PlayHardGoBroke Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
23	This is why REAL LIFE interactions should be #1 Priority over OLD		PlayHardGoBroke	/r/seduction	23/10/22 09:01 PM
3	How to deal with very hot girls in online dating sites? 8.5+/10		PlayHardGoBroke	/r/seduction	12/09/22 07:28 PM

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0	Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship? Thats just fearmongering for men. The reality is getting an STD is hard and not a big deal for men.I have had unprotected one night stands with 50+ women and only had chlamydia once (sorted with antibiotics in a couple of days). HIV as an hetero man is almost impossible to get even with repeat exposure, just look at the research. You are just lied to minimize risk for women and contain the prevalence of STDs, only thing I would worry about is to get someone pregnant	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 09:48 AM
18	This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also? I’m a guy, and I feel awkward when women I’m not interested in make moves on me, and bear in mind I’m talking women moves i.e very subtle and just showing some interest, not blunt like men approaches, so just the thought of having “people” approaching me all the time would be very off-putting and makes me anxious. I have had some conventionally attractive girlfriends and it is a pain, not necessarily because I’m jealous but genuinely feeling sorry they have to live through that, like for example…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/23 04:47 PM
0	Your S.O. sex drive is largely dependent on your physical attractiveness Sex with the same person can get boring after a while regardless of how attractive that person is, while there's always some sense of excitement when it is someone new. This happens to men all the time as well, I reckon probably more often based on countless episodes I've seen of men cheating, even myself, with less attractive women Attraction is of course important but ultimately after the initial "new partner excitement" fades you need to know how to get her in the mood etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 08:38 AM
-7	Celebratory Kiss Cost Him His Career Nonetheless speaks volumes about the woke & cancel culture that a guy that got away with using institutional money on hookers, drugs, parties, and has been involved on all sort of shady corruption scandals that have consistently been swept under the rug by spains ruling party & president, is now forced out over a nothing burger kiss.	/r/MensRights	29/08/23 02:29 PM
1	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating Ive seen less attractive guys faring better in smaller pools, options and social circles are more limited so it can play in your favour, in my experience people tend to rely on OLD less as well. However, if you are relatively successful and have no problem getting women then I would always choose a larger market because the possibilities are just endless	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:32 AM
7	Your location is the biggest factor in success in dating It matters a lot but mainly to amplify your success. Ive lived in smallish towns and you can run through the dating pool fairly quickly, whereas in London I could have a date every day if I wanted. At the same time it is also harder to stand out as you also compete with the best, people are more attractive and have considerably higher social value in larger cities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 05:36 PM
10	Anyone tried passport broing? “They only want you for your money, passport, status etc” As if western women didn’t care about that lol The only difference is in those countries you are already ahead of 95% of the competition so your bargaining power is on par with women	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 03:37 PM
11	I am still trying to figure out what "emotional labor" means. Think it steams from them overthinking everything 50x and trying to control all outside factors I struggle to understand how is this men’s fault, guess they expect us to apologise for our tendency to being generally more stoic.	/r/MensRights	15/08/23 04:22 PM
12	Male Creepiness is about context most of the time but a few times it’s it’s about attraction. No shit.. of course even henry cavill or any attractive superstar could eventually creep out women if they purposefully try hard enough, but the point is the actual threshold for that to happen. If you are attractive you will need to show a psychopath like stalking behaviour whereas if you are ugly just existing, sharing the space or brief eye contact will do	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:45 PM
20	Male Creepiness is about context most of the time but a few times it’s it’s about attraction. I think it is close to 100% down to how attractive you are. I have got some friends that get outright disrespected or treated like trash by women and labelled as weirdos, creeps etc simply because they are not attractive, they don’t do anything different in fact they are way more cautious with approaches etc. I have almost never seen one of my attractive friends treated anywhere close even when they go for borderline rude or too direct interactions. At worse women laugh it off and shut their adv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 03:01 PM
7	Question for men who say women are overly shallow - If you genuinely believe that all (or essentially all) women only care about looks, why don't you focus on improving your looks? In most cases people blame facial structure when it’s actually overweight	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 12:46 AM
