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2, because its the safest and its also the only way ive ever gotten into a relationship. ive never dated someone who has cold approached me, and generally try to avoid them going forward if i see them around
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:33 PM
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how is that reaching? because you dont like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:34 PM
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>If you took the beard away is it still his face or not. nah, ive seen girl friends get beardfished HARD its almost as bad as hatfishing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:29 PM
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actually, you kind of are. What if the reason you shave is because your facial hair grows in weird? but you keep shaving so your gf/wife doesnt know that. What if she wants her sons to have natural and full beards? Also, beards can be like makeup for men, where when they shave it off theyre jaw and chin are actually really small or something. So if you start dating a guy, and he doesnt shave until later in the relationship, and his face looks totally different thats deception. Thats why you gott…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:13 PM
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Kind of yeah, because naturally you would have a beard and youre disguising that. Also, if the reason you shave is because your natural facial hair is patchy and your cant grow a beard, you could argue its deceptive that you arent letting your dates know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:09 PM
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Im a cold and aloof woman irl by nature, but on top of that its because even if i show a guy the basest platonic niceties, they always try to take it somewhere sexual or romantic which isnt attractive to me and i hate the drama. Especially because the dudes who approach me are mostly complete strangers, and to me theres nothing sexy about a stranger soliciting me on the street. And in general, i dont feel safe getting close with strangers like that, and reject/act cold towards every man i dont k…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:26 PM
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Ive had men scream from their stoops how they want me to gag on their cock, ride their dicks, to come over to them, asked about what panties im wearing, had men i dont know grope me, on 4 different occasions ive had a stranger approach me with his dick out while touching himself to me with one of them happening while i was alone on a park trail and another where he came up to my window while i was at a red light. Ive also been raped one time by a complete stranger, and he was never caught. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:48 PM
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Yeah i have a high importance of myself, im me. If something happens to me, it affects me lmao. you just dont understand, because masculinity is seen as the default in society. Ppl actually do treat 'being a woman' as an inherently 'lesser' state of being. But i dont let that affect me, so thats why im proud to be a woman. I feel no shame about it, and also im proud im a woman because i feel very close to my female relatives, like my grandma, and im proud to be following in her footsteps and goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:39 PM
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thats fine, i dont need ur sympathy lmao I dont like being hit on. Its not a positive to me. I have a near nonexistent sex drive. sex grosses me out kind of and would just like to take my classes without feeling like a spectacle. You guys are the ones who put 'being hit on' up on this pedestal. But if you were getting hit on by dudes, you'd get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:35 PM
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yeah i need to have some emotional connection, otherwise i literally cant even feel sexual feelings for the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:23 PM
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i am proud to be a woman. Why wouldnt i?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:03 PM
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Theres actually a lot of pressure that comes with being the only woman in your classes. Im a STEM major, and on top of the coursework, i also feel like i need to mediate dudes who are distracting me by trying to flirt with me, or stare at me during class which makes me feel paranoid and annoyed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:50 AM
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the only people who have ever confronted me over 'respect' have been men lmaooo usually because i wouldnt do what they wanted me to, or they didnt like my 'tone' (ie they were emotional about how i said it, instead of using logic and listening to the content of what i said)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:28 AM
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thats very convenient!! It means men are always right, and women are always wrong! ie, you refuse to take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:42 PM
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>large proportion of women are simply not going to find their equals. then why even date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:39 PM
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no. i just like being left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:24 AM
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Yes you were. >you made this entire post all about yourself, incredible no i didnt, im just being honest. im used to you rp guys lashing out at me irl and online lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:30 AM
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>Not like you were gonna date him anyway you already made it personal. I dont see anyone as a walking atm, and i dont understand what you mean by 'validation,' because i offer genuine validation to my friends all of the time. It's the easiest thing in the world to do, and it makes me happy to do so. i bet you've unknowingly misjudged so many women irl because youre so deep in this red pill cult. Like RP even gave you conversation ending trigger phrases to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:25 AM
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so thats my only value then? having a genuine, friendly conversation with me is just a waste of time, and it means i see him as subhuman if im not gonna offer up my pussy at some point? thats literally insane mood stabilizer needing levels of delusion the only person seeing the other as subhuman in this case is you towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:17 AM
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i know all about how to catch a fish, because all you fishermen do all day is sit around and bitch about fishing and the specific ins-and-outs of your motives and plans and what aspects all of you individually fail at fishing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:40 AM
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red pill believing boys are the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:38 AM
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This is so fucked up, ive been accused of "not wanting to talk to the ugly guy" irl while MID CONVO with a guy in one of my classes not too long ago. Im 'conventionally attractive' but not the bubbliest hyper feminine woman in the world, im pretty measured, but still make an effort to be kind. And i never make decisions on who 'has value to talk to' over their looks. I see a human being in everyone, as we all should. I literally was being completely nice to him in the way i am to all acquaintanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:30 AM
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in order for me to be interested in a man I need to be physically attracted to him, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:31 AM
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it looks like ur coping with the break up with denial and trying to debate away accountability. maybe you guys did just grow apart. its crazy when yall try to explain our own hormones and reproductive systems to us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:00 PM
