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The divorce rate has been declining in the US, actually. Also, many people are choosing to live together without the paperwork. As far as children goes, children are expensive. A lot of people in their 20s are moving back in with their parents because they can’t afford rent. Moreover, these days women can delay children until they are ready to have them, thanks to birth control. They also can have babies later in life thanks to IVF.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:37 PM
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Not really. Do fame and money increase your chances? They certainly don’t hurt. But most women will never meet a Nick Cannon, and most women don’t want a guy with a dozen baby mamas either. Most women just want someone who is good to them and who they can build a life with. These days many people are struggling financially and would just be happy to find someone who can split the bills and chores with them, not fly them to fancy European vacations and buy them pounds of jewelry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:05 PM
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Because 18-year olds by and large want to date men their own age or within a few years, not 50 year olds old enough to be their fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:31 PM
9

"The Cock Carousel." "AWALT" "Men don't want to date women with careers." The constant, insistent N Count arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:01 PM
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They think it's a big secret and they personally invented it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:21 PM
2

And even many of the ones who haven't been sleeping around before settling down with a virgin, wish to emulate that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:45 PM
9

Yes, rejection hurts for everyone. There is no Suffering Gold Medal for the person who hurts the most. If you like someone and he doesn’t like you back, it’s a bummer. If it’s early on though, after 1 or 2 dates or before sex, you can both just say it wasn’t a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:14 PM
3

It’s clearly not a requirement since these men claim that they will settle down with a virgin after they’ve nailed every woman they can. It’s hypocritical because they don’t value virginity but they want virgins. For the bragging rights, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:04 PM
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The hypocrisy is they aren’t chastely saving their own virginity for their future wives and are in fact “ruining” virgin women who might have gone on to be virgin wives for others, while at the same time saying women are useless if they aren’t virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:54 PM
1

No, because women ARE shorter than men. Most of us, if we want to date, are going to be stuck dating someone taller than us whether we want it or not. I don’t know how many men I’ve met who are my height or shorter, but it’s not many. (5’). The hypocrisy is wanting to sleep with 20 or 30 or 50 women before settling down with a virgin. Or even worse, wanting to personally deflower 20 or 30 or 50 virgins because you think a woman’s maidenhead is a trophy showing what a stud you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:46 PM
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Personally I think that girl did what more people should do - she didn’t want to take something from you that you could never get back and have you regret it and resent her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:41 PM
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Some men do want a virgin while he has been sleeping around though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:39 PM
7

Hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:37 PM
9

I still contend that this is an excellent premise for a romcom. Passport bro and passport girl have a negative interaction at an airport bar. They end up on the same plane (“ugh!”). They somehow end up in the same exotic destinations and run into each other at the same bars and clubs and snorkel events (in my fantasy there are snorkel events). So like the first half of the movie they bicker and fight and then somewhere during all the snorkeling they fall in love. And then they turn out to be fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:53 AM
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I absolutely agree that RP should not marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:45 AM
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Have you done ayahuasca? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:01 PM
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The partner cheated so obviously we're all agreed they did something wrong, yes? Recognizing the reasons why someone might cheat does not negate the wrongness of the cheating, but it gives it context.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:43 PM
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I don't know what you mean by pre-modern. Do you mean traditional gender roles? There are still women that will go for that, if you don't mind a little religion mixed in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:40 PM
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This is nicely stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:35 PM
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Maybe you should ask your wife about that, but one couple's dead bedroom is not evidence that women dislike sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:32 PM
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Why is it terrifying? Wouldn't you rather be with a woman because she loved you, as opposed to she needs you because she can't survive on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:24 PM
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Not a society I would want to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:20 PM
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Women don't lose all their sexual appetites in LTRs and marriages. They might lose their sexual appetite during certain times, like when they have a newborn and they are recovering from childbirth, or during the first few months when their hormones are still out of wack and they aren't getting any sleep. And they may not want to have sex if the relationship is going through some troubles. That doesn't mean she doesn't have a sex drive, but that they don't want to have sex with someone they are m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:52 PM
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But men like bi women, so is what you are saying is that "hyper sexual drama creators" is what men want?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:40 PM
18

It is about penetration to you. We are not all you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:53 PM
2

And if a woman invited a man to her house for lessons and he raped her, a lot of men would be saying she deserved it for inviting him to her house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:51 PM
2

He wants to get over you and you're making it more difficult for him to do that by asking him to play Chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:48 PM
3

Wouldn't be hilarious if Passport Bro and Passport Sis met at a hotel bar in a third world country and end up falling for each other? That would make a great romcom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:47 PM
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Depends. Do you mean had some loving and fulfilling relationships in the past? Probably that person. Do you mean has fucked anything in a 20-mile radius? Not so much interest in that. Someone who has lived a life of loneliness and frustration, it depends. Is he loving and able to overcome his lonely and frustrated past, or is he using me as a scapegoat for all the problems he has had with women his entire life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:19 PM
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I’m not. But if you start saying “sex is a need” - which is debatable anyway - you’re going to have to figure out how you are going yo facilitate that. And how often is sex a need? Every day? Once a week? One a month? As opposed to say, food, which most people need to eat most days to stay healthy, or water, which you can die without.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:13 PM
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Oxygen comes in handy too though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:31 PM
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Whether or not it is a need, it is not something that you can force other people to give to you. Even with food - which is definitely a need, more so than sex - you can't just walk into a store and get something off the shelf without paying. You can apply for certain programs, like SNAP, which is already being underfunded and the Republicans want to cut it further. So if we can't be bothered to give food to children or solve the drinking water problem in places like Flint, Michigan, what makes y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:30 PM
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Maybe, but it also makes a descriptive insult. Filing away for future use.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:27 PM
4

Last I checked, punching someone is assault and a crime. Being bored is not a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:24 PM
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I don't blame you. I wouldn't want to give in-person lessons at my house at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:23 PM
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If you frame as what will happen to or be done to their sons, a lot of women are not going to ignore those issues. Similar with their daughters - we want our children to have the best shot at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:20 PM
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I think they could. I think there are definitely things that would be worth fighting for that impact men - circumcision, the draft, equitable custody arrangements. "Women suck!" is not a good platform though so it needs to be more compelling than that. Women love their husbands, their brothers, their sons so they would definitely support many of these causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:06 PM
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I don't even know what that means. Could you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:41 PM
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He can't do handstands, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:40 PM
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And he should definitely film the part where the employee comes out and tells him and he can't be at the pool dressed indecently! That was my favorite part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:38 PM
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I noticed it certainly, since it's a rather "in your face" thing to do. Not in the gym, not in a yoga studio, but next to the pool. In a Speedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:29 PM
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Oh, apologies. I thought you were OP. I never said that I would break up with a man for doing handstands - I said it was not on the list of criteria that I use to pick a partner. It's not in my OLD profile, certainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:25 PM
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"Conventionally attractive?" You said he was masculine to the point of being ugly (your words), with dark beady eyes and a large beard that obscures his jawline. How is any of that conventionally attractive just because he can stand on his hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:20 PM
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There's a guy at my gym who likes to do handstands in his Speedo by the pool. It's.... not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:08 PM
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Strangely enough, when asked what qualities I seek in a man, "can do a handstand" is not on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:56 PM
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Thad can't or won't display emotion, which means he can't show love. Why would anybody choose him, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:52 PM
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No, men feel severe pain when cheated on just as women feel severe pain when being cheated on. It's not comparable to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:42 PM
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And if a man wants to sleep around he too should leave the relationship, instead of talking about "muh sexual variety."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:36 PM
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Still not a good excuse for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:29 PM
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I would not be forgiving of a man who disrespected our relationship and put me in jeopardy of catching an STD, no matter how much "sexual variety" he thinks he needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:27 PM
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I think it's bad either way. I don't think men have it worse or women have it worse. Cheaters suck. The only way I can see it being worse for men is in situations of paternity fraud, but that's not going to be much of a comfort for a woman who has been faithful to her husband and then he comes home and confesses he got another woman pregnant and how "they" will need to pay child support and arrange custody for the other woman's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:25 PM
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Oh, that's easy. The men think dating a bisexual woman increases their chances of a 3some. Whereas the women think dating a bisexual man increases their chances of being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:57 PM
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Makeup doesn't take an hour. My entire routine is 20 minutes tops.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:27 PM
1

