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| 1 | Separated for a 5 daysI can give you advice man. I know in your case there's a kid and it's harder but please do not contact her. Do whatever you need but do not contact her. I tried to salvage the marriage multiple times and every time she was colder than ice. Eventually I stopped and while it's not easy it gets better. Do you have anyone to contact to kill the urge to contact her? Like siblings? Because once you contact her it will go to step one and you don't want that, trust me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with intellectual and emotional connection with wifeTiktok? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Current situation and social mediaIn my case it was similar. It was amicable, but I wanted to save it. At first she said that she doesn't want to become enemies. After that she became cold really quickly like I never existed. She also said that she felt forced into the relationship/marriage, after which I asked why she felt like that, after that she blocked me in WhatsApp. My last message I sent her I asked her if she's seeing anyone (I know I know I shouldn't have done that but I did) for the closure, to finally let her go to w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Current situation and social mediaYes , only reddit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/23 01:54 PM |
| -1 | Feeling the failure pretty heavilyBut she already gave it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Utterly DestroyedAnd you, be very well too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Utterly DestroyedThank You. That was a random reddit generated one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/23 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Reinventing oneself post-divorce?My story is many years since brought her to this country (UK). Got her a job and in 2021 I asked her to come to my job, she agreed. Separated from July. Basically my story was that I wanted to save the marriage but she didn't. It was too hard for me to stay in the town and the same job so I left for another city to my sister (thanks to her). It's far from perfect as I'm starting a bit more than a minimum wage job soon. I killed a lot of my nerves looking for it. I also don't have any qualificati… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 06:48 PM |
| 3 | I love her, and that's the beginning and end of everything.I'm not good with memory either. I recommend using notes, google keep and using calendars for the dates for birthdays, appointments etc Technology really helps | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 06:42 PM |
| 5 | The pain is still there after a monthOne month is nothing. In your case it is more painful that you don't see your daughter. It just makes it double harder. The only thing I can tell - stay strong my man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Steps to Get Over ItYes, and with my ex we were even talking about other couples who couldn't stay together. Like such idiots and then it happens to you, you think wth? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 09:05 AM |
| 5 | Utterly DestroyedWhich only men want to solve. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Utterly DestroyedYou're not worthless. Something in her clicked and changed. My ex also told me good things about me and when we separated she said the same things but opposite. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/23 08:54 AM |
| 4 | The Coldness AfterI can tell my story. Not long before the separation we were even looking for a property together, something you do with someone you want to live long. Of course we didn't buy it... Shortly after we separated I wanted things to work and repair, and asked her... She said she has no feelings for me, she's not sure if she's ever liked me as a man, she hated everything I did or said, she doesn't want to hibernate together anymore, the way we lived was sad etc, etc, etc... Definitely somebody else was… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/23 09:53 PM |
| 3 | So weird how many of us saw our wives get addicted to scrolling TikTok constantly.Can confirm. My ex was the same, getting angry when I reminded her of craptok usage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/23 09:42 PM |
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