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You understand that media loves to take the opinion of a small handful of people on social media (in this case teenage girls?) and will publish it as a sensationalist and rage-bait article so people like you are emotionally manipulated into believing this sentiment is an actual trend across all women? Yeah.... maybe go speak to real life women around you and ask them their opinion in this kid. You'd be surprised how often real life doesn't reflect some click-bait headline on a couple immature te…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:07 PM
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This sub tends to give good advice- at least what's upvoted. The delusion lies less in the theoretical 'solution' to the problem, and more in how they view the 'problem' itself (ie. sweeping generalizations/exaggerations about genders, dating, sexuality, attraction, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:10 PM
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Right? Using a single images for each percentage range is sort of pointless, because everyone carries fat differently. I know a super hot chick who told me she is solidly in the 'overweight' category on a BMI chart and wears a size 12. But I would never have guessed she's 'fat' on paper because it's distributed so well (being tall helps I'm sure).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:06 PM
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Well yes, you're not wrong that it takes some forms, but this sub seems to view every aspect of partnership as transactional to the extent it's a belief system that they are expecting, preparing for, and making a reality because they think it's normal and correct. Relationships are hard to maintain, but they're making it sooo much harder by keeping score and treating every element that they give like it needs to be evened out by an equally valued element offered by the partner. It just creates u…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:16 PM
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This entire sub believes relationships are transactions lol it's kinda sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 05:23 PM
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But if you take this guy's advice, you will choose where to eat with the hope of shitting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 06:42 PM
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Especially since we were often just the two of us shopping, going to the movies, zoo or elsewhere. And the circus too I'm sure, because there's definitely a clown in this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:21 PM
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There's probably already a lot out there... subs like /r/WojakTemplate might have some. Here are some Euro-Chads. This guy's image posts has some Chads of various ethnicities and historical times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:12 PM
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I believe the traditional opposite of a Chad is a virgin according to the classic meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:00 PM
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You're right but this is the OG definition of a Chad. It's taken on a much broader definition as it's become more of a meme/daily lingo. Now most people say Chads are men who are incredibly authentic and have value systems that they hold above the influence of women or average societal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:58 PM
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Out of curiosity, were the girls he had around of all races, or mostly black girls? Where you in a predominantly black neighborhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:55 PM
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However, today women are significantly more likely to be unfaithful and disloyal So outside of your anecdotal examples how do you know it's 'significant'? Of course you will hear more about women cheating since you're a man listening to men, just as women will hear other women talk about their cheating SOs. No one brags about being a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:15 PM
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I also think Instagram and social media has changed our expectations to such an extent that we will now be mostly unhappy with the available choice of partners. ding ding Everyone is looking for a top 10% man or woman according to superficial criteria. And the issue is that it seems plausible to plenty of average people that they could get a relationship with one of these people, for a lot of reasons-- media selling the ugly nerd gets the pretty girl stereotype, everyone being told that THEY are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:46 PM
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People on this sub need to stop trying to quantify the entire dating population into little categories. It drives me insane. Like these are complicated feelings and individual lives- millions of them. There is no single answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:16 PM
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It’s funny you say that because the only person I know of who is a sugar baby is overweight, identifies as non-binary, a furry, and has a host of mental health issues. And she is very successful at it. She’s had countless flings which I’d count more as sex work but she met them in SD sites. And at least three longer term SDs who will pay her rent, vacations, clothes, etc. or just straight up venmo her a thousand dollars every so often. I met one of the SDs and he was a nerdy skinny white guy who…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:48 AM
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Thank you! Yes it's all grown back :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:44 PM
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Ok how is that relevant? It sucks for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:31 PM
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From my understanding alopecia is a symptom of an autoimmune disorder. People who have alopecia typically have other medical issues associated with their immune system that is more serious. Interesting. It's quite possible... I actually had it (have it?) myself and in the last couple years I had two big perfect circles of hair fall out. Luckily I have long, thick hair and could hide them. But it was caused by stress I think and I didn't know it could also be a symptom of another disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:30 PM
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I think one reason for the variety of responses is that people have different views over how serious alopecia is as a “medical condition” and whether it would even be classified as one. It doesn’t cause physical pain or require hospitalization… but on the other hand it can certainly be mentally straining for a woman especially if her career is based on public image. Also according the Chris Rock he wasn’t aware of her condition- just that she is bald. BUT it’s been pointed out that not long ago …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:59 PM
