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Don’t think I’ve made any women angry on the apps. When I match with someone I meet them within a few days face to face. Not much time for them to get angry
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:30 AM
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Dating after a divorce is on a whole different level and very far from what the youngsters in here are talking about. My marriage lasted 17 years. Talk about starting from scratch.
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:27 AM
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Intentions are what you hope will happen before things actually happen. When you meet the person, you adapt to reality and your intentions don’t matter. I can go to the store with intentions of buying some milk. I hope they have so e milk I can buy. I don’t know if they do. When I arrive I find out that the milk is sold out. What do I do? Communicate my intentions of buying milk to the store manager? Or do I adapt to reality and take it from there?
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:18 AM
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I guess I’m terrible at this. I am no wear close to having approached 2000 women. My estimate is that I have approached about 200 women in my life. I ended up having sex with about 150 of them.
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:07 AM
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Not if you know what you are doing while having sex and stay on good terms with women you have had sex with but no relationship was developed. I’ve experienced several time where women I don’t know reach out and want to meet because her friend told her I was great in bed.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:59 AM
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The cost/benefit analysis of cold approaches is absolutely horrible
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:56 AM
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Its, sadly, more about making an effort and not finding excuses to be lazy
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:53 AM
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You aren’t a slave of your past. Any man can change. It might not be easy and might not be fun. But it can definitely be done by putting some effort into it. I’ve taken that journey and it’s definitely worth it
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:51 AM
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Well it’s an investment worth the time it takes go reach that point. And that investment can be used in all aspects of life, not just dating.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:48 AM
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Very true. So many men self sabotage and burn bridges every time they get rejected or break up.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:46 AM
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Having other women refer you is by far the easiest way. Especially if the woman referring you is an ex or someone you’ve dated a while. The worst way, by far, is cold approaches. My top 3 of easiest ways Being referred by women you’ve had sex with Make women approach you at bars, parties, events etc. Dating apps. They keep my covered with several dates a week.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:44 AM
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You are using the apps wrong and putting way to much into them. The are just search engines. You use them to find women you them meet face to face. You don’t date on the apps. You don’t try get to know them on the apps. They are search engines. She was a shitty woman. Find someone else
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:37 AM
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Only losers and incels need scripts to talk to women.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:28 AM
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Most do both
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:28 AM
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You should unmatch after you have met them since apps after that point are useless. If you have dated them you have other channels of contact. I’ve used the apps on and off for about 4 years. Dated more than 200 women I’ve found on the apps. Never been reported. Never heard of any man I know being reported.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:26 AM
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There are two ways men approach. Most men approach like you. Find out there is some interest, reads some sign and cues and approaches a woman where there is a good chance she is interested. Once you talk to her you figure out if there is anything more than just attraction and you can often end up rejecting her because it turns out she wasn’t really that interested after all. The other way to approach is the “bro it’s a numbers game, let’s be the new Mystery and Neil Strauss” who will approach an…
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:19 AM
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Intentions only matter until you meet them. After that reality takes over and intentions are useless
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:13 AM
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Morals? You are in a sub where most users talk and advice on how to manipulate women into having sex with them. Morals is the last thing people worry about. If you date several women simultaneously you just split the time and energy you would otherwise spend on one.
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:12 AM
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How long was your longest relationship, newbie? Mine was 17 years
/r/seduction19/04/25 12:15 AM
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Be romantic. Romance is the difference between friends and partners
/r/seduction18/04/25 08:04 PM
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When you have have been dating a lot and been in several relationships, you learn that there are some thing you talt to people you date and there are some things you don’t talk about. Hang in there one day you might reach that level of experience
/r/seduction18/04/25 11:01 AM
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You sound very inexperienced when it comes to women.
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:58 AM
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Just meet her. Dragging it out is always self sabotage
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:49 AM
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Sorry to break it to you. You are not seducing. You are practicing PUA techniques. Huge difference.
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:45 AM
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Just meet them face to face within days after you match. That’s the whole point of dating apps. Match and meet
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:25 AM
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The same reason some women do the same
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:13 AM
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Only losers block. It’s a sure sign of cowardice and bad communication skills. Move on
/r/seduction18/04/25 09:07 AM
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Maybe because you were clingy and you disgusted her. Now you have given her some peace to actually find out if she wants to talk to you. She is giving yours second chance. Don’t mess it up again
/r/seduction18/04/25 06:23 AM
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Next time stop overthinking everything. It gives really bad vibes and you cone off as insecure. Asking your age is not a shit test. Sound like you had no idea what to do or say once she rejected one of your ideas. That is when you propose doing something else and not just give up. (I know it can be difficult if you follow a script). The social event is not the important thing here. The important thing is that you need some basic social skills do you can comfortably be confident in any setting or…
/r/seduction18/04/25 06:02 AM
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The social status the PUA are talking about is the imposed image you create around yourself (Mystery and other PUAs never had any real social status outside their fanboys). So it’s the image you created about yourself. Disability doesn’t matter in that regards. You can create an image about yourself where any disability doesn’t matter
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:47 AM
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That would be self sabotage big time
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:30 AM
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You are overthinking it to an extreme. Just get alone with her and follow the vibes
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:29 AM
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Social skills really are the only thing that matters if you wants successful dating life. Money means shit if you act like a creep and are awkward around women. It never stops amazing me me how many men who are socially incompetent believe they will be able to talk to women at ease if the only make 6 figures or lose 10 lbs.
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:27 AM
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Using politics as a crutch will always be a turn off. Make sure you have something good to compensate with if you have political inclinations
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:14 AM
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Learning what works and putting effort into it. Sounds obvious but the low level of effort many men, including myself back then, while expecting success is mindblowing.
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:25 PM
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Why would she tell me that? That’s none of my business.
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:24 PM
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It’s a classic mistake and has been advised against for decades. A first date is about getting a feel about each other. First impression in a romantic setting. It can go in a million different directions. It could be horrible and one or both want to end the date right away. It could be great and you want to do something more active. It could be really interesting and you want to talk about something more focused. Sitting at dinner table locks you down. Both in time where you have to wait to orde…
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:16 PM
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Signals, cues, vibes and energies. And make it easy for them
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:08 PM
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Unfortunately you are right. Very many newbies here. Not a problem but it would be nice if there were some more experienced “seducers “
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:07 PM
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They approach me and initiate conversations. Just signal you are interested, it’s safe for them to approach you and that if they don’t approach you, other women will. Women don’t mind doing a bit of work to get what they want. Unfortunately many men mess that up by trying to be macho and chivalrous
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:04 PM
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Damn autocorrect 😅 Ising the apps correctly is what I mean
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:01 PM
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You have unrealistic expectations before the date. So you are not reacting on how the person is, but if they live up to your expectations. They never have a chance and you keep disappointing yourself. Have as few expectations, if any, before you actually meet them face to face
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:32 PM
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Doubled? Like from 1 to 2? /s Yes, pictures make a difference and have good pictures improves your profile. Lots of men are incredibly lazy and instead of getting some good pictures they use shitty ones and convince themselves that the pictures show “personality”. It’s about making an effort. It’s about doing what it takes to have a great profile. I went from 3-4 likes a month to a stable 1500-2000 likes just using the apps correctly. Didn’t change my appearance in any way
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:23 PM
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Yes. Of course women are horny and want sex just like men. But take it further. Make the women approach you. You’ll get rid of the outdated idea that men should be the active one and women the passive. And the women will show much more affection because they need to be active to get what they want.
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:16 PM
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Introversion doesn’t mean what you think. Introversion has nothing to do with how you date. I’m a hardcore introvert and dated more than 200 women, been married, been in short and long relationships and my game is 100% based on social skills. So don’t use introversion as an excuse. Your main focus after a break up is to handle your emotions from it. They don’t handle themselves and if you don’t handle them, they will sabotage your future dating. When you’ve done that you start dating. Unless you…
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:22 PM
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The fear of HSV creates much more health damage than the actual virus. I seriously don’t get the stigmatisation and fear. I’ve slept with 150-200 women and most have been without protection. I get tested every 8-10 weeks and never had any STD. Never made anyone pregnant either. It so simple to avoid and people are even avoiding sex all together just because “it’s not worth the risk”
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:15 PM
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What’s the risk?
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:12 PM
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Ask them to take a teste of the have a cold too
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:12 PM
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Talk to your doctor about it. The possibilities for tests differ from countries to countries. Some places you need to book an appointment and pay a lot for a test. Where I live you book an appointment at your doctor and usually the nurse takes the test. There are also drop ins at the hospitals where you can show up unannounced and get a test. all testing here is free of charge. They test for the most common STD. It used to include herpes but because the health professionals consider it harmless …
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:11 PM
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Doesn’t make any difference at all. Use protection if there is an outbreak. They have excluded herpes from the normal STD test so I don’t know if I have it or not. Most people do. Educate yourself about STD. I know sexual education is really bad in the US, but that is no excuse. When we chose to have sexual we also need to know what the hell we are doing.
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:05 PM
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Have you heard about a thing called “flirting”?
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:53 AM
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Good looking people, men as well as women, don’t chase. They don’t need to. You don’t see good looking men chase women either.
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:44 AM
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Not my experience with Romanian, Bulgarian, Serbian, Russian and Ukrainian women. There are much better ways to show them appreciation
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:18 AM
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Avoid the common self sabotage First date should never be a dinner date Never bring gifts or flowers on a first date Never pay everything on any date Never have a set end time for a first date. Take it easy. Focus on being comfortable. Don’t worry about if she is comfortable or not. That’s her job and she will let you know if things are going wrong. The PUA fan boys in here will probably disagree, but talk about normal daily stuff. Ask a lot of questions and listen to her replies. Remember the v…
