them. What are the odds? Or she could just be spewing BS.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/24 08:07 PM
8

Prison gate. Homeless camp. Old folks home. Charity hospice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/24 08:00 PM
15

Egg freezing almost never works, and when it does, it's mostly when a woman mid 20s or lower froze them for use later. Embryo freezing is much more successful, but again it works best with foresight. Her best best now would be egg donation, ie. using another woman's eggs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/24 02:55 PM
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Oh, I "date" them. Just on my own terms. Non-monogamous. Sexytimes more or less on my demand. Never a "relationship", just booty calls. And as always, guard your DNA (and your health!)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 11:41 PM
5

When girls shit talk every ex, it's impossible to pass on information to other girls as to who the truly dangerous ones are. Though, women are often in such intense competition, they likely see another's abuse as a good thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/24 11:10 PM
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I'm actually trans-class. I am a billionaire, but trapped into an average body, and assigned middle class at birth. Luckily, there is a surgical solution! Doctors can simply transplant the wallet of a rich guy onto me, and I can become the wealthy man I was born to be. It's just a matter of finding a rich enough donor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/24 12:43 PM
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Lots of single doctor and lawyer women will quit after the wedding, and expect to be provided for. Also, never marry a lawyer. Ever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 01:47 AM
2

Ever read Micheners "Poland"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/24 01:28 AM
19

I'm guessing his new GF is younger and thinner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/05/24 11:02 AM
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Yeah, when I read it, she sounds like the fat 5th wheel her "friends" will sometimes let come along.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/24 12:26 PM
1

If she cannot afford marriage, then the best I can counteroffer is situationship. She can visit me at my house, Tuesday and Sunday evenings. Bringing food would be a point in her favor.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/24 12:16 PM
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If you lose a false friend over them not repaying a loan, it's well worth it. Also, in your early 40's, you should be dating women much younger than yourself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 11:17 PM
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The Japanese call such women "Christmas Cakes" (kurisumasu kēki) i.e., no good after 25.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 11:11 PM
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It's OK for me to be a white guy, as long as I identify as a peasant girl from Cameroon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 10:26 PM
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I truly believe that there are indeed men that match this level of quality in a mate. She is, however, unlikely to find them on Bumble. A better place might be a local homeless camp, or perhaps the exit door of a state prison.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/24 10:26 AM
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This isn't an airport, you don't have to announce your departure.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/24 03:57 PM
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Traditional is a one way street. Once you turn off it, you can't go back. Traditional lasts until it doesn't. Non-traditional is for life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/24 03:56 PM
7

Even that's not a good deal, unless he has sole custody AND more kids than her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/24 03:54 PM
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When I hit 46, the apps immediately dumped me into the "senior" category. I stopped getting matches for women my own age or younger, and was instead shown grammas 65+. That's pretty much when I stopped using dating apps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/24 03:10 PM
11

Or worse, they have been saddled with a garage full of MLM merchandise.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/24 09:35 PM
86

Prostitute, using OLD for advertising.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/24 08:13 AM
6

This is more or less now what the "body acceptance" movement is advocating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 09:59 PM
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Oh, the assets needn't be something she's earned. They could come from the baby daddies, or from her own daddy. Which would be how it would work, traditionally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 09:22 PM
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I have little doubt she has a history of making money in casinos, and it's not via gambling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 07:32 PM
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Bare minimum for my "traditional" "housewife" = Immaculate house, quiet kids, hot dinners daily, sandwiches on demand, little man gets a tonsil massage every morning, and I have total control over finances. Traditionally, women never had credit cards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 06:26 PM
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If she's not made happy by the mere presence of her lover, she's not the one for you. There's nothing traditional about her, so she really has no place to demand it of another. Your #1 made me LOL.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 06:21 PM
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If I'm taking on her and 2 kids, she had better come with substantial assets. And, as a "traditional" man, I'd have her turn control of those assets to me. Real estate? Trust funds? Retirement accounts? Inheritance? A healthy business? She need not hold down a job, but she would need to come with some significant capital.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/24 06:16 PM
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Wait 2 years, and ask out the older daughter. Cut out the middleman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/24 03:27 AM
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Only if I need a kidney transplant, and she's a match
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/24 01:16 AM
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I'm guessing Chad stuck around while that alimony money lasted. As soon as it was gone, he bounced. 95k USD is a hell of a lot of money to spend in India in 6 months.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/24 09:11 PM
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It's about 80K USD, give or take. A lot, in India.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/24 11:24 PM
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I have very simple standards. No kids. Not too fat. Can't expect me to help with her debt. Treat people decently. I'm 59, I prefer women under 45.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/24 02:01 AM
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You still see this in a lot of rural families, siblings with their own home on the same homestead plot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/24 01:53 AM
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My mom was 21 on her wedding day. Dad was 27. Both had college degrees, they raised 3 kids and stayed married to the day they died.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/24 01:07 AM
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It's unfortunate good looking women discriminate against men that earn under 40k, too. And short ones, as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/24 01:04 AM
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Just like 2Pac said.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 04:23 PM
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You are right to save. But invest soundly. Don't do that crypto shit, that's just buying a pet rock, hoping you can sell it for more later. Real companies, paying real dividends, not crappy meme stocks. It's the dividends that you get to blow on dates. Spend as little capital as possible. Returns, you can be more free with. If you wanna be rich, live like you're poor. If you wanna be poor, live like you're rich.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 03:13 PM
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Be straightforward about being a rogue, and you will get the kind of women that drop their panties for them. Goddamn, getting a motorcycle changed my life. Cheaper to commute, too. You don't need to operate them dangerously, they already have the aura of danger. Make sure its big enough to carry a passenger, too.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 03:06 PM
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In summer, inviting her over when you grill out is a great idea. Get some cheap steaks. Make the trimmings. Give her alcohol. Protein and alcohol for bedroom action is an exchange as old as time.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 03:04 PM
3

Good choice!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 03:01 PM
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Always put "what are we?" back on her, with "what do you want us to be?" Make her make her demand explicitly, or not at all. Then tell her exactly what you want, and have her decide. Some will walk immediately. Some will accept what you offer. And some will pretend to conform for a while, and begin to surreptitiously withdraw (likely while "interviewing" your replacement(s)). And some will use emotion to try to get their way, either throwing a fit or using tears. More fun is with "where is this …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 03:00 PM
5

This is a good general rule, "Keeping your frame".
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 02:54 PM
14

At some point, I showcase my cooking skills. candlelight dinner is pretty cheap, if you are the cook!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/24 02:53 PM
7

There certainly weren't any such women around when I was in that same situation. Instead, the mid-20s women were chasing dudes that could flash cash NOW, not guys with long term value. Sure, those dudes were mostly coke dealers, and wound up dead or in prison, and I was a broke but newly minted STEM PhD, who later retired (alone) at 50, with millions, but that potential did not help me when it counted. Would have been nice to have had a devoted partner and some kids, but there just weren't any y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/24 02:13 PM
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My dad was definitely upwards. Like I said, mom was a teacher, dad a mechanical engineer. Vast differences in potential earnings. More significantly, dad was an extremely smart guy. Other engineers would comment on this. He later worked on the Apollo program, and then became a nuclear safety engineer. After he passed, guys he had worked with would approach me and tell me just how much he was admired. Now it's true mom came from a fairly well-off family, and dad was more from the average middle c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/24 02:06 PM
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I can't speak for anyone else, but I can tell you my own ideal: My own parents. Mom got her degree and teaching certification, met dad, and married him, all before 22. Dad was older, took some local college classes and held some odd jobs, until he got drafted. He served 2 years in the Army, then with his GI bill finished his degree in engineering, and started a career. He was 27 when he married mom. I came along when mom was 25 and dad 30, then my sister 2 years later, and my brother 3 years aft…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/24 05:28 PM
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Hit every branch on the way down, when she fell out of the ugly tree.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/24 04:39 PM
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But that's the plan! Fuck as many hot guys as you can, until you find a rich one, then treat him like shit until he asks you to marry him! What could possibly go wrong?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/24 04:35 PM
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I don't lower my standards for worn out women, so it's fair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/24 12:42 PM
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Dad was also from a midwestern small town. And the first place they moved to was Nebraska. So there really wasn't a culture change, just removal from Indiana.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/24 04:29 PM
3

She once told me that her condition for accepting his proposal was that he move her the hell out of Indiana.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/24 05:17 PM
3

Yep. I was divorced in my mid-40s, and women just came out of the woodwork to find me. Of course, I had my own house and car, both paid off, and a good income. I dressed well, stand 6 feet tall, and have a good education and a lot of world travel. And it's true, a lot of these women were single moms and/or obese, and I had to learn how to reject them gently. But there were enough fit and unencumbered ones that I never went without unless I so chose. I mean that literally. There was about a 5 yea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/24 03:41 PM
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This is exactly the script my mom followed. Although she once told me she didn't know how to cook, and dad actually taught her. She was married 3 weeks before her 22nd birthday, in 1961. She was with dad till the day she died, in 2017.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/03/24 03:35 PM
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In a world without women, society would go on, until the lack of kids meant no more people. In a world without men, women would be living in grass huts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/24 03:08 AM
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The only sorts of single mom that're "traditional" are widows and those that were abandoned. You can bet that if she were either of those, she would have mentioned it for sympathy. So, yes. "tradition".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/24 08:16 PM
1

Yes they do. Women need to realize exactly how replaceable they are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/24 08:06 PM
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After she realized the grass-is-greener guy who was banging her when she was married didn't want to commit, she tried the ol' babytrap. Surprise, surprise, it didn't work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/24 09:49 PM
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There's plenty of guys her own age that would have her. She just doesn't see them as people. She wants 30 something Chads, not 30 something schlubs. But 30 something Chads have better options than her. If she wants her own age, she needs to dramatically lower those standards. And she says she's a single mom? Way low. Like homeless camp or prison gate low.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/24 01:19 AM
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She's in the larval stage of fat. She stuffs her face, but is young and active enough to burn most of it off. By mid30s, though, she'll have blossomed to 300+ pounds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/24 10:20 PM
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They are basically a mirror of what's posted on forums.red, and they mostly only update on fridays.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/24 10:17 PM
1

OK
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/24 10:23 AM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure this is clickbait. I'm sure this story has happened to many people. but I think this one is fiction.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/24 01:09 PM
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Oh, she actually can't give lifelong loyalty and mutual attraction. She's burned those parts out of herself. A million bucks might be able to make her fake it for a while, but it won't change what she's become.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/24 08:31 AM
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Sadly, u/Maximum-Complaint-68 has been suspended.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/24 07:10 PM
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Yay, I've always loved the alliteration titles. Hope we can bring back the Gaelic lessons, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/24 05:02 PM
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At 31, she's gonna have to either find a friend willing to share her champagne (polygyny), or stay home and drink water (boxed wine and cats). Middling men who are actually in her league (the beer) want lifelong loyal partners with mutual attraction, and she can't give that to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/24 04:45 PM
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She needs a guy in his mid-40s, with some preschool aged kids, and become their stepmom. He can become the stay-at-home dad, and meet her as she comes home from work, with a home cooked meal and clean house. It's what women now offer men, only done correctly. A "package deal".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/23 07:38 PM
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Works for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/23 03:20 PM
0

La donna è mobile Qual piuma al vento Muta d'accento E di pensiero Sempre un amabile Leggiadro viso In pianto o in riso Lei è menzognero
/r/TheRedPill02/12/23 08:50 PM
8

recreational use only.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 04:31 PM
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I charge $200/hr for handyman services.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/23 04:10 PM
12

It take a lot of OF to pay for those.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 07:15 PM
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Ideally, you do it when you are both young, and you work and struggle together.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 06:57 PM
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Taking her to do volunteer work with you is a great idea!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/23 06:52 PM
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Indeed. this entire problem goes away, once we have realistic sex robots.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/23 10:46 PM
6

200 bucks for a hooker in Miami Beach? Not likely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/23 06:56 AM
11

Might be best for all if she looked for true love at her nearest homeless camp.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/23 11:50 PM
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Sounds like she played her "games" with guys and lost. Now she denigrates the "games" guys played on her as "silly". Any decent man with money should steer clear. But maybe she can get a decent, but broke, one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/23 01:41 PM
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No, but if you have duct tape, you can muffle the sound.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/23 12:10 PM
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To be fair, some of his opponents were, in fact, pigfuckers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/23 12:07 PM
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Just never let her move in, and keep inviting her over for fun. Or invite yourself over to her place. Bam. She's on the roster. Whenever she wants to up your commitment, you find a way to delay. Make no promises, but always be up for fun.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 12:03 PM
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She must feed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/23 02:00 PM
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<sniff> I love a story with a happy ending.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/23 11:54 PM
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She is not goddess queen material. Is anyone? She isn't even wife material. She could become concubine material, if she learned to shut up. Where she is now, at best, is plaything. And that's only if there's no kids. If there are, one night stand, at best. Those of us who got rich, got there from having standards. This one doesn't meet them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/23 07:10 PM
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I'd be perfectly fine with being the SAHD for a stripper. So long as they were MY kids. Some other dude's? Hard pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/23 03:54 AM
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Apparently, her gym has an all-you-can-eat buffet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/23 04:19 PM
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Panhandler.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/23 04:18 PM
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Why do you think he felt the need to cheat? What wasn't he getting at home?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/23 01:31 PM
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Not just something of value. Something of enough value to compensate for the risks of stepfatherhood. That's a big ask, and usually one most single moms, regardless of origin story can meet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/23 01:25 PM
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That's right, only 8 states have it. NH, SC, IA, KS, CO, UT, TX and MT.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/23 01:21 PM
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Not a prenup. Judges can and do throw them out all the time. Get a trust. Put all your serious property in it. Or just don't marry. Even child support can be avoided. Store your DNA in many, safe places, then get snipped. When it's time to be a dad, get a surrogate, where you get full custody. Then just date anyone you want. No accidents, no baby mommas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/23 01:18 PM
4

Myron doesn't seem to get that he'd be in line for the ovens, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 05:31 PM
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Another one that's missing the opportunities available by touring homeless camps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/23 04:41 PM
1

Nonsense. Women will date short, poor guys. If their triad is dark enough. Technically, it wouldn't be "dating". They guys don't actually have to go on any dates. They just meet at his place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/23 03:22 PM
2

She can marry at 30 if she wants. It just won't be with me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/23 03:21 PM
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You get a lot of very happy cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/23 06:27 AM
5

Smash n pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 05:03 AM
4

Smeg-moll.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 05:02 AM
3

She's both. And she has nothing to offer to someone who has what she wants. She threw that away, long ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 05:02 AM
9

Smash n pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 04:42 AM
9

My drug of choice is high quality bourbon.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 04:42 AM
3

Smash n pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/23 04:40 AM
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Plenty of men like this. In homeless camps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/09/23 01:58 PM
9

Murder. Ran someone over with a car.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/23 09:36 PM
5

My rates are $60 an hour, plus expenses. I don't do childcare or household chores.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/23 06:39 PM
4

White women do it too. They just usually aren't so ratchet about it. The red pill is for everyone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/23 01:37 AM
3

Which nevertheless is a much smaller fraction of what the middle class is taxed for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 09:07 PM
3

Nah, my ancestors were historically penalized when the Union Army took away our people with skin color. And without a dime of payment, either. Say, maybe I could take a deduction for that...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 08:54 PM
5

It's ridiculously easy to find deductions. And remember, that's for ORDINARY income. Essentially zero of my income is ordinary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 08:50 PM
13

Part of the privilege being "rich" is that I don't HAVE to spend money on things that middle class people do. Rent? Don't be silly. Mortgage? Nah, I live in property I own outright. Sure, I pay maybe 3k a year in property taxes and city assessments, and maybe 1-2k/yr for insurance. Is it a huge mansion? No, it's a 2 bedroom bungalow, in a mixed class, mixed race, but safe and leafy urban college neighborhood with decent amenities. But my wealth means I pay about $300-350/mo, plus utilities for i…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 04:24 PM
23

What wealthy person pays 50% taxes? I'm barely "wealthy", and I pay about 11% to the Feds. Maybe 3% to the my state (which is a "high tax" blue state). Sales tax here is about 6.5%, but I buy very little at retail. Truly wealthy people pay much less. This country doesn't tax the rich, it taxes the middle class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/23 04:05 PM
5

LOL! God, yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/23 06:20 PM
6

It's a bell curve. The 80% mark is about 6.5.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/23 06:11 PM
2

Chad was the baby daddy, not in the picture anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/23 03:37 AM
2

Far cheaper to rent than to buy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/23 09:53 PM
22

"Damn, that's crazy"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/23 03:16 PM
19

I got a friend who'd be a perfect match for her! I'll tell.him as soon as he makes parole. BTW, I hope she has a good job, because after he moves in, he'll want to smoke meth again.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 05:38 PM
11

Indeed!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 05:33 PM
27

That is one choosy beggar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/23 05:30 PM
36

Once they are 18, you can date them, instead. Why not cut out the middle man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/23 02:10 PM
5

Yep. I got divorced at 48, bought my own house, retired at 50. I'm 6-0, but tell em I'm taller. Plus wear high boots most the time. Loads of epiphany phase women in their 30s wanted this. Some with tight bodies, too. I had nearly 10 great years, until the covid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/23 04:05 AM
10