2	Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly. You don’t see how money and status helps having sex? Take 2 identical twins 30M One works in mcdonalds, hobbies include gym, vidyas and smoking pot. Instagram/tinder crappy pictures, bottom tier lifestyle, 2002 car and lives with parents. 2nd has a successful career in an sp500 corporation, drives a mid-high end car, lives alone in a flat in a nice area of town. Instagram/tinder full of pictures in various countries, at the beach, skying First one takes you out of a walk, 2nd you go for some coo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/23 11:39 AM
2	Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men Men care about looks and you are socially judged by how attractive your partner is, why would you actively promote the opposite? You’d rather encourage her to workout, eat healthy and dress somewhat sexy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 08:57 AM
1	Question for the men who have trouble meeting women: have you tried signing up for a Ballroom dance class? I agree it’s a way to meet a lot of women and knowing how to dance clearly helps in some social venues. However Ive been to salsa/bachata classes with my gf/exs and I have mostly only seen creeps and weirdos. Women know and read through that. If you are unattractive/unsuccessful with women you will immediately be classed as one. I know a couple of guys that do well but they are good looking to begin with they would easily get women somewhere else, ultimately I only see it as a way to magnify you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 08:37 AM
0	Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightist I find shorter women more attractive, I’m 6ft and the sweet spot is 5’2 to 5’5	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 12:36 PM
2	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man I take it as a compliment however it can have a negative effect if you are interested in a LTR. Women can be very insecure and if they know their man could have access to casual sex it can fuel it further. My gf is somewhat jealous and she always brings it up during arguments “all the bitches you have fucked from your instagram blabla”, because in her mind I was a player there’s always distrust and extra scrutiny even if I’m 100% faithful	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 11:22 AM
1	Q4A: Suppose an average guy changes bodies with a top tier guy. How would their lives differ, and how do you think would they react to their new lifestyles? I think Chad would be mentally fucked… I have seen this happening with good looking guys balding, I know a couple that honestly hit rock bottom. The fact that you were attractive to begin with makes it 10x worse	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/23 10:05 AM
5	if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is? The question raised was whether withholding sex is a good way to secure commitment(it’s not, quite the opposite) not how to filter guys just looking to pump and dump you	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 10:31 AM
3	if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is? Im surprised women keep getting this all wrong. Men will stick if they like you enough, it doesn’t matter if you had sex on the first date. However, many men will certainly never stay if they haven’t received the best “sex treatment” as some random, so the moment you decide to withhold sex you might be protecting yourself to men that only want something casual, I understand, but you are not improving your chances of retaining anyone rather the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 02:26 AM
5	if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is? Im surprised women keep getting this all wrong. Men will stick if they like you enough, it doesn’t matter if you had sex on the first date. However, many men will certainly never stay if they haven’t received the best “sex treatment” as some random, so the moment you decide to withhold sex you might be protecting yourself to men that only want something casual, I understand, but you are not improving your chances of retaining anyone rather the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 02:18 AM
1	What's the female equivalent of "manning up?" Marry up meaning you secure a more capable man that in turn will be better positioned to make your life easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 08:32 PM
0	How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman? The scenario where I see this happening is where the guy is a 6- and is settling as there’s a bottleneck to date any better. I very rarely see a 7+ guy meaning someone with options that decides to be with a less attractive woman (in a serious relationship) of course in clubs sometimes you see some that just want a quick fuck with whoever is available. I know some cases where they were equal and she got worse over time and they are still together, but the guys cheat at any opportunity	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/23 08:08 AM
