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| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissYou sound like a woman. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 01:15 PM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissYou're talking nonsense. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 10:40 AM |
| -1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissBasic fact, women that are into you make it real easy for you, no hoops to jump through, these are the women you want to spend time with because the others are time wasters. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 02:35 AM |
| 2 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissShe's not that into you, if she were you would have had sex with her already. You can rest assured there's men that she slept with after the 1st date. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 02:31 AM |
| 1 | 3 dates and won’t do anything more than kissWomen that desire you don't wait 3 dates. Move on, it only gets worse. | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 02:28 AM |
| 3 | girls seeking for moneyJust avoid the women that are seeking money. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Do women want to get approached? If so, why do they flake?We're talking about a general rule here, not some theoretical edge case. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Working on your self esteem will take you a LOOOOOOOONG way compared to any tips and tricks here.Self esteem yes, plus self respect. Never place women above you, don't worship them, they are just people. Pussy isn't a prize. | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 12:15 AM |
| 93 | Do women want to get approached? If so, why do they flake?Women have infinitely more options than men. | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 01:08 PM |
| 1 | First approach in over 32 years... ouch!What kind of shape are you in? | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 01:11 AM |
| 28 | Girl rejected me, still invites me to hang outIf you're interested in the woman romantically and she's not interested, move on which is the only self respecting move you can make. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:12 PM |
| 71 | Kinda sad of women being rude straightup for no reason 22M.As some point you need to get to the point where you can recognize whether women are open to interacting with you. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:10 PM |
| 2 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?She's just not that into you. Taking things slow means no burning desire, and burning desire is what you want. | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Why women who approach are often more successful than men who doA woman doesn't have to do anything to be successful because the vagina is the magic potion that gives women an advantage. Notice how Only Fans and dating apps attracts men like a magnet. | /r/seduction | 05/06/26 05:22 PM |
| -5 | How do I playfully handle women who assume I'm gay?Have you figured out or thought about why women think you are gay or have gay energy? | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I broke down infront of my GF and i want to win her respect backShe thinks I'm only being jealous and weirded out about how i can think that there might be something going between them. Women don't care about your feelings other than the ones that are positive towards them. You came off as insecure, that's not attractive and your woman would prefer a man that's secure, not a man that's worrying about his friend stealing his woman. Confident men do not do this, weak men do. The posters giving you a pass over weak behavior, are themselves weak and also broadca… | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Got dumped after 4 dates - met on HingeHanging out every single day is a sure fire way to have women lose interest. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Got dumped after 4 dates - met on HingeShe's just not into you, you got laid, keep it moving and remember, radio silence, no calling or texting. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Got flat out rejected, don’t know how to feelIt's easier when the woman is showing interest from the start. Interrupting women usually doesn't work out that well, unless of course she is interested in you. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 09:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the best response to rejection?The best response is no response at all. | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 05:06 PM |
| 20 | How to get quick easy hookups with girls I like and not just the ones I canThe majority of women aren't into quick easy hookups. Women with low self esteem and lacking in the looks department tend to be promiscuous. | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over approach hesitation in the moment?You have to stop worrying about the answers to all of those questions. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 02:33 PM |
| 20 | How do you reach out to exes?Stop living in the past, move it forward. If the woman was interested interested in you, the fact that you have a girlfriend wouldn't matter | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:41 PM |
| 6 | How do you reach out to exes?If the woman was interested in you, she would reach out and there's a reason why she's an ex. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:37 PM |
| 107 | How do you reach out to exes?This is something you don't do, it oozes weakness and rarely, if ever, ends well. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:30 PM |
| 2 | 34m someone teach me how to not be a total dork to women.Take your time to build up your self esteem by accomplishing things and getting in peak shape, it will make a difference. Also there's nothing wrong with being more "selfish", meaning putting yourself first. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:55 PM |
| 3 | 34m someone teach me how to not be a total dork to women.This is why you need to work on your self esteem which got sucked out of you during your marriage. It's time for you to embrace yourself and stop thinking that woman are above you, they aren't. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:50 PM |