This is exactly right. Play your cards right, and you can be the target of a given social circles women. And they will wait in line for you. You just have to be Chad enough. They want what the other women around them want, they want what's pre-approved. All you need is a visible social status signifier, whichever one is in vogue with that circle at that moment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/23 03:58 AM
92

Sure, I can stay home and be the good example for her kids. As long as she has the money to keep me in the style which I plan to become accustomed. No? Apparently not "strong, independent, and brave" enough. They can reject men for being broke, I see no reason why we can't do the same. Equality!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/23 03:43 AM
14

My father literally told me "A gentleman never tells". It's actually good advice, women will talk about men with each other, and often try to steal them off each other, but if you brag about bagging her and word gets out, other women will be more guarded. Let them each pre-approve you. Bag enough of your circle, and soon almost all of them will want some of what you got. Sure, women want tall men, rich men, men with fancy cars and clothes, but mostly they want what other women want, and those th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/23 05:23 PM
1

In Chrome, it should download the book in pdf form.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/23 12:39 AM
17

Sigh. https://commons.wikimannia.org/images/Esther\_Vilar\_-\_The\_Manipulated\_Man.pdf
/r/TheRedPill08/08/23 10:56 PM
10

How about no?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 04:13 PM
3

Yes, it's true, generally to raise a good daughter, it takes a good father.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 05:44 AM
11

And that's the girl that should have chosen to live conservatively, and found a suitable mate. Too late now. With luck, she has a daughter that can learn from her example.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 03:17 AM
9

Bidens no liberal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 03:13 AM
13

Conservative is good, if they start out that way, and stay that way. "Converting" to it late in life is a con.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/23 03:10 AM
6

Nope. This is a woman with problems that you have no part of, and it should stay that way. Indeed, there ought to be a Facebook page where guys can call this kind of stuff out by name, just as women do for us.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/23 06:55 AM
6

No, "lucky pick" is what FB Dating calls her. It means she doesn't meet all of the searcher's criteria. If she did, it would call her an "exact match".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/23 10:00 PM
15

Indeed. A homeless camp would be huge dating resource for women like this. Hey! She likes vans! I bet she could find a guy living out of one!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/23 09:57 PM
7

Prenups are worthless. Don't marry. Store your DNA. Then get snipped. Want kids? Hire a surrogate. Want companionship? Sure, have one, but don't marry her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/23 02:19 PM
42

I know a few guys that would love to move in with her and her kids. Some are tall, muscular, and have tats and beards. All are unemployed and homeless, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/23 02:08 PM
12

"Brad Pitt?? Eww, he's only 5'11"! I know my worth"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/23 04:53 PM
4

That would be one of the fathers of those kids. Failing that, her own father. Or a dyke partner, with kids of her own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/23 02:30 PM
6

Yeah, I've used boats for that before. I found guitars work better.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 05:39 PM
3

Go back. Be a girl and live.
/r/TheRedPillStories01/07/23 07:46 PM
7

I sure missed the Gaelic lessons!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/23 08:00 PM
5

All that pumped, dumped. It may have been any number, but it was at least one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/23 07:57 PM
8

Just wait till the daughter is 18. Cut out the middle man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/23 07:55 PM
14

Exactly. Cut out the middleman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/23 02:24 PM
90

If I was wealthy and retired, why would I need her? I could just wait till one of the daughters turns 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/23 12:45 PM
35

Once again, someone whose match could be found In a homeless camp.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/23 12:42 PM
24

A broke, homeless dude is likely her best bet. Maybe with some physical deformity?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/23 04:12 AM
2

she wants to get with her baby daddy and me stay too. That's a hard no. If she brought this up, infidelity is on her agenda, or has already happened. Run, don't walk. Totally ghost her. Honestly, you never should have even met her kids, at least till they were adults and living on their own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/23 07:09 PM
16

I don't date. If a woman wants to meet me, she can come to my regular bar, pizza joint, or coffeeshop, sit at my usual table, and converse. I'm not springing for a fancy restaurant, nor corsages, nor a limo service. Life isn't high school prom. Sure, if she becomes my established partner, I'd take her out for special occasions. But not while I'm still vetting. Time was, if you were a young man in search of a partner, you'd "court". You'd go through your family, church, or a social club (e.g. Rot…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/23 09:33 PM
17

Ahaha! "Traditional" Islamic women don't get those things! They are chaperoned when leaving the home. No mall trips for you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/23 03:40 PM
25

If the father cannot take the kids, it falls on his family. Islamic law covers many contingencies. Very few end with single mother custody.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/23 07:31 AM
7

He is correct. Adipose cells rarely undergo mitosis after early adulthood. So the number you have at 25, is close to the number you have for life. When you get fatter, the cells get larger, not more numerous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/23 07:28 AM
45

In Islamic law, the children go to the fathers custody pretty young. She shouldn't be a single mom at all. Even so, she should be fine as a lesser wife. She'll have to do what her senior co-wives tell her, but she can handle that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/23 06:50 AM
5

Hey, I wanna eat, pray, and love, too!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/23 04:33 PM
3

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0708472/mediaviewer/rm3001349888/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/23 07:09 PM
5

"Pussy's not all I want, unless it's all you got" - Patrice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/23 07:02 PM
22

"Bodies are built in the kitchen" Exactly true. No amount of exercise can make up for a bad diet. Eat healthy.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/23 11:21 PM
2

TBH, when I socialize, I like being with my guy buddies. Sure, the companionship of women is nice, but I can talk more freely with the guys.
/r/TheRedPillStories04/05/23 06:28 AM
9

Hope she pulled a building permit before she trowelled all that on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/23 07:29 PM
9

Alpha widowed by someone, then knocked up by another, then dated a third (who was a catch), but realized that she wanted to go back to the alpha. Sorry honey, no do-overs. https://thekrazycouponlady.com/coupons/cat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/23 07:27 PM
16

Oops. Sorry, no do-overs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/23 07:15 PM
13

Zero psych meds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 11:40 PM
13

It can be a black thing. Barbershops are important in certain sectors of AA male culture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 08:22 PM
24

I have a 0-0-0 rule. Zero kids, zero debt, size zero dress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/23 08:21 PM
35

Oh gosh yes, one called herself a sugar baby, I used the word escort. She didn't like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/23 05:19 PM
20

1%
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/23 05:18 PM
41

When she sends a cash app address, I send a request, not a send. Occasionally, she'll hit respond without looking, and I get 5 bucks. If she complains, I play dumb, just to string it out longer. Eventually, I block.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/23 05:17 PM
15

Not even very good AI used to make her look thinner. Look at how bad her eyes are misaligned.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/23 07:35 PM
50

I'm ok with this, except for the "hard working" part. If I get with a woman like this, I get to be the stay at home stepdad, while she goes to work. I can cook and clean, do laundry. But a job? Nah, sis, that's on you. Oh and I bring 2 kids of my own, too, so get your grocery money up there. See how shitty this looks, when you turn it around?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/23 04:12 PM
10

Shit, man, learning guitar is just about the best form of game there is.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/23 02:23 AM
-1

So, essentially anti-trans views are socialistic? I can see that! Let's resist our would be corporate and deep state masters, come out loud and proud as cis persons, and embrace true socialistic thought. No gods, no masters (or mistresses)!
/r/TheRedPill10/04/23 06:57 PM
6

I resemble that remark.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/23 01:20 AM
2

Never offer. If she asks, move on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/23 10:29 PM
4

Where does she ask for money?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/23 05:44 PM
2

I got no problem here. She can come over, Netflix and chill, and go home to her dogs, brat, and simp. The poison hair just means she's likely wild in the sack. The problem for me is a me thing, I don't do this for fatties. If she were thinner, I'd be on it. Of course I'd double bag it. God knows what dose she carries.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/23 05:43 PM
17

I've noticed plenty of godly dudes at the homeless camp. She could have totally gone and gotten a guy there who was sent by Jesus. Wonder why that wasn't the first place she looked?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/23 11:30 AM
18

You're on your way to becoming built. Being built and bald seems to work for The Rock, so why not for you? You really have nothing to fear, though you will get rejected, as we all do. Rejection is just a lesson for the next time. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/23 05:13 PM
3

Playing her like a postage stamp. Lick it Stick it Send it away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/23 10:03 PM
19

I could take this one on. I have all that. Hope she's ok with me being nearly 60, and having kids older than her. She's gotta be loyal, pleasant to me and my friends, keep herself fit, and willing to keep house.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/23 09:50 AM
1

Traditionalism is not something you can take on and off like Barbie outfits. Once you put it down, it's gone. And this one most certainly has done so. Honestly, she isn't likely to even have enough spare time to be a plate on a roster. I'm pressed to think of anything she might have to bring to the table. Is she an heiress? A lottery winner? Maybe if I was homeless and unemployed?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/23 08:07 AM
1

Sharon's folks were likely about to retire, and told her they couldn't support her anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/23 07:58 AM
16

$15 for a happy ending and a sammie would be expensive today in Vietnam. Back in the 60s, in wartime? Pennies.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/23 01:35 PM
14

She should give up on having her own kids. Some dude needing a step mom should hit her up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/23 02:35 PM
49

She still says that it's men's fault, because in her view men like women that are young are more will to put up with men's shit, and women her age don't. What's more likely to be true is that her younger self gave it away to chads who won't commit, and now she wants new price for used goods. She's having the epiphany, and next week, it'll be WAATGM.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/23 09:28 AM
65

Single moms aren't supposed to date.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/23 01:23 PM
81

I'll treat her right and not judge her. I'll just have nothing to do with her. Sounds right to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/23 01:09 PM
25

27 is where the Chinese say a woman becomes "leftover".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/23 04:20 AM
23

Hope for her to land a guy who wants a wife, but would have no kids, possibly. For her to have kids, it's real close to too late.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 08:10 PM
150

How'd she get to 34 and unmarried with these values? Answer: She didn't. She discovered these values late, only after finding she didn't like the consequences of her earlier values. If she had felt this way at 22, she'd likely have a good husband and a house full of happy kids by now. But she didn't. And traditionalism is a one-way street. Once you stop being trad, you can't go back. It's an ethos, not a style. You can't just put it on and take it off, like Barbie clothes. This is a false trad, …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 06:45 PM
22

This one used so much foundation, she should have pulled a building permit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/23 06:37 PM
2

She's unlikely to ditch the kids. And she's also unlikely to be willing to do what I want to let her come with on my travels.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/23 11:11 PM
6

The perfect choice for her is her kids father. Until she loses the rug rats, I'm not interested. Recreational use only.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/23 08:14 PM
4

So long as she keeps the fridge stocked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/23 08:09 AM
25

Nah, you can tell by her speech that she is putting on airs. The accent is one of the lower class, but she's trying to sound posh. And she is in the habit of talking this way, it's her normal speech. But you can hear the council flat in her. Single mom means I'm not going there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/23 03:17 PM
28

I'm completely down for this one. I'd move in with her right away. Hope she doesn't mind that I'm broke, homeless, unemployed, short and ugly. I'll give her all the respect and honor she wants, tho.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 04:24 PM
22

She offered her honor I honored her offer So all night long I was on her and off her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/03/23 04:20 PM
33

Let the woman need you, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/23 01:36 AM
16

I suppose if I were broke, homeless, and also had HSV, I'd consider her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/23 12:08 AM
10

You will find that few childless, fit, and debt free straight single women have excessive tattoos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/23 03:15 PM
26

3 six, lol. I have a three zero rule. Zero kids Zero debt Size Zero dress. You want to look at my 3 sixes, you gotta bring three zeroes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/23 10:16 PM
60

Yes, not all RP is MGTOW, some of us really like women. But we cannot compromise being ourselves, either.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 02:06 PM
13

She could find a guy like that who'd be interested in her. He won't have much money, so shed better have a lot. Also, he'll be well over 70.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/23 08:50 PM
10

I'm not sure she actually is looking for a guy. She lists that she's seeking "people". I think this is mostly a W4W listing. She should get off OKC and download HER.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/23 01:59 PM
15

Trinkets, out of dead dog hair.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/23 08:04 AM
37

I notice her mouth is closed in all pictures. Bets on how many teeth are missing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/23 08:22 AM
14

She should give full custody over to him. It's clear he would be the better parent, and she can better afford CS payments. Then she can try to get him back. But he would be well advised to say no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/23 06:44 AM
1

The point is, once you are too much for most to tangle with, they won't. And you won't have to deal with this bs nearly as much.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 02:10 AM
2

I must have missed the day when we were promised that it would be easy.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 02:08 AM
0

Sizemax. Get as intimidating looking as possible. Make him really have to work up his dander to approach you. Small guys often take the chihuahua approach, and do a lot of yapping. Minimize his capacity to do that, and make him look weak as possible if he tries. Then, move around so as he has to do so with no one around. Be absolutely chill, like twisting his head off would be nothing to you.Ideally, you want him to try to get physical with you first, if it comes to that. But if he needs handlin…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/23 11:50 PM
20

She rejected far too many for the most trivial of reasons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/23 05:12 PM
21

Landwhale Basket case Broodmare Town bike
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/23 03:37 AM
12

But if the genders are reversed, it's better?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/23 10:03 PM
31

The best was Alec Baldwin. He and Kim Basinger divorced in 2002, who went ex-wife-zilla on him, and fcked with him as much as possible, (he had to spend more than a million on lawyers) but he just started dating again, at 44, though he was suicidal at one point and had to seek therapy. The Hollywood aging starlet crowd went nuts, about he would be their perfect husband. and he railed a good number of these, just for fun. But 10 years later, he married his present wife, who was at the time a 28 y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/23 09:58 PM
15

Thar she blows! Man the harpoon!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/23 11:50 PM
6

Men age like Sean Connery. So do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:06 AM
0

Weight scales with height. So long as she fits a size 0 dress, she can be any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:52 AM
1

Sex from a woman, and respect from men? That's all I really need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:08 AM
1

True. Edited. Ugliness can be ignored, for a good kisser. I have eyelids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:33 AM
0

The question was, would I have sex with a woman I wouldn't want to be seen with. Partnership was nowhere mentioned. Wanting the respect of men is nothing like wanting sex with them. Are you really this dense, or are you being deliberately obtuse? Or is it homophobia?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:31 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:23 AM
3

I want the respect of others, particularly other men. So, if I'm seen with a woman, she needs to be able to give respectibility to me. But you are right, a man eventually gets inured to shame, particularly that from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:56 PM
1

I love kissing. The only thing that would slow me down from a single woman that wanted to be kissed would be halitosis. Public appearances are a different matter. She has to be able to clean up well, and for some, that's just not possible. And no, consensual intimacy never makes me feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:51 PM
3

I'd love to hear about that, too. They wouldn't even have to be all that rich, just rich by comparison to the destination. Wonder where such a place could be?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:11 PM
1

Do you mean Eastern Europe (ie EE) in general, or Estonia (country code EE) specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:53 PM
2

You should gladly date them. Just be careful when you do, and leave your options open, just as she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:06 PM
9

My experience talking to them has most of them having intensely negative experiences, often repeated in novel, cruel ways. So I disagree that such would not be a majority. And yes, there are some bad actors there, that just want to foment discord. And, as you mentioned, some truly disadvantaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:20 AM
2

Some, perhaps. But all of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:12 AM
8

Kevin Samuels does not belong on this list.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:11 AM
6

What if they did put in that work, and still failed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:09 AM
6

What if they did put in that work, and still failed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:05 AM
12

Well, they have to go somewhere. What do you think made them that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:49 AM
6

The nails make it impossible to properly wipe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/22 06:44 AM
40

Imagine the smell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/22 03:10 AM
4

Can confirm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:54 AM
1

Learn something every day. So OP is homophobic, and not transphobic. Got it. Thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:26 PM
6

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:25 PM
-1

There's a difference in the distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:16 PM
2

Yeah, I usually do that, alternate. With the addition that the one who's gonna pay, gets to pick the place. But normally, for a first date, I usually go to a place I would normally go to, and ask if she wants to come along. If she says no, that's fine, I was going to go out alone anyway. If she comes along, I have no problem buying her some food. If it turns into a second date, I'd want to see some sort of mutuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:13 PM
-2

Way to belittle transfolk, by implying that any dude can be trans. I need no further TERFing. And you must really hate cis men too. Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:04 PM
3

Wow, misandry AND transphobia, all in one post! You must be so proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:59 PM
1

Well, they are definitely superior over any ham sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:25 PM
3

That's absolutely right, very ripped people often have high BMIs, despite having low body fat %ages. That's because muscle is denser than fat, and ripped people often have dense bones, as well. Measuring body fat is better, but is more involved. For woman, a healthy waist-to-hip ratio, (i.e. below .85) can be highly indicative.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 07:55 PM
20

Yup. Things you can't help. The solution for these, tho, is to stop stuffing their faces.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 05:38 PM
76

"Body positivity" was SUPPOSED to be about saving the lives of anorexic teenagers. It's not supposed to be about food addicts feeling ok with eating themselves out of their mumus. But these cows hijacked it, so I guess it's their movement, now.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 05:03 PM
2

Yes, it's very much the same like this, in both directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:04 AM
30

I think you are correct here. At no point did she say he was actually interested in marrying her, and even if so, likely not on her timetable. She has an agenda, and wants him to conform to it.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 01:24 AM
2

Oh I have no problem hanging out with women, or engaging in casual sex with them. But for relationships, I have standards. And that's not really about her, it's about me. I have a certain level of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:21 AM
4

Yes, my divorce was due to her drug and alcohol abuse. I told her she needed to make a choice, me or the bottle, and she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:12 AM
60

