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No, wealth nor status haven't been an issue for me. On the other hand, I've never used dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:16 PM
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Yes, from gestures to gifts they thought I would like or need. Nothing big because I tell them I am not a materialistic kind of person but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:46 PM
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I had them in the past but I didn't use any special technique; considering that RP is just descriptive and not prescriptive. They simply liked it and liked me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:38 PM
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Thanks for your kind words, Megan. I'm sorry you had to experience that with yours and only his dead saved you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:52 AM
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I have healthy relationships with others. I've never been to therapy and I've never taken any med related to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:48 AM
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Because most people are a mixture of both to varying degrees, where “alpha traits” are more arousing and “beta traits” are more comforting. You're right. But as long as you understand the concept as a spectrum, you don't need a specific name for every possible combination of alpha and beta traits, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:08 AM
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Fine. Very positively. He always had (and has) this good balance between being strong or easy-going depending on the situation. My mother adores him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:38 PM
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While self-improvement can increase your chances of success, it doesn't guarantee a positive outcome. It's tough yet true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:33 PM
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The European countries where that other study gets the data also have universal healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:58 PM
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And plenty of other studies state the opposite, as the video shows. And by the way, your second article had been retracted by their own authors after it was debunked: Based on the corrected analysis, we conclude that there are not gender differences in the relationship between gender, pooled illness onset, and divorce. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0022146515595817
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:07 AM
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The video shows different recent studies with more samples and with more age range saying the opposite. For example, the one in Scandinavian countries from 2024, with 2,809,209 sample base (vs only 25,000 of yours) and an age range of 30-66 (vs only >50 of yours) says that there is no difference or slightly against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:58 AM
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I agree with you. Even though my label says red, it's an actual darkish/bloody red. Confidence means nothing unless you have passed certain threshold and the cause and consequence are often switched. Successful people are confident because they are successful, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:07 AM
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This is blindingly obvious and no amount of gaslighting is going to change it The amount of gas-lighting about this stuff here in order to justify not appearing shallow for not wanting to date unattractive people is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:07 AM
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Most of the time I don't. Nevertheless, sometimes when my gf and I witness a situation where it can be seen through RP lenses, I give my brief point of view and she agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:01 AM
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Yes, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:05 AM
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Considering RP is descriptive and not prescriptive; any advice, if any, would need to be tailored for each individual. redpillers want to control thier women not love them and hurt her into obedience, stop her from socializing etc. I don't do anything of this and I'll never advice for anyone to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:16 AM
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It's another way to say it. There is no bar because it is infinitely high since the attraction is 0. It is what happens when you divide anything by 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 09:00 AM
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The height of the bar is inversely proportional to how she's attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:52 AM
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1) Bars/clubs, gym, shops, walkable streets... 2) Teens, 20s, 30s, maybe 40s... 3) I don't know. 4) I don't know. 5) No. 6) I am in a LTR. 7) 40 % 8) I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:44 AM
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what if TRP’s crusade to kill off the decent guy and flood the world with selfish “bad boys” What? xD TRP’s unspoken agenda seems to be about controlling who gets laid and who doesn’t What?! xD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 03:25 PM
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Just use deodorant and wear a button down collared shirt with the sleeves rolled to the elbows, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:16 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 07:40 AM
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I have a gf, so none.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 06:42 AM
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I've spent most of my 30s in relationships, including my current one, and I've never used online dating. I wouldn't say I was drowning in options but haven't struggled.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:39 PM
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Do you think having first kid in woman's 30s is selfish and stupid idea? No. At what age do you think women should start having children? Whenever they want and can. I heard in Russia, And in Asia they are called 'Christmas Cake' if they are single by 25. But, who cares what they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:07 PM
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No, it is proper reading of social cues. No it is not if you ever have read or listened it, which most likely you haven't. TRP is particularly hard for those missing such rather obvious points. It simple if you know what it actually is. TRP is information Yes... for success yes, Not necessary. You can be RPed and still not be successful with women. It is like saying civil engineering is just information, technically it is. But so is the process of building a skyscraper. And yet those civil engin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:31 PM
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The reason was self improvement. This is a prescription. This is what one deduces from the RP, not the RP itself. RationalMale is pretty clear that RP is just information, not only in his blogs but in his interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:18 PM
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but it was always about getting women This is PUA/game. A different thing. Red Pill was the theory, and Game (really the social skills in relating to women) was the practice. So yes, the RP still just praxeology (aka information) and he clearly differentiates the two. Thanks for confirming it. The Red Pill as a praxeology is that information. Confirmed it twice. If anything, why the hell you even care about TRP if it is not to get women!? I got women even before RP was a thing and I just find in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:14 PM
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u/James_M_Croft Let's see what the person who coined the term RP concerning intersexual dynamics has to say on the matter: The Red Pill, in terms of intersexual dynamics, is, and will always be, a praxeology. [...] I started referring to the Red Pill as a Praxeology around 2014. A commenter on The Rational Male explained how the study of intersexual dynamics neatly fits the definition. [...] The Red Pill as a praxeology is that information. It doesn’t concern itself with best practices. That’s l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 05:48 PM
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He clearly doesn't understand the RP. The other day he was saying RP is about improvement instead of viewing/understanding the inter-sexual dynamics from a certain POV, basically it is just information. Improvement is just one potential consequence of being RPed, not a sine qua non condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:35 PM
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It is the cultural background where I live, but it can be expanded to any other type of religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:03 AM
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Why would they want a willing servant?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:15 AM
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[Citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:44 AM
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I don't fake believing in God and I am not conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:08 PM
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Fake what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:05 PM
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Sure, I can find some celebrities and models physically attractive, that's often why they're in those professions. Will I dedicate time or invest any on them? Of course not, I simply forget about them the moment I look away from the pic or the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:53 PM
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Because I don't believe in God. In fact, I've never even been baptized.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 09:15 AM
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But he talked about ratings and your source support what he just said (dotted line): men rate women in a bell curve and women rate men disproportionately poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:24 AM
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What comments I wrote that make you think I don't have a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:17 PM
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What makes you think I don't have a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:43 PM
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I really miss the old RP. The content still there, fortunately, but in a format that the tiktokanisation of the society has made it difficult to absorb. The age of influencers, coaches and stuff like that has corrupted many things. Does it seem to you like the Old Guard just got like…. Tired of fielding the blackpill invasion and just gave up after a while? Maybe but I don't really care tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:39 PM
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I know it's hard for you to understand due to some, most likely, bad personal life experiences but healthy relationships are possible and real. And RP is not about improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:29 PM
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No. It is more about how physical appearance plays a bigger role than admitted; attraction is not the same as arousal; how different women behave when they really like a man or not; the relentless ongoing arms race among women (and men) in their intrasexual competition; genuine desire cannot be negotiated; that niceness is not arousing, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:20 PM
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I am in a LTR. And RP is not about improvement. Check your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:49 PM
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Self improvement. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:43 PM
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theres a lot of people that are RPd that dont even consume RP content I didn't know RP was a thing until I found it and I realized most of the things I read were something I already discovered growing up in more or less degree. It didn't open my eyes, it just solidified what I already suspected was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:05 AM
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SMV =/= RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:41 AM
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You didn't specify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:24 PM
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What's stopping you from becoming more attractive? What's stopping you from becoming one of the guys the women who reject you want? Nothing. Nothing. Have you tried all this? If not, what's stopping you? And if you have, what's stopping the results? Yes. Nothing. My human body physical limitations, satisfaction with my current job, already having a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 12:13 PM
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What are you talking about? I am happy and I'm in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:11 PM
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About the intersexual dynamics between sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:25 PM
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My relationship is not traditional. We're pretty much 50/50 as long as our physical capabilities allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:53 PM
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This is likely due to survivorship bias. People who are unhappy or dissatisfied are often more vocal than those who are content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:43 AM
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But are you happy? Does being red pill increase your happiness? Does it bring you fulfillment? Or are you unhappy or less happy than you were before you found the online red pill content? Yes. It doesn't increase it nor decrease it. No necessarily. It hasn't changed my levels of happiness. Understanding inter-sexual dynamics through a RP lens doesn't affect my happiness. I already saw things that way before discovering the term online; finding it simply affirmed my own observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:26 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:42 AM
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the issue with redpill is they didn’t take into account the looks factor Of course it does. It's a very important factor in the inter-sexual dynamics. They play a huge role.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:39 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:31 PM
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I couldn't have answered it better. If the goal of a date is to know each other; in the situation I described, both parties are already doing that since nearly the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:30 PM
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By the time they asked me out, it felt less like a first date and more like an official recognition of what we already were. We were practically a couple, just looking for more time together outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:57 AM
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Unironically, that's how I got my gf (and my last ex). I didn't do anything special, I just showed up at work, met them, knew about them on a casual and daily basis and that was pretty much. Of course, you need to have all your shit together as a default subroutine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:25 AM
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It didn't really improve me, it just reassured the way I saw the inter-sexual dynamics. I managed to get girls before and after knowing the RP was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:22 AM
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I guess my gf doesn't exist and we don't regularly have sex, lmao. I'm gonna tell her she's imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:48 PM
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No. RP is not about you do, is about what you know. Recheck your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:29 AM
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Yes, you properly understood what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:43 PM
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Did I not just explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:17 PM
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Well, explaining a phenomena doesn't necessarily mean complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah, why should it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:09 PM
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Where did I say this is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 05:11 PM
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Most men can land a relationship at some point. But the difference is that men in the 'top 20%', tall, attractive, wealthy, high-status, have far more options with far less effort. Meanwhile, average or below-average men might scrape by with occasional success, but their dating pool is smaller, their margin for error is thinner, and they have to work much harder for the same results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:57 AM
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A textbook case of red herring or simply the Hanlon's razor?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 06:36 PM
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It's not the first time she says that. She truly means it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:34 PM
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I am not angry, I'm in a LTR with my gf. Is it due to personal dating success, that you find logic in the way dating and courtship is set up "biologically" For me, it was a mix of both. I’ve never had much trouble finding girlfriends or casual relationships, and I’ve never used OLD. Growing up, I observed the dynamics between sexes around me and formed my own understanding. Later, I discovered that this perspective had already been explored and developed online under the name RP, a metaphor for …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:25 AM
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Ah, so you are making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:37 PM
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It doesn't have to be Why not? Online dictionaries state the romanticless and sexualness condition as sine qua non: Wiki: people who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one Merrim&Webster: a person (usually a man) who regards himself or herself as being involuntarily celibate Britannica: primarily heterosexual men who identify as being unable to have romantic or sexual relationships. Oxford: people on the internet who are unable to find sexual partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:18 PM
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So an involuntary celibate is neither involuntary nor celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:50 PM
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Well, the first thing to do is to separate virgins from incels since incel refers to men who espouse a pretty specific ideology and rhetoric So both are virgins yet the latter espouse a pretty specific ideology? Incel = virgin + specific ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:11 AM
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And this still not the RP. In order to be RPed you only need to know about the harsh realities of inter-sexual dynamics between men and women. It's just information. As long as you know that, you're RPed. You don't need to do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:41 PM
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No, the RP is not that. You can not lift, nor banking nor honning social skill and be RPed and do all of that and not be RPed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:03 PM
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Explaining a phenomenon doesn't necessarily mean complaining about the phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:47 AM
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I don't know, I don't care about that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:34 PM
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Good strawman you made here. Stating a fact =/= wanting to police how women should do X
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:55 AM
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Mainly the first reason but, subconsciously, a little bit of the second I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:25 AM
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I mostly agree with your comment. Nevertheless, tattoos (and smoking) are a hard NO for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:45 AM
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I absolutely like that a woman has boundaries and the ability to say no. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:26 AM
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You're getting it wrong. The RP itself doesn't do this. It only describes, not prescribes. Calling out and advising are just interpretations of the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:25 PM
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There has to be some non rp strategies you preach. I don't know, in my case I didn't follow any strategy to meet my gf, tbh. I just showed up at work, we started talking and over time we realized we think alike and understand each other, one thing let to another and that's it. PS: On second thought, maybe there was a strategy, but it was more passive, like a subroutine, by trying the best version of yourself for when it comes the opportunity you have what you need to attract the other person and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 06:45 PM
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Describing a behavior doesn't necessarily mean complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:15 PM
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This has happened to me too. It's funny how they don't realize that it's pretty obvious we are so different and it wouldn't work but they still shoot their shot. They understand when you explain it to them, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:10 AM
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Do they see him as less of a man? No. Or that men should not be teachers because it does not fit the gender role? No. They can be whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:05 PM
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What kind of issues do you commonly deal with when it comes to dating, or women in general? Nothing really, I filter out the ones I don't like automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:45 AM
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I wouldn't be with one but, apart from that, I don't care about them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:53 PM
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You should ask them, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:58 PM
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Every single man in this thread (and this sub) who claims he believed that merely displaying basic manners and kindness would attract women. That doesn't mean they think women are asexual, it means they think they can get women by displaying basic manners and kindness. It's two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:46 PM
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And they'd be correct, because that's precisely who others women. English is not my first language, I do not fully understand the meaning of this phrase. Some day I hope a man or two explains why and how they arrived at the idea that women are asexual. If you could provide some example of men thinking this way it would be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:37 PM
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pretty girls showing interest in their best looking classmates Obviously a sexually reproducing species selects for fitness If man wrote that in a dating forum or stated that publicly he would be labeled as inc3l automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:27 PM
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I do the same but only with in person interactions, I don't use OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:55 PM
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You can't simply override at will instincts honed over hundreds of thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:29 PM
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Dude, anything can be a date. Indeed. If a date is simply an opportunity to get to know each other, then every shared moment, even daily interactions, can be one. With the advantage that there’s no pressure, just natural, organic connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:39 PM
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Sometimes when you are in a public place with your earphones on the best way to communicate is by using non-verbal cues. It's possible to build so much tension just by letting the moment simmer, leaving the other person to overthink every little detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:42 AM
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Does attraction require verbal interaction, or can it grow non-verbally, through repeated encounters, glances, smirks, and familiarity over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:23 AM
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I personally wouldn't be with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:53 PM
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When a woman is attracted to you she’ll be delusional and lie to herself . This is 200% true. They don’t even need you to lie, they will just rationalize themselves to believe whatever they want to believe. Even before I discovered TRP I was always blunt about it. I think TRP only exacerbated what I noticed in regards to AF/BB dichotomy Same. It just put into words what I’d already seen, how those dynamics play out in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:50 AM
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I agree. Pay attention to non-verbal cues: glances, smirks, subtle nods. If they’re consistent, that’s a great sign. After all, no one reciprocates unless there’s at least some physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:17 PM
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I also like concrete solutions to solve my problems. I don't like to just "cope". Have you asked her for potential solutions rather than just venting and koping?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:46 PM
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I've never been to therapy, but I'm here to listen to the perspectives of those who have and had to find a suitable therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:24 PM
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It is whatever you personally want in a relationship. Different RPed men will have different Ideal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:10 PM
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There's a little bit of commentary in your strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:48 PM
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A: The solution proposed is that these women settle down very early with undesirable men B: No, this is not the solution proposed because it's not about to propose any solution. A: No, not true!! Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:26 PM
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So, you started a thread expecting a specific answer, and when you get something different, you don’t like it? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:20 PM
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If you already think you know the answer why asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:16 PM
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The expectations is that they should do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:14 PM
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The RP view isn’t that women should settle early with “undesirable” men, but that they should be aware of their declining SMV and, if needed, make decisions accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:08 PM
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Beauty is subjective, as individual preferences vary. However, certain traits are widely appreciated, adding a degree of objectivity to attractiveness. For example, most men are more likely to find a woman with long hair and a healthy weight more attractive than one who is bald and severely overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:39 AM
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Beauty is subjective. However, it has an objective aspect in that certain features are generally preferred by the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:15 AM
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I do what you state in your text. My relationships have always come about naturally and effortlessly and I never used a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:47 PM
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The kids struggling the most in school are boys. And yet, the top scorers, specially in STEM fields, who later could be the geniuses of society, are still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:37 AM
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All else being equal, a shorter man generally faces more challenges than a taller man in attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:51 AM
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In fact, studies show men are 6X more likely to leave their wives who get cancer than the other way around. A widely reported finding that the risk of divorce increases when wives fall ill — but not when men do — is invalid, thanks to a short string of mistaken coding that negates the original conclusions, published in the March issue of the Journal of Health and Social Behavior. or quoting another study from Finland that tells a whole different story: [...] We used Finnish register data on 127 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:58 PM
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"The wall is <ope" Proceeds to describe the wall Absolute kino.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:13 PM
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Q4M: How often do you shoot IRL shots? I've never used dating apps and don't really do this. I just meet people naturally, and if we click, things progress from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:13 PM
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With my gf, genuine connection and deep mutual understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:15 PM
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Given the fact the OP thinks mammals can't be animals is all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:08 PM
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The simplest code is showing a lack of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:12 PM
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I don’t think this is a fair question because there isn’t a handbook What is this? The FDS Handbook
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:55 PM
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I don't really care as long as we have genuine connection and deep mutual understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:48 PM
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No, you're not losing value because you're married or off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:37 PM
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Someone who creates a genuine connection based on mutual understanding and chemistry. While physical attraction is important, I value ambition, independence, kindness, and authenticity especially when paired with a desire for partnership and personal growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:37 PM
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For a LTR, genuine connection and deep mutual understanding, along with physical attraction, are key. For something more casual, the connection and understanding don’t need to run as deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:59 AM
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None. I never used them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:58 PM
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Or a life purpose that only he understands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:26 PM
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Too many em dashes, that's a ChatGPT text. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:01 PM
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How would this make you feel? How would this change how you view her? Would you have wanted this information upfront like this? She just made the decision easy for me, I'm not interested anymore. And yes, I’d prefer to know this upfront. Would you believe her if she says she's vetting for men who respects her and values her time? Would you believe her if she told you she is vetting for men who can provide for a family? It doesn’t really matter, I've already lost interest. Do you think you'd stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:35 PM
