Pixiwish Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happiness This exactly! I don’t want a guy who needs me to be a better version of himself or to be his motivation. 1) because I don’t want that responsibility and 2) I don’t believe for a second the guy would stick with it. Like me getting a new car. The first few months I keep it pristine but after awhile it loses that infatuation period and I go back to my usual wash it a couple times a year I’m not waxing it etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 05:07 PM
–	Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happiness This is some of the best advice many of these men could receive but I don’t think they’ll take it to heart. There was just a self improvement thread and basically saying it won’t make you feel better but the whole focus was on getting women. The focus needs to be YOU. I don’t want to complete a man. I want one who complements me and who I complement. I want a partner not a dependent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 05:00 PM
6	"Self-improvement" makes you jaded even if it works for dating. This is something I find interesting. Many of TRP talking about self improvement talk about it as only a way to increase their SMV and a huge focus of their lives is around this from the content they consume etc. They then want to project this on women thinking everything we do is for men. I’m happily single and not looking but I’m always self improving and it isn’t for increasing my SMV and in fact I’m probably doing the opposite since my body is toned with muscle definition which men can find …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 04:38 PM
2	What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average? This is so true. The amount of men I see who obviously haven’t showered in days, smell and wear old faded anime, gaming or meme shirts is ridiculous. Their hair and beards are nappy too. It honestly isn’t that hard for a man to look decent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 05:57 AM
3	Q4all So if I was wanting commitment free I wouldn’t go for this situation. The wife would need to join in not watch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 05:48 PM
8	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching IMO intent is important. If your only goal is to get my number or ask me on a date I’m not going to be so receptive, but if you approach just to talk I love just talking to people and I approach men and women all the time. If we seem to have a good conversation then ask for my number. Keep in mind I’m not a club girl and I don’t go to bars but I attend a lot of conferences and am a volunteer librarian. I bring this up because if you’re talking about clubs and bars they tend to have a different c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 07:05 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hard for me to say I’m a former gymnast and still work out so I’ve still got my gymnast body. Some guys love it and others think it is gross. I really don’t care that much though because I love it and think it is hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 04:57 PM
–	Will women overlook flaws for a wealthier man I’d be really curious to see the studies on this. Do you a link by chance? I’m just wondering what the parameters are like hookups husbands what are the other characteristics etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 03:04 AM
–	Will women overlook flaws for a wealthier man No, besides being able to provide for himself money isn't a factor for me. Large amounts of money is actually a yellow flag for me as these types of men I assume have an easier time with women and I'm not a casual hookup or a housewife so I'd be questioning what his goal in dating me even is. For women whose dream is to be a housewife I would imagine the answer is yes because in order to be a housewife you need a man who has the financial means to provide for a family so the priorities on what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 11:06 PM
–	Is it really so bad to approach women? Not if he has situational awareness. If I’m obviously busy or in a conversation with someone else interrupting me isn’t going to get you anywhere. I’m very social and love to talk to all sorts of people I love being talked to and I love to approach others. The thing to me is the goal should be to talk to me and learn something about me and share something about yourself not to get me to date you. If we have a nice conversation then sure ask for my number. Coming in with “hi I’m Bob can I have yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 09:05 PM
1	What's the point in adjusting who you are in order to be attractive, if you're not yourself anymore? I’ve never viewed this as change yourself it is be a better version of yourself. TRP have this mindset that everything everyone does (especially women) is for the other sex. Don’t do it for that do it for you. I workout and love my body but I know it isn’t attractive to many men because I have muscle definition on my abs and arms but I don’t care because I think my muscles are hot to me. Men don’t care (or even know what it is) that I’m learning the Pathetique sonata but I love it and it is for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 06:05 PM
1	What's the point in adjusting who you are in order to be attractive, if you're not yourself anymore? I’ve never viewed this as change yourself it is be a better version of yourself. TRP have this mindset that everything everyone does (especially women) is for the other sex. Don’t do it for that do it for you. I workout and love my body but I know it isn’t attractive to many men because I have muscle definition on my abs and arms but I don’t care because I think my muscles are hot to me. Men don’t care (or even know what it is) that I’m learning the Pathetique sonata but I love it and it is for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 06:05 PM