7	CMV Many Women claim "a man can be soft" or "a man can cry its no issue" but they don't date those dudes, in fact they date the Guys that would be in the "toxic masculinity" bracket, and this is kinda funny lol The problem is you don’t really want men to talk it out or be vulnerable, you might think that is what you want because you believe that is the alternative to the toxic behaviour you mentioned, etc, but its not. The opposite is a man that despite adversity stays functional and mentally strong without showing weakness. You can’t change how your brains are wired. Every time a man shows weakness in front of a woman, he becomes less attractive in her yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 03:02 PM
2	Do you think a mans politics can keep him from getting laid? I can share my european view. I consider myself libertarian although in the current political climate in my country most people would just label me as far right/conservative just because im anti-socialism/lefties etc. I’m open about it, and OK to talk politics or any controversial point if it comes up, I don’t hide but don’t try to convince others either, just share my view and my reasons. Most women I have met are from 100% polar to best case neutral However, never had any problem getting laid …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 02:06 PM
-2	There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales” No its not. Its just staying active and not eating like a whale. Obviously you are not going to undo 30 years of crap habits in 3 months which is why most people give up, but losing weight is by no means a miracle	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/23 08:22 AM
0	Do you believe the women on amiugly? I know several women like that and in reality what they mean is they haven’t been approached by their henry cavill that would immediately fall in love with them without further interaction They have got men lingering when they go out, forcing interactions with them with any excuse at the gym, at work, etc, they just knowingly or unknowingly shut their advances straightaway because they don’t meet their standard, then complain they are unlucky or unsuccessful	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 02:00 PM
6	It is commonly stated in the ‘manosphere’ that men’s SMV peaks later in life. PPD men over 30, have you actually found your overall value to increase as you’ve gotten older? Im 31 and I have become exponentially more successful over time. It really is true than when it rains it pours. Never really struggled with women but until 26-27 I would have to work way harder to get just a 6-7, then it started to change due to a combination of things. 1- I lookmaxx and became more physically attrative. From a 6 to a 7.5-8 (massive treatment diff) 2- Career wise/Status \| back then I was just another broke young guy whereas now I’ve got a great career and cool lifestyle going It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 08:37 AM
4	So where exactly are these ugly women? I don’t know if that is better though I know ugly women a group of 2-3s and yes they can always get to sleep with 5-6s every night if they want and maybe that’s great from a men’s brain PoV but they are equally frustrated as they know they are just cum dumpsters and no guy they regard as valuable would date them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/23 07:07 AM
1	How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts? Not my experience, the successful, smart men I know tend to marry decent, traditional and beautiful women to have a family with, then might cheat on them with sluts occasionally	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 03:13 PM
14	Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you? Im a guy and 99% of the cases I have seen was women saving her friends from creeps and weirdos. The fact that is the “ugly” one it also makes senses as it is more likely her hot friends are hit on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 12:40 AM
1	Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness? I honestly don’t care, as long as she doesn’t hinder my lifestyle and have to subsidise her, I don’t mind how much money she’s got or whether she has a high status job. It’s simply irrelevant, I think it can actually be counterproductive as my ideal wife would be traditional and take care of the family/myself etc, which will be difficult if not impossible to balance with a very successful career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 02:35 PM
1	How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”? I have had periods with 5 girls on demand and I'm not even a chad, just a solid 7, I don't think it is anything special just 80% of the guys are unf*ckable so that multiplies everyone elses options, I just FWBd all the girls good enough to have sex with but not hot enough to qualify as my GF. I did this when I was younger and having casual sex was harder, after I turned 26-27 I started to have no FWB as I could get one night stands easily so why bother, if anything I have one to do some "plans" …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 06:25 PM
1	A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas. Location is undoubtedly key. In London I could have a date every night if I wanted whereas in my small rural european hometown realistically it is once every other week or worse	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 10:57 AM
12	Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of? I used to agree with your points but I’ve came to realise that they actually are a competitive advantage. I’m increasingly more successful with women not just because I improved myself but because 80% of the male population basically hinder their options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 06:02 PM