| 6 | How a 5'7" guy with broken English used a 7-point fashion system to cold approach and marry a 6-foot European woman (A Style Guide To Improving Your SMV)Marrying a woman isn't in the best interest of a man. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:48 PM |
| 11 | 34m someone teach me how to not be a total dork to women.My suggestion to you is to work on your fitness and cultivate some hobbies. You need time to yourself after serving time in the marriage institution. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl at WorkJust say no to dating women that you work with. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereExhibit A of why it's a time waster. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereMeet women where you physically see women, that way you at least know they do exist and are human, they may not be desirable, but they will be real humans. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereYou're perfect, but can't figure out why you're spinning your wheels on dating apps, do I have that right? What's wrong with apps? You just explained what's wrong with them. Huge time waster. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 04:57 PM |
| 11 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereI would say direct your energy into improving yourself and get off the dating app hamster wheel. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 04:52 PM |
| 7 | How to stop feeling bitter and resentfulConfidence is independent of one's ability to get women but essential to get and keep women. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 03:33 PM |
| 4 | How to stop feeling bitter and resentfulWork on making yourself better, acquire a skill, build up your self confidence. These are the things to focus on, not silly girls. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I want casual but exclusive, she wants emotional connection. Is this doomed?50 year old woman? Surely you can do better? | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Is dating sustainable for below average men?Become above average. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 01:40 PM |
| 15 | Ex says we're over, but still picks up when I call.You need to stop calling, that's unattractive | /r/seduction | 27/03/26 09:46 PM |
| 10 | 18F How do I find casual sex with a guy without fear of being hurt or getting sti’s as a super shy girlThis is a fake post. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Confidence comes from within? It make you more attractive? You actually believe this?How does a 37 year old man have no accomplishments? | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Approach to girls who say they don't kiss on the first dateDon't pay attention to what women say, look at what they do. If the woman is into, you she makes it easy, breaks her "rules" and will kiss on the first date. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 05:18 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test?Just say you don't use Instagram. | /r/seduction | 28/02/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | GF disappeared on a Saturday night. Am I being sensitive here?Women that are into you wouldn't engage in the type of behavior you describe unless there was some type of emergency at play. Women with low interest will engage in this type of behavior. Work on finding women that are really into you and also work on getting butt heart about things. | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 07:07 PM |
| -1 | GF disappeared on a Saturday night. Am I being sensitive here?When she contacts you she is either going to apologize or not mention it. If she apologizes the reasoning should be sound, if not, you know you can't take her seriously. If she doesn't mention, ask her about in a non-threatening way and see if what she says makes sense to you and then act accordingly. Don't under any circumstances act butt hurt. | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | do girls prefer guys that barely text them?i usually text girls i am talking to every single day. This is a bad habit. | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 09:01 PM |
| 2 | How Soon Is It Appropriate To Ask A Woman To Hangout After Matching On App?You're on a dating app to meet people, if the woman is interested she will agree to meet at a safe place. You want to engage with woman that are interested you and with this strategy you weed out the time wasters and tire kickers. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsWhat part of the world and locations did these approaches take place? | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | The Chase doesn't appeal to me. Am I cooked?Chase excellence not women. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | The Masculinity TrapThese images tend to perform very badly on average. It's better to look more warm, friendly, safe, and approachable - without entering into gay territory. But eye contact with the camera and a warm laugh or smile works very well for most guys. How do you square that with women going "Ga Ga" over criminals? The other day I saw a guy walking down the street, shirtless, good physique and what look like jail tattoos all over his chest. Two young women were walking towards him and he stops them and a… | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 03:09 PM |
| 0 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?You shouldn't but it happens more often than not. Death by a thousand cuts to your manhood. This guy got married at 21 and a woman only leaves a 38 year old man when he stops being a "man". I bet you he isn't jacked and commanding respect. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 05:09 PM |
| 21 | 38, divorcing after 17 years—how do I re-enter dating in 2025?Don't waste your time with dating apps. Talk to women that you are interested in that show interest. If you're out of shape, get in shape and shake off all of the "beta" habits you have picked up after 17 years of beta-ization. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?It only works with women that actually want to fuck you. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 04:55 PM |
| 63 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?She left to see her boyfriend that she's complaining about. If she reaches out, invite her to your place. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed?Yeah, you shouldn't have done that. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 11:45 PM |