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I think (as a woman) that women's perception is more adaptable, and fluctuates depending on other factors. For example, I've had this happen many times: I am friends/acquaintances/co-workers with male who I either don't find attractive, or at least don't even consider looks-wise because he has no extraordinary features. I get to know him over time and come to love his personality. We start a relationship, and next thing I know, he IS very physically attractive to me. Those once-unremarkable feat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 08:51 PM
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Both genders remain children/ lack responsibility in different respects so it evens out. Many men are infantile their entire life’s because they always have a mother, girlfriend, wife or other female figure to do all their cleaning, cooking, domestic duties and they also have the convenience of being less emotionally self-aware in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:00 PM
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Yea same. Averages one guy a month that truly makes me stare a bit longer than normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:19 AM
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Oh ok that makes sense. I’m from Cleveland but never watched it because it looked terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:02 AM
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Lol no that was about old ladies! There was, however, an episode of 30 rock where Liz goes to Cleveland and is treated like a goddess/model there even though she’s a New York 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:48 AM
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Because women are good at finding the one other woman they love. They know how to pinpoint an emotionally fulfilling and fun relationship over one that is purely based on attraction. Men will date the first female body that gives them a boner and then get pissy when they aren’t compatible in any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:43 AM
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This is why I never was able to make lasting female friends… I just get so bored talking about boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:39 AM
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Because the 'virgin OF girl' is a made-up fantasy. I doubt there's ANY woman successful on OF who is also a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:03 PM
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Your experience must be based on online, social-media obsessed women. Most real world women couldn’t care less about validation via likes, or don’t even have accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:40 AM
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The bike was a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:47 PM
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They’re probably referring to. Their outdating facts on female biology, not his right to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:47 PM
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I feel like 40 is super high!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:42 PM
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Isn’t MGTOW inherently incompatible with dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:17 PM
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Evidently. I think I have a low pelvic floor or something because with big rods it feels like it’s hitting a wall up in there… just unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:44 AM
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Struggle more? I’m just saying they won’t need to be a size 0 because relatively it’s way too small for their body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 10:27 PM
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Good. If more women reject men 6” and under then there are more for me lol. Anything above that hurts!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:04 PM
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Seriously. For me (I date both men and women) a pretty face is always the number 1 criteria. And facial beauty is really hard to quantify so it gets overlooked in these kind of posts although I think most people are drawn to that first.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:03 PM
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Lmaoo. You take this all way too seriously girl. The terms alpha and chad are memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:01 PM
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It depends how tall a women is. Measurements are all relative. A size 0 on a 5’8” woman would be heroin-chic skinny. In a 5g’ woman it’s pretty normal looking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:57 PM
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I just don’t get how they all could have known he was a fuckboy type through a dating app. Dude looks really normal. I get screening for height, job, ect. But they didn’t know he was going to love bomb then ghost and it happened to every one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:04 AM
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A lot of those are cheap or free, depending on supplies. It's an investment into yourself and can cost less than the equivalent time at a bar. You can try meetup.com, search your local nextdoor app (if you're American), look at library bulletins, word of mouth... there are also event pages (like in SF there is https://sf.funcheap.com/ but I imagine it's more difficult in smaller towns).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:40 PM
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What are your interests? I have a friend (below average looks wise but great guy) who likes gardening, for example, so he joined a community garden as a volunteer (working at farmers markets, helping harvest, hosting a weekly bonfire social). He ended up meeting a great girl he’s dating now through that, and it wasn’t even his intention. Yoga or meditation class, biking club, hiking group, book clubs, rock climbing, study groups, dancing classes, protests, political volunteering, soup kitchens, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:54 PM
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That’s interesting. Women probably focus mainly on facial attractiveness so assume men do as well. Like, line up ten women with bangin physiques, but a spectrum of facial attractiveness and women will assume the ugliest will never get dates. But to men often the body is enough. Do you not related to this scale or is there a number like 4 and above past it doesn’t matter as much? https://imgur.com/EsOwgTg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:52 PM
