PlantHag Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	What do you make of the redpillers' stories? “Single moms forcing their exes to pay child support…” Are you fucking serious with this bullshit?	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/25 07:02 AM
18	Feeling the need to rack up a high n count as a man to compete with women on dating apps They fixate on the numbers because it’s less effort than being considerate of their partner/sex appliance’s experience.	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/24 03:43 PM
10	Feeling the need to rack up a high n count as a man to compete with women on dating apps Firstly, how the hell do you know how all these women are using the apps, let alone who they are sleeping with? Do you have a special crystal ball for sluts? You are just projecting your crap onto women and assuming they’d bang any guy that reciprocates interest, because that’s what you would do in their shoes, like most men. Secondly, if you think dating apps are representative of real life, you need to spend less time on the internet and go outdoors more. Most women don’t use them. Every stati…	/r/ExRedPill	03/08/24 03:39 PM
2	Why is it that the most outwardly sexist guys I know that do the best with women? Most (heterosexual) women want a partner who is more masculine then they are. If you’re a Marine then I imagine most of the women you work with are a bit less girly and have a more masculine energy then the typical woman, either by nature or out of necessity in order to be effective at work. Dumb caveman misogynist is a trope but it also heavily implies a very masculine man, whether or not the masculinity is toxic. Also, don’t take this the wrong way but you are 20 so I assume most of the co-wor…	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/24 12:54 AM
4	I can’t Un-RP myself I literally saw some maladjusted pig here on Reddit argue that it was 13 years old.	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/24 12:27 AM
23	Never go down the escort route He didn't learn shit. He'll do it again.	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/23 01:30 AM
2	Ever heard of this ridiculous term "hoeflation"? Or men or women or relationships or their ass from a hole in the ground.	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/23 03:23 AM
1	Ever heard of this ridiculous term "hoeflation"? That's what we call science now.	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/23 03:20 AM
–	Thought foodie calls weren't common? Your math is misandrist and slutty. REJECTED!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 07:45 AM
27	What's the reason red pillers love to hate on women over 30, Obese women, single religious women, Single moms, and effeminate men? It's pure strategy. The worse women feel about themselves the less they expect from their partners, and the more BS they will tolerate. They want the bar to stay in hell where they think it belongs. As for the effeminate men, I've seen a lot of RP closet cases so I assume it's a lot of projection.	/r/ExRedPill	11/11/23 10:55 PM
7	Gentlemen, if you don't NEED them, they don't want you. That's not really needing someone, that's codependence. She's in for a hell of a life if she sticks to that thinking. Yikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 07:35 PM
6	Gentlemen, if you don't NEED them, they don't want you. Yeah I responded to the overall point and completely glossed over that interesting fact. Consider the context, OP. Stripclub (with daughter and her friends, wtf) Early 20's (generally the era of peak dumbassery) Drunk You should just hear white noise when the previous criteria is met and someone starts spouting off with their theories about anything, especially romance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 07:32 PM
2	Gentlemen, if you don't NEED them, they don't want you. I think lots of men and women prefer someone who needs and wants them. Probably for the same reason that marriage is still, despite the odds, something a lot of people want (especially women). People's wants are fickle and ever-changing. If that's the only thing holding two people together it's only a matter of time before someone wants something else and bails. And then usually 6 months or so down the line they discover that they were wrong and now they want their original partner back again...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 06:02 PM
4	Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex? I had to reread that comment because I thought it was sarcastic and I was confused lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 05:28 PM
1	Do women like bad guys? Women like masculinity. Sometimes (usually if they have some unaddressed issues), they won’t care if that masculinity is of the toxic variety. That’s all the “bad boy” appeal is.	/r/ExRedPill	07/11/23 11:58 PM
2	Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it. This is important. ☝️	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 05:29 AM
1	Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it. This is the remedy for a great deal of unhappy relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 05:27 AM
7	Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it. Then the man is blindsided when she leaves, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 05:22 AM
11	Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have? Are you people actually arguing with a poster about how fast his hair grows?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 05:07 AM
1	Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth No, I don’t think that, which is why I didn’t say that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 09:35 PM
1	Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth Yes men and women want different things from each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 01:13 AM
19	Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth I think lots of guys get this advice from their mothers who are often absolutely uninterested in helping their sons do well with girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 01:11 AM
12	Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth This is conflated here a lot. Scumbags like that aren’t successful with women because they’re scumbags. They’re successful in spite of being scumbags because they’re masculine. Masculinity will trump most short comings, at least for a significant amount of women. I think men and women have both been led waaaaay astray in terms of relationships, socializing, values, etc. over the last few generations. We have all been undermined from several directions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 01:08 AM
7	“Women lose value as they get older” But of course. :)	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 09:30 PM
7	“Women lose value as they get older” I like you.	/r/ExRedPill	28/10/23 05:31 PM
1	Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers? Honestly I think a lot of it is that it's reflective of a man that takes the easy way out. It makes the man appear less masculine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 11:09 PM
1	CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flags The dumbest thing you've ever heard is adding a single and non-invasive additional test to the litany of tests (and paperwork) already done anytime a baby is born? You must be new here. Welcome. It's perfectly fine to not agree, but pretending it's just sooooooo unreasonable and ridiculous to consider paternity tests might be made standard procedure is disingenuous, particularly since all the reasons you listed were your own hypothetical concoctions. I admire how you are able to haul that wet bl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 12:21 AM
