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DiscussionPitiful-Iron-9336/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
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Well, I am a man, for starters. And for mains, you can look at it however you want, but from time immemorial sex has been considered as an act where the male is active and the female passive. I use those terms extremely broadly, and looking from a biological and/or evo psych standpoint they make perfect sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:34 PM
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Some men do it consciously for sure, literally lying about themselves and their intentions to get access. I think everyone agrees that this is nasty behaviour. Probably more men, however, and I shamefully include myself in this, become so beside themselves, morally speaking, with a woman’s sexual appeal, that they ignore (or perhaps do not care to discover) the fact that they are not interested in her personality and behave in the ways they know will make them appealing to her until they gain ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:28 PM
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I agree with you. Women have always found me attractive, but I was particularly agreeing with your point about age being a turn off for young women, ie even if they initially found me attractive, discovering my age makes me unattractive, majority of the time. edit; maybe not unattractive, but make me an unsuitable candidate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:32 AM
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My apologies, you didn’t say that, no, but it can be inferred from what you have written that you are finding these women on sugar daddy websites, where the transactional nature of the arrangement is clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:00 AM
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Damn. From scientific jailbait apologism to full blown misogyny in under 60. Kudos!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:58 AM
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But, you have said that you are essentially paying these women to date you so… 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:37 AM
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Lol, as a pretty attractive man (I think?) in his 40’s I guess my age is hard to discern from my looks, when women in their 20s ask me/figure out how old I am you can definitely see the light go from their eyes. Brutal. But, there is a percentage who will ignore it, or perhaps even like it, if only for the short term adventure. I mean, I think if there is a culture among a group of girlfriends where they have decided it’s okay to date older men, you will see them doing that. I don’t know. It’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:36 AM
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Okay, meeting women on sugar daddy websites is completely different to “dating”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:08 AM
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The vast majority of advice is crap regardless of where it comes from unless it is coming from someone who knows you extremely well and is experienced in the ways of the world, ie wise, and even then will probably still ignore it and do whatever you’re going to do anyway. I will agree that, as a gross generalisation, women will “hear” your problems and soothsay in response, where as men will try and give you ideas of how to “fix” things. Both are usually useless, but in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:43 PM
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Jealousy, white knighting, virtue signalling, some kind of more genuine fatherly feelings, a combination of those, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:32 PM
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My friend dated a girl 20 years younger than him (she was late 20’s), he said he only really got weirdness from other men, but he is pretty hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:11 PM
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You were stabbed in the woods just outside a casbah, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:19 AM
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Maybe because she had a kid when young and the dad was also young and it didn’t work out? Good Lord, apply just the tiniest bit of imagination and life experience/emotional intelligence and you will get a million valid answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:43 AM
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“Dangerous” implies no such thing. Electricity can be dangerous. Plastic bags can be dangerous. Neither are aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:52 PM
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So if your (unstated) premise is that the bear in question is a fluffy, benign animal who eats mostly berries, choose the bear. Of course! I would too. No problem. But that’s not necessarily the premise as understood by everyone. Maybe men are more interested in bears than women? That is in part what makes the whole question so stupid and largely rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:50 PM
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Well then, let the games begin!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:46 PM
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I’m not personally offended at all. I’m a pretty blue pulled sort of guy, and as a man I have had plenty of run ins with dangerous men in my life, but, and not to be patronising, and hopefully only slightly pedantic, to the best of my knowledge you are not being logical because you are not coming to a conclusion based on a clear set of premises, i.e. what kind of bear are we talking about here? A sun bear or a kodiak grizzly? Serious question. Both can fuck you up, but one can weigh half a ton m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:45 PM
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Bears absolutely have the motivation, it’s just not malicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:24 PM
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You’ll notice that I didn’t offer the choice, and it was explicitly reductio ad absurdam.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:22 PM
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Is that really why the question was asked? To illustrate that “women are emotional”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:21 PM
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They don’t need to be. Their default setting is dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:37 PM