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:17 AM
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If you work on yourself and reach a higher league, you obviously will have access to more leagues of women. It’s up to you. Extremely few men will achieve being a 10, but if we are talking about US where the average woman is a 3-4, you only need to be a 5-7 to have free access
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:06 AM
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You believe everyone has the same pool of woman as you. You sound like you have very little experience with women and life in general. Women differ a lot and culture and teste does to. For a while I lived in the deep south of the US. I did a lot of dating there. I met guys like you with the “Bro, she is a 10/10. Bro you need to be stoic. Bro it’s a numbers game”. In reality they where talking about some short fat chick with a long list of mental issues. But for the brus she was a 10 because thei…
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:04 AM
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In dating success always depends on the effort you put into it. It’s an investment. Do it right and it will always pay off. It doesn’t really matter what path you take. Effort will give you a higher chance of success. The same goes the other way. If you don’t put in any effort, you won’t get success. Obviously some paths that are more effective than others. Cold approach demands a lot of effort for little success. You approach 100 women and maybe you get 4-5 date. It works. Better than not cold …
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:51 AM
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Intentions is not the same as what one is only interested in.
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:20 AM
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What you are looking for, “intentions”, is not always what you get. That’s why it’s called intentions and not demands. What they really want to know is what you are open for if things go well. Unless you have some very strong reasons to not be in a relationship (like you went through a breakup within the ex last 6 months) you should always be open for a relationship and tell them that. Keep it simple
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:20 AM
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Sounds more like a 4/10 was interested and a group of 3s were flirting and you got insecure. Good women don’t play games like that
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:14 AM
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These are cringy as fuck and give bad flashbacks to the early PUA days.
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:02 AM
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Drop the rating system. An American 10 is a Scandinavian 5. A Japanese 10 is a Korean 7. A Egyptian 10 is a Kenyan 3. Go for the best women in your league. If you want better, improve yourself so you are in a higher league.
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:43 PM
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Men who don’t believe in leagues are the men who are scraping the bottom of their league. Leagues exist. Introspection is a good thing. Selv developed works. Work on reaching a higher league instead of believing leagues don’t exist
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:30 PM
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You have commitment issues. Work on those. Therapy is a great help
/r/seduction16/04/25 07:19 PM
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Never break the tension. I totally agree that their need to be a flow. All of this is natural. You (both of you) build up tension. When the tension is strong the vibe will tell you (both of you) that something needs to happen. That is one escalation happens. Women can escalate just the same way as men can. Both are feeling the same vibes. Not letting a woman escalate is self sabotage and stupid. If you break the tension you’ll have to build it up again. That’s self sabotage. It’s all about build…
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:23 AM
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She knows you are playing games and not having any of it. She is giving you chance after chance to do it right (hot and cold) but are you taking the chances? You can’t play hard to get with women who get lot of attention. Just like if you are a man with options, you won’t waste your time on any woman playing hard to get. Forget her and keep working on yourself. And don’t play games with very good looking women
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:06 AM
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She most likely wasn’t a model. Just a beautiful woman and he got carried away and messed it up.
/r/seduction16/04/25 09:59 AM
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177cm sounds pretty short for an actual model. Most agencies, especially European, would require models to be taller. But great you had some interaction with a beautiful woman. Was she Ukrainian or Russian? (Most Ukrainians speak Russian so it can be tricky to know) Next time try to keep it in your frame. Your story is happening in her frame and she is the one calling the shots and deciding what is going to happen. It makes it difficult for you to escalate and not surprising she rejected you in …
/r/seduction16/04/25 09:57 AM
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Get away from the screen. Dating and seduction are social things. Online is not social.
/r/seduction15/04/25 09:59 AM
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Making it clear that you don’t want a hookup is a mood killer. Making agreements of how a eventual relationship will be before you even know the person is self sabotaging. Keep things open for the natural flows. Very many relationships and marriages actually begin with a hookup. Even if you do t want a hookup, don’t say that. Her past relationships is something she should handle and not effect your dates. Don’t worry about her past. Focus on the present. Never wait until the 4th date to escalate…
/r/seduction15/04/25 09:25 AM
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The wrong is believing that doing the same mistake 100 times might work. “Bro, it’s a numbers game” 😅
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:54 AM
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The whole reason PUA died and few still use it was because men acted like clown and didn’t realise it themselves.
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:47 AM
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No bits about how you perceive yourself. That is what really matters because others notice that much more than what you wear.
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:44 AM
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When you have handled all the emotions. For most people it takes about 6 months to reach that point
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:30 AM
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Depends on the eye-contact. You can build up a lot of sexual tension through eye contact, but eye contact can also be just a short glance and nothing really much more than a sign of interest. I usually build up the tension and then signal that I would like her to approach me. They always do
/r/seduction15/04/25 12:10 AM
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Work on your social skills and become naturally confident. Nothing you mention about yourself is a problem.
/r/seduction14/04/25 11:31 PM
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“Listen to understand, not to reply” is a classic in basic social skills and still hold up.
/r/seduction14/04/25 11:26 PM
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Clothes you feel comfortable in and brings out the best of your looks and personality. Doesn’t really matter what you wear if the clothes make you confident. That said I would always avoid clothes that make you look like you are playing a role. That you are fake. Usually that means suits, tie etc
/r/seduction14/04/25 11:23 PM
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Women aren't stupid. Just like we can tell when they are playing hard to get, they can tell when we are doing PUA stuff
/r/seduction14/04/25 01:36 AM
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There are unlimited types and shapes of glasses out there. Find some that improves your looks
/r/seduction14/04/25 01:34 AM
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Always study. Stupid to not learn from other's experience and mistakes. Nothing cheating in reading books. Don't practice on other women when in a relationship. Keep your social skills sharp by spending time with people in a non-romantic view. If/when your relationship ends you can use all those skills in your game.
/r/seduction14/04/25 12:24 AM
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Depends on your skill. Rejection 20 -30 times for every approach is pretty normal. If you develop a strong inner game you can reach a point where won't be rejected at all, but you will be rejected a lot developing that game
/r/seduction13/04/25 10:56 PM
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Rejection is a part of the game. If you can't take rejection, you shouldn't play
/r/seduction13/04/25 10:26 PM
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Follow the vibes. That is the natural way and how the human mind works. Do you really think you can escalate fast with everyone and it will work? Or escalate slow with everyone and it will work? You are dating an individual
/r/seduction13/04/25 04:53 PM
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Ask to meet them. That’s what dating apps are for
/r/seduction13/04/25 04:49 PM
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Be picky about who you go on a date with. If it isn’t obvious she wants to meet her, drop her and find someone else. Don’t be desperate
/r/seduction13/04/25 04:45 PM
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Give her a subtle hint that you will step back a little and let her show initiative. Just stepping back without any warning could easily lead to misunderstandings. Lots of women out there have s heard time viewing things from the man’s perspective
/r/seduction13/04/25 04:37 PM
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Serious relationship last a long time and during that time things will not be the same. My longest relationship was 17 years. There were times where we were crazy in love. There were times where we were just friends. Sometimes it was convenience that kept it going. Sometimes desperation. Sometimes deep love. Obviously there has to be attraction and love in the beginning or else any relationship won’t make any sense and the risks of it not working are massive
/r/seduction13/04/25 01:19 PM
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You need to have an open ending when you have your first dates. If your goal is to get laid you can reach that without many difficulties but then your game ends. You dont have more to give. You don’t have the experience nor the knowledge so you get insecure and fall back to what you knows works. But it’s useless because now you have a different goal. You should flirts just as much. And having sex on the first date never excluded any serious relationships. But you have to continue after that. You…
/r/seduction13/04/25 01:04 AM
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The vibes will tell you when it’s time to escalate. During the date you build up sexual tension. At some point the tension is so strong that you need to change the situation. So you escalate and start building new tension. Until it’s time to escalate again. It’s like a car changing gears. And just like you will stall or crash if you don’t change gears when driving a driving, you will crash or stall if you don’t escalate during s date.
/r/seduction12/04/25 07:06 PM
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You don’t know. That is one of the reason you talk to her
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:55 PM
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You can’t only have a dating game. You also need a relationship game. Doing your dating game when you got the woman, will do more damage than good. She still wants you around and I don’t think you have been friendzoned. Make some moves on the other women at the party. If all hell breaks lose you know she still wants you.
/r/seduction12/04/25 01:47 PM
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Always. And usually a lot of them. She probably gave you a million signs and when you kissed her she was thinking “finally” 😅
/r/seduction12/04/25 01:33 PM
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You are using Tinder wrong. Instead of saying dating apps are shit, learn to use them right first. Don’t be a person trying to eat soup with fork and then say forks are shit. Apps are search engines. There is no difference in dating a woman you found on an app and woman you find in other ways. I meet women from both apps and being social. Often, as a fun thing, when I meet a woman in other ways than the app, I ask to see their profile on dating apps. Every single woman has a profile to show me. …
/r/seduction12/04/25 11:49 AM
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Just don’t say yes. If she makes changes she takes the lead from there.
/r/seduction12/04/25 06:46 AM
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I have dated a lot in Sweden. Still do once in a while. Great women. Swedish women are a special type. You can’t have the same game in Sweden as you have in the US, or UK. You will be slaughtered. Not even the same as neighbouring countries like Denmark or Norway (my preferred countries in the world, when it comes to seduction). Swedish women are very attractive and they know it. Not the same level as Danish and Norwegian but way above most other places. That makes them picky. They know they can…
/r/seduction11/04/25 10:22 PM
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A real sex addict? Or just high sex drive. I used to work at a place were sex addicts got support and treatment. Sex daily with random men. BC in the thousands. No job, no relationships. Shitty life. Many became pros because it was a easy way to get some money when the couldn’t hold a job
/r/seduction11/04/25 09:46 PM
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You set the level and then work hard to reach it. Small steps. The leagues are real. Whatever your game is you'll need to adapt it. More attractive women are used to more attention. Your competition will be different.
/r/seduction11/04/25 03:12 AM
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from 4 to 2000. then 3000 then 1000, it goes up and down. But the point is that saying apps don't work when I can get well over 1000 without much effort, is just plain bullshit
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:58 AM
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Kind of low at the moment now when I checked. Only 1 267 likes https://imgur.com/a/8cD5bUf
/r/seduction11/04/25 12:14 AM
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Kind of late for a ONS if you are going on a 2nd date. Continue where it ended last time. You can easily speed up the escalation next time if you follow the vibes. There is also the possibility that she has reach the point where she doesn't want more. Maybe you aren't someone she would fuck.
/r/seduction10/04/25 11:24 PM
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You are simping for the black pills. Use the apps right and you'll have no problems getting likes and matches. The algorithm doesn't " just happened to show me". It adapts to how you use the app. There is no random or chance involved. You decide how often and to who your profile is shown to. I went from 4-5 likes a month to 2000 by just tweaking my profile and learning how the algorithm works. Apps work if you use them right. And btw, if you know anything about modelling you know that being a mo…
/r/seduction10/04/25 10:45 PM
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You got some numbers. Cool
/r/seduction10/04/25 10:28 PM
1

