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This isn't a bad thing. All relationships should and do have conditions. Otherwise they're out of obligation.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 05:08 PM
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Yup. Like any other drug, you need more/more explicit use if you do it a lot
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:46 PM
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Comphet
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:45 PM
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Maybe they should smile more
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:44 PM
3

Yes
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:44 PM
1

According to fresh and fit statistics say 50% of us are being flown out to Miami. I guess my ticket is in my spam folder
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:43 PM
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Also as a woman who lives in a HCOL city, getting older means more money I've been able to invest in my appearance. At 20 I had crooked teeth and lived off of fast food and vodka. Approaching thirty I've been able to afford beauty treatments and money for a healthier lifestyle
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:35 PM
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I feel like the internet has divided women into choosing trad con wife life or boss babe dying with her cats In reality, what it means to be a woman in a heterosexual relationship is far more nuanced and with that comes with defining what a provider is. My husband is a provider. He works 70 hour weeks outside AND he comes home and helps with the cooking and the cleaning. I consider both to be required of a provider as 'provider' to me means ensuring my physical and mental well being. If he comes…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/23 06:11 PM
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You might not like this answer, but if things go sideways, how do you explain this gap on your resume? I have zero issue with women staying at home. But only when their names are also on mortgages, bank accounts and benefits. "Why buy the cow when the milk is free?"
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 09:43 PM
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definitely, it's not a requirement to be happy so I should have been more clear. Yes, I got married this year and the respect people treat you with is noticeable and appreciated. I feel it's given me legitimacy at work as people know I'm responsible enough to be a wife and I'm not out being reckless.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 09:33 PM
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I'm religious, but I don't see a need to get married if you aren't. So long as you have the paperwork done (wills, power of attorney) that protects you
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 07:07 PM
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Yup. If he hits 75% of what you're looking for, sit down.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 07:06 PM
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24-28
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 07:05 PM
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The most attractive thing my husband does is telling his alcoholic bitch of a mother where to put it. He's a family man through and through and he'd do anything for her and his family. But he always puts us (me) first.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/23 02:19 PM
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I think law school is an achievement no matter the school. As someone who also is in higher education, I know the hard work that goes into it. Crazy how the goal posts are always moving for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:54 PM
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What's your highest education completion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:42 PM
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I enhanced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:41 PM
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I'm totally fine with it being a meaningless definition. I have no attachment to the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:09 PM
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Oh I'm sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:45 AM
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Thanks! The hyperbole shows men take the word attraction literally in this scenario when reality shows something different. Like clearly, a resume doesn't cause a boner. But yet, these are the same men asking "what do you bring to the table" and wanting to go on coffee dates. So, clearly there's an attraction to women who can support themselves otherwise they'd just leave us alone (and they can't seem to do that)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:42 AM
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I get the point. The point: men don't care about careers as that's not what they typically value most in a partner. A career is nice to have but not what initially attracted them. May I have my gold star?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:35 AM
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Most men don't want to be breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:08 AM
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I didn't get my MBA for sex appeal. Trust me, I wasn't give my husband a lap dance in my cap and gown. We want men to pick a lane of reality: either women are to be stay at home trad wives having a bunch of babies to be supported by their husbands or women are working just as hard as men do in the workforce and ask for 50% partnership in a domestic relationship. Because right now, "men don't care about your career" but many households are also being upheld by this same career you don't have any …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:01 AM
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Women are now the majority in both law in medical schools this "lesbian art theory" degree idea is just propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:56 AM
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What they say is very different than what they do. Culturally and economically a one income household doesn't cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:52 AM
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Right. I think it's human nature for men to want someone who looks good for mating and for women to want protection whatever that looks like. Anyone who thinks there's any basis to evolutionary determinism believes in the red pill. But the whole "Gotta get a chick drunk to ask her N count cause im not spending all of that time in the gym for nothing" forex trading creatinine hot breath in the club motherfuckers have absolutely made the movement a mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:40 AM
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I agree there's nowhere in society for men to Healthily put their rage and handle their libido. Paired with decreased/absence in fatherhood, it's only natural the Andrew Tate's of the world fill the void for masculine role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:33 AM
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I've never understood what "accountability" means. I'm supposed to be sorry Chad screwed me over so I'm now alone and "hit the wall?" I mean if I'm going to screwed over anyway make the guy good looking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:31 AM
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I took ballroom this winter and it was a great way to meet people! I took it with my fiancé (now husband) but there were singles there!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:45 PM
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Are you hitting on them or introducing yourself? Are they wearing headphones? Reading a book? Avoiding eye contact with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:09 PM
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Exactly. I could talk about this for hours. The lack of 3rd spaces for relationships whether romantic, platonic, or familial is hurting us. What's the first place you think of when you think of the opposite (or same) sex looking for a romantic partner? A bar, probably. Already, with the venue, sex and alcohol are an imposition which doesn't always lead to what people are necessarily looking for. If we had more 3rd spaces, where couples could engage in sober (or less drunk) activities, maybe hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:56 PM
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It's not much but it's honest work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:11 PM
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So are these podcasters not dating/PUAS? Why are they so popular then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:32 PM
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No but a movement that attracts a large number of autistic men doesn't really scream subtle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:29 PM
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No ones more sexual than a man not getting any
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:58 PM
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Exactly. Sounds like the men in my life. They're hard working good men who were able to find partners organically so they don't need to consume content online
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:53 PM
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Not really too stealthy if you're asking "what do you bring to the table" on a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:52 PM
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Same. I lived that life and it's really shallow once the dopamine wears off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:44 AM
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Exactly. It shows that they're not disciplined and indulge in vice. Not to take it back to health class out more partners = more risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:43 AM
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Some adults enjoy wine with dinner and they usually check both ids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:26 AM
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Like moth to a flame
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:34 PM
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You can interpret it however you like!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:22 PM
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I'm guessing you're an entrepreneur? Blue collar?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:43 PM
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Yes I love a trip down memory lane! So basically, the guy who invited me was very autistic, and made a HUGE no no by inviting me, a rando from tinder. It's a dinner party, but we're all mixing in the lobby beforehand. Like I said, the existence of these clubs are meant to be "need to know." The guys are super friendly and the general theme is "woah where did the hot chick roll in from" as Harvard women aren't necessarily known for their looks (not bragging, just painting the picture). Him and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:41 PM
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Of course not. But it increases the chances someone can discuss literature at a freshman 103 level
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:23 PM
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I went to a social club (more exclusive than a frat you need to know a senator to get in) at Harvard as a tinder date and the women there were so unfriendly to me. They knew I didn't belong (which I completely didn't). They were very serious about these men not being up for grabs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:13 PM
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Cool beans
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:38 PM
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Well Rousseau has stood the test of time in the world of philosophy, let's see what legacy you leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:36 PM
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I disagree. "Man is born free and everywhere he is in chains."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:23 PM
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Bingo! People who were born ambitious didn't need to learn a whole new lexicon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:21 PM
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Plenty of women become baby mamas to bums everyday. It's an epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:02 PM
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Yes, it was more so you don't hear lawyers refer to law school as "grinding". The word choice indicates someone who is probably not in a professional career path.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:00 PM
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I agree they're weak. Feminism hasn't hit many parts of the US (think utah, the south, etc) where plenty of women were taught that marriage is supposed to be miserable. You don't know what you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:56 PM
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Those are all fair reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:55 PM
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It's common sense but RP has rotted their minds to think that women will only date you if you have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:29 PM
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Fuck them kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:28 PM
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Eh I went on a date with a savant in college (like studying mathematics at Oxford savant). He was so socially awkward it was hard to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:27 PM
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Right. I have a degree in history. Is it helpful for employment? Not necessarily since I'm not in that field. does it show I'm at least somewhat knowledgeable about history duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:26 PM
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A college degree doesn't make you smart but I'd rather have coffee with someone whose well read than Jim Bob whose idea of culture is an Adam Sandler movie
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:24 PM
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I am a career woman through and through and I've used that money to build social capital.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:23 PM
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Yup. Men who go to Harvard typically marry someone who also went to Harvard. Not the bombshell waiting tables at the local pub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:22 PM
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This is a great point. I think most men who want kids look for a woman who will be a good mom. Airheads don't make the best parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:21 PM
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Podcast land
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:17 PM
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Poor men and women love getting married and having offspring because they're bored religious etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:17 PM
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Where are you getting despise from? If people want to live with less that's none of my business. My husband and I personally like the finer things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:12 PM
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Yup. I outsource laundry and have a meal kit subscription. We live in apartment so it's easy to keep clean and obv no maintenance. People are too proud to ask (pay) for help at the expense of their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:05 PM
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That's my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:03 PM
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Indentured servitude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:03 PM
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Yup you can tell in the word choice. "If I grinded all through my 20s..." You know who doesn't feel that way? People who were already successful or working towards success in their early 20s (I.e the doctors and lawyers)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:56 PM
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I'm so glad he's an ex and we're reprogramming the "you can have it all" attitude from the late 20th century. We shouldn't have to do it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:55 PM
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I mean watch them bitch and moan for even suggesting a stay at home mom isn't a maid nor a chef
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:46 PM
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Yup. My mom called herself a married single mother
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:38 PM
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Especially if they're "touched out" from having kids on them all day
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:37 PM
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Yup. You can't act like his mom all day and then magically see him as a sexual being
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:34 PM
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Then hire a maid Money bags
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:16 PM
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Yup! Resentment is the ultimate bedroom killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:14 PM
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I think they call them mail person now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:24 PM
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I don't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:52 AM
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Female women 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:24 AM
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Yeah binary thinking attacks a certain type of men to this sub if you catch my drift
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:00 PM
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Not autistic, but ND, and it's so sad when people hate who they are. I stopped masking in 2022 and it's so nice to get to know myself again. I'm so open and honest about my condition and it makes some people so uncomfortable. It's 2023, there's not need to closet ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:34 PM
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A hit dog hollers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:28 PM
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Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:23 PM
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I think that if you can't order a bottle of wine for a date it's a little sketchy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:22 PM
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Yup. So long as consenting adults are treating each other with respect that's all I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:21 PM
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Hi, woman here. "I need someone with a low N count so I hang around teenagers." - not cool "I met someone organically who happens to be younger and I like her for her." - cool Hope this helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:19 PM
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Yes but "boys will be boys" gives the good ole boys some leg room
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:08 PM
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My husband is a provider, so naturally he's away a lot. I love this sub because I think relationships are interesting as is relationships between men and women. I talk about what I see on here with my husband often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:07 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:04 PM
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And it's women's fault somehow I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:25 AM
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Can't hate from outside of the club if you can't get in
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:17 AM
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Most of their wives also work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:09 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:29 AM
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Totally anecdotal but most women I encounter on here are in LTRs while most men are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:14 AM
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Exactly. Take gender out of it, but if you're busting your butt at work and you come home to someone whose been sitting on the couch all day and is mean about it, resentment will grow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:12 AM
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Your point is totally valid. No, I would not be okay with it, but with this woman I'm thinking harm reduction rather than lecturing her.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/23 12:38 AM
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I met a ton of Muslims like that in my clubbing days. Hookups and drinking is fine but a pepperoni pizza is pushing it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 11:54 PM
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With love and light "I know you are but what am I" is really showing your age here
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 11:50 PM
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If she's looking for traditional (whatever that means) it's not going to be a man in his early 20s unless she's in religious circles. But yes I agree. Considering she was 17 when she started dating this guy it's a little unsettling
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 11:49 PM
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Okay babe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:34 PM
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Yup! Struggle love isn't in the card for me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:30 PM
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What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:28 PM
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Nope, not everything is binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:25 PM
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2 things can be true at once :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:07 PM
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Date older.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 10:58 PM
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Because you're trauma dumping on me as if I care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:51 PM
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Do you not see the irony of you not liking therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:42 PM
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Maybe they had a point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:40 PM
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God this is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:35 PM
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I don't doubt that I was severely bullied. Now I'm working on my masters, a wife, and starting a family. It's not a life sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:28 PM
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I mean I dated plenty of people before marriage and none were particularly critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:08 PM
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Yup we all are! You cracked the code. Now leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:03 PM
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Idk if 35 people told me I was lacking I would listen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:02 PM
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Aka Most men in imaginary relationships on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:01 PM
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Then that's on your biology, but your mother did her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:36 PM
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It does though. Plenty of autistic people aren't socially isolated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:35 PM
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You're so angry and for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:00 PM
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Different economic classes do different things. I work in tech consulting and I doubt any of those men are working with skeeter on cars on the weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:55 PM
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Dude I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:52 PM
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Americans are temporarily embarrassed millionaires. They think they're going to have a Mackenzie Bezos situation one day when in reality the court is going to give the wife their dilapidated house from the 1970s and maybe 400 bucks in child support 😂 Yeah it's kind of odd how women are these leeches but simultaneously also supporting most households. I think the narratives are getting mixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:33 PM
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Wouldn't deleting be easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:32 PM
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I'm generally happy and content with my life. Why would I listen to angry people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:30 PM
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Thanks, strong family units and relationships are underrated for producing healthy individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:30 PM
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If the woman who you keep at home doesn't see the value of her contribution that's on her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:28 PM
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The school shooter mantra
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:02 PM
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Not my experience 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:01 PM
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We have a great relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:57 PM
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Most people are really boring and have no real interests or hobbies besides what's popular at the moment. I say this as a bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:55 PM
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Exactly. Blue collar men are aggressive, old fashioned and often come with substance issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:36 PM
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Yeah my husband is blue collar and it's not for the faint of heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:34 PM
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Yeah it's brutal here! But we all make higher wages so it evens out. I'm also not looking for someone to pay my bills, I just want to be able to keep the same lifestyle if one of us lost employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:32 PM
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Suburb outside of Boston And yes if I'm living with a partner they need to be able to maintain our middle class lifestyle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:28 PM
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I had a stay at home mom. It's the most thankless job. That's why I work as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:28 PM
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Average income in my city is 80k, so 80k,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:21 PM
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Anger, spitefulness and apathy are emotions but for some reason men don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:20 PM
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Yup. I worked in suicide prevention and it's usually the people you don't expect who go through with it. And those who are dramatic who have multiple attempts but never succeeded.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:19 PM
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Housing crisis, stagnant wages, hottest temperatures we've ever seen Yup, it's the person asking "so tell me about your childhood" that's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:18 PM
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It's so sad that once your were a baby and your mother had the highest hopes for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:17 PM
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I'm married to a blue collar men. I love him and he provides. But I worry about his body and the fact that's as harsh as it sounds, this is all he knows how to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:09 PM
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I pay for my laundry and hello fresh too 😅 We're a 6 figure household. We'd rather spend time with each other than bragging about how good at chores we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:04 PM
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Do you do those things everyday? In my household we pay an external party for most of those things as they're pretty infrequent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:49 PM
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Women bad grrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:21 PM
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What is your point? Women bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:21 PM
2