| 0 | How to proceed?Don't text unless she responds, if you do you will look thirsty and creepy. If you see her in person, approach. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 11:44 PM |
| 4 | How to proceed?Let it go and in the future if you know the woman is in her twenties, don't talk about your age. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | When does showing intent/leading become chasing?Women that are interested in you make it easy for you. The woman you describe isn't one of them. You win some you lose some, I wouldn't spend too much time thinking about it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]This woman isn't interested in you. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]You're 27 any woman at least 18 years old is an option for you. Expand your mind. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to consider dating a lifelong friend? [M27] [F28]If she was interested in you, you would already know. You want women that are interested in you and the ones that are make it very clear that you're not in the "friend zone". | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:48 PM |
| -9 | Is it too late ? 31 never had a physical girlfriendChase success not women and the women will gravitate towards you, however some of those women may be toxic. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 07:46 PM |
| 2 | I married “potential” and got chaos: 5 brutal truths I learned the hard way (wish I’d known sooner)I gave him space when he disappeared for hours with no communication. I let him “vent” by raising his voice at me. I excused selfish behavior as emotional immaturity. I told myself he just needed time to grow, and I believed in his potential like it was a startup I had invested my entire soul into. These are the kind of women you want to avoid. The notion that "she gave him space", what a joke, men own their time and because of that they deliver all of the great things you see in the world. | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 08:01 PM |
| 42 | How do you distinguish the difference between love bombing and putting in effort?Women that are into you make it easy for you. No need to love bomb or "put in effort". All that is required is for you to be a man with a purpose. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 03:58 AM |
| -5 | I need help seducing this older womanYou're right about that, and who would want to? It's disgusting! | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 11:39 PM |
| -3 | I need help seducing this older womanDon't waste your time with an old woman without a sex drive. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 10:37 PM |
| 13 | what do you do, if u hit up a girl and shes on vacation?A woman on vacation is not thinking about you. You texting her shows her you are weak and that's not attractive. You should use texting for logistics only. | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 12:08 PM |
| 17 | Why she pulls away when you ask "where is this going?" and demand spoilers from her"where is this going?" This is the thing that men that lack self confidence ask and it broadcasts to women that you are weak. Don't do it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | 19m here. Is it normal to not cum during sex?Stop worrying about it, there's nothing wrong with you. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | 19m here. Is it normal to not cum during sex?The best tip is to stop worrying about it. All that matters is that you can perform and that you are satisfied. You don't need therapy, there's nothing wrong with you. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Help on dating an avoidant woman?Women that are into you make it easy for you. Those are the women you want to focus on, not the one you describe in your post. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Settling down moving in with perfect girl.... now boredThis is good advice, that only the beta's will down vote. | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Settling down moving in with perfect girl.... now boredLiving with women is not a good idea. You don't need therapy you need your own place. 4 Problems You Will Face If You Move In With Your Girlfriend | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | 22m feeling emotionally connected but not sexually desired by 22F girlfriendYou want a woman that has burning desire for you and this woman does not have that. I hate to break it to you, but it's very likely that she's giving it to someone else much more enthusiastically than she's giving it to you. At 22 she should be all over you and not acting like some post menopausal married woman that's over 50. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you check if the friend that said "No" to a date is having a change of heart ?Stop dithering around texting and just use it to set up a date. She either says yes or she says no. | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | If a woman sets up a date and then suddenly cancels saying she is no longer interested and the "vibe is off", how do you guys react?I immediately go with other things I may have wanted to do more than go out on that date. Be a man with options. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 08:15 PM |
| 6 | As a woman, here’s what actually makes us want you — and it’s not what most guys thinkFrom the mind of a porn spammer. | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in here get approached by girls but then as soon you start talking to them they lose interest in you?This happens to boring guys who haven't been anywhere and haven't done anything. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | 25 yrs old, still virgin feels like its too lateYou sound like you lack self confidence, work on that and all should fall into place. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake?You want women that are interested with you, that's where you want to expend your energy. If they flake, they had their chance, keep it moving, never contact them again unless they contact you. View yourself as the prize, value your time and don't let people waste it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag a woman, you're not in relationship with, is still in contact or hangs out with an ex?Red flag for sure. Do you know any woman that you are "friends" with that you don't desire to have "benefits" with? | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce women in their 50s and above when I'm in my 20s?Don't waste your time and energy on old women. Use that time to make yourself better. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive womenWhat else have you accomplished with your life? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive womenThis person is claiming they have sex with a different woman every week over the course of 3 to 4 years. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 04:11 PM |