1	If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him? I would expect to pay rent or something along those lines and I’d in fact insist on coming up with a plan first. In my case it would need to be a serious relationship too because I’d have to sell my home to move in with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 05:41 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, but I’m not ever looking for a relationship. I don’t monkey branch and I love being single. I tend to just let my relationships happen when they do. For me that has been 3 relationships that lasted 13 years starting at 17 and at least 6 months single in between.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 05:13 PM
1	What is a low value man? Goals to me are things like: learn an instrument or language, run a 5k, win a chess tournament, get a nice photo of Saturn doing astrophotography and who know what else. Something he is passionate about. Would a guy who makes 100k+ a year be nice? Sure, but to me that is a big yellow flag because he’s likely to be a player or view me more as a possession than a person. He could overcome that but I’d be more weary of a man who makes 100k than one who makes 50k.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:41 PM
–	Relationships are transactional So you want women with a low body count but they should also put out on the 3rd date. Can you explain how this works?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:26 PM
6	Would you be okay splitting expenses roughly 50/50 with a male partner that makes significantly more than you. Wouldn’t bother me one bit. Have an ex who I paid for 100% of everything so splitting 50/50 would be great since I’ve always been the higher earner. To be clear though how much he makes isn’t that important to me as long as he can take care of himself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 04:13 AM
–	Q4W: Would you date a starving artist Also I’m sorry about your parents. It sucks. I didn’t have my mom so my dad just drank so while he was in my life I didn’t see him much or know him well which I’m sure you understand. Part of this I’m sure molded me for who I am today as I’d never date a drinker and sure as hell will never be a house wife since that is basically what I was for my dad growing up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:53 AM
–	Q4W: Would you date a starving artist Call center. It sucks to start (like really bad, but even the starting money and benefits are usually decent) for a couple years but if you work hard and show up you can promote and things get better and the money gets very nice and many prefer internal promotions so you also get on the job training even if you lack the degrees for the job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:50 AM
–	Q4W: Would you date a starving artist I just don’t want to support him financially. Since I have made myself a comfortable life I don’t need a man with money I just don’t want a man who needs mine to get by. I also don’t expect expensive dates or gifts. I want a man who has something to say I want to hear and does something I can admire or appreciate. And most importantly he makes me laugh and thinks my dad jokes are tolerable and endearing even if he just rolls his eyes	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:46 AM
–	Q4W: Would you date a starving artist Yes I own my home (well I have a mortgage but I bought single at 25) and bought my dream car a couple years ago. Also have my dream dog who is a spoiled princess. This is from someone who had to drop out of high school due to my dad going to prison my senior year. I had to work and support myself since 17 got my GED and worked hard for the same company for most of my life getting small promotions which lead to better jobs with better pay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:43 AM
–	Q4W: Would you date a starving artist I don’t think taking care of himself financially is that much of an ask.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:37 AM
–	Q4W: Would you date a starving artist He needs to be able to support himself. I’ve been a sugar momma before and it is terrible. He’s been watching TV all day and hasn’t even showered and I get asked “what’s for dinner?” If he isn’t obese and takes care of himself grooming and financially (this doesn’t mean he needs to be rich just have his own car and his own place maybe with 1 roommate) I’d actually love it. Especially if he does space paintings or landscapes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 03:27 AM
7	Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 + Honestly most the men here I’ve noticed have a victim mentality and feel entitled. I empathize to a point because I don’t think it is easy. But life isn’t easy. Being a man isn’t easy neither is being a woman. Instead you’re going to whine about women and build resentment to them and immerse yourself in videos about women who just perpetuate your resentment. Then after building all this resentment and hurting your self esteem because the videos you watch make you think every woman is an OF model…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/23 02:23 AM
1	Relationships are transactional Do you expect her to be committed to you for those 12 months though? I wish you luck with this because I’m a commitment based woman and I’d move on if you wanted to wait a year before wanting to be monogamous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 06:50 PM