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>Man is expected to approach, carry the interaction, keep her interested, and most importantly not come off as awkward idk, for me, i can tell whether or not im interested in a man within seconds of seeing him/him approaching me. theres nothing they can say or do that will make me interested if i dont feel that immediate intrigue. so if u feel like the woman youre talking to is so quiet and like you have to do all the heavy lifting to keep the convo going, she prob doesnt rlly want to talk to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:57 PM
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and woman yeah, I dont go on first or any dates often at all because i only go out with people if we already have a vibe going and know each other beforehand. and i naturally care about people i get to know. Not like im thinking about every single person obsessively 24/7 so intense, but if you asked me "Do you care about the personality, dreams, and aspirations of that girl you have just a small acquaintanceship with in one of your classes?" Id say "yeah, shes rlly nice shes majoring in accounti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:45 AM
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i know where i am lol >“someone made fun of my dick is this body shaming?” idk, i feel like this is actually super common for women to experience at some point in high school/college since like, 2010s there was a kid in my high school who sent a dick pic to every decently attractive girl in our class (so i got one) essentially looking for feedback and admiration. and even though everyone knew he did this, all went "thats fucked up," literally nothing happened of negative consequence to him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:23 PM
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I dunno, I've seen quite a large number of men pretty rudely vocalize their preferences online too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:17 PM
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and everytime theyre met with apathy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:14 PM
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i meant on reddit, like im in the 'ask women' pages and its every other question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:00 PM
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ive never asked yall that in my life lmaoo any comments (irl) yall have given on my tits has been of your own volition without asking me first
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:06 PM
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To be fair, you guys talk about your cocks A LOT and are endlessly curious about our opinions on them, sometimes expecting these strange pornographic answers from us, which is where the porn brainedness comes in
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:31 PM
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>For example, I'm willing to provide for necessities, but many women compare themselves to others and expect a level of luxury that I simply can't maintain. take accountability for your own partner choices before deciding that the few women you've dated represent and give you 'insight' into the deeper nature of women's sexuality or 'instinct'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:14 AM
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Of course im going to focus on my own interests, im me. It sounds like you'd prefer that "I" (meaning any woman) focus on your interests instead of my own. The grand irony being, thats literally you focusing only on your own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:10 AM
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did you misread what i said? I said i do care about the person and their personality. As in im curious, want to know about these things, and its a deciding factor in who i even go on a first date with. let alone a relationship op said its inconsequential and more or less unimportant until theyve been dating for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:19 AM
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if im at the point where im considering going on a date with him, yeah its one of the most important deciding factors I care about the personalities of all the ppl who i interact with beyond an acquaintance level, usually platonically because i have way more friends than i do exs and when im single im firmly single. so id be lonely af if i didnt converse and get to know other ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:14 AM
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>It’s amazing that men say offensive stuff to women and then get shocked when then women they say it to get offended. Sometimes it literally reminds me of when i worked with kindergartners and would need to mediate their drama and explain things to them like "No no, just because youre excited, ok, hey look at me, just because youre excited you cant punch them. Why? Well, you're excited, which is great, but do they look excited when you punch them? Nooo, thats right noooo they dont look excited. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:50 AM
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its attractive, especially to women (and more so to men than they admit), for a potential partner to show an active interest in who they are, and who shares their goals, passions, and interests when starting off. The starting off, intimacy building stage is one of the most important (and easiest to lose) parts of developing a relationship. If you say "I dont care about you when starting off" its like "Ok, lets just not start then."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:45 AM
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and what does she get out of it? You get to go out and look at and be with an attractive woman. Shes with a guy who admittedly really doesnt care about her personality until shes proven herself valuable enough to him overtime (and prob sex). Something a lot of you guys on here need to realize is your words actually do have implications and meanings beyond the exact words you say. And you cant just write people off as 'crazy' or 'emotional' for picking up on these subtexts, because theyre incredi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:40 AM
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>the only thing that matters to me is dress nice, be fit and don’t talk as much all the other things should fall in place. Wow, that sounds, like, so much fun for me! I love dressing up to turn on a man who wants me to then sit quietly not talk that much, who doesnt really care at all about who i am as long as im fit with holes! And I get!....Uh....A new insecurity about talking too much? And a partner who will maybe half heartedly pretend to care about my interests once weve been together for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:19 AM
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i dont care to me ur penises are the least interesting parts of u
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:16 AM
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Since accountability isnt zero game, then a woman claiming reasons like "weaponized incompetence' and 'the man changing his personality over time once married" as reasons for divorce would be things the man needs to take accountability for?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:44 PM
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so he doesnt need to take accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:50 PM
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thats basically what ive gotten from reading this thread. None of the answers are concrete, and this feels like a more abstract emotional thing for these dudes than something which is based on logic and reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:34 PM
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>He didn’t switch up, it wasn’t weaponized incompetence, Do you think this never happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:33 PM
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Ive dated both, and so far, for me, its been women by a lonnng shot its, frankly, not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:28 PM