She had better grow up fast, if she's 32 and wants babies.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 01:10 AM
65

How is that even a question? Is marriage even on the table? Has he proposed? Does she intend to? He already said he wouldn't marry her, though she hedged that bit of info. It sounds like she has a checklist, and a time table, and she wants to funnel him into them. Where is the NRE? Where is the fun? Why does she love him? Does she think he loves her? I know if I were he, I'd never propose. And I'd use condoms.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 01:08 AM
10

I'm more than willing to go without a relationship, if I can't get what I want in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:05 AM
16

The classic is the six-six-six guy. Six feet tall, six pack abs, six figure income. I want zero-zero-zero woman Zero debt, zero kids, size zero dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:33 AM
11

Easy. Only get involved with her, if you are broke. She wants to laugh? Awesome, I know lots of impoverished standup comedians.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/22 04:00 PM
16

Yup! I look as plain as possible. I realized I could retire at 50, sold my house in the most fashionable part of my city and bought a small, comfy place in a working class neighborhood. I sold my Mercedes and bought a Toyota. All paid off, with well over a million to spare in investments. I go to local pubs, not fancy restaurants or night clubs, and travel the world, not five star, but hostels and AirBnBs. Mostly I cook for myself, and am getting better and better at it. In my 40s, I cleaned up …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/22 10:11 PM
18

There's a whole class of porn about that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/22 09:59 PM
15

His son does not deserve such a woman as a mother. Once he determines paternity, he should press for full custody, with her paying CS. You all know that's what would happen if this was reversed. She should count herself lucky to get any part of her child's life. She should not consider self-termination, until the kid is out of school, but that's likely the best of all possible outcomes. Or as KS would say, she should get a dog and die alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/22 04:19 PM
1

Never be the clean up man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:45 PM
49

It's not really lying, exactly. Women won't give a useful answer when asked for what they find attractive in a man, because they will answer with what they want in a man *they already find attractive*. If they aren't interested in you to begin with, their answers are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:23 PM
8

Yep, all of this. I would add that men are taught, almost from weaning, that life is not fair. Insisting on fair play is much more a female behavior, than a male one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:19 PM
7

"Femininity over niceness"? From a man's point of view, niceness is a crucial part of femininity. As for bitchyness, men might play with such women, but they generally don't want to marry them. Not all men want to extract sex from all women. There are some women that some men wouldn't fuck with someone else's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:16 PM
10

Hang in there kiddo. While you're alive you still got the power to make changes.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 10:55 PM
4

Have you ever been overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:26 PM
3

Do you think we live in a just and free society?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:21 PM
8

I certainly don't. And I know no one like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:12 PM
11

No one is saying that men are entitled to sex, anymore than women are entitled to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:59 PM
12

I disagree here, too. Almost all the single guys I know want monogamous relationships, and far too many women I know are field players or outright cheaters. An average guys should be able to pair off with an average woman. But what we are seeing now is a rise in polygamy, with only certain men benefitting. Thousands of years of experience has taught humanity that large numbers of angry single men in a society is never a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:58 PM
11

I have to disagree, 180 degrees. Collectively, female morality in the western world has collapsed, and average men are suffering for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:46 PM
19

I'm more traditional. One like this would have to come with a sizable dowry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/22 06:44 PM
4

My parents were the same, mom handled the money as well, it was dad on an allowance. He did the taxes, and managed the retirement funding, but everything that was spent was spent by mom. Neither thought the other had it lesser or easier. Mom had many degrees, more than dad, and actively chose mothering and homemaking. She did, however, return to work once us kids were grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:14 PM
4

I wouldn't be married to anyone who wasn't already my dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:08 AM
5

I'm 58. I mostly date women late-30s to mid-40s. Works very well indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:27 PM
12

Particularly South Asian.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 07:39 PM
12

Plenty of good white ones in Europe. I've had excellent luck in Hungary, Poland, Croatia, Bulgaria, Spain, Italy, and Portugal. There are even good ones to be found in Belgium and Scotland.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 07:38 PM
11

This is a very familiar scenario for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 07:33 PM
14

That's pretty much what they are for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 07:23 PM
38

Meanwhile, how many matches do the guys get, on average? Damn sight less than 800, I'd wager.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 11:49 AM
45

Women will tell you what they are looking for, in men they already find attractive. They won't tell you what it is that makes a guy attractive in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:41 AM
30

Only if shes a lottery winner or heiress. Otherwise direct her to a homeless camp or a prison gate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/22 02:37 PM
5

Her best bet is to wait at the gate of the prison for the newly released. Or maybe even patrol the homeless camps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/22 10:08 AM
13

A p.edo would.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/12/22 10:03 AM
3

Well, sure. Didn't say I would do nothing in the meantime.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/22 04:46 PM
5

Can't live with em, can't render the blubber for oil.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/11/22 05:14 AM
0

Wait 6 years till the 12 year old daughter turns 18 and date her. Cut out the middle man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/22 03:13 AM
48

Doesn't ask anything from him, except a dark complexion. He could be short, homeless, unemployed. This could be a real opportunity for such a fellow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/22 05:21 AM
3

I hear that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/22 05:18 AM
4

Nothing about his success or status or even height. Gotta assume she's ok with a short homeless brotha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/22 01:26 AM
3

What's the devil? What's the spirit of God?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/22 10:10 PM
1

She lets the mask slip a bit too, every now and then I end up thinking she's some sort of religious nut.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 01:57 PM
2

What is sin?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/22 01:00 PM
8

More sarcastic, but OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:39 AM
4

Yep, just slipped and fell onto that penis. Oopsie!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:23 AM
0

Never get into a long term relationship with such a woman, unless she gives it up to you at least as easily as she did for any of her past hookups. Accept no shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:22 AM
7

They love tingles.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/22 11:08 PM
0

Nah, it'll never happen. Because I won't let it. A good bartender is far rarer than a good woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/22 08:41 AM
3

Netiher "woke" nor "anti-woke" are pro-rape. But the woke will shame, whine and make videos. The anti-woke will just beat your ass.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 10:38 PM
3

Boomers didn't either, 50k in Vietnam is not very much, compared to the whole population. But my point is, there's no real shortage of women in the overall, but there is, in the numbers of those suitable for starting a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:32 PM
7

I mean seriously though. I don't ask for much. Sure, lots of women have kids, I get that, and also know it's not compatible with my lifestyle. No harm, no foul. But childfree women who will date a 58 year old dude, who are: Fit and active ( I have yet to meet a woman over 50 that can keep up with me) Not psycho Not a financial basket case Well, they barely exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 09:53 PM
14

Removed by r/AskMen. Because of course it was. Got more than 50 awards, and 2.4k likes, too.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 09:46 PM
4

No, it's perfectly fine to be a provider in RP, so long as it's for *your own* children. And done for a woman who behaves responsibly with what she's been provided. But you go onto dating apps nowadays, and you find so many women who have already lost the baby daddy lottery, and many of those who haven't are simply golddiggers, and often aren't even trying to hide it. In all honesty, a true gold digger is just a more insidious form of prostitute. So many just seeking foodie "dates", so many TikT…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:12 PM
6

No, there isn't a short supply, in absolute numbers. But women will often waste the time that biology dictates they should spend in lifetime partner selection, instead seeking pleasure, validation, and attention. And once she ages out of that ideal time, she can't go back, often to her regret. There's a very good reason why so many of society's rules, in virtually every culture, are about the structure of marriages and families. Because to perpetuate itself every culture needs to foster the rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:03 PM
4

She's shaggable. and might have something non-vapid to talk about. But yes, crazy is more likely.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 08:36 PM
1

I thought that was notable also. I like fish, but have never packed it for lunch at work. Except for a tuna salad sandwich.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 08:34 PM
3

Oh, they could get laid at any bar. But the guy always leaves right after. And the number he gave her was a pizzeria.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 08:28 PM
2

Yes. Using English correctly makes us look reasonable, which we are, but we need to project it.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 08:24 PM
1

extra *paid* time off to heal.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 08:22 PM
1

Use "female" as an adjective, not a noun. Say "female employees".
/r/MensRights18/11/22 08:21 PM
5

Hey now. Some of that stuff is actually pretty tasty. I usually have a box in the fridge, but I mostly use it for cooking, or pairing with dinner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 08:17 PM
16

If she has an adult daughter, it's usually better to skip the middleman and date the daughter. I'm just grateful I have an excellent, cute young bartender. I'm all professional with her, flirtatious but never forward, (a good relationship with a good bartender should never be ruined by sexual interest). I'm genuinely concerned for her well being, I distract problem customers away from her, hand her ibuprofen when she looks like she's in pain, give her intelligent conversation in her downtime. Sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 08:03 PM
12

The two often go together. And by and large, the bi are large.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 08:01 PM
13

That is a profound misreading of RP. Indeed, RP is mostly for the men left single by those running a harem. About not being the guy she turns to for dinner and entertainment, while getting her sexual satisfaction from some "better" guy. RP guys would love to be like 50s families, for the most part. Take my own folks as an example: Dad was born in 1933, did some small town dumb stuff after high school, but the Army drafted him, and he was sent to Germany during the Occupation. He came back, disci…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:00 PM
2

It's just about finding the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:39 PM
10

Yeah, I got a catfish whiff, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:31 PM
35

Sadly all too true. I'm 58, retired early, all my hair, 6'1, PhD. I don't even bother with over 50s anymore. And never if they have kids at home. Once you weed out the whales as well, there's not much. First dates now are more about figuring out in what way she's a psycho.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:23 PM
8

I'd be down with giving this one a try. Of course, I'm more than 15 years older. As long as she hasn't kids. Serious relationship would be fine, just so she's ok with there being no gold ring on this ride. Of course there may well be a very good reason she's still single.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/22 07:23 PM
2

I have a PhD, but no one calls me "Dr", except my bartender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:16 PM
17

No, the entire RP view of a woman who chooses commitment with a plain guy over being a plate to Chad is that the *woman* thinks she is settling, when in fact boring Brad is actually what's gonna work out as best for her. A lot of RP is about coaching boring Brads, about what to look for in women and what to turn down. Women have a lot of power when they are young, but will often use that power frivolously, to get transient attention from flashy Chads. If they instead used it to start good stable…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:12 PM
1

Where do I find an average Amy/Eve?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:03 PM
1

A monotonous father is far better than no father. Statistics bear this out, overwhelmingly. So this is great if you don't plan to have kids. But yes, you get to be a certain age and single, male or female, and you wish you had a partner. Especially if you have no kids, who at least will call home once in a while. People who make it past young adulthood have a life expectancy now well over 80. When your career ends, and you run out of cool travel ideas or whatever, you'll wish you had someone to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:02 PM
2

This is Utah.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 07:41 AM
35

Oh yes! Especially when I'm off my meds! I can't believe how perfect of a match we are!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 03:25 PM
38

Think she'd be OK with me? I'm unemployed, and living in a tent in the woods by the railroad tracks, but I do love life, love women who dress up and wear heels, I'm kind, funny, protective, and very strong. We sound like a perfect match!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/22 02:55 PM
5

LOL, always buy real estate for cash.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 09:04 PM
1

Isn't that great? 2 million dead guys, and the worst problem is that the surviving women can't get dates.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 04:44 PM
1

What country?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:30 PM
2

Simple. It's easier to sell something to someone who is scared.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:17 AM
2

This "fuckzone" sounds pretty nice... How do I get in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:11 PM
1

How's that different than just being friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:23 PM
2

She made no effort to describe what she herself was like that would attract such a man. But she didn't specify how old such a fellow would be, nor that she had any of her own kids. So a much older guy might make a.good match, especially if the financial elements align, as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/22 09:23 PM
1

Do you know the meaning of "average"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:12 AM
1

Mean, or median?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:52 AM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:38 PM
1

I wouldn't call that "situationship". I'd just call that "unsuccessful dating".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:18 PM
2

It's men's sexuality that is bottomless, never satisfied, always looking to have another new sex partner, but never having enough willing women to achieve their dreams of ideal lifetime sex partners. That's not true at all. If I found the right woman, I'd never want another. My father was true to my mom for 56 years, and I could be also, to the day I die.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:14 PM
2

Is there such a thing as a situationship without sex.?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:10 PM
1

Well, yeah, I have had lots of fun with socially awkward yet physically attractive women over the years. That's the ideal demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:01 PM
9

Is she? A woman that's been passed around is far more likely to divorce you and grab your stuff. She might have looked good once upon a time, but does that make up for the risk? Date her, sure, FWB or FB her, yes. but don't give her a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:00 PM
2

Good point. Thank you for the correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:57 PM
2

My point is being the "ex party woman" dramatically lowers SMV, much more than said women realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:15 PM
18

Have you ever met a person without a body?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:10 PM
10

Many men with "ex party women" are the ones doing the settling, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:09 PM
16

Theres no better feeling than your girl sleeping on your chest, her shoulder under your arm, and her other arm around you. One leg thrown over yours. Bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:14 AM
11

Surely this young mother-to-be has already got her finances in order to procreate. After all, kids are expensive! She must have been saving up her pennies for this!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 06:21 PM
16

This is the winner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 06:20 PM
3

A lot of guys aren't as nice as they think. And a lot of women aren't as attractive as they think. We all do better, when we all do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:30 PM
1

Yeah, fair enough.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 04:32 PM
43

Don't forget abs!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/22 03:46 PM
1

At 15, you are just playing with your peer.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 01:54 PM
5

You can't be a pedo at 15. Shine light on this, out her. Sunlight is a disinfectant.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 03:26 AM
1

best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:20 AM
1

"Chad-ness" isn't just about being attractive, (And "attractiveness" isn't just about looks), It's about what you do with your attractiveness. A Chad is a guy with options, yes, but then he chooses to exercise as many options as he can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:13 PM
1

I'd have to say the genders split responsibility on this. The world is full of women who overplay their hands, as well. Female/male should be used as adjectives, not nouns.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:27 PM
2

Look at those eyes. That is a dead soul.
/r/MensRights04/11/22 06:59 PM
3

Sure, but being a Chad isn't only about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:05 PM
2

Some can, and some can't. Market conditions vary from place to place, and guys vary from person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:49 PM
2

I'm not sure that follows logically, but that would be instead an additional fact. Some of them can and do do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:38 PM
2

I'd agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:22 PM
0

No, you were talking about her being happy and relaxed, not about her being a financial asset. Happy and relaxed people are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:48 PM
13

Communities like this tell people the vast majority of men hardly ever get laid whereas the some of them have a harem of women that will give them sex whenever they want No. RP says the vast majority of men IN THE MARKET are like that. Most men, as you note, are somewhere in the middle, and are in a long- or short- term relationship. They therefore are not in the market. In the market, you have many low SMV guys, who can't land a partner and a few high SMV guys who choose to exercise their many …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:41 PM
5

The Russian versions of Google have had a huge spike in how to break an arm or leg.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 11:32 PM
11

"Won't someone save the whales?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/22 10:18 PM
12

That's very generous of you. I'd think well into the upper 20s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/22 10:17 PM
3

I dated women in their 20s, all through my 40s. And women in their 30s, well into my 50s. And I also dated some closer to my own age. I don't care what anyone else thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:13 PM
3

Know of any alive today, in America?
/r/MensRights02/11/22 05:09 PM
12

What's the over/under on what this specimen weighs in at? I'm guessing at least 16 stone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/22 03:46 PM
13

Very few men use "crazy" as a descriptor for a woman, in a good way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/22 03:45 PM
3

I graduated in 92 from a STEM program, the only male left in my graduating class. All other males transferred into other programs or other colleges, dropped out, or delayed graduation. It was myself and six female collegues. After the graduation ceremony, we stood for a class photo in our caps and gowns, which was displayed in the Department office... with me edited out. Like a Communist functionary executed by Stalin.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 03:27 PM
15

To have a patriarchy, don't you need patriarchs? Can you name any?
/r/MensRights02/11/22 03:04 PM
1

In the States, it's occasionally found in stores, but it's only 30% or so, so you'd have time to wash it off before you were too badly burned.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 02:55 PM
2

Where do they get the acid?
/r/MensRights02/11/22 04:37 AM
1

Turn that around. What if he wants sex every day, but you took care of it first and weren't interested? What would he be entitled to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:34 PM
33

F no nut november. Cuff a plate for winter, and have her go through condoms with you till spring. Lather rinse repeat.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/22 07:16 PM
10

Reversing is about 50/50. I dunno about manually grabbing, that sounds pretty invasive and single use, but I have no idea. Freezing is likely the best choice. Assuming you want kids at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 05:11 PM
12

Speaking as such a man, yes. That would work, as long as she is not a financial basket case. Seems she is European, and they don't rack up large student loans for worthless degrees and accrue medical debt like Americans, so that's a plus.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 03:47 PM
14

Reversal is almost always a coin toss. You should freeze some before the knife, and at multiple clinics, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 03:35 PM
1

Female premarital promiscuity is a strong predictor for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:59 PM
15

Two.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/22 08:37 PM
1

Men also need men friends. Swing hammers on projects, sip whiskey by a fire, smoke cigars on porches, go fishing, microbreweries.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:47 PM
35

Men age like Sean Connery. So do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:52 AM
221

Leave a coupon for cat food in the book as a bookmark.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 03:30 AM
1

Can't fix everything. Gotta play the cards you're dealt. But stack those cards as well as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:29 PM
-3