2	Relationships are transactional I guess it depends on what vetting you’re talking about. Just deciding to be monogamous shouldn’t take a year. I’m only monogamous and if the man isn’t interested in that for a year my vetting is done he can find someone else. Moving in together? That process should take awhile 12+ months or more is fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 06:29 PM
5	Relationships are transactional I’m a woman who doesn’t put out until I feel I’ve vetted a man. Any idea how often I get no call back after a 3rd date? For me it is usually date 5-6 dates where I know I want something more long term with a guy. If I waited 12 months I’d never have a relationship. This is from a woman who has only had 3 relationships (3 years, 6 years and 5 years) no monkey branching and a min of 6 months between.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 06:15 PM
2	"Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women first So let’s say these men have a decent job and are self sufficient with good hygiene and grooming and in decent shape. What type of woman are they/you going for? I’m curious about are able to easily approach men and be social with them? I find that many socially awkward men on the internet want to jump right into socializing with women where they are trying to get more out of it than just social interaction and they fail. Start by learning to just interact with men because you’re not looking for a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 05:58 PM
1	What is a low value man? Yea	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 05:05 PM
5	What is a low value man? I personally don’t care how much female attention he gets. For me it can even make me less interested. I certainly am not going to go out of my way to attract him. If he approaches me I’ll treat him as I would any person who approaches me which is being polite and respectful but I’m not putting any extra effort to get him. And if he’s looking for a one night stand I’ll let him know pretty quickly to look elsewhere. I think RP often focuses on club dynamics and women where it is a subculture invo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 10:28 PM
-1	What is a low value man? Low value man: Unemployed or underachieving job Lives with parents or 2+ roommates Obese Doesn’t leave the house much and spends most of his time playing video games (don’t get me wrong I love video games and want a guy who plays them too but I have more to my life) Ones that do leave the house but go to the bar almost daily Daily drinkers Pothead (again moderation is fine) Poor hygiene including infrequent hair cuts and facial hair maintenance Lack of self confidence No ambition or life goals D…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 10:19 PM
14	Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys? Yeah first thing after reading this I’m thinking what kind of women are these men pulling? I live in a mostly blue collar town that has lots of drunks and meth heads. Many are also coupled up, but these men aren’t pulling in hotties. They call them “bar flies” around here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 07:17 PM
–	In what way have you seen misandry in your environment? Sexual assault charges. It seems to swing to hard one way or another. Women lie or they were asking for it or all she has to do is make a claim and the man is guilty. These things can be handled with empathy and taking a woman’s claim in good faith, but it can also be investigated discretely until there is solid evidence. A case also should not be able to be taken to court on a victim’s testimony alone. Also if it comes out later that the victim was lying they should receive up to 5 years for ru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 11:45 PM
–	In what way have you seen misandry in your environment? I’m a woman and I hate that men can’t fight back against a woman. I don’t think you should be the crap out of her but if she’s punching you I think a man should punch back and I think women should expect this. The kids thing is sad. I’m not saying sexual abuse isn’t a thing but Mr. Rogers would not be tolerated in this day and age simply because he is a man. I would also expect he’d have false allegations placed on him within a year or two and even after being found innocent his life and career …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 11:35 PM
2	Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex I mean you aren't wrong about social settings, but removing work as one of those isn't going to help. I'm not saying it is all bad, but you can't say losing that social aspect of life will have 0 impact on people's social lives. The statistics are 16-22% of people met their spouses at work. So that's not even counting dating or casual relationships so working remote all that opportunity is now gone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 10:09 PM
1	Can you put your preference into numbers? Since you used preferences and not requirements/standards I can answer this. I’d like a man who is a firefighter (so whatever they make) about 5’8-6’ I don’t know weight but he’d have a 6 pack and tone arms, green eyes, skin color light brown, dick size 7” big enough to be very filling but can fit everywhere with relative ease, has a motorcycle, drives a muscle car and not a truck, drinks rarely, loves UFC so we can go to events together, can lift me and carry me around easy (for a firefighter 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 09:44 PM
7	Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex Social media is the bigger issue. People are leaving their homes less and less (working remote, DoorDash, instacart and Amazon) and when they do they don’t get genuine social interaction because everyone is on their phone. And many things they are doing isn’t for the experience of it but instead to post about it for dopamine. This also makes it so people aren’t learning how to approach people socially whether just to make friends or to initiate flirtation. Basically in our modern age people are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 09:25 PM
