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Ah, okay. Puer (Latin for boy), and archy (Latin for a form of rule)? Makes sense now, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 02:10 PM
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I always wanted to ask... what does "puearchy" mean and how do I actually say it? Poo-e-arky?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 02:04 PM
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Totally agreed - I'd also advise marrying traditional. However - "All that glitters is not gold - all that is gold does not glitter" - Not all good families have a lot of money. Many good fathers of good daughters can't pay for the wedding they feel their good daughter and their future son-in-law. What does that mean? Does it mean that they're not traditional? What should the family do, and who should pay? Edit: The purpose of having the bride's parents foot the bill is almost certainly tied to …
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:36 PM
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Depending on the couple, this is okay - she's earned it and you could argue that she has the right to spend it however she'd like to. On the other hand, since they will be married and sharing assets after the wedding, that same money could be used for putting a down payment on a house, their private honeymoon, saved for a child's college fund, etc. They should, in the very least, talk about it before spending on a big wedding (even if she's the one paying for it). Ultimately, and as usual, it de…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:12 PM
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Yeah, it totally depends on the culture. Example: I know a person who married her Indian husband in a small, frugal American-style wedding (her choice). It was the husband was quietly upset that it wasn't grand... he would have felt better if it had been celebrated and validated by the whole community. I can understand his feeling: by not having a grand celebration involving hundreds of family members and friends, they could all perceive there's something wrong with the girl, their relationship,…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:07 PM
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Wow, I must have missed something - a whole lot of deleted comments. What's the story?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 04:56 PM
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I think you're right -emotions aren't the problems. It's our expression of them (or reaction to them) that is the problem. As you say, we have evolved to feel emotions for a purpose - to help us survive. Thanks for an insightful response to my comment.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 09:58 PM
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Wow - AWESOME and very helpful comment! I have heard of those books but never thought to pick them up. Now I'm interested. I'll also be sure to check out the Ram Dass reading of the Ramayana. It sounds like it could be perfect to listen to during bus commutes and long walks.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 09:54 PM
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Do you think his multimillion dollar Baroque castle in the French countryside figured into it at all?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 12:15 AM
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Interesting insight - Hinduism as being amazingly masculine and requiring rational thinking - that's been my impression, too, based on what I've read (although I did not genderize it - just recognized it as being mostly focused on self-control and self-development). One of the reasons I didn't think of Hinduism as masculine was because even Hindu women are expected to rise above emotion, behaving rationally and dutifully - or at least, this is my impression after reading (skimming and reading ab…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 11:47 PM
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Do you literally mean all emotions? I used to believe that there could be no problem with experiencing positive emotions - but lately I have to wonder if that's true, or if the 'best practice' is something more nuanced, as you suggest. For example, maybe it's okay for us to experience emotions but never in an uncontrolled way - for both negative and positive emotions. Some people say that laughing hysterically and sobbing uncontrollably are very physically and emotionally similar. I think that b…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 08:23 PM
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When it comes to serial killers having bad mothers - is it more than you would expect by random chance? Are fathers (or the lack thereof) known for playing a role? Edit: Just found an interesting article on this specific topic: Monstrous Mothers: What Makes Serial Killers Tick? "Serial murderers are frequently found to have unusual or unnatural relationships with their mothers," notes Steven Egger in his book The Killers Among Us. The article does mention dads, too. That said, I would warn again…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:15 PM
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Your posts reminds me of a thought I've been mulling over for a while - TRP as a 'subsection' of a larger philosophical ideology in which emotions are recognized as illusory, draining, and distracting; emotions are an enemy which we overcome with discipline and self-control. Sure, most people think of TRP as a way to win women and succeed in relationships. But I am nearly convinced that TRP, much of which is rooted in a such a anti-emotion ideology, can be helpful for every aspect of life - some…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:35 PM
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Agreed. Also, from his wikipedia article: As a child, he was extremely bright but exhibited antisocial behavior such as cruelty to animals; he reportedly fatally stabbed a pet cat at age 13. I am no mental health expert, but this type of extremely abnormal behavior occurring so early on is probably, in large part, attributable to a child's genetic hard-wiring - with the 'quality of parenting' variable playing a regulating or modifying role (regulating or modifying the existing behavior). Even th…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 03:53 PM
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It really is great to hear any success stories of self-betterment (men or women) - thanks for sharing it!
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 05:31 AM
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Another woman here with a similar understanding as yours. It has taken me years to see and accept that I am a very emotional person and think that most women, by nature, are (maybe because it helps her relate to children and gives her the skills she needs to become a better child caretaker). After accepting this about myself, I now look to my SO as my rock - he is solid, unmoving, unemotional, and living strictly and efficiently for the betterment of himself and the world. Whenever my world beco…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:47 AM
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I think this is totally solid advice. I would only add this -- make sure to do things that are productive/constructive (e.g., lift, get better job, etc). Do things that build you up, improve your life. I say this because she'll likely mirror whatever negative/destructive things you do (e.g., talking to other women, staying out late, not talking to her). If you do constructive things to improve your life, she'll have no choice but to start doing the same things herself (or otherwise look really b…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 03:40 AM
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You grew up with Indian mom and white dad? What is your life like? I'm really curious - I don't know many white/Indian couples that actually have children together. Wondering how the identity issues play out for the biracial children.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:36 AM
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Since I started dating an Indian man (met through friends - started dating because we liked each other, not because I knew anything about Indian guys), I have come to realize some of the great things Indian men have to offer. After getting to know him and his family, I have come to think of Indian men (with their hard work ethic, financial stability, strong dedication to family, and rich history/culture, and attractiveness) as a goldmine that remains invisible on the radars of American women lik…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 09:14 PM
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I admit... I am a woman and I love reading about TRP. Seriously, it's like confirming many of the things I've suspected all along (in regards to the negative long-term consequences of feminism). While I am don't take everything here at face value (a lot of the theories here are pseudoscientific or reach too far - just like feminist theories), I really am convinced that most women are blind to (biological, social) reality in many ways. Until they're 30+, anyway. Being here has definitely opened m…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:26 PM
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Just out of curiosity - how did you find out she couldn't have kids? Is there a test you can do to know what the state of a woman's fertility is?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 08:16 PM
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Promoting this as the "norm" is terrible. Not every relationship has to be like this. In fact, NO relationship should be like this -- so full of passive aggressive conflict. They are your teammate, not your enemy. I don't think it's funny at all. I think it's sad. :(
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 03:03 AM
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Also out of curiosity, why do you ask? Do you have a theory? Edit: Why did I get a downvote?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:53 AM
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