It's not only about looks. Confidence is sexy. Status in society. At least the outward appearance of wealth. Sociability (i.e. do you have friends?). But you can up your looks game. Work out, eat right, dress well, groom properly, carry yourself well. Critically, don't let rejection hurt you. Laugh it off. This teaches confidence better than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:11 PM
2

Having smashed once, she may be worth smashing again. If she needs to think she's in a relationship to go a second time, let her think it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 06:47 PM
5

No, there's plenty of women who could not, would not, or did not breed. Your 99% is really more like 80%, even in the modern world. When death rates were higher, women, like men would die before ever getting a chance to breed.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/22 02:24 PM
7

Winner winner chicken dinner.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:09 PM
36

That's exactly it. The men who meet her standards, have standards of their own, that she does not meet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/22 09:25 PM
30

When it's used for gain.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/22 09:00 PM
1

Now, what would work best is a partner who is cooperative in turning the home space into a refuge from the stresses of the world, where regeneration is possible to go on to face outside challenges on an ongoing basis. This of course would benefit both women and men. What I personally would like in a partner would be someone who can turn our yard space into a garden, can cook great food (though I would also cook, I like to cook), and keeps the home space tidy. Kids are not in the cards for my fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:26 PM
4

Marriages that last more than 20 years have women in them that were 24 or less on the wedding day, 85% of the time. 22 or less, 50% of the time. 2010 US Census.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:14 PM
117

What bugs me is that the whole body positivity movement was created to save the lives of anorexic girls, not make compulsive adult gluttons feel better about themselves.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 11:36 PM
0

I wouldn't worry about it, live and learn. Be nice and respectful should she talk to you again, but also be clear about your desires. Move on, and find something new. Yes, she should have disclosed. but she didn't. People of all genders practice deception for sex, but the karma is on her. You are not transphobic, your orientation is to not be with transwomen. You were born this way.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 06:17 PM
12

I didn't just date one. I started juggling plates. All younger and hotter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 12:20 AM
3

Yep me too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 12:19 AM
29

Paying child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/22 12:18 AM
7

Got me. I see no reason to shame anyone for anything. It's counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:33 AM
23

Seriously. I'm very good friends with lots of larger women, but I wouldn't ever consider sleeping with them. They are still people, often good people. They just aren't desirable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:43 PM
1

Oh, yes, sure. But that's not "dating", that's recreational use.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/22 11:25 AM
11

I'm the last guy in the world that's gonna kinkshame you.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 08:32 PM
26

Mentally ill. Drug or alcohol addicted. They need help and aren't ready to date. Many people male and female alike, think a new partner will fix them, but psychotherapy and a support group might do them more good.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 07:46 PM
2

Oh, the willingness is there. When the cash is forthcoming. This is not a Jr. highschool debate club, this is real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:34 PM
2

No. What I'm saying is that, as a professional researcher, I do not work for free. If you want me to look for you, my rates start at $200 USD/hr, and require an up-front retainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:26 PM
124

Don't date gold diggers. Don't date whales. Don't date single moms. Don't date basket cases. Guard your DNA.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 07:18 PM
2

The homework is left as an exercise for the student. Google works pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:16 PM
1

No. But I can argue from statistical evidence and historical precedence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:16 PM
0

Compare suicide rates. But sheer biology should show you. The whole point of monogamy is to assure paternity. Otherwise, male family investment would he pointless. And without male investment in families, we'd still be hunter-gatherers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:10 PM
-1

Indeed, because female cheating hurts men far more than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:59 PM
0

Plenty of women are disloyal, and yet consider themselves to be high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:19 PM
1

I'm very selective. I'd rather be on my own than with a substandard partner. Any woman I see has to have her shit together, not have primary custody of kids, be fit, and at least half way decent looking. You'd think that there'd be lots of gals like this, but you'd be wrong. Women complain the bar is low for men, but for them, it's non-existent. Otherwise, I'll just go out Friday nights and laugh it up in the bar with the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:33 AM
2

I'm in my 50s, and my own N count is likely around 200. About 10-12 of those were rookies. I don't mind being someone's first, but it does take special care. Both of the women I married had been experienced. (My first wife passed after we seperated, the second divorced, mostly amicably, but we have little contact.) A zero experience gal isn't a lot of fun the first time or two, but they can learn quite fast, when you are patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:39 PM
0

Well, and there's a lot of wisdom in this response. The most stable families stem from people who were attracted in their late teens, then married at college age, or immediately after. The US Census shows that women who have been married for 20 years or more, got married at age 24 or less, and 50% did so at 22 or less. The Catholic church, and most other churches, knew this all along, as well. I dislike the word "virgin" tossed around so much in these pill discussions. Worrying about absolute pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:29 PM
4

My wallet, my choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:01 AM
31

Plus, we get to learn some great words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/22 01:47 PM
7

Don't ask to see the leather clothes in my closet. Some couples will even pay for the service. Mostly white suburban types.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/10/22 01:25 PM
1

Casual dating? Interest in sex. Fitness Suitable age Serious dating? All the above, plus No kids Sane Down to earth
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:16 PM
13

Some guys get off being tied up and watching their wives railed by a fat, hairy, leather clad biker. Don't ask how I know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 01:48 PM
1

Indeed. If a 25 year old woman doesn't have the "brain development" to date whom she chooses, should she be allowed to vote? To drive? To own real estate? Either someone is an adult, and has the capacity to make their own decisions, or they don't. Society has no problem asking 18 year olds to sign up to risk their lives in war zones, it should have no problem it letting them date freely. It's no one else's business than that one person. That said, there's no room for pedos going after highschool…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:39 PM
60

This is just a prostitute, advertising her rates. I'd call it a very poor deal, since apparently, she wants twice that. So a con artist, as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/10/22 02:09 AM
2

Under classic rules, if she's not intimate with him, she has no right to demand celibacy. So of course he can play the field while he waits. She should know this. As gay men like to say, "it doesn't suck itself".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:13 AM
2

1) If she is fishing for a Westerner to take her home with him, she's likely got daydreams of moving to a gold plated shopping mall, with your credit card. It's not got a good chance for a positive outcome. Plenty of guys have been dumped by their new wives, once the realities of prosaic middle class Western existence sinks in. 2) If you instead stay there in her country, every second cousin and grand nephew is gonna come out of the woodwork, with their hands out and a sob story. You have become…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:48 AM
10

No single moms. No whales. No basket cases. It's that simple, guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/22 11:04 AM
3

Men need to know this stuff, and so many don't.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 10:49 AM
2

Amish dudes grow the full beards, but shave the upper lip. Too militaristic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:47 AM
1

I like to never shave clean, but instead, trim down to bristle. Then let it grow back out again. I do this when it gets long enough to start to itch. The lasses with whom I canoodle like it when I skrtch them about the neck and shoulders with my sandpaper-y bristles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:45 AM
2

Do an experiment. I've been friendzoned many times, and know exactly how that feels. Let's get.some ladies I'm attracted to fuckzone me a few dozen times, ( for statistical completeness), and then I can compare the feelings. Until you're ready to make the comparison, then there really is no comparison. But for most guys, I'd say fuckzoning sounds pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:00 AM
15

Never give her your real name. Call yourself Pookie or Ray-Ray. Run like hell when her water breaks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 07:38 AM
12

That's pretty much my problem. Except, of course, I take responsibility for my choices, and accept others' standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/22 06:35 AM
8

Except that most women CAN diet enough to lose weight, but men cannot grow taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:55 PM
3

Pretty accurate. In my early 40s, I was exactly as you describe, capable of eliciting chemistry, and did indeed attract a lot of older, fatter, and sluttier women. My difficulty was transitioning towards better relationship material. The fact is, these are a rapidly diminishing resource. I enjoyed myself, but could never find anyone qualified. Good thing I am independently wealthy, can travel freely, and have a fulfilling life without them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:43 PM
1

How is describing my own lived experience something in need of moderation? I made no personal attack against any individual, on or off Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 12:37 PM
1

Pretty accurate. In my early 40s, I was exactly as you describe, capable of eliciting chemistry, and did indeed attract a lot of older, fatter, and sluttier women. My difficulty was transitioning towards better relationship material. The fact is, these are a rapidly diminishing resource. I enjoyed myself, but could never find anyone qualified. Good thing I am independently wealthy, can travel freely, and have a fulfilling life without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:48 AM
0

US Census, 2010
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:00 PM
-3

Out of all marriages lasting 20 or more years, 85% happened when the woman was 24 or less. 50% happened when she was 21 or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:05 PM
2

I prefer women late 30s, or 40s. I'm just really picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:04 PM
13

I was OK with all that, until the last paragraph. No honey, if I'm gonna do all that other stuff for you, I'm gonna be the stay-at-home dad. You need to keep working those jobs, and maybe even more, to support me while I do the role model (discipline!) and homemaking for those kids. You don't get to work less.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/22 07:28 AM
1

I firmly believe that physical abuse is much more common, female-to-male than the other way around. Women are weaker, and men are tougher, so there's less physical damage caused by the abuse, and so it slips under the radar. Men are much more strongly disincentivized to report, as well, fearing being viewed as a "wimp". Men are conditioned to suck up pain. On the other side, men are trained virtually from birth to never hit girls, while it has been until very recently perfectly acceptable for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:16 PM
11

Easy. Be the Chad the young HB9 wants. But get her at the start of her arc, not once it's begun. Be her first Chad, and her last Chad. Be her forever Chad. The loudest example I remember is Kim Basinger. Once she was pretty damn hot, even a 10. But she was married to Alex Baldwin, then 42, and around 1999 started screeching to the tabloids how shitty her privileged, show biz life was. She made Alex's life hell, denying him access to his own child, demanding money, smearing him to prospective emp…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/22 12:30 PM
0

Most women in the dating market have high numbers. Those that married young and now have stable marriages tend to have much lower numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:16 PM
3

The way I read these stats is that abuse does indeed rise with great age discrepancy, regardless of gender. But it's the younger, not older, partner that's more likely the abuser, again, regardless of gender. But it requires a large age gap. Age gaps below 15 years seem to be have a negligible effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:12 PM
1

Most men like younger women, regardless of propensity for abuse. Younger women make more stable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:03 PM
3

While there's no direct connection to abuse behaviors, US Census data shows that of marriages lasting longer than 20 years, 85% of those started when the woman was 24 or younger. Sure, some of those could be abusive, but they stuck it out for good or ill. I'd be willing to bet the more unstable ones, i.e. the ones starting at later ages, are more likely to be abusive, not less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:01 PM
11

Good point. The same women often choose abusers, again and again. Likewise, abusive men go on to become serial abusers, as they end up in relationships that are unstable, and so find themselves at the beginning of the cycle again and again. Of course, none of this discusses female abuse of men, which I suspect is just as common, but far more rarely reported. We talk about how male abuse is normalized, yet female abuse can be downright encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:53 AM
3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qh9ZZgDqzAg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/22 03:21 AM
12

I have been that guy. Let the whales come to you and and you can have all you want. And I agree, they are just as hard to deal with as pretty ones, they just have fewer options.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/22 01:48 AM
60

They say "she's not yours, it's just your turn". But don't wait for your turn. Those who wait rarely get a turn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/22 02:27 PM
41

I'd be happy to consider accepting her daughter. Let me know when she's 18.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/22 02:23 PM
0

If we call men who behave like this psycopaths, what do we call it when women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:35 PM
32

That's the real answer. At 16, likely she was blowing dudes at basement parties she didn't even know the name of. But at 31, she wnats to make guys wait. Great. While I'm waiting, I'll be dateing younger, hotter women. Let me know when 90 days is up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/22 09:55 PM
14

Yes, it's true, longevity alone does not mean the people in the marriage regard it as a success. But a divorce is definately a failure.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 02:55 PM
8

At my age, marriage is essentially off the table. But I do still date younger women.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 06:45 AM
27

It remains a fact (2010 Census) that of all marriages that have lasted 20 or more years, those marriages began when the woman was 24 or less 85% of the time, and 22 or less 50% of the time. Marry young if you want your marriage to last. Older brides get divorced.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 06:26 AM
1

Surely they'd be waterproof. It's just a matter of good design.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:14 PM
1

That's only if you forget to put it in the dishwasher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:11 PM
2

So why have a kid by one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:20 AM
1

There have been sex workers, and therefore sex, since Eve bit the apple. Men can get sex and always could. Marriage for men is for securing paternity and legacy. But those things are now lost at the whim of the woman. So marriage no longer has a value for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:11 AM
5

That is a good description of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:05 AM
6

Robots dont get herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:00 AM
4

Indeed. A woman can always find an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:59 AM
4

It's just as likely that the woman cheats, in order to upgrade, then kicks him out. And you just said, that a man who cheats only rarely abandons the family. So, yes, it's her divorcing him that breaks the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:56 AM
4

So, yes, it's the wife's choice. Ok. And women cheat just as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:52 AM
3

Just a few more years until realistic and inexpensive sex robots are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:51 AM
7

In general, men dont abandon their families, they get ejected from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:49 AM
17

Always a good tactic. Reverse shit test.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/22 03:07 PM
2

Women don't count it as sex unless they FEEEEEEL it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:30 PM
3

How to be a white Pookie?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:28 PM
3

Beauty is skin deep. Ugly goes to the bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:06 PM
4

Well, that answers her question, then.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/22 04:35 PM
17

Why not marry the kids father?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/22 03:10 PM
3

Some just like drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:47 PM
2

No, from an OLD profile I had, maybe 12 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:24 AM
10

I think it was more about them wanting no-entanglement hedonism. With a tall dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 09:00 PM
12

But I always enter my height. It only worked so well this one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:47 PM
84

My most successful OLD profile ever said just four lines: Emotionally distant Slightly alcoholic Kind of a douche Six feet tall. My takeaway: the ones who just wanna smash, just wanna smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:54 PM
3

Despite what Kim did to him, Alec did it right. Now, if only we could get him to pay attention in gun safety class.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/22 12:39 PM
6

Exactly. The only other option is that she's fully delusional. I know where the smart bet is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/22 12:33 PM
13

The 10 is unlikely, at age 30. But yes, the money issue is a big factor here. She'd need a lot of it, and be willing to sign a good deal over to her man in a prenup. If she's an heiress with this kind of dough, then ok, her demands are on par. But a guy with the options she describes would want a lot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/22 11:59 AM
3

Such women are exceedingly rare, even in churches. Go to most churches, and you will find a large number of single moms who have become "born again", and pastors eager to find "nice guys" (tm) to fob them off onto.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:49 AM
3

Girls into real estate always got me hot. I own two houses right now outright, and have owned several more in the past. Looking at a couple more right now. Time it well, and your future is secure. A partner who can't get behind that isn't worth considering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:28 AM
12

I knew her, when she was a Philosophy prof at the U of Minnesota. She went by Kitty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 03:53 AM
26

But when they do, it's the older man's fault. Of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 03:52 AM
35

Misogyny? Isn't that hatred of women? Looks to me that he likes women very much. I remember when Alec Baldwin divorced Kim Basinger in 2002, and all the single aging Hollywood and Broadway matrons wrote in glee in how he was gonna be their biggest target. And then, ten years later, he married a 28 yo yoga instructor, when he was 54. The outrage could only be exceeded by nuclear war. From all accounts, they are pretty happy, and have had 6 kids together.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 03:51 AM
21

Yep, had that happen to me a few years back. I was 29 or so, fresh out of grad school, but had a decent job that eventually made great money. She was 25, we dated about a year and poof, vanished into thin air. When I'm 47, she dings me out of nowhere, asks if I was the guy who she knew 18 years before, and I say yes. We meet up, she has a couple kids, and is somewhere between 200 and 250 pounds, deadbeat ex, she's working a deadend job, living in a crappy apartment. I was nice, but not intereste…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/22 12:25 AM
3

Wondering what she thinks she has to offer that might be worth such a thing. If her daddy recently passed, bestowing her several millions in his will, provided she marries, that could do it. So long as she signs over a good chunk of it in the pre-nup. Can't really think of any other possible motivator.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/22 09:53 PM
27

190 = 6 foot 3. Of course.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/22 12:55 PM
2

I think there is a good analogy here. Employers have now for decades treated employees as disposable commodities, and have dramatically undervalued them in that time, while expecting from them the same kind of commitment, loyalty, and dedication to the job that once was the norm in the 50s, when work was a lifetime career and the job was a paternalistic model. Men, too, ( at leas according to RP theory ), have been feeling similarly. They are still expected to provide for their families and prot…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:08 PM
9

For me, 851.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/22 08:54 AM
8

Problem is, late 30s women that are fit, CF, and have sweet dispositions are pretty scarce. Lots that have few or none of those qualifications, though. The worst is those who pretend to be CF, but are actually deep into the baby rabies. Guard your DNA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/22 03:29 PM
1

Yes, I date post wall women. Sometimes it's great, sometimes, just and bad as pre wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:50 PM
1

Yeah, I'm 57 now, I generally prefer CF women in the late 30s now. Rare. And often entitled, not knowing the wall has done its damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:04 PM
2

Oh, my parents were modest earners, but got us into good schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:02 PM
1

Dont let him snow you. I pulled out his teeth and took his earnings for rock. He was a good earner, too, until the monkeypox scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:00 PM
2

I'm serious about this. When I retired at 50, I sold my house in the trendy part of town, and bough a smaller one, in a working class neighborhood. I sold my Mercedes, and now drive an 8 year old Camry. I'm more likely to ask a girl over for grilled burgers, than out for sushi.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:32 AM
3