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I wouldnt date anyone im personally not attracted to. And theres never been a time in my life where someone has done "made a change about themselves" to cater more to what they think im attracted to. Ive had guys do this to me, and I never even noticed they were trying to change to get my attention, it wasnt until 2 of them told me (one in a very annoyed way lmaoooo which is dumb af) I dont hold this standard for making friends, I am friends with all sorts of people. And I can care very deeply a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:26 PM
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Women on average have more different types of 'niche attractions' to different types of men which vary. The biggest focus gets put on women who like buff tall men, but theres also a lot women who like feminine men, or other alternative types. I dont think on avg men have as many different 'niches,' its really more of a focus on body parts rather than presentation/aesthetic. Like she can be any hair color, aesthetic, profession, etc, as long as she has a fat ass. So, when you talk to men IRL, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:22 PM
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what? Edit, ok i reread that like 6 times, and i think i get it but it makes no sense. No im not attracted to ppl who 'think theyre better to me' even if it comes in the form of this cognitive dissonance youre describing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:58 AM
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well thats good that u can tell! you'd fall into the other type then that i mentioned. i dont know ur friend obv, but just the way she started it "oh he wont do xyz but men used to go to war" seems like being over exaggeratory, whether u think its funny is another thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:41 AM
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>men used to go to war, now they won’t even … literally is a joke, and said in response to when men wont do the seemingly most simple things, specifically if their gf or wife asks (prob some fake emasculation bs), but used to do things that were so much harder sometimes without even complaining Ie noticed some men rlly struggle to even comprehend when a woman is making a joke for some reason, even when its clear to the other men and women who see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:27 AM
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ive done cute picnics before with women and i never had an issue. The thing is u have to make an actual effort to make it look cute and fun, which you prob cant do with $20
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:25 AM
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i dont want anyone in my life who straight up thinks of themselves as "better than me" like yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:22 AM
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why the fuck would i want to fuck if im fucking terrified and fearful for my fucking life undergoing irreparable fucking, fucking trauma? tf???????????????????????????? HUHHUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH????????????????????
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:41 AM
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its just totally counterintuitive to how ppl usually behave when theyre attracted to each other. Like trying to gameify and manipulate in that really delicate beginning phase is so confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:24 AM
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theyre just ragging on u cus ur a woman criticizing their bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:20 AM
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Behaving in ways that are the opposite of how people behave when theyre interested in someone, conveys to the other person that you arent interested, so the other person respects this and moves on. shocker. truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:19 AM
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so yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:38 PM
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ur taking bubblegum content and pop music way too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:36 PM
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and ur argument comes from a mindset of men who hate taking care of the women they date, and view basic niceties as transactional items. and baby, i cannot avoid men. i do not have that luxury, yall are obsessed with me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:42 AM
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should women be happy in a relationship where theyre giving free sex but get no material benefit from it, and in fact are now splitting more bills with a person u also need to blow?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:00 AM
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because thats the only response it warrants
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:41 AM
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u dont decide whats objectively significant or not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:26 AM
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no i was two downing them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:18 AM
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There are many men who actually think that a woman's role is to provide them with sex and bear his children, in exhange for the material things he provides. he'll pretend like they genuinely love her. It's all an act ofcourse because their love is dependent on sexual things. It's basically a transaction, she provides him with sex and in return hes pretends to care about her. The amount of men with this kind of mentality is actually sad. It's like many of them are actually incapable of loving a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:35 AM
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literally 'metoo' was just us finally talking openly about what we experience to varying degrees daily
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:21 AM
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No, the more RECENT shit has more to do with it personally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:20 AM
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> It's just that both "personality" and "compatibility" are rather useless concepts that cannot be actuated on. yes they can, easily if you have discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:16 AM
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what do i gain from having someone i have nothing in common with living in my home and sharing a bed with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:12 AM
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theres literally nothing wrong with what i said lmao u guys just have a proclivity for needing everything to be such a downe. all i said was the truth for me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:12 AM
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>Except special cases like John Rolfe and Pocahontas, Charbonneau and Sacagawea, etc... interesting examples lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:19 AM
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idk, i date women and its so easy specifically because i know women want to be romanced and to have a sort of 'atmosphere' set or whatever the fuck lol. you just gotta be the one that does it, and since so many women who date women wont, u stand out massively if you do. and im happy to play that role, its easy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:10 PM
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id be heading for the door lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:08 AM
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i would refuse it too, and would really put me off. Because youre right, its like guilting someone for not living the imaginary version of you they have in their head, and they want u to remember that with a memento.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:04 AM