| 0 | The Brutal Truth About Approaching Women Nobody Wants to HearIt doesn't advance your real world skill set and earning potential. | /r/seduction | 14/01/25 12:28 PM |
| 6 | The Brutal Truth About Approaching Women Nobody Wants to HearIf you value your time, spending it approaching women isn't something you would do. You would spend that time making yourself better and more confident which will as a by product fix your woman problem. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 02:33 PM |
| -1 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?Men with low confidence and weak energy aren't attractive to women and that's irrespective of how your face looks or how tall you are. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 04:19 PM |
| 18 | Shit test or just blunt womenYou want to go out with women that don't talk like this which is disrespectful. Respectful women are out there. | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How often do you message your girlfriend?Google the quoted part. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 04:40 PM |
| 0 | How often do you message your girlfriend?If you're initiating texts (other than logistics) with your wife, she will either soon be cheating on you or divorcing you. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | How often do you message your girlfriend?Yes, if you as a man text like a woman, your woman will lose respect for you. Texting like a woman is you sending your woman a text everyday. Woman may claim that's what they want but it ultimately causes them to lose respect for you. a woman is more attracted to a man when she is uncertain about how much he likes her. Look up the study on this. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How often do you message your girlfriend?I wouldn't message her at all unless it is for logistics or replying to her messages. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 02:31 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways to appear taller as someone who is 5’ 6-3/4”?Just stop thinking about it. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone have experience with women having extremely high expectations of them?All they do is take, take, take. Stop giving, giving, giving. Stop agreeing to everything the women want and start being assertive about what it is that you want. Women aren't attracted to doormats (unless they match the decor). | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Is being an intense man a masculine trait?The most masculine traits are being able to do things(expertise) and stepping up to do things(initiative). | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 10:22 PM |
| 0 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolIt doesn't matter. What matters is your mindset. If you're not thinking that her getting together with you is a win for her because you're a solid man, you're not a solid man. You will never win races where you enter into them believing you will lose. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 02:15 PM |
| 11 | What did i do wrong in this conversation on bumble ?Response to "Wow its perfect" is "Thank you" "Really id like to touch your skin and see how soft it is" creepy if the woman isn't into you. A woman with skin care as a hobby is a woman you should avoid. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 10:17 AM |
| 20 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolTo add to 1, the women you want to go out with will call or text if there is an issue with the date and time beforehand, no need for you to "check" if the date is still on. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong here?Remember, woman that are into you make it easy for you. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 12:14 PM |
| 0 | My friend called me a saint. How can I stop being the good guy?Just be yourself but don't be a doormat, don't acquiesce to women's demands. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Advice Needed (Only from those with Advanced GameBut when we got there, I told her I didn’t want to see her again. Reflecting on it now, I know my reaction came from a place of insecurity and probably seemed reactive. Work on not being weak. A confident man that's secure would never engage in this type of behavior. Chalk it up to experience and stop acting weak. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 02:50 PM |
| 0 | 1,000 approach inner game mindsetImagine what one could achieve using that amount of time and energy to improve yourself and work on a business. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Game only matters if you are GOOD LOOKING, also status and money is uselessWomen are attracted primarily to men that are confident, looks, wealth are all secondary. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | What to do when two girls give you their numbers at the same time?I would go alone with the both of them. | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Went on a date. Tried to organise a second, feel like she's not interested anymore.What you should do now is nothing, you already did enough messaging to reduce her attraction to you. All you can hope for is that she contacts you, which will mean she's interested. You trying to contact her will not help you in any way. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 04:40 PM |
| 9 | What to do when two girls give you their numbers at the same time?Ask them both out, not on the same date of course, it's too early to tell which one you really like. | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 0 | I've learned that a woman who is not a virgin is basically damaged goods for a relationship.Stop putting pussy on a pedestal folks. Pussy is pussy no matter how many time a dick has been in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 06:54 AM |
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