5	Boyfriend/Husband Material Men Getting Less Than What Other Guys Got Might be location based or smth, in Europe I think women are on average at least 1-2 points above in looks to their partners. I see this specially around above average guys 7/10 dating 8.5+. I almost never see ugly girls with a handsome guy. Yeah men will have sex with them in private but won’t take them out	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 04:29 PM
8	Boyfriend/Husband Material Men Getting Less Than What Other Guys Got I was gonna say this, I’m a guy and in my experience certainly checks, I’m thinking of my last 3 GFs continued being very fit during the relationship whereas I gave up exercising and was not at my ‘single’ peak in any case. Based on other people I know there are a ‘few’ cases where both got a bit relaxed but I can’t think of a single instance where it was only her going downhill. This threads feels more like a rant other than anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/23 04:18 PM
-1	Dating is just a waste of time and money these days. Dating is equally expensive for both genders, if you as a man pay for someone elses meal, thats on you, stop blaming others for simping. It’s 2023 most women in the western world are already financially self sufficient. I have only paid on 1st dates in a few instances and when going out with girls that due to the circumstances are several steps below me financially i.e when visiting developing countries (and not always) or a couple of refugees I went out with. Other than that I have always split…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/23 11:05 AM
1	What do you think of same sex cheating, compared to opposite sex? If my GF slept with a woman it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker, I would pretend to be upset if she did it behind my back but in reality I wouldn’t care so much. On the other hand if it was with a guy it would be the end of the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/23 10:18 PM
1	"Free" sex is just an ego boost Don’t be delusional. They sleep with you because you are paying, full stop, hookers surely have casual sex for free with guys they are into. You might not be the ‘worst’ they have done but going from there to thinking they are into you is a massive stretch. I’ve seen it before with mates that were desperate for attention and fell for hookers because they thought they were special. They were not, there’s a number of reasons hookers will fake interest, for example in my country there are forums wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 08:29 PM
7	"Free" sex is just an ego boost If you are paying for sex it means they are sleeping with you for money, not because they want to have sex with you so obviously they are not into you. So basically you said it	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 08:10 PM
4	My prediction: Ukrainian men have lost, even if they win. Ehm sorry but no. Europe is now full of ukrainian girls living off benefits, bored as fuck as most don’t work and enjoying their best lives and they are for sure having casual sex, I’ve slept with two and talked to a few others. They might not date you but they are surely going out with others. Hard to get? Don’t be delusional you are just lying to yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 08:03 PM
5	"Free" sex is just an ego boost How can you even enjoy sex when paying? Id much rather fap than sleeping with someone that’s not into me	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 07:59 PM
4	What’s a polite way to reject a guy? I guess not everyone might feel the same way but for me I would say 1st of all don't play around if you are not interested just to have someone lingering, don't entertain their approaches. If despite that they keep insisting or make a direct attempt, just simply say you are not interested and move on. There's no need for an explanation nor lying, in fact I think that doesn't make guys any favour despite most women thinking otherwise. I understand some may prefer to lie and pretend they have a bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/22 11:32 PM
5	q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it? Mix of things 1- lookmaxxing: used to be a 6/10, cute at best guy. Now I’m probably a 7.5 on a good day. Thanks to this I also gained confidence and my game improved massively. Used to be very shy now I approach girls effortlessly 2- non physical (mostly money/status): back then was another broke student/graduate. Now I’ve got a good career, way above average income that fuels lifestyle (travelling, house, car etc). These are also things that women start valuing more over time 3- location. This …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 12:44 AM
10	q4a for all high n-count people. was it fun? was it worth it? 31M 100+ Its been fun and mostly worth it. The only thing I regret is not having been that focused when I was younger, I didn’t really start hooking up consistently until 26-27 mark, before that I was probably at around 20 However I must admit in my case it came at a cost, as now I’m like an addict, I’m less likely to engage on LTRs and the sex drive led me to cheating etc. On one hand I would like to have a partner for life, have a family etc, but on the other I struggle with that commitment. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 04:30 PM