So room and board?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:15 PM
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Should have signed a prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:12 PM
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I'm just going off of the caricatures
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:12 PM
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The kids have to live somewhere. If men want full custody I'd feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:05 PM
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No ones forcing you to engage ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:59 PM
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It's "othering"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:52 PM
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This is 100 percent an RP man posting this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:51 PM
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It's a hard cope and I say this as a raging feminist. Some Dworkin does everyone good,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:47 PM
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The problem is men don't value domestic labor until it's not done. Look at how many men freak out that the wife takes the house in the divorce (which doesn't even happen in some states) when it was her sweat equity that made it a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:46 PM
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I'm jealous that Pablo Escobar is wealthier than I'll ever be but I'm not going to endorse slinging dope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:44 PM
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Honestly if I had to choose I'd take the 80s girl boss "have it all" feminist than the OF is empowering ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:42 PM
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Choices don't exist in a vacuum. Choice feminism is definition liberal feminism. Rad fems understand that the choices you make are still patriarchal no matter how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:41 PM
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Yup. I'm the breadwinner but my husband was raised woman= domestic slave. We've worked on it though and we're about as 50:50 as anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:40 PM
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I agree with this fully. There is no reason for a woman to be "traditional" unless she feels a spiritual calling or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:39 PM
2

Sounds mutually beneficial
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:38 PM
6

I know plenty of divorced middle class women none of whom are driving rolls Royce's off our their divorced to their middle management/blue collar Exs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:37 PM
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I fully don't support marriage as a solution for everyone so yes all of these things can happen without it. This is just the route we took. But: he's now on my health insurance, taxes, I'm his next of kin and vice versa, taxes etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:20 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:18 PM
3

Why do you call women female, but a man a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:18 PM
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Media vs. real life is different. Also, there's something to be said about having a good attitude in the face of adversity. Do you want divorced women to sit shivas?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:17 PM
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Men who say this are usually middle class. What money?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:05 PM
4

Why wouldn't the primary parent get the place the children are living?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:04 PM
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Maybe if you are in a socioeconomic class where you jerry rig stuff. If my non married friends have car issues, they just go pay a mechanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:45 PM
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As a married woman, companionship and legal protection. That's really it. You can live a fulfilling life without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:44 PM
2

I've heard some men even name their daughters after ex girlfriends. I think my dad did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:13 PM
1

Exactly. Outcasts have always existed. It's biology to identify what genes we don't want to pass on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:11 PM
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Thank god. You are one of the good ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:33 AM
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I'm sorry?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:26 AM
1

Which is why i advocate for women not staying home
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:01 AM
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Because married people are known for their robust sex lives s/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:07 AM
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Exactly. Those Christian kids who get married in 4 months at 19 have very high divorce rates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:06 AM
2

This would be true if marriage ever prevented pre martial sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:04 AM
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Imagine going from thinking sex is the most sinful thing in the world to having to have sex with your husband on demand in less than 24 hours. Sounds...painful...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:01 AM
1