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if they were a person who was barely an acquaintance, and was just kind of in the periphery it would honestly scare me, and i wouldnt bring the gift home because i dont know you so how do i know it doesnt have a tracker or a camera in it somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:02 AM
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>What women pursue in men exists on two axes any model that proposes to know what women pursue should at least be in three dimensions. I recommend a cylindrical coordinate system
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:18 AM
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i dont like introducing strangers into my life where were starting from some sort of sexual place
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:33 PM
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>Over-complimenting my eyes (why men think that is romantic is beyond me) its really a self serving compliment if you think about it, because it doesnt do anything for you and is really just them telling you they get some sort of romantic/sexual pleasure from looking at/in your eyes. Which is like...yyeah cool thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:21 PM
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Absolutely, people generally arent good actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:19 PM
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i too would think all attractive women are like this if i werent one and if my only exposure was through western media
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:42 AM
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i dont go to bars or clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:41 AM
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>I have faced dumber people than you who think they know everything until I put them in their place for speaking too much. u didnt put me anywhere bro lmfao i love u guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:38 AM
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do you rlly think i didnt know that the E in STEM stands for engineering? lmaooo im a physics person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:23 AM
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engineering was only included to make the acronym more catchy. i was just joking lolol i dont think that harshes other women in stem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:12 AM
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engineering doesnt count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:50 AM
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A few months? im going on 5 years (i dated a woman for 2 of those years)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:38 AM
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i dont care if a trans woman in Milwaukee plays badminton every other sunday at the federally funded ymca
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:10 AM
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shows me youve never actually been around real stem people, theyre, for the most part, all bat shit fucking insane in niche ways (im a stem person)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:08 AM
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im asking genuinely, what are some things a woman could wear which would not attract ur attention? i have severe anxiety with dudes attention and dont rlly like sex so i try my best to cover up and dress as boxy as possible but idk i feel like that doesnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:10 PM
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I mean i struggle a lot with attraction in general and have a low sex drive which most men would find unacceptable stable good, bad, or not. So, i used to take guys wanting to be friends at face value, and genuinely cared for them as people. But because i didnt want anything physical, because i never rly do, so many of them assumed i actually hated them and im sure assumed if was for reasons like youre saying. But really, im just not sexual or romantically minded enough for i think 99.8% of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:26 PM
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thats really intense to be on the other side of
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:28 PM
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that goes without saying if were literally talking about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:17 PM
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>Is he your friend specifically because you don't think he's hot? Speaking for me, i literally never consider the other person's attractiveness when deciding if i should befriend them lolol You guys are so obsessed with blowing pants snot into our cooters in a way women just are not. Like we can just be your friend, treat you kindly, actually like you as a person, and still not want to have your genitals inside of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:12 PM
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Wheres Treat him as an acquaintance/friend and its really not that deep?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:09 PM
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Every person is different and there are no universal truths in this regard. Both can be great both can be evil both can be just meh and both can be all of these things at different times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:23 PM
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a phd in what? biology and anthropology? because otherwise it doesnt rlly matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:58 PM
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and their female counterparts have a much higher risk percentage of being sexually exploited and abused. And autistic women have a higher chance of being asexual, not at all sayibg abuse and asexuality are related, what im saying is a large subset of these women may actually experience abuse and hardship, and that although being able to find a man to fuck you is seen as easier than vice versa, many of these women may not even want that and see the sexual attention as a disgusting burden. So the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:40 PM
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What youre pointing out is just a flaw in the english language. We have one word for 'love' which is meant to encapsulate all types of love, despite them being different
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:35 PM
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"I love men! They buy me things, and they shoud be flattered theyre doing something for my pleasure!" Whyy would you telling me you want your little pants worm to sneeze into my coot shoot be a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:29 PM
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This just shows me you have zero idea what biology is really about. What youre describing would be closer to anthropology, but its still your own conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:27 PM
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We need to actually figure out both evolution and anthropology a lot better before we can slap them together into a new field.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:29 AM
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nahhh they cant afford that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:21 AM
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"When some pictures a traditional wive, they dont think of a slaveee!! They just want a maid who can be paid in affection that centers me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:19 AM
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note, wanting to fuck women is not the same as loving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:12 AM
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if i look back at most women in history, im much more likely to build a legacy if i dont get married/lose most of my life and time having children and instead spend my time creating things future people will use all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:39 PM
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lmaoooo ok whatever you want to tell yourself man XD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:31 PM
