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| 1 | I don't understand how some men do it, could someone please explain?Have you ever considered actual conversation. Human interaction and connection is the goal. Not getting your dick wet. OPs question was about his buddy's confidence level and how it comes into play. It comes into play from not taking every time you can't stick it in as a loss or failure. What is your issue with treating people like human beings and not pincushion? You can talk to people, see if there's a spark, and pursue it if so. You can even be honest and say you're just looking for fun. You … | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how some men do it, could someone please explain?Well, in your scenario, you literally are approaching her with intent. That's not what I'm talking about.. Being yourself isn't a skill, and failing is part of trying. Getting comfortable with failing is part of the process. Youre using a totally different mindset. Youre trying to put numbers on the board. I'm saying that true confidence comes from not being so invested in the outcome. Have a real conversation, and see where it goes. Youre all about working the angle, finding the in, sealing the… | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 10:42 PM |
| 13 | I don't understand how some men do it, could someone please explain?It's the confidence as you said. If you don't care about the outcome, you speak to everyone the same and it feels authentic, and attractive. It's not about knowing you're great, and will close the deal. It's about not caring and just being real in the moment. You can't fake that. Like, not being aloof, and uncaring in that sense. But just actually talking authentically vs thinking what can I say to close this deal. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 08:59 PM |
| 4 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomShe liked hugging and kissing but didn't wanna go further. Gotta get that pressuring thing under control. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 01:13 AM |
| 0 | First date went well but not allowed in hotel roomCompletely normal. Open to see where things go means just that. In this case, it didn't go beyond the kissing. Sometimes it be like that. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 01:08 AM |
| 1 | I ended a date early on principle and am regretting it. Do I still have a chance?Congratulations, you played yourself | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 10:56 PM |
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