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Virtue signaling about how kind they are instead of just acting on it is another big one. I agree. Those who proudly label themselves as empaths or highly intuitive often end up revealing manipulative or abusive tendencies over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:00 AM
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What are your thoughts on Fujoshi? Indifferent. Is it normal to have this sort of interest as a woman? I wouldn't consider it very unusual nowadays. Why or why not? The internet era made it possible for a woman to access any of those interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:30 AM
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Split 50/50, whoever owes the other covers the next expense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:30 PM
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Ask the mods to change the definition in the sub jargon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:31 PM
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It is about understanding the inter-sexual dynamics, not necessarily getting laid. Check your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:51 PM
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Some may be obsessed, some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:43 PM
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Some will care, some won't. It depends on the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:24 PM
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You didn't specify which kids the RPers should care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:18 PM
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Why poor people would worry about legacy? Is wage slavery good somehow? You should ask them. No. Why some ugly manlet would want to sneak his crappy DNA in the gene pool? Because he wants to have kids. What benefit the red piller believe he have from this shite? ??? Also, being born in working class sucks, having crappy genes sucks. Do red pillers even care about the kids that will inherit all this crap (remember, steroids don't change your DNA)? Why should they care?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:02 PM
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Assuming both types share the same desire to succeed with women, the first group is more likely to achieve it, whether by being assholes or non-monogamous, while the latter would struggle much more. As a result, the latter generally compensate for their lack of physical attractiveness by being nice while the first don't need to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:05 PM
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It's a shame that men nowadays are not working to become the type of man she wants, approach and give her the life she deserves! Men out there, man up!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:45 AM
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So 61% of Finnish men between 18 and 29 are single while 37% of women the same age are?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:12 PM
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Yes, I see your point, some people take it to the extreme and choose to live in a state of perpetual casual dating while maintaining this image of an alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:49 PM
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men should be plate-spinning, Plate-spinning just means dating casually. It is not a life goal but a suggestion for those who need it to avoid becoming overly invested or needy while improving social skills and confidence. It allows a man to make better choices in relationships without desperation clouding his judgment. Nobody says you have to do this until the day you die. always have options. If you're attractive enough, you'll always have options, whether you want them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:33 PM
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if women are 'dating the same guy' Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:03 PM
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The stat from a survey Pew Research Center survey of U.S. adults conducted July 5-17, 2022 states that: "When looking at age and gender together, 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age group." A trend that continues growing from yet another survey from the same Pew Research Center survey of U.S. adults conducted Oct 5-17, 2019 that states: "Among men, those younger than 30 are by far the most likely to be single. About half of men in this ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:59 PM
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Impossible. PPD women told us repeatedly that doesn't happen. Those Gen Z girls aren't also dating older guys outside their generation because they also told us this is not happening. They must all be dating each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:15 PM
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Indeed. A product so good nobody buys it is equivalent to a man so attractive that no woman has ever wanted to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:20 PM
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Red Pill presents itself as an ally to religious men, claiming that it restores the "natural order" of relationships. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:08 AM
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I haven't considered doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:58 AM
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Just because my body asks me to loudly burp in the middle of a work meeting doesn't mean I should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:10 PM
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IMO, the definition provided in this sub jargon it is the closest one I read so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:02 PM
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I prefer to keep it as neutral and unbiased as intended, as free from political and spiritual influence as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:58 PM
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b) All this right-wing, pro-capitalist and fundamentalist christianity bullshit you see on the internet, as well as shaming girls for who they are. Just do your thing and let other people be. So many 'redpillers' on the internet are just right-wing propaganda and I hate to be associated with them. You can strive for your best version and at the same time be critical of all the fucked up bullshit going on in the world. I agree with you. They can’t just stick to the descriptive or praxeological as…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:35 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:16 PM
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Textbook AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:36 PM
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Attractive: 16 -> 8 Nice body: 26 -> 16 Sexy: 19 -> 6 Good lover: 12 -> 1 Humorous: 11 -> 13 Considerate: 7 -> 10 Honest: 2 -> 5 Understanding: 4 -> 7 Good listener: 5 -> 14 Patient: 10 -> 18 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:53 PM
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I agree with this, especially in a subreddit dedicated to discussing these topics. It's not like you're interrogating a person about that face to face in the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:37 PM
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I agree. While self-improvement can objectively put you in a better position, it doesn’t always lead to the desired outcome, as it varies from person to person and can sometimes result in resentment. It’s a harsh reality to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:43 PM
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The description says nothing about changing for women. Read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:49 PM
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No, it's about understanding the inter-sexual dynamics. Check the description in the subs jargon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:42 PM
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you basically changed every single bit of yourself to please women, I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:32 PM
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I didn't. I met my gfs on a casual basis at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:39 PM
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Enjoying your options as a man is misogyny. A real man should owe his own age women a better life and rescue them from their life mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:07 PM
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It's astonishing how these people gaslight you into questioning the reality of what you've witnessed firsthand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:38 PM
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based on my experience. In my experience, people don’t meet through dating apps because my friends, family and work colleagues, generally, haven’t. Does that make it true? Not at all, it’s simply a case of survivorship bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:54 AM
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I think my beef with it is that it doesnt capture attractiveness It does if physical appearance is the only factor you're evaluating, given that you have no other information about the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:41 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:16 AM
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No, but it’s not a random choice either. It’s highly unlikely that the men in your top 20 would rank among the bottom 20 for other women, or that your bottom 20 would make it into their top 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:05 AM
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False dichotomy fallacy identified: It's entirely possible to rate others' attractiveness using a personal numerical scale while also finding someone's attractiveness change for the better or the worse as you get to know them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:24 AM
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Yep. But for some reason all girls in this sub are super prudes and never lust for a man only for his physique. They only like them because he's a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:31 PM
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From a physical POV only, which kind of men do you find attractive and/or arousal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:05 PM
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It isn't since the definition is clearly stated in the sub-jargon with proper links to sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:25 PM
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I’ve never felt attraction on a spot or to a person I haven’t known that well. I've met one girl once who, after just a few days of knowing me, admitted, half-jokingly after we slept together, that if the parents of the kids she taught truly knew what she was like, they'd never let her be their teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:23 PM
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Men here do not have a good reading/listening comprehension or hear the things by 3rd parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 02:19 PM
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Whenever you hear RP men telling other dudes they need to hit 6 figures, have huge muscles, be assertive, physically dominant at all times, how does that make you feel? This is a grotesque caricature of what RP says. RP doesn't say what you have to do but what it is. Descriptive vs prescriptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 01:59 PM
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That post simply highlights the inequalities in dating; it doesn't claim that women represent an upper class oppressing men as a worker class. In any case, from an RP/BlackP perspective, the "upper class" would be seen as top-tier men, while the "worker class" would be bottom-tier men—not a division of men versus women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:40 PM
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Any example?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:03 PM
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I've noticed an oddly common comparison (especially in these spaces) between women and the capitalist upper class, and men to the working class, that some RP/BP guys love to spout. Where did you find these comparisons?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:01 PM
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My second link was from 2024. Your second link is from 2019.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:41 PM
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But it’s more up to date, the first link I provided is also proof. The first link still quotes Dolan's work which he admitted being wrong when confronted about misinterpreting the variables of the survey he used. “Dubious” is a matter of opinion It is not when Dolan himself had to admit he was not using the data properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:15 PM
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Attraction isn’t negotiable. Women are biologically hardwired to seek traits that maximize reproductive success. Complaining about their preferences is as pointless as arguing with gravity. The marketplace rewards value, not effort. Your belief that “trying hard” should be enough betrays a fundamental misunderstanding of competition. Value is determined by results, not effort. Entitlement is your enemy. No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:34 PM
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If the caliber of men she's interested in show her less attention than they did when she was younger, then yes, she's hit the wall. This is entirely independent of the lifestyle she has led, though it’s true that some lifestyles can help her age more gracefully than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:34 PM
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Curiously enough, in the case of lions, it is American women the ones who think they could win the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:20 PM
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I find red pill observations are often true, red pill prescriptions for behavior are goofy Interestingly, RP serves only as the initial, descriptive component; the remainder does not align with the definition outlined by this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:09 PM
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What I have noticed with most successful non-pilled people is that their dating life and relationships still follow red pill principles, so even if they do not believe in the red pill Can you provide some examples of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:46 PM
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There is only one the one, everyone has only one soulmate. It's not a out numbers, it's destiny to find the ONE. [Citation needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:12 PM
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You're statements are pretty red-ish leaning considering your flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:47 PM
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Do you have a gf/wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:43 AM
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By reading all your comments, I guess I'm not the average experience. I met my last two serious gfs by just showing up at work and let the things simply happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:19 AM
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it's a dating strategy. In order to be a dating strategy it should be prescriptive but the RP is only descriptive. You're misunderstanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:17 PM
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The OKCupid data never validated your narrative. I didn't state any narrative I only said the source of that is not what the other user said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:31 PM
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The only reason they came up with those 20% and 5% is because of an article from a man who got his data from polling 27 male Tinder users, and then peterson talked about it and it blew up. In reality, it's from OKCupid and Hinge raw data from hundreds of thousands of users collected over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:55 AM
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The issue I see with that is that men who can avoid putting in effort often attract many women, while men who need to put in effort are largely overlooked by most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:39 PM
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the red pill is a dating strategy It's not even that. In order to be a dating strategy it should be prescriptive but the RP is only descriptive. You're misunderstanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:51 AM
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Estimated earnings like any other channel in youtube about whatever topic is equivalent to "vast majority of RP men spend money on any of these things". Lol. "Trust me, bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:42 PM
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Absolutely. "Trust me, bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:07 PM
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RP is not a lifestyle but being aware of the harsh realities of inter-sexual dynamics between men and women. As the description of RP given by this subreddit puts it: RP is a praxeology (a way of understanding actions in the world) that deals with Sexual Strategy. It seeks to explain human sexual relationships within this framework, and this framework is in disagreement with the general understanding of society in these matters (hence, taking the red pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:57 PM
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I didn't say that. You have a serious problem with reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:49 AM
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RP has no one’s interests in mind. It’s information. It’s not a value system and doesn’t tell anyone what do to or what aught to be. It simply says what it is. It's so simple, yet so many people overlook it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:31 PM
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So you recognize what you wrote is wrong. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:17 PM
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Red pill’s claim is that all men are like that: they all want young women and hate women over 30. It doesn't claim that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:03 PM
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Just go bowling on Friday nights, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:16 PM
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Time to time someone ask in askmen how gfs or wives reacted them opening up and the answers are absolutely brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:37 AM
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I agree with what you stated. Oddly enough, if you had said that under a RP flag, you'd be flooded with "women are not a monolith" and accusations of misogyny. Funny how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:31 PM
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Albeit mainstream Red Pill has unfortunately turned into trashy entertainment too e.g. fresh and fit I agree. Nowadays, everyone uses it to promote their own brand, assigning a personal interpretation to the term that completely diverges from its original meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:23 PM
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The Earth is flat!! Don't you see the title of this video? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xaRxOesKIyg&ab_channel=74Gear It's an actual pilot that says that "Proving The World is Flat!", therefore it must be true!! Trust me bro, 100% real no fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:09 PM
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I mean, the PUA stuff is like the entire point of the red pill. No. The OP doesn't understand that RP is just information. It's not prescriptive but just descriptive. What you do with that information is up to the individual. There is no "RP way of life" or "RP way to date".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:00 PM
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You started straw-manning and everything went downhill from there; so now you just flee.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:49 PM
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As far as I know it's "the tendency to seek out men of higher economic status" It's either social status, economical status or/and sexual status. But anyway you can use any other example like "women are after bad boys" denying the existence of normal average couples The RP doesn't deny the existence of normal average couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:44 PM
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Hypergamy and "all women only care about money, doesn't matter what they say" is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:20 PM
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"all women only care about money, doesn't matter what they say" The RP doesn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:16 PM
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In my career field (UX design and research), we observe users actually using products rather than ask them questions for the same reasons. What people say is almost always not the complete story. The good old 'stated preference vs revealed preference'. A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:48 PM
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I agree, I have a happy and healthy relationship. The RP helped me to understand the harsh realities of inter-sexual dynamics of males and females which I had already intuitively grasped. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:18 PM
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I know a girl that has a short bf; your papers, studies and data are automatically invalidated by my anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:12 PM
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The average height of a women is 5'4.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:54 PM
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No. Using TRP just means understanding the harsh realities of inter-sexual dynamics and accept the potential consequences that may happen in different situations. It is definitely not an excuse to cheat or any other bad behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:25 PM
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She's more attractive, has this juvenil joy and more years to spend with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:29 PM
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Younger boss babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:31 PM
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You can generalize, though. That's the point of statistics. I actually generalized by saying "for many" and "in general." Those are generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:07 PM
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For many, it is not the largest criteria to choose a partner. Men, in general, don't lust after a title or careers yet this doesn't mean it may matter for some in addition to other qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 12:55 PM
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No. Being red pill means you are aware of the sexual dynamics between men and women. Wanting an educated wife has nothing to do with being RPed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:20 AM
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You should rewrite the title to something like: "Preselection is real but using it to get girls is a dumb idea." based on what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:28 PM
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My husband has told me the reason why a lot of men hate tattoos is because is they can't pretend those kind of women are innocent children. It takes away their youthful innocent look. Needless to say, it actually makes me grateful I have tattoos and don't appeal to those kind of guys at all. What an awesome "If you don't like tattoos in women you're a p3d0!!"-logic we have here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:19 PM
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People in this sub are experts at using the few blue examples to dismiss the overwhelming number of green ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:42 PM
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They think "I want to look/be healthier and stronger and fitter". Which, generally, aligns with being more attractive than being unhealthy, weak and overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:52 PM
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Wasn't he an advocate of PUA at the beginning, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:21 AM
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Rollo Tomassi rightfully advocates against PUA Where does he? Just out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:42 AM
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It's not his theory, this has been said many times already.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:13 AM
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The turning point is when experience transforms into emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:01 AM
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Girls: We consent giving homie heads Boys: We consent you giving us homie heads Windmill_flowers: I don't Isn't there somebody you forgot to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:10 PM
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Redpill way is better. Which is the RP way, in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:27 PM
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Even when I point "the sidebar" people here tell me it is not true and they proceed to vomit their own make-up-straw-man definition of the RP. So go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:58 AM
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Thread about men who were treated badly by women to tell their stories: Men: tell their experience. Women: "Move on, women hater!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:30 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1f7a58s/would_you_allow_your_daughter_to_go_to_college/ This thread is fascinating. RP men are sharing that they'd allow their daughters to attend college, while non-RP users argue that RP men wouldn't. It's all happening in the same conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:10 AM
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Cool story, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:32 PM
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RP is about understanding sexual dynamics, not dating toxic women. Your post makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 03:28 PM
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My current gf was one of those kind of virgin girls you described. She wasn't interested in sex until she discovered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:40 PM
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Ofc!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:38 PM
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They don't like to talk to strangers, really. For instance, we took a Bolt a couple of times and the only words we heard from the driver was our name and destination to confirm we ordered it. The rest of the trip went totally in silence. In this regard they are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:54 AM
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You can hold your breath, walk and only breath when you see the next Zabka and you won't die. It's crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:40 AM
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I spent a week in Poland. Good land and good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:37 AM
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all of it is focused and based on solutions It's focused on providing answers. Finding solutions, in case they are needed, is up to the individual. You claim to have read the sidebar, but it appears you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:01 PM
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And yet, you still pay zero amounts of money for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:23 AM
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You're moving goalposts now. You didn't talk about the potential money they can make due to viewership and YouTube advertisement, you talked about "make money off of you" and "pay-walled information, guides, coaching etc". There's zero money they can make out of you if you decide not to pay a single cent for whatever content they're selling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:05 AM
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Do you realize you can read or watch the content without having to pay a single cent besides any advertisement, pay-wall information, guide, coaching, etc? Are you the type of person that payed for WinRAR?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:39 AM
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rather than some pilled creators who want to make money off of you? AFAIK, all the content has been available for free on the internet in different formats. There's no need to waste a single cent on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:15 AM
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Society has bluepilled men into thinking attraction doesn't matter, that being attractive as a man doesn't matter. Intuitively society knows that it matters but, most of the times, it doesn't express it due to virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:03 AM
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I'm only saying the OkCupid study was not made from a survey which you claim it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:49 AM
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You're not getting my point, dudette. You can't swear a study was made from a survey when it was not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:41 AM
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The data from OkCupid was not a survey. The founder used literally ALL the data to identify users patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:31 AM
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It didn’t surprise me to learn that 87% of redpill men are single. Holly molly, where does this figure comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:06 AM
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If it truly worked, men would already be using it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:13 PM
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What is Alpha Male Advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:09 PM
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This is yet another reason it is so important to have friends, a notion that red pillers routinely reject. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:57 PM
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I'll take the b8t. What's a mid top face?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 04:32 PM
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What is it about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:31 PM
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Most BP folk wouldn't be RP even if they read the sidebar since they wouldn't think that knowledge is true in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:28 PM
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If being a Christian was about knowledge it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:16 PM
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Is it mandatory to use the tools in the toolbox to be RPed? Ask RP [because I don't know] Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:11 PM
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No, I’m saying I’m not taking the B8. You are simply unable to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:06 PM
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The definition in this sub jargon says it's just knowledge. Hence, having the knowledge without necessary apply it makes you being RPed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:05 PM
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Ask RP So you tried to define RP without knowing the answer and now you're telling me to ask RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:02 PM
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Is it mandatory to use the tools in the toolbox to be RPed?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:58 PM
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Define being RPed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:45 PM
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tl;dr
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:51 AM
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I checked this sub jargon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:56 AM
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If that Tate or whoever who declares himself as RP said he fXXs oranges to get vitamin C, would f**ing oranges to get vitamin C be a part of the RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:47 AM