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Yeah but how is their… facial situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:25 PM
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Yea what’s this guys sample size? Is he basing this off people he knows in real life or people on the internet? Because unless he knows the full rundown on income, career, resources of each person in a couple he can’t really make a solid judgement about who is “out of their league”…. I have a feeling whenever he sees average/below guys with hot girls he assumes he must be richer than her. I’ve anecdotally known plenty of women who date down both looks wise and resource wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:31 AM
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You haven’t seen an average guy turn down a girl in the 3-6 range?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:13 PM
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So you prefer the left pic to the right here? You prefer the top to the bottom pic here? Top pics versus bottom ones here? Not doubting you just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:21 PM
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A lot of men do care about them but don’t realize it because they have no idea what makeup actually does
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:47 PM
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This is not high value male material dude stop making assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:20 AM
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Ok. And have you been on a date with anyone else ever? Or is she the closest you’ve gotten?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:19 AM
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Were you dating this dream girl or did she reject you outright?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:32 AM
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You're entire comment was just projecting some major insecurities. You act like all women are controlling, when you want a woman to control. The things you 'offer' her are just allowing someone else to be an accessory in your life and never exceed you in any way. Just because you're the man means you have all the purpose and goals in the relationship? Sounds terrible for the unfortunate woman who ends up in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:30 PM
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You sound super unpleasant to date. Why don't you try men if you hate women so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:23 PM
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Many women aren't initially attracted physically to men, but gain attraction to them from other features. It's a misunderstanding between genders because men see physical attractiveness as an obvious criteria for mating, while women take into account many factors and aren't as black and white, generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:53 PM
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Speaking on behalf of all men everywhere What? Don't most men want women to to have sex with them? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:20 PM
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numerous people on here talk about turning 30 and a woman becoming instantly desperate. The desperation is the biological ticking clock for raising children. Most women realize that if they don't settle down with a man by her mid-30s, the likelihood of having a family plummets. Not everyone necessarily wants a family, but having the option is always nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:55 PM
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That's just fake validation though. Most men crave real authentic love and affection, not an exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:51 PM
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Hint: no one posts on Reddit when everything is going as expected, so you don't see it here. And the most extreme and dramatic problems are more visible. No one should base their view of "what's normal" based on Reddit because it is skewed heavily towards rare issues and events. Real life is much more reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 06:48 PM
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It will increase due to celebrities choosing men like that- see Kardashian and the Blink 182 guy or Megan Fox and Machine Gun kelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:55 PM
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I joined the yoga/burner community in my area and it's full of attractive hippie-types who are in poly relationships. I can't say which gender usually initiates, but it seems most successful when the 'main couple' is very similar in their beliefs from the start, and they tend to have a lot of interests outside their significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:59 PM
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For a second I thought funnel was a euphemism for vagina...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:30 PM
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But or how about autistic men date other autistic women? That way there no power imbalance and how can easily understand eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:46 PM
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Uh, yea actually. Feelings are a good way to understand something as intangible as interpersonal relationships and love lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:11 PM
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That's not really what I'm talking about... just 'getting women' isn't the same as love and intimacy. Having sex with someone is not equal to intimacy, and love is something that transcends sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 03:10 PM
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I’m sad for them. With this sort of attitude how can you find real love and intimacy? That’s what they’re looking for but they think those things are represented by certain attributes, not an intangible, mysterious chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:36 PM
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You described my feelings exactly. Also how they analyze everything about dating by statistics and measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:41 PM
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Yea that too. Not really my point since were just talking about “most women” and not just hot women. But you got to admit most women are punching down regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:18 PM
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I disagree... have you gone outside and seen all the couples who are fuckin? Half the guys look like garden gnomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:05 PM