That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:55 AM
2

I do hire a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:54 AM
1

Great, bon voyage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:51 AM
1

Good for her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:04 PM
0

Exactly, so why would someone who works at an Amazon warehouse think they're being targeted?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:57 PM
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All relationships are transactional one way or another. Rich men just get their moneys worth most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:39 PM
1

Rich men aren't looking for women to validate their feelings or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:13 PM
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Yup. I dated a guy I had amazing sex with in college, but I ended things pretty quickly once we started planning dates and I just was bored. He wanted to do cutesy couple stuff and I wanted to go out on the town.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:05 PM
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Yeah the "we just don't talk about it" women are so weak minded to me imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:48 PM
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What does my dad have to do with anything? Who do you think paid the bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:07 PM
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Most of those horrid mommy bloggers are conservative women desperate for a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:03 PM
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She resented throwing away a career to wipe asses with little thanks. I completely understand. My mom is my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:03 PM
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You should do what works best for your family 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:02 PM
2

I personally plan on hiring a nanny 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:51 PM
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I'm a very burnt out adult as I was a competitive dancer from early childhood. There was one point where my school called about my well being as I was in Rehearsals until very late at night and I was falling asleep. Not to trauma dump on you lol, but I'm a big advocate of just letting these women go to work. If you keep women who want to be ambitious home, kids become projects
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:50 PM
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My job gives me an outlet to be creative, adult conversations, promotions and raises, PTO, and sometimes we even get a catered lunch or dinner. Being a mom means you might have someone to visit you in 60 years at your retirement home. No promises.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:45 PM
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You described my mom in a nutshell. She went to one of the top schools in the country but she wanted to be "a good wife and mom" and decided to stay home instead. Even as a child her resentment was noticeable. She loved us and is a great mom but I wish she could have been so much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:41 PM
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This is something middle class men tell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:34 PM
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Totally! Just how I choose to see it. For example, my husband's work is in the northeast but I want to move to be with my family in the south. It's not really a compromise for me to stay here (the northeast) as I'm not getting part of what I want. It's a trade off. A compromise would be moving to Virginia or something equidistant from our families.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:29 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:05 PM
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Yup. People turned the other way but it's not like we were every not monkeys with a conscience. Mad men I think does a great job capturing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:00 PM
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See my edit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:58 PM
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Most of the Mother's I work with will tell you that working makes them better mothers. I had a stay at home mom and she told me in adulthood she resented it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:57 PM
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I studied sexuality a good amount in college and this idea really was propagated well in the 1980s with the religious right because if you actually study literature and history, you will know women have always had a robust sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:54 PM
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Come on now if they knew that most women in the 1950s were still working, it would make the trad wife fapping less enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:54 PM
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Where do you live? I live in Boston and none of my friends would ever consider giving up a career to drive Mckinleylynn to soccer every night. I think that idea is dying out (rightfully so being a stay at home mom is indentured servitude).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:51 PM
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Also married, something I say to myself is "there's no compromise only trade offs." I feel like with the word compromise it makes everything sound like it's a negotiation, and I feel like that's an exhausting way to go through life, especially as somebody who has negotiate for a living. When it's a trade off, it feels more equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:49 PM
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Is she worth 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:43 PM
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Life really isn't that complicated. We're horny moneys at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:41 PM
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You can hire someone for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:40 PM
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I think it was someone from one of the real housewives but she's a lawyer and she said that if she's a lawyer why would she date someone who drives a bus? It's a little harsh, but I get it. She was torn to shreds though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:39 PM
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I want a private jet and to live in a NYC penthouse but I understand that I don't get every little thing my heart desires. Respectfully, do you encounter real life couples? I am average, in an average relationship as are all of my peers in our social group. We all are upper middle class, so we have incomes that are representative of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:33 PM
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There's zero incentive for motherhood. Just guilt and shame into it. I've always wanted kids, but I'm fully supportive of the majority of my friends who don't/are undecided.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:22 PM
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I fully plan on working and having children just as a man does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:49 PM
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What I have in my nightstand is far more effective than many of the hookups I've had. Much safer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:43 PM
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Also people are pretty idealistic online vs. reality. If I'm asked on a survey what my ideal man is, of course I'm going to say a billionaire 6'2 dark and handsome Adonis. I love my husband, but he's only one of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:41 PM
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But are these women you've interacted with in real life? Or is your perception of women through online metrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:40 PM
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All of the short kings I know have mad game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:37 PM
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Why would I sacrifice a lucrative career to eat rice and beans?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:37 PM
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Many women are now openly Lesbian, bi etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:35 PM
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Maybe men should raise their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:23 PM
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Remember how they made fun of that woman because she said she wouldn't date a bus driver?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:22 PM
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Which I think men calling us gold diggers is so funny. Sir, what gold?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:55 PM
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Yup. Men will always go after the most beautiful women they can even though with the advancements we have in beauty, skin care, health we arguably have more "beautiful" women than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:52 PM
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I disagree. I enjoy my own company too much to not have a partner see the value in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:58 AM
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Not everyone is meant to reproduce
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:58 AM
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Can you not meet your own needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:57 AM
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I'd rather be alone than not be authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:57 AM
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Do you pay a maid?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:56 AM
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That's a very western idea. You can exist for the sake of existing. You don't need a treat every time you do good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:02 AM
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How are you building a genuine connection with someone who will never actually be able to communicate to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:01 AM
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Yup! My husband is in a co-Ed baseball team and there's been plenty of hookups between teammates. It's human nature to become attracted to people you're around consistently. I've ever made a few platonic connections from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:00 AM
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Merit meaning they earned it. Yeah, women want to have sex with attractive men. If you are not attractive, you are going to have to find attention in some other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:58 AM
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Even if it wasn't true why is self improvement not a priority anyway? Is romantic love the only reason for men to want to better themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:54 AM
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Short men existing is proof someone had sex with a short man at some point in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:52 AM
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Yeah I've only been in one threesome but I didn't wake up that day and go "I'm going to have a threesome!" Going out and talking to people can lead to fun experiences. I think we've cracked the code lol. Staying at home gives you a zero chance of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:51 AM
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I'm an introvert too. Conversation is a skill like anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:48 AM
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Not every man reproduces. It's never been this way. Before, these men were ostracized and taken out by cold famine etc. obviously social rejection is different now, but it's the same. At least, we have pornography and prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:47 AM
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You meet women from other women. If a man is in a space where women don't exist, why should he expect to meet one?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:45 AM
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Yup. Female school shootings is still at zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:36 AM
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I don't disagree. I wish I lived in a Nordic or eastern society where social norms were to be quiet and self reflective. But, Americans are so loud, shallow and vapid, I've always felt "othered" because I didn't feel the need to sing cardi B at 7 am in high school or whatever loud and obnoxious behavior was socially rewarded. So yeah, when you feel different, the tism thing starts to feel like a good qualifier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:35 AM
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That's why I don't get RP men/passport bros. Why are you trying so hard to be with women who fundamentally will never see who you actually are? Don't you want to be understood?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:32 AM
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Yes. I'm ND (not autistic, but similar symptoms sometimes) but I'm also southern so I was given a very direct handbook for how women should behave since I was very young. If you follow the rules, you'll be pretty much undetectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:30 AM
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No, but I wish neurodivergent men would start looking inward instead of globalizing their self hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:26 AM
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I can DM you some wedding pictures if you don't believe me 😅 Suburban white picket fence America is still alive and well. It's not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:21 AM
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You said you're well tracked, did you find someone or no? Gotta practice what you preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:20 AM
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They sound pretty emotional if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:19 AM
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I'm married as are many of my peers. Many even have started having children. Many people have created an idyllic life. Why couldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:18 AM
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You still seem deeply unhappy. Have you not found your feminine submissive wife yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:17 AM
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They forget that the men in these countries are very patriarchal. They're letting you come near their women easily. You forget that the men in these countries are looking for the same thing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:16 AM
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Plenty of men have hobbies, friends, and families to keep them busy. Romantic love is not the end all be all for most. And if you're looking for a warm body, you can easily pay for one. Much cheaper than a plane ticket
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:14 AM
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Yup the podcasts are pretty cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:12 AM
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So decent and normal they've been rejected by their own communities and social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:11 AM
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It's honestly racist they think that these women are sitting in some hut waiting for American men to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:10 AM
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Degrees would be valuable if more men had them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:54 PM
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Marriage isn't going anywhere in upper/upper middle class social circles. It's our norm. I'm in pretty progressive circles, but no one is really considering not being married one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:53 PM
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Most RPs aren't traditionalists. They want to be masculine without the responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:45 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:44 PM
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*then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:43 PM
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Yup. I loved my husband so I married him. There wasn't any sort of strategy involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:39 PM
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Yup. It's interesting they say that the house etc is "payment" for women staying home and doing domestic labor, but suddenly the house is no longer here in a divorce. Most households run through women's sweat equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:38 PM
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I say this all of the time. Women fought for the right to work to escape abuse. Not because they were bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:27 PM
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Many of them don't even have basic hygiene skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:21 PM
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Fellow woman. Yes getting married has made my life significantly easier when it comes to this stuff. Why wouldn't someone who loves you want that for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:21 PM
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My husband avoids paperwork at all costs. Paying the bills along with every administrative task falls in my jurisdiction. 100% if we ever choose to divorce I would probably have to do all of that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:05 PM
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I always find the RP "statistics" so funny. Do you think anyone is going to take the time to use the scientific method on these men? They can't get a text back let alone peer reviewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:05 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:34 PM
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Plus women who have taken the time to work on themselves aren't really that impressed by a man who makes the gym or work their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:36 PM
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The pair bond is such religious nonsense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:32 PM
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Right. They want the chance to traumatize them themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:27 PM
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Yikes on a bike
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:23 PM
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So you want someone whose easily manipulated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:12 PM
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Tale as old as time. I swear if men who hit the gym started a religion the abrahamic religions would have stiff competition
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:10 PM
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It's crazy but as someone who wants to get better every day, I take into account things I can do better from bother genders. Men are telling on themselves by making a distinction on who they listen to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:04 PM
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Well you have to respect your therapist for it to work. That's why so many men don't take the therapy. They'd rather off themselves than listen to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:02 PM
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Definitely not especially since I am married and no longer live in the trenches. But if everyone is so miserable, this would be my recommendation. Just leave the other sex alone if they stress you out so much. It's concerning seeing a comment history that's hours worth of degrading the other sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:51 PM
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Sure. But I'm saying we no longer need to interact in large quantities of time. A velvet divorce. Clearly men and women do not like each other as groups based on what I've gathered on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:45 PM
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You can pay for sex. It's about a 2 minute interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:42 PM
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This is not very civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:42 PM
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I think more people should become more comfortable with the idea of dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:33 PM
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I think nice can be interpreted many ways which is the point of this beck and forth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:07 PM
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Arguing is healthy in relationships. Why would I be with someone who doesn't challenge me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:06 PM
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We do and we're proud
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:05 PM
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I wouldn't say that I'm not 'nice' but I have a biting sense of humor and am very outspoken. A nice guy would be a doormat no matter how hard I tried to tone it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:05 PM