Why is it insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:25 PM
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We do express what we like in men. Just because some men choose to believe that "someone we find attractive" means they are not included, doesn't make it a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:23 PM
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I took the genuine belief to be that this is how men look at women, not how Lilith looks at women. In fact I suspect that is probably why she looks at it as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:20 PM
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It doesn't prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:18 PM
1

"Funny, kind, ambitious, loves dogs" is not advice. Those are just qualities that those particular women are interested in finding. And you can't magically become funny, kind, ambitious, or love dogs. You either have those qualities, or you don't. Advice would be more like, things you can do to improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:17 PM
1

Men should also not be allowed to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:23 PM
1

The rape kits they don’t bother to test?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:22 PM
1

Women have always worked. Surprise!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:06 AM
1

I don’t think they mind about the career so much as they want to have the better career.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:06 AM
1

Fantasizing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:04 AM
6

Short answer, yes. Long answer, yeeeeeeesssss.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:03 AM
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Muscles. Men think that women salivate over muscles. Most women, like most men, are fine with “not fat.” And many women don’t even care if you’re fat, as long as you are not too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:05 PM
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I think the majority of men are having sex without being married first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:44 PM
1

That’s not at all true. It’s a small percentage of men who are NOT doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:30 PM
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Lots of men are also sleeping around and aren’t marrying the first woman they sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:11 PM
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According to this article, most married couples in the US have an age difference of less than 3 years. Only around 8% have an age difference over 10 years. Oops, I was off by 3%. And only 1% of couples have an age difference of 28 years or more, which means indeed that over 95% of 18 year olds are not coupling up with 50 year olds. https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220317-age-gaps-the-relationship-taboo-that-wont-die
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:29 PM
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Most 18-year old women prefer to date men their own age. It’s pretty self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:34 PM
0

Ooh! Let me take a guess - Daddy issues!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:13 PM
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A delusional preference for 95% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:12 PM
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They could petition for a DNA test. It is what Larry Birkhead did to get his daughter with Anna Nicole Smith away from Howard K. Stern.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:44 PM
8

Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:42 PM
2

I have done this. I might consider it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:58 PM
1

That's a problem. Your girlfriend/wife does not want to be your mother. She wants to be your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:52 PM
1

Yes. 100%. All of them do. Most will not deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:38 PM
1

So why make it easier on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:02 AM
3

Betty White said, “Why do people say, ‘Grow some balls’? Balls are weak and sensitive. If you really wanna get tough, grow a vagina. Those things really take a pounding!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:40 AM
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No he wouldn’t. He’d be called a good provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:38 AM
1

I’ve always had a weird thing for Josh Gad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:37 AM
2

There are male writers for New Girl as well as female ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:35 AM
2

A friend of mine’s boyfriend tried to get her to watch Kevin Samuels videos. She dumped him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:33 AM
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By and large, gold diggers are digging gold, not killing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:27 AM
3

No, it’s just a very “you can’t fire me, I quit” dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:50 AM
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I just don’t see the incentive for women to approach. It benefits men, but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:31 AM
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Sure, but men can lie or misrepresent themselves. So why should women, who don’t have the sex drive you do and are more vulnerable to things like pregnancy and rape, approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:24 AM
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That’s what I am saying. She would be very interested in order to approach, and many men would take advantage of that to get the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:58 AM
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Because a woman would only approach a man she was very interested in, but a man would have sex with a woman he did not find all that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:55 AM
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Women don’t have the sex drive men do. They also do not find as many men attractive as men supposedly do women. I don’t think that much would change except more women would be used for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:38 AM
4

Men Sent Their Own Way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:10 PM
4

Long Island Serial Killer. Jack the Ripper. That Pig Farmer Guy. The Yorkshire Ripper. The list goes on. Serial killers like prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:20 PM
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Feminists aren’t the ones using, assaulting or murdering prostitutes though. By and large it’s the clients aka Johns who are doing that. Many of whom are MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:42 PM
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Most MGTOW are actually MSTOW. And they are the biggest advocates for using prostitutes. Prostitutes have a higher likelihood of being murdered than just about every woman except pregnant ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:02 PM
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You don’t need to accept every date you get asked upon. You’re allowed to be selective. You also don’t need to accept a date just because you think he is nice. Just accept the ones you feel positive about and forget the rest. Also dates do not need to be expensive - coffee, a drink, ice cream, a local street fair are low cost and a good say to get to know a new person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:56 PM
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Despite women not hitting their “sexual prime” till their mid-30s, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:56 PM
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If you have sex with a man at night and he does not want a reprise in the morning despite overtures, it can be bewildering.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:48 PM
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Not on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:42 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:40 PM
1

There was a couple like that at my gym for a few years. Then they started coming separately and at different times so I assume they broke up. After they seemingly broke up, when I'd see him he'd be lifting weights. When I'd see her, she would be talking to men who were lifting weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:40 PM
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I never get as much sex as I want in a relationship and I am a woman. On the other hand when I am not in a relationship I don’t really want it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:35 PM
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We're also supposed to choose them despite them being short, fat, or bald, but God forbid a woman be more than a pound overweight or over 25 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:12 PM
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I had a friend who was a stripper who got implants to increase her appeal. She had so many problems with them she had to have multiple surgeries and she ended up hooked on opioid painkillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:48 PM
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My uncle built his. He also built my parents' deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:01 PM
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Lots. I used to have an IUD and still insisted on condoms every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:40 PM
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https://youtu.be/OJWJE0x7T4Q
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:33 PM
2

Male platypuses are venomous. The loris has a toxic bite. Vagina dentata could be fun against would-be rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:28 PM
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Lots of virgins here. Most of them are guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:24 PM
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It takes me a while for someone to move from NPC to someone I notice. Unless they are absolutely drop dead gorgeous, which let's be honest, most people are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:22 PM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:52 PM
1

I love the Cure but I wouldn’t call them the best band ever. I’m not even sure I would call them the best band of the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:51 PM
2