1	Just a personal observation, I’m noticing more and more above average and good looking guys with chubby and overweight or below average girls UK/Europe I would say most couples are equal or the girl slightly better looking (maybe +0.5 or 1 point on the scale). However I know most people would say "she's way better" just because men are consistently underrated. I have seen many instances where a couple was clearly balanced and almost everyone was saying he's dating out of his league. It also happened to me several times, I only date better looking girls but in my eyes the difference is not that high (maybe I'm a 7, she's an 8 or 8.5), …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 12:22 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread That literally describes my ex. She’s had several monogamous relationships while I had none serious (prior to her) and the unrealistic expectations she set made me feel as if everyday was an exam and even question whether I was in the wrong many times over things I considered very straightforward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 04:21 PM
0	What are your actual dealbreakers? I have got a list of many red flags but I’m probably willing to put them aside for the right level of hotness (and have done so in the past) I know I wouldn’t stand cheating (on me) so I’d say that is the only insta dealbreaker in my case	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/22 04:14 PM
7	I always thought dating apps were easy for very attractive women. I was wrong. Yes, I did read the post, however what is more plausible that none of the hundreds of matches she's got knows how to hold a conversation or that either she is the one sucking, exaggerating or that as others mentioned, she is just overestimating her friends attractiveness compared to the guys she's targeting?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 12:32 PM
1	Why do women need self-defense tools to make sure of their safety? Men are overwhelming more likely to be subject of violence and physical confrontations/crimes everywhere in the western world so not sure where you are on the world being "unsafe" for women. if anything, we all need self-defence tools but specially if you are a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:50 AM
8	What percentage of men and women respectively are promiscuous? I'm not sure where you draw the line on promiscuity, that's probably a debate of its own. I think men are way more likely to have a higher n-count if they actually have the chance. However most are limited to their lack of opportunities. Men are judged based on the amount and quality of women they get all the time, while for women is kind of the opposite (the less the better) and we have a higher sex drive. in terms of n-counts although the balance is 1:1 the distribution is probably for top men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:44 AM
23	I always thought dating apps were easy for very attractive women. I was wrong. I doubt that happened. I have seen hot girls tinders and their likes are in the thousands, every swipe is a match and the chances of guys not giving her attention if she is engaged in the conv are minimal. The only way OLD might "suck" for women is like due to the overwhelming amount of options and unrealistic high standards you will always find yourselves chasing unicorns and the real world men will seem disappointing, while the ones that are deemed acceptable are only interested in casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 11:35 AM
3	Men in Ukraine Talk about equality, men dying or stuck in the country meanwhile girls living their best lives all over europe, tinder is full of Ukrainians everywhere.	/r/MensRights	11/11/22 06:56 PM
1	A 4/10 dude asks 100 girls out on a date. Interesting results. In which world(to move there and feel like a chad model?)The guy is a 4 at best. Certainly not above average	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/22 06:44 PM
-1	It's not the absolute number of past sexual partners that matters, but the relative number I dont keep the exact count but im probably well over a hundred and I don’t regret it the slightest For a ONS I don’t care how many guys she’s banged and I wouldn’t even ask, but I consider anywhere remotely close to my numbers to be a turn off for a LTR. Ideally I would aim for less than 10 (current girl I’m seeing) and all long term partners with minimum or no ONS count at all. Simply put I struggle with it probably due to my own insecurities (i.e thinking if she’s been with that many, she wil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 12:18 AM
5	It's not the absolute number of past sexual partners that matters, but the relative number I know its unpopular and double standards but I'm not marrying a girl with my n count	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 08:25 PM
4	The source of discontentment among single men isn't singlehood itself, but the external pressure from society to find relationships. The pressure is just different, for women it can be LTR, marriage and having kids. Men are however constantly judged on their ability to get women, basically it's the one metric that defines your success and worth, I would say even more than wealth, status or whatever given most men pursue that just as a tool to actually get more/better looking women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 02:52 PM
1	Can we talk about how online dating is ruining mens mental health? I'm not against OLD per se and I'm in general quite successful vs most guys, the problem I had was thinking it was an accurate reflection of my "self worth" which led to disappointment and frustration when I realized that in general, 95% of the girls I would get online are around my league at best in terms of physical attractiveness, while in face to face interactions I know I can aim higher as there are many other variables other than just "looks" that play in my favour offline. Just use for it…	/r/MensRights	24/10/22 10:23 AM