2	CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flags Firstly, paternity tests should be mandatory every time a baby is born. Then this wouldn't be an issue and less families would be needlessly blown up over one partner's normally baseless insecurity. I don't know a single woman who could look at their partner the same way once they discovered that he thought so little of them. I agree wholeheartedly that duping a man, either intentionally or unintentionally, into raising another man's child does happen sometimes, and it is egregious and completel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 06:45 PM
2	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? I see both men and women do this in about equal proportions. It's a problem societally, not just with one single gender. I also see both genders overvaluing shallow and vacuous traits at the expense of thing like character, shared values and interests, etc. It might show up differently in men than with women, but we all pretty much suck nowadays. The only logical conclusion to expect from the prevalence of OLD and social media was that people would start treating each other as disposable commodi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:28 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Speaking as a happy, single and child free 30-something woman, this is an excellent and reasonable post. What the hell is it doing here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 09:37 PM
2	CMV : There’s nothing wrong at all with modern dating. Women are just attracted to less men. This is a great point. The actual physical toxicity that is typical of modern society is not discussed enough when it comes to social issues.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 10:38 PM
1	This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also? This!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 06:22 PM
9	This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also? This is laughable and utter bullshit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 06:16 PM
1	Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman? You don’t even like women. That will be obvious to any woman you interact with. You also seem only interested in a friendship with a woman as a strategy to eventually have sex with her. This will also be obvious to any woman you interact with. Would you be interested in being friends with an angry misandrist that spends half her time complaining about the patriarchy or looking down on men? Or making “friends” with a woman who only spends time with you when she wants a favor? Wouldn’t you catch o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 12:35 AM
1	Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman? I think he wants to try to parlay a friendship into something sexual as some sort of nice guy strategy. It will never work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 12:12 AM
6	Forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman? And women don’t owe you friendship. Especially considering your obvious contempt. Don’t you think that might have something to do with it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 12:08 AM
1	How much do looks matter? Looks matter to everyone, especially in terms of getting a foot in the door. And I think in general "getting a foot in the door" is much harder for men. However, I don't think men fully appreciate that for lots of women attraction can significantly grow (and sometimes fade) as we get to know a man more. I mean it makes sense that most people out there, male or female, would be sort of "meh" in the looks department.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/23 06:09 PM
3	Are single fathers attractive to women? Yeah there’s no way that results in a happy ending.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 08:42 PM
3	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 11:02 PM
1	The best option for men who aren't top tier for casual sex are late 30's to early 40's women Feeling desired by anyone generally provides some sort of validation, to varying degrees. That’s a completely different matter than actually hooking up with a younger guy. I would never date anyone my age or younger, and when I see women with visibly younger partners I feel second hand embarrassment. You are really projecting a lot, and not really understanding how women think and feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 12:09 AM
3	What are normal jobs that give the most status to a man ? I used to have an administration job working with nothing but cops and firefighters. Most of them were the most stand up guys you could find, but if you get unlucky and wind up with one of the scumbags they take it to a level that would make civilian scumbags weep. It’s kind of weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 03:27 AM
3	What are normal jobs that give the most status to a man ? My ears prick up when I hear a guy is a carpenter or a contractor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 03:21 AM
3	Women discomfort to reject men seems to parallel the discomfort men have to approach women I would suggest just picking out something that she’s wearing, even if it’s not particularly eye-catching. It speaks to her style, something that’s more indicative of her taste, character or personality. A compliment I’ve gotten from a man that I’ve really appreciated before is, “Hey I really like that top. It brings out the color of your eyes.” Doesn’t matter if it’s bullshit, in my opinion. Unless it’s delivered in a particularly creepy manner, like staring at her cleavage the entire time, or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:58 PM
4	Women discomfort to reject men seems to parallel the discomfort men have to approach women This is excellent advice. Just don’t fill in the blank with something about their body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 10:51 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? 100% THIS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 08:07 PM
–	Do people really think this is reasonable? OP if a wife lets herself go and gains 100 pounds, and the husband stops feeling sexually attracted to her, is potentially even repulsed by her, is the dead bedroom his fault?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 07:50 PM
–	Do people really think this is reasonable? Don’t worry nobody will ever marry you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 07:46 PM
–	Do people really think this is reasonable? Nobody here is interested in women’s needs, you fool. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 07:41 PM
–	Do people really think this is reasonable? This is such a weird, untrue and childish take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 07:31 PM
1	Do women get turned off if a guy tells them how he regretted some of the women he hooked up with? I would be generally turned off by men who have lots of casual hook ups, but particularly if he did it just because he thought he "should". It just sort of feels weak. However, I've dated guys that did the whole "wild oats" thing in their younger years because they were horny and dumb but with age they grew to regret some of that behavior, and I actually didn't mind it. I sort of respected it in a way because 1) there are way too many people out there (both men and women) who for whatever reason…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 10:57 PM
8	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men This is the best advice any man could read here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:39 PM