Music is a hell of a drug. 100% would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:50 PM
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All of those seem reasonable except the negging. Negging is out in the open now so any intelligent woman will laugh at you if you try.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 01:47 PM
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Check the dead bedrooms sub and see how well that works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:32 AM
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Nah. Some people want to try new stuff. Others want to have missionary with the lights out every time. Some people have low libidos and others have high libidos. I would prefer to be with someone whose libido and interests are compatible with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:58 AM
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I’m not. I have one of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:23 AM
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I have an aversion to fundies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:21 AM
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“Girls always date assholes and bad boys instead of a nice guy like me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:05 AM
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And what you are describing sounds like one of those Christian busybodies that want to police other people’s private lives and would probably persecute members of the LGBTQ community too given the chance, so we will simply have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:01 AM
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They have to blame feminism. God forbid they take responsibility for their own lives. It has to be someone else’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:56 AM
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I do my best, but I draw the line at dictating what other adults do in the privacy of their own bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:54 AM
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I don’t believe in waiting until marriage and I do not regret having sex before I got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:43 AM
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Too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:19 AM
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Who wants to marry someone without knowing if you are sexually compatible? Sounds like a recipe for disaster for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 11:26 PM
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No, I don’t think they print those in paperback.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:46 PM
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I like to read in the tub. The moisture isn’t good for the books though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:40 PM
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Keeping the water hot and the water level high. It starts getting lukewarm and the water slowly drains out and your nice hot bath becomes a cold puddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:32 PM
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I’m wearing black right now sitting home alone in my apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:30 PM
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Bipolar disorder is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:28 PM
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Tell me you are not a woman without telling me you are not a woman. Yes, we do feel love. Yes, we do want sex. It can be devastating to love a man we love. It can be pure ecstasy to be with a man we are in love with. And why would women pursue sex if they don't enjoy it? Why would virgins be such an alleged hot commodity? If we disliked sex so much, we simply would not have it. Our sex drives might not be like men's - we don't want it with every man we see, like some men do. And though I can't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:45 PM
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He can go from a maybe to a yes by being charming and funny and he can go from a yes or a maybe to an absolutely not by being boorish.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:22 PM
3

Maybe 25/25/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:13 PM
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I don’t really rate men on a scale. Just yes, maybe or no. I prefer a yes; I have occasionally taken a chance with a maybe which has gone either well or poorly. I would not entertain a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:06 PM
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I'll take your word on that. I've only ever known him to be bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:53 PM
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I wouldn't find it cheating but I would find it distasteful and it may change my opinion of him for the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:48 PM
3

Christopher Meloni looks good too. Especially when he has the beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:16 PM
3

Thank you for not saying “but those are celebrities!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:15 PM
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I’m just using them as examples because you can picture them easily. Would you mind looking like either one of them? As a man, I wouldn’t mind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:14 PM
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Remove the money and the fame from the picture and they are still well built, attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:14 PM
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I honestly don’t know. I think it would depend on the friend and the situation - are they a serial cheater, did they do it once and regretted it, was it a mistake (maybe when out drinking) or was planned out, are they repentant or are they defiant. How long have I known this person and have they really come through for me in the past, do they need my support through a rough time or do they think it is NBD? And what are my opinions on my friend’s partner? I have stopped being friends with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:12 PM
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My preference is men in my friends group that I already know, or friends of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:04 PM
3

Vin Diesel and the Rock are both able to pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:03 PM
6

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:07 PM
5

Vaginismus is the word you are looking for. Vaginitis is an infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:38 PM
3

Divorce time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:35 PM
3

Manosphere men think Andrew Tate is the pinnacle of human intelligence, which makes them neither rational, intellectual, or high IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:33 PM
4

Maybe try raising the topmost age to 38 or 40. As a 4.5 and 36 years old, you might find it easier to get the attention of a slightly older woman than a younger one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:28 PM
5

For me it’s more like dick pics and getting too sexual right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:23 AM
2

I kinda thought they already do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:18 AM
1

I wouldn’t mind being proposed to with a Ring Pop if it was the right man. His grandmother’s ring is a family heirloom and has sentimental value beyond just the engagement, and I could pass it down to our future child sone day, should we have any. On the other hand I would probably be paranoid about losing it so I might just wear it on special occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 08:32 AM
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I’ve already said they should not do that, but you don’t get to excuse being a shitty person that easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:03 AM
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Your friends should not be enabling bad behavior. That said, the people responsible for that behavior are the men partaking in it. We don't let murderers go because they had a shitty childhood either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:16 AM
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That's terrible. We have a lot of kids in this neighborhood and they ride around on bikes and scooters. I'd like to think they are savvy enough not to pick up syringes in the parking lot, but they're kids and you just never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:42 PM
1

OMG housing prices are insane where I live. A one room shack would probably go for $500k in the right neighborhood. That's hyperbole but barely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:40 PM
10

The self improvement stuff is fine. And though it's tailored toward men, it's gender neutral advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 11:38 PM
4

Bad hygiene. Bad teeth - somewhat crooked is fine, a passing relationship with your toothbrush is not. Racist/sexist/homophobic. “Woe is me” personality. Bad fashion - hard to explain but you know it when you see it. Cruel or unkind. I don’t mind a guy who is a little overweight but not one who is severely obese. A chip on their shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:59 PM
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Okay. https://youtu.be/8EPEkk6qWkg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 10:51 PM
2

I walked to the store this morning to buy breakfast stuff (coffee, eggs). It's maybe a block from my house. I passed by 4 different cars with people sleeping in them and in the parking lot of the grocery store saw scattered hypodermic needles and syringes. I never felt the opioid crisis this keenly before. I suppose they could be from careless diabetics but I'm kinda worried about my neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:20 PM
3

No daddy projection here. Just repulsion toward men who look at their own daughters as sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:38 PM
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He’s the one that says shit like he would date her if she wasn’t his daughter. Pro tip: if you don’t want to be thought of as creepy, don’t say things that are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:23 PM
1

Incest is repulsive. Hope that helps! Don’t you have children? Should we be concerned?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:16 PM
1

My dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:09 PM
1

I'm sorry you went through that. I went through something similar with a guy in one of my classes in college - freshman year, didn't know anybody and I thought we could be friends. Then he met my boyfriend and the prank calls started.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:54 PM
1

Like if the husband or wife is in a coma for years and isn't expected to recover, maybe an affair is excusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:52 PM
1

Is there Star Wars porn? Always wanted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:36 PM
2

I would probably do this and get mocked by my coworkers for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:33 PM
3

Halloween stuff!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 06:30 PM
1

No, but you can usually figure out the ones that are. Something about the gaze, or the way they talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:35 PM
1

That one swinger guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 04:34 PM
5

I don't hate him but I think he is long overdue for some rest and relaxation AKA a stay in a hospital where they can try and treat him for his bipolar disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:27 PM
2

Nothing wrong with a lil rub and tug.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:26 PM
1

Not the same as sending a dick pic then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:06 PM
1

Men’s love is not steady. A man will cheat given the opportunity. Then say his cheating didn’t matter because he still loves his main girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:28 PM
2