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i dont engage in black and white thinking, because i have a fully developed prefrontal cortex, so neither
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:22 PM
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Whats toxic is associating all of the positive character traits which allow a person to be independent, a leader, and not a door mat with your genitals, therefore only allowing one gender autonomy under 'nature'. Theres nothing inherently 'manly' about being a leader, men have just famously prevented women from becoming leaders up until like 20 years ago, outside of sparse matriarchal tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:11 PM
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No, its more like a lot of men on here just wanna be able to do and say whatever they want to women (especially if its sexual) without consequence or needing to take any personal accountability at any point. Which is what objectification is. You just want us to be your little dolls who can be talked at and have things done to us while keeping silent in order to maximize your hedonistic pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:24 PM
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Theres never going to be magic advice which works like a cheat code to inspire romantic feelings in the people ur interested in, so advice has to be vague. Too many of you guys are looking for an equation or something which is logical, rigid, and defined but arent realizing romantic and sexual relationships are none of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:21 PM
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Im bi, but even tho im attracted to men i never find them 'sexy' like i find women. Like idk besides just generically dressing nice, theres no outfit, i can think of, that a man could wear where id go "wow" just based off of that. I feel like ive never found a man, just based off his physical appearance or something, attractive in that visceral way men seem to feel towards women very easily. Ive experienced this with women, but i think thats because women's outfits inherently take more effort an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:08 PM
1

thats ridiculous lmao no im not gonna accept the blame for random perverts not having any social skills, thinking they need to express their horniess to me, just because i was born with a cute face and am woman shaped because im a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:55 PM
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literally how would you even know? youre a man. How can you claim its exaggerated when you have zero experience in what ur talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:52 PM
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you arent being demonized because women express how your behavior makes us feel. you just dont want to take accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:34 AM
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oh so now all of a sudden biology's 'so complex' and 'requires nuance' when confronted with the fact that my lady gennies are bigger by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:33 AM
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you guys just seem to not see the line between "normal human sexual attraction" and "oogling and leering at women with no consideration for her personhood because you feel validated because peepee gets hard and youve digested too much pop evolutionary biology content and have taken random dudes musings based on conjecture and bad interpretations of anthropology to be of the same caliber as the fundamental laws of physics"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:15 AM
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im sorry, are we speaking the same language?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:50 AM
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Well yeah, we didnt really have anywhere to go but up, what with all the coverture, inability to lead our own lives until like 80 years ago, and humanities long oppression and all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:24 AM
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nah, thats just a man who hasnt taken accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:13 AM
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i meant gametes, and thats just a fact. But it also applies to genitals, just because you cant externally see the vaginal canal, like u can a penis, doesnt mean it isnt there. And side by side, the woman's internal reproductive system is much larger and more expansive than the external male penis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 12:12 AM
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Besides basic things like dressing better or something, I dont think its possible to use and lead with your money as a source of your attractiveness without attracting women who are attracted to money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:18 PM
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i likewise struggle to relate to like 98% of all the apparent 'relationship truths' touted here lol Thats my debate point as well, i dont really understand this way of thinking at all. It feels like its harkening to gender/dating dynamics from an 'older time,' which didnt even really exist during the 'older time' itself. I find a lot of ppls ideas on here of what relationships are/how people should be/etc to be incredibly rigid and formal in a way which, anecdotally, none of my IRL relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:56 PM
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i think its usually positioned as what men gotta do, because in general these discussions on here are about men wanting something from women (sex/romance), but women are not wanting to provide that due to misgivings in gendered dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:23 PM
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same can be said of dudes. we can all be hoity and toity and hate each other for what were attracted to, but neither the hoitng nor the toiting will do anything because attraction isnt logical, nor can it be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:19 PM
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what am i supposed to change about myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:16 PM
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not really, the thing is women who are less than 6s dont register to a lot of men. So, this messes up dudes sliding scale ranking system, where women who are actually higher ranked are scored lower, making dudes think theyre hitting on the 'normal average whatever girl,' when really shes an 8. And then these same dudes get heated when she pairs off with another 8, because 'shes so shallow and how dare she not go for someone in her league, like me!' Meanwhile, the dude saying this is not at all i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:12 PM
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well, are men shallow for following ig models, watching porn, and/or deciding to shoot their shot only with the most attractive woman in their vicinity, ignoring all of the women who are actually in their league, because those women are just straight up invisible? I feel like youre conflating "Women having random, not that serious celebrity or fictional crushes" vs "women's real life dating preferences."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:54 PM
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you guys gotta stop coming up with hypothetical women to get mad at. Like everything you wrote sounds like its coming from someone who spends too much time gobbling up manosphere stuff. Because besides some of the most extremely mentally ill or materialistic, i dont know a single irl woman who would prefer hooking up with asshole men or who hates getting flowers from someone who cares about them (unless they just dont like flowers, but still its not because she'd rather get an STI from some assh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:42 PM
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i thought u were a believer in biology? im giving u the cold, uncaring biological facts. feel free to look at other species.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:59 PM
