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Thank you for that interesting information! It's so hard to find the true statistics because different sources quote different numbers. And then I think to truly find out the statistics we'd need to look at the figures for when women have committed the crimes alone, rather than as an accomplice to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:27 PM
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I'm not sure this would really happen in the UK. Unless say you planned a crime or were caught committing a serious crime. In which case I'm sure they would definitely need to go over your history in order to find out your motive, who was involved, if you've planned more crimes etc. I've never been in trouble with the law and don't plan to be. But I'm sure if it was like someone got caught smoking weed, they wouldn't just pull up their entire Internet history. Can you imagine the poor person who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:25 PM
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I try and be careful with what I say (I can't even help it at this point). I've been vilified so much for having opinions and outspoken - mostly by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:51 PM
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I do completely agree with this. And I believe the majority of sex work is not empowering for women, I truly don't agree with that feminist narrative. Maybe it is if you're wealthy and get to sit at home in safety while doing sex work. But even then why are we being reduced to our bodies? A large percentage of sex workers are poor women, women who have fled abuse/domestic violence, women with addictions, and women of colour. There was a documentary about women in parts of the UK living in povert…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:42 PM
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As I said before the reason I don't want to comment on this is because I have seen it argued that her murders were cold blooded. And I didn't want that to become the focus point. I wanted the focus point to be that Aileen had suffered terribly at the hands of men in her life. Unlike equally notorious male serial killers such as Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer who are believed to have had normal childhoods. This is a quote from Crime Investigation about this subject: "There has been widespread debat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:26 PM
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I have heard that too. I didn't want to write that here because last I read there was a lot of arguments against that theory. I don't believe in killing anyone. But I do have some sympathy for her, she was repeatedly abused by the men in her life and then used prostitution as a way out. I can't even begin to comprehend that darkness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:27 PM
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Yes that is completely true. I was just giving my opinion, sorry if I didn't make that clear. I do believe obviously there is some sort of biological factor and the differences between testosterone and estrogen sure. There has also been some research into the amount of serial killers who sustained head injuries earlier in life. But in general there is a massive gap between the amount of women in prison for violent crimes vs the amount of men in prison for violent crimes. Not just murder, but rap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:23 PM
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Apparently 16% of female serial killers are women. I'm really interested in serial killers and when female serial killers kill strangers it is notably different to male serial killers. It's rare in general for a woman to kill a stranger, if you then factor in whether she was acting alone or with a male it becomes even smaller. Its rare for a female to stalk their victim, mutilate their body, and sexually assault/rape the victim. This is very common in murders carried out by men. One of the most …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:25 PM
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If you add in all Cluster B disorders, as they often overlap, and have comorbidities, some people are even diagnosed with Cluster B - Not specified... You have an even higher percentage. And this is regarding personality disorders, not just strong traits. My first boyfriend was extremely abusive to me, I'm still dealing with PTSD. Looking back I truly believe he either has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) comorbid with ASPD (Anti social/ Sociopathy) or just ASPD. It was terrifying watchin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:31 PM
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"Most girls don't recover from PTSD", I assume he means women and I assume he thinks men do. Does he have any evidence for this? As a woman with PTSD recovery is absolutely possible according to science
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:08 AM
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Please tell me there is an update that she has left him. Seems like he's just replaced his Mother with a younger version that he can get married to and sponge off for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:04 AM
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I'm 5ft10 and have dated men shorter than me too. My ex was actually 5ft6 but was a very confident guy and really didn't seem to even pay attention to our height difference... I've never gone out with a guy long term who was threatened by my height because honestly it just screams insecurity to me. They won't just be threatened by my height they'll be threatened by my friends, my achievements and the time I put into my own life. Ultimately they want me to be smaller than them so they can feel ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:50 PM
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Yeah its not like there are women who are historians, engineers, archaeologists, scientists, philosophers, psychologists etc. Who would use a time machine to advance their knowledge or to dive into their interests and passions... Personally I would use it to see extinct animals or how the night sky looked at the beginning, and how it has changed over time. But we know women are irrational emotional creatures and need men to be their voice of reason. Our first opportunity to explore life in anoth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:32 PM
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I like how the commenter says "you're not responsible per se" but here is a list of you being responsible for changing his behaviour. Women are always told it's their responsibility to change people and to stick by them, which is probably why so many end up sticking around abusers. If this was a man saying his girlfriend makes sexist comments he is uncomfortable with and she acts like this. I wonder how many men would ask him to stick around to help her change. People won't change unless they wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:15 AM