A man who is cheating on his spouse is probably good at lovebombing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:26 PM
6

Never went to any frat parties the entire time I was in college. Never any sorority parties either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:17 PM
1

No it was a shot of him but you could see his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:34 PM
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That ass was attached to Jason Momoa. And it was a full shot, not just his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:33 PM
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Well, lesbians aren’t. Cis women are. Did you see the pics of Jason Momoa’s ass? They are circulating pretty widely right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 03:14 AM
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They could always ask first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:37 AM
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Women are attracted to men, not to body parts. I’ve never understood why they do this either. Also some of them send their dicks aggressively to be shocking, not to entice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:22 AM
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Now I want HoHos. Don they still make those?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:55 PM
1

I’m not you but I would take it. Sometimes you need to get out of your comfort zone to shake things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:52 PM
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I don’t go to the gym but I work out. I don’t eat fast food. I’ll drink but not necessarily get drunk on the weekends. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I don’t play video games. I like my job and it pays okay, but the benefits are better than most people’s. I don’t remember the last thing I watched on Netflix. Last season of Stranger Things maybe? I may have some poor habits. Procrastination being one, hence why I am here. No masturbation lately. I have a partner for sexual needs. I don’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:20 PM
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I prefer men with heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:13 PM
1

Drinking all the whiskeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:22 PM
2

Much alcohol was involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:46 PM
1

They don't usually say that. They say "I do it all the time and men get jumped more than women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:44 PM
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A girlfriend of mine who had a boob job invited everybody she knew to touch them. I don't know why. But my boyfriend at the time and I both touched them. It seemed rude to decline, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:43 PM
5

Why not just break up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:32 PM
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Your league is whoever you can get. If you can get her, she's in your league, even if she cheats. If they really don't want to be cheated on they should screen for red flags, her behavior, and the kind of bond you have with the other person, not her alleged league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:25 PM
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I'm not extroverted but I've found most people of either gender are oblivious to local or even national politics, let alone international. Also nobody reads books anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:21 PM
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Somebody else said it turned out to be a hoax. I have not looked into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:13 PM
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Well, that's good I suppose, for the sake of that little girl, but it makes my inflammatory link so disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:20 PM
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I'm on PST.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:16 PM
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Both men thought they were the kid's dad and they both showed up to pick her up from school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:15 PM
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Headline: Georgia men come to pick up their daughter from school, realize it's the same girl The mom had both men listed on the kid's emergency contact card and had told both men they were the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:13 PM
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I'm a little disappointed because I expected more outrage among the masses. I'll have to try harder next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:12 PM
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Don't stop belieeeeving...hold onto that feeeeeling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:07 PM
2

Okie!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:03 PM
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Why was it not male privilege that he got to sleep with his sister’s friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:57 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:50 PM
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He's not a billionaire anymore! https://www.tmz.com/2022/10/25/kanye-west-loses-billionaire-status-after-adidas-terminates-deal/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:50 PM
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Saw this article on r/NewsOfTheWeird and thought it belonged here. Have fun with it! https://www.foxnews.com/us/georgia-men-pick-up-their-daughter-school-realize-same-girl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:48 PM
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A whiskey bender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:59 PM
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It should be legal because it would be safer and could be regulated. I still wouldn't want my daughters to be sex workers, but stripping and porn starring are both perfectly legal and I wouldn't want my daughters to do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:47 PM
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I like the taste of coffee but it makes me queasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:35 PM
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Intelligence, humor, talent (musicians are popular), and ability to flirt with a woman in her own "language" - a way that meshes with hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:33 PM
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Looks lovely. Can you swim there? Are there sharks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:29 PM
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Me! I went to SF last month and it was the first time in like a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:25 PM
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They aren't gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:23 PM
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I can't drink coffee. It's been tea for me for about 10 years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:22 PM
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Half your age plus 7. You're fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:21 PM
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Aside from the possibility of being saddled with kids and child support before you even graduate high school, male victims of statutory rape often experience the same psychological effects as female victims - low self esteem, depression, and developmental problems. Here’s some light reading on the subject. https://psychology.stackexchange.com/questions/21921/psychological-effects-of-statutory-rape-differences-by-gender
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:24 PM
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My partner also sometimes complains that I do not split the driving, but when I offer he always says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:04 PM
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I do think so, but it’s not my business who other people have sex with as long as both are legal. I can still find it cringy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:50 AM
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Definitely. Most women just want one perfect one, which is not at all likely, but that is the goal. Most men want all the women they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:48 AM
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No they don’t. Someone who has had some experience, sure. But preferably that experience would be with a few LTRs not hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:46 AM
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Women don’t care about consistent casual sex though. That is a man thing not a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:43 AM
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Moo! 🐄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:40 AM
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I’ll take you word for it, i guess. I don’t know anybody in that line of work and I don’t go to clubs. I think I mostly know it’s thing because of television dramas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:24 AM
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I would assume a bottle girl would be youngish. Not like a 30-40 year old woman. A 22 year old working as a bottle girl to pay the bills, maybe as a 2nd job even in this economy, does not seem unreasonable to me. And a little less stigma attached to it than stripping or sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:09 AM
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I don’t think it would ever be a bad thing to meet “the one.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:44 AM
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Eep! Did you need stitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:43 AM
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That was what I was thinking too. The not much different than a bartender thing, I mean. Or a cocktail server.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:13 AM
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Not everybody wants to get married, and not everybody wants to have kids. If, for some reason, they decide they want kids after all, they could always adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:24 AM
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Single women can't even get tubal ligations in many places because "your future husband may want kids."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:19 AM
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I don't think that's true. A single woman is assumed to have something wrong with her because "but don't you want to have KIDS?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:06 AM
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Dunno what to tell you about the stock broker. Some women don't like dating shorter men than they are. Some men also don't like dating taller women than they are. And other folks don't care about stuff like that. Super nerdy dudes are my kryptonite though so it doesn't surprise me that the two that you mention managed to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:04 AM
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There will probably be the reverse scenario posted in a few hours where the wife always has to give her husband blow jobs. These things always show up in pairs a few hours apart because Reddit has become the place where people make up stories and pretend to be the opposite gender to try to prove some point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:56 AM
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I'm not male, but is there something wrong with being a bottle girl? It's a job. It's not stripping or prostitution. Everyone has to make a living. Is there something about bottle girls I do not know that makes them not worth dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:52 AM
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A true alpha doesn't need to act alpha. He just is alpha. Maybe that's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:47 AM
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A form fitting t-shirt that shows off muscular arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:35 AM
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Can’t you talk about likes and dislikes and do what is compatible for both of you? Is it necessary for either party to dominate? Unless, of course, that’s your kink and your partner consents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:01 AM
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Platypus. Because they are delightfully paradoxical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:44 PM
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Truth. My drain is filled with strands of my luxurious hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:43 PM
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I went as Carole Baskin in 2020 and I dressed my dog up like a tiger.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:42 PM
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I didn’t do OLD for long but I wasn’t meeting “my type” and honestly, a photo and a few quippy lines doesn’t tell you enough about a person. I think I’m just old school and prefer to meet IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:54 PM
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No. He is a cheater. Cheaters have no value to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:34 AM
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I don’t know. According to red and black pill dogma my ex should not have had an easy time cheating. He was 5’7” and Pacific Asian which allegedly are not attractive qualities (according to you guys). But he still managed to cheat twice that I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:49 AM
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He doesn’t but he is representative of estimated 20% of men who do cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:28 AM
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Neither of the women my ex cheated with were prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 03:18 AM
2