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100% like in high school there unfortunately were people i knew for their one embarrassing moment before i even knew them. and i genuinely wasnt even a drama queen or saying that with pride, its just the truth. I dont remember the names/faces of random ppl who have been slightly awkward towards me as an adult. But i still remember the names of the ppl from high school unfortunately. i dont judge them, a lot of the embarrassing moments were not their faults, but i remember :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:51 PM
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I dont like being chased, shit actually pisses me off and will make me go from being lukewarm towards someone to wanting to avoid them and hating them. And ive never needed to 'chase' any of the women ive dated, and they still felt special lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:34 PM
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please take a biology class beyond those you were forced to take in high school (which i know also didnt teach u this shit, u just extrapolated it from all the self-proclaimed 'evo psychologists') Men have the much smaller genitals, and so the woman who has larger genitals chooses. This is actually pretty common across the animal kingdom
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:11 PM
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Agreed! who tf wants to be chased? im not a wild animal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:10 PM
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well im happy for you! lol and ill note, it legit wasnt just the girls. the dudes were gossiping just as much, if not more sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:58 PM
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idk...have u seen high schoolers? lololol they arent psychopathic, but they are mentally underdeveloped and developmentally predisposed to hyperfocusing on social norms and group dynamics even when theyre all actually being assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:52 AM
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Youre also wildly underestimating how ruthless and unforgetting high schoolers are lmao. As if I didnt hear about everytime anyone asked anybody out (like the day of), including failed attempts, awkward moments, etc. Kids would make entire 4 years long bits out of other kid's social failings from freshman year. Honestly, im glad your HS apparently wasnt like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:36 AM
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u gotta be larping bro lmaooo XD what is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:14 AM
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i feel like that only sounds nice to you. i wouldnt want that, like tf why would i want to hurt my wife/husband because they arent doing what i want when i want it? thats not why you get married
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:08 AM
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girl im not 'weaker' in mindset, determination, grit, persevere, stoicism, and survival instinct. Im a big girl, i can handle the most basic adult responsibilities, and i do the things i do because i want to. i love being independent and im not trying to get impregnated so idk what i would do without feminism. i love feminism for letting me choose to be a lone wolf because i would not have survived being forced into marriage Whether or not you work the 9-5 yourself or rely on your husband, youre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:04 AM
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tater tot vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:00 AM
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"wake up to be better" Being code for; "The cheating hurt her so much that now she'll start having sex with me as much as i want to avoid feeling that dread again" romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:58 AM
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I always have liked, and so have my friends, nice, normal people we were attracted to lolol. like the 'exciting' and 'dangeorus' dates me and highschool exs woud go on were like, hangouts during after school clubs and going on dates to Dairy Queen lolol a lot of the stuff you describe sounds like its from a movie written by a man about a woman's high school and young adult experience. I never wanted a 'christian grey' or 'danger' lolol thats cringey and tooooooooooo much drama, respectively. Lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:37 AM
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which, just speaking for myself, is a massive turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:32 AM
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i can be such an emotional simp girl its bad she wouldve had me smuggling felony levels of weed across several states as well, and if u tried to tell me how awful she is id be like 'u just dont get her' sht ill admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:20 AM
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I think maybe they like to sexually use liberal women, because politics does not play a factor at all when it comes to what most men find attractive. Theyre 'more drawn' to liberal women, because when these dudes wanna get off, and dont care with who, then theyre likely to run into women who are more sexually adventurous/open to hooking, and conservativism by its nature doesnt allow women to do that. As much as we as women on avg do tend to care/find a man's political interests, education, thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:16 AM
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it doesnt happen regardless of age. a lot of these dudes are just hyperfixated on the red pill, and have digested all of its 'isms' as if theyre fact
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:11 AM
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What youre calling a 'lack of confidence to go out and meet a guy they don’t know and be romantic quickly' is more accurately 'on average its much more dangerous for a woman to go out and meet a man she doesnt know than vice versa.'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:09 AM
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Sounds like a way of avoiding accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:29 AM
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Context matters. Do I actually know you? Like are we actually friends, or have we been dating for awhile? Then sure, im happy to listen and help. But if I dont know you that well, like weve been on 3-4 dates and you dump intense personal baggage on me all at once, i dont lose respect for the person. But it does overwhelm me a lot and push me away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:34 AM
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they trigger my fight or flight to be brutally honest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:31 AM
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idk why guys say this. im not attracted to domination and power, I WANT power and to dominate
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:03 AM
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EXACTLY! I dont understand why guys dont understand how startling it can be, and they apparently expect a certain reaction from us, but im just a 'cold' woman. Im not hateful at all, i just dont put on a show for complete strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:36 AM
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Its insane to have expectations of strangers when you're the one interjecting yourself. Also, im just a 'cold' person in general, just because i'm a woman doesn't mean i need to perform some hyper feminine chirpiness, because thats not my personality. But i've had guys take it as 'my natural affect is actually something im doing to spite them,' so they end up self-selecting themselves out without me doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:34 AM