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Exactly. I'm sure there are a million subtle warning signs too before pregnancy. How does he act when you do less housework, how does he act when you're ill, how does he act when you need time away with friends or family etc. If he can't look after himself or resents you for having your own time and not taking care of his dirty clothes/cleaning the house. Probably not a good idea to have a child with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:51 PM
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"None of my relationships are like this" so it must be your fault. "The issue is that YOU feel" - telling you how you feel and also taking 0 responsibility. "You're being negative and I will filter it out" aka I won't listen to your genuine concerns or even acknowledge your feelings if I don't agree with them. This isn't how adults discuss things even when having a difference on opinion. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:37 PM
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Exactly! What were we baiting them to do? Act on their instincts which is to rape an underage girl who can't consent. So that they would rightfully end up in jail!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:34 PM
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I'm white, but I once read the black woman is the worst treated person on earth and I whole heartedly agree. This is why we need things like FDS so as women we can unite in doing better for ourselves because it doesn't look like we're getting help from any men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:31 PM
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I was the same and I remember grown men talking to me online. I was about 14 at the time and just thought I was cool or mature. Thankfully it didn't lead to anything dangerous. There were also men who were in their 20s who would hang out at the music venues, and parks all of us emo kids would hang out at. Again I thought we were all mature but looking back why was a grown man hanging out with children. I looked pretty developed for my age and was also really tall. I got hit on by grown men when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:25 PM
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Exactly! I love giving people gifts and its really not hard. What's their favourite colour, animal, taste, smell, music? And then I go off that. You can find beautiful handcrafted stuff on etsy. Your friend likes giraffes and lemon. I know maybe a hand painted giraffe mug, with some loose leaf lemon tea and a diffuser. Simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:57 PM
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Especially when men say they have dealt with it too so they must know. Women and men are socialised completely differently from birth. Men are socialised to be independent and strong. Women are socialised to be peace keepers and helpers. Never mind the biological aspects that mean women face things men cannot comprehend. Things like pregnancy, miscarriage, ovarian cysts, endometriosis, pcos, child birth etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:03 PM
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My ex was an extreme gaslighter and I left not knowing anything because he made me question reality so much. They gaslight for a reason, its to change your reality and the truth. You don't need to change reality or the truth if you're not guilty. You may still feel guilt over leaving and thats completely normal because you have empathy. But this isn't your fault, would you treat him the way he has treated you? Would you do all of those things and expect someone to stay? And then have the audacit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:27 PM
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THE baby, you mean OUR baby. The one you both agreed to create. Also he agreed to something and made a promise. But is then shouting at her and slamming things because she politely asked him to keep that promise, in front of their child. Wow, she needs to run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:05 AM
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Men are their own worst enemies. Plenty of women, mothers, girlfriends, wives and daughters emotionally support the men in their life. All of the time. I have been in relationships where I am always the emotional support, despite having my own problems without any support. Men's feelings are in general mocked by other MEN. Men being raped or taken advantage of by older women (when they are underage), is applauded by other MEN. Men being victims of domestic violence is mocked by other MEN. Why do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:51 AM
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Why waste your time on someone who clearly doesn't want you. Find someone who does, or even better spend time loving yourself and learning about yourself. You should be out there as soon as you realise you don't want the same thing. Not act like you're in a relationship and wait 6 months hoping for the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:44 AM
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I think with women I've normally always offered to pay 50-50 or if it was my idea and I'm definitely thinking this person is a great match I'll pay. I feel women are really concious of these things. So every time I've paid, they've paid for something next without any obligation to. I've really never had to worry about safety dating a woman. Haven't had to send my location to friends or feel passively aggressively pressured to have sex. Or worry this person is definitely a narcissist/sociopath. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:44 AM
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Unfortunately it was after we had eaten and in person. I blocked as soon as I got home because he seemed extremely narcissist and pretty creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:39 AM
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I wish it was Gordon Ramsay's restaurant! He took me to a cheap place. I ate a cheese salad. It was pretty laughable (but creepy) that he felt like he had done so much for me that I owed him sex... as soon as I got home I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:38 AM
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Of course it's not the child's fault. Yes children are inherently unsexual which is why it creeps normal people out to see them being sexualised or twerking (like in the photo above). No one is victim blaming children because of clothing. Predators and rapists will rape regardless of what someone is wearing. The problem is is that dressing little girls in sexual or adult ways is NORMALISING the sexualisation of girls. In the same way people are against breast feeding because it has been normalis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:19 AM