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Sorry, I misread your initial comment, and it’s a big no to any of that from me, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:36 PM
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Both are men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:14 PM
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I’m not convinced the feelings are really genuine though. It’s a fucking bear!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:11 PM
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Lol, weirdos in public, absolutely!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:10 PM
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Good question in that , I’m not sure of the correct term, a confounding variable (??), would be that who can say if any given man is going to be the murdered or the murderer. Many men carry weapons for “self defence” and end up using them and are convicted of murder. Many men carry weapons that are used to murder the person originally carrying them. To reduce it ad absurdam, two men meet, the question is, who will kill whom? A man and a woman meet, the woman is almost certainly going to be the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:00 PM
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Okay sorry I think I missed your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:53 PM
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Agreed. It’s idiotic, and I’m not trying to exonerate men of anything, but I think anyone who thinks about it would truthfully prefer to meet a fellow human, otherwise they are not being truthful, they are trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:46 PM
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Exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:34 PM
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Not sure, except most women are murdered or assaulted by men they know, I believe usually their partner, and yet the question isn’t “would you rather meet your husband/boyfriend in the woods” because duh, you live with him!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:33 PM
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So you’d be equally scared of a strange woman as a strange man or bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:24 PM
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Full disclosure, as a man I’m 500%+ more likely to be murdered (by another man, and statistics may vary according to your locality) than a woman is, but would still prefer to meet a man in the woods than a bear. Call me crazy, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:49 PM
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Perhaps they thought you were interested in them romantically/sexually, you didn’t progress it in any way, so they went fishing elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:28 PM
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Men turn women down all the time. Same men might also sleep with a woman who they know they really shouldn’t. Done both myself. Lived to regret both. Human desire is a mysterious thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:26 PM
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Very harmful, and I think you would have to dive pretty deep to find anything equivalent in the womanosphere. But- and it’s a big but, depending on what circles you move in, you will get at the very least a solid side eye from a woman if you say you listen to Joe Rogan, who I feel is for the most part pretty vanilla, the inverse would not be true if a woman said she listened to xyz podcast, because for the most part those woman-centric podcasts fly under the radar of controversy, even though the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:47 PM
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I just wanted to support my point by emphasising that I’m not some goblin moaning about how women don’t like them. I’m not a player. I’m an old fashioned romantic and pretty solidly blue-pilled, but I think women, especially young women, are being sold a total lemon by social media influence. And it’s a goddam shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:51 AM
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Also never struggled with women, but have to disagree to some extent. I think a lot of younger women allow themselves to be bombarded with relationship and dating advice coming from social media and podcasts which is very much a “womanosphere” and often not very helpful or indeed healthy for their relationship with the opposite sex. Some of it is dishonest. Some of it is explicitly hateful to men. A lot of it will be sensational because more clicks means more money. I believe (and hope) this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:11 AM
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Also sounds a lot like theory rather than practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:56 PM
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You talk about the Herculean effort of building muscles in order to reach “peak masculinity”, and I say no, peak masculinity is a mindset, nothing to do with muscles. Now, I might have got you wrong because tbh I didn’t read the entire wall of mostly word salad that made up your post, and if so, apologies, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:15 PM
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No. I lived in an area with a big Vietnamese population, those first generation dudes were all built like chickens, sat around smoking all day, but fuck me the balls on them if anyone came even close to fucking with them. Real men. No fucks given.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:23 PM
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Chronically online young men are probably sufficiently isolated from women (who aren’t directly related to them) for their “hatred” to be better understood as a psychological meme than based on anything more meaningful, not that it can’t still be dangerous, of course. And I don’t personally identify as red pill myself, but certainly I’m interested in, for instance, evolutionary psychology, which for many would place me solidly in the red pill sphere, and I absolutely do not hate women. To the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:08 PM
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What you say kind of makes sense but it doesn’t quite work like that, in terms of men’s fertility. And, personally I don’t give a shit who approves or disapproves of who I date, but there are plenty of young women who find older men attractive. Don’t ask me why, but it’s definitely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:45 PM
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It’s not a requirement though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:58 PM
