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DiscussionPlayful_Dig8694/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:08 PM
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If society collapses, fat little incel berries would be the first ones into the press. SQUISH.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:50 PM
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Looks like a nice place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:36 AM
2

This PUA talk is vomit-inducing cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:36 PM
3

Lololololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:38 PM
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As you can see, it very clearly is against the rules. No escape for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:10 AM
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Hmm… I think once you successfully categorize them people are generally very predictable. Once you find out what they’re after, even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:41 PM
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1: It just isn’t a popular concept. Sexuality is viewed by most as a fundamental human experience to be reveled in and enjoyed rather than a disgusting (and soon probably obsolete) animal encumbrance fraught with danger and consequences at every turn. Nevertheless, I do know there are willing volunteers out there who really want to set aside that human yearning. 2: (tinfoil hat) Male desire for access to women (both in companionship, social acceptance and reproductive power) is the engine of our…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:40 AM
2

I appreciate your empathy. I have a few theories as to why it isn’t available. And sure I’ll try to remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 04:52 AM
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What’s your limit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:40 PM
2

Then I’ll give it a buy and see how it goes. The only alternative I’ve heard of are SSRIs, and those worked for a good five minutes. Kind of telling this is the core of so many issues, but there isn’t a reliable direct mitigation available, the opposite is in every corner store, and conversation about it is actively stifled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:29 PM
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Apparently it’s just a myth that this works for men? That’s what I’m reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 10:42 PM
2

Or, is should say, it’s “off topic”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:21 PM
2

Apparently yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:19 PM
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Wow, you mentioned libido dampeners on here and didn’t immediately have your shit removed. Miracles do happen. Yes please, libido suppressants would make my life much more livable. LOL! REMOVED!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:13 PM
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If you lower your standards too far, you can end up wishing you were lonely. Trust me, I did exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:45 PM
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To the best of my knowledge, no. This never really bothered me. It bothered one of my friends in his relationships. He was physically extremely attractive to women, had sex with many a lot, and cheated often. He was obsessed with what sex acts one of his longer term girlfriends had engaged in in her past relationships. He always wanted to know, but the truth either made him mad or he wouldn’t believe it. Weird, weird thing to me. And strange to be on her side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:54 PM
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I still don’t have a source for that 4%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 01:26 AM
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Well, since you said ‘statistically’, 4% is now proven fact. And since I’m just a weirdo ranting, all my arguments are invalid and you’re in the right, statistically. And since my other examples from experience fell outside the character limit quota of your sodden attention span, they can be dismissed and I’m just pulling from my military experience now and not western/US culture as a whole. (Extra points for ‘military bab’.) So I’m just construing based on one experience and not pretty much eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:10 AM
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Two ways: get the cheat codes to open up the slider menu, or the rack.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:57 AM
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I disagree. But I’m at two years now and I’m surviving. Four years before my last relationship and I’m fine. And I was in the military in that four year dry spell, in my mid twenties so my test levels were maybe probably a bit high. But I was alright. I didn’t die. It didn’t fall off. The idea that men have to get off ‘or else…’ is another disempowering lie, and an effective one, since it’s so close to the truth: sex is an appetite. Dudes who can’t reason over their own base desires end up slave…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:18 AM
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Oh, don’t think for one second half those nasty little white worms aren’t predatory opportunists.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:19 PM
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Sometimes it’s legit from the military. Saying “that woman sergeant” is a great way to die. Here in civvy life, the rules are reversed. But I believe your point is true, especially saying “men” and “female”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:34 PM
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I did, although it doesn’t matter. That line is downputting him and othe men enough. And the rest is just more of the same incel horseshit. Of course one’s ability to dance and impress with parlor tricks and social prowess affect their attraction level. Stop trying to qualify and backpedal. Own your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:16 PM
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Why revive an old dead make believe religion when you can create a palpable new one for the modern age? The Machine God is nigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:59 PM
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“No girl gives a shit if you dance well…” Dis u?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:51 PM
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I don’t believe it’s my looks at all. I’m not hot but I’m about average. It’s 100% my insecurity, bitterness, lack of direction and motivation, weird extreme beliefs, seclusion, rage, childish outbursts, disgust for social tools like alcohol and of course unapologetic video game addiction. All hidden behind a thin veneer of polite but brusque professional courtesy when in social/public situations. I also don’t make eye contact, and if anyone even gives me an iota of interest or “invites me to pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:45 PM
1