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Isn't the RP about understanding inter-sexual dynamics? What you wrote has nothing to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:22 AM
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If my engine breaks, and I get angry, I don't need to discuss why I think it makes me angry. I need to know how to fix my engine. I agree. Fixing the stuff that makes me angry helps me to stop being angry, not talking about it and keep the stuff that makes me angry untouched.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:42 AM
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It's possible for most men to get chiseled abs. "Just get chiseled abs, bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:46 AM
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I met all my gfs in my everyday life in a casual manner. If they had been boring, things wouldn't have progressed to them becoming my gfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:11 AM
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"I know one metalhead that is fat, hence all your statistics are completely wrong." /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:05 AM
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If you think you can use them as a substitute for actual experience or knowledge, The assumptions come from experience and knowledge in the first place. It's called sampling in the statistic argot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:29 PM
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No, it's just regular probability and statistics. You know, normal distributions and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:13 PM
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The mistake you and others are making is to go "the majority think this, therefore I will assume this to be positively true about everyone in my life." No, you are misinterpreting it. It is actually: "The majority think this, therefore I will assume this to be positively true about everyone the majority in my life." This is about probabilities, not absolutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:39 AM
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I agree with this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:12 PM
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Every woman is allowed to be as picky as she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:02 PM
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in terms of bluepill thought, my "personality" "Physical attractiveness undeniably matters—it's common sense! There's no need to explain that getting in shape and working out will boost women's attraction to you." Yet, they often point this out only after you've discovered for yourself that it makes a difference, having previously suggested you focus solely on your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:36 AM
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But it is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:08 PM
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I personally think TRP is dumb, because it reduces women to a program that you can “hack” with the right combination of pickup lines and game, This is PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:52 PM
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Hello, human resources?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:36 PM
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I agree. It's similar to the say: "A man is as faithful as his options."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:45 AM
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I couldn’t use the classic “I have a boyfriend” excuse. Why not? The other guy doesn't know you don't have a bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:19 AM
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Isn't there a thrill to meeting someone new, finding all about thier little quirks and kinks? And even before when you haven't exchanged a single word and there is only non-verbal communication even though when you just see each other a couple days a week during commuting time, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:49 PM
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Women are scammed too. I thought I had a hot date — but I got catfished by an NYC restaurant instead . You only need a chadly profile to make women do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:00 AM
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This issue has been brought multiple times in the askmen subreddit and the answers always went as you can expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:14 PM
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Indeed. "Emotionally unavailability" often means he has the attention of multiple women and he doesn't want to commit to her in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:59 PM
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Death by 1000 concessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:45 PM
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Maybe because some men can get women without working hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:19 PM
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No matter what you said before. The most important part is this: assuming that the guy is at least reasonably sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:07 AM
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Beggars can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:10 AM
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Women have a tendency to just ascribe positive traits to people they find attractive. It indeed happens and most likely with both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:37 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:30 PM
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Yea, and? Nothing. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:03 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:35 PM
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But one of the links in the description of the RP in PPD jargon page says the RP is non-prescriptive since what you do with the knowledge is up-to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:30 PM
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What if you don't do any of that but you know how intersexual dynamics work like the actual definition of RP? Are you RPed then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 02:40 PM
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Which things?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:27 AM
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Definitely I don't like overweight women but I don't care about big frame girls. My gf is 5'9-10" and she has strong legs due to ballet, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:19 PM
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The importance of that aspect in the dating scene is being discussed recurrently here and not every time it has devolved into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:10 PM
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Discussions about looks on this sub absolutely do. No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 12:01 PM
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Not every discussion about 'energy' devolves into that. But good strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:57 AM
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Imagine a physics sub where 'energy' content isn't allowed. Insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:28 AM
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I didn't say it wasn't. Now answer mine, lowIQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:03 PM
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As much as you want to give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:33 PM
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I didn't re-frame it and you are so low IQ to be able to answer a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:43 AM
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Did you have an idea of the true natures of the sexes before discovering the RP or it came totally by surprise?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:39 AM
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How can the RP be practiced?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:35 AM
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It is manipulation but everything is since it is an action-reaction scheme. Now answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:38 PM
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You don't want to answer the question, indeed that's why don't to discuss anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:30 PM
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It's not a re-frame, all I wanted to say I said it. You can answer the question now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:18 PM
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Should a man cease his efforts to earn more income or neglect physical activity simply because it causes anxiety to his gf/wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:54 AM
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I agree. Dread is, in short, becoming the best version of yourself, increasing your value for the other sex and not letting yourself go during the relationship. It means to increase the competition anxiety passively. It has nothing to do with cheating or threatening to cheat or any kind of straw-man stuff people like to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:16 AM
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Why is that a bad advice? Just for curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:01 AM
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I’m talking about seriously dating for a long term relationship and also kids one day Then date accordingly to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:56 AM
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As long as you like the man and you are fulfilling your relationship goals, be with whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:51 AM
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With Chad or with her best ex-bf among them all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:05 PM
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Why some RPers says TRP is about improvement or strategies when the actual definition is being aware of the harsh realities of the intersexual dynamics between men and women? I mean, as long as you are aware of them you are RPed independently that you improve your life or not, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:32 AM
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It is but for some strange reason they always push this narrative of being grossed when they were younger which is totally unrelated with two adults liking each other and being in a healthy and consensual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:41 AM
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Same with my 8 yrs younger gf. I never had any issues with her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:36 AM
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"putting in the work", "making effort", not letting yourself go, You can kill to birds with one stone if you do this. As long as you are someone who the other sex finds attractive and wants to be with, it'll generally be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:13 PM
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Woman moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:43 PM
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Exactly!!! I can sense from here that is totally her terrible personality what prevents men finding her attractive. She definitely needs to work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:00 PM
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Have you tried working on your personality, grooming, showering and respecting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:36 PM
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But tell me more about how lifting makes guys so confident When women find them more attractive they become more confident. It's not that difficult. It's called positive reinforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:14 PM
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That guy seems incredibly dense; I'm genuinely unsure if he's just trolling. Claiming that improving your physique and building some muscle doesn't influence how women perceive you is utterly absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:05 PM
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You consistently reference extreme scenarios that fail to discredit the underlying argument. If you believe that the typical man can attain a level of muscularity deemed unattractive, you seem disconnected from reality and and have never tried to get in shape in your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:00 AM
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Your anecdotal preference doesn't invalidate the general statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:47 AM
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Having a shape, yes, if you are overly obese. No. You can be out of shape without being overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:45 AM
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It doesn't invalidate the fact that getting in shape is always correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:39 AM
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"Just have rizz, bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:09 AM
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it's more to do with that than what women they are with. I agree. The complain "Muh, he is emotional unavailable" is a lie they tell themselves to avoid accepting the plainly obvious thing: he doesn't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:45 AM
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Same in mine. The athletic one would slay utterly more than the objectively fat one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:52 AM
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it works better to pretend to be an arrogant asshole. Because if you pretend being that when you're not attractive it's even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:20 AM
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But if he worked on his personality and took lots of showers, would it change your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:50 PM
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Why do you write this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:40 PM
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I saw a couple in Walmart, your argument is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:34 AM
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You clearly need to work on your personality, take more showers and hate women less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:32 PM
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He invented a new kind of fallacy: the whataboutredpillism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:58 PM
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I am the INTP and she's the INTJ in my relationship according to the test but I agree with what you wrote, specially this part: We both tend to approach things...ah...rationally...which makes decisions and conversations easier to get through with out a lot of fighting. Fights also dissipate rather quickly because we always burn through the feels quick and settle down to a plain old discussion of the issue. Even when I don't like something, my logic tends to win out over my feelings. The mental p…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/24 05:57 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:26 PM
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P3d0s are attracted to prepubescent children, not young adults. Women over 18 are way beyond that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 12:36 PM
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Hi, u/HardTimes4Vampires, do you claim what you say in the first post is a woman only issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:51 AM
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You asked studies of what the OP claimed. The OP claims that studies show that bullies have more partners than "no-bullies." The study I provided says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:47 AM
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Cool story but I just posted an example of what you asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:34 AM
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You asked, I delivered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:26 AM
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Here is one, for example: Adolescent Bullying, Dating, and Mating The data partly supported our prediction that bullying, but not victimization, would predict dating behavior. The data for sexual behavior more clearly supported our hypothesis that bullying behavior predicts an increase in sexual opportunities even when accounting for age, sex, and self-reports of attractiveness, likeability, and peer victimization. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10426866/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:18 AM
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The main difference between a younger and older woman is how much "free" attention and opportunity they receive. "Privilege is invisible to those who have it". It's hard to go back to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:15 AM
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1: Lifting 3 days a week or swimming. I prefer to go well shaved if I can. In terms of clothing I like plain t-shirts or polos, short leaves, generally tucked and chinos. I like to use good color combinations. 2: I don't struggle with them. Currently with a gf. Never used dating apps, I always met my girls in person. 3: Yes but not the same way men do it. I often see more men than women practicing physical activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:31 PM
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Wtf, that amount of activity doesn't "keep you in shape". Yep, I missed the previous comment but if I had to answer it I would have basically said this. Go hiking on weekends to get in shape is utterly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:50 AM
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The problem is that there’s a certain number of men who take friendliness and niceness as an expression of interest regardless of the words coming out of the woman’s mouth. I agree with this. It's embarrassing and painful to watch men flirting with women when you can clearly tell she's just being nice and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:51 AM
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They are the same. Muscles don't distinguish whether you apply the force by lifting weights in the gym or by climbing a rock. Just because you have a goofy image of what gym is it doesn't mean it is the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:33 AM
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Well if you consider those mutant bulks under the skin beneficial... Muscles have multiple healthy benefits it's not only about aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:26 AM
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I do agree with you, the best exercise is the one that comes naturally while doing other demanding physical activities. However, for urban people who have an office type job, the gym is the only viable option most of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:57 AM
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But those big bumps that gym guys have are ridiculous. When men think about getting in shape they don't think about those guys you described but the Brad Pitt in Fight Club body type. Which it requires a lot of gym time and diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:28 AM
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Now that I think about it, the only times I've seen my gf wearing makeup was during a wedding and in an amateur theater play she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:21 AM
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I guess is that when people say most men are not successful in dating apps because the ratio is in favor of men it wouldn't change if it was the opposite. In short, women would mainly choose a minority of men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 08:11 AM
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When both people get what they want. I was about to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:40 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:15 PM
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Wtf I just read xD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:21 PM
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I agree too. Getting in shape, for instance, requires self-discipline that will have some impact in your character. It will make you have a more assertive attitude without necessarily being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:50 AM
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So definitely not ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:55 PM
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Do you think he's good looking or too goofy to be hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:52 PM
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Yes but it wouldn't made him able to access female celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:07 PM
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It's the good old looks-money-status. His 6'3 height is also a factor and BPD diagnose also could contribute to the way he love-bombs women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:36 PM
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This is the full paper of the socond study and here the first one. Both are pdfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:16 AM
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https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0167268119302495 Or https://sci-hub.53yu.com/10.1016/j.jebo.2019.08.001
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:04 AM
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From the second study: Overall, the picture that emerges from these findings is that both visibly and hidden tattooed men are more short-sighted and impulsive than their non-tattooed counterparts; yet, while visibly tattooed women are more short-sighted and impulsive than non-tattooed women, women with only hidden tattoos are not significantly different from non-tattooed women along either of these measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:59 AM
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There is one here: Are People Who Get Tattoos Really More Reckless and Impulsive? Researchers found that those with tattoos, especially visible ones, are more shortsighted and impulsive than those without visible tattoos. Evidence shows that individuals who possess the trait of shortsightedness are more likely to get tattooed. Source. Here another: Tat Will Tell: Tattoos and Time Preferences We collect numerous measures of time preferences and impulsivity of tattooed and non-tattooed subjects an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:48 AM
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Hi, u/SlowEffective8146, did you talk about teenagers dating 50 year old men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:28 PM
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I still dont' see the word "teenagers".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:07 PM
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Where is the word "teenagers" exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:21 PM
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OP did. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 09:14 AM
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l don't know how many times this has to be said but people just keep beating the same dead-hourse on this It's way easier to attack a strawman rather than the actual thing. That's the reason why they're keeping doing this over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:02 PM
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I'd say so, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:46 PM
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My gf pays half of the rent and half of the bills. Never saved more money since I live with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:38 PM
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No, it's just the optimal thing to do when there is no alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:23 PM
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So what happens when a guy gives a solution versus just listens? They don't want to fix their issues, most of the times they just want to vent. So it's better to let them do it even if they are actually speaking to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:19 PM
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Not in dating but in general. I don't try to offer solutions when women tell their problems unless they specifically ask for them and even that I don't seriously think about what they could do to solve them. I disconnect my brain, nod time to time and say stuff like "yeah, it sucks", "damn", "pffff"...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:12 PM
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Dating is very inefficient. I always met the girls I had something with in a casual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:53 PM
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I don't imitate it, I'm quite aloof and dgaf by default, and I can't complain, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:15 PM
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here are more "nice guys" than "nice girls" and so on. Why is this the case? The disparity between sexes of what they find physically attractive in the opposite sex and the abundance of options they have out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:37 PM
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I agree, it is very inefficient. All my serious relationships have been casually meeting and knowing a girl little by little in a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:16 PM
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There is a definition of the wall but people keep strawmanning like crazy no matter how many times you explained them what it actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:47 AM
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I didn't imply that, you just imagined it as you are doing with everyone else in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:43 PM
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I didn't said that but keep straw-manning as much as you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:40 PM
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They complain because they want to keep that good dick around, but his disinterest in commitment Congratulations, you've come with the definition of situationship/sex_zone the OP and everybody is talking about after several unsuccessful, yet funny to read, messages trying to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:36 PM
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Yes, but they when they do what you describe they don't complain about being in a situationship. Like the articles written by women such: "Stuck in a 'situationship'? It's the destructive dating trend that's ruling our love lives - and here's how to spot it"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:27 PM
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just sounded to me that she was pump and dumped It is exactly this but it feels less painful in her mind when she calls it "situationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:18 PM
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Yes and if you reverse the sexes it would be called "friend zone". Situationship is another word to define the "sex zone", where men obtain sex from women but women do not obtain the commitment they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:13 PM
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A Chad can be an incel with the definition she provided. Insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:36 AM
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drycod First time in my life I heard this word.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:22 PM
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And mostly from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:51 PM
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"Just not be boring, bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:55 AM
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She knows I am joking. The humor is quite dark between us :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:14 AM
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I reward my gf with sex when she does the chores, actually. In reality it's not, but I tell her it's because she did the chores anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:18 AM
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For women who spend their 20s having actual hobbies, seriously dating, building a personality and skills, and overall just being an important part of their community, there is no wall (and a "career" in some dumb BS like marketing or middle management does not count). Are these women able to pull the quality of men they pulled when they were younger? No? Then they hit the wall as any other. It doesn't matter the amount of hobbies, personality and skills they worked on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:11 PM
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It is what happens when you live in a gynocentric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:13 PM
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Self Improvement has nothing to do with the Red Pill I agree. The RP is just knowledge, whatever you do with that is up to you and unrelated with the RP. Do you want to improve? Ok. Do you want to do nothing and keep complaining? Ok as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:36 PM
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The same reason there are "Are we dating the same guy?" groups but there aren't "Are we dating the same girl?" ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:14 PM
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I'm INTP and my gf is INTJ. We understand each other and get along very well, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:39 PM
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It smells desperation, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:38 PM
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I don't like tall men in particular, it just happened that I only dated tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:00 AM
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And you can verify what you said in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:38 AM
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Virtue signaling fest thread
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:13 PM
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Tell me you don't know what "just world fallacy" means without telling me what "just world fallacy" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:23 AM
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He clearly isn't his mental point of origin which invalidates himself from being a real alpha male.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:57 PM
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The thing is, being fat is not such a big turnoff as you think. Ok, then. If you think so there's nothing more to debate here. Good luck out there in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:15 PM
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Yes, what you said is true. The issue here, though, is that positive interactions with women will reinforce this confidence and, in order to havee positive interactions with women you'll need that thing that opens the door for you which is sensed with the eyes and it can't be named anymore in this sub. Telling some men to be more confident with women is just telling poor people to work harder in their dead-end low pay job if they want to be wealthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:11 PM
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If you really think doing just those things is what will help you attract women, I have bad news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:01 PM
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If you need a woman who will love you for who you are, show who you really are and dont try to 'attract', While this being true in abstraction, it's also true that there are some characteristics and behaviours that, from a probabilistic point of view, will help you to attract more women than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:50 PM
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But if red pillers mistakenly see women as malevolent They see them as they are. Malevolent or not is just on the eye of the observer. RP is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:40 PM
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The apex fallacy strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:20 PM
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A RP woman would be a woman that understands the harsh realities of intersexual dynamics, not whatever you wrote about posting stuff on tik-tok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 01:46 PM
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It's easy if you lack cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:03 PM
6