Considering the ease with which men cheat, probably less difficult than the men here claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:34 AM
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Women don’t have it better. You hear wisecracks all the time about how women starfish in bed, or don’t give BJs, or dead bedroom their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:15 PM
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Sone men do not want to communicate or try new things in bed and very often don’t care if a woman has an orgasm. I’m not saying all women are good at it either, not at all. The point is yeah, some people of either gender are just not good in bed and do not aspire to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:03 PM
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I’m honestly indifferent to seeing it but I certainly enjoy having sex with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:33 AM
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A woman in love will tolerate a lot of dumbass shit from her man that other men would not be able to get away with, such as dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:13 AM
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Q4All: what are your go-to Halloween season/horror movies? The difficulty would be that my husband does not like gore so they would have to be sufficiently spooky without being excessively bloody. A little topical blood is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 03:10 AM
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My husband in my humble opinion is a very attractive older man - athletic, handsome, well built. Whereas I am built like a Shetland pony - short, stocky. He still has the ability to make me feel like the most beautiful person in the room even though I know pragmatically I am not. Mind you, I’m not ugly per se, but I’m certainly not a model or actress. But he makes me feel that way. I think that is an aspect of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:47 AM
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I can’t speak for other women but it does nothing for me. But I’m into erotica as opposed to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:39 AM
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I never have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:38 AM
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I don’t, but I tolerate them from my husband because he’s my husband and he is a dork. And it’s a rare occasion when he is in the mood for that sort of behavior in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:37 AM
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Yes. I have gotten them in Reddit dms with an accompanying message along the lines of “suck on this, Stacy!” That’s an actual quote btw. I always ask them if they’ve consulted a doctor. It confuses and frightens them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:36 AM
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Yes, it would be better if no one sent dick pics WITHOUT the express consent of the person you are sending it to. Otherwise you’re just the internet version of the flasher in a raincoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 02:34 AM
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If he wanted to wait until we got closer, I would be fine with that for maybe a few weeks or months. If he wanted to wait till marriage we are not compatible. I don’t want to marry someone and then find out they suck in bed after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:47 PM
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Why should she find another man, if she’s capable of supporting herself? With her own money she can take time and find a partner that is the whole package instead of marrying the first tradcon who comes her way and is willing to foot the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 11:08 PM
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I don’t want to be dependent on a man. For one, I would rather be self sufficient. For two, husbands die or run off with their secretaries. A woman with children should keep at least one foot in the working world or she’ll end up with no way to support those kids. These days a lot of companies are offering telework opportunities. I think that would have been so handy when my kid was little, though still would have had her in preschool at least part time for socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:58 PM
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You are wrong. The seat and lid should both be down when not in use. It’s more hygienic and more aesthetically pleasing. Also if you have pets or small children, it helps keep them from playing or drinking out of the toilet bowl. And it’s also fair to both parties!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:10 PM
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That depends on a variety of factors. Some men have trouble performing when they drink, for example. And some men if they haven’t had sex in a while might prematurely ejaculate. It depends on whether he has the warmth and sense of humor to carry it off. I’ve had lousy sex the first time with a man that turned into a multi year relationship, and I’ve had lousy sex with a man that never got a re-do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:08 PM
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It does no good to say anything about it. If you object to your child’s choice of mate, they’ll just dig in their heels and feel like they need to make it work to prove you wrong. The best thing you can do is keep your mouth shut and let your kid figure out their own relationships. Unless the other person is abusive or something. But if it’s just about leagues, STFU if you don’t want your kid to hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:59 PM
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I did for a few months. I wasn’t meeting the types of guys that (a) are my type and (b) wanted a relationship as opposed to just sex, so I wasn’t on OLD for very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:38 PM
4

Maintaining a strict diet will keep you thin but it will not provide you with the muscle definition that weights will.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:02 PM
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Because it causes me pain without an industrial strength sports bra.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:04 PM
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For me it’s proof that if God exists he definitely does not want me to take up jogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:42 PM
2

As long as they bring wine and dark chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:06 PM
2

Still an atheist though as always I do like your style.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:04 PM
2

Is this a new form of negging?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:02 PM
3

And treats! Gotta spoil them with treats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:50 PM
5

I’m an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:46 PM
3

Whenever I babysit my grand-dog I always take him to the river or on one of our hikes. He loves it. My daughter is very much a city person and she might take him for a walk or the dog park but not for a big long hike. And it tires him out so he stays out of trouble (we have our own dog and 2 cats that he likes to fight with).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:42 PM
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Heavy petting, over the jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:00 PM
3

He’s not an incel, he’s just bitter because Raenara or however you spell it wouldn’t abandon her position as heir to run away with him and now she’s sleeping with some other dude who has given her 3 children who look nothing like their “father.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:59 PM
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Plastic surgery is a billion dollar industry. As long as they can milk your insecurities for cash, it will continue to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:57 PM
1

I’ve been to bachelorette parties where maybe the cake is in the shape of a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:55 PM
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Put the check in your pants. Tell her that she can choose - she can pull the check out of your pants and you’ll pay the whole thing, or she can decline and go Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:32 PM
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Those hussies show their ankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:29 PM
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No, I already said we meet at someone’s house and sit at their table drinking wine. Which we do. Does Chippendales even still exist? I thought they closed when the owner was arrested on murder for hire charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 03:23 PM
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I just assume it has to be Sophia Loren, even though it probably isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:42 PM
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Yeah but they’re at a strip club or a Hooters. It’s different. I’m pro boys and girls nights out though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:11 PM
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Sitting around a friend’s table drinking copious amounts of wine and eating snacks is the standard agenda for my girls nights out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:05 PM
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I don’t. It’s a wonderful opportunity for me to get the house, couch and TV remote to myself for a few hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:03 PM
2

I misread that at first as spiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 04:22 AM
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Sex robots will never replace women. They will placate some sexless men, but there will always be those that prefer the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 01:17 AM
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If that is what you are into, sure. As a not-virgin, that is my last priority in choosing a mate. But I don’t judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:49 PM
2

I love that ridiculous show.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:33 PM
1

It's the end game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:32 PM
2

They should definitely be good at repairing things. So should women. There are plenty of DIY tutorials on Youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:31 PM
2

It can also be the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:24 PM
1

🤷‍♀️ I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:24 PM
1

He still does, plus the beard is super hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:23 PM
3

So blame the mostly male governments and male presidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:54 PM
3

It's not shaming to let you know that an employer generally won't hire a stinky individual. But you go, boy!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:46 PM
1

What do you create in those three minutes? This one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:44 PM
1

I don't get this reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:34 PM
3

Your downvote sure proves your point! Should I downvote yours in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:33 PM
2

My prior post continues to be true, and relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:27 PM
1