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if you disproportionately get lumped into the husband category and not the fuckbuddy one But guys can be different things to different women. Some men are 'husband material' to one woman and 'fuckbuddy material' to the next. If one man consistently is categorized in ONLY one of these categories by all women, there must be a crucial component missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 06:36 PM
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It's all about the face for me. You can have the most gorgeous, toned, tall body but if you have a below-average face it doesn't interest me. Second is general 'swagger'. I like guys who move confidently, but not egotistically (picture the Vince McMahon walking gif- yeah not THAT proudly lol). I mean more like a man who navigates the world with purpose and grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:58 PM
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Omg I felt the same way when I watched this movie! I think that his brain and the way he basically blocks out fear… it does the same with empathy for others. He probably wants a gf as a caretaker and to have sex with, but doesn’t understand relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:34 AM
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I dated a man who tried his best to live by the “love unconditionally” rule. It was irritating to say the least, especially when he tried to moralize and push this philosophy on me. Due to this rule he could never be monogamous, because to love unconditionally both parties must be able to freely love anyone they feel like and accept the others feelings and actions. There were no boundaries ever. I felt like it was barely a relationship because we could just do anything we wanted with no conseque…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:49 AM
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Umm so Olivia Munn wore baggy clothes one day and now people say she’s pregnant? She doesn’t look pregnant in the photos… you believe this lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:33 PM
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That all happened on the first date? Jeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:17 PM
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Yea I can’t do over-average dicks, they just feel like they’re slamming against a wall in my uterus. I’ve heard other women say the same. Regardless, PIV sex isn’t the “main event” for me anymore. Me and my last partner mutually decided we just wanted to do hands and oral only (his idea actually) and our sex lifes got Sooo much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:16 PM
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It sounds like she wanted to brag about her ex instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:12 PM
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Lol or it’s not but believe what you want. I said it in another comment in this thread- with my last low-value, LTR boyfriend I would compliment him every day, do him favors, intimate touch outside of sex, Random massages, buy him thoughtful gifts, even pay for his meals and drive him everywhere. It’s not uncommon for women to want to give and give to a man (in itself it can hit reward receptors to be charitable to those we love) and they give little in return so long as you keep giving. I see i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 06:35 PM
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Don't read into how I wrote it too much, I obviously meant the same thing for both genders I just didn't want to make the list of examples twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 05:26 PM
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Fair enough. I just wanted to give my perspective on what often happens after a relationship starts. I realize that’s not the same as men who aren’t in any committed situation but feel like the OP covers both. And the rest was answering your own response as to SMV and why I think it’s a non-starter as a criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:36 PM
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Nope lol. Unfortunately I tend to end up falling for men with little value. My last LTR or two years was 20 years older than me, overweight, balding, two annoying children, lives on a balcony, no car so I would drive everywhere, and acted like my above comment as far as affection. I liked him because of his positive viewpoints on life and his eccentricity as well as insanely good sexual compatibility, but grew resentful over time because he could never provide anything for anyone but himself and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:36 PM
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Everytime that I (F) have expressed desire to a long-term boyfriend, they ignore it and don't return the expression. The opposite is true when I've dated women, who show gratitude and excitement when I give compliments, physical touch, gifts, stares, etc. Just my observation. I'm sure men like it, but they don't seem to understand how to maintain it in a mutual way. I'm not going to keep telling you how sexy I find you if you just say 'thanks' and never tell it to me unless we're in a sexual con…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:45 PM
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Trying to stereotype half the human population is never gonna go well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:58 PM
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Oh for sure, it's the same rhetoric the 'Trad-wifes' use. Just going by her name and picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:11 PM
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It appears she's from an Islamic culture... very real thing there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:35 PM
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I'm not defending him at all, but I wonder if there's a psychological issue going on with age (a less extreme version of Michael Jackson) due to his years as a child actor forced to grow up fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:16 PM
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That photographer sounds like a paunchier Terry Richards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:04 AM
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Oh come on are you really asking that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:41 PM
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Being emotional isn’t a bad thing. The difference is women control it and men don’t know how to deal with it so project it in others
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:15 PM
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This is amazing. Succinctly puts into words how I feel about 'kink' people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:21 PM
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Bro even in the part you quoted I said I’m not non-monogamous. But I can respect what they do. Absolutely no one is saying they are better than you, that’s just you reading into my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:18 AM