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Aside from reproduction and sex with a warm body, men and women really don't need each other anymore. I'm married but I think we should stop with the idea that we are supposed to all partner up one day. Marriage and relationships should be exclusive and not the expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:03 PM
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Okay babe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:59 PM
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*polite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:54 PM
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Usually whenever I go out. I thought the ring would help, but it actually became a conversation starter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:34 PM
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Exactly. My last name is my dads last name. I kept my middle name the same because that's the name my mom gave me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:39 PM
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I took my husband's last name. I want to present ourselves as a cohesive unit and a name can symbolize that if you choose to do so. I have no issue for women keeping their lasts names. People should do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:37 PM
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I do love complaining. I still am a productive member of society though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:36 PM
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He doesn't consider his 14 year old grandma married to a 33 year old a "teen mom." Teen mom is a recent concept. Before that it was unfortunately just common place marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:13 PM
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I personally enjoy that I can now have a separate bank account tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:11 PM
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The nice guy hymn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:10 PM
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This is a great point. It's the other piece of the puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:54 PM
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She can cook sure. Adults are responsible for feeding themselves and others. My husband cooks every meal. Everyone splits chores differently
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:49 PM
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If you were single would you not eat?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:13 AM
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You touch on a great point. My dad only has daughters so he always pushed us to be educated and to never rely on a man as our only source for income in life. I don't think parents are raising their women to be 'wives' in the traditional sense of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:18 PM
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Yes. Because I've dated rich men before and it gets dark quick if they don't have a moral compass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:02 PM
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Right I don't know where there's virginal low income women are who also want to do all of the cooking and cleaning but god bless them 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:01 PM
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I agree. Kids need good fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:59 PM
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I agree with this. We have the same sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:56 PM
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I'm not. Plenty of women prettier and smarter than me. If I'm not enough please go find another.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:50 PM
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You do, but low n count and being a 7/10 or whatever stupid qualifier people use on here isn't mature in the flightiest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:49 PM
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"What are you bringing to the table?" Another man if you're asking me that babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:48 PM
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"He's just a kid." "They were both drunk!" "What was she wearing?" "I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt her."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:48 PM
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Why do men always go to this lmao Realistically probably nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:22 AM
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Is the traditional coming home to a home cooked meal and clean children you don't even need to know the names of not the king treatment? Marital rape isn't even a thing in some states.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:53 PM
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Hard agree. I'm from a very conservative area and it's fun watching the "good" girls I grew up with finally embrace themselves fully and not worry about looking like chaste wives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:57 PM
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I cannot think of a single thing in my life a man provides that I couldn't do alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:37 PM
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Exactly. I've never had any trouble finding a partner sexual or romantic. Life has still be hard for me in other ways. It's really no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:34 PM
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You'll never see the captain of the football team engaging in these things online
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:16 PM
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It all goes back to mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:13 PM
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Idk I've gotten really far in life with my confidence however unfounded you may think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:13 PM
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I mean candidly it's in the name neurodiverse It's not representative of the normal male experience. Its different, divided, abnormal. They can't really be prescriptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:12 PM
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This is the best part about being married. I can finally enjoy a drink at the bar in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:04 PM
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No because I've been verbally assaulted for rejecting men before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:04 PM
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I'm curious what we were fixing at sandy hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:27 PM
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I love how much they claim that I'm a washed up cat lady whose hit the wall yet grace my DMs consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:56 PM
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The guy in Texas said something very similar
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:55 PM
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How dare she
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:53 PM
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Oh no I'm pretty attractive no issues here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:43 AM
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Technically. This is a semantics argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:43 AM
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I'm not following
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:35 AM
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We need their sperm but we don't have to interact with them or sleep with them anymore. Lesbians cracked the code with this in like the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:10 AM
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Pornography. These men are addicted to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:06 AM
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It's always people who are alone who say things like this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:06 AM
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Men are doing it anyway. They'll always be donating sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:04 AM
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Men are giving away their sperm for the price of a medium cesars pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:58 PM
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Bumping uglies is what we are meant to do. People, even those who claim they aren't religious, feel the need to become legalist for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:57 PM
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When my MILs parents died she planned and payed for all of the funeral expenses and events. Her brother didn't even offer a dime. This was of course after she took care of both of them when they were sick and even let one of them live in her house. Where was her brother? Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:31 PM
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We are literally called "females" a term with chattel slavery origins
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:26 PM
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I've found as I get older I garner more male attention. Like most things, it's projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:19 PM
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Neat 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:17 PM
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I'm a women married to a man but yes, human connection does increase one's outlook on life. We are social creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:04 PM
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I was like this when I was super depressed. I thought I "saw the world for how it was."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:51 PM
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My point made
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:48 PM
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Most well read people are wealthy. I'm probably not going to ask the bus driver his opinion on Hemingway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:47 PM
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Yup. Sheera, my favorite relationship YouTuber, was a mortician in her past career and she said she found "men dying alone in their studio apartments eating soup while women die surrounded by family." I believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:42 PM
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We no longer need men to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:39 PM
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I know this is a hard concept for some but being alone is better than settling. We now have the resources we no longer have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:36 PM
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Most good advice is. Tough love usually is the best policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:30 PM
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I would say yes. Rejection is apart of life. The more you experience, the easier it becomes. I can't tell you how many men I've been who've been weirdos in their 20s because they're mad at their high school ex too. Social skills are like any other skill. While some might be more inclined than others, you can work on it and get better. I was a very shy child but my parents put me in activities and I built these skills and gained friends. As an adult, I'm always trying to be the best friend I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:29 PM
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I mean great, still applies. She wants someone on her level. Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:23 PM
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Yeah the "NO I WILL NEVER APPROACH WOMEN EVER" thread was kind of scary. It feels like a depopulation psyop at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:22 PM
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Seriously. I just got married and I'm the happiest I've ever been. The amount of times I've heard "well yeah just wait until XYZ" is kind of sad. Being miserable seems like many people's default setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:20 PM
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This sub leans Sheldon cooper if you catch my drift. "If a woman has been touched by a man she's GROSS." -some guy who freaks out if his food touches each other on the plate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:18 PM
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My body count is around there and I still wish I had slept around more when I was single. Sex is fun and different partners offer different things. I wish I had the chance for more same sex stuff too. My girlfriends in LTRs feel the same way. We spent so much of our lives being scared of sex when it's meant to be enjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:16 PM
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I thought it was great. If you take the time to become well read, dating someone who can hold a conversation is important. While organically 'savant' people exist, it usually does come from from education or a family that values reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:48 PM
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Right. I'm very much gainfully employed and am a good partner. I'm not going to let someone neg me like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:41 PM
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Prenups protect everyone. I'm a big fan. So was my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:26 PM
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And relationships don't have to be transactional. Sometimes companionship is all a person needs to bring. It's 2023 and if you don't have the ability to support yourself there's no one to blame but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:59 PM
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I just dyed my hair brown for this reason. I'm literally trying to become less attractive to get men to leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:16 AM
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That would require seeing us as people so no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:14 AM
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Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:04 AM
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No I had options graduation high school correct
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:59 AM
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I hope you find someone okay with that, sincerely. Because I never would be. I have clear boundaries of what I expect in our house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:54 AM
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Where is this anger coming from?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:53 AM
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I guess I don't understand the reluctance to participate in the domestic upkeep of a house you also live in. Even if I become a stay at home mom my husband is expected to do chores because im not his mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:40 AM
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Absolutely. I had a providing dad and a SAHM. He helped around the house because he loves her and us. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:35 AM
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I work full time and do all of those things. Poor hygiene bothers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:24 AM
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Because anyone can get blown to bits. That's why the military is full of men who got Cs in high school. They're not good for much else in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:20 AM
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So I shouldn't expect my husband to spend time with the kids he helped make because war exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:19 AM
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Right I don't actually care if a 19 year old thinks she's cool hooking up with a 24 year old. It's not illegal. But yeah I think she's a sucker with poor judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:55 AM
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You're the only one who actually cares. Why do you care so much if I find it gross? Why does my stigma hurt you so much if I'm just a bitter old cat lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:53 AM
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My ex said the same thing to me when he cheated on me with a much younger woman. Anywho that woman ended up getting addicted to meth and leaving him while I have an age appropriate marriage and my ex had to move back in with his mom. It's never men who can pull women their own age hanging near the freshman orientation:)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:50 AM
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Burden of proof fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:45 AM
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It's not the 1990s. We go to college ourselves now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:44 AM
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I was still living at my parents house at 19 and working my summer job for my freshman year of college. What would I have in common with someone whose been a working professional from 1-5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:42 AM
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It's depressing. I feel like only a month ago there was some solid discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:12 AM
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Huge difference between pretty and gorgeous. I would save gorgeous for if I ran into Margot Robbie. Not a well groomed young woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:02 PM
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Right. I took the time to get a degree and make a career for myself. I have nothing in common with a NEET man and we wouldn't be able to hold a conversation
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 02:54 PM
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What does that entail?
/r/AllPillDebate10/05/23 02:51 PM
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That's anyone really. That's why first impressions are important
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:09 PM
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Exactly. I also don't want to be courted. I can decide 5 minutes into talking to someone if I see things going toward. I don't want the song and dance. Courting feels like men are trying to convince me. I'd rather just ask out the guy myself if we click.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:07 AM
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Or funny. I have a friend who is average looking but he actually just embraces the 'average guy approaching super hot chicks' bit and is super self deprecating and it works for him. He always pulls above his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:02 AM
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I'm from the south I can spot a meth rant a mile away
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:59 AM
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Especially with what just happened in Texas you think it would be shut down quicker
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:58 AM
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I was just at the airport and I (F26) saw about 5 other couples my age at the burger joint with me. All average looking people. Normal people are still finding relationships and always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:51 AM
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I don't even ready the studies people post. If people are sad and lonely they're going to find surveys that say people are sad and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:47 AM
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I did too. I was taught it makes you look easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:44 AM
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One of the rules of power is avoiding the unfortunate and the unlucky. I think the RPs are catching on to whose actually posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:43 AM
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I just don't think men prioritize cleanliness like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:30 AM
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Idk I remember seeing my husband's and his friends bachelor pads I think that money went to beer not to housekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:16 AM
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Right. Seriously everyone struggles from main character syndrome. Everyone can be awkward and and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:38 PM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:07 PM
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What would his future wife think? SMH makes me scared to have a son
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 05:43 PM
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We call them group homes in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:22 PM
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Hard agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:03 PM
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I mean women who 'haven't been affected by men' are usually quite young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:53 PM