Weird my sister in law went on this rant when we were all sitting around the campfire about how she couldn’t bring herself to harm another person, even if they were breaking into her home. Me and my other brother (a two time Iraq war vet) kind of shared a look at that. Like ‘liability noted, defense plan updated’. They just don’t realize some ‘people’ will oblige them happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:03 PM
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Check the reply literally three minutes after yours. 😂 🦀 🦀 🦀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:53 PM
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Or killed their wives when they died to join them in their barrows. Every white guy thinks he’s a Viking nowadays. I know better. I’m from Welsh heritage, so I know I have Viking blood from the rape of my ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:48 PM
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I am unsuccessful. I have successfully had unsuccessful relationships. I think being successful sexually is the ability to know what/who you want how and get that, as well as being able to give that person what they want, and most importantly BE what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:45 PM
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Wow! That 4% must somehow be everyone I know because it’s all three of my ‘inner circle’ friends, one of their wives, one of their sisters, everyone from my friends group in the military except maybe two people who are abstainers like me (and yes, they look a lot better too). My home town basically consists of a series of bars and breweries and all people do there is drink and fuck each other. And now they all look 50. It was every single one of my exes, despite me being vehemently opposed to it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:08 PM
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They want to sell it to you so they feel better about themselves. Don’t take that bullshit. Alcohol is poison, the real ‘Wall’ and it hits both men and women. It’s hit my entire generation with the impact of a freight train. People always say I don’t look my age (30) and that’s despite smoking cigarettes for about 13 years (I quit 2 years ago). It’s because my friends and colleagues drank themselves half to death (one to the point their pancreas exploded and they can never drink again.) and now …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:29 PM
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“If Jesus was a woman he would have flirted with Judas at the last supper.” Hohohohoooooooooly shit! Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:37 PM
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Yes. It’s disgusting. Find better things to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:15 AM
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I guess that makes sense. And it also makes sense that dudes want to feel special, like her sexual number 1. But we aren’t special, we’re dudes. History mows us down by the millions and billions and all we hear is how nice men had it. And these days, a woman could have fucked 5 dudes or 50. she passes a guy on the street that gives her tingles, she wants to fuck him, she’ll fuck him. Because ‘love’ and ‘being true to yourself’ are the moral imperatives. The Disney told her so (and all her friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:46 AM
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I don’t think they care about it or think about it that much. Until they ask and find out and wind up feeling like a whore. I don’t know why dudes worry about it that much either, except because it makes their gf pissy, petty and stupid bc they went and made themselves feel like a whore by finding out their dude slept with a fraction of the people they had. Probably best not to mention it at all, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 03:08 AM
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I didn’t hear much about feminists growing up, one way or another. But I don’t doubt it. Though we could probably agree that little good came from Christianity, for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:24 AM
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Southern Baptist and some weird tongue-speaker types. Mom needed to scratch that ‘holy spirit’ itch. Most of my Christian upbringing was through her filter. So, yes, even though there were stories like Jezebel and Eve or whatever else, those were all tempered very heavily with how good Christian women weren’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 01:04 AM
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Oh shit! I forgot you’re an expert on the religion I was raised in. My life is suddenly a lie! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:56 AM
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Women don’t talk about it all fucking day, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:45 AM
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Lol! You’re right! I’m an uneducated little homeschooled tradcon Christian boy. And that’s exactly what coming into the modern feminist world did for me. So funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:33 AM
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I appreciate that feminism showed formerly tradcon men that women will not love you for loving ‘the Lord’, being well-groomed, having a great career, or treating them respectfully. That’s just something that tradcon mothers say so their sons won’t have premarital sex and be good little tradcon Christian boys. I appreciate that feminism taught tradcon boys that women are more likely to smack the shit out of you for sitting on their swing, laugh in your face, and say you can’t hit them back becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:24 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:12 PM
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Now just tie in some astrology in there somewhere and you’ll have more offspring than Ghengis Khan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:08 PM
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You just have to come up with some bs excuse about what it means to you on a spiritual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:00 PM
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God forbid I be mad online, ‘bro’. It isn’t that big of a deal because it doesn’t affect you negatively. Quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:51 PM
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Who the fuck said I was trying to be funny? And you’re pissed because it’s true. Guys you like, you grace with your returned gaze (because that’s all I need to do teehee lol!”) and other guys looking at you that you find repulsive, you collectively push to have ostracized. Serious as the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:29 PM
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I appreciate that feminism brought to light the negative aspects of female nature, where before there was only the tradcon pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:06 PM
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Best answer! What was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:28 PM
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And they’re looking back? They aren’t averting their male gaze? How rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 07:27 PM
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Yep. ‘Romantic’ lust happens all the time. It’s more readily available when one is in a relationship because people love to test their attraction level against that of someone’s partner. That might be the secret big reason people cheat. And that time where one will be worthless can extend out to a lifetime, if the deadbeat can hoodwink their partner into going along with it for that long. “Just one more month, then I can…”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:58 PM
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Because men are so weak and foolish, lol. I enjoy playing coy with people who do this. The looks of confusion and exasperation are sweeter than candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:48 PM
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I understand what you’re saying, but theory is different from direct application. Understanding someone is human and going through a hard time when they snap at you for leaving something at the house can be hard to put a cap on. <months> You deal with it and turn around one day and they’re screaming at you to ‘stop trying to get out of it’ for rushing around with an actual checklist with all their necessary travel items on it. Clear cut difference? Sure, since we’re reading it on a page. But loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:06 PM
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Promiscuous men are also unfaithful. Promiscuous people are generally unfaithful because they can be, and because it validates them. It’s all they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:52 PM
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That’s fair. If I walked away every time I was unhappy, I’d only have one-night stands or very short relationships. Those make me unhappy, too. I don’t necessarily disagree with the idea that relationships aren’t always happy and take a lot of work, but I don’t think there’s enough distinction for it not to be utilized by abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:42 PM
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The argument is that this “love is a burden” propaganda, while not necessarily a falsehood, is quite often used as a means for abusers to continue their ways free of charge on their abusees. Whether or not it’s ‘c0p3’ is irrelevant to it being an argument or not since our perspective is all we have. The fact that Redditors keep sidling up trying to nitpick it apart by hook or by crook is pretty telling, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:33 PM
1