Just meet her. Get away from your screens. Seduction happens face to face
/r/seduction10/04/25 10:15 PM
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Online dating is the easiest and a blessing for men you want to seduce. Everyone should learn to use it. I would say flirting and showing interest is not approaching. Approaching is when you walk up to someone and initiate a conversation. Cold approach is to approach someone you don't know and have no idea if they are interested or not. Approaching someone you have a good idea likes you, is not "warm" approach, it's just normal approach. It's normal flirting and something that should always be i…
/r/seduction10/04/25 02:49 PM
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I say I dont use IG but I use a phone. Then she will gladly give me her number. Doesn’t matter if I actually have a IG account or not (I do)
/r/seduction10/04/25 10:10 AM
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There are two different domains when dating. The friendly and the romantic. You need to have both working for you. Too many men only work on the friendly and then complain the are friend zoned. This is also the problem with “nice guys”. They only know how to operate in the friendly domain. When they try to be the opposite “bad guy” things don’t change. Because a “bad guy” is also a part of the friendly domain. You just suck at it. Typical parts of the friendly domain: Being funny. Being nice. Be…
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:24 AM
1

When PUA started to be a thing way back. Quickly noticed it was a waste of time and stopped. Found much better ways
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:02 AM
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But most women don’t do it. Even though they can. I noticed that when I finally, after years of hard work, reached the level of dating options women are at by just existing, the excitement kind of died. Knowing you can get laid at any time makes you get tired of it, become very picky, or just rather do something else. I’m not complaining and I’m definitely glad I’ve reached this point. But the journey was better than the destination this time.
/r/seduction09/04/25 08:04 PM
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Exactly my point. You learn and practice. If you cook you learn how the stove works. You don’t throw the stake on the pan, forget to turn the stove on, and act like a bad ass chef. And it won’t get better if you do the same thing 200 times.
/r/seduction09/04/25 07:58 PM
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Do your part. That’s all you can do
/r/seduction09/04/25 07:48 PM
2

Depends a lot on the situation. If both lose interest it will be gradual and fade out. Then it’s good to meet a last time and say you need to talk about what’s going on. Personal talks are insanely good investments. And these talks are pretty easy. It’s about saying and showing you are thankful for the time spent together and open for a friendship in the future (don’t expect one right away). If she has fallen in love and you want out there is no easy way. Meet and have that difficult talk. You w…
/r/seduction09/04/25 07:47 PM
1

You will look like a desperate simp. If that is what you want, by all means do it
/r/seduction09/04/25 07:35 PM
1

It’s not about being scared. I can pull women pretty much anywhere. When I’m at the gym I focus on working out. I’m not desperate and don’t need to think about women all the time.
/r/seduction09/04/25 07:34 PM
2

It a personal choice. As long as one respects oneself and everyone involved there is no right or wrong
/r/seduction09/04/25 07:22 PM
2

Keep the dating offline. Just get her number
/r/seduction09/04/25 09:59 AM
9

Number is not a success. It’s just a new start of another game. Success is sex or a relationship. I don’t know what the success rates are today. Years ago when I was looking into cold approaches the rate was 1 success in 250-300 attempts if you were good at it.
/r/seduction09/04/25 09:52 AM
1

Never approach a man at the gym. The only men you would like it are desperate men and you don’t want those
/r/seduction09/04/25 09:43 AM
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Just don’t
/r/seduction08/04/25 09:56 PM
2

Dating apps are the easiest way and they work great if you use them right. Date several women but date them just like you were only dating them. You don’t have time to give both girls all your attention so make sure the time spent with hjem is quality time. Always be ready to drop all other women if it gets serious with one
/r/seduction08/04/25 02:05 PM
2

I very rarely get rejected. But that is because my game is built on the woman approaching me and I know how to make that happen. Knowing when to escalate and so on reduces the rejections to pretty much non-existent. Haven’t approached a woman in ages. But before I developed my game I would get rejected a lot. Even if I had a roster. Been rejected hundreds of times and that was a good lesson. But nothing I would do today.
/r/seduction08/04/25 01:59 PM
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That’s a good question. Never thought about the turnover and how long I date them on average. I would say that I date them 1-2 months on average. Some have been around for years. Never only one date. Don’t do ONS because the first time is rarely good. Need a second to actually see who she is without nerves, alcohol etc. And often the time I date them can be split up. I could date one woman 2-3 weeks, end it in a good way and 3 months later she comes back and we start to date again. They always c…
/r/seduction08/04/25 01:52 PM
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The are definitely on the apps. See them every time I’m in there. Everyone is on the apps. I see well known models and actresses there. And if we are talking adults and not teens, there are more 10s looking for dates on the apps than looking on IG. I don’t really need to experiment. I experimented for years even did some academic research in this and published a book. I have a stable level of 2 000 likes on Tinder. Sure I could try to tweak thins and maybe get 100-200 extra likes. But I really d…
/r/seduction08/04/25 01:34 PM
7