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So children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:32 PM
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If I have to work full time I can't do housework full time. My husband knows this and does his share.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:44 PM
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That's most couples lmao Women usually date down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:39 PM
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Define innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:39 PM
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I'm an attractive women so most people are. But it's funny because I'm into 'dad bod' lumberjack looking, build me a house types and it's funny seeing the chads be so confused I'm not swooning after them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:38 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:35 PM
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If he was single, would he not be cooking or cleaning anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:35 PM
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Our gut is there to protect us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:22 PM
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That's why I don't agree with the 10% number or whatever. People usually date within their economic group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:18 PM
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You're a mod. Do something.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 02:45 AM
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Deserved what?
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 02:27 AM
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Right. That's a huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:27 AM
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Hit a nerve?
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 02:27 AM
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If you let it.
/r/AllPillDebate09/05/23 02:23 AM
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What rights don't you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:02 PM
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Exactly. Most men would date someone who works at McDonald if they're gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:51 PM
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I disagree
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 07:22 PM
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Definitely. But I went to to therapy, got off birth control, changed my diet, started going to church, and making a promise to do better in life. I forget what the prompt was, something regarding men's mental health, and I said something along the lines of "I've offered to coordinate and help my partners get into therapy" and all of the responses I got were "therapy doesn't work for men don't be a nag." So, I think women can be very toxic. But I think we have more a collective urge to try to not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:03 PM
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Are you looking for pretty or just young...
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 04:55 PM
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5 inches is normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:24 PM
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Because i don't define my self worth from sex.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 04:12 PM
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If women are the weaker sex how did you all let yourselves become emasculated in such a short period of time? Women only joined the workforce en mass in the early 80s.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 04:12 PM
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Right. "My wife took the kids and left and now I have to pay child support and lost our house." Wow maybe you should have picked a better woman sweetie 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:53 PM
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The next morning it looked like a rock at been placed on my torso as it was nearly completely purple. I had trouble breathing as I had had that weight ontop of me for so long. Actually insulting that not having sex is compared to the physical and mental anguish that rape entails.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 03:43 PM
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I'm agreeing with you. Men lie like a rug and women are blamed for not being smart enough to read minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:34 PM
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"Just pick better" because being better is too much to ask ig
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:24 PM
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As someone whose been raped I'm pretty sure it's not tbh. I have the therapy bills to prove it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 03:23 PM
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A 23 year old from the Midwest who has 3 kids and consumes nothing but casserole and Miller light vs. a 32 year old in New York City with an equinox membership and exclusively shops at Whole Foods. You think you can tell whose older?
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 02:24 PM
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I don't know I'm not our spokesperson
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:01 AM
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I mean my life is pretty awesome despite any mistakes I've made so I'm not stuck on them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:06 PM
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I've been downvoted to oblivion for suggesting that maybe if you've only dated "narcissistic" men then maybe they might not actually have a cluster b disorder rather you might lack accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:03 PM
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I agree. I think so many of the RP are so insecure they think that if they prove their winning the "game" against women then what's happening to men as a collective doesn't matter. In reality, if we keeps devaluing the role of the male and especially the father in society it's going to come back to bite them no matter how much time they've spent in the gym.
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 06:51 PM
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I think men need to start caring about these issues. Women need to lower their standards as a whole I don't disagree. But men are not doing anything to help their fellow men from becoming NEETs either. Many still have their heads in the sand.
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 06:21 PM
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Then why don't you want to live into your 30s if you have the keys to success? Maybe I've made worse decisions but I'm happy and love life. I have so many plans for the future and a great partner to do them with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:05 PM
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I don't remember asking for sympathy. Au contrarie, I think being vulnerable and admitting you are human is how we build connection with people. I hope you give yourself grace too. From your post history it sounds like you could use some. Be well. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 06:02 PM
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I'm not disagreeing there's a historical precedent for measurable productivity especially since women have been excluded from these statistics purposely. There was a whole crew of African American women who got us into space that have only been recognized recently. I think it's funny the same men who are begging for respect with "we built this!" Are now also throwing a fit as women become more and more involved in STEM, are the majority college graduates, and are steadily building the income gap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:51 PM
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This is a good point. My friend has a son and I told her she needs to start vetting the men she meets online as she's the only person her son has. She looked at me like she's never even thought of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:45 PM
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Because most 19 year olds make dumb and stupid mistakes. I'm happily married to a great guy now but yes, I made mistakes. I'll be okay if you don't think I'm smart nor independent because of choices I made in the Obama era
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:43 PM
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I don't think it's a gendered thing. Intuition comes from being taught critical thinking skills which is a product of your environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:34 PM
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My family comes from farmers. Think of the wagons from little house on the prairie. Yes, the farm is in my great grandfathers and grandfathers name. They will get the credit and the money from harvest. But realistically, do you think the women were just twiddling their thumbs waiting for the men to come back in? There would be no farm if it weren't for the labor from women who were also getting up at 4am to work. The built the world argument is just trad nostalgia ironically touted by men who si…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:22 PM
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Yes every time the eagles lose a football game it's on clear display
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:00 PM
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For me at least, when I was younger, I knew my ex was trouble but I romanticized it and thought you were supposed to "ride or die."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:59 PM
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I agree with this. I commented on a tik tok once because she was saying her ex was a "master manipulator." Girl he was unemployed and didn't have a car. What does that say about you then if cant manipulate himself into a job but still screwed you over?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:55 PM
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Either porn is bad or is isn't. I think that's for each couple to decide and it should be the same for both/all genders
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:41 AM
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You did though. As if getting married got rid of my sexual urges and I'm only horny when I'm with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:50 AM
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My husband often works long nights during his busy season. I'm curious if OP thinks I'm waiting by the window like he's a soldier returning from war 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:32 PM
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Right it's not a prude thing it's a creepy factor. I've watched too much "my strange addiction" to be comfortable with them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:28 PM
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I guess they're not lonely?
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 07:36 AM
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Most of the women I know are doing absolute charity work.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 05:35 AM
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Why do you think?
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:59 PM
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Sounds like a skill issue
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:20 PM
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Which ones?
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:19 PM
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I mean if you want to live off welfare I can't stop you
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:08 PM
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Speaking facts
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:02 PM
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Okay god bless
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:26 PM
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No. Paul wasn't married.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:08 PM
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Women have been saying we live in a rape based culture for a while now but it's dismissed as an academic talking point. (Rape culture).
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:30 PM
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So the only thing stopping men from raping is other men according to your logic?
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:25 PM
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What are we not safe from?
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah and it clearly sucked considering trends show women becoming more and more independent/less interested
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:16 PM
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Yup. My mother told me I had to live with a partner before marriage. She's conservative as well. Ironically I will tell my kid the exact same opposite. Nothing prevents you from leaving like a lease.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 05:13 PM
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I can rephrase then. Not valuing money isn't an inherently moral position.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:01 PM
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Birth rates are declining
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:59 PM
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Thinking there's honor in poverty is just evangelical nonsense
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:39 PM
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And your credentials are?
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:38 PM
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And that's fine.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:29 PM
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That's your opinion
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:29 PM
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Not really since I'm a tax payer
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:28 PM
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Men are so sassy now a days
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:07 PM
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Lol I love this. Let the European commies reap the benefits of their welfare states.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:05 PM
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Well yeah. Women weren't really encouraged to work or get higher educations. They were economically coerced.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:05 PM
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Right if anything wouldn't you get to enjoy your hard work more if you don't have a family or women to spend money on? My husband and I are DINKs and it's the same concept.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:01 PM
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Wouldn't you? There's no honor in the struggle.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 04:00 PM
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Imagine basing your whole world view off of an appendage between your legs
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 03:56 PM
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I'm fine with this so long as the childless, feminist 'spinsters' are included too
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 03:27 PM
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Live your truth babe
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 02:01 AM
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I feel like I'm constantly on urban dictionary trying to learn the new words they come up with. They should gooutsidemaxed
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 10:28 AM
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So angry lol
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 04:24 AM
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This is true. Broke men always bothered me more than ugly ones.
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 12:38 AM
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We must hang around different types of men then
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 12:36 AM
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You too. They're so mad we're not forced to settle anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:58 PM
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Idk my husband's friends are all 'Chads' and that's certainly not what they value. I've seen them reject girls over the strangest things.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:48 PM
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Idk my life is pretty fulfilling 🤷‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:43 PM
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Agree. I just think of the Ye lyric (not an endorsement of him personally) "And when he get on he'll leave your ass for a white girl." You can be with these men when they're broke and ugly and they'll leave you once they are on the come up. That's why being with a partner that's established is so important.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:36 PM
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Yup. As a woman I think of all of the time and money wasted working out, tanning, putting on makeup, getting my hair done just to fit the beauty standard. Do they actually think I have the time or energy to get to know someone I'm not initially attracted to? I have to have some sort of ROI. Even as I'm older, and I have more money to spend on these things, I feel like I'd be even pickier if I wasn't already married.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:30 PM
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I guess so. No ones forcing them to date these women and many seem very happy. Many once virgins get divorced and end up alone in life too. Life has no rule book.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:27 PM
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And many of them find partners also ready to settle down
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:21 PM
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I think they already know
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 10:55 PM
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I don't think sex workers magically think a prince is coming for them one day
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 10:26 PM
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You never hear a guy say to another guy "give the ugly girl a chance I'm sure she's really nice
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 09:02 PM
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Me too that's why I got married 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:44 PM
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Bingo. They want promiscuous women, to smoke weed, and to work cushy office jobs but want the traditional "values" of yesteryear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:30 PM
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It's self selection too. They're insecure they're not as "experienced" so they self select themselves out from the fear of not being able to "perform"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:29 PM
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It's nothing you can change though. I do wish I slept with less people as everyone cringes when they make mistakes when they're young. But sex is fun, I had fun. Most of my cringe comes from knowing the guys didn't actually deserve me, not that I wasn't actually horny. but it doesn't cloud my judgement or perspective on dating as the "ties" thing is junk science. Yes, women release oxytocin, but that's not an emotional bond nor is it physically powerful enough to have much impact. Life is stress…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:02 PM
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I would agree with you if he was actually traditional. You don't find traditional men desperate for sex having one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:49 AM
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So many men call themselves traditional/conservative but they can't actually explain what they're conserving. Because if it's the traditional family, they would be married and faithful (or at least much more quiet about not).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:47 AM
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I feel that way in the body count discussion. I'm at peace with my number so I really don't mind other peoples. Those who put on the dramatics about it are projecting. It's usually jealously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:42 AM
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I'm here to participate in discussion as is everyone else. Im not making any sort of affirmation that even if we were honest is doesn't solve your rage.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 02:57 PM
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I'm not debating so
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 02:45 PM
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I won't date a man despite his personality if I'm not attracted to him. Is this what you men need? Did I just save some elementary schoolers?
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 12:39 PM
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I've hooked up with men from tinder before just because I was horny. Im sure the men on here would tell me I have "ties" or "men and women are different blah blah blah. Im happy for people to finally realize that were overgrown animals and sex always means nothing. We are moneys bumping uglies. It's a choice to attach romantic feeling to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:48 PM
3