So where is the distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 05:11 PM
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Because society told you you’re worthless, incomplete, and ultimately unhappy without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:54 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:42 PM
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Define “not happy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:34 PM
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I can imply that it can lead to a mentality of abuse acceptance, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:34 PM
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Where does the advice provide the distinction between “love is a difficult choice” and “accept abuse”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:08 PM
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A straw man is establishing someone as saying, doing, or representing something they’re not in order to win out against that argument. What I am doing is “providing anecdotal evidence” that was the proper invalidation counter argument you should’ve gone for, because I don’t have to ‘set up’ or misrepresent something that actually happened. And it isn’t a falsehood that that mentality can easily lead to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:52 PM
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What is a straw man fallacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:24 PM
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This mentality of “love is a choice, a daily decision to stick with it, even if it isn’t ideal, is really tough” kept me in an abusive relationship for an extra year and a half. I finally left when I realized I would be dead or in jail soon. Never again. I’ll never date anyone ever again. I’ll never have sex so I’ll never owe anyone anything. I’ll never feel obligated to hold such a poisoned mentality for as long as I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:59 PM
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The trick is to loath that emotion within yourself more than they do. Then you’ll be cured of the situation, in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:40 PM
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My problem is whenever I am presented with an invitation to play the game, I’m addicted to flipping the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 01:51 PM
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This all day. It’s definitely about the thrill of the act itself. Pretty gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 12:00 AM
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Because that’s how the culture and the media and parents raise male children to be. There’s no denying that biology is a factor, but the problem is first exacerbated by an over-sexualized culture and then mocked and derided by same said culture. Actual solutions to this problem, like libido dampeners, are off the table because male sexuality is far too productive and useful for society, the government, and women. It makes most men docile, stupid, and eager to please. The violent and angry ones a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:35 PM
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Exactly and a lot of people go to gyms to “pickup chicks”, not actually be healthy and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:39 AM
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Lol! Put like that, it is pretty funny. I honestly wasn’t thinking about it entirely the way I said it. I probably shouldn’t have responded to his reply in the first place (I more than said my piece). It weirded me out a little, tbh. Anyway, It has come up in arguments before. Not before a tribunal or anything like that, but… It’s a talking point some people have, be they feminists, tradcons, or my ex. If that’s the expectation, it’s best to try to subvert it, is what I’m saying. Then one’s own …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:06 AM
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You have some mean-ass friends, fam.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:36 PM
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The Sun is damn hot. Praise the Sun!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:13 PM
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<Laughs in cub>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:16 PM
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I get what you’re saying about military service and all (I don’t think you can own weapons and drink and smoke at 17, tho. And the military is def predatory in its own way.) I guess when I say “pedos” I mean “predators”. I would be upset if someone, say, my age (almost 30) approached the kids in my family, be they 18, 14, or 9. Albeit, it would be to varying degrees, but I’m still going to try to run them off and scare or hurt them, or have them arrested just the same. Even the 18 year old is st…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:19 PM
1