1	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention I think you need more social interaction if you think treating a woman as you would a person and not involving sexual attraction in it means you’re treating her like a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 05:40 PM
1	Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optional It is a big deal because of the information you consume and believe. Is it attractive? Yes, but men find a big butt or big tits attractive but is that all that matters when deciding if she’s attractive? Are a small group of men and women going to date only if they have those features? Sure, but that doesn’t mean that if you lack these features you can’t be attractive and find a partner. Only 14% of American men are over 6’ and I’d bet many aren’t attractive. Do you honestly believe less than 14%…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 03:38 PM
1	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention Am I wearing a bag? How does it make me feel? Does it hug my body? What material is it made out of? If a tight fitting mermaid gown (this is a style of gown not an actual mermaid costume) with a side slit and heels wouldn't get me strange looks from men and women every time I went out I would wear that every day. Edit: Satin preferred. And yes, I'm not starved for male attention so if I could wear that dress and be treated just like a person and no sexual desire coming my way I'd be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 05:29 AM
–	A “bad personality” or “how you view/treat women” are not the reasons why a significant amount of men have no romantic success I think you do need to have a base line decent appearance but personality can be huge. If you showed me a picture of Ginger Billy I’d tell you hell no he isn’t attractive, but because of his personality I find that man INSANELY attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/23 01:33 AM
3	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. I’m not even arguing here at this point you’re saying that RP is trash TV and not a way of thinking and if that is the case for you then great but in general RP is considered that which is what the original post is talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 10:05 PM
5	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. I can’t comment since I’m pretty much ignorant on what The View is except that it’s target demographic is women and seems more geared towards the stupid tabloid purchasing type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 09:48 PM
5	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. Many don't see it as just trash TV though. I mean RP is basically a life philosophy and a view on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 09:28 PM
29	The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it. Nice post! As a woman I support men wanting to improve themselves and understand women better and being masculine and understanding what they value in a woman. I think RP has some great points but I also think a bunch of the content hurts men more than helps. They parade around OF models, LA club girls and just generally very attractive women or freak shows and say this is what women are like and I don’t know any women at all like them. By doing this they promote a mentality of victimhood over a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 08:49 PM
2	Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optional Please reference the parent comment this is in response to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 07:59 PM
6	Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optional Please reference the parent comment this is in response to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 07:59 PM
3	Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optional I’m using him as an example based off looks alone. If all other things were equal height is not as big of a factor as you want to make it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 07:53 PM
7	Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optional Not even close. Maybe on the videos you watch with women specifically selected to give you this impression who are OF models or LA club girls, but average height is fine for the average woman. Is tall attractive? Sure, but is that that matters with looks? Def not. I’d date Demetrious Johnson who is 5’3 long before I’d date a 6’ guy who is overweight. And most of the hot Hollywood actors aren’t even that tall either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 07:34 PM
4	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention I mean I own a lot of scandalous clothing I feel great in at home, but would never wear out (even though many women do wear that type of clothing to clubs) because I don’t want the attention. Even dressing more conservative I can feel unsafe in certain situations around men	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 04:27 AM
2	I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attention You aren’t entirely wrong, but not entirely right either. While it can be part of the reason it isn’t always the main one or even a big, but possibly the cherry on top. With clothing specifically it is hard to explain to men because your variety in clothing is much different. The best male example I can give is wear some PJs and then wear a tuxedo. How different do you feel in the two? You likely even carry yourself different. With women a form fitting skirt/dress and heels if a much more amplif…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/23 04:25 AM