If you are rich and want to stay rich, live like you are poor. If you are poor and want to stay poor, live like you are rich. No one but the IRS needs to know I'm a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:29 AM
11

Yes, me too. Me in my 40s, dating women in their 20s was ideal. Now, I'm in my late 50s, and finding those same women, in their late 30s to still be pretty good. As long as they stayed CF, fit, and didn't get an attitude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/22 10:16 AM
14

Well said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/22 10:03 AM
9

Oh no, they'll ladle the spite all around. But older women can be cougars, that's ok.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/22 09:45 AM
8

It's why the ERA died in the 70's. Someone pointed out that it meant women could be drafted and sent to Vietnam.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/22 09:44 AM
9

If she's not looking to have fun, I have no use for her.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/22 01:40 PM
1

Disney princesses do not exist in real life. There are plenty of stepsisters, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:13 AM
1

Why shouldn't a person, male or female be held to account for their pasts? Clearly, you are going through more to be with her than many others did. She should, in all fairness, be offering you more in return than she did those others. That you do not demand it speaks to a low self esteem. You are a prize. She should value you as one. She is attracted to the accomplishments you have attained in life, and the character it took to get them. Know your worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:56 AM
0

Either she's a grown woman with her own agency, or she's the equivalent of a child, and needs to be protected from her own mistakes by social rules. There is no middle ground. At 21, a person can sign legal contracts, vote, enlist in the armed forces, initiate lawsuits, and get licenses for all sort of activities. She, and she alone gets to decide to date a 55 your old, and no one gets to second guess her decisions. There is no immorality here, on her part nor on the part of the man. It wasn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:20 PM
1

No, the trans-ness isn't an orientation. But not being one to date one, is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:56 PM
4

"Multiple personalities" already disqualifies her. I didn't need to read any further.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/22 07:17 AM
8

Not dating trans is not immoral. It's just a matter of orientation. But when I date, i dont always date for the same objective. If i aim for social or sexual pleasure, overweight, single moms, alcoholics are all fair game. But not acceptable for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:20 AM
1

When I became a millionaire and quit working, I bought a modest house in a working class neighborhood, and traded my Mercedes for a Toyota. No one needs to know that I'm rich except the IRS, and i like it that way. This guy should have gotten the woman's demands before even meeting with her, and not bothered. This is a strong argument for coffee first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:34 AM
4

She might speak English now, but I'm wondering what her first language was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/22 08:40 AM
17

I'll challenge her. I challenge her to get some education and a useful career. To not get pregnant until she marries. And to get positive values, and seek out a man with the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/22 08:38 AM
74

And smoking weed, that's old timey, indeed!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/22 01:30 PM
93

Did you catch that you had to be able to kick the ass of, or at least scare off, her ex? Now, why would he be so upset?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/22 01:30 PM
3

I was ready then. Married, childless couples get much more assistance for education than anyone else. And I would have been willing to struggle and find my place in the world with a good partner. Shared struggle builds the strongest bonds. But women that age mostly want to achieve for themselves, not as part of a team. Or are frivolous and want to party away. Or are seeking a sugar daddy. Or have already coupled up with their childhood sweetheart. So it was a hopeless notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:44 PM
-1

Exactly. I don't want a woman for kinky sex. I just want a woman like coffee. Hot, sweet, wet, comes in big cups, served to me in bed first thing in the morning, ready in 5 minutes, and mellowed out, once I add cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:15 PM
0

Hell yeah it is. I had a blast in Spain and Portugal in 2017. I was in the habit of going to some country over there 6 weeks a year, until covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:55 PM
0

I go out to eat at dive bars and pizzerias. If that's not good enough for her, she's not the girl for me. If it is, then I don't mind paying. My problem isn't that women aren't willing to join me, it's the quality of those women. Too many single moms. Too many basket cases. Too many whales. Too many stone bitches. I love visiting Eastern Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:53 PM
6

I dont date. I've never gone on a formal first date. I live my life, and make room in it for a companion. If I like a gal, I invite her in. If she says no, it's ok, I was gonna do that anyway. I want a partner to be a friend first. So far, it's worked pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:14 AM
2

If we consider a successful marriage as one long enough to bear, raise, and launch a child, i.e. about 20 years, then here's a census fact for you: For all US women in such marriages, the average age at marriage was 22. 85% were married by 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:08 AM
5

He wants to keep his kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:06 AM
15

I wanted to be married 19-22, when I was in college. But women that age who want that also were scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 02:43 AM
2

You can also surround yourself with personable, high status men. Women see that men can respect each other, and can value that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:14 AM
2

They might have some correlation. Causation, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:51 AM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:40 AM
2

You do you. I'll do me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:21 AM
2

Oh, in my many years I have performed many experiments. The results are always the same: nope, not gay, sorry. I have an open mind. But my libido has a mind of its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:14 AM
0

What problem? And if I could choose my sexuality, we wouldn't be having this discussion in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:07 AM
2

Nope, not at all. The sexes work differently in how they bond, their manner of relating to their kids, and what they seek in a partner. Very differently, in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:00 AM
2

Indeed. It also shows them that you might not be a good match to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:56 AM
2

No it doesn't make it "worth it". She might not be worth anything. But I can certainly understand wanting ones first to be just right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:55 AM
8

Entirety up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:53 AM
1

That is absolutely a woman's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:52 AM
0

Men do bond emotionally through sex. Not always, but without sex, the bond is much weaker. Deny him his best means to bond with you, and that bond will not form. You will become another spinning plate, once you finally let him in. Or hell just get tired of waiting and walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:52 AM
32

Here's the thing... I'm a high earner. But when I retired (at 50), I sold my Mercedes and moved to a small house in a quiet neighborhood. Anti-gold digger armor. No one I date needs to know I'm a millionaire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/22 10:57 PM
22

She's clearly "kidding - not kidding" about her requirements. Likely she thinks it's cute. But the only "old fashioned" single moms are widows. First question, then, is to concern troll her by asking how baby daddy died.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/22 10:54 PM
69

She's not telling us what she's done. She's telling us her wish list. She want YOU to buy her food clothes and trips.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/22 03:08 PM
10

Recreational use only.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/22 03:11 PM
1

As I said, it should be the intendeds themselves, ideally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:50 PM
8

Women resent being rejected for not living up to a mans standards. Far more, usually, than men resent the inverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:51 PM
4

And even more critically, would a person looking out for their best interest choose me for them? And then, ask, does this pairing improve things in my village/clan/grouping?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:49 PM
4

Arranged marriage should be the default. I'm not saying that it should happen all that much, but a person likely to marry should ask themselves, "is this person someone that a person looking out for my best interest would choose for me?".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:47 PM
7

Yeah, I cleaned up, back when OKC was young. But it's unusable now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/22 03:33 PM
1

This is statistics, not behavioral science. There are always exceptions. Their existence improves the chance that we have a valid sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:36 PM
1

To restate: Pair bonding is no guarantee of quality. Longevity is evidence of a bond, regardless of causality. Social construction is an irrelevant consideration here, as this is evaluation of those for effectiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:31 PM
1

All of which are motivators towards... pair bonding. No one said pair bonding led to happiness or actualization. But sticking together is bonding, by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:10 AM
1

Look at census data of married women who have been married over 20 years. This is a realistic representation of a successful pair bond. The median age at marriage of such women is 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:41 PM
2

Crime and consent are two different concepts. I'm not surprised you lack this discernment. You do get that there's a large difference in ethical consideration between a woman asking a man on a date, and some one requesting euthanasia, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:09 PM
2

Ok, sure, feel free to deny others agency. Live your life. It's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:25 PM
8

The concept of "consent" is lost on you, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:12 PM
3

This one just doesn't seem to understand the concept of consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:09 PM
5

He didn't say he didn't give anything back, either. When you make an accusation like that, you ought to show evidence to support it,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:18 PM
6

Where did he take without her freely offering? And where did he say he wasn't concerned for her well being? She bought him the console, because *she* wanted to. I'd say that's the definition of "agency".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:01 PM
12

Exploited? How is this exploitation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:54 PM
2

Obesity. She's shaggable, but not presentable. And she has a grown kid who she refuses to show the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:11 PM
1

Well, she sounds fine. I'd want something from her side too... How wealthy is she? If I'm the live in handyman and babysitter, I couldn't possibly be expected to bring in money as well, right? And I surely wouldn't want her to hold down a job either, because how could she be a good GF to me, if she hasn't got the time. So she'd better be an heiress, or a wealthy widow, and seeking a man to help her manage her money, as well. Can't really see how fit she is, but that's also a must. I get that a k…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/22 11:22 PM
2

" I think many women are going to be completely screwed when they need a BB" Nah, modern woman are strong and independent queans. They don't need a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:17 PM
2

Dry, wry, dark humor. PhD scientist. 6'1", full head of hair, scruffy beard. Diligent investor means I'm now a millionaire. I drink socially but never smoke tobacco or weed. Love to cook and read. I travel a great deal for fun, and want someone to do it with. I own a couple houses that need renovation and redecorating. I'm picky though. I date childfree women 35-45, who behave responsibly and stay fit. Low maintenance, down to earth types with sweet demeanors. Someone who likes to garden would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:56 PM
19

"You're not fat" "You're way prettier than her"
/r/TheRedPill28/07/22 04:11 PM
44

Oh, no, you'll never be the father. You will have no power to discipline the kid. And you are to be discarded if the baby daddy ever comes back. You have no claim. You're just the ATM.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/22 05:06 PM
7

I never started playing games. Too bad for her that she did. Doesn't look like she's very good at them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/22 05:02 PM
9

Yeah, I think this is a trope that gets re-written for each audience. Maybe for educational purposes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 03:32 PM
14

It's almost a direct copy of this article from Singapore (!) : https://singaporeuncensored.com/girl-slept-with-36-men-gets-judged-by-all-her-subsequent-dates/?feed_id=42172 I hate how men value my body count To start this out I’m 23 and have slept with 36 men which I know is more than average but it’s my life I wanted to have all the fun I can. In the last year I’ve calmed down and want to settle down and find a man to settle down with and start a family but that’s impossible. When I match with …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 03:02 PM
12

This. Ex-cons who are hot, clean up with the hoes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/22 01:55 PM
4

Helps to grow her hair, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:45 PM
45

I don't want a woman I have to "deal with". I want a woman that helps me recover from having to deal with everything else.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/22 06:26 AM
112

Content creator? Does she make educational documentaries?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/22 01:03 AM
6

Gosh, whatever will I do without her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/22 09:54 PM
6

Naw I would only date such a woman if I were broke, unemployed, and homeless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/22 09:50 PM
2

Well, perhaps on a larger scale in the discussion, sure. But even so, such discussion must be considered free speech, no? And again, how does this discussion infringe on anyone elses bodily autonomy? As I said, it's just an expression of feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:01 PM
6

Thank you, but I'm actually an older fellow. I'm in the dating marketplace seeking a woman who is my match.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:58 PM
3

My private feelings deny someone else sovereignty over their own body? How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:57 PM
2

Really? I've never noticed that. From what I've seen, TRP just allows men to make judgement on individual women, using information on those women's sexual behavior as a guide. But even if they did feel that way, how does that deny anything to the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:54 PM
2

An example of a right denied to women by TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:49 PM
10

Fair enough. The problem from where I sit, is those women who are 4s all like to think of themselves as 8s and will only talk to men who are 9s and 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:48 PM
8

Value in the marketplace isn't just about looks. Weight for sure, but single motherhood even more. Responsible behavior is a huge plus, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:36 PM
3

I too would like to know what you are thinking of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:30 PM
2

This
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:21 PM
2

That would be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:09 PM
13

Part of the problem here is that women don't want men who are similar to them. They want men that are better than them. When they finally get rejected by all those, only then do they turn to similar guys, and think of themselves as "settling". Guys are waking up to this, and thus, red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:08 PM
2

Indeed. That's real equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:03 PM
4

It would also destroy the "market", if women refused to have sex with any man that wasn't monogamous. There have been cultures where everyone was simply issued a partner, as soon as they were deemed ready for marriage, i.e. arranged marriage. The resulting couples weren't always perfectly happy, but they got the support of the community, and the society was able to perpetuate itself. But that would be patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:02 PM
11

Yay! I'm special! I'll just hop right on this short bus and head right over there!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/22 01:31 PM
2

Dammit, I just shaved my neckbeard off!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:47 AM
12

IF dudes are nopeing off her ("can't handle"), you know she's the problem. It would be lovely if landwhales would date only within their species.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/22 12:49 PM
17

Yes, and of course this same woman ages, gets fatter, and maybe even cranks out a few more illegitimate kids in the meantime. But her standards have risen. Car lots offer discounts on last year's models left over. If they didn't, they'd never move them. Women have yet to figure this out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/22 11:52 AM
9

I hear yah.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/22 11:39 AM
27

It means he doesn't sleep on a mattress on the floor. Or a sofa. She wants a guy who has furniture in his apartment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/22 09:23 AM
26

I must date nerdier girls than you.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 04:16 PM
71

Dont ask her out for a date. Just ask her along when you do something you normally do. Go shopping for comic books? Great. See a band? Sure. Frisbee in the park? You get the idea. Then invite her over. Have condoms ready, she may jump you.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 08:03 AM
2

I wouldn't be that mean about it. Just find out if her words are crocodile tears.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 06:32 PM
4

Pretend to be slightly upset. Use it as leverage. No need to be mean about it, but get what you want if you can. Continue to seek out others. Keep your frame.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 06:05 PM
0

Not all red pill men GTOW. Red pill just means being aware, not any particular prescribed course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:17 PM
4

I like to teach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:07 AM
41

Shed be great, if I were homeless and broke. She wants to travel? I can teach her how to hop freights.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/22 12:25 AM
2

No, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:56 AM
2

I just want one woman. Sure, she should be hot, sweet, strong of character, intellectually interesting, undemanding, generous with her time and energy, modest, and just as hot for me as I am of her. That's it. I would have no reason to stray. I have no FOMO, and while I can be a bad boy, I strive to keep promises.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:09 PM
1

Don't date. Court.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:25 PM
24

She wants kids at 38, after divorcing a guy she had no kids with. This says a lot about her judgment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/22 12:35 AM
2

Pick the woman that is willing to share the struggle with you. Not the one that waits for you at the finish line. Shared struggle builds the strongest bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:13 PM
8

Sarcasm is hardly called for. Do you keep receipts? Are there taxable events, that you must report?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:27 PM
9

Yes now that the qualitative characterization has been established, I'm curious about the quantitative element, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:23 PM
15

So, you get things of monetary value, in exchange for sex. What would you say is the approximate dollar value of a sex session with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:16 PM
14

85% of women in marriages lasting longer than 20 years married before 24. (In the US). If a stable, long-term marriage is what you want, marry young.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 08:11 AM
12

I never really did that, after high school, just lead an active life. But things slowed down during covid, so I joined a gym, first time, at 55. Mostly i just swim for cardio.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/22 12:29 AM
16

50s are better in some ways than 40s, I certainly have more money. I retired at 50, and just do gigs and consulting now, very rarely. So lots of leisure time. I was travelling a great deal, pre pandemic. So I want to start again now. As for women, I get all I want, but I want less than before. My junk still works just fine, so maybe I'm lucky there. Making new friends in general is harder in ones 50s also. And then there's minor health issues. Mostly joint pain. It starts now, and gets worse fro…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/22 12:26 AM
17

A fella should probably do that, anyway, around age 45 or so.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 11:47 PM
1

She's “isn’t looking to be anyone’s anything”. I am giving her her wish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/07/22 07:20 PM
134

This is right in the feels. At 19,20,21, I would have done anything to be married. I wanted a partner, with whom to share the struggles of young adulthood, secure our educations, careers and future together, and then have some kids. It's through shared struggle, after all, that the strongest bonds are made. But I gave up on that, by mid 20s, and joined the fun, became a huge Chad. Sure, getting ahead was hard work, but I did it, on my own. By 30 or so, it was the women who wanted the ring. F tha…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 10:24 AM
28

Her terms are acceptable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/22 11:46 AM
7

So, her real number is 50 or 60. She's the Holland Tunnel at rush hour.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/22 05:28 PM
15

Thin arms? This one already has massive batwings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/22 04:23 PM
-1

Mambo your language any way you dog to, face man. It's your banana patch.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/22 02:20 AM
14

Unmarried young men are a destabilizing factor in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:07 PM
97

I have many female bi friends. Something like 90%+ ended up in LTRs with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:14 AM
16

Sounds great. I'd take it. If I were homeless. Or if she was an heiress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/22 05:41 PM
39

There's no room for softness... not in Sparta. No place for weakness. Only the hard and strong may call themselves Spartans. Only the hard, only the strong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/22 05:35 PM
3

If she makes him wait any longer than any other guy, he should walk. You gotta know your worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:59 PM
21

Or he already is living with someone. Remember, it's easy to find husbands on OLD... Someone else's husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 06:25 PM
2

My parents were very reticent. But they were together 56 years.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/22 04:58 AM
4

It works so much better to let them come to you. Polite rejection is a skill I've had to hone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:34 AM
40

Save yourself for as long as you like, sweaty. I'll just be elsewhere, uh, checking my male privilege. Yeah, that's it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/22 03:13 AM
1

Her office, then, is her chad. I'm not much into cuck fantasies, like it seems you are, but if you are, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:43 PM
1