Indeed. If a woman is really into you, you won't need to lie to her. She will create her own stories inside her head to justify anything you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:22 AM
6

Cool story, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:17 PM
3

The argument was not about p3d0 but shaming tactics used by women. Textbook case of red herring fallacy. Try to argue like an adult before typing whatever crosses your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:25 PM
1

A textbook case of red herring fallacy by not tackling the initial argument but deviating it towards something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:22 PM
4

You provided a good example of a Red herring fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:22 PM
3

It's insane that you need to clarify that just because some people really think that a young adult woman is equal to P3d0.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:10 AM
0

Yes, it's just knowledge. Whatever you do with that knowledge is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:40 PM
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And yet it is possible to extract patterns about general female preferences when it comes to attraction with only these two extreme examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:14 PM
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Do they make surveys asking about pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:12 PM
1

Can you define RP first of all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:55 PM
18

Beta bux has to qualify, alfafux only has to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:49 AM
17

My parents tried to surprise me by introducing me to a woman about my age once. We had a bit of banter and a few things in common and exchanged numbers. I got ghosted immediately after we left. Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:46 PM
1

Does he go to the gym to get in shape? If he doesn't, encourage him to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:26 PM
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What happened to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:57 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:33 PM
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The agency scammed her setting up a date with a man she didn't want. They should have been honest with her and told her her demands for a man were, in practical terms, impossible to find.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/12/23 01:25 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:26 AM
0

But it still a description of a phenomenon. If some people use it for their benefit, it doesn't invalidate the statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:34 PM
10

women on this sub seem to be in denial of this happening to them Because they straw-man it into believing The Wall means "when a woman reaches 25-30 yrs old she will be unable to attract men and find a partner ever again" instead of tackling the actual meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:15 PM
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The wall is a scare tactic The Wall is not a tactic but a description of a phenomenon. It is not mean to scare nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:06 PM
15

Everybody knows the amount and quality of opposite gender partners you're able to attract it directly correlates with the amount of hours you work on your personality and the number of showers you take. Here's the formula: hours_working_on_personality x showers_taken_per_week = attraction_score
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:26 PM
10

This is crap the industry tells to women to sell more products, men can't care less about this. The worst part? Women fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 11:13 AM
4

Beauty standards are not flipped to the exact opposite within a decade or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:46 AM
2

