Pitiful-Iron-9336 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Violence statistics men vs women vs bears	Discussion	Pitiful-Iron-9336	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 07:16 PM

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–	Ladies, there is NO SUCH THING as being "used for sex." Well, I am a man, for starters. And for mains, you can look at it however you want, but from time immemorial sex has been considered as an act where the male is active and the female passive. I use those terms extremely broadly, and looking from a biological and/or evo psych standpoint they make perfect sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 03:34 PM
–	Ladies, there is NO SUCH THING as being "used for sex." Some men do it consciously for sure, literally lying about themselves and their intentions to get access. I think everyone agrees that this is nasty behaviour. Probably more men, however, and I shamefully include myself in this, become so beside themselves, morally speaking, with a woman’s sexual appeal, that they ignore (or perhaps do not care to discover) the fact that they are not interested in her personality and behave in the ways they know will make them appealing to her until they gain ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 03:28 PM
–	About dating younger women I agree with you. Women have always found me attractive, but I was particularly agreeing with your point about age being a turn off for young women, ie even if they initially found me attractive, discovering my age makes me unattractive, majority of the time. edit; maybe not unattractive, but make me an unsuitable candidate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 08:32 AM
–	About dating younger women Damn. From scientific jailbait apologism to full blown misogyny in under 60. Kudos!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 07:58 AM
2	About dating younger women Lol, as a pretty attractive man (I think?) in his 40’s I guess my age is hard to discern from my looks, when women in their 20s ask me/figure out how old I am you can definitely see the light go from their eyes. Brutal. But, there is a percentage who will ignore it, or perhaps even like it, if only for the short term adventure. I mean, I think if there is a culture among a group of girlfriends where they have decided it’s okay to date older men, you will see them doing that. I don’t know. It’s a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 07:36 AM
3	About dating younger women Okay, meeting women on sugar daddy websites is completely different to “dating”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 07:08 AM
3	At what age would you not have a problem with a woman dating a man 20 years older than her? Jealousy, white knighting, virtue signalling, some kind of more genuine fatherly feelings, a combination of those, who knows?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 05:32 PM
1	At what age would you not have a problem with a woman dating a man 20 years older than her? My friend dated a girl 20 years younger than him (she was late 20’s), he said he only really got weirdness from other men, but he is pretty hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 04:11 PM
-5	Why do many men say that older women or single moms are less desirable for dating? Maybe because she had a kid when young and the dad was also young and it didn’t work out? Good Lord, apply just the tiniest bit of imagination and life experience/emotional intelligence and you will get a million valid answers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 10:43 AM
–	Men are Missing the Point About Bears. Full disclosure, as a man I’m 500%+ more likely to be murdered (by another man, and statistics may vary according to your locality) than a woman is, but would still prefer to meet a man in the woods than a bear. Call me crazy, I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:49 PM
–	Can a man and woman on the opposite end of the attraction spectrum be friends? Perhaps they thought you were interested in them romantically/sexually, you didn’t progress it in any way, so they went fishing elsewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 07:28 PM
2	If women are the sexual selectors, why have I as a man broken up with and turned down women? Men turn women down all the time. Same men might also sleep with a woman who they know they really shouldn’t. Done both myself. Lived to regret both. Human desire is a mysterious thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 07:26 PM
–	As a Man, the saying that "todays women are delusional in terms off standards" is not true. In the first time in 2000 Years, women can choose a Partner based on attraction and love only. This is a good thing. Also never struggled with women, but have to disagree to some extent. I think a lot of younger women allow themselves to be bombarded with relationship and dating advice coming from social media and podcasts which is very much a “womanosphere” and often not very helpful or indeed healthy for their relationship with the opposite sex. Some of it is dishonest. Some of it is explicitly hateful to men. A lot of it will be sensational because more clicks means more money. I believe (and hope) this is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 09:11 AM
9	Is there a hill that you would die on when it comes to standards for a relationship? Also sounds a lot like theory rather than practice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/24 07:56 PM
1	True masculinity is power/physical strength but true masculinity can only be achieved with effort. (Therefore the formula to be a man is potential + effort + peak = true masculinity) You talk about the Herculean effort of building muscles in order to reach “peak masculinity”, and I say no, peak masculinity is a mindset, nothing to do with muscles. Now, I might have got you wrong because tbh I didn’t read the entire wall of mostly word salad that made up your post, and if so, apologies, my bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 12:15 PM
2	True masculinity is power/physical strength but true masculinity can only be achieved with effort. (Therefore the formula to be a man is potential + effort + peak = true masculinity) No. I lived in an area with a big Vietnamese population, those first generation dudes were all built like chickens, sat around smoking all day, but fuck me the balls on them if anyone came even close to fucking with them. Real men. No fucks given.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:23 PM
9	"redpilled" and NOT misogynistic? Chronically online young men are probably sufficiently isolated from women (who aren’t directly related to them) for their “hatred” to be better understood as a psychological meme than based on anything more meaningful, not that it can’t still be dangerous, of course. And I don’t personally identify as red pill myself, but certainly I’m interested in, for instance, evolutionary psychology, which for many would place me solidly in the red pill sphere, and I absolutely do not hate women. To the co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 04:08 PM
–	There is nothing inherently wrong with men dating much younger women What you say kind of makes sense but it doesn’t quite work like that, in terms of men’s fertility. And, personally I don’t give a shit who approves or disapproves of who I date, but there are plenty of young women who find older men attractive. Don’t ask me why, but it’s definitely a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/24 12:45 PM
1	Would you convert to another religion in the hope of getting access to traditional women? It’s not a requirement though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 10:58 PM