She actually has more money than me, I know this, I helped her with her taxes this year. We are both wealthy, but she has a bit more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:40 PM
1

Hm, believe what you like. We dont really have an open relationship, she really hasn't the time. She has a professional job with 55+ hr weeks. Some people have actual lives, offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:35 PM
1

Dude, they do that kind of shaming bullshit at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:26 PM
2

Well, its Sunday morning here, and I am literally at this moment redditing at my 36 yo gfs kitchen table, having our morning coffee together after our usual Saturday night date. So, it might be a story, but it's not a fictional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:13 PM
1

Plenty of 50+ women will go after a 50+ guy dating a 35yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:54 PM
3

I'm 57, and often date women in their 30s. I have often been told by women my own age they they didn't like that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:52 PM
0

The old math was half plus seven. So 18 f with 22 m 22 f with 30 m.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:45 PM
1

When she asks for money, offer instead to open the relationship. You help her find guys to sugar, then split the proceeds. Meanwhile, you find other women to help do the same. Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 12:40 PM
11

Disappointed she's not an actual princess. Cause vast wealth and titles is pretty much the only way I'd go for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 04:12 PM
-11

He never pays his bills anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/22 08:30 PM
1

Best advice my father ever gave me: "A gentleman never tells"
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 07:45 AM
22

What's cruel is that she is not telling him the real truth. Withholding information denies him a choice.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:02 PM
41

She needs to let this J guy go. That's cruel as fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 11:42 AM
3

The way I mostly hear it used, "gentleman" is a euphemism for "user of prostitutes". This could be the case, here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:28 AM
4

Travel is most definitely my hobby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/22 12:15 AM
22

God the Father was known to have several cars. A Plymouth: "God drove Adam and Eve out of the Garden of Eden in a Fury." - Genesis 3:22 and a Pontiac as well as a Geo: "pursue your enemies with your Tempest and terrify them with your Storm." - Psalm 83:15 Moses, of course had a British motorcycle, and it's possible that Joshua got it later: "the roar of Moses' Triumph is heard in the hills." Exodus 32:18 "Joshua's Triumph was heard throughout the land." Joshua 6:27
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 06:55 AM
15

It's pretty clear St John had an Accord, also, but the other disciples used a different one: John 12:49 "I do not speak of my own Accord".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 05:36 AM
6

Well, when women starting being online or club hoes, men realized there was no need to offer real companionship to THOSE women. The women who would make good partners stayed just the same, and men who wanted them went with them. What women don't seem to get, is that while they get a choice, they get just one choice. Once you pick slutitude, you don't get to go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:46 PM
1

Feelings get people in trouble all the time. But your feelings are what they are. It's your actions that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:57 PM
6

The actions are unequal. The feelings are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:55 PM
3

Such women are wanted. But what are they wanted for? In a patriarchal world, women are divided up into those you would marry, and those you would have casual sex with. These latter could be pickup club girls / Tinderellas, or long term side pieces, or just outright hookers. Do we have a patriarchal world? No, we do not. Nor do we have a truly feminist world either. The truth is somewhere in between. PP is about discussing what the world ought to be, and how to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:54 PM
10

Women only think of a small subset of men, which is why they think that men have it easier in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:10 PM
4

That's more or less how I played, most of my life. 3-4 regulars, occasionally a new one. Honestly, women can be tiring, so that's enough for me. Once I hit early 50s, i slowed down a lot, so much less lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:43 AM
31

The dishwasher is making funny noises.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 02:37 AM
16

A stepdad finishes the race, sure. But he came in last, and got the consolation prize.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/22 02:30 AM
7

Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:23 PM
4

Men only get to choose from amongst those women that don't ignore us. Many men are left with few, or no options because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 07:17 PM
1

Commodification is pretty much what OP is asking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:17 AM
1

How about instead of the men paying directly, you just have Tinder pay? A certain dollar amount for each guy you meet. Tinder gets most of its money from men already, it could just share it with the women. It could vary by time and location, just like Uber pricing. Then, let the men leave reviews, just like Uber riders do on drivers. Hmm, how to make this work with GLBT+...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:15 AM
17

Free ankle bracelet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 01:06 PM
51

She does have a point. I don't want to date a woman I can't lift.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/22 01:01 PM
4

protected their lovers’ reputations I'll never forget my father teaching me "A gentleman never tells"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:07 PM
1

I was about to say that to you. When you resort to insult in a debate forum, it's understood you have lost the debate. And yet you are still here. As for me, I'm still maintaining my frame of amused detachment, like RP teaches us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:54 AM
1

Are you just bored?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:34 AM
1

If by that you mean post nut clarity, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:30 AM
1

Guess I never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:25 AM
1

If you want sex, you wait for them to come to you. They will do that, if they don't feel threatened. If you are a known quantity. If you are seen as safe. RP is about knowing female nature. Women are afraid of men. Be less fearsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:29 AM
1

That has less to do with "getting laid" than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:15 AM
1

Are you projecting something onto me that isn't there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:04 AM
1

So do i
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:51 AM
2

I have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:12 AM
9

Some of us really like women, and enjoy their company.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 06:52 AM
27

“For we each of us deserve everything, every luxury that was ever piled in the tombs of the dead kings, and we each of us deserve nothing, not a mouthful of bread in hunger. Have we not eaten while another starved? Will you punish us for that? Will you reward us for the virtue of starving while others ate? No man earns punishment, no man earns reward. Free your mind of the idea of deserving, the idea of earning, and you will begin to be able to think.” ― Ursula K. Le Guin, The Dispossessed
/r/TheRedPill18/05/22 06:48 PM
36

Yes. Build your life, but leave a woman sized hole in it for her to get into. Then let her come and find that space.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/22 09:42 AM
1

Yes. I would have had no problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:48 PM
1

I dont know. I would have found that acceptable. I just wouldn't have wanted to be made to wait, if others had not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:41 PM
1

Yes, and something reasonable would have been acceptable. Sure, first time moms can happen in the 40s. But the likelihood of serious problems goes up dramatically at around 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:39 PM
2

Not terribly, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:37 PM
3

Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:24 AM
1

Bottom line, at 29 I was exactly what all those "where are all the good men" women claim to want, PhD, large income, marriage minded, tall, all my own teeth, clean fingernails, full head of hair, fit, conversational, caring. But none of them were worth having. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:01 AM
1

Exactly how did these people learn about things done in discretion? You seem to think you have detailed information about my life 30 years ago, when you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:55 AM
1

You are confusing the order of causality. I needed more experience, as the marriageable women were rejecting me. Then there weren't any, because I wasn't flashing money. Then I had social skills and money, but marriageable women ceased to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:49 AM
2

I wasn't "hooking up" in my middle 20s, I was going to grad school and looking for a wife. I needed that education to get the job and money for a good life with her. I increased my efforts after 29, because the demands on my time from my job was much less than from grad school, and I had more money as well. Lots of women wanted to pair off with me, but none were wife material. So, you tell me, where were the good women? Are there any?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:29 AM
1

I'm not an angry person, at all. I don't have the energy to give to anger. Life is too short. Disappointment, though, yeah, I have lots of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:40 PM
1

I'd say that most of those are quite reasonable, and aren't "huge" asterisks. Virginity makes no difference to me, but experience has showed me that highly promiscuous women would be poor choices for marriage. There's a happy medium in there somewhere. I don't care about hair, tattoos, or piercings. Tastefully done, I rather like them. And I really like smart women with strong opinions. I just don't want every homecoming to be an argument. And age is crucial, if you want to make kids. You really…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:37 PM
2

It's obvious that none of these were "random". I chose very carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:28 PM
3

34m seeking 27f is hardly a "middle aged man". And in no way am I any sort of "player". My intention all along was to find marriage and family life. The exact opposite of a player.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:19 PM
2

Strangely, lots of women were quite interested in me, indeed. I actually did much more screening than seeking. All I'm guilty of is occasionally letting an unqualified one in, now and then, because I didn't want to be lonely. The "experience" part was mostly when I was very young (18-21 or so). Once I had that experience, experience was no longer a motivator.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:12 PM
2

No, the obvious things were obvious. The debt, health, and substance problems take time to find out. And most crucially, so does the willingness to marry and create a family. And it was 24 years, not 14. Edited for clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:01 PM
6

Speaking as a Pirate, I stand firmly behind this thesis.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 09:54 PM
4

Yes, in my 30s I was still open for marriage and family. I was a very good earner, lived frugally, invested shrewdy. But my age peer counterparts were beginning to be too old for starting a family. Or they had already had a kid. Or worse, had suffered from mental illness or addiction, or were crushed under staggering debt and seeking a bailout. So, in my mid-30s, I aimed at women in their 20s. Few wanted to give up the fun life and become a wife and mother, and of those that did, they had the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:34 PM
3

I listed the screens I applied elsewhere, but here they are again. All who passed all 6 tests had no interest in marriage and family, at the time of my talking to them about it. Over 200 women, over the course of 24 years. Single motherhood. Chronic physical or mental illness. Obesity. Substance addiction. Evidence of financial irresponsibility. Or just being too old. I'm not angry, just disappointed. I wanted a family like the one I came from, an good one. I was willing and capable of doing eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:20 PM
5

Yes. I actively sought a marriage partner, with whom to build a family, for 24 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:06 PM
3

And that's exactly it. Why are women allowed to evolve into something other than their traditional roles, but men are not? I actually had this conversation on a recent first date. She told me she wanted a guy to be a traditional partner, to be a provider. I said I was fine with that, so long as it was with a woman that was herself a traditional woman, in a traditional partnership. She said she was looking more for a "hybrid" (her word) relationship. I laughed in her face. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:01 PM
1

I dunno if I qualify as red pill, but I totally wanted a wife. Problem is, lots of women want to be married, but have no idea how to be a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:53 PM
1

Yep. Lots of very nice women. I was just talking about those suitable for marriage and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:23 PM
5

Why did I do that? To learn. To avoid loneliness. To make circles of friends. But I didn't date obviously unsuitable ones when more apparently suitable ones were around. Sometimes, detecting unsuitability takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:37 AM
8

I would have preferred, all things being equal, that I had met someone when I myself was making my life 18-23 or so. We could have shared our struggle, and started earlier. But that hadn't happened, so I put my nose to the grad school grindstone, and began to look in earnest after I had gotten the PhD and high paying job, at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:18 AM
7

Yes, very many. There was always something that kept me from choosing them as a wife and mother of my kids. Single motherhood. Chronic physical or mental illness. Obesity. Substance addiction. Evidence of financial irresponsibility. Or just being too old. After grad school, I was actively looking. Counting the women I dated when younger, I got involved with something on the order of 200 women over the course 24 years. Not one passes all 6 tests. Sure, some I knew were not qualified from the star…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:15 AM
7

Sure, lots of people get married and have great lives together. But they aren't in the market. What's in the market isn't good. Lots of women paid lots of attention to me. But I found none of those to be suitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 03:01 AM
5

Hmm, good question. I was caring and loving, earn good money, fit and active, and not too bad looking. So, it'd be her call. Lots of non suitable women were sure interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:56 AM
2

Um, you dont have to actually keep the DNA provider around to get access to what he produces. The courts take care of that. Better still, you could marry a good earner, get knocked up by the DNA provider of your choice, then kick the earner to the curb, and still get a big chunk of his dough. Cool, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:32 PM
1

Yes. It's seen as much less weird when a woman does it to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:17 PM
23

I never had an anger phase. I wanted a suitable wife, when I was 18 to 42. There simply weren't any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:15 PM
8

Only respond if you have very little income and assets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 01:53 AM
7

This is Bumble.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/22 01:53 AM
1

Who knows. I know I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:31 AM
1

Back in college, I hooked up with a lot of gals I had no particular interest in, even though they did in me. Mostly for the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:31 PM
3

She says she is no longer impressed by money and looks. Great! Guys, we have our answer. Only poor, ugly dudes should talk to her. She can pick from them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/22 03:59 PM
2

No that's the exact opposite of what I said. Back in the day, I put in the work, in order to attract a long term partner. I get laid just fine, with very little work, both then and now. The whole point of having a partner is that we would have been an influence on one another, to build a family. Internal motivation made me educated, worldly and wealthy, but the influence of a partner would have been needed to make me a husband and father, and likewise in return. As for grooming, I have always do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:04 PM
1

I wasn't practicing to mislead. I was showing what I was capable of. Had what I wanted been found, I would have sustained the effort. You are making it sound like I was running a con, I was not. I was living my best life, aiming to build the best possible version of myself. Now I live a comfortable life, content with simple happiness. A true partner could have participated in excellence as well as happiness, but there were none. So happiness alone suffices. ​ Disappointment in the American femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:36 PM
4

You miss my point. I no longer make that effort, and instead simply live my life as it is. I'm much happier this way. But back when I was younger, I met many women who were very attracted to me. But none of them were worth the effort I had put in. So now I don't. Some are still attracted, nevertheless. But I'm no longer seeking a partner, just good times. This makes it much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 05:23 PM
19

Yes, it's easy. The hard part is finding someone worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:59 AM
0

Divorce costs men substantially more than it costs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:19 PM
1

Research scientist/ chemical engineer. Retired. Some of my career was in the cosmetics industry, so I had a fairly gender balanced peer cohort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:24 PM
3

You can try, if you like. I know I won't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/22 10:22 PM
1

I have no objection to women wearing a little make up. It's when they scoop it on with a trowel that it looks awful. Really, all it takes is a bit around the eyes, and maybe some nice color to the lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:41 PM
23

"Ghost for no reason". As if being a Demi Lovato fan isn't enough of a reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/22 04:20 PM
7

Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:21 AM
5

Sure. And that works well. Until some better woman comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:33 PM
13

Exactly. I'm been ready for commitment my entire adult life, but none of the women who felt the same were worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:59 PM
117

They want men with options, then hate it when they are treated as optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:33 PM
8

Hey, as long as she has a good sofa, some sort of gaming device and good cable service, and a fridge full of snacks, I'm down. Beats the homeless camp.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/22 12:23 PM
20

I'd be fine with this. As long as shed be ok with me not working.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/05/22 04:24 PM
0

It's more than just porn. They will even pay bulls to do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:31 PM
17

Can you repost them here, so we don't have to follow the links?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/22 06:00 PM
2

The fish is coming from inside the house.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/22 01:59 PM
1

Sure. But it's not an effective tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:57 PM
0

Dont be ridiculous. Women will date guys freshly released from prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:39 PM
2

Women want men with options. They just don't want to be treated as optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:36 PM
12

Maybe she learned her lesson. Too late, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/22 03:28 PM
20

I'd totally be into this one... if I were unemployed and homeless.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/22 05:14 AM
54

As one ages as a single person, one has to open ones mind to a broader set of parameters in choosing a partner. Fewer ideal choices are available. Becoming pickier and selecting from a smaller group is the exactly wrong tactic. These things are true, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:39 AM
2

Not if its outside the courts jurisdiction
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 12:44 PM
32

I've seen this many times, but theres 2 more pages. He basically tells her to f off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/22 02:10 AM
7

Greater chance of STDs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 07:43 PM
6

Recreational use only. Guard your DNA. Watch out for STDs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 07:41 PM
12

That's right, 36 dudes, and none chose her. There's just one thing they all have in common.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 07:39 PM
10

No, she said she got a good job after high school. So she's out. At least she hasn't destroyed her financial future working towards her Master's in Babylonian Feminist Basketweaving Studies. Also no kids mentioned. She could just not saying, and of course if she finds a guy fast there might be a surprise birth in about 6 months. But yeah, 36 is very nearly a whole football team. Of course 36 is just the number of dudes she *slept* with. No count on how many times she's slipped into the alley beh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 07:34 PM
25

Men don't need to understand women, women understand women. And they hate each other.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 07:09 PM
3

I really should get a 4chan account.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 06:45 PM
30

And pray the BTC market never crashes. And don't forget your password.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 06:43 PM
20

She should marry that one, not the one she's with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 06:13 PM
6

? A large number of countries end in A. China, India, Indonesia, Australia, Canada, Russia, Ethiopia, Nigeria, South Africa, Malaysia, Sri Lanka, Argentina, Colombia, Algeria, Saudi Arabia. I could go on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 06:03 PM
50

Not a prenup. Use a trust. Offshore that shit. Yourself as both trustee and beneficiary. All securities and real estate owned by it. Sometimes you take a tax hit, but it's worth it. Trusted blood relative as your heir. Do it, before "I do".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/22 05:57 PM
3

Post op transwoman, trying to fake her way into heteronormal?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 06:13 PM
14

Confederate flag = literal red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/22 10:59 AM
1

And now, he is. Na hui, indeed.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 10:29 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:13 PM
13

80% of men in OLD were seen as "below average" by 80% of women on OLD. Men OTOH, made a nice bell curve when asked to rate women's attractiveness. That's it. These numbers have to be taken in the context of there were once dramatically more men than women on OLD. Now, numbers are considerably more balanced, but no one has made a new survey.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:34 PM
-2

I'm not mad, at all. Pretty much the whole point of FDS is to find what they call HVMs who want to commit to them. They don't like it that such men can also find more attractive women than them, without realizing that it's their attitude that helps make them unattractive. As for my time, I sit at home on market days, on my computer, making money. Market is open 9:30-4:00, Eastern time. So posting online is a nice distraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:18 PM
1