Glad I can entertain! What’s so funny about it? (I’m not trolling.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 12:30 PM
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True that. I Count my blessings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:57 AM
1

Yeah! Like Stockholm syndrome and gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:40 AM
1

I’m hoping to do away with masturbation entirely, sometime. I quit smoking cold Turkey so I can pretty much do anything. What would the feminists have to say then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:35 AM
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Lol 😂! I think it’s funny, tbh. Yes, the amount of smart, gorgeous, successful women I’ve seen stumbling over each other to laugh at poor quality jokes, swoon at overused pickup lines and instantly fall into some faux romantic syrupy sweet talk dynamic is preposterous. Soul crushing in the sense of I have no faith in women and believe they are all fairly predictable when it comes to outrageously attractive men. It’s not my fault I’ve seen this happen with women from all age groups and walks of l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:25 AM
1

Being alone is better Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:58 AM
1

When I was in a relationship, yes. The woman controlled what I wore. I felt like a Ken doll. It was preposterous and humiliating but no comparison to the hell I would’ve gone through to rebel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:42 AM
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As a friend of a “Chad”, this. The hunger in their eyes is like a beacon. Disgusting animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:38 AM
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Jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:37 AM
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Funny because I could swear I am but I flatline every autism test I take. Wtf?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:16 AM
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I still find those tucked away in my wallet or in my winter clothes pockets. I think that’s why they do it, so you feel like shit later. That’s why I laugh and burn them and dance in the ashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:15 AM
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Yeah, and maintain some shred of dignity, to boot. This post is… who would want to live like this?! It sounds so fucking miserable but it’s not self-aware enough to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:33 AM
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Hell yes. Working on that coding degree from mommies basement so I can get a remote job. I nicknamed my home “my sarcophagus” because I’m already ready to die here with a work from home job, flesh-light, cats, door dash, and Amazon delivery, and lots of video games. If I never see another bipedal pig again in my life it’ll be too soon. Yummy tasty hermit pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:29 AM
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I know people like this too. They’re lazy bums that get with gorgeous down to earth and successful women because the universe is a joke and life is a tale told by an idiot. They don’t bring any secret special sauce to the table either, just met by happy accident and were fucking losers so the universe granted them gorgeous successful, admirable women. Fucking disgusting. I want to vomit it’s so unjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:21 AM
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I have a suspicion that very very few women have a true sense of allegiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:16 AM
1