Date. The more you date the easier it gets
/r/seduction08/04/25 12:32 AM
6

What is your experience?
/r/seduction08/04/25 12:27 AM
0

So do I. You match, you meet, you have sex. If it's good you continue, If not you end it. That whole process is done within a week after you match. Why the hell would you want to use social media in that process? It's a distraction and waste of time. When you match you set up a first date. She is interested in you and you are interested in her. So the natural thing to do is to meet. I currently have 2 000 likes on Tinder and I have never needed anything else than picture that show the women what…
/r/seduction08/04/25 12:22 AM
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1, You don't keep them hooked for weeks by using social media. You keep them hooked for weeks by being attractive, good in bed and treat them right. I prefer human interaction and not online likes. You don't date online. If you think you can take as good photos of yourself as a pro in professional setting, great. Do that. But you could also pay a small fee and make sure you get it right. And again. Do you want likes on IG or do you want to have sex with a real woman? No you are not trying to tel…
/r/seduction07/04/25 11:58 PM
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Basically you have limited time to spend on dating. If you date one, you'll spend 100% on that woman. If you date two, don't make the mistake and try to spend 100% on each. You never have 200%. Spend 50% on each. It's not necessarily a bad thing to not spend 100% on a woman. the risk of becoming clingy is lower. And by not giving her constant attention, she will wonder why, might even miss you, and often it will lead to her making more effort. She won't take you for granted. So if you date 4 wom…
/r/seduction07/04/25 11:45 PM
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Sorry if I sound like an idiot, but is 2 considered a lot? I know it's reddit but this sub is about seduction. I always date several women simultaneously. "Spinning plates" as we used to call it. There are so many advantages in doing that, both if you just want sex and if you want a serious relationship. I usually date 3-4 women at the same time. Currently I'm dating 4. At one point I was up on 7 but I don't recommend it. It's exhausting because you always, no matter if you date 1 or 7, give the…
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:42 PM
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Nothing wrong about it. Just very ineffective.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:26 PM
2

Dating apps are search engines for singles in your area so they are obviously good if you are travelling and want to find singles where you are. Istanbul has a great nightlife and a lot of great bars and venues. But you need to do some research and find a place that fit your personality.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:17 PM
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I'm a man who went from 4-5 likes a month to having a stable level of about 2000 likes on the apps. I agree with your idea of seeing yourself as a brand. Apps are about getting people interested. The better profile you have, more people will be interested. if you want to buy a car and look at adds for cars, what would interest you the most? A good add showing the best qualities of the car? Or som grainy goofy pics showing "personality"? This should be obvious when using the apps. But I disagree …
/r/seduction07/04/25 08:38 PM
0

There are so many other more effective ways to gain some social skills.
/r/seduction07/04/25 03:03 PM
1

American women are fat, lazy and spoiled, so personally I prefer the balkan women. I've dated both a lot. You just need to balance. If a woman is hotheaded, you can't be a simp. Play their game
/r/seduction07/04/25 02:13 PM
2

Never worked in the first place. You were always playing a role and when the instructions ended you were clueless.
/r/seduction07/04/25 01:38 PM
13

All the apps are the same. People use apps to meet. If they hook up or get married doesn't matter. They still use the apps to find people. Nothing can happen until you meet. If you just want to hookup or more is something you find out after you have met a person. Dating is not like ordering a pizza.
/r/seduction07/04/25 01:34 PM
10

Notice who is interested in me. They will show it no matter if the want to or not through subtle signals and vibes. There will always be a handful of them. Chose if there are any of them I’m interested in. (Usually 2-3 would catch my interest) Send subtle signs that I have noticed that they are interested and that I are interested in them. Observe their reactions. Enjoying my stay at the club while occasionally sending signs to the women that I’m into them. Flirting. Sending vibes that it’s safe…
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:09 AM
1

Game can be used in so much else than dating so it’s worth much more than any amount of money
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:19 AM
17

Numbers game is doing the same mistake 109 times and hope one woman shows mercy.
/r/seduction06/04/25 04:17 PM
1

Im a man and don’t think it’s harder. I see it as a tool that can be used with other tools. The people on the apps are the same people you find offline. Everyone is on apps today. The competition is the same.
/r/seduction06/04/25 11:30 AM
1

It’s exhausting because you don’t have the skills and practice. Just like running. Practice
/r/seduction06/04/25 11:27 AM
1

Since you meet people you find on dating apps in real life right after you match, what is your question? OLD is the same as all other dating. You just use a search engine to find women instead of randomly find the same women elsewhere
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:40 AM
1

Only physical dates matter. How they or you act online means nothing. Online is not social. It’s letters on a screen. Forget about everything that happens on apps or other online thing. You connection start the moment you meet. What happens after that is all that matters. You send vibes and energies. Just like incels and black pillers reek of insecurity and chads reek of confidence, you will send vibes that let the women know what you are about. Vibes never lie. But you can chose what vibes you …
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:33 AM
0

Do you know what introvert means? Being an introvert doesn’t effect dating or seduction at all. I’m a hard core introvert and been that my whole life. Still I have been married, been in shirt and long relationships and had sex with more than 169 women. At the moment I’m single and have around 2 000 likes on Tinder. And I’m a hard core introvert. Please stop using introvert as something that has any egg on your dating. It doesn’t. Black pillers in here will say height is super important. Yes, mos…
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:20 AM
1

That would have been very desperate. Enjoy your friend’s company and don’t be desperate
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:04 AM
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Everything from a one night stand to marriage begins with meeting each other fave to face. And the whole “be clear about your intentions” bullshit on Reddit just shows how little experience people here have when it comes to actual dating. Intentions are cute. But it’s the effort, vibes, energies and connections that decides if that first meeting ends with s hook up or marriage or anything in between.
/r/seduction06/04/25 10:01 AM
2

Escalation is a natural part of dating. First of all stop the idea of boundaries. That mindset will just drag you down. Women are humans. They are horny too and if they like you they want things to escalate just as much as you do. Seeing them as having boundaries makes you see them as someone who is protecting themselves from you. Drop that mindset. Actions mean more than words. I’ve experienced countless first dates where women are very clear they could never dream of having sex on a first date…
/r/seduction06/04/25 09:46 AM
2

Younger generations have lower social skills that make it more natural to turn inwards when triggered than outward to other people. At least that is a common theory.
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:42 PM
1

Exactly. You find them on apps and meet and seduce them, and have sex with them, iRL. Many in here try to date and seduce women on the apps. Online. Niche is the only thing that works today 😊 I have my niche where basically I let/make women approach me. So much more effective
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:40 PM
3

As a beginner you just need to get going. Find one woman. That’s all that is needed to get going. When you get going it has a lot to do with what strategy you have. Reputation plays a role (can be both good and bad). If you plan to self sabotage lot, like “numbers game” lots of cold approaches etc in a small city where women know each other , you will quickly have a reputation of a desperate man who would fuck anything standing on two legs and smells. Women will avoid you. In a big city you’ll a…
/r/seduction05/04/25 10:51 PM
5

I think every man who has reach a high level of seduction skills has found his own path. There are plenty of influencers out there are self pronounced dating experts (even in this sub) who can give you the basics. Because basics can be learned in a million ways and pretty fast. PUA were great teaching the basics. The trad cons who teach you how to be a gentleman can teach you the basics. Mernie The wing girl can teach you the basics. Actually you can teach yourself the basics. That’s how all men…
/r/seduction05/04/25 10:33 PM
1

Did you hook up with them in real life or did you only chat?
/r/seduction05/04/25 10:03 PM
1

Being a model isn't a big thing over here you know? In a country where the average is not obese, model level is nothing you brag about. Master of seduction. Sure you are. How much do you charge the young incels to have some of your great wisdom?
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:24 PM
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She didn't. I did. I mean what I write. Was there too many difficult words for you? To difficult if you live in Bagaremossen or wherever you live? As I said, you are always welcome to come down and show your skills
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:22 PM
1

Come over here and I'll show you the women in real life
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:20 PM
3

Well that would be great for a black pill sub. Not a sub about seduction
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:20 PM
1

Making up shit and using different accounts to support yourself is not very useful. Avoiding and advising against well documented and proven ways to seduce, isn't very useful. You are probably just a incel trying to get upvotes.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:54 PM
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That statement doesn't even make sense. Everyone uses dating apps today. You are way out of touch with reality if you believe only specific type of women use apps. You just outed yourself. And how about getting a job where you actually use some skills and make some money instead of just trying to impress teenage incels?
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:52 PM
1

Exactly. I used to be a guy who couldn't get a date if my life depended on it. Now things are very different. Didn't cost me anything. And I will gladly give advice to other men. totally for free. But in here, if you only say you have success, you are the enemy.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:48 PM
-1

Who are you? Did you forget to change account?
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:46 PM
0

Never said 2000 in a week. I said that is how many likes I have at the moment. You gave up after 4 and want to have praise for that. Yes, I was in a long relationship. 17 years actually. I have also been in relationships lasting 2-4 years. How long was yours? And don't count the years you were living with your mom in your 20s. Come on. You say you are 33 and an alcoholic. You live in a suburb to Stockholm . You are overweight and you snore. That's all stuff you say about yourself. But now you ar…
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:44 PM
0

