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| 37 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience? | Question For Women | PlanktonBeautiful250 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:21 AM |
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| 1 | Out of your partners who wouldn’t be able to attract you on a dating app, but did attract you in real life: what did they do?Well she had a terrible fringe and wore terrible dresses = misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Out of your partners who wouldn’t be able to attract you on a dating app, but did attract you in real life: what did they do?Wow imagine a man saying he taught his girlfriend how to dress and cut her hair. Automatic red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 08:14 PM |
| -1 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.With ease | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 08:33 PM |
| 4 | The "Emotional Labor" Argument Is Wildly overplayed by women.Just another nebulous concept under the overarching concept of ultimate nebulousness the 'Patriarchy' that has justified the funding of Women Studies courses for the last 40 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/26 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Women who use dating apps, genuine question - are you actually trying to filter for personality?If they're good looking but she'll never say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:42 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?Well that's a lot of trouble for countries where the age of consent is 16. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:32 AM |
| 7 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADExactly. And the revelation wasn't that hot guys get more attention than average guys. It was that they got ALL of the attention. Before doing it you would think that there were no active female users on the app but suddenly you could see there were thousands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 08:17 PM |
| 11 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADExactly, what it really means is 'I see a lot of 5 men with 6 women'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoYes it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoIt's entirely on topic. You just don't like the natural consequences of your smug assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoYou love giving out truth bombs but cannot handle receiving them. Quel surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoThen you'll have to accept that by setting this up as a competition the men trying to 'win' you will lie and misrepresent themselves. You don't want to hear men complain about having to compete? We don't want to hear women complain about the natural consequences of that competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoIt's also hilarious considering most women refuse to approach men in order to protect their fragile egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 08:31 PM |
| 8 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoWell duh. More than enough do though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 08:11 PM |
| 11 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoIt's women whose egos are propped up by the attention of competing idiots. No relationship I've had has been the fruit of a competitive process, I'd rather eat my own testicles than play that kind of game. If a woman is so insufficiently attracted to me that I have to jump through hoops for her interest then her juice isn't worth the squeeze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 08:00 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNothing ever in my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:36 PM |
| 16 | Men know that they have to compete but when it's time to act they give up to their egoJust accept that dating for men is the Hunger Games. Be a good little performing monkey Sir. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 07:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: less marriages would be sexless if men made more of an effortFewer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 07:15 PM |
| 15 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADMake a chadfish account on tinder with the most low effort profile blurb and see the women sprout out of the previously barren landscape. Looks override everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Guys who complain about “fairness” won’t ask for a hookup because it hurts their victim complex.You posted exactly the same thing two days ago about 'asking for hookups' you complete melt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:14 PM |
| 6 | What do you wish women would understand about dating women?Like talking to a brick wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:52 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe roof is good looks in this analogy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 11:34 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADJesus this is painful. The point is I'd never buy a house without one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:54 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBut it is necessary. If it's necessary then it might as wellbe the only metric because without it nothing will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:52 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSo looks are fundamental. Saying they're not the only metric is pointless when they're the only metric that is necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:47 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIf I'm buying a house it's fundamental it has a roof. It's not the only metric. I'm not buying a house just because it has a roof. But it MUST have a roof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?I know. The other day I posted a thread about this and some woman tried to make out it was probably men posting. More than one poster on here asked how I could be sure they were women. The disingenuousnous is off the charts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?This 100% So many posts about how they regret settling for the less attractive man. So many discussions about how ugly and short the average man is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Men who think the ability to do sex work is a "female privilege" vastly overestimate the *economic* feasibility of sex work for the average womanA bit like how women overestimate how any 'male privilege' actually affects the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 03:28 AM |
| 2 | What's your Blue Pill success story?r/shortguys are definitely gonna have fun with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 01:14 AM |
| 3 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.That still shouldn't cut out 99.9%. That's like only being attracted to men who are 6ft8+ which would be insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:25 AM |
| 0 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.You do you, weirdo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:25 AM |
| 3 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Then you have serious issues if you only find 0.1% of men attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:13 AM |
| 2 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Are you straight? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?My position is so transparent it needs no further explanation. You're just being deliberately obtuse because someone's observations contradict your delusional opinion of your own sex. It's remarkable how crazily you will all hold onto your views that you think there's a cabal of men out there pretending to be women. I don't know maybe all of Andrew Tate's online followers are women secretly trying to make men look bad. Yeah that seems likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netSounds like it's therapy you need not a giant boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netContentless Rhetoric. You should sell that title to a stand up comedian fir one of their specials. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netYou like bigger guys cos you think they're hot not because a smaller guy would make you feel like a hippo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netEh? It was a joke. Chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netSounds like a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netThe 6ft requirement must be purely aesthetic then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 12:53 AM |
| 4 | Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety netAs long as that safety net can reach the top shelf comfortably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Oh yeah there are thousands and thousands of posts on forums like Mumsnet where men pretend to be women. I didn't answer your question because it was so terrifyingly stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Wow you're really trying to stretch credulity to deny to truth aren't you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 11:03 PM |
| – | Apparently women are going on dates with men who ask them no questions backI never said it was anyone's responsibility. Women cando what they like. I'm just saying that most men only get into relationships with women because women settled for someone who they don't find physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:41 PM |
| – | Apparently women are going on dates with men who ask them no questions backMost men are No to all women. It's only settling for a No that sees most men get into any relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:25 PM |