She says that men are viscerally attracted to bigger women What?! She is plus size Aaaah, ok, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:52 PM
3

It doesn't, read it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:18 PM
2

At the same time they Say that women are not interested on men's bodies RP doesn't say this, your argument is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:12 PM
5

Don't put yourself in the friendzone, it's not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:25 PM
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Zero. It wasn't necessary, one thing led to another and that's it. With all my relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:28 PM
3

This is PUA, not necessary RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:33 AM
6

:cricket_sounds:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:21 AM
4

This is not what dread means. It means you're attractive to other women and she knows you could cheat if you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:18 AM
4

Getting in shape and being attractive to other women is also dreading for your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:16 AM
1

It may work, my last two serious gfs approached me, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:04 PM
2

But most of men don't have the chance to choose. It's either bad s3x/relationship or the absolute nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:09 AM
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Because I agree with what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:34 AM
2

Yeah, right? It's always about that. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:29 AM
1

I agree with you. I find very funny when some fat people say something along the lines "But I jog 3 days of the week, eat healthy and yada, yada, yada" pretending you'll find them attractive after knowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:16 AM
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Why it means that or why I can't change your mind/view?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:13 AM
4

How is a mandatory paternity test shit? It changes absolutely nothing if the father is actually the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:54 AM
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Change Your Mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:45 AM
4

Not fat, just big hips. It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:45 PM
6

No flacid arms, no double chin, lean face... certainly not overweight by modern standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:44 PM
4

None of them are depicted as fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:35 PM
3

For instance...?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:13 PM
5

Do you mean the ones that archeologist don't know their actual meaning and it's all pure speculation? Very little is known about the Venus' origin, method of creation, or cultural significance; however, it is one of numerous "Venus figurines" surviving from Paleolithic Europe.[9] The purpose of the carving is the subject of much speculation. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_of_Willendorf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:07 PM
2

It's just mother nature telling us: "Don't have kids with that woman."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:46 PM
1

I agree, I can't CYM.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:45 PM
3

The power of taking showers and working on the personality will always prevail!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:03 PM
12

They first gaslight men telling looks don't matter that much. When they finally admit they do, they gaslight men telling them they never said looks don't matter that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:58 PM
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The younger one took more showers and worked on his personality more than the older. This is the only difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:42 AM
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I thought that inexperienced guys were obsessed with wanting women with inexperience but not teenagers specifically. The OP is just trying to justify she doesn't like dating inexperienced (aka losers) guys by making up some gross stuff to feel better about it. It's pure virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:34 PM
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Theory(explaining female nature) This one is the more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 12:48 PM
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The average weight for American females in the survey is 141.2 lb vs 170.6 lb US average (20.8% diff) The average weight for American males in the survey is 179.3 lb vs 197.6 lb US average (10.2% diff) The average height for American females in the survey is 64.6 in vs 63.7 in US average (1.4% diff) The average height for American males in the survey is 69.8 in vs 69 in US average (1.1% diff) Well...... or we either have a bunch of quite healthy people here or people love to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:49 PM
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No. Date whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:23 PM
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This article is interesting about what you're talking: The U.S. National Survey of Families and Households determined that those who report being happy in their marriages declined when women earned more than their husbands. This was said to increase the risk of divorce by 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:52 AM
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Accept their situation and deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:42 AM
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I hope she sees this, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:11 AM
2

Don't go to dates to meet people. Meet them in the daily basis and you'll know them way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:47 PM
2

I don't care, I don't have any opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:00 PM
7

It's like a straw-man fallacy autobot xD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:22 PM
7

"Can we just avoid poor people complaining about financial issues? Rich people also have their own financial issues even though they are totally different. Just stop, you poor people whinning about them, and make the effort to understand ours."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:22 PM
1

O_o
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:02 PM
1

I don't remember who talked who first and there was no asking out. At some point we just started to see each other outside work time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:44 AM
1

So why then they say women are harder to flirt with even if they, as bisexual women, don't see them as a piece of flesh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:26 PM
1

Bisexual girls see other girls as a piece of flesh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:07 PM
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I don't know. It just happened we met and we liked each other. It was a gradual process.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:58 PM
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Women don't know anything about attracting women as men because they've never had to attract a woman as a man And most of bisexual girls who shared their views they state its way harder to flirt with women than with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:12 PM
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This is what TRP fails to convey to its followers It actually does. So TRP is basically selling these desperate men a lie that they will turn 35 or 40 or whatever and magically become attractive to hot, young women It does not. Only people who doesn't know about it can make such a dumb straw-manesque charicature.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:33 PM
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No, this is not true and it is very disingenuous. You're falling for the apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:14 AM
10

She looks so jaded of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:24 PM
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That constant rejection - person after person after person - They can get easily fix this by taking some showers and spend few hours a week working on their personalites. And respecting women!! Don't forget that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:17 PM
4

Clowns at best, grifters at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:25 PM
3

Knowing each other without going on dates. If they see each other on a daily basis, like at work, dates are not needed at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:38 PM
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The only difference between the first guy and the second is that while the first works on his personality, respects women and takes showers, the other doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:02 PM
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Same. Met my last and current serious gfs at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:57 AM
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Ouch!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:07 PM
7

This is The Wall and not the straw-man OP wrote.
/r/AllPillDebate01/11/23 09:36 PM
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So taking showers and working on personality doesn't work?
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 02:38 PM
5

"See? A good personality makes you more attractive!" /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:51 PM
3

And showers. Take a lot of them!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:08 PM
0

The "functional" caveman daily exercise was probably way better than the average "artificial" gym plan, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:39 PM
7

I saw a short guy with a gf at Walmart, your argument is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:20 PM
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It's the classic straw man we see daily in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:33 PM
1

Generally in places where you see them regularly, once a week at least: work, commute, gym... Everything starts with non-verbal communication such glances, up nods, smirks. If the thing scalates, it's easy to start talking. And from there just depends on what you or they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:23 PM
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Yep, I had to told one that precisely today in that thread. They genuinely think that you need to talk to them to tell if they like you.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 05:20 PM
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Men [...]. They run around banging everybody Apex fallacy. The majority of men can't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:14 PM
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I saw a couple at Walmart, your argument is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:57 PM
2

I never said it is a plan to get girls. Believe me, they quickly notice the guys they find attractive. If they find you attractive and there's a chance there could be something between you two, you'll know if you pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:17 AM
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Just hot enough for her. I've never cold approached, at most I only approached after IOI signals I received after exchanging zero words with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:09 AM
5

No. Women can give you signals without the need of talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:57 AM
9

I love this "just-take-a-shower" comment: Guys, there’s a few simple things that will help your dating life. If you’re having a woman over to your place.., clean your bathroom. Like all of it. Sink, toilet, mirror, empty trash, shower curtain closed, fresh hand towel, soap, extra toothbrush, even have some shampoo and conditioner (even if you never use it) clean wash cloth. Women notice this stuff instantly and it’s a big deal to most. And for god sake clip your finger nails and have clean sheet…
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:34 AM
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I think that most guys wait for signals from girls, without signals they don't proceed further And most of them don't receive any. That's why a lot of them ask what those signals look like and how to react to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:36 AM
1

Does a high value man use manipulation to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:35 PM
2

Do you have a bf? In case that yes, does he like you for anything else besides what you said? Genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:12 PM
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But women in PPD always say the don't like men that "fake sensitivity" to "get laid". Why then would be someone who knows how to do it a high value man while an autist that doesn't, and hence is genuine in his intentions, not labeled as high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:21 PM
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A high value man knows how to at least fake sensitivity at times when it will help him get laid. Do HVM use manipulation to get laid? Isn't this a "PUA tactic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:12 PM
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But I want true love and true friendship, access to health and comfort has little meaning to me. Peace? When everybody wants my money? Ha! I cannot even sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:58 PM
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You cannot buy true love, true friendship and you have to be 24/7 aware not to be scammed. It's living literally in hell. I wish poor people could understand it. You don't understand the privilege of not being rich, the most important things in life don't cost money. Wealth is a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:52 PM
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"Poor people seem not to understand that having a lot of money is a bad thing. People are only friendly with you because of your wealth, you never know for sure if women love you or they are just gold diggers, everybody tries to scam you with different kind of investments, etc... I wish I was poor."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:30 PM
2

What would a RP revolution look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:23 PM
2

but Ken’s still had to be ripped, tall and hot and that was on “oooh” moment for her. Loool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:36 AM
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She doesn't care about these things. She understands that boys have a hard time in the current dating scene, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:18 AM
3

Interesting. Where is this stated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:03 AM
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It's a constant straw-manning or mistake it for PUA.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:46 AM
1

This statement isn't saying women who do this are wrong for doing it. I never said women who do this are good or evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:05 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:24 PM
7

I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:23 PM
2

No. Why should I?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:17 PM
5

Soft harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:41 PM
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As long as they find you attractive, they'll just break all these rules for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:01 PM
4

A chance to be told to "go away or I'm calling the cops".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:34 PM
4

Only when she's tired of having fun and she requires some beta billy to pay for her bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:41 AM
2

I find it insane too. It's easier to check for some non-verbal cues and then proceed, it makes the things way easier. If she likes you she would make it clear for you to advance.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 11:16 AM
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A consenting adult dating another consenting adult is a total non-issue. He dated them while both were in their 20s and early 30s. And he's definetely not marrying a 42yr-old "attractive woman" but a 26yr-old one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:29 PM
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There are even articles about it: Many people have taken to Twitter to express their disapproval of the relationship, with some calling it “creepy”. “That 16 yr age gap would’ve been ON EVERY SINGLE HEADLINE IF IT WASN’T CHRIS EVANS I SAID WHAT I SAID,” one person wrote on Twitter. “Thought it was his daughter,” exclaimed another. Another user expressed their opinion strongly, labeling the 16-year age gap as “gross” and emphasizing, “Even if you’re Chris Evans.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:55 PM
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He announced his preferences with his actions. It's a stated preference, not a revealed preference. Also, younger =/= young. This thread is based on "younger girls", not "young girls". Hence, your premise still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:37 PM
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People act like it's easer for 30-40s men to date younger women than same age women, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:27 PM
3

So you're telling me that when Chris Evans (42) announced he started dating his 26yr-old gf women felt disgusted about it because they automatically pictured in their head a perv telling a 11yr-old girl to lick her ice cream slowly? Because is the first thing what is being discussed in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:10 PM
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You had to straw man things to the point of using child molestation examples when the discussion was about relationships between two consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:23 AM
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The majority of men wouldn't be able to date a younger woman not even in their wildest dreams, let's face it. Those who can is because they are valuable. If those valuable men date younger women it means the dating pool of valuable men for same age women is reduced. So same age women will try to prevent this by shaming them. At the end it's just a zero sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:12 AM
2

Maybe in early 1800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:19 AM
14

I have the same experience. I have my own ones like anybody else but I am not vocal about them besides very specific occasions where I am directly asked about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:07 PM
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I known some short guys that do good, not particularly attractive or rich, mostly just rizz. Do you date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:35 PM
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Imo, it's more about that women deny it rather than being mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:04 PM
3

I found my serious gfs there. I never had issues at work because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:37 PM
10

Guess who's the common denominator in these three failed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:52 PM
80

It only applies for the ones they consider attractive. For the rest it doesn't since they are virtually invisible and are not even taken into consideration. The bar is low for the top ones because they have plenty to pick and don't need any effort to get whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:03 PM
3

In these days some people will think you're a jerk for stating you like fit people: “People aren’t necessarily coming right out and saying, ‘No fatties,’” Lena explains. Not in a profile, at least. “They’ll say, ‘I’m super into fitness and hope you are too!’” Wink! or The use of the word fit, though, has always felt to me less like a description of activity level than a kind of dog whistle meant to ward off, well...fat people. Or, in other words, people like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:28 PM
3

They say they don't find them attractive. It is perfectly possible to don't find them attractive and don't care about them at all at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:06 PM
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That's also why they HATE stuff like the fat positivity movement because not only are women continuing to exist while being unattractive to them Nobody cares at all about their existance. but they're daring not to feel bad about it. Nobody cares at all about how they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:28 PM
11

Knowledge to navigate as best as possible the current sexual dynamics of today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:31 PM
1

My job is in a STEM field and simulations take some time to finish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:49 PM
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Entertainment, mostly during computing/simulation time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:19 PM
3

It means finding the BB during the AF fucking phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:31 PM
1

How and when did that K-pop phase dissapear? Did your taste in men change too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:53 AM
2

Nothing, everyone has its own preferences.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 04:01 PM
2

Open the video, see the F&F clowns, close the video.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/23 04:00 PM
6

Dunno, man, I met my last two serious gfs at work without looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:40 PM
7

In reality they don't trick nobody, women lie to themselves and don't see the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:51 PM
11

Ah, yeah, the ever-growing epidemic of sexless dangerous 9/10s because the safety 5/10s get all all the girls out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:51 PM
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Besides the endless straw-man... I unsubscribed from every single dating "guru" that spills non-sense. ... he had issues with dating gurus, not with RP itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:42 AM
20

The classic apex fallacy in action again. Top men standards are the regular standards by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:48 AM
1

This would be a simplified charicatured version of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:42 PM
1

RP is a praxeology (a way of understanding actions in the world) that deals with Sexual Strategy. It seeks to explain human sexual relationships within this framework, and this framework is in disagreement with the general understanding of society in these matters (hence, taking the red pill.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:39 PM
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Just information. It's not a strategy, not a philosophy, not a lifestyle, etc... it's just information. 99 % of the self called RP creators are clowns at best and grifters at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:30 AM
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I'm from there and I've always done 50/50 all my life. No one complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:10 AM
1

If RP explains XYZ and you realize you don't fulfill the XYZ, of course it doesn't help. That's why it is called RP, since it's a harsh realization from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:20 PM
1