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Excellent point and you are putting into words one reason I could never fully be in a poly situation also. It’s difficult to love someone fully without inevitably getting attached (and therefore feeling the detachment). I guy I was seeing refused to be monogamous anymore, and he had the disposition to be successful at it with the right people. I was willing to believe he loved me for me and other people for them, and that didn’t somehow diminish anyone’s connection because love is infinite curre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:02 PM
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Also, most people who successfully navigate polyamory have already fully developed themselves so they don't need to be dependent on anyone. Therefore things like jealousy and loss aren't even a factor, because they are aware we can't control other people. Rather they are able to acknowledge their loved one's feelings and be happy for them when they find love elsewhere, because true unconditional love does not involve any type of control or sense of ownership. I personally am not there yet, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:44 PM
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I wasn’t talking to u So no need to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:38 PM
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Come on man, at that height it’s an abnormality where men start looking like swamp creatures or have Marfan’s Syndrome. Unless they’re black. I’ve never met a facially attractive man over 6’5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:32 PM
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If also doesn’t take into account that I, an American who doesn’t speak any Russian, set my Tinder location to Moscow solely to find my gopnik soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:38 PM
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True true. Although fit doesn’t necessarily translate to attractive facially. But yea I used to live in the Midwest and the options were... less appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:10 PM
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Ok I guess it depends on taste. I actually picture goliath bear like bearded men when I think of 6’7, like Andre the Giant vibes haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:06 PM
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Yea I don't find this calculator believable. I regularly match online, or meet in person with, single men who fit this criteria (and usually make a higher salary, but I live in Bay Area so the listed one is poverty levels here) all the time. It's not something I have to seek out... there must be something off with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:51 PM
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I dunno that height sort of exceeds the range most people find attractive by like 4 inches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:20 PM
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Allowing men to be involved and debate would quickly bring the whole sub down. It's a space for women, and I'm OK with that. There's a related sub were the mods post DMs they receive from men and Jesus they are vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:53 PM
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I mean she’s pretty hot. So if a girl even slightly leans towards bi-curiosity they will be willing to try with her and it would be a novel experience. Take the average lesbian and have them do cold approaches, it will go way differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:13 AM
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Not the same thing. You can be a nice trustworthy guy but there is a difference between meeting with a female and a male that is just inherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 01:10 AM
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Why isn’t anyone here talking about MGTOW getting banned today?? Is it against the rules to discuss? That place was a sexist shithole we should be celebrating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:40 AM
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I think you’re right but the value men place on women is two-fold with a large overlap: sex and partnership. Sex is more valued and demanded by men due to biological reasons, then partnership and marriage depending on your age, and each of these is matched with a certain type of woman who doesn’t necessarily fit in each category. Some women are devalued for partnership because they’ve had lots of sex but the same women are valued by single men who just want to hook up. And vice-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:56 PM
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Mr. Wub wasn’t saying that he can’t get dates, I think you misread his comments intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:46 PM
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That’s not at all what OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:09 PM
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Why are you only trying to meet women at work and school? You yourself say that you go straight from work to home, so the problem is fairly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:08 PM
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I agree and I think OP is assuming all women prefer it when that's really not the case. I'm not small (5'8) yet my vaginal wall (?) or whatever it is must be more shallow than normal, because when even an average sized guy fucks me it hurts. If he's over 7 inches I can't even do it. I think women are just as varied as men in 'size', but ours is internal so no one pays attention to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:13 PM
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Eww I HATE when men think growing a beard magically makes them more attractive to women... like maybe for a one night stand or whatever but if a woman is looking for long-term they're going to look at what your face looks like without the beard. If you have a weak-ass chin and indistinguishable jawline then your patchy beard isn't going to all of a sudden make up for your ugliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:53 PM
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Yup same. People are trying to pass it off as 'just saying his preference' but it says a lot more about him than just his preferences. It screams bitter, cruel, judgmental, trashy.. etc etc. We all have preferences but we can carry those out by swiping left on those types of people- putting it on your bio (you can put sooo many positive traits about yourself and you put....that?) is off-putting. I am neither fat nor a single mother and I'd immediately swipe left.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:22 PM
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Yea if you can't provide a source I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:08 PM
7