2	Q4M: If dating apps largely favour women, why is it disproportionately men who are on them? This seems to be echoed online all the time but I don't feel it is necessarily true, I don't think women are 99% of the cases "hostile" and cold approaches I think are in general still well received in western cultures and if anything I would argue they are yet more powerful nowadays that are not perhaps not that common. Although it's true I have seen some guys called out/treated as "creeps" undeservedly, the overwhelming reality that I see in real life (both based on my personal interactions, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 09:52 AM
6	This is why REAL LIFE interactions should be #1 Priority over OLD True. OLD has its benefits though as it is a numbers game after all, I have been single 3 months and most of the girls I have slept with I met online, but I know the best interactions will come face to face	/r/seduction	23/10/22 09:59 PM
3	There is nothing hypocritical in male preference for low N women. The only hypocrisy is whining about male unfair preferences, while having your own unfair preferences. This might be changing but to these days they still seem to be equal if not more judgemental than men towards high body count women, talk about double standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 11:37 AM
2	who should pay for dates?most importantly why? I always split and I don't think that has ever been poorly received by women, some girls even invited me. I'm sure I'm net positive in terms of money spent on dates. I don't think inviting offers you any value as a man, more importantly why would I want someone going out with me just because I'm paying? I want her to do it because she truly enjoys my company. Plus in my opinion, paying puts you in a losing position and makes you appear weak and needy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 05:47 PM
1	Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women. That men value looks over anything else, that's a fact, I wouldn't go for the dumbest and there's certainly a floor I wouldn't cross other than for sex, but I'd certainly much rather date an 8/10 with average job/income than a 6/10 successful woman among top 5% earners in the country. The main reason is because I do well for myself and don't need anyone else to subsidize my lifestyle. Just focusing on money because it is the easiest example to link to success here. However I have got to say that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 02:28 PM
2	Seduction is easier than people think I mainly only do night game but 95% of the time I start just by saying hi People overthink approaching so much, I used to, I thought I had to come up with the smartest line or some bullshit excuse to engage that sounded half reasonable, while in reality the only important part is that you actually do something	/r/seduction	18/10/22 10:43 PM
1	How bad is it being a tall girl romantically? I'm 6ft and I prefer shorter women, beyond 5'7 it starts feeling like too much for me, so I see some merit in what you are saying. 5'3-5'5 seems to be the sweet spot in terms of my personal preference	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 09:55 PM
10	Is it immoral to sleep with a woman when she's hoping for something serious and you just see her as an easy lay? You know you can just reframe this the other way around right? Is it immoral for women to sleep with guys just to hook them into a relationship they might not want? It's consensual sex and everyone might have their own, different reasons. Nobody is forcing you to do anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 09:35 PM
3	Should women expect cheating if they get into a relationship with a HVM (High value man)? All of the HVMs I know, say 8+, are cheaters, and we are talking dozens here. I'm sure there will be exceptions, but reality is if you want a faithful man you have a much better chance going with an average joe. Funny enough all their GFs seem to think they don't do anything, though I'm sure some are just content with the situation as long as they continue being the usual one and it is just the occasional one night fling going. It is just a matter of available opportunities. HVMs can get girls w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 08:25 PM
13	CMV: A lot of men struggling are in their situations because they live in male dominated, rural or suburban areas. As an expat in a different country I can tell you that where you live matters a lot. I barely get any attention from girls in my mid size 200k home town, I swear I sometimes feel I'm invisible even though I'm a 7.5/10 on the looks side and get eye attention in every other large city I have been worldwide. Meanwhile in London I could get a girl every night basically forever and never run out of options. Plus living in a big city having access to the "best" jobs can play a diff in terms of your so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 08:03 PM
6	It’s actually easy for men to get women, BUT it’s HARD to get attractive women Have to disagree here, for guys there's certainly a floor that basically makes 50% of men invisible to women. However if you are a 6/10+ man you are certainly right. I always say the same, I'm around the 7.5/10 mark and have an unlimited harem of girls below that whenever I want. The issue is getting a 8+ because they are all chasing the chads and there's nothing to do about it, you are just entertainment	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 01:56 PM
