Pirateisme001 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She was granted an order of protect against me Always remember, do the next right thing. I never said anything unkind or did anything I regreted during the seperation and divorce process. My ex said and did horrible and mean things during the process. I look back and am proud of myself for being a good person during the chaos of my seperation.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/22 01:27 PM
3	When I welcomed my son into this world at 43 years old Glad you got out! The doubling down and blaming you for what they have done always amazes me. Watching my ex do this for the last 5 years of my marriage was something out of a movie. I am glad you don't seem to have PTSD from living with her behavior. Keep up the the good example for your son!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/21 02:08 PM
2	1 year since my divorce and think I finally found bliss boys Glad you got your dog. My ex took my shelter dog that i adopted in the legal seperation. She went to a shrink and had him sign a document saying he was her emotional companion. I took care of my dog 99% of the years I had him.	/r/MGTOW2	13/06/21 02:08 PM
5	Divorced Men, what are things you would do or say that show you’re not really over the ex wife or the marriage ending. Less obvious things. When you go to the grocery store and think my ex would really enjoy that.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/21 01:34 PM
8	Bad nights She won't change. I have been divorced for 5 months now, 2 months after the divorce she wanted to get back together. She said she missed me and loved me, a few phone conversations later, she admitted the cheating was wrong but I made her cheat. She started quoting things that she had done while married and said that I had done them. She started making things up again and believing they were true. I honestly thought she might have changed after the first phone call, I now know I am better off and…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/21 12:54 PM
6	Still married It is a hard final step. I dreaded it, however I made a list of all thing things that led me to leaving my ex. If I would have stayed my life would be doom and gloom, she took away my confidence, friends and family. I was basically living my life in a prison, she even made fun of me for going back to church and starting therapy. My life is so much better from a mental standpoint, I have rediscovered who I was and have stopped living in fear to try new things. The anger, fear, sadness of going th…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/21 02:53 PM
2	Separated If your legally seperated you can date. My lawyer advised me not to date but said technically I could date without consequences during the seperation. She is in the wrong by stealing your cam footage and blackmailing you. I wouldn't worry about it. Stay strong and know that this will be over eventually and you are better off. My ex mentally and verbally abused me for years, take care of yourself via therapy or group meetings. I have learned to take care of myself first and making myself a better…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/21 03:04 PM
1	From love to contempt Great point about don't look to her for closure. I made the mistake talking to my ex after the divorce, the lies and made up stories continued as well as gas lighting. I started attending a seperation and divorce group that helped me understand how to recover and become a better person in the process. I believe in time I can start trusting someone again.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/05/21 01:19 AM