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PlataoPlommo/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:55 AM
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What the effing fuck is wrong with your government?
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:29 PM
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Holy shit, that is very different from what I am used to. Yeah, I am from Europe. Best of luck then.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 10:06 AM
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What, so you have to get "divorced" and divide your assets, even if you're legally not married? I don't come from America so your customs are unknown to me, except from what I can gauge from Reddit and other media.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:38 AM
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I think you should enjoy that feeling. Just be fucking rational about it. If you can manage to find a compromise between your sensitive side, and not forget yourself and your goals, I think you can manage to get great shit from both worlds, so to speak.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 09:18 AM
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It's been ups and downs over many years. Typical of people finding TRP, I guess. What made me clamp down and start engaging in the philosophy was a bout of being a drunken asshole. I realized I was growing into a person I disliked, who used alcohol to cope. That's a class-A shitty attitude to life, myself and everything around me. So I have become more determined to change.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 08:01 AM
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Why marriage? Having kids and not being marriaged is also a viable oppertunitie.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:51 AM
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Depends on her reaction. If she starts drifting towards him, I just leave, no hard feelings. Next her, or ghost her, or ignore her and him if you'd like. Sometimes they come back, sometimes they get caught up out of politeness and come back, in which case I will instigate contact again, obviously. I tend to dislike competing for a girl. If some sucker wants to "compete" with me, I let him win. I don't have a need to prove myself the better man. If not, I just brush it off. I tend to avoid showin…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:24 PM
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I understand where you come from. Introvert, extrovert, doesn't matter in my optic. If you truly believed in yourself, being an introvert wouldn't hinder you. I honestly think you ought to build up some self confidence in yourself. Girls will come then. You are worrying about issues from a wrong tile step.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:33 PM
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That really does depend on what you want, your expectations and, I guess, some sort of life philosophy? In my humble point of view, working on yourself (like TRP dictates) should be your absolute no. 1 priority. I believe that true change, confidence and such, comes from within and when you feel well. For me that means working out, doing some interesting things, like hobbies. Etc, etc. You catch my drift. I guess doing the methodical approach and approaching woman wherever you go could work up u…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:17 PM
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That is obviously an aspect you ought to work on, before you start grinding you teeth about your lack of humor. Obviously being anxious curbs that part of you.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:53 PM
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Perhaps humor is not your strong setting, and you should try other strategies. Work on asking good questions as well as becoming an engaged and active listener. I am not saying you cannot change that (lack of humor). Evidence for that can be found here and at the main subreddit. For me, humor comes from a place when I am relaxed and confident. Perhaps what you are lacking is true confidence? Is girls making you nervous? If that is the case, then approaching more and engaging girls will desensiti…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:36 PM
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Haha, crazy. But that is great, if it makes you happy. If you are her first sexual partner, and she watches a lot of porn, don't fret about it then. She obviously has no point of reference from real life (except you, now). You won't appear butthurt, if you collect yourself and tell her you'd love to talk about sex. Get to understand her, and her to understand you. If she thinks you don't last long, tell her the average man fucks for about 6 minutes. And don't forget yourself that sex isn't about…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:05 PM
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I think you are over-analyzing with a specific frame of mind. I say to you; fuck that. Get over yourself, get over your ego. If you fuck her as well as you do, then what do you have to worry? I mean, even if she said it in a "I was being serious but disguising my true intentions with a joke", depending on how well you like her, you should have a sex-conversation. Talking about ups and downs, what stuff you like, etc., etc. It is a great chance to actually talk about the stuff and lay it out ther…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 11:12 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:22 AM
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Good advice and a fair point. Thank you.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:22 AM
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Yeah, you are right. Thanks once again.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:41 AM
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I honestly think she is at work right now, and I honestly think she isn't going to fuck some other dude. Why do you think this? Another user pointed out that it is some power grab. Doesn't that honestly seem more likely? Thanks for your insightful post, I appreciate it. You are probably right. I made this post to see different view points, before reacting. I tend to become engulfed in my own feelings at times, and I'd like to be more clear-minded before taking action.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:31 AM
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Your post hit my stomach, like a stone in a pond. Or something, I'm not that good with words. Thanks.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:26 AM
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Thanks for your reply, man.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:12 AM
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I'd guess you can say it is complicated. We've spoken about it several times, but there is lots of seemingly legit excuses. I want to stress the legit part. It seem truthful. Why do you think she is considering cheating? We've just spoken seriously, and agreed we want to stay together. That breaking up, considering our conflict, was not an option to either of us. I take it seriously because, as I've pointed out in a previous answer, I do absolutely care about this girl and love her very much. I …
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:05 AM
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Fucking hell, that's an excellent point. What do you suggest one to do in this case?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:59 AM
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Pretty difficult considering we live together
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:55 AM
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Yeah. Hey man, I wasn't trying to be disrespectful. I am just trying to understand the situation from different view points. Why do you say she is manipulating me? And thanks for your replies.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:55 AM
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Probably, probably not? I mean, I am not going down the paranoid lane myself. I mean, I've had my own doubts, but nothing she has done suggests she got "side dick", nor does she strikes me as the type to do that shit. You follow me? Can you clarify exactly why you think this, without resorting to "just is"-arguments? I am not trying to patronize you, but rather try and understand.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:42 AM
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I figured the sex part was relevant, because it has been somewhat stagnant. It's the no. 1 reason why I look at porn. She has proven real value to me. I care about her deeply, and I love her very much. Up until this shit last week, our relationship was tight and happy. What's a soft next? The nature of the situation means that will most likely be very difficult regardless.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:30 AM
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Mate, you were the one who wrote "what?" to my post. So I am asking, if you'd like to chip in with your two cents, what part you'd want me to clarify?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:28 AM
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Fuck, we've been together for about 2 years. Its not some relationship where we look through each other phones. This is most likely a first, fuelled by her distrust and paranoia. I don't know whether she is lying about working late, the nature of her job allows her to work overtime.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:27 AM
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That would be shitty. Care to explain further why you think this is the desired course of action?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:11 AM
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What part don't you get, my man?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:11 AM
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Stoicism is still feeling, but not letting it bother you. You felt nothing, probably because you weren't so close, or perhaps you already came to terms with him dying.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:13 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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