0	Would you convert to another religion in the hope of getting access to traditional women? Muslims don’t have to be circumcised, and bacon is not very good for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 04:59 PM
1	The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is... True, it’s very common to see abuse heaped on older men quite openly and unreflectively in the various media of popular culture that would never be tolerated if it were applied to older women, eg; fat, bald, pot bellied, grey, jowls, creepy etc etc. You would have to delve into designated misogynist spaces to find the same said of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 04:49 PM
5	"The Ick" is just another way of saying "a turn-off" You’d be surprised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/24 06:48 PM
3	The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men. Let me jump in and say that I’ve known some pretty attractive women who’ve slept with some, how to put it, “ordinary” looking men, just the one time. Pumped and dumped. I guess a warm body when you’re in the mood is all it takes sometimes. That said, this was pre online dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 05:51 PM
36	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. I think the OP is just the most pessimistic take possible on people changing as they get older and putting a little misogynistic spin on it. I mean, as a young man, did I overlook some really great women because what I wanted was a girl who giggled at my jokes and had bouncy tits? Why yes I did! Now that I’m older I appreciate different things in a woman. Shocker, I know!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 08:58 AM
5	Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men. True. I’m old as shit but have taken good care of myself and I believe I’m attractive to a pretty broad range of women. I really think that taking care of yourself is important mostly because it makes you feel good and is healthy. I do it for myself. And this is the other thing, as you get older, you give less of a shit. And I think there is something innately attractive about that, not just romantically or sexually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 08:43 AM
1	What does "insecure" even means? It’s a dude with an average size dick running with his dog. You’re not missing much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 11:27 PM
1	What does "insecure" even means? The guys dick doesn’t look that big tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 11:25 PM
1	In the Redpill, the general idea is that women want the "alpha" guy or the best of the best, both financially and biologically. It's also pretty known that men are not born equal. 100% agree	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:18 PM
0	In the Redpill, the general idea is that women want the "alpha" guy or the best of the best, both financially and biologically. It's also pretty known that men are not born equal. Perhaps. It’s certainly true that we in the west are in a state of cultural and perhaps moral crisis. What constitutes our moral compass is largely formed in childhood, in the home, so I think what we are also seeing is a crisis in parenting which is perhaps something we don’t hear that much about. Unsurprisingly it’s all linked & a very big question for us a society going forward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 12:15 PM
3	In the Redpill, the general idea is that women want the "alpha" guy or the best of the best, both financially and biologically. It's also pretty known that men are not born equal. That was my point. Women don’t cheat for big dick. I would disagree as to what extent it’s important in a relationship though. Edit; sorry I misread, I think we are probably in agreement concerning the degree of importance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 10:55 AM
2	In the Redpill, the general idea is that women want the "alpha" guy or the best of the best, both financially and biologically. It's also pretty known that men are not born equal. The question is how they would know before they engage in the sex things?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 10:30 AM
4	In the Redpill, the general idea is that women want the "alpha" guy or the best of the best, both financially and biologically. It's also pretty known that men are not born equal. They are perfectly common, and even if you don’t believe this, take comfort in the fact that tall, handsome, rich, jacked, charming, supremely confident big dick guys are extremely rare, and of those rare beings, a proportion, perhaps a majority, will also have a moral compass. Source- I am a tall, charming, confident, jacked, kind of well off big dick dude AND I have a moral compass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 10:27 AM
9	Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead? Samesies!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/24 10:37 PM
3	Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you? You are right. She does seem very threatening. Extremely threatening, in fact. A true predator.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 07:39 PM
1	How is the second branch secured during a monkey branching? It’s odd, because I’ve always thought of monkey branching as something men do. I mean, we never called it that, we would speak of not breaking up with a girl until we had someone else lined up. It’s kind of a cliché. I’m not proud of it but it’s something I’ve done multiple times myself (I’m a man), and I know of many instances of other men doing it. Can’t really think of an instance of a woman doing it, though I’m sure it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 11:49 PM
–	Having a low sex drive as a man helps you exponentially in the dating scene and your intimate relationships. Not behaving like a thirsty fool can help you appeal to women headline shocker. Good grief.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 02:28 PM
2	Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys. Well in my very much anecdotal experience people across generations will trot out the expected reactions to age gap relationships irrespective of sex, which are somewhere between “that’s disgusting” and “who cares” depending on the usual variables of age of the younger person, economic, educational or social disparity etc. And I’m always pleased to find that in real life, unlike the internet, young people tend to be as open minded and skeptical as you’d want them to be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 10:39 AM
1	Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys. I think your phrase “from what I see online” tells us everything we need to know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/24 08:00 AM
1	Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys. I still don’t know. I’m not seeing any evidence of team female. People say one thing and then do another. It’s hardly news. And in any case I’m not picking up on any great jihad against women dating older men in real life, and society’s view of age gap relationships are pretty solidly codified at this point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 11:39 PM
1	Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys. I dunno, I get the feeling it’s more acceptable than it used to be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 08:42 PM
1	Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys. This is my experience exactly. The people I know in 10+ age gap relationships are just normal people who clicked. I’m sure there’s plenty such relationships where there is creepiness involved, where the woman is, say, younger than mid 20s but I don’t know of any.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/24 08:41 PM