–	How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?" I’d admit it in a second if I said looks don’t matter but I haven’t. Looks are important, but I will also say it isn’t the only thing I’m looking for. Especially because hot guys can be assholes that have no personality so it doesn’t matter how nice his body is if talking to him in tedious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 06:13 PM
4	How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?" Never. I have said looks aren’t the most important thing. Especially if I’m the looks label you put nice hygiene, clothes that aren’t old band or anime tshirts, and keeping the hair and beard maintained then I’ll tell you that part of looks is insanely important	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 06:09 PM
–	Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some? Generally it is because they are hot and they think that is enough. I would love some of these podcasts that ask women this to get 20 guys from the comments section hating on these women who at least offer attractiveness and see their answer. These chicks wanting a guy making over 100k. The amount of men I meet who work a dead end job and live with their parents in their 30s is staggering	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 06:21 AM
4	Women, is the 2x sub a representative sample of women? I wouldn’t say cat calling doesn’t happen. I get it often and move on. I also know how scary men can be I’m 5’ and 102lbs. Not all of 2x is awful but for the most part it is a toxic echo chamber and some really crap advice. It is like online reviews people are more likely to get on to complain than to share a positive experience so a guy trying to get insight into women are only seeing the worst experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 09:23 PM
9	Women, is the 2x sub a representative sample of women? Honestly it is a forum to just bitch and make up traumatized experiences to get outrage bait going. Most there are just hurt and pissed off and like I’ve said I bet 80% of the horrible experiences shared there are made up. Others are some serious overreacting to minor things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 08:52 PM
3	Would you marry someone that was not very bright? Not at all. If he checks all boxes you listed that’s more than I’d expect and he’d obviously have a sense of humor so I could tease him a bit about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 03:27 AM
6	How would you feel if a guy didn't take you on the same quality of dates as previous suitors? I actually think picnics are great first dates if the weather is nice. And for me that means hot. I get cold too easy to be outside for long periods of time at 60 or below. Edit: money for dates doesn’t matter. My dream date is he invites me to his place and says wear PJs. I walk in and there are blankets everywhere and the date is we make a blanket fort he makes dinner and we watch movies	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 11:33 PM
5	If youve a woman with OnlyFans Can You really Object to "Sharing" Your Man. Yeah I forgot to include that the 166 million number was the US.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 05:58 PM
5	If youve a woman with OnlyFans Can You really Object to "Sharing" Your Man. My brother is a pretty typical incel and is very into red pill content and he’s very intelligent but I tell him stop worrying about women that aren’t your type anyway. Please get some decent clothes, a haircut, maintain your beard, shower more regularly and find a good job. You’re a great guy and good looking when you take care of yourself but you don’t offer much as is. Stop blaming women that you’re lonely and do something about it. I do like red pill content though because it gives naive youn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 05:00 AM
2	If youve a woman with OnlyFans Can You really Object to "Sharing" Your Man. Great point. Many couples like this also a big boundary is at the parties. That’s not cheating, but outside of is a whole different thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 04:19 AM
23	If youve a woman with OnlyFans Can You really Object to "Sharing" Your Man. So a few things. First I don’t understand men’s obsession in the red pill community with OF girls. This isn’t the vast majority of women in fact it is a pretty small amount. The estimate is about 1 million so that’s 166 million women who aren’t on OF. One of my biggest issues with red pill content is how they pick a specific type of woman who has an OF or is a club girl in LA or something and not just a regular woman living in suburban/rural America. We don’t act like this, live like this or hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/23 04:15 AM
1	Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore? I actually wonder this often when watching red pill content. They praise the traditional submissive house wife, but where are these men who can even provide that? I have never dated a guy who makes more money than me (to be fair before I left my career I was making great money and it has never been something I care about in a man) and also had periods of unemployment. Many single guys I know also don’t take care of themselves to even have good hygiene. They wear faded anime tshirts or their spor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 11:54 PM
–	Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive? As someone who has fired a lot of people and hated it the feelings are very similar. You know you are going to crush someone and you really don’t want to, but you have to. The same applies to worry how they will react.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/23 11:35 PM