As useful a trying to eat soup with a fork and then advising everyone to throw all their forks away
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:35 PM
0

Now what? What will you do about it?
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:33 PM
1

He is shitting on something when the reality is he doesn't know what he i doing. Like trying to eart soup with a fork and then say "Fuck forks, they are useless. Only idiots use forks when eating anything. I've tried using a fork and my experience is that all forks are useless." and feel cool about it. If he is using the apps wrong, they apps are not the problem. 'He saw a woman who looked like a model on the train in Scandinavia. I live in scandinavia and you see women like that on the train 5-…
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:32 PM
3

Shouldn't be related
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:25 PM
7

Online dating doesn't exist. Dating apps are search enigines. You meet women in real life that you find on dates.
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:41 PM
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You start by sating that apps are for dudes who can't talk. Revealing that you actually thinking you date on apps. How old are you? 15? You "close" with getting their number? lol You don't have success because you have a shitty profile and you use the apps wrong. I live in Scandinavia too. 2 000 likes on Tinder. Match when I want to. Meet every woman I match in real life within a few days after we matched. Super easy. You get 4 dates in all. I get 4 dates in a week. When I go out I get approache…
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:39 PM
3

More giving up you mean?
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:16 PM
3

Very true. But I'm not surprised about the one advertising. Black pillers and incels are extremely easy victims to sell all kinds of "dating advice" bullshit because these guys have no experience and no realistic reference. The whole reason influencers like Tate have success, is because the target audience has no real life experience to see that it's bullshit.
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:10 PM
1

They will never understand. They will just move on to another sub and destroy it
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:06 PM
0

So? That i no excuse. Only weak men will not change the social conditioning they got from their childhood if it is holding them back. This idea that life and everything in it should be easy, is ridiculous.
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:05 PM
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Fear of rejection is normal. Every man who has ever thought about approaching a girl has felt it. For most it's just a part of dating. For other it's an excuse to give up. It's all about what type of man we want to be.
/r/seduction05/04/25 11:47 AM
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Or at least keep a good balance. I use the internet a lot. Especially while working. But I always make sure I have real social interaction with real people more than I’m online. Every single day
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:37 AM
1

Never approach at the gym
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:07 AM
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Sounds like you never have made any effort to start with. Today the competition is so ridiculously low that pretty much any man who makes an effort will have guaranteed success with women.
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:05 AM
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Blaming on others. Nobody is forcing the men to be a certain way. Every man is in charge and accountable for how he is. Blaming society and others is weak
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:04 AM
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Maybe he just isn’t a loser who thinks it’s cool to quit
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:03 AM
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It’s really bad. Any success stories or actual useful advice is either downvoted to hell or bullied out of here
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:02 AM
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It’s not from a podcast but well documented and proven research in psychology that has been around since the 1960s. It usually called “attachment style”. The best book on the subject is privy”Attached” by Amur Levine. And the real numbers are about 50% stable, 30% avoidant (there are two kinds of avoidants) and 20 anxious (needy). An interest fact is that among younger generations there are more avoidants and less anxious than older generations.
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:01 AM
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You are downvoted because in here everyone wants to be a man who can pull many women, but fail and don’t like when people mention that others succeed. It’s pretty sad
/r/seduction04/04/25 11:57 PM
1

Lack of effort. Maybe laziness. The more often we make the same mistake, the harder it gets to break that habit. I think many men have gotten stuck in self sabotaging but don’t want to put into the effort to change. So the keep doing it wrong or give up.
/r/seduction04/04/25 11:55 PM
1

Having sex with junkies, street prostitutes, stuff like that.
/r/seduction04/04/25 07:40 PM
3

Stop trying to control everything and get some confidence
/r/seduction04/04/25 06:58 PM
1

Stuck? It’s about choosing your game. I haven’t approached a woman for year and still have it very easy getting both dates and getting laid
/r/seduction04/04/25 06:54 PM
1

Extremely few are. And some of them, like herpes, are harmless. The rest you have to very extremely reckless to catch. Most STD are easily treatable. The most common ones are treated with taking a pill every day for 4-5 days. Some need only one pill one time. Avoid getting STD and avoid spreading them. But if you catch one get it treated and it’s gone. The best way to handle STD is to regularly get tested. Then you know for sure you don’t have anything and can’t spread anything.
/r/seduction04/04/25 06:53 PM
3

My mission is to meet attractive and interesting women and get to know them. Sometimes it leads to a relationship sometimes it doesn’t. Getting laid is a very natural part of that and I don’t see how that could be a mission.
/r/seduction04/04/25 09:08 AM
1

That’s a very lazy approach. If you are not good enough you become better. You don’t fucking give up and say there is nothing you can do
/r/seduction04/04/25 08:49 AM
1

If you have just the basic knowledge about STD then you know the risks and how to avoid them. If you don’t have the basic knowledge of sex and STD you probably shouldn’t have sex. Are you by any chance American?
/r/seduction04/04/25 08:36 AM
2

Solve those issues. Never use issues as an excuse
/r/seduction03/04/25 11:55 PM
2

Have real sex instead of sexting. If a someone wants sex with you and you want sex with them, use your bodies instead of devices.
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:44 PM
28

Word will usually kill the vibe. Use body language and escalate when the vibes tell you to.
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:39 PM
3

One side of you is telling you to be natural. To gain experience and knowledge. As much as possible. The other side is telling you to be a simp. To be worried about thing you easily control (std). That you should feel shame. I would advice you to avoid the side that wants you to worry and feel shame. Nothing good comes out of that. And please, there is nothing noble in being a simp. But since you are inexperienced be aware that the choice to enjoy as many women as possible is a difficult one. Yo…
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:24 PM
1

Masculinity is natural. Is biological. It’s not about cultivating it. It’s about removing all those political, traditional, moral and cultural layers that have been added through your life to diminish it.
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:08 PM
1

Looks mean shit if you don’t have social skills
/r/seduction03/04/25 03:05 PM
1

If I for some stupid reason wanted her to never have sex with anyone after me, I’m sure I could. But that is destructive manipulation and that’s not really my thing
/r/seduction02/04/25 09:19 PM
0

It’s the ultimate simping. Leaning on some fake idea of how the past was and playing a role. No chad would dream about doing that. And what would the woman do? Be a stay at home mom and get fat and lose interest in sex? Does that sound like something Chad would want? Your mentor sounds like a grifter.
/r/seduction02/04/25 09:01 PM
1

Why would I care if she slept with other men after me? If we end in a relationship and that lasts until the day we die, sure. But that’s not on my mind on a first date. I’m more interested if there is mutual attraction and desire.
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:58 PM
1

If you have social skills they won’t see you as a predator
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:55 PM
1

True. But doesn’t wanting a trad wife disqualify you from being a Chad? Chads can’t be simps
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:56 PM
1

Of course. Most people’s so called values are just a facade to make them feel better about themselves. They don’t mean much when biology and psychology kicks in. I’ve experienced countless of first dates where the woman is very upfront from the start that she could never have sex on the first date and is disgusted by those who do. I just smile and say “I understand”. A few hours later the same woman initiates sex with me. I’m not even surprised and I haven’t really done much. She convinces herse…
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:54 PM
0

How is your dating going? Interrupting people at the gym working out for you? “Bro..it’s a numbers game. Let’s do the same mistake 100 times”
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:40 PM
0

Not my experience from being in relationships 25 years and dated around 200 women when single. Women who have career and money don’t want or need a man who can flash money. The need something they can’t get themselves
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:37 PM
2

It was intended to be a start of a discussion where other who focus on social skills could join in. But I guess it pissed of the PUA crowd in here. “Bro, it’s a numbers game. Let’s make the same mistake 100 times” 😅
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:35 PM
0

Really? I e didn’t 25 years in great healthy relationships and when I’ve been single I’ve dated hundreds of women. I’m sure I know nothing about relationships and dating. How about you?
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:33 PM
11

Most women today don’t need a provider, so the provider mentality sounds more and more like simping. If a woman is dating you, she is most likely past any one she has been with before
/r/seduction02/04/25 03:24 PM
1

I actually did but the admins in here removed it because I was not “kind”
/r/seduction02/04/25 03:20 PM
2

Leave her alone. She is studying and has more important things to do than handle your itching balls.
/r/seduction02/04/25 02:00 PM
1

There are not enough chads to take all women. Believe me, I have tried. I don’t know if I would call myself a chad but a man with 2000 likes on the apps and date 7-8 women at the time. Chads don’t have the time or energy. If a man has thousands of women on apps who want to meet him, do you think he will meet all of them? Do you think the women will just wait forever until s chad chooses them? He will choose a few and ignore the rest. And those women will lower their standards because they don’t …
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:52 AM
1

