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| 4 | Watching Kinkmeishas defend their community as “not abusive” is like watching Trump supporters defend their community as “not racist”. Sure, some aren’t, but it sure attracts a whooooole lot of those people such that it’s almost impossible to distinguish.There was one time a woman posted for advice about her kink and need for degrading sex/porn. She was consciously aware that it was linked to her early sexual assault and abuse but she still needed it to get off. What happened is that when she'd go there or her boyfriend accommodated her she'd get triggered then shut down and upset. So her question was how to move on from that. The bdsm community came out of the woodwork and told her to lean into it even more, that she should let go of the shame … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Maturity red flag?Therapy. Uncovering then undoing all the negative self beliefs you have. Understanding you have personal power and agency. So what normally happens when you have high self esteem is that when a man either hurts you in anyway or continues to disrespect you (either through seemingly harmless things like always showing up late or through actual rudeness) you leave. You tell them, "sorry that doesn't work for me" then go on to the next one until you find the right one who can work with you and has t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Maturity red flag?It says you have PTSD. What you're describing is called hypervigilance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Maturity red flag?I'd need more information and to observe more behavior. Disney and video games are such a common thing now that it may or may not mean anything. Likewise, having been to therapy and knowing those terms can be a positive sign but speaking from experience, it's easy to talk a good game. I have fallen for that trap more times than I'd like to admit. If anything it makes them more likely to blame you for any issues in a relationship because they think, "l I'm so emotionally intelligent and have done… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:49 PM |
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