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Anytime i get complimented, I assume someone wants something from me. It never feels like its for me, and a man telling me he finds me attractive isnt actually a compliment. It just makes me uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:20 AM
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I hate and get SO annoyed and put off by PUA shit too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:17 AM
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its not a self esteem boost AT all. Like what is flattering about that at all? Im celibate because it makes me uncomfortable and guys making their sexual interest known brings me so much anxiety and triggers my fight or flight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:00 AM
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and what OP is saying is entirely irrelevant and unapplicable to the modern world, so its a waste of time to talk about and is just an obfuscation/appeal to emotions in order to push rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:22 AM
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This means nothing, because we live in 2025, not 30,000 BCE
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:20 AM
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When women say they want a man with a good job, they arent saying "the only thing i care about is the money' in this very black and white way. Theyre saying they want a man who can support himself and potentially a family. Theres nothing I hate more than when i feel like a dude is flexing his money on me, or is using his money to try to woo me. like i dont give af, i just wanna date someone normal and that typically involves a job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:18 AM
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theyre human?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:14 AM
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if u cared about ur friends, youd tell them you sometimes have trouble with emotional situations but want to get better. and then you two work on it together and support each other, like friends do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:13 AM
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i dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:11 AM
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> Friend, I already know that you are so mentally ill that you do not recognize the need for anything other than water, food and oxygen. Unnecessarily rude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:06 AM
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i just thought pink was cute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:17 AM
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If he has a horrible, boring, rude attitude then hes 100% undateable/unfuckable to me because personality is a massive part of attraction. ie hes ugly. Personality is way more than 'status' i HATE when dudes try to flex their 'status' on me because they read this sort of shit online lmaooo i can ALWAYS tell, like ok big boy wow u own a business, I interrogate murderers. Like who gives af?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:13 AM
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damn girl, my vagina would'a prolapsed after, like, a few months of that lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:08 AM
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a man saying 'women dont know what they want' is really just saying "i dont know what women want, but i still would like to maintain the illusion that im the authority on women, so ill tell you what i think would be the hottest for women to want."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:01 AM
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i love when men tell me what i as a woman am attracted to. I dont give a flying fuck about a dudes status if hes an asshole. Ive walked out on millionaires mid date, i dont give a fuck. Personality > status any and all day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:00 AM
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wow, they completely failed at sexually satisfying a woman. How inspiring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:58 AM
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neither are the dudes who hook up with them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:57 AM
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Im bi and same, it just doesnt happen right away. Ive literally never 'lusted' over someone im not already dating the way dudes describe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:55 AM
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Of the thousands of women ive had discussions with throughout my life in regular social situations and through my job, ive literally never met a single woman who has sat around and thought "Hmm, I want his genes for my offspring..."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:53 AM
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frankly id rather kms
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:48 AM
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Im sorry but if theres no equation to come with it, dudes need to stop calling their ideas 'Laws' But im sorry to hear you had relationship issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:45 AM
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thats how it should be! What women have a problem is when guys are nice specifically with an ulterior motive. Or who think they can just force overexaggerated 'nice' gestures on a woman, and that thats enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:11 AM
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this is so not true, idk why you guys are obsessed with spouting this shit. If a dude is physically attractive, but is a boring asshole, then hes actually ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:11 AM
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Yeah, but even the guys' personalities are boring in these shows, so its about being desired without needing to have looks OR a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:10 AM
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I can always tell when you guys just get mad at her posts and skim through it because thats not entirely what shes saying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:09 AM
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I think a lot of these guys really do just go for Stacies, I think porn, anime, and social media have warped men's perception of the 'avg' woman, and because they watch porn all day, a regular very attractive girl registers as a 6 to them, when shes really a 9. ive seen it myself, to the point where they dont even register any woman who is below a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:06 AM
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i dont think u even read what i wrote lmao You guys always say this, but its not true. It doesnt matter if someone wants to stick their dick in my pussy or ass if i dont want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:40 AM
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Welcome to 2025, where emotions dictate logic and words mean whatever you want them too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:17 AM
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ive almost exclusively dated other women in my life so i actually do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:46 AM
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What does it matter if i have options if theyre non-starters anyway? All it gets me is men i thought were acquaintances becoming, frankly, pretty bitchy towards me because i didnt have a 'reason' for not wanting to hookup (ie just cus im single). the grass isnt always greener.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:29 AM
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ive been celibate for over 3 years despite getting offers. Some women like hookups, absolutely, but way less than you guys seem to think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:16 AM
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What do you mean you read about it? Did you engage with feminist literature? or did you just skim a wikipedia article, angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:34 AM