9	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men Maybe she just didn’t vibe with your personality. Or maybe she realized by the end of your encounter that she’s still hung up on an ex, or a lesbian, or in desperate need of going on safari in Kenya next week. Who the fuck knows. It’s also highly likely that she got a whiff of the fact that you clearly don’t even like or respect women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:36 PM
9	Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than men This is true. My first boyfriend was objectively gorgeous, and I felt like I’d hit the jackpot, but by the end of the relationship the mere sight of him literally repulsed me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:18 PM
17	The modern dating world has been somewhat ruined by OLD, but it's mostly men's fault. An excellent and fair-minded comment. What the fuck is it doing here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/23 04:32 AM
9	CMV: If makeup vanished overnight, the game would change drastically. I know. Black market makeup in women’s prisons is very typical. And not all of those chicks are lesbians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 04:53 PM
1	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching Have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/23 03:33 AM
10	Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to be EVERY post on this sub is about who has it easier, even if it doesn’t start that way. 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 11:40 PM
1	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching He wasn’t trying to get a girlfriend that’s the entire point. If you walk around and only interact with the world when there’s something in it for YOU, the world can tell. Your philosophy is the philosophy of Only Fans, but good luck with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 09:23 PM
2	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching Exactly. If he struggled with women he wouldn't have said anything in the first place. Dude was confident as hell, too. I should have thrown my underwear at him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 08:30 PM
1	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching The reason it’s attractive is because he wasn’t looking to GET anything. If you treat every interaction with a woman as transactional you will be repellent. To your intended target and any woman who happens to be watching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 08:18 PM
1	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching No it isn’t, but cold approaching only works if you do it well. If you’re too bothered by the thought of getting rejected as you develop that skill, then stick to other tactics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/23 03:51 PM
11	Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approaching This is a fair criticism. When I people watch or go out with friends I often see women sending out signals to men that are way way too subtle and they get missed, then they immediately get embarrassed or huffy and give up. I think a couple generations back people were much better at sending and receiving non-verbal cues because the only socialization available was in person. They were probably much more resilient as a result, too. One time I was in a mall making my way to the parking lot and a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 07:15 PM
10	What relationship advice would you give to people aged 18-25? Do not waste your time, or anyone else's (bad karma) if you don't see a future with them. Accept fundamental incompatibilities at face value and move on, even if you're in love. People have a right to want or not want marriage, kids, monogamy, a particular religion, etc. Train yourself to value character more than superficialities, both in yourself and in others (we are hardwired for the shallow stuff, but it won't make for a happy life in the long term). Complacency and comparison are recipes f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 03:46 PM
7	Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute women THIS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 05:46 PM
1	What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically? Start taking classes in a foreign language. I've learned several secondary languages as an adult and almost all of my classes were +80% women. Plus the teachers force you to have many (jilted and clumsy) practice conversations in the target language, so any awkwardness can be accounted for as part of the learning process.	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/23 11:42 AM
5	If your significant other cheated, lied to your family/parents and they chose their side over you, what would you do? I would burn those bridges with napalm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 09:11 AM
1	I hate all of you, you’re a bunch of damn idiots. This post contained more satisfaction than the entirety of my last relationship. I salute you OP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 11:11 PM
6	Female women, do you find it weird that men are unable to "turn off" their attraction towards women most of the time? What about mail men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/22 07:47 AM
3	Women of PPD, could we get honest answers about your dating life as you have grown older? (i.e The Wall) It will be 22 by the end of the week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 07:08 PM
11	Most average men would be happy with a healthy weight, average looking women. I can't believe this needs to be pointed out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/22 05:07 AM
25	Height preferences Your insecurity with your height is what’s going to turn women off, way more than your actual height.	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/22 08:51 PM
13	Would you date a man whom has an OF account and regularly tips on it? Fuck no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/22 04:34 AM
9	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? Off the top of my head: They are entitled about sex, and pushy and intrusive about introducing a sexual element to the conversation as soon as possible without any attempt to build rapport. Usually this is repellant to women, not just because it's fucking rude and presumptuous as hell, but it speaks to an instant gratification mindset. I associate instant gratification with an adolescent mentality. An adolescent instant gratification-based dopamine-seeking mentality is the polar opposite of a bi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 10:44 AM
18	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it? The more time anyone, regardless of gender, spends on social media, the less committed they are, and the more likely they are to cheat. Just about everyone is overestimating what they bring to the table, and what they can lock down on the dating market. People have gotten way fucking weirder and WAY more socially inept in the last 15 years. It's obvious when a man has a bad porn habit. Porn aura = red flag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 05:21 AM
2	What do you guys think of Qoves Studio and other YouTube channels that talk about “objective attractiveness” I really like Qoves. One reason is because they discuss not only the actual physical architecture of attractiveness, but they also explore a lot of the many studies that explore things like pretty privilege and appearance-based biases. I could see how there would be some red pill overlap in that respect, because attractiveness is one of the biggest indicators of success in many areas of life (unfortunately), not just dating, and as such the channel isn't shy about encouraging the maximization of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 03:11 AM