7	Ultimately, only the top 5% of men have power dating wise. The top 30-40% of women have power dating wise. As a currently 7 or 7.5/10 guy what really kills me is knowing that it doesn't matter what I do, I will never go beyond an 8/10 however hard I work, it doesn't matter how much money you make, how successful you are or that you lookmax, because there are things required to go beyond that point that you simply can't get no matter what you do, in a practical way i.e height, facial structure (I know there's surgery but in these cases I don't consider it practical) However I would say your numbers ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/22 01:45 PM
10	People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for that I have already come to terms to it, there's always gonna be a "bigger" chad around I can 100% relate to what you are saying, similar situation. 31M, a solid 7 (most women will refer to me as cute/handsome) and tick most of the "women" boxes other than not having my own place as I prefer to invest in other areas. 6ft, 6figs, athletic/reasonably fit, ambitious, social life & above average lifestyle and based on feedback an excellent sexual partner, solid game etc, perhaps the only "con" might be n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/22 02:36 PM
1	Normal eye contact vs a eye contact from a girl that’s interested? If she is constantly trying to make eye contact with you then in most cases she will be interested. If she is in "defensive" mode it would just be much easier for her not to eye contact anybody, let alone attract someone she regards as non-attractive/creep. In my experience, the vast majority of interactions were positive. However, you have to be realistic and self-aware. I have seen many guys thinking "oh she's looking at me" when in reality she was staring at your friend or someone else, or yo…	/r/seduction	10/10/22 09:06 AM
2	Wha can I do? First of all, you were not given the best cards to work with, but you can cry forever or do something about it. Life is not fair, just move on 1# priority Lookmaxxing. Most people could go up by several points if they just actually cared. Some steps are actually very simple and for everyone. Get jacked/lean, haircut(depending on your balding stage)+well groomed beard to your face style, nice fit clothes, decent skincare routine. It is usually the least attractive people that neglect them because…	/r/seduction	05/10/22 07:22 PM
3	How can I take rejection graciously? dating is a numbers game and a no just gets you closer to a yes.	/r/seduction	26/09/22 11:48 AM
1	I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult. I know this might be counterintuitive and controversial in the board but I would focus on your race, lower value women and use that as a stepping stone to scale from there. You haven't had any sort of game in 10 years and your self esteem is just negative, women can see through that in a heartbeat, the chances of you hitting jackpot are minimal if not non-existent.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 02:13 PM
5	How does my Friend get all the girls or maybe OP is uglier than he thinks. Just get some women confirmation it's important to be selfware	/r/seduction	21/09/22 05:33 PM
2	Hookup in London people saying london is hard clearly have not lived in a small-mid sized city lol just with OLD if you are somewhat average you would be able to pull easily, let alone if you go out... I don't do daytime cold approachs so hard to tell but other than that it is as easy as it gets, unless you are comparing vs touristic areas in asia, latam where you are well above the average guy. OK competition might be tougher, but still	/r/seduction	21/09/22 05:05 PM
2	How to deal with very hot girls in online dating sites? 8.5+/10 my exact thoughts exactly that is why I go for the hit or miss opener and follow up in creative ways, however not having much luck to be fair. I have only pulled 8.5+ in places where I'm way above average and playing the foreigner card in poorer countries. My experience certainly reassures this as I have been and slept with many hot girls in real life, thought I could crack the OLD world as well but it doesn't look like it. I guess I'll just focus on face to face approaches and just use OLD for …	/r/seduction	12/09/22 08:12 PM
1	Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass? I go with honesty on some like what do you do, how old are you etc. Don't see a reason not to answer these. With sex oriented tests I normally go with the vague/playful approach, but inclined to honesty. Being perceived as a player and having an active sexual life I think plays in your favour in most hook up scenarios, and if I'm discarded for a potential "serious" relation because of that, I would say I dodged a bullet anyway	/r/seduction	09/09/22 02:06 PM
7	Abortion for men Easiest way to shut a feminist. Bear in mind I'm proabortion but it's hard to justify that women rights are above the fetus/life or whatever you want to call it right to live while men's rights are below and not considered at all at any point in the process and if she decides to move forward - and don't get me wrong, I accept it is their body and decision - you have to provide your whole life and embrace parenting because all of sudden now the rights of the child matter	/r/MensRights	25/07/22 02:08 PM