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Before FDS I have always offered to pay half on dates with men. Originally I didn't until I ended up on a date with someone who genuinely felt like I owed him sex due to him paying and I didn't want to end up in that situation ever again. I figured it's easier for me to pay half than running into that entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:52 AM
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Maybe some children had additional needs or special needs that have gone unchecked, because their families couldn't afford diagnosis or treatment due to poverty. I grew up in an extremely poor area. In poor areas schools are underfunded, teachers understandably don't want to be there, health care is expensive, child protection is overworked and underpaid. It results in many children falling through the cracks. Either missing diagnosis for things like Dyslexia, ADHD, ASD, or children being left i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:29 AM
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I've noticed there a lot of men who don't see women as actual people with lives, interests, hobbies, ambitions, educations. It's as though they believe we aren't even sentient, just an ornament.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:55 AM
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It's just bizarre, on one of the threads I read their was a woman saying her husbands just not comfortable as though that's fine and normal. So she will do it instead, but he needs to make sure to be on bath duty when they have a son. Just wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:54 AM
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Well exactly. Makes me wonder how these men would care for their daughters if they seperated and had part custody...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:52 AM
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That's so gross! see her like what? A little baby who needs changing or bathing. Are these men so porn sick they can't associate a vagina with anything non sexual...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:49 AM
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You're welcome. I read your comment and it sounded very similar to the abusive relationship I was stuck in. It completely ruined my physical and mental health. So I wanted to make sure you're doing okay. I'm so happy your sister and partner will help. I hope you've not told him your plans, just in case he starts trying to put things in your way. Just get out, it will be the best thing you've done for your wellbeing. Then after that you can look at the finer details like if you need to move elsew…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:45 PM
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Abusers consciously choose to abuse, and for those that are emotionally abusive. They are aware how to play with emotions, switch them on and off. They go to therapy in order to say they've been, excuse that they're working on it, or triangulate (emotional abuse) "even my therapist agrees with me and said YOU..." Abusers are a specific kind of person. One who cares more about themselves than others, and usually have little empathy. Therapy for them is just learning how to mask their abuse better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:36 AM
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Hey, I stumbled across your comment because I read your comment on another FDS post about financial abuse. I have also been in an abusive relationship, extremely emotionally abusive. And I just wanted to check in and see how you're doing? If you've managed to hide some savings, if you're now able to leave?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:28 AM
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I think we've had very similar experiences. I definitely played Barbara the builder and would say my exs were LVM. But even the one that I found out was on dating websites (without physically cheating) would take me on trips to places as a surprise. He paid for a trip to us in a city I'd never visited, planned the hotel, stayed in an area where he knew I would love the bars and scenery. He would randomly buy me little presents, cards, flowers. He would run me a bath if I was having a rough day w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:26 PM
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So this guy married a black woman and will have mixed race children (if they want them). Yet has no clue how black hair care works?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:50 AM
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Hello fellow tall woman! I'm the same height as you. I couldn't tell you how many men have told me they are 6'+ and then when they meet me I can see them insecurely measuring themselves next to me. They then tell ME I am extremely tall and must be 6' something. I haven't grown in 10 years. The worst was when a guy kept telling me he was definitely taller than me, I could see the top of his head, probably 5'7 and he was completely arching his shoulders back and almost on his tip toes. Why lie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:18 PM
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Neediness. Doesn't respect your need for alone time, you enjoying your own hobbies, your space or boundaries. Expects you to emotionally look after him. Constantly complaining or upset about something in life, that will make you feel bad for him, but he has zero resolutions or motivation to work on his problems. Seems jealous of others, even you. If you're doing something great, he's doing something better. But it's all talk and no substance. Takes things personally, like when you have a differe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:17 AM
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So if you're bisexual and attracted to both sexes... are you not allowed any friends?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:06 PM
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Like any addict he is probably hoping something makes him stop. Because up until this point his wife hasn't, his age hasn't, his health hasn't, any negative career affects haven't. I'm sure he would like to believe that having a child to look after will stop him, but it's wishful thinking. The only person who can control and stop the addiction is the addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:05 PM
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Downplaying. A way to completely invalidate your feelings or judgement. Chances are it was a constant thing, that had been mentioned multiple times and promises made. But still they couldn't be bothered or didn't care about what you wanted. Then of course they will say, "you're leaving me just because I left a dish in the sink?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:00 PM