We saw this with gabby petito. She scratched him reactively and that's why she was the one "at fault."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:30 PM
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They're often angry at women as a collective group so I think we just stereotype them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:55 PM
1

Good thing I'm not a feminist. I frankly don't care about any "group" as a whole. Not my responsibility to fix societal woes. Write your congressman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:26 AM
1

Why is that my problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:22 AM
-2

No wonder women are choosing to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:53 AM
-2

Oh sorry I didn't give my partner the correct mental health advice. Do girlfriends need formal mental health training to advise their partners correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:40 AM
0

I'm married to one of those men lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:39 AM
1

Did I trigger you? Clearly being a good partner I offer to help if men express to me they need it. It's happened in my most 2 recent relationships. But they never follow through because they just feel the need to "suck it up."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:18 PM
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But you're the one whose lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:17 PM
1

So what would you like us Women to do to fix that? I also have mental health issues and encounter the same stonewalls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:16 PM
1

What access do you not have? If you need mental health treatment, what barriers are stopping you? No to be blunt but so long as you have health insurance, even state issued ones, you can get on google and find someone in network.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:33 PM
4

No, honestly. We should increase access, but as long as it's a masculinity thing nothing will change dramatically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:16 PM
-3

I think I've asked every single one of my male partners to see a therapist. I've even offered to coordinate on their behalf. Men don't want help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:07 PM
1

You're exposing concepts I'm fully aware of. I'm not sure why. Of course it's not going to be unlearned anytime soon. We still have residual issues of racism in the western world. But what I can do is tell my friends to run their partner's Xbox user name Reddit and them telling them about all of the fucked up shit I see on these subs. I don't think men realize this is why Andrew tate is so hated. Because we keep telling each other to stay away from men who listen to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:51 PM
3

Not everything is black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:46 PM
-4

I don't disagree with you but you have to understand then that there are women like myself who are here to learn the talking points and strategy so I can spread the information to other women. I understand this is happening and this is the norm. Which is why I want to stop it. When women are treated like something to be 'conquered' it's only natural we're going to organize a counter offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:18 PM
2

Congratulations for your sobriety but I ask please avoid romantic relationships until you have some more sobriety under your belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:15 PM
-5

Which is why it's so gross. It's reducing a woman to her biological facilities. There's zero interest in your personhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:56 PM
1

No true Scotsman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:17 PM
-3

Right. Hookups are so easy. It's hard an achievement doing something our monkey brains are wired to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:15 PM
2

I think the pandemic changed what a "nerd" was as it's increasing harder to find a partner compared to even 3 years ago. Record high inflation and an unstable economy means that only men who can afford to go out to bars, on dates, hang out in 3rd spaces like the gym or sporting events are going to have the biggest chances of finding a partner. The rest who can't/don't want to put in the work to going outside are stuck with online dating which is very competitive for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:13 PM
7