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Muslims don’t have to be circumcised, and bacon is not very good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:59 PM
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True, it’s very common to see abuse heaped on older men quite openly and unreflectively in the various media of popular culture that would never be tolerated if it were applied to older women, eg; fat, bald, pot bellied, grey, jowls, creepy etc etc. You would have to delve into designated misogynist spaces to find the same said of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:49 PM
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You’d be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:48 PM
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Let me jump in and say that I’ve known some pretty attractive women who’ve slept with some, how to put it, “ordinary” looking men, just the one time. Pumped and dumped. I guess a warm body when you’re in the mood is all it takes sometimes. That said, this was pre online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:51 PM
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I think the OP is just the most pessimistic take possible on people changing as they get older and putting a little misogynistic spin on it. I mean, as a young man, did I overlook some really great women because what I wanted was a girl who giggled at my jokes and had bouncy tits? Why yes I did! Now that I’m older I appreciate different things in a woman. Shocker, I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:58 AM
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True. I’m old as shit but have taken good care of myself and I believe I’m attractive to a pretty broad range of women. I really think that taking care of yourself is important mostly because it makes you feel good and is healthy. I do it for myself. And this is the other thing, as you get older, you give less of a shit. And I think there is something innately attractive about that, not just romantically or sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:43 AM
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It’s a dude with an average size dick running with his dog. You’re not missing much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:27 PM
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The guys dick doesn’t look that big tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:25 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:18 PM
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Perhaps. It’s certainly true that we in the west are in a state of cultural and perhaps moral crisis. What constitutes our moral compass is largely formed in childhood, in the home, so I think what we are also seeing is a crisis in parenting which is perhaps something we don’t hear that much about. Unsurprisingly it’s all linked & a very big question for us a society going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:15 PM
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That was my point. Women don’t cheat for big dick. I would disagree as to what extent it’s important in a relationship though. Edit; sorry I misread, I think we are probably in agreement concerning the degree of importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:55 AM
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The question is how they would know before they engage in the sex things?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:30 AM
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They are perfectly common, and even if you don’t believe this, take comfort in the fact that tall, handsome, rich, jacked, charming, supremely confident big dick guys are extremely rare, and of those rare beings, a proportion, perhaps a majority, will also have a moral compass. Source- I am a tall, charming, confident, jacked, kind of well off big dick dude AND I have a moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:27 AM
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Samesies!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:37 PM
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You are right. She does seem very threatening. Extremely threatening, in fact. A true predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:39 PM
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It’s odd, because I’ve always thought of monkey branching as something men do. I mean, we never called it that, we would speak of not breaking up with a girl until we had someone else lined up. It’s kind of a cliché. I’m not proud of it but it’s something I’ve done multiple times myself (I’m a man), and I know of many instances of other men doing it. Can’t really think of an instance of a woman doing it, though I’m sure it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:49 PM
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Not behaving like a thirsty fool can help you appeal to women headline shocker. Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:28 PM
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Well in my very much anecdotal experience people across generations will trot out the expected reactions to age gap relationships irrespective of sex, which are somewhere between “that’s disgusting” and “who cares” depending on the usual variables of age of the younger person, economic, educational or social disparity etc. And I’m always pleased to find that in real life, unlike the internet, young people tend to be as open minded and skeptical as you’d want them to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:39 AM
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I think your phrase “from what I see online” tells us everything we need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:00 AM
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I still don’t know. I’m not seeing any evidence of team female. People say one thing and then do another. It’s hardly news. And in any case I’m not picking up on any great jihad against women dating older men in real life, and society’s view of age gap relationships are pretty solidly codified at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:39 PM
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I dunno, I get the feeling it’s more acceptable than it used to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:42 PM
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This is my experience exactly. The people I know in 10+ age gap relationships are just normal people who clicked. I’m sure there’s plenty such relationships where there is creepiness involved, where the woman is, say, younger than mid 20s but I don’t know of any.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:41 PM
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