Well, this can be applied to any kind of knowledge. A degree doesn't guarantee you will end up finding a job related to that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:39 PM
1

Considering RP is about understanding sexual dynamics, it doesn't necessarily mean it will help you to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:04 PM
2

No, I already have a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:01 PM
5

It's over for averagecels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:00 PM
4

Like the wall? It's a red pill revenge fantasy that suddenly women suddenly become less desirable at a certain age and no one wants them. You clearly didn't understand the wall and you're just strawmaning here. The wall doesn't mean women suddenly become less desirable out of the blue and nobody wants them. It means that women, at some point of their lives, they are unable to compete with a younger version of themselves to get the best men they could attract back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:43 AM
4

I understand. All of this "growing to be attracted to smb" sounds bs to me and just an excuse the non-attractives use to negotiate desire with the ones they actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:33 AM
1

Why did you marry him in the first place? Just for curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:04 AM
2

I'm not gonna read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:26 PM
6

In your head? Maybe, but not in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:09 PM
6

But they haven't. Again: data > your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:01 PM
5

They define incel with the definition of incel: Incels (involuntary celibates) are an online subculture community of men who form an identity around their perceived inability to form sexual or romantic relationships. Data > your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:58 PM
6

Contrary to common beliefs, empirical evidence suggests that incels are not particularly prone to violence. Incels’ propensity for violence appears relatively low compared to that of the general population. We conclude by offering one hypothesis as to why modern day incels are not as violent as we might expect. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40750-023-00220-3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:54 PM
2

The OP is ignoring all the answers stating that RP has actually nothing to do with what he said and he keeps pushing his biased narrative. If this is not a funny metaphor of religion I don't know what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:30 AM
2

Absolutely not. RP only explains sexual dynamics and it is completely amoral. It has nothing to do with values nor is a guide on how to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:09 AM
2

Because high status men have very good personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:50 PM
18

Step 1) Deny it ("it only happens in your minds, this is some stupid incel theory, go out and touch the grass, etc"...). Step 2) Partially admit it ("only damaged women do it"). Step 3) Fully admit it (of course it happens, you don't need do be RP to know this well known fact, etc"...). Step 4) Accuse the other sex of doing it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:26 PM
14

How can you convince him that something doesn't exists if he sees it often happening in real life? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:56 PM
5

You got it backwards. Because the hot guy doesn't want to be with you, your priorities change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:36 PM
5

I never said the don't have choices I said they have worst than when they were at their peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:25 PM
12

The idea that the older you get the less desirable you are to the other sex, especially with women, is not a bullshit theory but an empirical fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:09 PM
17

It's more like their SMV drops and they need to cash out with the best they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:48 PM
1

The OP points? Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:36 AM
3

My and my gf can go 50/50 and we do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:05 AM
3

Because we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:03 AM
3

Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:47 AM
2

I'm actually with one that doesn't care about feminism at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:33 AM
6

I'll still only pay 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:25 AM
5

Not getting the very best men available doesn't seem like "hitting the wall". It is exactly this, though. Being unable to get the quality of men she got in the past is literally the definition of the Wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:07 PM
14

Learn what the Wall actually means before straw-man things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:03 PM
14

Because he worked on his personality.
/r/AllPillDebate13/07/23 09:21 AM
3

Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:33 PM
1

She's objectively fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:07 PM
1

Tell you only see her as a friend.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 09:08 AM
23

Ok.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 03:00 PM
4

So AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:23 PM
16

A terrorist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:30 PM
20

An inc3l is someone who is unable to get affection or sex from the other sex. Period. It doesn't matter who hates or who loves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:25 PM
0

Eff around, find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:31 AM
5

If a women trashtalks about you, you're doing good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:28 AM
13

Apex fallacy is real.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 08:20 AM
8

I think most women have been rejected at some point of their lives. Whether it was a breakup, strong or soft rejection. This doesn't invalidate the fact that women take rejection worse than men on average.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 05:06 PM
1

or when they do address high effort posts its always “your wrong cause I know a guy who…” lmao The inability to understand concepts like "per capita" is a signal of low iq.
/r/AllPillDebate10/06/23 12:04 PM
5

It probably wont happen until the bad boys stop chasing you and you end up "forced" to rationalize loving the safe, courteous guys. Aka, The Wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:12 AM
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Lmao, cry harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:05 PM
2

Yeah, men would be attracted by a masculine man, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:23 PM
2

Survivorship Bitching bias
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:11 PM
2

Maybe he just used the clinginess thing as an excuse to break up with you and be with the other girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:31 PM
13

Their solipsism is so intense, they think all those essential services are run and maintained out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:59 PM
2

Yes, it can be virtue signalling or just euphemism to prevent them backlash and accusations of shallowness. In these current days, offended people are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:56 PM
1

I've never used those dating apps but AFAIK by just don't swiping them right it would be enough to filter overweight people, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:52 PM
4

Most guys say they want “active” cuz they don’t want fat Yes. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:39 PM
4

No BMI figure will make me look at her and find her attractive. She looks fat, then she's fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:08 PM
5

I don't care about any particular age or weight. If she looks old, she's old. If she looks fat, she's fat. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:04 PM
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I agree. Except for those clips where the behaviour is objectively mean, the rest are just don't giving them preferent treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:22 PM
6

Gym & diet >>>> makeup; every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:16 PM
1

Me too. I came to these places for myself, and found that Red Pill explained a lot of what I already have experienced and believed. Do you mean RP as a sexual dynamics theory or those guys trying to sell their PUA crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:56 PM
2

Now I’m a married , hot What did come first? Marriage or hotness? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:53 PM
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If you need to make up a lie to justify whatever point you want to make, the sky is the limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:02 PM
2

She only talked about the gym for two reasons: 1) because the boy said it first and 2) to downplay it a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:34 PM
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She was downplaying the advice from the guy. She never came up with the idea of going to the gym by herself. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:30 PM
9

There was even a discussion I had in another thread where a poster was insisting that a woman who gave dating advice and even said going to the gym would help was actually saying "looks don't matter" because it wasn't the first piece of advice she gave. The women didn't advice about going to the gym as a second piece of advice. In fact, the user never said women advised to go to the gym at all. You literally just made this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:49 PM
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The fact that "From women in your life" the advice was basically "Be nice, be yourself" and not anything related to looks means precisely that looks don't matter enough to be adviced, otherwise the "women in your life" would have said something about them if looks are actually important. So yes, I perfectly adressed the points you made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:00 PM
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She literally said building muscle would help, just don't get huge. As if getting huge is something that could happen by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:45 PM
2

I’m naturally slim could probably work on my figure but meh. What do you mean? Hitting the gym and putting there some curves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:19 PM
3

I had to unlearn that nonsense to get anywhere. What did you learn to do instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:59 PM
20

"bUt n0bOdy sAiD l0Oks dIdn'T mAtTeR" /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:08 PM
1

By the time your grandma was younger, it probably was solid advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:50 PM
2

Just be yourself actually means “be the best version do yourself, No it doesn't and that's why people complain about this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:34 AM
1

I'd like to know exactly, in extreme detail, step-by-step how to meet and escalate with people in real life after graduating from college. Be in shape, get outside, wait for the signals, profit. It works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:29 AM
1

How did you realise?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:18 AM
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Don't be then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:26 AM
1

I got sick of it and just asked "do you need me to move? :facepalm: Don't do that, bro. Just smirk and up nod at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:04 PM
1

Most of the time they'll just be near you and expect you to get the hint. Also check for eye contact. Many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:41 PM
2

No and we always kept it very secretively. Nobody knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:01 PM
2

I met my last two gfs at work, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:56 PM
2

You missed this part: especially if one has already met in person. 1) Meet in person. 2) Continue knowing each other through text in case you can't see each other often. You already know her/his voice, mannerisms, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:38 PM
3

I totally agree with you. Go on a date with a stranger to see if you are compatible is so utterly inefficient I can't believe people think is a good way to meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:35 PM
4

I can't CYV, I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:37 PM
2

If you feel the need to entertain her or she will get bored and leave, she's not into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:41 PM
3

Inspired by the red pill’s obsession with hating fat girls First sentence first fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 03:25 PM
21

my female friends act like they want to crucify me over it Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:42 PM
1

Flirting is funnier and you don't need to spend time or money on another person if he/she is clearly not what you're looking for. Flirting is also more real and natural, a date predisposes the situation where she expects him to be active and she is passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:03 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:46 PM
1

It is useful to make sure there is reciprocal interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:47 PM
1

Check the subreddit Jargon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:53 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:28 PM
9

and women underestimate Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:27 PM
3

The vast majority of men during the vast majority of history didn't. Only in some particular ages, in some particular social circles, men weared make up seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:55 AM
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Actually men and women are equal. No they aren't. Sorry you are stuck in 1940, but there is nothing in our DNA that says "men can't wear make up" You clearly missed the point. I didn't say the can't wear it, I say the effects this will have to the other sex aren't the same as when women use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:43 AM
2

Anecdotical fashion trends in history are just that, anecdotical. Watch history instead of Cosmopolitan.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:39 AM
1

But we are talking about destigmatize it. And it won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:11 PM
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This is not the answer at all. Men and women are not equal and something that women do won't affect men the same way. It's impossible to destigmatize makeup the same way it's impossible to destigmatize being short/bald. Biology is a bitch, accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:02 PM
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Because having the bare minimum of standards would mean erasing any chance to have any interaction with the other sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:49 PM
7

Revealed preference > stated preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:38 PM
5

As long as they find you attractive you can do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 06:13 PM
4

Same. I met my last two gfs, including the current one, at work without looking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:03 PM
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Lol, no. I have a gf, no need for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:13 PM
1

"Don't worry! You're an incredible boy, a total catch, and all the girls in the world would die to be with you." "Would you like to be with me?" "Ewwww..."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:04 PM
3

Truth as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:56 PM
2

My experience of how people get in relationship outside of ODS is people know each others, develop interests over time, check the water a bit by being flirty, make their move and boom. Yes or no. Dates in the sens of romantic dinners and stuff are something that couples do when they're already together.... Totally. I agree with all that you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:27 PM
2

Same here. All girls I met and I had something with have happened face to face from the beginning and totally casual. For me having to go to a date with a stranger to see if we are compatible is totally nonsense and a waste of time even though I spend zero money on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:44 PM
37

European here. For me too. Everything seems so artificial and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:48 PM
1

I sent my gf some memes and she laughed. Enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:01 PM
0

Found the three digit BC girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:13 AM
-2

No. RP explain sexual dynamics between sexes. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:59 PM
3

I have gf and we don't celebrate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:44 PM
4

All perceived masculinity comes from your looks 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:59 PM
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A lot of straight women think of an attractive woman as a woman with a decent makeup routine in decent shape who doesn't dress horribly. Yes xD They really think make-up routines and clothing has an effect for whether a girl is hot or no. They get mad when you tell them a hot girl is hot wearing a Channel dress or a potato sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:52 PM
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And that's why those Facebook groups are starting to emerge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:10 PM
3

No. The amount of sex partners among the top 5% was more than the bottom 50% combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:33 PM
13

Too bad that this ones proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:24 AM
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The amount of sex of the top 5% of people was more than the bottom 50% of people. This is brutal. The pareto principle (5/50) is inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:19 AM
3

• Lying about having shared interests or values to establish common ground. Lol. If she really likes you, she doesn't care if you have different opinons and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:23 PM
0

Lol, no. Me and my gf don't put any effort. We simply like each other and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:14 PM
1

If you haven't had any relationships already it's already over. The decline can't happen in something that hasn't ever rised.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:24 PM
-1

Being RP doesn't mean you have to follow any rule, it just mean you are aware of how sexual dynamics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:23 PM
1

Indeed. That subreddit is just about PUA stuff instead of strictly RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:39 PM
6

A good example of Overton window.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:32 PM
22

Ngl, the times I had something with substantially younger girls is because they came to me, not because I wanted to take advantage of them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/23 05:29 PM
7

RP is just amoral knowledge. Take with a grain of salt whoever tells you what to do under the "RP brand", he probably wants to sell you his PUA product.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:21 PM
5

RP teaches about men and women sexual dynamics. Whatever you want to be or not in a relationship is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:48 PM
7

RP is just knowledge, it has nothing to do with monogamy or anti-monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:46 PM
6

Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:42 PM
3

You don't need to know how to get girls if you are already getting girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 06:46 PM
1

No but sometimes I send or show her some memes or situations about them and she agrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:11 PM
2

Not necessarily. I live in Europe, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:39 PM
7

There are always outliers but the macro is just a big amount of micros.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:37 PM
5

This is PUA stuff, RP is strictly knowledge. Actually, the definition of RP in the PPD dictionary is very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:20 PM
22

Yet there are clearly strong patterns. And this is what TRP is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:16 PM
4

Some of you have partners who I assume are on board with your RP ideas? She knows men and women are different and understands the sexual dynamics between them. Do they know? She doesn't know there is a name for understanding that. But realistically some of you who are single will meet someone eventually. Or have since you got in to RP you have. What happens then? You just have a relationship? Will you only consider dates with RP women? Mmm... no? Will you hide your RP past? Hide what? The knowle…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:12 PM
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No. RP only tells how sexual dynamics work for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:06 PM
3

Isn't this what bodypositivity is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 08:38 PM
2

Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:18 PM
5

RP only explains sexual dynamics, it doesn't help you to find a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:21 PM
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He says that he, like many lonely men, used to think that “women should like me the way I am, Another way to put that the "just be yourself" advice doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:44 PM
5

This is not the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:37 PM
3

The amount of strawmans by the OP is insance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:46 PM
1

eHarmony is using data from a paper, not from their own data.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:57 PM
3

Here, point #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:16 PM
6

What does this mean? This is only Tinder. The actual percentage of all sites is close to 50/50. Dating site statistics show that women make up 47.6% of online dating users, while men account for 52.4%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:00 PM
6