Dating has actually never been easier. It’s a myth that is was easier in the past. I’m old enough to have tried dating in 3 different decades and things have never been better and easier for a man than now. The biggest diff is the competition. Today so many men have high expectations without wanting to make any effort. Black pillers and men who give up everywhere. It’s so easy to stand out. When I started to date as a teen in the 1990s every man did his best to beat the odds and get a woman. App…
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:41 AM
1

That’s where you use your social skills
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:28 AM
1

Have her approach you instead. Much more effective and you don’t have to look like the desperate dude thinking it’s s numbers game.
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:14 AM
0

Sound like an old PUA. When you say laid, do you mean “close by getting her number”? 😅
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:09 AM
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Never approach at the gym. Self sabotage and rude. If there is someone at the gym you want to approach, catch them outside when they are done working out.
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:08 AM
1

I decided years ago to master social skills and social competence. Mainly for dating and get more sex. But it has made job interviews and sale related situations so much easier, making friends (also places I would never dream of making friends) is easy. My network has exploded. Colleagues enjoy working with me. People just like being around me in general. And yes, sex is never further than a date away (or a text if I don’t mind so someone I’ve already been with). Pretty much everything in life g…
/r/seduction02/04/25 02:46 AM
3

Point three blows the cover. The other points are good though. Don’t be a simp. Never be a simp. “He never expected anything in return”. The mark of a simp. Always expect something in return. A relationship is about balance. You give and take. If you give and expect to get nothing in return, you are putting the woman on a pedestal and simping. And with time she will get used to that and expect that from you. But when you notice that, it’s to late.
/r/seduction02/04/25 02:14 AM
5

Was at one of my regular bars years ago and struck up a conversation with a dude who was standing next to me. Interesting discussion about the deeper meaning of life. He was pretty drunk and I was more or less sober. Suddenly I feel his hand on my ass. Ok. Didn't see that coming. He was probably gay and thats cool. But feeling my ass up like that?. Nope... I asked him "Is that your hand I can feel on my ass" in a polite tone that also showed him I wasn't into that stuff. He apologised and asked …
/r/seduction01/04/25 05:18 PM
-7