Then yes. I never made it past the first season though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:25 PM
3

Your boss should not have to formally tell you. For one, the dress code is typically in the employee handbook you're required to sign upon getting the job. For two, as a human adult you should have some self respect and dignity. If, however, you do not have these things and choose to be a hot sweaty mess, don't later complain that women don't want to have sex with you because it should be clear why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:24 PM
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It's not irrelevant. There was no reason for Putin to invade Ukraine and many of his citizens are turning against him because of it. Meanwhile people are going to Ukraine specifically to defend it against Russia and women are staying to fight alongside the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:21 PM
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And women in the Ukraine stayed voluntarily to defend their country along with the men. If your cause is just, people will fight for it. It is why I am against the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:16 PM
1

The TV show?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:15 PM
8

Neither are women, but that doesn't stop the men here from claiming AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:14 PM
1

It's controlling, which is a step on the ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:11 PM
3

Well, if you have a job at least part of the point would be to be presentable at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:00 PM
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For a family that includes a member that abdicated a crown for love and with a king who was forced to marry a 19 year old instead of the love of his life the first time around, you'd think the Royals would be more understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:57 PM
2

And he clearly adores his wife, even if the rest of the world lowkey hates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:52 PM
3

As long as you don't mind taking the never get close to a woman pill, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:51 PM
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Neither do men have problems insulting and shaming women, but last I checked men are the ones complaining about not being able to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:50 PM
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I would laugh and go find an FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:47 PM
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She needs rehab.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:46 PM
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I can't imagine standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:44 PM
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Harry's an attractive man. I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:42 PM
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You know who is orchestrating those wars? Men. So blame yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:42 PM
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I used to work with a man who would go to the gym at lunch and did not shower before returning to the office. I urge men not to do this because there is no worse hell than being stuck in an elevator with such a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:40 PM
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⁠They hit you - definitely ⁠They lied to you - no, but still bad ⁠They cheated on you - no, but still bad ⁠They coerced you into a sex act you originally didn’t want to do - maybe They coerced you into a sex act by telling you if you don’t they’ll find someone who will - why am I dating this person again?⁠ They refuse to do 50% of their share in the household - no, but a red flag ⁠They support you while you stay at home and expect you to take care of most or all of household duties - no ⁠They te…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:16 PM
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It could be because as the Covid stuff goes away and more people are going back to work in an actual work setting perhaps? I’m still working from home, so yoga pants and shorts/tees are my go-to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:54 PM
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I think things go in and out of fashion. There are younger women on the more liberal side that make it a point of pride not to shave their pits for example. Growing up with the mother I did, I can respect that. You won’t find me doing it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:45 PM
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But you do want me. Well, not you specifically, but as a woman person I’ve never suffered a lack of male attention and relationships. As such when they do dumb things like not wanting me to keep my friends, I can just dump one and date another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:26 PM
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I shave. My mother is a true 60s flower child and has never shaved in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:23 PM
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I wasn’t aware they’d fallen out of favor. I like dresses. Much more comfy than jeans, albeit less likely to have pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:22 PM
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Yes. I would. It’s an issue that has come up before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:20 PM
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But you can force a woman to bear a child she doesn’t want and even if the pregnancy could even kill her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:19 PM
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You think it’s reasonable to demand your partner not have opposite sex friends? I would end a relationship if my partner insisted on that, but I have close male friends going back to elementary school. There is no dick in the world more important than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:17 PM
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Similar rates of DV but not similar rates of murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:12 PM
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No, they’re sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:11 PM
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I’m not misinterpreting comments. I’m literally quoting you. I am wondering why you would need to resort to violence in the first place. Is life some sort of a grade school playground where you need to resort to fisticuffs instead of using your words?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:05 PM
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99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:52 PM
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No, it just means he wants to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:50 PM
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So men can’t control their emotions? And yet you claim to be the logical gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:48 PM
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He’s hoping to find an 18 year old to date at 30, most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:41 PM
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I took the line “you just don’t hit a woman” and ran with it. Why, as a presumably adult, would you need to hit anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:38 PM
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Why do they have to like hunting? My father didn’t. Neither did my stepdad. Neither does my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:36 PM
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The Boy Scouts did fun stuff. The Girls Scouts got to sell cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:33 PM
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Sure they do buy video games. If there’s a console created since 1992 my family has owned it. My daughter learned how to read by playing Pokémon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:32 PM
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Then it’s probably a religious group.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:30 PM
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An all women group doesn’t need to be peak drama. They can be pretty awesome as friends and as a team.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:30 PM
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Men: “why don’t women want to date us?” Also men: “why can’t we exclude women and make vulgar jokes that offend them?”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:26 PM
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When I was part of it the Girl Scouts was mostly about selling cookies and sewing patches while I wanted to camp and do all that outdoors stuff that the Boy Scouts offered and the Girl Scouts at least in my area did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:23 PM
1

You don’t have to hit someone to let them know they are being an asshole. A few cutting remarks suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:19 PM
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Women have been playing D&D since its inception. Or at least I did, and some of my girl friends as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:16 PM
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Intellect, talent and a sense of humor are all things that can be arousing in a man to me. Without them, a man is boring no matter what he looks like. An attractive mannequin is still just a mannequin and lacks sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:04 PM
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I did not say “boring.” Do you see that word in anything I wrote? I said I want to be loved and respected as an equal by an equal, not worshipped. I said that I want someone who loves me and is loyal to me because he wants to not because he is forced to. Anyway the point is moot because either way I don’t want to be made to marry at all; I would want to marry the person I am in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:10 AM
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My father was probably the one supplying me the alcohol when I was 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:27 AM
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Many of them probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:26 AM
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I think they are cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:25 AM
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Count me in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:31 AM
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We know it just fine. Having empathy for young girls damaged by ridiculously older men is not the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:28 AM
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Yes. I know that men don’t care about the damage they inflict on women as long as they get their dicks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:19 AM
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It’s not “world salad.” I hope someday you get the help you need to recover from your abuse at the hands of a woman old enough to be your mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:18 AM
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Age is not irrelevant. There’s a power imbalance you’re ignoring between a 45 year old and a 22 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:03 AM
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My daughter would be grossed out by a 45 year old hitting on her though, so she was raised right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 02:02 AM
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How nice for you that you were molested as a child and suffered no trauma for it. Plenty of other people do suffer from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:45 AM
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It’s what is is. You can’t buy alcohol or go to bars until you are 21 in this country. Take it up with the government if you disagree. Sure, you might be from another country, but Shipka is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:43 AM
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Yes, she’s been allowed to drink in bars maybe a year. She’s barely legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:40 AM
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Because a lot of us have been through bad experiences with much older men, yes. I know it’s not easy to comprehend empathy, when you’re a man who wants to date women young enough to be your children, but you can always try.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:37 AM
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Yes. We are protective of our friends, especially if they are drinking and we want them to get home safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:34 AM
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As the mother of a 20-something I find it creepy and predatory. It’s not “infantilization”, it’s concern for a barely legal adult. I hope it doesn’t damage her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:33 AM
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No, unless he flirts with and sleeps with his male friends. NTTAWWT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:28 AM
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Block.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:43 AM
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Women do like men. And no, the S/O is not emotionless. What would be the point of that? Women are people and people want to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:40 AM
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It doesn’t matter if other women want to hook up. SHE does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:30 PM
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Is it really so insane a standard to want someone who isn’t just looking for casual sex? Sound’s perfectly reasonable to me. It’s the men that sound like the problem. Aren’t there hookup apps they can use for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:29 PM
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So you’re exactly the kind of person she is saying she does not want to date, then. There are plenty of other types. Don’t try to defend behavior she doesn’t agree with. Just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:22 PM
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Whether or not that is true, there is no obligation for a woman to take part in hookup culture if she doesn’t want to. And it’s legitimate for her to want to date a man who has similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:21 PM
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Because you like them as people, usually. Just because I don’t want to date someone doesn’t mean they aren’t cool or fun or that you wouldn’t enjoy socializing with them outside of the specter of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:17 PM
2