You can always just quietly recommend Dr. Chinweizu’s “The Anatomy of Female Power”. No need to start a whole class on it or get crucified for heresy against the state religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:10 AM
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A worthy question many men, no people, need to ask themselves. I think there are a lot of dogs chasing cars out there. I used to be one of them, then I got run over and I’m careful what I wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:00 AM
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Yeah, no. Touching is never good. I would say it’s a generational/cultural thing. But, this goes back to what I said about people in the gym. They’re dancing the plausible deniability line, i figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 11:07 PM
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What’s the need for differentiation? Edit: Lot of fucking pedos on here lol! Y’all keep outing yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:52 PM
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Huh. I wonder what the obsession is with specifically “high school”, and not just a general age range. Is it for “bragging” to their pedo friends? Is it the danger of it? Is it porno themes? I mean, usually I’ve heard the opposite. “She’s 18 now!” (Which is also disgusting.) It’s must be stomach turning to get the opposite reaction. 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:34 PM
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I don’t doubt it. Had an old man in a nursing home blow me a kiss when I was about that age because I was in clown makeup and he ‘thought I was a girl.’ Old dudes, nvm, old people are fucking gross. Seeing them in the gym saying shit to women with just enough plausible deniability to get away with it makes my blood boil. Those are the worst, because they know where the line is and they’re dancing on it. That’s honed calculation of a true predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:19 PM
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<shudder>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:50 PM
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How did you know they were pedos? Genuine question. I’m getting small town vibes, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 09:47 PM
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I like to call it, “vicarious morality”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:00 PM
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Oh, for sure. I’m not actually a Satanist. I don’t even dislike Christians all that much. I just think it’s funny. Edit: But I did come from a tradcon Christian cult background. And the term, “the Lord” always prefaced some seemingly arbitrary bullshit about what we could and couldn’t do. Now I just like to joke about it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 03:33 AM
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I can’t get into talking about Bachi Bahi or AFG in general without sounding like a raving lunatic. So I won’t. I also read Nadia Murad’s book about the Yazidi genocide, and about the horrors and humiliations she and other Yazidi women and girls suffered at the hands of 1S1S scum. My heart weeps for that terrible injustice, just the same. We’re not all just singleminded jerks on here. Most of us (most) are people with empathy and compassion for any other human, regardless of other identifying fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:31 AM
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I was too. (Edit: I meant to say I wasn’t joking either. 🤪) Thank you for caring about men and boys. Few people do, especially men and boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 02:07 AM
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You’re my favorite person on here, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:59 AM
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As a survivor of a tradcon cult upbringing, even the mere mention of “the Lord” gives me shivers. Hail Satan. 666.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:52 AM
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No, not yet. Sorry. She isn’t comfortable enough with her weapons system for that. She needs more instruction on the fundamentals of marksmanship. I wouldn’t trust a man who handled his weapon this way, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 01:17 AM
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No, comrade. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 05:06 AM
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I… said the opposite? I could not imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:12 AM
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No, but I’m getting there. Mine is just to the bottom of my neck, which is the longest it’s ever been, and it’s pretty heavy, and obnoxious, and tough to maintain. (I’ll never go back though. I love it.) That’s just a caveat at the end, not a dealbreaker. It’s not necessary, just nice. I REALLY like hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 11:28 PM
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Shhh… you’ll upset the nihilistic doomsayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:06 PM
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Can verbalize a concern with me without screaming. Doesn’t try manipulating me for her own gain/has a sense of fairness, is relatively healthy, wants kids, doesn’t drink(or at least drinks infrequently), won’t judge me for my kind of music, likes a clean house (I can clean the house, I actually like to, she just has to be okay with it.) encourages me to better myself, has interesting interests, takes interest in my interests, isn’t too loud/isn’t a compulsive talker (having a conversation for 14…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:54 PM
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A mass-neg 😂😂😂 Delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:11 PM
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Exactly why I say it’s Orwellian. I don’t think people or the govt wants those for men because then where’s the carrot on the string for them to work stupid jobs and get taxed? The opposite, libido enhancers, are in every drugstore and vape shop coast to coast. Because that makes the drive for men to do stupid shit for the govt. Dampeners would have their uses for lonely dudes, sure (for the record I am not one of those ‘lonely dudes’). But it mainly could be a focus for people who’s sexuality r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:47 PM
