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| 19 | Does a lack of physical touch in early dating ever get better?Physical touch is important to me too, but I usually need some time before I feel comfortable enough to initiate it on dates. For me, it's a higher level of intimacy that needs to be built up gradually. Honestly, I'm generally not very touchy or proactive until we've actually slept together. Keep in mind, you've only had 4 dates, you don't really know each other that well yet. That said, I'm way more likely to get physically close when we're sitting together on a couch than when we're walking ar… | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 10:18 AM |
| 44 | How exactly do you go in for the kiss?Way before you go in for the kiss you'll have noticed that their body language has softened, they are leaning slightly towards you and you're in their personal space a greater percentage of the time. If you're sitting with nothing between you and they lean slightly toward you you can try putting your arm around them, if they're not leaning into you, don't. You can practice controlling this kind of atmosphere using flirting simulation sites like chαtvisor. You might be talking and there will be a… | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 08:09 PM |
| – | How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types?First, you’re probably matching with high-energy guys because your profile and conversation style is attracting them. Skip photos of you doing activities. Use relaxed settings. In your bio, be direct about wanting something calm and intimate instead of adventures. When flirting with low-energy guys, be more subtle. Focus on depth and connection. You can practice this style on flirting simulation sites like chatv𝑖sor, to get comfortable with slower-paced seduction that appeals to grounded guys. L… | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 07:54 PM |
| 3 | How are you hot but single?same | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 04:35 PM |
| 69 | How do I flirt with a shy nerdy guy and actually turn him on?Stop waiting for him to catch hints he won't. Shy nerdy guys overthink everything and end up doing nothing because they are terrified of misreading signals. You need to be way more direct. Don't say "you look nice" say "I've been thinking about you." Don't just touch his arm when you laugh let your hand linger on his thigh lean in close enough that he can feel your breath, hold eye contact a beat too long Make it unmistakable. Don't tone yourself down to make him comfortable. Your desire is not … | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 03:36 AM |
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