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rad fems are like, some of the only people who i intellectually respect when it comes to social issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:33 AM
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ok, but this doesnt wash because lonely men arent locked in solitary confinement. Thats a bad example for you to use, because not having sex is nowhere near the same thing as being locked in a cage without ANY contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:12 AM
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im not being dramatic, you sweet summer boys are just sheltered from what life as a woman is like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:45 AM
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I also provided you with the definition of a "need," heres another Need: require (something) because it is essential or very important. Heres another Need: circumstances in which something is necessary, or that require some course of action; necessity. The sentence is literally "the basic human need for food." im not attacking your person jfc, but i also dont empathize with the relationship issues of others because its none of my business and no ones ever given af about my problems lol ppl gotta…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:37 AM
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Because I dont wanna get stabbed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:33 AM
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ive had guys not take "I dont want to date, and genuinely hate romantic bs" and instead assumed there must be some deeper reason that hes entitled to know about. its very common whether u guys believe us or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:16 AM
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women are more virtuous than men, based off of crime stats in rape and murder alone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:14 AM
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exactly, you cant win with these guys so its best to just tell them whatever keeps them from freaking out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:13 AM
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I can tell you, just from looking at this sub alone, that what youre describing isnt gendered at all. maybe u just notice when women do it more than u notice when men do it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:10 AM
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Well yes, she survived because she had food and water, ie needs. If anything you just proved that having a girlfriend isnt a need, because she in fact did live just fine without 'love' You guys arent tragic orphan wolf girls lost in the woods. youre just horny/ want emotional validation. which cool, but everyone wants that. and again they WANT it, dont NEED it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:51 AM
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Ok, i dont give af what Maslow said, because hes easily disproven. clearly you havent died despite not having sex. if you hadnt eaten for your entire life, we would not be having this conversation. You need food and water. This entire sub proves sex isnt a need because yall are still kicking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:36 AM
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your argument doesnt make any sense and is, frankly, not worth my time lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:35 AM
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Kindness is sexy when youre genuinely kind, not when youre obviously being kind because you have an agenda. we gotta get u guys in the military i stg. Im a woman, ive served, and yall need to get that intelligence training badly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:34 AM
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clearly youve never heard of exposure lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:32 AM
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little bro, come on. even you gotta know thats just grasping at straws XD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:30 AM
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It doesnt upset me, its just wrong. Words have meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:27 AM
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thats actually true, yes. You need food and clean water. Nobody said you need gourmet food, you just want it. You'll survive and can become strong off of just water and bland food that meets ur nutritional needs. Clearly yall have never served in the military
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:24 AM
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No, again thats something you want. You work towards goals to get the things you want. Need is cleanly defined, its something that is necessary and being without it implies you';ll perish. girl i fear youve spent too much time on this sub taking these dudes complaints as reality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:22 AM
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of course it does, if it's not a need, than it is a want. To be a 'need' it must be necessary. Very few things are actually needs, but most people nowadays live in abundance and are thus pampered into thinking their wants are needs. My tough af military grandmother taught me that when i was like 5. She also taught me nobody wants to be around someone who says they need something when what they really mean is "I wanna, I wanna" If your goal is "I need food and water i'm becoming ill," then youre …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:18 AM
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another definition is "to be needful or necessary," water is needful and necessary, some dude getting his weenie sucked just is not. I agree its something a lot of people really really really want, but its not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:07 AM
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Personally I dont. I socialize very well with people and have never had a problem with another woman at work. Ive dealt with men at work being angry with me though when it turns out im really just there to work, not be hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:06 AM
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I can disprove you in a sentence. If I don't have sex for a month ill be horny, if I dont drink water for a month i'll die.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:02 AM
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I dont have a fixation on sex in a vacuum, I get sexually harassed by men so much and have since I was 12, and now im sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:01 AM
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Resentful because I dont want u to let ur peener sneeze inside of my pussy? Like ill take my chances catching yall in the stress rather than kowtow
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:36 AM
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literally wtf am i supposed to do about dudes resenting me because i dont want their peener in my pussy or asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:32 AM
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oh so u can give it, but u cant take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:31 AM
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i dated a woman who was OBSESSED with my feet, like ive never seen someone like that lmaoooo I wasn't into it myself, but i really admired her tenacity so i let her do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:20 AM
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Ur right, they raised themselves on porn, and now they all think they deserve a woman like that. Theyre so angry now because, unlike their porn, theyre finding that they cant just 'click' on hot women and get them to comply the other day a dude on here said i deserved to lose my rights and be a sex slave because I said "i cant control who im attracted to" lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:13 AM
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talking about rape and murder are obv more unhinged than bored middle aged ladies gossiping at a job u prob take way too seriously
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