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| 2 | Found this little gem.What she should do... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/21 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Found this little gem.So... what should be the action if she actually just wants to be friends with him whilest having no sexual interest in him? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/21 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Found this little gem.I hardly disagree with this: First: Relationships etcs are not transactional. Like i can't do sb favours and expect them to get in a relationship with me for being nice and being friends with her. You can't expect sth in exchange for friendship besides maybe friendship. Like if she isn't interested in him as more than a friend... should she just stop talking to him at all or what? Second: I just disagree with your statement that men don't want to be friends with women. Men and women can be just … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 8 | Female insecurity 101. I want him, but if no one else wants him, do I really want him?So next time, after this whole corona thing..., when my best friend wants me to go to a club with her, i should do so instead of going somewhere else alone looking for a girl? Never thought that way, i expected the opposite like seeing me with another girl would turn them away. That's why i went alone if at all. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Female insecurity 101. I want him, but if no one else wants him, do I really want him?Sounds like this satire-SUV commercial: "You don't want to drive it offroad, but you COULD (warning, has fwd and doesn't actually work offroad)!! BUY IT!" Nobody else knows what I'm talking about? No? Hmm... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/09/20 05:40 PM |
| 11 | Female insecurity 101. I want him, but if no one else wants him, do I really want him?Just be glad that you have it easy ffs | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/09/20 04:10 PM |
| 5 | a relationship should be 50/50Hmm, makes sense. I'd prefer an honest thanks you etc... But well, i don't have to be with her... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 15 | a relationship should be 50/50Why would I want to be shown on your fucking instagram story? Or fucking pay for it?? Can women just stop being so superficial and judgy and gossipy on social media? Thanks... I'd be fine with buying her a dior bag (or sth else nice, dunno how expensive dior is) for her birthday or christmas if she also makes me a nice gift (NOT "exposure" on IG). But I definetively wont make any expensive gifts just out of a mood. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Every online dating profile of women her age says “looking for a nice guy” “must treat me good” but we all know that is BS. Here is this woman explaining this concept in her own words. Nice guys indeed finish last. Niceness is a repellent to a hypergamous creature!What kind of challenge does she even want? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/09/20 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Oh, i thought Square one was me complaining. Sorry. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.No. Because i wont try to. I don't want to anymore after thinking about all of that stuff . | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Well, that would require that i find sb who wants to date me haha | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Well, after thinking about it whilst hosing the garden, i came to the following conclusions: I think i just wanted a relationship because i never had one and others did etc (edit: also social pressure i guess) A relationship, no matter now or in a few years, wont benefit me in any way... Like, i'm not that interested in sex, maybe that'll change i dunno, really not sure if i want kids as i will have enough of them at work each day, and fir emotional support i can just use reddit, there is always… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.I don't consider my sexual needs that low that i need to see a doctor.... But about the questions... Actually... No, not really. Financially maybe, but the other two... I guess you are right about that. Should be really obvious and i know it, but just don't think about those when i think "hm, i should try and find a gf". (i have to simplify those examples cause english isn't my first language and so on. I know they Sound weird, should work on that).... Also some people are actually pushing me in… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Because i have done some "math" and consider age as a Potential Problem later on? Or because i don't care about sex that much? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Well i don't want "hit n run" i was just thinking, that if my wife would be the same age as i am, i should find her around 25 or a bit earlier and get kids in the late 20s/early30s, because otherwise she will get too old for getting children (which women deny bzt any doctor will tell you that pragnancy after 35 will get more dangerous)... So yeah, i know that a 40 year old guy isn't really old whilst a 40 year old woman is a zombie (like not physically, she's still fine but her looks etc are gon… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.I never watched matrix, witch effect did the red pill/blue pill have? Also, sorry if my grammar sucks, english isn't my first language^ Shouldn't that be eliminated if she isn't that attractive to begin with? Like... Are uglier girls more reasonable in that regard (not all of course looking into this sub...)? I'm not really social at all haha. I know i can actually do quite well with people i know better or with children, as they are just direct and easy to understand. Except for many parents, t… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.So it is women holding themselves back whilst claiming men hold them back in that area? Like slut shaming, where most men actually don't care about how many guys she has fucked and mostly women shame other women? And they are always saying men get congratulated when they fuck women? Which isn't true but what they want to get themselves after fucking with a man? And accusing all men of thinking with their genitals? Like not every human sometimes thinks through their pants... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Well thanks for the answer. Definitively thinking about it. Like, not about my (future) job (just started the apprenticeship, and also... I don't really care that much about money, it is enough to life with it etc). .. But about the other things and that i maybe overvalue getting in a relationship sometimes. But i find it a bit weird, that the stable job, good with kids, nice guy thing only attracts older women (well, it doesn't, i am way too young for them but they are always really positively … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.And she thinks that because she did it this way, all other decent women or decent men have done the same. Projecting your own behaviour onto others is a great idea and never leds to problems.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Maybe a stupid question.... I don't have a chance on a dating app, and I wont try it... Where should I look for a GF/relationship. I'm way too shy to just ask a girl/woman out or talk to her like a normal person if I just met her... And also, I don't have much too offer/much interesting. Marching band/clarinette playing isn't interesting, tech stuff and my skills and interests there are too nerdy and the fact I'm good with kids 8and going to be a kindergarden teacher) only gets compliments from … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Woman complains that she only met fuckboys in her life, absolutely no men were ever good to her in a relationship, and makes a generalization that all men are lazy.Wouldn't it then be bettr for them to go for a maybe less desirable man, but have power and control over him and be more "free"/do what you want? Isn't one of the ideas of feminism to get more power? Like that would be a good way to get it in a relationship. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 12:29 PM |
| 22 | 48 with kids, looong laundry list describing a rich Mega Chad who saves the whales and orphans. And you better be vegan as well. And chivalrous who knows how to woo a “lady” in the traditional way.Why do people write long lists about what they're looking for instead of a long list about themselves? If I act a bit stupid and don't read between the lines, I know nothing about her after reading that whole thing so why should I want to date/meet her? And it's not like she will get a lot of messages at her age and with her looks. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/09/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | We warned them. They would not listen.Well, legally I could date down... But I'm not sure that I want to. I always thought something was wrong with me ... Well maybe that's the case too, working on myself can't do damage. Basically, I should try to find a 16-18 year old girl instead of a girl at 18-20? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm All For Feminism, But It's Kinda Making It Harder To Date"I Need A Guy Who Can Cope With The Fact That I’m Late For Everything" Well, if she will be okay with him never being on time, I don't see a problem there. Oh, THAT would be a problem? My bad, of course.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What?! You’re telling me guys think my engineering degree, my 5 masters, my 3 PhDs and my high paying job doesn’t make me more attractive and prefer a beautiful waitress?!Well, my friends are like 60-70% girls... But why shouldn't my girlfriend also be like a friend in that regard? I like to discuss with others, why not my gf (I don't have atm...) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Normalize it all you want... Chances are it won't happen 😂Don't want society to normalize something, just do it (if you don't hurt anyone and don't do sth illegal). No matter what exactly, you have all freedom you want and need. If you are 50 and want a man, just look for one etc. But don't complain if it's hard or you don't find somebody. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | We warned them. They would not listen.So... You're saying my problem with girls isn't especially me, but rather that they want an older guy? Cause... i would be prefer a girl my age, younger ones are often a bit childish (like I am just 19 so relatively young...) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 5 | What?! You’re telling me guys think my engineering degree, my 5 masters, my 3 PhDs and my high paying job doesn’t make me more attractive and prefer a beautiful waitress?!Yeah okay, i correct myself: intelligent and reasonable, not especially educated. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 08:34 PM |
| 6 | This is where they learn it from. It's in our pop culture.what was first? Hen or egg? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Mr. Right must be left-handed! And have the sex drive of an 18-year-old. And be an intellectual, but like woodworking. And tall, of course. (weekend content)Well, the requierements for my Job aren't that long^ | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Mr. Right must be left-handed! And have the sex drive of an 18-year-old. And be an intellectual, but like woodworking. And tall, of course. (weekend content)Well, i would comply with most of this stuff. However, I'm not left handed, 3cm too short, and probably way too young (19) and I have more female friends than male ones. And I want to see her first. And well, from the comments she is 38, which is way too old and also... wanting kids when you are 42 is a bit late in my opinion. Yes, I read the whole thing. Yes, I wrote a nearly serious answer. Yes, I do regret it strongly. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What?! You’re telling me guys think my engineering degree, my 5 masters, my 3 PhDs and my high paying job doesn’t make me more attractive and prefer a beautiful waitress?!Yes, it is that "trying to be the one that you want ypurself" kind of thinking, that i often don't get. Like there are a few points where i actually prefer if a girl is less "girly" but most of the time, it is unattractive. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 4 | What?! You’re telling me guys think my engineering degree, my 5 masters, my 3 PhDs and my high paying job doesn’t make me more attractive and prefer a beautiful waitress?!Well, i personally don't want a stupid gf. She needs to be somewhat educated and smart so she understands when i tell her about something slightly complex etc. I don't like to reason with really stupid people. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How is a man in his 40's so superficial and sex obsessed?!?! I feel like I'll be alone forever!!! 😫😩😰😢Well, my friends actually tell my i am sometimes really boring or "act like a grandpa" And yes, i know Sex (and masturbation) are healthy, but that doesn't give me more of a need for one of them (the last two years, before i think puberty did it's job when i think about masturbation). Having someone i really like as more of a Best-friend thing and also having sb to cuddle etc are higher priorities for me^^ Also, i don't know, cause i never had a relationship, but is daily sex really that common? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 2 | He treats me well. I miss the excitement. Surely there must be more?of course you ask on reddit instead of talking with him about your feelings about him. Makes sense. because the people on reddit know exactly how he feels about you and know everything about your personal relationship. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | 37F Dating was so easy in my 20s. Why won't men settle for me?Well, personality. But if she'd be a great person to be with, i guess she would not have multiple relationships failed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | 37F Dating was so easy in my 20s. Why won't men settle for me?I can have a cake and eat it. Really simple, just make a second whilst the first one is in the oven. yes, i know where the door is | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | 37F Dating was so easy in my 20s. Why won't men settle for me?This and also why she might be picking assholes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 2 | 37F Dating was so easy in my 20s. Why won't men settle for me?That is a concept, that many people think of being extremely sexist etc. No. It would be sexist, if the man (or the woman, everything i'll write also works the other way around) wouldn't be allowed to work and had to stay at home with no choice. Personally, I wouldn't have a problem if I for eg meat a woman who is a doctor and makes much more money to stay at home with the kids/work less so I'm at home when they come home (at least when they are young) and keep the house clean and so on. But wom… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 5 | She gets it! Already went thru baby-making phase. Now starting the dating phase.The post makes me feel sorry for her daughter. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | She gets it! Already went thru baby-making phase. Now starting the dating phase.That's why i normally don't mention i'm bi. Because it makes people think different about me. I don't want that and i don't get it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | How is a man in his 40's so superficial and sex obsessed?!?! I feel like I'll be alone forever!!! 😫😩😰😢Yes, it is a really good point. I mean, the only two things he might need for gis family (assuming his financial Situation with his house and the kids works etc) is emotional support etc, Sex and possibly sb to look after the Kids. By not matching with his sexual desires and, just assuming her personality from the post, not the emotional Support he wanted... She jzst instantly failed at least two of those three things. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How is a man in his 40's so superficial and sex obsessed?!?! I feel like I'll be alone forever!!! 😫😩😰😢But i don't want a woman to cook for me... Tge kitchen is MINE. But yeah, i did get your point, my comment isn't that serious. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How is a man in his 40's so superficial and sex obsessed?!?! I feel like I'll be alone forever!!! 😫😩😰😢I'm a 19 year old guy thinking Sex is superficial... Didnt knew that's wrong. Well, on the other hand i am still a virgin. Could have to do something with that, i just don't want to chase after girls. And i am boring etc... Heard it too many times. (that does sound a bit desperate and self-destructive, right? I don't hope so lol) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | How is a man in his 40's so superficial and sex obsessed?!?! I feel like I'll be alone forever!!! 😫😩😰😢Like a decent person with a few minutes to text every other hour and actual interest in finding/meeting sb? ^^ | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | How is a man in his 40's so superficial and sex obsessed?!?! I feel like I'll be alone forever!!! 😫😩😰😢I don't see why it is bad to be Single past 30? Like i'm just 19 now but wouldn't be surprised at all if I wont find a woman til i'm 30. And yeah, i also kbow why, but just can't force myself to act different or "appropiate for my age" (my few friends i have do consider me boring often, i'm the kind of guy that wont start the engine unless everyone has the seatbelt buckled and so on) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Pornstar Riley Raid wonders if she made a mistake by choosing porn over relationships and wants "normal" men to accept her for her.Well, i guess there are still many guys that don't care she makes porn/would not care that she made porn if she quits. And she isn't old or ugly or sth like that, just quit your job and change your life if you're not happy with it anymore (of course without hurting anyone, like if you have family and want to leave them etc... Think about it). She still has many changes in her life, i don't get why she complains. Crying after past relationships does not help. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/09/20 05:26 PM |
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