| – | Apparently women are going on dates with men who ask them no questions backSo you're just proving the point that all that really attracts you is looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 08:18 PM |
| – | Apparently women are going on dates with men who ask them no questions backIt's looks. It's always looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Oh Jesus there really is a mindbendingly tedious trend on this forum for 'citations'. The specific percentage is not important it is roughly correct. At least 70% of men will never be physically attractive on first sight to any woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?The point of the post is not that you're lying. The point is that YOU are the vocal minority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:50 PM |
| 14 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsThe dating game is the same for older generations as it is for Gen Z. 40+ women do things no differently than 19 year olds now. Multiple orbiting men, chasing only the tallest and the hottest only with them you also have to have an enormous salary as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?This group isn't some spontaneous assembly of women gathered to talk about how relatively unimportant appearance is in dating. You're here specifically arguing against men who insist looks are fundamental. The groups I'm talking about are simply general groups about dating and relationships. The importance of looks and money in their discourse just flows naturally out of their discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?No the truth is only about 20-30% of men are objectively attractive. All of the men that women find physically attractive are drawn from this group. You might only find 45% of that subset attractive and your friend might find a different 45% attractive. There will be some overlap. But none of you find the 70+% of men outside that group attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:28 AM |
| 6 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Quel surprise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?No they're general forums and on most if not all of these forums there are vehement disagreements over nearly everything. Stop trying to rationalise everything to make women appear holier than thou all the bloody time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:16 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵And there we have it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Care to explain what having a height preference means for you? Do you prefer dwarves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 05:54 AM |
| 8 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵She's perfectly average but most women will tell you she's absolutely stunning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?But only the ugly men of the other side? You're reaching a bit here. How is worshipping hot guys 'sticking it to the other side'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Yes. Mumsnet is one of the main sites I was thinking of. Women on there worship Chads (without using the term obviously). One of the most popular posts I remember was a woman asking whether she was strange that she found it really hot that good looking men could get away with being an arsehole whereas ugly/average men had to 'behave'. She got so many responses agreeing with her like they were all giggling schoolgirls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Advice? These are forums discussing dating experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?Men can join and post but they are rare and the audience is assumed always to be 99% women. The forums are general dating forums they're not specifically set up to talk about those traits. They talk about those traits because they're the most important thing to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:41 AM |
| -8 | Are the women who offer Blue pill advice on here just outliers or are they modifying their message to suit their audience?And yet they've hit upon the reality of the world with far greater accuracy than all of the grass-touching blue pillers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 12:39 AM |
| 5 | The "Nice Guy Finish Last" mindset is inherently misogynistic and shows a lack of personal accountability.She's unhinged. Don't look for good faith arguments from nutters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How come men are so comfortable in their own skin ?And have those complaints got them anywhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red PillBut it's such a low bar to achieve financially stability (according to them remember the bar IS in hell) that they obviously think we already have that system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red PillI didn't. I determined that if women think that financial stability is part of the equation that determines if a man is a good prospect and that their bar for romantic prospects is 'in hell' that the bar for 'financial stability' must be incredibly easy to clear. Therefore women must think that our current system is a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red PillBecause women require men be financially stable and say that their bar is in hell. So if financially stability is such a low bar, it must be easily achieved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red PillWhy? Because it's a system that all good, responsible people can prosper in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 01:20 PM |
| 23 | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red PillWomen of reddit: The capitalist society we live in today makes it impossible for the bottom 99% to achieve financial stability. Also women of reddit: Of course the definition of a 'good man' includes financial stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:38 PM |
| 5 | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and better100% this. It was the people interviewing MacEnroe who pushed him into this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think there are so many good menSo financial stability is something easily achievable in today's society? Presumably that means you think the capitalist system we currently have is an excellent one to maintain then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think there are so many good menMoses from IT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:13 AM |
| 3 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manSo it wouldn't have matter what personality you had? Good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:43 PM |
| 3 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manThe one extremely rare guy you're attracted to is also into you on the same level? Either that's a huge slice of luck or he would have taken anyone who showed interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 05:04 PM |
| 3 | If women were not into men, there wouldn't be so many women being side chicks and humiliating themselves for a manAnd this guy just happened to be into you as well? What a coincidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:01 PM |
| -3 | The Grim Future of Men and Dating?Yes dear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsBe6ftwitha6figureincomefunnyintelligentrippedandinfinitelypatient | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 08:40 AM |
| 7 | When men say they cant be vulnerable, they mean they cant wallow in self pity 24/7 and get pity sex as treatment.You are genuinely unhinged. Maybe get a job and spend less time online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:19 PM |
| 10 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highMy first requirement is not calling football 'soccer'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 03:38 PM |
| – | Being funny is not attractive to womenNo, what you wrote would have made sense if OP was complaining that things he thought were funny weren't found to be so by women. He said nothing close to that. Why don't you scour the Internet for something that resembles that and post your rant in response to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:24 PM |
| – | Being funny is not attractive to womenTry reading the original post rather than ranting on your favourite talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:10 PM |
| – | Being funny is not attractive to womenWomen don't find funny men hot. Women find hot men funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:00 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADGaslight 101 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADInstigate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Why do women claim "personality matters most" but then act revolted when they see a mid to ugly looking guy with a beautiful woman?Ah, Lithuanian! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Why do women claim "personality matters most" but then act revolted when they see a mid to ugly looking guy with a beautiful woman?Maybe Estonian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:46 PM |
| 8 | Why do women claim "personality matters most" but then act revolted when they see a mid to ugly looking guy with a beautiful woman?You're so far off the topic you might as well have written that in Latvian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.Evolutionary Psychology is basically a tool used to justify anyone's preconceived ideas. It's essentially confirmation bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why:She could just pick the guy she has most in common with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/25 07:21 PM |
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