Good job! People tend to underestimate how positive is physical exercice to our psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:25 PM
6

Yep. Be the man she hides you from her family and friends because she wants to have sex with you so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:44 PM
79

I worked hard to have what I have This means very little when it comes to attract men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/22 05:10 PM
1

So you can't prove it. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:56 PM
1

OKCupid data means NOTHING. Because you say so, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:35 PM
1

Click the link I posted to begin with. It's a reflective of the preferences. The more attractive the person, the better the personality it appears to be according to the Halo Effect. OKCupid data confirmed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:06 PM
1

Read about what is the plot about and not what you just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:32 PM
1

No. This is like asking if people in real life know if someone has a degree in chemistry, for instance. There's no way you can tell unless they talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:58 PM
1

Ok, bro, but this is not about marriage or 20/80, it's about linking looks with personality. Read twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:05 PM
8

Enough to draw conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:54 PM
7

There are a lot of women out there positing this rubbish about physical appearance not mattering "as much" Pure virtue signaling, they don't want to appear superficial. Nothing more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:32 PM
11

Supported by OKCupid data.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:23 PM
1

A 6'2, blonde, blue eyes and sharp jawline guy isn't going to attract a chick if he literally pisses his pants trying to talk to a woman. That's a theoretical abstract example and very rarely, if ever, happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:21 PM
22

Literally he was doing everything right (being loyal, being in shape...) and she was doing everything wrong (cheat, let herself go...).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/22 01:16 PM
1

There are no mormons where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:35 PM
3

Boring is another buzzword for ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:09 PM
6

"Nice guy" is a buzzword for a "ugly guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:44 PM
2

When they like you they move their asses, yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:54 PM
1

If she's interested in you (aka you are conventially attractive), yes, it'll work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:54 PM
8

Women don’t know how to date women because women are not men trying to date women. It’s pretty simple. And when they make the experiment of trying to get dates on OLD with other women they utterly fail at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:58 AM
1

Yes, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:06 PM
2

all of a sudden matters to them out of nowhere? It always had.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 06:15 PM
5

Then you're not as relatively attractive as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:06 PM
3

Preselection is a principle which dictates that women are more attracted to men that seem attractive to other women. So now because your girl 'selected' you, you must be a good mating choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:31 AM
5

Preselection. Tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:23 AM
1

And another menshaming post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 08:41 PM
1

So you don't know what were you talking about. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:40 PM
2

Fixed!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:20 PM
1

So a dad bod is a man that eats healthy and goes to the gym regularly but does not compete for body building and doesn't take roids. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:11 PM
6

Thanks, mate, for posting the obvius. "Dad bod is not J Momoa's dad bot, that's not what we mean" and she proceeds to describe J Momoa dad bod type. The delusion is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:04 PM
1

Yeah, I know, they are cringy eye-ef.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:34 PM
0

RP doesn't endorse anything, it's just a knowledge about sexyal dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:28 PM
2

RP is just knowledge, it can't decide anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:17 PM
9

Do you want women to be with men they don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:08 AM
1

They never got popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:50 PM
8

Big ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:37 PM
7

"A poor person lack of success with money is no one’s fault but his own."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:28 PM
3

"Just be yourself, someone will come."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:26 PM
2

You said "it shouldn't be the glue...". There can be multiple glues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:12 PM
3

You can have both, genuine connection and sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:08 PM
3

Little bit of false dilemma fallacy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:05 PM
-1

Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:06 PM
3

Yep, when you call their bluff they change instantaneously, they hate you right after that but the crocodile tears don't appear anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:37 PM
12

Many men don't understand why you would ever want to vent if you're not looking for a solution. It's Not About The Nail
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:26 PM
2

The RP explains this phenomenon, btw. It is very handy to know especially when you deal with women in your daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:01 PM
10

Then they shouldn't be able to vote until 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:20 AM
4

Same here. A couple years ago a 19 yr old girl tried to get me in a sunny day in the beach. She didn't care when I told her I was more than a decade older than her. As long as they find you attractive, they go on with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:05 AM
2

$$$$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:45 PM
1

The plots are eventually very similar when you consider #_messages/attractivness. https://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2009/12/03/guest-post-in-the-land-of-the-hideous-the-somewhat-less-than-loathsome-man-is-king/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:59 AM
1

Are you talking about the OK Cupid study? Men heavily concentrated their attention on the hotter women, whereas the female distribution was much more even. It is literally the opposite of what you said. Check the plot again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:41 AM
1

Holly molly, you destroyed her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 10:36 AM
22

She's aiming too high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/11/22 10:26 AM
3

This has nothing to do with RP. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:26 PM
6

You're aiming too high, mate, your RMV is way lower than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:36 PM
0

The "feelz before reelz" I see daily. Their inability to use logic arguments and how easy is to change their mind by changing their mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:13 AM
4

I agree with you. If she lies about this, she can lie with anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:35 PM
7

Solipsism it's helluva drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:08 PM
2

Never, it's all men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:38 AM
5

it’s sad to see it they think showing off their body’s shows confidence "You go, girl!! Show the world how empowered you are, queen!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:00 PM
2

They seem to have an easy time cheating once theyre in relationships Apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:38 AM
1

Social and emotional ties. Lol, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:24 AM
1

But only because she wants it, otherwise she can leave anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:50 PM
1

No, he's not because she can leave whenever she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:58 PM
0

Then it is not DiCaprio's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:31 PM
0

They aren't, they are free to leave and stop wasting their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:22 PM
0

Nobody forces those girls to be with him and he can date whoever he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:38 PM
16

Rules are made for Bs and broken for As.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:15 PM
1

a fairly large percentage of young women date older men. Impossible, PPD women always say this never happens. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 12:44 PM
1

I don't date, I simply meet girls and things happen. Last year I was approach in the beach by a girl and she gave me her IG. We texted and met couple of times. She was too young for me, it wasn't serious but fun. I met my gf at work. I noticed she could be like me from a personality POV so I talked to her. One thing let to another and we are together. I use commuter rail to go to work. There was a girl who sat near me for some days, she ended up talking to me in a flirtitious way. It didn't prog…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:28 PM
2

Of course you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:44 AM
2

The context doesn't show it is looking at a specific population. The thread title and the article title don't specify it. You are stopping posting because you realised you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:41 AM
2

It's not an assumption. You clearly don't know that you can't omit the variable "0 partners" from the sample in case you want reliable data from the entire population. This is statistics 101 and you don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:37 AM
3

You clearly don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:34 AM
2

From your POV, maybe not. From someone who knows how statistics work, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:33 AM
2

It is not irrelevant since it is a part of the population. Learn how statistics work and read the articles before posting, it will help you to stop embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:29 AM
2

I am not wrong since it is a part of the population and it should be included in the sample. Learn how statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:26 AM
2

I'm not wrong, the study doesn't include the "0 partners" variable. Read the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:25 AM
3

I'm not making assumptions, the study doesn't include "0 partners" variable. Read the article and learn statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:23 AM
2

The results are invalid to provide realiable information about the average sexual parteners for the entire population since the sample doesn't take into account a part of the population. You are embarrassing yourself since you posted your comment without actually reading the link and now you are trying to justify the unjustifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:20 AM
2

But this is not what the title of the thread says (Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the US) nor the title of the reasearch (Number of sexual partners in lifetime). Because the study is from a desease control institute and hence, they do not pretend to sample the entire population, only those who can have potential STDs. Ergo the results are invalid to obtain a reliable point of how many sexual partners male and females have on average in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:13 AM
3

In case you want a flawed result, yes. In case you want and objective and honest answer for the entire population, you have to include them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:09 AM
2

Of course you do, because some % of the population had 0 partners and it will show up in the sample as part of the results. Learn how statistics work and stop embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:07 AM
2

I know you are a troll because everybody knows that, in statistics, when you sample the population to obtain a statistical and significant result, you have to include all the answers even though those who say zero as a number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:04 AM
3

It is relevant to ask the entire population otherwise you are skewing the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:56 AM
3

They are part of the situations because the variable "0 partners" exists within the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:54 AM
3

It's not irrelevant since virgins are part of the population. Learn how statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:51 AM
4

It does change because in the survey they don't include the virgins and it skews the data. Learn how statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:48 AM
3

It doesn't because statistics say there are more male virgins than females. You better start posting relevant data to stop embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:46 AM
4

Again I'm not assuming it. There are actually more male virgins than females.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:42 AM
5

Of course it will change it, it will lower the median, that's how statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:37 AM
4

I don't assume it. It actually does exclude the virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:35 AM
5

Of course it does because it skews the data. Learn how statistics work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:30 AM
3

It would make sense in a society where women were unable to provide for themselves but in the current first world it is impossible for this to make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:20 AM
-1

Since the study excludes the virgins, it actually confirms the RP famous statement of 80/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:12 AM
5

It wouldn't change a thing. If those simps stopped simping, women would still aim for the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:08 AM
2

Sometimes it's about showing off to other women that you're prettier and more valued than them. By getting more attention from men than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:09 PM
4

Women love all kinds of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:09 PM
-1

It is not because RP is not an ideology and doesn't tell what people have to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:46 AM
8

Pure virtue signalling. It's just a way to justify they don't like unattractive guys without appearing superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:39 AM
3

Lot of words to say you're too lazy to work out and eat healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 07:54 AM
7

"It's men's fault" strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:37 AM
2

90% of the women she's duetting would have their problems solved if they lost 40lbs. "bUt tHat'S fAtF0bYc"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:11 AM
8

Everyone wants someone who can understand them Yes, this is indeed very true. Meeting girls is easy, finding one who can keep the pace of your mind is a whole different challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:43 PM
11

Find a girl with Asperger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:01 PM
2

Real life can't be reduced into an historical anecdote in a reduced period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:00 PM
2

"bUt i sEe c0uPleS aT wALmArt"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:08 AM
7

Top20%s don't have unlimited time and trying a sub80% is not an option hence the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:06 PM
24

Short fertility window. Compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:06 PM
3

It's funny how men actually accept this but when they say it here is women who acctually shout "w0mEn aRe n0T LiKe tHaT".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:52 AM
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The ones that say they don't care dating a high n count for relationships Are the ones with less RMV and know they can't be that picky or they'll never find a woman. They simply accept their fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:50 AM
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Women's list of what they need to have is longer Only because you made it up in a strawmanish way to prove something you just want to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:16 AM
3

You cant build the ideal female physique in the gym All of this to justify you're too lazy to hit the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:58 AM
3

The amount of mental gymnastics people do to twist the reality and not seeing this simple rule of the market you posted here is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:08 AM
1

I hope she sees this, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:01 AM
1

Poor hygiene Thanks God I always detected this one before it was too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:33 PM
1

Yes, it's pure darwinism to a tee.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:23 PM
0

Of course it is the only argument, people who vote for those who start wars are the onlt culprits, no the gender of the initiatior. And [source needed] for the second frase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:45 PM
0

They voted for the people who started them so they are guilty. Otherwise we can say stupidly that none of current war started by people over 6'8 ft or 400 lb and no such people shouldn't fight in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:33 PM
3

Who do you think fought wars started by women? Other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:22 PM
-1

Of course it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:32 PM
1

Men still fighting wars started by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:13 PM
-1

It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:55 PM
7

men generally make more money for the same work The gender pay gap is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:53 PM
6

Take a shower Just take a shower, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:10 PM
15

Another post confusing cause and consequence. It's not experience, it's just being attractive. You can't gain experience if you are unattractive and nobody gives you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:40 PM
6

And another pointless claim, you don't need to be a manipulator to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:18 PM
5

The thread is about getting laid and you literally said "obtaining sex" and not "keep one". Hence my comment still true, being a misogynist or not, plays no role in getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:14 PM
5

Being or not being a misogynist plays zero impact in the success of getting girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:10 PM
81

"Just take a shower, sis." /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:48 PM
0

They appexfallacy it through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:08 PM
-1

"He's dating a girl that, at some point of time, was underage!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:51 AM
4

Look, I internally judge those men seeking out young women as much as anyone else, I just try to remind myself constantly that the woman is an adult and has the right to date who she wants and who am I to think I know better than her? The main point here is that the vast majority of old men couldn't date a younger women not even in their wildest dreams. Only top men have what women, old or young, desire. So when a top men dates a young women, is a top men that won't date his same age women and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:38 AM
5

If she's old enough to decide a country's fate with her vote, she's old enough to choose a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:23 AM
2

Indeed. If a girl is really into you, she wouldn't displaying herself to other men. She's just instinctively gauging the market just in case a better prospect appears. This is how nature works and how genders are wired. Just accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:17 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:44 AM
7

Ah so you went from "better options" to "I give up" lol. Im still not seeing this whole "better options" concept coming to life. You can't make this sXXt up xD It's literally the crying and pretending to be happy meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:10 PM
6

Clever grandmother. Zero sugarcoating it, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:47 PM
24

Soft harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:26 PM
5

Is there a biological explanation for it? Yes, it's mainly a biological thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:13 PM
13

I'd say if you feel hurt by a partners previous sexual partner number, you should get therapy to discuss. Shaming for having preferences, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:08 PM
2

Indeed. 90% of RP talk here is just pure strawman fallacy. They don't even read the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:02 PM
3

And who's forcing you to share them? Said every dictator ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:15 PM
6

What actions? Having a different opinion? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 04:12 PM
2

They do but they will try to hide it from their social circle as much as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 12:15 PM
9

Rules are made for B and broken for A.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 01:39 PM
29

If a woman is laughing at everything you say, she already plans to fuck you. That’s all there is to it. Your jokes don’t have to be any good, because she’s not really listening. If she’s planning to fuck you, she’ll laugh. And if she’s not, she won’t. End of story. Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:34 PM
39