I wouldn’t spend time on it. It’s like if you said the earth was flat. Why would I bother trying to convince you that you are wrong?
/r/seduction31/03/25 06:40 PM
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Everything is wrong. Your post has no relevance to reality and is terrible advice when it comes to seduction.
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:51 PM
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Made it short and only told what set me a part from others.
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:44 PM
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is this really the level of posts in here?
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:03 PM
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Work on your social skills. Your looks or money mean nothing if you don't know how to behave around women
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:52 PM
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Work on your social skills. Become comfortable in your own skin. Learn to read a room and read a woman. It will make you naturally confident and your looks and hobbies won't really matter that much
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:57 PM
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Looks mean shit if you don't know how to behave. Work on your issues and social skills
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:32 PM
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When you on't even know what extrovert means, your whole text kind of falls to the ground. And what you are describing are men who only can do one things. One trick ponies. Most men are capable of being nice when it's needed to be nice, bad when that is needed and can lead when leading is needed. Don't be lazy. Don't be a one trick pony
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:24 PM
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Social skills is usually the problem. Social skills is by far the most effective way to seduce a woman. And, with all respect, nerdy guys often don't excel in that area. If you want to get away with the nerdy image start with your appearance. It's easier to change without it feeling fake.
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:21 PM
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Seduction is a whole lot more than approaching women. I would say approaching women isn't really seduction, but that's nothing we should spend time on discussing. But I agree about your main point. In the dating market there is competition. Every woman wants the best man she can get. How you stand in that competition used to be about how much you improved yourself more than others improved themselves. Back when I started dating every man tried his best. That still goes today. The more you improv…
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:01 AM
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Meditation and journaling are excellent tools for working on your inner game. It's difficult reading a room when your mind is full of noise and stress. Meditation cleans up that mess. Journaling, or just brain dumping by writing things down has helped me a lot.
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:26 AM
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Time and effort is one hell of a combination
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:11 AM
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The escalation from making out to having sex is the same as other escalations. You build up the tension and the vibes will reach a point where it's natural to escalate. I usually let the women escalate to the sex. It makes everything much easier for me and you don't have the women who regret it next day and accuse you for all kinds of shit. Build up the tension and read her signals and signs. Follow her and she will escalate the last step. Learning to drop everyone else when "spinning plates" ca…
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:31 AM
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Is sex the purpose of the hotel stay? Then it's no problem to talk sexually about it. If it's not, don't talk about sex. Talk about how great it will be in other ways. You don't want to create a bunch of expectations and pressure on her or yourself. that would be self sabotage. Be cool about it. When you go focus on having good vibes and enjoy each other's company. The sex will come naturally.
/r/seduction31/03/25 02:25 AM
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Eye contact to show interest. Be naturally confident and feel good in my own skin. Good vibes to make them feel - literally feel - that its safe for them to approach.
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:18 PM
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If you live in a city using a car when dating creates more harm than good. Not only does it make you and the date dependable on it, it also makes it impossible to have some drinks and have fun.
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:49 PM
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Always meet them at the venue. And always leave the date open ended. She should never feel she is in a position where she is dependant on you. She should be with you because she wants to even if she has the option to leave at any point. Picking her up and dropping her off is old school self sabotage.
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:48 PM
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I remember the average size of Texas women could be a natural disaster in itself
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:46 PM
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You worry too much. What's the worst that could happen? She rejects you? So what. Try again or find another woman. There are tons of good looking single women out there
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:44 PM
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Vibes never lie. Build up tension until it's natural to escalate. And give her the chance to escalate too. Keep it at a balance. If you've made out and things are going well, when the vibes tell you someting more needs to happen, ask if she would like to continue the date somewhere more private. Time it right and she will never say no
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:42 PM
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Oversharing is self sabotage. If your life situation is so bad that it makes you worry when dating, take a break from dating and focus on improving your situation. If you can handle both, don't share your situation until it needs to. That can be pretty far into the dates
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:40 PM
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Hang in there and keep working on it. Fuckbois have years of practice and hard work before they can fuck around. You started late. That's fine. But you still have to go through the learning process like everyone else. hand in there at it will come
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:33 PM
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The fact that you believe you know more about STD than health professionals says it all. Get of your ass and seduce some women. Learn from the advice given in here instead of talking shot about everyone who has more success than you.
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:04 PM
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Go with the vibes. In the early phase of dating you don't know her so you can't date to much. I dated a girl 4 times within 5 days. Sex on the first date and things were great until I found out she was crazy. I'm glad I found out the first 5 days and not 5 weeks if I had dated her once a week.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:38 PM
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I have two professional taken pictures on my profile. I'm relaxed in both. In the mix I also have good non professional pictures that give a more every day feel. So it's a balance of both and it makes wonders
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:23 PM
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I got a professional photographer take some pictures of me and added some to my mix of pictures in my profile. Gave me a couple of hundred extra likes a month. From around 600 to around 1000 The big change was my profile text. It easily doubled the amounts of likes.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:22 PM
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I have no interest in being an average dude. Don't see anything good in that when it's so easy being better than average. Staus is something YouTube grifters love to tell you matters. I have no status. I never talk about my finances and don't flash my money. I have spent years learning and mastering social skills and social competence. Reading rooms. Read a woman like an open book. Being able to match her vibes and know how and when to escalate. Make it very easy and safe for her to approach me.…
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:19 PM
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Don't know I f I can reply. Looks like they removed my post because it was "insulting". Make them know I'm interested and they feel it's safe to approach me. Meaning if I reject them it will be in a good way
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:12 PM
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It's a balance. It's easier for women to approach you if you are alone. We all know that from approaching ourselves. It's easier to approach a woman if she is not in a group. At the same time you don't want to be alone and give the vibes that you are a lonely desperate man hoping to get lucky. Plenty of men like that out there. I often go alone to places where I know the staff or know some regulars. Then I have plenty of small talk and won't look lonely and desperate. If I go with friends I hang…
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:08 PM
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Why? Doing this as a natural lifestyle for years adds up the numbers pretty quick
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:53 PM
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Yes. I set it up so they can approach me. Women very rarely cold approach. They approach when they know I'm interested and they feel safe about approaching. I make that easy for them so yes, I still make an effort. But the good thing is that I'm very rarely rejected. I don't set things up for a woman who hasn't shown interest in me. Yes, Mystery Method was my thing back then. Closing was getting a number. Not everything is bad in PUA. Like you say, social skills, communication, practice, escalat…
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:52 PM
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Usually 2-3 women approach me in a night when I'm out. If I like all three of them I take one and get the contact info for the others and set up a date within the next couple of days. If I don't like any of them I have a fun night and say goodbye The 150+ also include women I have meet through apps and in other situations.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:39 PM
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Bars, concerts, social events. Very rarely on the street, but it happens. Then there are apps. The easiest way to meet women. There is no approaching involved but the dynamics during the date are the same.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:35 PM
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Yes. I consider and adapt to risks in everything in life. I don't wear a life jacket when I take a shower to be sure I won't drown. I dont wear a helmet when I walk down the street even if there is a risk I might slip and hit my head. I do wear a seatbelt when I drive and a helmet when I ride my motorcycle. So obviously I don't wear a condom if I know I'm clean and the woman is too. That is just stupid. Communication is an excellent way to figure out the risks of a woman having any STD. Most att…
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:32 PM
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That is where you are totally wrong. When they approach me we have communicated a long time through signals. cues and vibes and she definitely knows if I get it. That is why she approaches me. My whole post is about how I let women know I get it before they approach me. Looks matter, but if you can show a woman you get it, looks aren't that important after all. The theory of market value makes sense in many ways. But the problem with these theories as that they don't consider the social skills b…
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:20 PM
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I have no idea how many women have approached me. Usually 3-4 every time I go out and I usually go out once or maybe twice a week. When it comes to sex I would say my average is 3-4 new women a month. Some weeks it's 3-4 new women, sometimes only one. So 150 is a good guess. I don't keep track. Not all of them are women I meet when I'm out. Apps have made it very easy to find women I can meet face to face. 7 matches and you can potentially set up dates so you have sex with a new woman every nigh…
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:12 PM
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Was married almost 20 years. Have a Ph.D. Great relations to my kids. Have a small group of close friends who have sticked together for more than 25 years. Learned to play an instrument at high lever in an adult age. Self employed and making enough to not have to work more than 25 hours a week. retirement plan that will make me keep the same financial situation when I decide I don't want to work anymore. Just to mention a few. And social skills have been a great help in all of those things.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:01 PM
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I take it you are too lazy to try it out?
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:57 PM
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Developing and mastering social skills and social competence over time so it become natural and something you do with natural confidence
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:55 PM
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Yes, you always have to adapt to the woman. That is also how you decide if it's worth it. When the vibes match things happen. She might not change her vibes so you will have to change yours. And sometimes that is not a change you want to do. If a shy and reserved woman shows interest, and you find interest in her, the vibes you have to focus on is that you are safe. That she does not have to worry too much about messing up or say something wrong. And it might take some time for her to open up wi…
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:54 PM
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This weekend I had one 19 year old approaching me and the next night one who was 55. I rejected both. Age doesn’t matter. The want a man who “gets it” and understands what they want. I think it’s easier for young men to have this approach because the have the time and energy to practice. And most young men are so occupied trying to impress, that the competition will be easy for a man who observes and reads instead of trying to promote himself. Older men have a harder competition when it comes to…
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:23 PM
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That’s true. It’s skills. And like all other skills you have to practice to become good. And you have to practice a lot over a long time to master it. We all want fast results either as little effort as possible. By investing in skills you might not get fast results at first, but you will get stable results over time. I chose to not cold approach but to master social competence. Reading s room, reading s woman. Knowing what she wants and when. I mastered those skills. If someone is more into col…
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:19 PM
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None. Get myself checked every 7-8 weeks. It’s free and easy to do where I live. They stopped checking for herpes years ago so I don’t know if I have that. Most people do. But never had any outbreaks.
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:14 PM
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Absolutely. But before you smile try to lock eye contact a little bit longer than feels comfortable. Let her be the one who looks away. Let the eyes talk first. When there is good and repeated eye contact you can escalate to adding a smile
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:12 PM
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Look around you. I’m sure you’ve seen men who are”naturals” and get women without making any effort. Those are the guys who have master the social skills. They are not that rare
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:10 PM
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My guess would be more like 4-5 new every month on average. Some weeks it could be 4-5 in a week. Sometimes even 2 new in a single day. The last three days have been two new and one I’ve know for a while. Dating apps makes it easy to find people and when you do the same thing I explained in my post, during a first date, the woman will usually initiate sex on the first date. So 2-3 new from dating apps in a week and then going out in the weekend and meet one or two there. Once you get used to it …
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:08 PM
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Nothing special about it if you know what you are doing. A good week I would have sex with 4-5 different women. Other weeks it would be only one.
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:55 PM
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Mostly niche bars. Not places tourists and “drunk once a year” crowd goes. I prefer places with some live music. My favourite spot is s low key bar in town that has a small dance floor and a DJ who plays lots of older pop music. It’s a place where lots of groups of women go for a girls night out. It’s not a place people go to get laid, but more to have a fun relaxing night out. I’ve come there on and off a lot and know the staff. So even if I go alone I’m completely comfortable and always someon…
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:53 PM
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Did you even read what I wrote?
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:39 PM
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You listen to way to many influencers. Money means shit. You don’t have to be famous. Do the most of what you can with your appearance and you’ll easily become above average. You’ll be surprised. But looks only give you interest. If you want to talk to them or even have them approach you, those social skills need to be in order
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:37 PM