There are also girls who haven't had any LTRs or any hookups. Unfortunately finding them is difficult as they don't put themselves out there as much, but there is a good amount of no/low-N count women out there still... they're usually really shy, religious, or unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:40 PM
6

The top 20% fallacy is so stupid if people just opened their eyes. Like go to a park and look at all the couples passing by, holding hands. Most of them are average if not ugly (both genders). If you base your idea of what women and men want on the internet, you're gonna have a very skewed idea of what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:34 PM
2

Wow that's a long time. Were you very young? I can see it with a below 19-year old religious girl, but after that it's pretty weird imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:25 PM
1

You're thinking of the 70's/80's, not the 50s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:23 PM
1

I think your perspective is skewed due to the higher visibility of fuck-girls on dating apps. Girls who like to have sex will obviously be more active in dating scenes, more guys will have interacted with them (the timeline comment you made) and matched with them, and they will be louder with preferences. There is a huge population of women who aren’t horny very often, or at least only Demi-sexual and want to have sex with emotional connection established first. They are less visible due to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:35 PM
1

They do exist I’m basing my comment on personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:26 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:31 AM
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Thank. You. Men these days are acting like they’re amazing for the bare minimum. Yes you might have a good job, you might be clean, rent a nice apartment, be a good conversationalist, funny, above-average looks, intelligence.... but what do you bring to the table in the actual relationship? Will you take her out every week, even after the honeymoon period, will you buy her flowers, will you cook for her? Are you a romantic who will write her poetry and tell her how beautiful she is? Are you a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:29 AM
-1

You’re saying men and women treat men like fools?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:17 AM
1

This is correct. I believe that when I am describing what I like in a man, I am mostly just basing it on what I liked about my last couple successful relationships, trying to find the traits they had in common (humans love trying to follow patterns). But in reality I was attracted to not these outward traits initially, but an enigmatic, undefinable magnetism that had no real explanation. It worth noting though, that attraction for sex and LTR relationships are different things- this explanation …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:00 PM
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Also if he is poor communicator, or just stubborn and refuses to make any compromises, you will become stuck in the cycle of ‘communicating’ and never getting anywhere for eons. My ex was so full of himself and never listened to a word I said, but every time I said I wanted to end things he insisted in “talking about it” and drew out the process for days to weeks. He would manipulate the situation to make it seem like I wasn’t giving good enough reasons to leave him, and I believed him and would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:48 AM
43

Ugh this guy I know is just like that. He only wants to date fit girls with 0% body fat but he has a massive gut. Like the type of belly where I’d be surprised if he can see his own peen when he looks down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:00 PM
37