I think we will see what happens in Sweden. Sweden has some of the highest equality rates in the world. Yet, many women in Sweden still choose to opt in to traditional roles primarily in regards to staying at home. I do think this shows some sort of 'natural order' and that women embrace feminine roles when basic needs are met. Maybe, there is some sort of biological essentialism...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:07 PM
-2

The people mad at people having sex are the ones who aren't having any
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 03:54 PM
-1

I have never heard body count brought up in irl.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 03:29 PM
1

Not all men are grossed out by women's sexuality.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 03:22 PM
-3

I'm convinced these men don't hang out with other men. My husband is pretty popular so I'm around single young men a ton. None of them mention bc when they're looking for partners. What they prioritize is 1. Looks (obviously) 2. Is she a raging bitch? 3. Can she hold a conversation
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 03:50 AM
-4

I think you're not familiar with the women these men are around. High income men are usually around high income women. I think this "rags to riches" story women tell themselves is cope. These men are not looking for a virginal homemaker. They are looking for women from the same social class and status. A perfect example of this is Kim and kayne. Kim's status will always make her more valuable than her body count.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 02:29 AM
-10

No, this purity culture stuff isn't in upper class circles anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 01:23 AM
-6

I've never heard a rich/successful man mention BC
/r/AllPillDebate30/04/23 01:07 AM
-1

Okay lol
/r/AllPillDebate28/04/23 11:11 AM
2

I'm married. If eggs costs 6 dollars, I'm not venmoing my husband 3. They're just eggs. It evens out eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:23 AM
1

Right lol. Lots of black and white thinking. I haven't been married long, but I will say that 50:50 isn't real in any sort of area. Most of the time it's 70/30 60/40 etc because we're human beings and it's not possible to split life down the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:07 AM
2

I'd probably date women now if I got divorced. If I have to listen to someone bitch about their feelings and split dates with me like men do nowadays I'd rather at least get to play with boobs too.
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 11:47 PM
2

(Obligatory not all ND men) ND people have a tendency to think in black and white so they actually have really high standards because they separate between "good" and "bad" without realizing that they're automatically rejecting most people. I think a lack of my pity for male NDs (and this is just my experience and not represented of the group as a whole) is that their black and white thinking leads to alienated themselves. The biggest example I see on this sub is the discussion of body count. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:38 PM
2

Because you have contempt for women
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 07:19 PM
0

And escorts are an obvious answer but you still feel the need to plague the internet with your sadness. Why is that not enough for you? So you don't have social connection to women. Do you have them with men? 💅
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 07:03 PM
0

It's so interesting that all you long for is a woman's touch but you don't even like us. The duality of man. If you saw woman as autonomous beings, you wouldn't feel entitled to sex.
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 06:53 PM
6

I like this more than 50/50. My husband's income in the winter months is way less than mine as his job is seasonal. I don't expect him to split expenses equally with me during that time and I appreciate being able to save some of my money in the summer when he's making way more than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:21 PM
1

Men are so emotional
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 06:11 PM
1

Are you looking for pity? Dear god sack up.
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 01:22 PM
7

No need for the dramatics just do it
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 03:04 AM
12

Hire an escort
/r/AllPillDebate27/04/23 02:25 AM
3

You know I'm really not into this modern way of thinking where people are reduced to one stupid moment, video, or edit. I like to judge by the sum of parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:44 PM
8

They couldn't be anymore different. As a religious person myself Peterson has done great work giving academic validation to biblical ideas while Tate promotes degeneracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:02 PM
1

And many of them were C average students from poor families with no other options. Anyone can go die in war, it's one of the oldest professions. It doesn't speak to intelligence, emotional maturity nor readiness to be an emotional present parent. Personally, those who I know who went into the service are drunks, wife beaters, or Q anon conspirators or a winning combination of the three. I'm from the south so the romanticized soldier is not a thing as we see what happens on these bases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:30 PM
1

I was once in my early 20s. Yes I knew how to cook and clean but you don't have the life experience that accompanies maturity. Most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:21 PM
9

We disagree politically but her recent interviews talking about the sacrifice of marriage is so admirable. You can tell being First Lady was a dynamic experience and it requires being a steadfast wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:07 PM
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I'm a woman and I enjoy Peterson. We don't need something wrapped in pink for us to consume it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:06 PM
1

And every boomer I know is an emotionally repressed toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:40 AM
1

Cooking dinner and cleaning is easy. Meeting your kids social and emotional needs and actually being a good mom is harder. Only recently did psychologist discover "kids have feelings you need to take into consideration."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:39 AM
4

Agree. My husband started a business in his early 20s while his peers were bouncing beer cans off his head. I'm not impressed by someone who finally hits 6 figures at 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:31 AM
2

It's an excuse to go out to eat and buy my husband chocolate. I don't read into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:51 PM
9

Right? I don't know when progressive became equivalent to cheap. I live in Boston. Plenty of progressive couples spending money on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:27 PM
0

If doing something nice for Valentine's Day is something you need to "get away from" then I'd recommend just not being a relationship. The money doesn't matter when I'm just trying to make someone feel loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:05 PM
2

What a great point. I wonder what that says about relationships looking at the three groups. My husband and I are pretty happy together and make around 6 figures jointly. We would be considered successful by most standards. I think the advantage we had was having a father figure present, albeit not ideally, when dealing with abuse from our mothers. Me: harsh mother passive dad somewhat popular in community Husband: violent mother passive dad very popular in community
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 04:00 PM
2

My husband has a bastion of mommy issues (as do I). It's preferable to being married to a mommy's boy whose always going to be subconsciously comparing whose a better cook.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:57 PM
4

I hang out with women in there 50s as my mother in law is very popular so they're always around. Most of their sons are college aged/young adults. You hit the nail on the head. They want their sons to be masculine jocks but "with good hearts." Like no one will correct them when they make misogynistic comments about girls they've hooked up with, but always treat the girlfriends like family once they've brought a girl home (whose usually gorgeous). So yeah. I think Chadlite is the goal.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:55 PM
1

You would think but we still need have this convo with the "Why didn't my mom teach me how to be a red pill sex god 😡" comments. Freud has a field day with these subs. It's why I'm here. We think we've outrun our psychology; but alas.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:49 PM
2

Great point. Women have been forced to be mothers for so long, it's natural that some of them are just shitty at it. I'm glad women are starting to realize they don't need to get married or have kids. Leave it to the woman who want to do it enthusiastically
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:46 PM
3

I think the idea that mothers are just trying to make their sons weak or whatever is just projection and mom is the easiest person to blame if you're unhappy with your life (I'm guilty of it too). Your answer is the most realistic one. Loving someone unconditionally isn't helping them become attractive as they're not taking into account your flaws and how to fix them.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:44 PM
3

I agree female teachers don't care about young boys. I went to school for teaching and we go over how to punish them 'less' as it's precedent that young boys are disciplined more often
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 02:33 PM
1

No one leaves for no reason.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 12:19 AM
5

If addiction could be fixed with just love and will power we'd have fewer Addicts. Addics with loving wives and families die everyday.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 12:08 AM
1

Do you have a substance problem?
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 11:56 PM
1

A global pandemic? Yes, that was a huge deal.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 11:49 PM
2

Than women being beaten? That was a huge motivation for prohibition.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 11:43 PM
1

What does keeping us in check define?
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 11:42 PM
3

Drug addiction existed even when marriage was expected. We went through prohibition largely in this country due to first wave feminists sick of being beaten and broke.
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 11:35 PM
-5

I tend to avoid men with mommy issues as I don't want to be chopped up
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 09:38 PM
1

Please call your mom she's worried
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 07:11 PM
-2

I'm mentally Ill myself but I work with a therapist and a psychiatrist I don't expect people online to feel sorry for me especially since you use it as an outlet to shit on women you think don't deserve you as if anyone wants someone weak enough to treat Reddit as a sounding board.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 05:04 PM
1

Exactly. And they lost the plot.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 05:03 PM
2

I know! I have a great husband who provides for us. But in modern society, there's no incentive for traditional gender roles. Therefore it's silly to expect chastity from either gender.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 05:03 PM
-1

No I mean his entire internet persona is just him being miserable. Shit or get off the pot.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 04:33 PM
1

Most high paying positions are still held by majority men. They aren't bothered by the competition.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 04:32 PM
0

I wish men could financially support families again :(
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 04:27 PM
-5

He's upset there's no theoretical virgin waiting for him like Odysseus
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 03:49 PM
-4

What's stopping you?
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 03:42 PM
0

Boo hoo
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 03:34 PM
-4

Why do you think you're entitled to a virgin?
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 03:33 PM
1

LA sounds so soulless
/r/AllPillDebate20/04/23 06:26 PM
3

Right, so arguably you're the issue if you can't figure out how to bump uglies like people have been doing for millennia
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 06:05 PM
3

Yes you are. It's the famous violinist argument. You can't force another person to use their body just because it will help you.
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 06:04 PM
0