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I had a guy once who actually grabbed my butt cheek so hard, like he was trying to pull it off. I turned around and he said he bumped into me, I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Then I felt it again and this time it was my vagina too. I turned around, grabbed his drink and poured it over his head. I should have told the bouncer but I was so annoyed. The best part is, outside I gave him a mouthful about how pathetic he was and his friend was just saying sorry he is drunk. And I was like, so is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:56 PM
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How pathetic. He is upset an autistic person is showing signs of autism IN HIS HOME. I know plenty of autistic people with a fantastic sense of humour, he's probably just not funny. Why is he desperate for validation from his WIFE'S friend. His ego is hurt, he'd rather his wife not have a great friend than have someone not laugh at his jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:46 PM
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Why does this man think he has any say in what other people wear?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:37 PM
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This is awful, pregnancy is so hard on a woman's body, its life threatening for some women. Raising children is no walk in the park. Especially healing while looking after a newborn, a baby and a household with no help. My Mum had three children close in age, lost two children previously and was on bed rest for her pregnancies due to the complications. There were building works going on during my Mum's first pregnancy after two stillbirths, and they had promised not to work on a Sunday. They wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:17 PM
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Men have plenty of insults for women... how many men call their ex's unstable, crazy, dramatic, high maintenance, a bitch... people can be awful, but I've met plenty of men who have made their ex out to be crazy after she left him for a totally legit reason like cheating. Scrolling through reddit, pretty much every post involving a woman usually involves speculation in the comments about how she MUST BE an entitled bitch, or a Karen, and a whole host of other insults I can't be bothered listing.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:32 PM
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As a woman who's been raped, in an abusive relationship with a man, and suffers from a chronic, debilitating illness, that only affects women. I'd love to know what fantasy world this woman is living in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:22 AM
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I believe its actually much healthier that a child "lacks a father figure" than having an active father that is abusive. Your sons have each other and they will have other men in their life that they can look up to. What really matters is that your son had the confidence and courage to confide in you about sexual abuse (that is so unbelievably hard) and you showed your son that under no circumstances is that normal or acceptable behaviour that you or him need to put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:19 AM
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I struggle with my health and mental health too (Ptsd). You didn't make the easy choice, but you made the right choice. So many people don't do that. Thank you for being a wonderful parent and breaking the cycle of abuse. You are taking medication for depression, looking after children, working and studying online! All on your own. Give yourself a break! As someone who has lost weight, gained weight, lost more. Please don't think your weight defines you, its not set in stone. Once you start appr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:12 AM
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I can't see it either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:41 PM
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Hey, I'm not sure how old you are. I'm mid 20s and I have PTSD, most likely CPTSD due to a bad childhood, sexual assault and an abusive relationship. It does get better, sometimes its taking a few steps back to go forward and sometimes there's no progress for a while. Be gentle with yourself, none of this was your fault. Do not write your entire life off because its been bad so far, I promise things can change for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:37 PM
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I like how its always men that need to "protect women" from other men. Dad's threatening potential boyfriends, no one is dating my daughter, I know how young men work - gross. Brothers protecting sisters from other boys. Having to pretend you have a boyfriend when a creepy man speaks to you or your boyfriend having to tell him to go away. Its as though a lot of men only respect other men's "NO".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:54 PM
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Load it up and then get off it? This actually seems like a lot of time to spend with someone... Only 4 hr 20 mins of gaming a week (that's like half a work day) and everything else is girlfriend... What about work, hobbies, gym, friends, days out, self improvement? I was in a relationship like this once upon a time. We didn't go anywhere, it was just him gaming all day... He would crawl into bed at 5am. He had a job that he went to 1-2 days a week, if he didn't sleep in. Meanwhile I was working …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:39 PM
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I think it's "the girlfriend zone"... this is currently happening to me with someone I considered a friend. When he originally told me he liked me and wanted to be together, I told him I only had platonic feelings and don't see him that way. We can still be friends and move on or end the friendship. He agreed we could be friends and it was fine. He then randomly messaged me to tell me we would be great together and he was really hoping I'd change my mind. Thanks for respecting my feelings and bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:11 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. I am also a survivor of sexual assault, mine was carried out by a stranger and I was drugged. It was extremely traumatic, I have PTSD and am in therapy. I did not have the police involved in my situation, as I was drinking underage and felt it was my fault. Would you feel comfortable going to the police in your situation? This is not your fault. Unfortunately sexual assault carried out by someone the victim knows is "the norm". You do not need to explain yourse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:44 AM
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Nicely put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:34 PM
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