Yup. I wouldn't call myself handsome, kinda average, IMO. But I got long wavy hair and blue eyes, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:12 PM
1

Exactly. I'm 6'1", a millionaire with a PhD. But I'm never getting married again. So, to FDS, I'm a Zero Value Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:02 PM
5

Correct. The only real value to most marriage for a male is assurance of paternity. As societies developed, more benefits accrued to married men, in regards to advancement and social status, but those days are gone. Sadly, without the ability to sanction wives for infidelity, the assurance of paternity has ceased to exist. I can only think of a few other circumstances where marriage is a positive for the man. 1) Conditional inheritance. Where one must be married in order to gain access to a fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:58 PM
54

I saw that, and thought "ew". Is she trying to entice a pedo?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/22 03:48 PM
21

Fuck no.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/22 12:43 AM
1

I care about zero - zero - zero. Zero kids Zero debt Size zero dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:07 PM
1

Don't just let it happen. Figure out what you want, then make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:21 PM
2

Sugar daddy with no sexual intimacy is just panhandling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/22 08:06 AM
6

Gotta lose the oneitis. Keep working out, building hobbies, making yourself interesting, and making money. Leave space for a woman, and they will appear. You just need to pick. Keep your standards very high.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 08:41 PM
0

Conditional inheritance. Second citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:55 PM
28

Hook up? No. I just don't get that desperate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 01:00 PM
24

Where's my 0-0-0 girl? Zero kids Zero debt Size zero dress
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/22 12:55 PM
10

At least I was totally honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:53 PM
1

He could do better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 05:51 PM
4

I find that ages that end in "9" are often approximations. More likely early 50s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 05:51 PM
9

Most guys in their 60s can do better.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 05:48 PM
20

I noticed that, too. All this, in the "about me" section. Of course she wants those things, what woman doesn't? But what can she say about herself that might attract such a man?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/22 11:29 AM
79

The ad I got more responses than any other from said just this: Emotionally unavailable Slightly alcoholic Kind of a douche Six feet tall
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:23 PM
6

Back in the early 60s, Sophia Loren was called "curvy". Compared to Hollywood starlets, she was quite substantial. She ate pasta, and was unashamed of it. She was 5 foot 9, and weighed 145 pounds. She wore a size 4 dress. Give me.curvy woman like that all day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/22 11:34 PM
10

Which is ironic, because in person, they won't shut up about themselves.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 06:30 AM
7

Now, now, fellas, I'd move in with that... if I was unemployed and living in a homeless camp. I know my worth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/22 06:27 AM
18

I need a woman with an intact body, not a hag with one that's falling apart. Also I think this one might have dyslexia. She's closer to 53, than 35.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 07:39 PM
14

I used 65 kg, as that was Sophia Lorens weight at the height of her stardom. She is 5'9". She was considered "plus sized" in her time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 02:44 PM
19

Sounds like you need to meet different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:29 PM
8

Yes, and I'm also older. So I've been "gotten" plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:37 AM
2

Holy shit, cheesecake? Hell, I'd ask you to marry me sighr unseen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:32 AM
26

Hmm, well, I feel that a pretty bigoted view of half of humanity. "Claws", indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:31 AM
22

Ensnare? That's a rather loaded word, dont you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:29 AM
1

This, very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:28 AM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:20 AM
66

I'm curious what she might call a woman over 65 kg?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/22 11:19 AM
0

Well, consent can be withdrawn at will, so he can do whatever he likes about it, as long as he does not practice to decieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:17 AM
0

Yeah... in case no one told you, conservatism in sexuality is a kink. It come down to this, though, in this case: Did both parties give consent to this arrangement? If yes, then fine. If not, then one is attempting to negate another's agency, and that's abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:02 AM
0

That's fine, if that's what they agree to. Far be it from me to kinkshame. But it sounds like this guy didn't agree to this. But it's silly to think you can have an exclusive sexual relationship, if you aren't actually having a sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:53 AM
1

What did the parties give consent to?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:32 AM
-1

Until the relationship is a sexual one, it wouldn't be "cheating". Even then, it's not "cheating", until both agree the relationship is an exclusive one. It's about consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:04 AM
2

Men generate resources. Society exists to extract those resources. Sure, some goes to women and children. But some also goes to men who have much and want more. Fight against extraction, except on your own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:32 AM
10

Clearly she needs a guy who's "special" and that she can "connect" to. Well, she's in luck! I know a ton of such guys! Sure, they are short, balding, and unemployed. But those things shouldn't matter to such a "clear and natural" woman like her, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 02:00 PM
14

Stopped being interested in marriage altogether in my early 40s. No point in it. Maybe if she's insanely rich.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/22 01:35 AM
3

I, too, would be shocked by honesty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 10:38 PM
39

I wanted to get married, from 18 all the way to about 42. Through my 20s, I had very little money, even though I was pretty fit (and I am fairly tall), so I struck out a lot. But once I had that STEM PhD, and the nice salary that came with it, boy! The women came from everywhere. I just had a few requirements for the prospective wife and mother of my kids. First, she had to be young enough for healthy offspring, say 32 or so, max. She had to have no kids of her own, already. No signs of serious …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 06:27 PM
43

She's in Spain. There's no need to use feet and inches there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/22 05:51 PM
6

But I wanna be a stay-at-home step dad! Surely that's ok! Equality!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/22 01:08 PM
20

Wonder where she's travelled to? I'd tell her I'd love those things. But I'm broke AF. Is that ok?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 11:02 AM
1

Back when I was deep into BDSM, that's exactly what I liked to do to subs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 05:16 AM
3

Shh! Dont give away the cheat code!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 05:04 AM
49

You have won the days Internet Award.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/22 04:33 AM
5

Pharmacists get good pay. It's possible she is keeping up on her payments. It's her personality that would have kept me away.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 07:09 AM
1

What we need to do is totally ignore inadequate women. Especially if one is a quality man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 03:40 AM
4

I got my PhD at 29, landed a pretty high power job. I began looking for wife prospects. 32 was my upper cutoff age, and remained so until I quit looking at 42. This is a pharmacist, so she'd probably be ok in my book, back then. But she sounds insufferable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/22 03:17 AM
84

I think shed rather be with Denzel.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 12:39 AM
39

If The Rock had made the joke, Jada would likely have gotten horny, not offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:45 PM
24

It's nice she knows what she's looking for. I know what I'm looking for, too, someone fit, isn't a single mom, and only drinks in moderation. An accent would actually be kinda cool.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/22 04:14 AM
1

Build looks and wealth till the mid 30s power flip, then lock in a high quality younger partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 11:12 AM
34

I figure if she's a "foodie", she can cook for me. Put the kids to bed early, I'll be over for that steak and creme brulee at 8:30.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/22 08:04 AM
1

What's unacceptable is that male shaming is about baldness or height, which is difficult to impossible to correct. Female shaming is mostly weight, which is addressable by diet and exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:36 PM
53

Retired under 30! She must have really struck it big in the modelling game. She should share her good fortune by taking in a gentlemanly homeless dude, give him a car, music and good food, and take him adventuring and travelling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 07:53 PM
27

Homeless camps are full of men. Pick one, wash him, rail him, feed him. Now you are both happy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 04:00 PM
17

"Thick" is usually misunderstood by women to mean just "fat", but it's not. Sure, it can mean a big butt and bust, but it also means a thin waist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:06 PM
7

Sugar babies. Pros who don't wanna be called pros.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/22 02:02 PM
22

300k/yr might sound like a lot, but it's amazing how fast it goes. The family might have a few more vacations in nicer places, and some better Xmas presents, but really that's just upper middle class dough. Especially when you get kids in college. Mom and dad will have a nice IRA when they retire, and she might not be saddled with so much student debt, and might even get some dough for a first house down payment. But she's not what rich people call rich.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/22 12:23 AM
21

How much did daddy spoil her, and blow his money on his princess? Or was he frugal, and kept her allowance short? Dads can create expectations in daughters like no other.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/22 12:11 AM
6

BMI is a poor metric for women. But it's easy to use. Much better is waist to hip ratio, which ought to be under 70%.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 06:12 PM
19

Yep, she's right near the end of the possibility.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 06:06 PM
31

33 BMI = "Moderately Obese". She needs to lose 45 lbs before she's healthy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 05:02 PM
6

Hey, could you also provide a pronunciation guide?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/22 05:55 AM
25

Interests: "Photography". She's not a bird watcher, I'm guessing. This is a porn ad. If she is looking to date, tho, "recreational use only"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 03:54 PM
5

I know loads of bi guys who are the masculine one with a woman, but feminine with a guy. So switching up roles isn't rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:18 PM
2

Well, if she's got the capacity to earn a lot of money, she doesn't need me to be rich. She can come here, work, and sex me up for the green card marriage, and once she's got it, she can be on her way. She shouldn't mind a bit if I put all my assets in a trust first then, right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 10:40 PM
1

Good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:33 PM
1

You have confused two different scenarios I outlined for an example. I should re-edit. I mean in Example 1, he still has feelings. Not Example 3. Edit: done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:30 PM
1

But what if Ward still does indeed have feelings for June in Scenario 1? He hides his affair, so as to not imperil his marriage and family. "Ownership"? Sheesh, that's a stretch. People have agency. You don't own them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:47 PM
20

Geez. Live life on her terms? She JUST said what her terms were, and woman #2 totally ignored her. Women like #2 want to negate other women's agency. Likely because she doesn't want the #1s of the world to remove any more decent men from the pool. The competition is deep.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/22 01:25 PM
1

Sigh. First, lets define "cheating". In all the context involved in this thread, I have assumed that is is synonymous with "adultery", i.e. a married person engaging in sexual relations with a person not their spouse, and hiding this from said spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:08 PM
0

I'm not saying that cheating isn't wrong. It is, regardless of who does it. I'm just saying its different between the genders. It's *why* it's wrong for men vs women, that makes the difference. It goes to the understanding of social function of marriage as an institution. It's also why, when a woman cheat, it's usually because she is actually interviewing a replacement. Men, on the other hand, generally do not want to give up on functional marriages, just for a side piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:59 PM
0

Scenario 3: Instead of coming home with his paycheck, Ward picks up the secretary at the end of the day, and drives to another state. June gets a divorce notice in the mail, and Ward has a Vegas wedding with the secretary. June, once reliant on Wards pay, cant pay the mortgage, and the house goes into foreclosure. June and the boys move in with Junes parents. Ward never speaks to June again. Ward has betrayed June.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:53 PM
1

I was saying the exact same thing about you. BTW, saying "no, you are" is not any form of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:50 PM
1

Scenario 2: While Ward is at work, June bangs the milkman.This being 1954, there's no such thing as the pill, and indeed, only sailors and hookers use birth control. June might be pregnant."Oh well", June says, "I can just tell Ward it's his, and raise it like Wally and the Beav". June has both cheated on, and betrayed, Ward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:46 PM
-1

When a woman does it, yes it is. Male betrayal is different. Scenario 1: Ward Cleaver gets up and goes to the office.While there, over lunch, he takes his secretary to a no-tell motel and rails her.He then goes back to the office, picks up his paycheck and brings it home to June.June uses the money to pay the mortgage and for Wally's braces.Ward tell June nothing about his secretary, and kisses her good night before falling asleep. Ward has cheated, yes, but he has not betrayed, June. Their marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:42 PM
0

You seem to not understand the difference between cheating and betrayal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:32 PM
0

Says the person who speaks in contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:23 PM
1

It's just a saying. But it seems to have flown right over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 12:18 PM
-2

"Men cheat, women betray"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 11:07 AM
4

"discreet", not "discrete".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:25 AM
7

Well, perhaps you are lucky. But I have been both kinds of guy, and it's as real as I can believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:46 PM
7

Indeed, the only problem is that most women choose the same small number of guys. There's little variance in their choice criteria. So those guys get an abundance of choice themselves, and most get none at all. Women want the kind of men who have options, but are upset when they are then treated as optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:12 PM
2

She actually sounds fine, if she's in a good age range. Naturally, you'd want to live with her in a low cost country where traditionalism is still supported, and not a land with golden streets that lead to the shopping malls where she can punch her ticket for her green card, then D-grape you. Naturally you'd get a small, minimalist pad, where there'd be no possibility of her inviting her extended family to live. Of course, you'd need to do your due diligence, her ex'es, any hidden b@stards, debt…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 09:07 PM
8

Prostitutes are also expensive. Lots of guys don't have that much dough just laying around. But it'd be a mistake to think prostitution is principally about sex. Most prostitutes will tell you, that the main reason men hire them is they need an intimate partner to listen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:49 PM
11

It's not exactly difficult to find... But finding one that won't rip you off, give you a disease, get a pimp to attack you, or just attract too much attention, is. Not to mention cops running stings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:04 PM
10

If you have anger issues, I don't want you around any kids I'm responsible for. Done.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 08:00 PM
7

I'm sure the dynamic is yet to be revealed. A study can only take a snapshot, after all. People enter and leave the dating pool for all sorts of reasons. But the main takeaway, as I have perceived it, is simply that women are choosy, and the criteria for their choice doesn't vary much, from woman to woman. And I also think it has always been this way, ever since Western society eliminated arranged marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:57 PM
6

Yeah, I smelled that on her shoe, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:18 PM
12

Continue to work. Find a widower with kids who wants to be a SAHD, marry and adopt. Equality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:12 PM
13

80/20 is of single men, in the dating market. 80% of men get almost zero attention. 20% get almost all of it. If a guy gets out of the market, he's no longer in the metric. it's not 80/20 for all humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:02 PM
13

And that's the real answer. She wants the hot, steamy, kinky shit with a guy who doesn't even know her name. Then take that damage to her simp. Guess which position she's advertising for?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 06:33 PM
1

I live in a metro area of 3 million. So, maybe 15 miles?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 07:21 AM
2

Back in the day, adultery was heavily punished, so a man could be assured of the paternity of his heirs. This motivated him to work hard for the benefit of subsequent generations. This was good, then, for society as a whole, economically speaking. Once we stopped punishing adultery, there's much less point. The only real benefit to the man was the care given to him by his spouse. If that's gone, too, then marriage has no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:59 PM
3

Put your premarital assets into a trust. Securities and real estate. She doesn't marry the trust, she marries you. Only what's earned during the marriage gets shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:58 AM
2

I dunno. I'd marry, if I were homeless, an alcoholic, or a drug addict. Or maybe just broke, if I had a chronic disease, and she had good insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:57 AM
2

Sure, as long as she can keep the house clean, and it's big enough for me to move in. Oh, and I don't want to work, either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 10:10 PM
20

Sounds good. As long as you don't want me to get a job either. Got any savings?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 10:08 PM
1

Some people are just busy. A gal whos ok with a casual lunch on a first date is a good thing. Meet her for lunch, and decide after.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 06:16 PM
41

What physician has time for side businesses? Every real doctor I know is lucky if they can get together with friends once a month for a drink. Seems more likely she's some sort of naturopath/chiropractor/herbalist. Maybe a dermatologist, idk. I'd be interested to know what the age range she's seeking is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 06:11 PM
58

Played the game. Got the consolation prize.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/22 04:28 PM
13

Well, if she's that interested in being a mom, she should have done something about it by now. Maybe she's looking for a guy with kids, so she can step into that role. Single moms are always talking themselves up like kids are a bonus feature. Maybe this one wants to feel the same way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 10:14 PM
18

Spain is a land of cheap and abundant wine. California wine is simply not needed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 06:58 PM
86

She's childless at 35, but also "family oriented"? How's that possible? She needs a fat older man, of modest means, with a vasectomy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 06:25 PM
22

This is in Spain. Napa valley wine is not on the table.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 06:23 PM
3

Yep. I retired at 50 from being a chemical engineer. Now I work gigs, as an electrician. I might not make as much per hour, but I have much more fun and can work as little as I please.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/22 04:50 PM
1

We men compete with each other. The last thing we need is to come home and compete with our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:17 PM
4

Exactly *how* is it easier for a guy to earn money? Wage discrimination based on gender has been illegal in the US for well over 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 02:29 PM
22

Her SMV is likely fine. But that's not what she's looking for. She is delusional about her RMV, which is a very different thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 01:27 AM
10

Once again, the single mom overlooks the homeless population. Alternatively, since she will be available for fun once a month or so, she could be on someone's regular rotation, if she's attractive enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/22 01:25 AM
13

Shoulda tried that, 10+ years ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/22 11:29 PM
7

Indeed, this is how I often roll.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/22 09:08 PM
2

MBAs don't really count as "education", unless in a field that's practical. And if that's the way you go, you'd get a CPA.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:14 PM
1

Usually when a profile says "nurse", they mean nursing assistant, not a real RN nurse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 12:24 PM
2

Meanwhile, is she a clean and pure human being? Single motherhood says "no".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 12:23 PM
1

She should take in a homeless dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:04 AM
2

Exactly right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 01:01 AM
1

At 36, she should be done considering motherhood. I'd consider her for marriage only if she agrees to get her tubes tied. She also would need to be debt-free, and willing to continue on her job. And also willing to consider an older man, i.e. one who is also at the end of his good parenthood years, say 45.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 12:58 AM
4

​ After a bit, she's got a record of paychecks, change the locks, take out the restraining order while she's at work, and file for alimony and child support. Equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:37 PM
2

Quit your job a few months after the kid is born, and tell her to go back to work. Be a stay at home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:19 PM
0

And every one of them is a wealthy guy that an American woman can't claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 10:10 PM
23