I felt something was off about my ex for a while. I didn’t think he was cheating but the way he spoke about his female “friends” from the past felt gross. He left his email signed in on my devices one day and I started searching keywords/names I recalled. I felt bad at first, but certainly not after it confirmed all my suspicions of him being a downright creepy motherfucker. He has countless emails to women who were clearly not interested, begging them to be with them and serenading them with ni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:54 PM
81

The difference is that incels KNOW they are ugly and undesirable, but they still believe they deserve a 10/10 woman for some reason. Like they’ve never tried to date... other unattractive women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:17 PM
8

They have the audacity to ask for anal/3somes before even meeting a female person while on OLD apps. I find this shocking still. I'll be one or two days into a conversation with a man and out of nowhere he'll be like " so u do anal" or more commonly, "I love being dominant ;) ". Or even worse he'll just list kinky in his profile as though it's a personality trait. I actually went on a date with one guy who seemed really sweet, but the minute the conversation turned towards a BDSM sex club he wen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:48 PM
40

you aren't even allowed to post that you don't like penis on any of the "lesbian" subs. I'm a lesbian and joined these subs a few years ago... quickly left because they are overrun with trans women and discussion about how we need to be attracted to trans women... The moment anyone dared say Uhhh I don't like penis though? they would get banned. Absurd. There are probably more spaces on reddit for trans folk than there are for lesbians, use them. And I wouldn't mind trans men hanging out there a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:20 PM
4

The criticism about her existed way before if came out that she stole jokes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:01 PM
27

See anytime there's a thread about Amy Schumer. I've listened to her specials and she really doesn't joke about her genitals that much but based on reddit-bros analysis you'd think that's all she ever talks about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:24 PM
24

Not to mention terrible 'dad jokes' that are just recycled puns they read on the internet and think repeating once a week is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:22 PM
71

Or better yet, if you meet up with an LVM and he decides to surprise you with a walk date, always have your trash-grabber handy so you can start cleaning up the environment during your walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:02 PM
67

If he keeps asking to see your tastefully printed business cards... run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:33 PM
117

I just turned 30, and I needed to hear this. I spend my teenage and early 20s in a drugged up, drunken stupor, and my late 20s was constant rehab, recovery meetings, therapy, and relapses. I'm just now getting my life together and actually enjoying it. I'm truly experiencing everything for the first time instead of through a foggy, high lens. I couldn't care less if I'm starting to look a bit older, I feel like a new person. Anyone who says women 'hit the wall' at 30, or are in any way less valu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:28 PM
139

I can only get off to “vanilla” sex. There’s nothing more exciting and intimate than two bodies slowly and indulgently exploring each other. I had a partner (who was otherwise LVM but was good at sex) who rarely wanted to even fuck- we would just have oral or use hands and honestly it was the best! We both got off multiple times a night and there was no I’m Alan eating between our pleasure, and no feeling of “ok he came so we’re fine now”. Any time a guy needs to jump right into the kinky and ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:29 PM
149

Intimacy and kink are separate things and I stand by that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:24 PM
7

YES. omg. I went on a date last week (why haven't a learned my lesson?) with this guy who just kept talking and talking, and every time I attempted to edge a word in he would just barrel over me with his 'SPECIAL opinions'. Also he was driving at the same time and whenever he'd get excited about something he was talking about (to himself at most points, as I was disassociating) he would speed up on the accelerator insanely and be speeding down a curvy mountainside at 80 mph. I kept asking him to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:27 PM
16

I had a lonely childhood and stuffed animals were all I had. I don't constantly, as an adult, play with stuffed animals all day. I don't ask my S.O. to make room in their lives for my stuffed animals. I don't even have any stuffed animals anymore, because I'm an adult. Jesus that's such a flimsy excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:50 PM
9

Thanks for doing what you do. But I’ve been reading this sub for months and want to participate, yet my comments are deleted every time saying a need to be assigned flair... when will this be? Lol sorry to be off topic it’s just annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:23 PM
-1

I can’t imagine the amount of dudes hitting on a female GameStop employee. Geez poor girl.
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:50 PM
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