Yeah it was the serpent that tempted Eve who in turn tempted Adam. Dick move, creating the serpent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:10 PM
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He punished both. When, if “He” created everything, it’s “His” own fault for creating talking serpents and trees with magical fruit that inform you that you are naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:02 PM
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Oh yeah, everything is women's fault. Since the birth of religion. Eve tempted Adam to eat the fruit like Adam had no capacity to say "no thanks."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:36 PM
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To an extent. I don't want STDs, I don't want someone who doesn't respect sex and women, and I don't want to date someone who has been with all my friends. But I don't care if he's had a few one night stands or an FWB here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:34 PM
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Not unless men do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:30 PM
5

I wish my gender would stop making stupid people famous. Kardashians, Real Housewives, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:30 PM
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Probably B. Which is what most women want and expect. I don't want to be worshipped; I want to be loved and respected by an equal, as an equal. And I would rather someone not cheat on me because he doesn't want to, not because some magical power forces him not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:28 PM
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I will absolutely do this if he demands something without a please, thank you, or even a question ("Get me a drink!" or "Make me dinner!" or something like that); but not if asked to contribute ("Honey, can you grab me a soda from the fridge?"). There's a difference between asking and demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:20 PM
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No, there is evidence backing up that men and women are abused at similar rates. There are also not as many safety nets for abused men that there are for abused women. Holding the view that because men are abused at similar rates to women that women who did nothing to you deserve to be abused, that would be a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:18 PM
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Women don’t have fewer options per se - but sex workers definitely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:56 PM
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And women routinely died in childbirth throughout human history. We had our own battles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:25 PM
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It’s mostly 20 year old single men and 50 year old married women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:23 PM
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No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:21 PM
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1 for a woman, 4732 for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:21 PM
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OLD is already low effort. Ooh, you answered a question she picked. That’s not really leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:19 PM
1

Lol my school offered a dry cleaning class and my kids’ school had an ROTC program and culinary arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:17 PM
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Odd that neither I nor my children who grew up in a different state than I did were offered this allegedly universal course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:07 PM
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Other men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:05 PM
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Do you ask? Or are you expecting these women to volunteer? And again, are you paying attention to body language and her vocalizations, or are you expecting a step by step instruction manual from her?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:03 PM
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No they don’t. You might get home economics, which is just basic cooking and maybe how to sew. They don’t teach you how to budget, do your taxes, balance your checkbook, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:59 PM
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They are not less susceptible to death from war. Women also can be in the military and in addition to the aforementioned death they can be raped, often by their own side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:57 PM
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Who is mocking and bullying single men en masse? Not having sex with you isn’t bullying. Not dating you isn’t mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:56 PM
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So sell your nudes. 🤷‍♀️ Not all of us find prostitution a viable career option. Aside from being exploitive and and degrading it puts you in danger being raped, murdered or contracting STDs. I have empathy for sex workers but I don’t want to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:17 AM
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Dunno but those are the first things listed under female privilege in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:11 AM
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I stopped taking this post seriously when you listed OnlyFans and prostitution as privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 04:05 AM
4

High school needs to offer adulting classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:14 AM
2

I loved Lord of the Rings but I couldn’t get into the prequel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:55 AM
1

If she really loves you she would if you asked her!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:38 AM
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You’ll never know unless you give it a whirl! Maybe you can ask a woman to peg you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:32 AM
2

Sure you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:30 AM
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Me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:25 AM
4

Like if a child does not like a particular person and does not want to be left alone with that person, you’ll probably need to ask yourself why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:23 AM
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As a parent, I think you can take a child’s opinion seriously on many things. Not necessarily whether they need to eat their vegetables and brush their teeth, but other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:20 AM
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I’m just saying, properly done anal doesn’t need to hurt at all and can give you intense orgasms. Poorly done anal makes you feel like you are in the worst pain of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:17 AM
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That’s not really reassuring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:09 AM
2

Sean Astin is kinda cute so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:00 AM
1

Wouldn’t it fucking you in the ass signify that it is probably male? Or would it use a strap on or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:58 AM
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I don’t even need to watch to know I would rather bang PSH. Well, not now, because he is dead. But even dead I am sure he is not as annoying as Adam Sandler.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:36 AM
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Sometimes your family is what you need to vent about and why you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:34 AM
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Taking my dog to the woods is my therapy, gym and church. I do have a gym membership as well but it doesn’t have the same impact emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:33 AM
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I think so. Let me check….. Yup, still a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:31 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:25 AM
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I don’t believe so, unless you hate women because you can’t get laid or feel the need to shoot up an elementary school over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:16 AM
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I’m not a hookup warrior, I’m married. I do all that romantic stuff with him. A lot of times we try that stuff out with a new partner before we decide if we love them. That’s not abnormal. It just is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:14 AM
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I don’t think there is anything wrong with finding someone you are trying to date attractive. You WANT your partner to think you are attractive. Now she is noticing other stuff that is not so attractive. That’s fine too. That’s why you date someone - to find out if you want to be with them for the long haul. She’ll probably break up with him eventually and get with someone else and that is fine too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:12 AM
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Lots of people hook up and make out or have sex without loving the other person. I can't honestly say that I have loved every person I have ever kissed. A lot of first kisses at the end of a date don't necessarily make it to a second date. The same can be said of sex, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:56 AM
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She also mentioned sense of humor and how he told her in the beginning that he moved in with his dad to help him out. That last bit turned out to be not quite true, of course, but it probably sounded like a good father/son relationship at the time she first heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:54 AM
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Nobody called you an incel but by all means hear what you want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:51 AM
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You didn't really insult me because I don't believe you. But keep trying!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:50 AM
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Yes, everyone on PPD is a 1%er with impeccable credentials and an amazing physique. It does beg the question “then why are you here?” Obviously the answer is to insult all of us little people who could never measure up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:23 AM
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I'm aware that statistically, men do overestimate their appearance and women underestimate theirs. That doesn't mean you should think of yourself as ugly. Most of you probably look fine but don't have the confidence to carry it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:03 AM
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Many prostitutes will have sex with johns but they won't kiss them because they don't love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:02 AM
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I didn't say "stay with one partner." I said most people learn what their partner likes by being with that partner. Not through teaching, but experimenting and observing. Yes, communication should be part of that too, but you aren't asking your partner to teach you to be a good lover to other people. You are learning about what your partner likes, and some of that will be useful in other relationships but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:00 AM
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Most people learn with a partner. They aren't trying to slay, they are trying to make their one partner happy in bed. If you are switching out partners daily you won't learn much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:56 PM
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You can't observe her in action? Pick up on her verbalizations? The way she responds to touch?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:53 PM
2