Yeah, I've never worried about the tatts or piercings, in and of themselves. But a lot of women who do go there are often damaged in other ways as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 09:29 PM
11

Yep, bout the same for me, at 57.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 07:31 PM
93

Ok, so here I am. I retired at 50, and am now 57. I've been through several relationships in my life, but remain unmarried. I have plenty of money, but live a modest, low-consumption lifestyle. I sold my Mercedes after I retired, and now drive a Toyota. My modest 2br house in a middle class part of town is totally paid off. I want no kids. I travel a lot. I get laid now and then, but as I age I want it less and less. For me to partner up permanently with a woman, she'd have to be a pretty rare s…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/22 07:29 PM
3

You don't. Most women don't want to be approached, and those that do, only by very attractive men. If you are that attractive, they will approach you, but more subtly than a man would. But for most men, there's little point, and great risk, mostly of her reacting out of all proportion, making a scene, trying to get other men to confront you, getting you into trouble with work, authority, etc., in short, you can get "me too"ed. It's just not worth it. And why? Because you want sex? Buy sex, or ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:14 PM
14

Rich people use prenups far less than you might think. It's common in the newly-rich, and these tend to be seen more, such as athletes and entertainers. Real rich people, ones with long term generational wealth, use family trusts, offshore accounts, and corporate ownership arrangements. Who gets what in divorce is rarely a problem, as it's all worked out in advance. Since money problems are the most common cause of divorce, the true upper class has a very low divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:49 AM
1

I am ok with railing gals in open relationships. Even upgrading them to plates. In some ways, it's even better than single women, you never get the "what are we" conversation. But always take her to your place, never get action at hers, at least if you have a OPP. Always remember it's use as directed.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 01:56 PM
34

Same, sister. Just as well, my adult daughter would likely kick your ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 01:30 PM
1

What was it about that previous fellow that induced her to want that? Apparently, in this hypothetical woman's eyes, I don't have that same thing. Suppose we go on to have that LTR, and another fellow comes along with that same attribute that had induced this behavior before. Will she then cheat? Should I risk that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:03 PM
1

Your exact question was, is it fair? My answer was, fairness has nothing to do with it. Asked and answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:00 PM
1

See, I need to be the one most qualified man for her, ever. And she needs to show that, with her actions, not only with words or feelings. That, in turn, is what qualifies her to be with me. I would have a hard time seeing my standards as unreasonable. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:54 AM
1

When is life fair? I'm just telling you what the one girl for me would be like. Yes, she may have done an action in the past that she regrets. But actions have consequences, whether there are regrets or not. Until someone comes along qualified to shake me out of my present existence, I'm pretty happy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:47 AM
2

Perhaps I do deserve to be single. I rather like being single. I date widely, and have a substantial amount and variety of sex, as well as an active social life. But this is not about me and what I deserve. What do women deserve? For every guy that's single, one more woman is, too. What makes a woman deserve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:55 AM
2

If she's the one for me, she would make me wait no longer than any other man. If she has had a one night stand before, our first time should also be a one night stand. If her shortest time ever was month, or 6 months, it's not unreasonable for her to ask that of me as well. But if we are meant to be together, she needs to be at least as giving to me as any other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:47 AM
9

Wants a man with options. Surprised when she's treated as optional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 05:19 PM
7

Relationship market value
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 01:45 PM
14

Its laughable. I'm 57. I generally dont date women over 45. For that to be "pedophilia" is ridiculous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:24 AM
45

Competing for a quality mate is what women do. She is projecting female behavior onto men. She still has sufficient SMV to draw multiple Chads, but no RMV to lock any down. And she is not yet considering any betas, so she is yet to hit epiphany. This one is for the streets.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/22 08:20 AM
14

In womanese, "tiny chance" here means 50/50, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:21 PM
8

She needs a man. She should get one that's a good match for her. Similar income, or poorer, shorter, older, less fit. She at least isn't explicitly demanding the tall, fit, rich Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 04:09 AM
28

Easy. Find a guy that needs you more than you need him. But she won't do that. She will only look up, to rich, tall, handsome guys, and never down, to poor, struggling unattractive ones. If she ever does, likely she will resent having to do so, and take it out on the poor sap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 04:30 AM
17

Can't go tits up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 04:16 AM
1

Not "usually". It's about a 50-50 shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:55 AM
2

All RP has done for me is allow me to evaluate myself realistically, and only seek out women that are a better match, that is to say, it has raised my standards in women. No more attitude, no more entitled women. I don't date single moms any more, nor the obese, nor the irresponsible, nor those too old for me. I have become much wiser to the ways of gold diggers. Yes, I spend less time dating, but when I do, it's much better. And I get much more fulfillment out of my alone time. I have come to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:22 PM
3

The idea of you wasting her time implies that her time is somehow more valuable than yours. Don't make that assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:55 AM
1

LOL. Learn to be charming. Build social status. Learn to become the center of attention, at least part of the time. If you can be extroverted, learn to fake it. Confidence is very sexy. Pay attention to your grooming, dress, and physical conditioning. Get as much money as you can, but don't lead with your wallet. And it doesn't take lots of money to improve your attractiveness. Learn when a woman is giving you approachability cues, and let her into your space. That's when you can show your inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:53 AM
46

Smoking, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 05:24 AM
9

Yeah, this ones pretty round.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 04:54 AM
52

Exactly. I saw this, and said, man a lot of hard miles on that odometer, for 29.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 04:53 AM
1

There's simply a lack of suitable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:00 AM
2

Some of us here really do like women. But I treat men and women the same, in that I don't put up with nonsense from anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:18 PM
1

Not at all. OLD is for meeting IRL. Once that happens, there's zero difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:17 PM
8

Ah, she'd be fine for some impoverished senior citizen, with a paunch. Hope she likes it!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:29 PM
14

She says she "feels" she can seek fun elsewhere. Has she checked on how he feels?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 10:35 AM
14

This is a sugar daddy site, thus the high numbers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 10:35 AM
16

Should be a good match, if she wants a guy 15 years her senior, who's poor and out of shape. But at least she doesn't come with rug rats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 10:31 AM
9

You make a promise, you should keep it.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 12:25 PM
15

Very true. Men have the ability to separate emotion from action, much more than women. Cheating for men is usually only a physical act, not an emotional one. For women, it means she has chosen to take an emotional step away from her commitments.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 08:47 AM
16

I'm not excusing it. I'm saying it has different reasons.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 07:48 AM
97

Women cheat, as a step towards monkey branching. Female cheating is a betrayal. Male cheating is just play.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 11:04 PM
2

If he can do that, why would he not have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:18 PM
2

That's why you cut her out of that, and take her elsewhere.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/22 04:17 PM
1

Define "attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:21 PM
26

... Until they get some BB to buy her way out. Then, back to the games!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 11:22 PM
18

Get together with him, and *don't* have sex. See what happens. She can do what she wants, as long as she isn't cheating on a present BF with this ex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 08:20 PM
39

A good Bible loving woman will do as her man tells her. I'd tell her to get a job and lose my number.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 12:22 AM
7

It already has a Queen tho.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 12:13 AM
10

If you run into her, and want to smash, slide her a few bucks, like any other garden tool. No need to give your real name.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 05:57 AM
23

Peace sounds great. I'm unlikely to find it in dealing with your rug rats. Know any stable, loyal women without any?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 02:19 AM
13

Not yet. She is still south of the border.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 02:00 AM
9

They want a man with options, but don't want to be treated as optional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:49 AM
70

Never bring a woman from a poor country to your rich one. Either she's gonna become super entitled and come to think it will be a big shopping spree on your tab, or she's gonna start importing family and friends (possibly including her real boyfriend), or both. And it's often not feasible to go stay in her country either, her family might come to see you as the community ATM. And she might actually be with her real BF as well, with the means of hiding it from you. It might well be best to take h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 01:17 AM
1

Sure, depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:47 AM
1

We suggest going for beers while we are working on cars, then go. Honestly, activity is what we want, not just boozing. My point is, men do, women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:26 PM
1

His roof, actually, but sure. Or work on cars. My friends are guys I do things with. We dont just hang around, unless we bring the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:48 PM
3

Cant believe no one is noticing the insanity eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 06:46 PM
6

By that logic, two women, each half her size, would be the equivalent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 06:43 PM
21

This is why there is wine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/22 06:33 PM
1

Anecdote is not the singular of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:29 AM
0

You may be right. Except LA, which is 51:49 female to male. But the South and Midwest are like the East. Men live more in small towns and the countryside, woman more in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:19 AM
3

Sure, but we do shit as we talk. Paint a deck, grill meat, fix a roof. We dont just get together to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:15 AM
1

We socialize through what we do, not for its own sake. Work bros, hobby bros, or our family. We dont just gossip or do brunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:11 AM
-1

Yes, we create the built structure in which they socialize. But we dont need that socialization like they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:51 AM
2

Look closer at demographics. Women are much more concentrated in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:57 AM
5

We men have no problem building cabins in Alaska or some shit. Women need society, and compose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:52 AM
13

Society = women, in the 21st century.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:48 AM
10

Eh, I'm 57, divorced, vasectomized, and have put all my property in a trust. If she's not fat, has no kids, and can cook, she's worth a test drive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 05:27 PM
12

Most single guy her age *are* looking for a relationship. But not with an age peer. She should find a considerably older fellow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 05:21 PM
5

Wait 12 years. Find daughter, who will have daddy issues by then. P n D, cutting out the middleman. (mom, here) Profit!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 10:05 PM
19

If Christian Grey lived in a trailer instead of a mansion, he'd already be in prison.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 10:02 PM
3

Shes LOOKING for real dates. I'll decide if shes READY for them. No. No she's not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 10:01 PM
-1

I'd be ok with a trad wife. Shed need to get up before dawn to milk the cows and tend the chickens everyday, then make breakfast and my sack lunch before I go into town to work. I'd also expect her to feed the animals and do the afternoon milking, too. I'd need help with the slaughter a couple times a year. And of course shed have to garden and can the veggies as well. Naturally, I'd need hot dinner on the table every night. Naturally, she needs to stay of top of the laundry, and keep the house …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:31 AM
1

Likely a clue as to why she has a "complicated situation" with her kids. One too many tours at the court ordered spin dry?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 04:44 PM
2

size 10 dress = 30 waist, 40 hips. size 10 panties = 42-44 waist. I'm guessing she means the latter. Women often want the 6-6-6, 6 feet, 6 figure and 6 pack I want 0-0-0. 0 kids, 0 debt, size 0 dress
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 07:06 AM
5

You get a shit ton at first. But you run through all your matches pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:53 PM
1

Most likely. Not very likely at all, for one over 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:33 PM
3

I want a 0-0-0 girl. 0 kids, 0 debt, size 0 dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:57 AM
34

Oh, he's already been doxxed. They even put up a billboard.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 12:04 AM
89

The only real concern to me is the further weaponization of social media, (in this case Tik Tok), to attack someone who upsets the zeitgeist's apple cart. Has the dude been fired? Is this gonna affect his career? Why should such a tempest in a teapot do so? Should privileged white women have such power to wield?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 11:41 PM
16

4 kids, of my own? Or does she come pre-equipped with them? Does she come with the dog farm? She could at least learn to cook and do the laundry, if we are gonna have a household of 6.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/01/22 08:02 AM
7

You got lucky, like my dad. He was 27, having finished his degree in engineering and 2 years Army service when he married mom, who was 21, and had just done her first year of work after graduating University. I got my PhD at 29, and looked all through the mid and late 90s and into the 2000s, but found exactly zero prospects. Lots of pussy, but no one who could be a wife. Gave up in my early 40s, because it was looking gross to be seek women so much younger than myself. Made a bunch of money, got…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 05:23 AM
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Sex changes women more than it changes men. A guy with a 5 n-count isn't very different from one with a 50 n-count. A woman with a 5 n-count is very different from one with a 50 n-count. And that's just psychological. Of course, the effects of pregnancy and/or STD make a physical difference, too. Sex, especially promiscuous sex, is simply riskier for women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:57 AM
1

Cayman Islands works great. Best if she doesn't even know it exists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 10:41 PM
7

I once said this to a gal I was dating. She had occasionally given me blow jobs, and I told her I'd like it more frequently. She said she really didn't like giving them. I said, "Someday I may not be able to get it up at all. Until then, though, I intend to receive a lot of blowjobs. And I really like you, and would like if you were there when I'm getting them." She didn't like hearing that, and it wasn't long before we went our ways. I recruited a new plate and went on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 10:38 PM
8

having been on the receiving end of blatant, no-strings-attached sexual interest (even though my moral code doesn't let me partake), I can say that it's positively exhilarating. Can confirm. I don't have that moral code, and yes it is. Years and years went by, where I spun 4 plates at once. (I really didn't have the energy for more) The average plate service life was about 6 months, so I pretty much got a new one every 6 weeks, on average. This was pretty much my life, all through my 30s and 40s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 10:09 PM
2

Wear lifts. F em.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 09:58 PM
6

We hope so, anyway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 09:30 PM
16

Whatever she once did, she can't seem to decide if she "never liked doing it" and "was pressured into doing it", or "her tastes changed", implying it was once very much to her tastes, (as it seems to appear on the video). Consistency is the tool of patriarchy, I guess.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 09:10 PM
6

"amateurs study tactics, professionals, logistics"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 09:02 PM
9

Don't disrespect gloryholes like that. What did they ever do to you?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 11:49 PM
6

Mine asked for a grand, for, and I shit you not, *to bail her out of jail*. Christ what a shit show she was. Her new bf had robbed someone, and stashed his loot at her place where the cops found it. She then called me from jail. I told her they'd likely release her in the morning, which they did. Seems without me in her life, she went full crack whore.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 12:08 AM
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So much humble bragging about her great beauty that "intimidates" men. Beauty doesn't intimidate men. Personality and behavior can repel us, though, so I understand her confusion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/22 12:02 AM
5

Never tell women you are rich. I let them wonder how I live so well, but don't work. Most of them think I'm a drug dealer. They can dream that I'm a bad boy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 07:52 PM
9

That's the real answer, if you have assets. Put it all in trust before marriage, out of reach in case of divorce. Rich people do this all the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/01/22 05:44 PM
4

That, or they are so desperate they are willing to find a rich pedo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 02:21 PM
12

Bisexual is good then. She can find a woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/22 02:18 PM
15

Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 03:16 PM
16

In the day, such was the norm. This was in fact how marriages were arranged between families, since time immemorial. Michaels father was still in New York, so he had to ask on his own behalf. Had Vito been there, it would have been him that made the approach. The reason the Vitellis were so surprised, was that they were relatively poor, while Michael was seen as fabulously rich. The reason Michael did it the way he did was that he needed to show that his interest was truly matrimonial, and not p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 07:20 PM
9

Grounds for alimony.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 07:01 PM
6

Were I a widower with kids, and worked from home with a nice house, I'd respond to this, not as a prospective romantic partner, but as an employer. For child care, housekeeping, cooking, and gardening. She'd get rooms and board for herself and her kid, and a small stipend for sundries, a few dollars a week. Her task would be to make my home life as orderly and quiet as possible, tend to kids and grow fresh vegetables, while I work undisturbed. It would never be a romantic pairing, and there woul…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/22 07:00 PM
13

Bar fights cure skin hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:17 AM
11

Effectively, she's a prostitute, attempting to overprice her wares.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 09:13 PM
2

Divorced men are much more likely to re-marry to a never married woman than divorced women are to re-marry to a never married man. That's what explains the gap in the first place. It may be less so in your town. But never married people are considerably more mobile than average. It could be that never married men, and not women are simply being pulled from your community by opportunities elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:12 PM
6

She wants commitment, even marriage, yet retains the power to block you and cut off communications, over trivial and artificial infractions? This is a person with serious control issues. It's pretty clear here why her children's father (s?) left.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 08:29 PM
5

Looking at sentence structure, I'm thinking Eastern Europe.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 08:26 PM
7

Queens are generally chaste before their weddings. Queens also usually come with dowries. I say this is no queen.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/22 08:24 PM
12

A sugar baby with no sugar is just another way of saying "panhandler".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 04:14 PM
7

Maybe when I'm old, like over 70, and can't get it up any more, there might be an occasion where I'd like paid arm candy. But she'd better be presentable. Polite. Witty. Bright. Conversational. Well-spoken. I gotta say, I'm not seeing much of this, amongst the online sugar baby wannabes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 04:12 PM
4

Works for me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/22 06:39 AM
4

Clearly, marketing is not something she excels at.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 10:21 PM
21

I love the irony of a movement against sexual harassment using the tag of "pound me too".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 08:39 PM
8

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/40192000/jpg/\_40192142\_slags203.jpg
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 08:18 PM
12

Queens come with dowries. She has none.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 08:02 PM
15

Well, in any other commerce, a "package deal" means there is a substantial discount from getting the things separately. What's being discounted, here? Will I be able to rail that with less fuss than others have done, earlier? Are there some additional services that are added in? She should be much more specific about the high points of this "deal".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 05:58 PM
3

How do you get that from this profile?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/22 07:03 AM
2

Hm, she's not asking for money or resources. No kids mentioned. Fairly trim and fit, for 40. I'd meet her, and to be honest, if she wasn't some sort of loon or druggie, I'd date her. I'm 57, so she might think I'm too old. Now, I'm not in any sort of marriage market, but she doesn't need to know that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/22 02:09 AM
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