Woman bad huh?
/r/AllPillDebate19/04/23 03:31 AM
-1

If we posted our poetry or our watercolors you'd tell us we're trying to hard to be deep
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 12:05 AM
-2

Yes. Some women are rude sometimes. Not really news.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 07:42 PM
-1

Not to be insensitive but as someone who doesn't even remember 9/11 your drunken domestic with your girlfriend 30 years ago is kind of irrelevant
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 07:27 PM
-1

*independent
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 07:21 PM
0

We must have different ideas of compassion because "I'm sorry that happened" is a very lazy approach to someone whose experiencing domestic violence. I'm going to at least try to get professionals involved.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 07:14 PM
0

Yes, a feather in the cap of men's victimization
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:59 PM
0

I'm not following your logic
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:58 PM
2

Just pay them then. I'm all for legalizing prostitution.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:56 PM
1

Hypothermia, homelessness. Are those consequences of not having sex?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:55 PM
-1

I'm a woman and every assault against me has been met with "why didn't you go to the police."
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:50 PM
2

What is the consequence of you not having sex?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:42 PM
2

If you need food assistance there are resources public and private to help you. We also have SNAP, WIC and social security. We have these programs because food is a human need. If sex is a need, wouldnt we have similar infrastructures?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:32 PM
0

I'm a decently smart and intelligent woman. I've gotten nearly every job I've interviewed for.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:52 PM
2

Many of these men are on the spectrum so yes it is actually that difficult.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:42 PM
2

Is sex a need or a want? Because if sex is a need then someone has to provide to to you which is against a woman's autonomy. Saying sex is a need is logically permitting rape.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:41 PM
0

Why didn't you go to the police?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:38 PM
-1

What does treating you like shit mean? Not having sex with you?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 05:38 PM
1

Ban this bot please. They post everyday
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:57 PM
-1

Why would I be loyal to a man whose accomplished less than I have?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:12 PM
0

Aka I'm broke
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 11:17 PM
1

Unfortunately what counts as a woman is open to interpretation now
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 06:10 PM
1

It's why I joined a female only gym in college. The free one at school I felt like a deer in hunting season.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 03:43 PM
0

Who is telling you to approach people at the gym?
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 04:24 AM
0

Failing to see how it's a bad thing
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 07:04 PM
1

This ain't it chief
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:51 PM
2

Mmm pretty sure genetics had something to do with a few of them
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:43 PM
-1

Yeah that Angela Merklel is a really hussy I heard
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:24 PM
2

The irony that genocide exists
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:22 PM
2

Notice how he calls women "females" and then describes men as men.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:17 PM
1

It's genius and men are jealous they can't do it as fruitfully. Might I add, if lonely men wernt paying for personalized pornography through only fans (I'm laughing at the pathetic nature of it) there would not be a market. You're keeping these women in business.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:17 PM
1

Maybe they're good at computer programming but I think emotional IQ is lacking for them.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:15 PM
1

Women are now the largest holders of college degrees. Yes, men are currently at the top of these fields as they are older (and from a time frame of less college attendance). Let's think logically here (stressful for my lady brain I know). Most people at the top of their careers went to school in the 90s at that would put a 45 at 18. Do you think more women than men went to college in the 90s? You guys are just mad you're no longer needed and that's going to become more evident the more women con…
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 06:14 PM
1

Can you expand on that?
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 04:49 PM
1

At least "Chad" is honest about his intentions
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 03:54 PM
1

I mean think about it capitalist terms. Why would I want a man no one else wanted?
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 03:53 PM
1

Are you threatening me?
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 04:23 PM
2

Why would I do that? I'm not a mentally I'll man I don't need to be coddled.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 04:20 PM
1

The same men who go on about men's mental health are the same ones who refuse to talk to any sort of mental health professional. Why should I care if you won't even help yourself?
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 03:35 PM
3

Women usually die surrounded by family. How about that?
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 03:34 PM
-1

What's the point though if you still come across as deeply unhappy
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 10:07 PM
-2

I mean people don't like people who feel sorry for themselves no matter the type of car you drive.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 09:41 PM
-1

I'd argue that they still need medical attention as well.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:41 PM
-1

Sure, but I think that the assumption that if you die you were actually struggling with something legitimate isn't telling the whole story. Look at Anthony Bourdain. The man had everything and had been everywhere and killer himself in his 5 star French hotel. Whatever inner issue he had is kind of pathetic compared to the life he was living.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:39 PM
0

So your argument is women aren't actually suicidal they just want attention?
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:23 PM
1

I think the amount of attention you receive is based on the effort you put in to being apart of society. No I don't think people who don't leave their rooms deserve any attention. That's a waste of energy.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:22 PM
1

Mansplaining suicide lol
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:19 PM
6

Right. It's self centered. Even in suicide women still are community/family oriented.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 07:23 PM
5

Women use methods that are the most convenient for clean up. Men don't care who they traumatize.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 03:49 PM
-5

I mean it's that somewhat arrogant in itself to be disappointed by expecting to be notable in a popular of 7 billion.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 03:48 PM
-2

What do you want us to do about it? I'm not even being flip. I'm TTC so I'm on the parenting subs and when the subject of men's mental health comes up men give examples like "my wife has a therapist on speed dial for me." It seems like "supporting men's health" is just additional mental load for women.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 03:47 PM
1

Yes I believe that
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 04:06 PM
1

Skill issue
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 03:49 PM
1

If you're not a Christian please don't tell others what the Bible allegedly says
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 03:39 PM
1

This isn't gospel. But if you need to complain about life not being fair who am I to stop you?
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 02:07 PM
1

The Bible has clear instructions for marriage and what's expected of men and women.
/r/AllPillDebate09/04/23 01:56 PM
-2

Human beings are inherently selfish. More at 11
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 09:01 PM
-1

"Women bad"? Mind blowing
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 08:51 PM
-3

If you are mature enough to consent to sex you are mature enough to be a parent. Grow up.
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 07:30 PM
6

Why do you post this every day
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 06:48 PM
2

I'm from outside of Atlanta and most families in my community are married. I don't doubt there are women who have left and took their husbands to the cleaners, but most families are still in tact. Christian conservatives mostly don't have these problems
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 06:41 PM
1

As someone in a conservative relationship, we legitimately don't think that way. Our money is our money. A real trad man wouldn't be worried about it.
/r/AllPillDebate07/04/23 06:01 PM
5

Idk I'm a conservative Christian woman and was a big fan of the Red pill movement until it was taken over by degenerates. I'm married if that's important.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 06:30 PM
-4

That's my point. Plenty of men love every part of liberation that make jerking odd easier
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:29 AM
0

If you consume pornography then you're a hypocrite for upvoting this btw
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 03:23 AM
0

I think you're good looking. But I normally go for men with a tad bit more muscle
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 08:25 PM
0

Life is filled with rejection. I'd argue the ones who can't handle it should be alone.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 07:37 PM
1

Yes? When I interview for a job I'm competing against other people. I'm more likely to not get the job than get it. Am I just supposed to not try to work?
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 07:36 PM
1

Right I used to think I enjoyed rough sex. Then I started dating my now husband and realize how weird it is.
/r/AllPillDebate31/03/23 07:32 PM
1

I don't have an answer
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 06:04 PM
1

Honestly this is harsh but mentally I'll men who try to be women still often have the hygiene of a mentally Ill white man. White people hair gets greasy earlier.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 06:03 PM
1

Yup. But it gives them plausible deniability
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 05:58 PM
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Exactly. It's why the media is referring to her as her while they went by he publicly. It makes the movement look bad.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 05:31 PM
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No one is forcing you to date us. It's a free market like anything else. If we're too difficult just leave us alone then
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 04:27 PM
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I was in liberal arts college in Boston during the "Muslim ban"It was kind of hilarious seeing Sock (they/them) cry over it.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 02:16 PM
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The irony of using an ableist slur while telling us not to stereotype
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 02:10 PM
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I can't wait to see the left eat itself. It's too big. Most minorities are actually socially conservative.
/r/AllPillDebate30/03/23 02:10 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 09:09 PM
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Honestly my body count is double digits and I got married last weekend. As is most of the married or LTRs I know. It's reality.
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 05:37 PM
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Prostitution is the world's oldest profession. There's a historical basis for women assuming it's transactional. Only recently in human history has sex been viewed as something more than just bumping uglies. Arguably, I think we would be in a better position as a society if we took the metaphysical "connection" out of it (and I'll blame women for focusing on this primarily) and went back to looking at is a we are horny animals and sex works best for society when we contain it in marriage.
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 04:26 PM
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I agree. We should revert back to traditional roles.
/r/AllPillDebate28/03/23 01:21 AM
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I think that's just human nature. Look at Jamestown or any early society really. If you don't contribute, you die.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 07:59 PM
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Right? Unconditional love is for mothers (and even then, there's always a line for some people). There's a line from gone girl I always reference "He actually expected me to love him unconditionally.."
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 07:56 PM
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My husband is really good at opening jars 🤷‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 07:55 PM
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