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That’s exactly how it works. And I’ve been talking to a woman at a bar who has approached me, and noticed other women orbit close by waiting for their turn. And when I’m done talking to the woman or she leaves me for a moment, another woman will “by coincidence” stand next to me. Sometimes it’s even hard to believe myself. And yes. The plausible deniability is always there. But again, if she feels it’s safe to approach and she won’t be treated like shit if rejected, she will approach. So you jus…
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:35 PM
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Stupid and cowardice. If someone rejects you don’t run away like a little mouse. Then you have no self respect and everyone will see you as a loser. You simply say “Ok, it was nice meeting you. I wish you all the best”. Being decent and have self respect is never a waste of time.
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:26 PM
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Exactly. People forget that dating is a long term game (if you can call it a game). We want fast and instant results. With as little effort as possible. We try that year after year with very mixed results. You want instant results, but while trying to get that, plant some seeds that can make things easier in the future. It took me s couple of years to master the skills of reading a room and reading a woman. It didn’t give instant results at all. But things got a little bit easier for every attem…
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:24 PM
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She tells me that very clearly in non-verbal communication. The vibes she sends without even knowing it. How she looks at you, how she acts.
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:19 PM
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As I said, no need to be a 10/10. Just above average. And today the average is 2/10 because so few men do anything about themselves. Being naturally confident, comfortable in your own skin and give women the right signals, is all it takes for them to approach you. And since basically no men develop these skills, the competition is pretty non existent
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:18 PM
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Yes, the process can take time. With time you get to know the woman and her vibes and signals become clearer to you. But when you’ve got the skills you can speed it up and read her faster.
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:13 PM
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Yes, social competence changes everything. All social interaction become so much easier. Like Manson says in one of his books “Self development is the only real dating advice. Everything else is details or distractions”
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:11 PM
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No, that’s how many I ended up having sex with. I’ve rejected lots of women who have approached me. Really not that much. Let’s say I go out once a week. 2-3 women usually approach me when I go out. That’s 100-150 women in a year. I’ve gone out 3-4 times a month the last 3 years. That’s easily 300-400 women who have approached me.
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:09 PM
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Yes there are bullet proof signs, but it’s not the first thing you learn. It has a lot more to do with vibes than specific body language. First you just need to notice that she looks at you. If you have practiced you social skills you will have a good idea about why she does it and how interested she might be. If not, then just acknowledge she glanced your way and be cool about it. Just cool. No need to look away or act in any different way. Think “ok, she looked my way. Now let’s see if she doe…
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:31 PM
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Being a bit defensive? Every relationship begins with a date. Social interaction face to face. Getting attractive women is all about being better than average. And do many men don’t do shit about themselves so the level of average is ridiculously low. Don’t put women on pedestals. They are horny too. The want sex. They want sex with men they find attractive and who gets them. It’s up to you if you want to be one of those guys or not.
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:27 PM
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I wasn’t aware of what vibes I used to send, so I don’t have s clue. But now I’m very aware and can chose what vibes si send. Do I want to be seen as the happy energetic guy? The chilled laidback man bursting with confidence? The romantic? Or maybe even the very sexual? It all comes down to situation awareness and often matching the vibes from a woman. The classic mistake is when a woman sends romantic and sexual vibes and the man sends “nice guy” vibes. She will get bored very fast
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:33 PM
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It doesn’t even have to be amicable. All humans are lazy. When a single woman starts actively dating, the first thing she does is look back at her experiences. Maybe there was a man who wasn’t really that bad after all and worth another chance. That is easier than going out trying to find someone new. What we remember is what happened most recently. So how it ended will definitely matter. And because a vast majority are assholes when things end, just being respectful makes you stand out in s goo…
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:30 PM
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Not really. And if you have success with every woman you are interested in, you don’t really need high numbers. I once dated 7 women simultaneously. That was a very high number and it was demanding. Most men will be totally fine handling 2-3 women until it gets serious. Having one or two women approaching you when you go out, is not too much to handle.
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:23 PM
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See how people react. Ask friends you are with. What vibes do I send. I’ve even asked other men at bars I’ve small talked with. Most will gladly help And experiment.
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:20 PM
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When it comes to reading women I think the biggest problem we have is that we focus on what we like and are blind to what women in a room mind. It’s like we first decide if we like a woman and then try to find sign that she is into us. I do it the other way around. I first see if there are any women I. The room who are interested in me. I was surprised how other there usually are several. I never noticed before. Then you can decide if there are any of them you are interested in. Usually there is…
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:18 PM
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Just get out there and observe. My favourite place to practice was a shopping mall. I got a coffee and sat on a bench observing people. Is that guy happy or mad? Why do I believe that? What about this woman? Does she have kids? What kind of music do I think she is into? Why do I think that? That couple walking by. Did they have a fight earlier? Did they have sex? What lets me know. Then just make it a natural thing when I was around people. The skills grow quickly once you start getting things r…
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:00 PM
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I don’t know if there are any good resources. I had a good friend who took me out to practice and talk me through it. Then countless of hours practicing on my own
/r/seduction30/03/25 12:44 PM
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I don’t know if there are any good resources. I had a good friend who took me out to practice and talk me through it. Then countless of hours practicing on my own
/r/seduction30/03/25 12:44 PM
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Horrible advice. Learn social skills and social competence (real game) and you will succeed with every woman you try to seduce. You’ll get laid every single time d you try. No rejections
/r/seduction30/03/25 12:20 PM
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Social skills and competence is a super weapon
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:43 AM
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How does wanting to sleep with many women exclude wanting to have a long serious relationship? Horrible advice. Old PUA advice that was busted 40 years ago. Number games lol. Where do you find these advice? YouTube? I’ve had sex with more than 150 women within the last 3-4 years. I did not approach a single one. They approached me. They initiated sex. And I have had several serious long term relationships.
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:38 AM
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If a relationship or dating phase is over, that doesn’t mean your self development should be over. Only pathetic losers give up on their social skills because a woman rejects them. You are desperately trying to to avoid accountability and work on yourself. You are trying to find excuses to be bad at seduction and dating. Incel and black pill logic. Your approach to this is like shutting your pants and then complaining about the smell. Fine if you want to be a coward and loser no women want to ha…
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:30 AM
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Read books. Reading is considered attractive and if you read book about psychology and social skills you learn things that will make you better with women
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:14 AM
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What did you do? You tell a lot about what she did, but not how you reacted. There were a million possibilities to escalate. Why didn’t you?
/r/seduction30/03/25 11:03 AM
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Can I ask how old you are? You seem to have very little experience in self development.
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:23 AM
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I disagree in every single point. The list looks like a lousy list of excuses to not communicate. Seduction is about communication. Every time you shut down communication, no matter if it’s related to dating or anything else, you are damaging you social skills and self sabotaging. Very weak and incredibly stupid. You respect her decision and reply that in a respectful and well balanced reply. You are not prolonging anything by replying that you respect her decisions. Not replying makes you look …
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:21 AM
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Find a coach who offers advice for free. They want you to have success because they know how it feels. Coaches charging you are only in it for the money and will tell you whatever you want to hear
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:00 AM
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“Talking” is a term that is pretty new term in dating. Sound like something very lose defined to avoid accountability Option are always a good thing. But always remember to treat them great. If you don’t have time to do that, you need to cut down on
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:37 AM
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Not meeting people in person is a choice. I work a lot from home but always make sure I go out and interact with people every day
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:36 AM
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So “talking” is “dating”? Well then I date as many as I can fit into the rest of my life. Usually 3-4 at the time but I’ve tried dating as many as 7 simultaneously. That was too much
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:44 PM
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Online dating doesn’t exist. Changing your mindset to that dating only can be done face to face, will make everything easier
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:13 PM
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“Talking to”. You need to define that more. (Have clear communication will definitely make your dating easier). Talking as communicating? Talking as online chatting? Going on dates? Having sex?
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:08 PM
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Excellent explanation. I enjoy several of Strauss’ books, but yes, when it comes to dating advice, Manson is way(!) better. After my divorce dating really sucked and I was close to taking the black pill and give up. A friend, some would call him a fuckboi, dragged me out to a shopping mall and we sat on a bench with some coffee and he asked me to observe people and tell me what I thought they were thinking or on their mind. My first reaction was that he was crazy. But I gave it a try and we ende…
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:33 PM
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Yes, social competence is gold and something the old PUAs ignored. I don’t believe they are “naturals” in dating and approaching. I do believe some started very early in life to develop social kompetence and are way ahead others when the actually start to date. They look like naturals but they started the work very early on, probably without knowing it
/r/seduction28/03/25 03:17 PM
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Sound like a good and well needed sub. I’ve been active on some dating subs and half of the users are clueless and the rest just complain without any interest in learning or getting advice
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:26 AM
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At one point I was simultaneously dating 7 different women. Not my plan but sometimes things get a bit out of hand. I learned very quickly to never use or ask for names.
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:23 AM
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No. I keep all that off line. In my view online is never social and in dating nothing online really counts. In a relationship it can work. But not if you are just dating
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:20 AM
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Thanks for your answer. I know a lot about the manosphere and even was doing some PUA way back in the day (kind of embarrassing now). My question was more if this is a PUA sub or has more to offer. Been looking around and think it’s pretty good even though there’s some shit you have sort away to find the gems
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:17 AM
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Sure it happens. Sometimes I say yes to a date when a women approaches me, even though it’s not a woman I would consider approaching. It’s great experience and very healthy to get out of your comfort zone. And often you’d be surprised when you get to know them a little. Sometimes it’s a disaster but that is also experience and something you can learn from.
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:13 AM
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Because you are not in sync with the vibes and don’t read her signals that tell you where she is. If she wants you to be romantic and you are respectful, it’s a turn off. If she wants you to be relaxed and chill and you are caring, you get it wrong. She might not even think about it, but she can feel it. And it’s exactly the same for us men.
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:09 AM
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This is what works for me. And 8/10 times the woman will initiate sex on the first date (also the “I would never have sex on the first date” women). Obviously only if I’m interested in her. If not I make sure to not follow this mindset. It’s nothing fancy or manipulative. Just basic human psychology and biology. Have the right setting for the date. It has to be comfortable. Relaxed. Focus should be on the two of you getting a feel for each other. Never dinner. Never movies. Never any activities.…
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:04 AM
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Get them out in a date. If you have a date you know there is basic interest and attraction. Then it’s all about observing the vibes. Build up tension and escalation becomes natural. The vibes will tell you when to do it
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:47 AM
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Pretty stable advice. I’d say the dating part is universal and not dependent on the apps. My 4 year journey on Tinder. Created my first profile after ending a long relationship. Expected to get tons of likes and matches. The truth was 3-4 likes first month. Started working on myself. Self development works. Always does. Changed my appearance. New selfies on the profile. About 10 likes a month. Made my profile text shorter and more to the point. Cut down the number of pictures. Number of likes do…
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:41 AM
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Sound interesting. I’ll hang around and see if I can learn or teach something
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:07 AM
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Im not sure sim here to learn. Became single 4 years ago after a long marriage and was clueless when it came to dating. Focused on learning to read situations and understanding vibes and energies. Since then I’ve dated around 200 women, had sex with about 150 of them and had some relationships. What I do really works well for me. It’s super easy. I was more interested in sharing experiences with other men who have the same approach and experience.
/r/seduction27/03/25 11:55 PM
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There are two parts of it. Learning and practicing. You can’t skip the practicing -going out and being social. You can skip the learning process but you’ll end up spending a lot of time and energy not knowing what you are doing. Books can be great for the learning part. If you are totally new to books about confidence and dating, read classics like “No more Me Nice guy” and “Models”. If you find them too easy, start doing some research into psychology related to social interactions and understan…
/r/seduction27/03/25 11:30 PM
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Boys playing games and putting a woman up on a pedestal. Just don’t join the game. If the woman is worth anything she will avoid boys playing games.
/r/seduction27/03/25 11:00 PM
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The women I met on apps are the same woman I would met if I didn’t meet them on an app. An app doesn’t change a person’s personality. And everyone uses apps today so there is no specific type of women who uses apps. The don’t stick around because you don’t have much to offer
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:53 PM
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You go on a first date. Then you go on a second. And then a third. You continue and when you’ve lost count you are most likely in a relationship
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:50 PM
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