It's men's fault!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:22 PM
14

0k, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:13 PM
-1

Pretty much. Unless she's into the stuff I like she's annoying being there waiting for more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:59 PM
63

Women make rules for betas and break rules for... you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:55 PM
2

In person. Non-verbal communication is very important for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:43 PM
1

Dating no, casually flirting yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:46 AM
2

Each sex value different things from the other sex and it is totally correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:04 AM
3

I attacked the flawed argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:55 AM
7

She's the only responsible of having sex with those men independently of the lies they told her. Lies don't force her to open her legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:51 AM
5

And yet nobody forces her to be promiscuous. It absolutely and totally her decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:47 AM
7

Nobody forces them to be promiscuous otherwise is rape. Women are promiscuous because they want to be so independently of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:44 AM
3

The hypocrisy of redpillers being like "we don't hate them, we just don't want a relationship with them". There is no hypocrisy in that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:39 AM
9

Those promiscuous women are created themselves, nobody forces them to be so. Don't blame men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:38 AM
5

Yes it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:41 PM
3

RTP is the undestanding of sexual dynamics, PUA is a strategy to get girls. Next time just read the sidebar, it isn't that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:19 PM
2

I lost 3kg weight doing planks for a few minutes daily in one week. Good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:28 PM
5

First you feel different, then you look different and finally others see you different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:28 PM
1

Zero self improvement in all that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:34 PM
1

I could never date a fat girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:03 PM
1

You have to prove since you are trying to say they do. Post them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:43 PM
1

You're strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:40 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:44 PM
1

redpillers are obsessed with getting them. No, they aren't. Everyday virgin girls? lol sorry but most teenage girls have given handjobs or sucked dick by age 20, actual virgins are practically non existent in adulthood. Everyday girls. You're the only one obsessed with virgins here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:36 PM
5

An actual answer that doesn't mix PUA and RP in a low level strawman, well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:14 AM
1

Overreact =/= suppress emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:52 AM
49

it was an emotional overreaction imo. Strong men should not emotionally overreact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:05 PM
11

Hobbies for him = less money for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:45 AM
10

thought an incel was someone who hated women. No. It's someone who can't get women. It doesn't matter whether he hates them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:05 PM
3

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:40 PM
7

It wasn't that sub precisely that had to go private to prevent people from the other sex to try to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:19 PM
-1

You're right. I can't change your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:27 PM
5

Nobody talks about religios conservative virgin women. Everyday girls like it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:26 PM
15

And unexperienced women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:04 PM
3

Not sure if trolling or just strawmanning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:43 AM
3

"nOt AlL w0M3N"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:31 AM
3

Not in my experience. Just meet people casually, build attraction and start spending time together while enjoying the whole process. Zero hard work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:00 AM
1

It's the actual definition in the PPD dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:48 PM
1

Since RTP is not an ideology but a praxeology and only provides a knowledge, of course I respect people from the opposite sex, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:41 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:22 PM
7

The old classic "a true man should accept..." kind of answer in the first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:10 PM
3

Brain not fully developed until 35, so you probably abused her. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:37 PM
4

Pretty much. Minimal effort is the best effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:01 PM
84

It only takes one glance to be alphawidowed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/22 12:08 PM
7

Touché.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 09:40 PM
4

Why don't my male and female friends date each other? My female friends are often looking for someone more traditionally good looking 80/20 strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:20 PM
16

No. That shit takes some serious effort. 80 percent or more of the men will never be able to pull that off. Because only top men can do that so they extrapolate it to all men due to the apex fallacy. The bottom 95% of men than can't pull 25 yr olds are invisible to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 03:56 PM
111

Single women in their 40s and 50s are increasingly feeling that their love lives are over as men their own age use online dating to cherry-pick younger models. Apex fallacy. Only 40-50 yr old men able to pick up younger models (aka top men) exist in their eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/22 10:44 AM
6

Betas meaning in this world is to provide for singlemomma's babychads.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:33 PM
2

Wait, is reddit social media? I always thought it is a modern version of an internet forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:11 PM
3

No offense but this is the kind of justification ugly people say in order to date better looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:13 PM
1

Most of men can't do the same thing. And even if they could, it still being AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:31 AM
6

not gonna lie I don't see myself as the sort of guy that would ever be able to just hook up with random girls. Because you, like most men, can't. The OP just presented a false equivalence to justify AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:13 AM
8

1) When you don’t know what you want, you try a bunch of stuff! We tend to focus on women “chadchasing” in this stage. But in reality women go for all sorts of men. I knew a hot girl who only dated somewhat cute, low EQ math nerds in college. (Her husband is much more matched to her looks / social skills.) She’s not the exception, either! I know several girls who dated duds in college, who married a much more attractive man later. I also know girls who dated super hot guys and married a normal l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:50 AM
2

So? Her priorities likely weren’t for a stable and loving relationship when she was young. AFBB confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:40 AM
3

People don't understand that "the wall" doesn't mean you stop being desirable. "The wall" means being less desirable than the younger version of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:34 PM
20

Indeed, straight from horse's mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 02:17 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:48 AM
6

You refer to PUA, not RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:23 PM
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Both inc3ls and gigachads can be redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:20 PM
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Since it's not a "philosophy" there's nothing to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:54 AM
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I'm saying that you can be successful with the other sex and yet still believe some people are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:52 AM
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Because they look for answers to what's happening to them. It doesn't invalidate my point, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:57 PM
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Not really, you only need to have empathy for the others and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:20 PM
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The one you make reference is more like PUA than nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:53 PM
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I know stuff about intersexual dynamics and woman's nature. Hence the definition of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:30 PM
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How does having a degree in chemistry and making bombs at home differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:18 PM
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Yes. If you mean RP as it is, as praxeology, yes. If you mean RP as a philosophy or some strategy, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 12:09 PM
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collecting figures or playing video games This is a silly stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:52 PM
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Women write lists in dating apps with the same naivety when kids write letters to Santa.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 11:18 AM
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They want born alphas not fake alphas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/02/22 11:06 AM
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Same for everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:42 PM
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If they can vote, they can choose a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:20 PM
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If they are older than 18, they are already adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:07 PM
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You're free to be with a RP man. Nobody forces you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:38 PM
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Pretty much of what RP tells about the differences among men and women. Who would have guessed...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:37 AM
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It feels good to her so therefore it has to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:47 AM
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be a little consistent at least. She is, she agrees about the stuff that benefits her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:33 AM
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It'a not even indirectly, women are free to do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:25 AM
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Aaaand here it is. Pretending to be alpha should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 08:21 AM
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When a man in a relationship comes across a woman who is far more attractive than his girlfriend, his biological wiring tells him: "Spread the seed" is more biologically accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:52 PM
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Read the definition: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/wiki/terms#wiki_red_pill_.28or_the_red_pill.29
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:27 AM
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Simply suggestions, not a manual by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:58 PM
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TRP: Improve yourself to get them. RP is a knowledge, not a strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:58 PM
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TRP: work on yourself, and getting laid will follow RP is not a strategy, only knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:58 PM
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Apex fallacy at its finnest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 03:20 PM
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I didn't say it was for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:15 PM
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Hard RP lessons here: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/spmuye/men_that_opened_up_to_the_girlfriendwife_when/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:53 PM
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This. A real RP man doesn't look like he's into RP stuff but understands woman's nature to a tee and acts accordingly. The RP man people describe in the comments here is just a grotesque caricature of what it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:18 PM
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but if you get outside, have decent hygiene and present yourself "Just have a shower and be yourself, bro."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:31 AM
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RP is not PUA, your premise is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:52 PM
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No. From https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/wiki/terms : RP is a praxeology (a way of understanding actions in the world) that deals with Sexual Strategy. It seeks to explain human sexual relationships within this framework, and this framework is in disagreement with the general understanding of society in these matters (hence, taking the red pill). Praxeology is not an ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:38 PM
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Since RP is not a philosophy they can't follow the RP. They simply use the knowledge as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:25 PM
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Mgt0ws are RPed themselves since they are aware of women's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:01 PM
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And, on the other hand, you don't need to know about the RP to be RPed. Many succesful man are naturally RPed. As long as you understand woman's nature you are RPed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:27 PM
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Women there aren't traditional in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:06 AM
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They're struggling because they're just not being themselves. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:49 AM
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Lack of economically attractive men Wage gap Pick one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 07:01 AM
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The average black women weights 85 kg, wtf. This is true dystopian shXt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/22 09:51 AM
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Lack of economically attractive men Wage gap Pick one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/22 08:09 AM
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Doing all of this won't guarantee women will sleep with you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:45 PM
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Clear sign you're aiming way above your SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:15 PM
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For the fun and the laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:57 AM
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I do the same. I meet girls casually and the things just naturally escalate from there. The date is just a way to spend more time together having fun rather than a process to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:20 AM
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I weight lift but im so weak and the progress has been slow. Consistency is the key, don't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:42 PM
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With gf and happy. It came casually; we met at work and started dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:50 PM
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Even those who define themselves as r/ForeverAloneWomen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:56 PM
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Slim fit women with unattractive face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:52 PM
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It's an everlasting delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:25 AM
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She literally says the guys she finds attractive have better options. The definition of aiming too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:25 AM
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Even those in r/ForeverAloneWomen aim too high and go for the top of the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:41 PM
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All relationships should be approved by the PPD women council first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:03 PM
4

They sexualize themselves for the AF-top20 and are disgusted when the BB-bottom80 think is for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:36 PM
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Not creating unnecessary drama without a very solid reason for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:43 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:19 PM
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It confirmed that dating problems people face are some variation of AFBB and 80/20. Aka, not being able to get AF-top20 or being BB-bottom80. Everything else is just noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:15 PM
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Why people humiliate themselves calling to that kind of shows? Are they really unaware of their condition and expect kind words after so unrealistic demands?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:03 PM
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I'm sure there are men out there willing to date her but she doesn't like them. Her complains come down to the fact that the men she likes don't like her back. She's aiming too high, as usual.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/01/22 02:23 PM
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lol, for instance?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/12/21 08:31 PM
1

I see your comments everywhere and not short ones precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:06 PM
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Do you live in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 04:00 PM
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Having these standards it's just a way to justify their singleness and feeling better with themselves. A "you can't fire me, I quit" strategy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 01:26 PM
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"Dudes, chill and enjoy life, money won't bring you true happiness, I know what I'm talking about" Bezos to a group of homeless people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:19 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:05 PM
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It is 4.5 times more likely for a man to date a woman 10+ years than the contrary. And p0rn =/= reality, your argument is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 06:51 AM
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Statistically it's more likely for a man to date a woman younger than him than the opposite. In 51.2% of heterosexual marriages men are >1yr older than women, in 33.9% of relationships both are the same age within a single year difference and only 14.9% of cases, the older one is the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:07 PM
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Try to create a post there telling them exactly this and see their reactions. Then come back with the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:35 AM
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I'm smart 420 all the way Pick one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 12:32 PM
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Dating apps are for women what letters to Santa are for kids. They demand things with the same naivety.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/21 04:15 PM
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This is true, they can't discern what a length or height is. They don't know what they actually want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 11:42 AM
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I've had several think that I was 5'10 when I'm really 6'2. Wtf
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 10:51 AM
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I agree: the agency should have just told her that she was looking for a man who either doesn't exist or, if he does, would not choose to be with her. Probabilities vs possibilities. It's always the same. She thinks that a man with that criteria can exist, and they exist, so she wants it but she doesn't think why on Earth such a man would go to a dating agency and choose her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 07:55 AM
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There is no fixing this problem because your assuming women actually want it to be solved they don't. They just want it to be in their favor. True. Check this very same thread. OP requests society to pressure men into marriage instead of changing current laws that benefit women and encouraging change in female behaviour to make marriage appealing again for men. They want all the benefits without any responsabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:53 PM
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Society gave freedom to women and women created this new society. Now enjoy the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:55 PM
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He was very likely hotter than you. No clothes can change that, don't feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:38 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:10 AM
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So it's not true that, statistically, men are physically stronger than women? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:32 PM
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I believe that men are stronger than women as far as physical strength. It's not a belief, it's an empiric and statistic fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:25 PM
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Same when overweight women think doing photoshoots like models will make them more attractive. It's the other way around, hot girls do photoshoots because they are already hot to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:49 PM
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Men have been running the world for millennia and they have decided long ago that height in a man is something to be valued Lol. If you genuinely think tall men are preferred only because 1000 years ago some people decided it ignoring the fact that for millions of years the tallest men (aka the strongest ones) had better chances to survive, reproduce and give the new generations more chances to survive and reproduce as well, I'm sorry to tell you but you should go back to school and study again …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 02:04 PM
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What if you fall asleep quicker than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 10:01 AM
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You may feel like a chump because you are doing so much for her while she won’t fuck you. [...] but it’s just one of those situations where you have to be the first person to set his needs aside and give freely, and hope that later she catches up to you spiritually. Ffs!! OP, don't do this, have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:27 PM
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And sit down with your wife, talk to her, look at her the same way you did when you first turned and saw her walking down the aisle, speak to her like you did when you read your vows. This is BluePill at its finnest. Nothing will change, you can't negotiate genuine desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:22 PM
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Maybe he’s physically hotter. Sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:57 PM
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but she got a HUGE ass How much big? Put some units or pics here to imagine better the calibre of what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:17 PM
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Ignore and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:23 AM
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but she had a "vibed better" with the other guy. The other guys is hotter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:48 AM
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Does it mean something? You're an orbiter to them, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 10:44 AM
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No. Spinning plates is a suggestion for those who aren't confident with women to help them to understand how really they are before going in a LTR in a time where it can ruin your life. It's not mandatory to spin plates at all to be redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:15 AM
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Spinning plates until you die First sentence, first strawman. Check the definition of RP first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:11 AM
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