Sex does not equal love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:51 PM
2

Why do men need women to teach them this? Aren't you supposed to be into that whole "ask a fisherman" thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:50 PM
3

I would not trust anyone to take care of my finances, personally. That's my money. I earned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:32 PM
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Never. The answer is never. He will never take or seize authority. If he tried he would be sorely disappointed. We talk about things. We come to decisions together. I'm not his underling and he's not my boss. Also since I have my own money it's not like I couldn't walk away if he decided he needed me to "respect his authority." What is wrong with people....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:30 PM
2

Says you. A well built silver fox is hot. Extra points for a beard and tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:14 PM
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One. My husband. And you can make that the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:12 PM
2

Utah = Mormon. I’m suspecting an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:09 PM
2

Well yeah? We don’t ship our first born off when a new kid is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:07 PM
2

I’ve never attended medical school. But according to this whites make up 45k of the med school enrollment while Asians are at about 22k, the second highest. Native Americans are the ones that should be pissed. They only get 170 people. Pacific Islanders get it even worse with a whopping 70. https://www.aamc.org/media/6116/download
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:06 PM
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Hence the “and date” in my comment. Perhaps you stopped reading after “married.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:55 PM
1

Statistically, not-white men get married and date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:42 PM
1

What's wrong with being good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:38 PM
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He doesn't need to be white. Source: Married a not-white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:27 PM
1

Truly attractive men aren't that rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:25 PM
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It's not because it "levels the playing field". It's because gymbros are boring. I don't care about your gains. I don't want to try your protein shake. I want to date someone I can have fun with, not someone who lives among his weights. My husband does work out but that's not the only thing he ever talks about or thinks about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:24 PM
1

Men don't worry about her makeup and skincare routine. But if she didn't do any skincare at all, they'd certainly notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 09:20 PM
0

Napoleon Dynamite is tall. He’s also got those sweet dance moves. Deb was into him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:34 PM
1

Definitely my mother. There’s nothing she can’t create, cook or sew. She started off sweeping floors for a company at 15 to being the VP at 30 to owning her own company at 40. She celebrated beating cancer at 60 by going skydiving. She’s semi-retired now but still goes to work every day. She also started a modest latent career in local commercials and community theatre. Beyond all that, she’s a wonderful, involved mother, grandmother and great grandmother and auntie to the horde of her siblings’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:20 PM
2

Then you wear them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:29 PM
1

Is he still him on the inside, or his transformation into balloon animal complete?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:28 PM
1

Nobody ever said they are all the same. Nobody with sense anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:27 PM
2

It’s being smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:24 PM
1

Hire an escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:23 PM
5

Yes, you are wrong. She may just not want to seem overeager and scare you away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:22 PM
1

I’m not particularly fond of large gatherings in general, family or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:21 PM
3

I don’t know who that is. You men have different male sex symbols than I do. But no, he wouldn’t. He’d walk away wondering if he’s ugly when really it was his stupid hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:08 PM
0

Try walking up to a group of women’s studies majors wearing a MAGA hat and see how much play you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:04 PM
-1

And I can promise to you that you are wrong. A good looking asshole is still an asshole. Would some women date him? Sure. Would other women avoid him? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:54 PM
-1

It doesn't mean they consider him ugly at all. He could simply not meet her standards of social circle, dress, manners, whatever. Maybe he's a smoker and she isn't. Maybe he's wearing a Steelers jersey and she hates football. Or maybe she is out with her friends and doesn't want to hook up or date right now. None of which means that they consider him ugly, just that she doesn't consider him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:50 PM
4

They are real, but just like having a child won't stop you from releasing oxytocin when you have a second child, you can still bond with a second partner if you have previously had sex with a different one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:41 PM
4

Aren't a lot of the men on dating apps actually not single at all but looking for some side action? I've seen anywhere from 30-40%. Not just men either, women too. https://www.businessinsider.com/a-lot-of-people-on-tinder-arent-actually-single-2015-5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:33 PM
2

By going out to bars, clubs, restaurants, parties, classes, work, a city park, riding the bus, shopping.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:23 PM
3

I've heard that, and it's demonstrably false. But I think that's more black pill than red pill. Not that I'm defending red pill - far from it! Just that I don't think they care much about premarital sex destroying the ability to pair bond, since they don't want to pair bond. They just want the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:20 PM
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I'm not sure that's red pill. Red pill is more about maximizing sexual conquests than about marrying, whether to a virgin or anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:16 PM
2

Am I the only person who doesn't spend time thinking about how big a man's dick might be?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:02 PM
1

No, since women would also make up the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:59 PM
4

It's facts. Just because you don't like the facts, doesn't make them not facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:56 PM
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Maybe if you stopped thinking of yourself as ugly, that would be the first step toward healing your self esteem. While it's true that people don't want to date people they are not attracted to, part of what makes you attractive is your confidence. If you are slumped and glum and not projecting any kind of self assurance, it brings you down. Just because a woman turns you down does not make you ugly or unattractive, it just means that one person didn't want to go out with you and that could be fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:53 PM
2

Your privilege is based on thousands of years of male supremacy. Even today most leadership positions go to men. Most legislators are men. That's why men are considered privileged in a way that women are not. I'm sure you think we are privileged because for thousands of years we got to clean house and to die in childbirth rather than have jobs, but some of us do not aspire to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:45 PM
1

Brad Pitt is coming out with a line of gender neutral skin care products. Maybe more men will take the moisturizer pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:42 PM
1

Yes. Google men’s 3-1 shampoo. You can get Axe, Suave, Old Spice, Dove…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:37 PM
2

That is how you might see it but it is far from the truth. Consider you are on the outside looking in and have no idea about women’s actual lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:32 PM
5

You don’t think we do, but that does not match up to most women’s realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:30 PM
4

To be fair, there are a ton of products marketed to women to help them preserve their looks as they age. Moisturizers, serums, conditioners, hair masques, et. Men generally get a 3 in 1 shampoo/conditioner/body wash that smells like a pine forest or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:26 PM
1

So as a person with a ring on my finger I’m entitled to strut? Good to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:15 PM
1

All of girls on the Hugh Hefner reality show went on to date and marry and have children. I don't think they care that a bunch of incels think they are broken locks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:48 PM
1

We see them. We just don't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:41 PM
2

Maidens are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:40 PM
2

Even the biggest hos are still allowed to say "nope" to men they aren't attracted to. There is no woman who wants to have sex with every man. If there were, the incels would have nothing to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:38 PM
1

In high school it was all about the guys with a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:33 PM
1

I hate reality TV but I love me some true crime TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:32 PM
1

That's how all my relationships started.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:23 PM
5

I think both are tacky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:20 PM
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