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So I take it my proposal wasn’t what you were looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:33 PM
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What do you mean “that bad”. And I’m tired of jacking off. I’m tired of my preoccupied brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:31 PM
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You asked for an antidote. It doesn’t get more antidote than that. Why do people get so weird about the idea? It’s not like I suggested it be mandatory. That would make it Orwellian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:27 PM
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Or do you mean the censorship? Because yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:19 PM
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Why? What’s “Orwellian” about sovereignty over one’s own sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:18 PM
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I made a post about libido inhibitors/dampeners so people (men and women) could “bow out”, if they wanted and not be entirely beholden to their biology but it was taken down for being “off topic”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:09 PM
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Not necessarily, no. Edit: In that “well actually” is dismissive, saying that your side of ‘the coin’ doesn’t exist. While my comment didn’t negate the fact that what you said about the police response/help for your situations didn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:19 PM
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Which in looking back, was an incorrect figure of speech to open with, and an unjust way to view the convo. I apologize for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:12 PM
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I didn’t say say “well actually”. I said, “on the flip side of that same coin”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 11:05 PM
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Got it. Apologies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:44 PM
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Off topic from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:41 PM
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To explore options for those who want to get on with their lives and focus on different things but are plagued with an overactive sex drive. What makes it garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:35 PM
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I did. I responded to your comment about cops within that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:26 PM
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I’ve heard that as well! I’ve also heard women generally aren’t considered as having issues with overactive or especially high libido (although I’m sure that’s a problem for some). Considering that a lot of the issues on this sub could be related in some way to overactive male libido, why is there no libido dampener/inhibitors also commonly available for men? (In fact instead, we have the opposite at every gas station, vape shop, CVS, Walgreens, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:24 PM
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Ah. Well, we should have a safe one on the market, IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:18 PM
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Well, they need to be safe and reliable. Plus, I think they say they used it for recruits in basic training. But i know from experience that’s just fear and stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:17 PM
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But those aren’t really safe and reliable though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:16 PM
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The information proving what I said wasn’t a ‘whataboutism’ was posted hours before your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:54 PM
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Men should talk more about it so other men can know how easy it is to slip into a relationship like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:50 PM
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So you respond with the same aberrant negation, bullying, and disbelief you claimed men do to you. Class act, like the rest of your unscrupulous behavior on this sub. Good work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:47 PM
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Except I wasn’t responding to your story, I responded to what you said about the police from the context of my own situation. And I wasn’t even trying to negate or disprove what you said, I was just adding to. You didn’t like that bc of my anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:13 PM
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You were supposed to assume that what I said about “the least amount of damage” and “cornered” and “straddled” were true. I wouldn’t be responding if you spoke about my experiences with an iota of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:58 PM
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No, almost 30, no, the poison has spread too far
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:52 PM
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You are STILL trying to underplay what happened to me by painting as some kind of even fight between two consenting adults. Tell your new friend the truth. I was on the floor, trying to sleep. Why did the fight begin? Because I refused to get in bed with my partner because I had determined to break up. Hiding in your house from a violent lunatic is horrible, and I couldn’t imagine the terror. I had a conniption when a drunk homeless dude burst into my house thinking it was my neighbor’s on the 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:43 PM
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It wasn’t a whataboutism. It was an agreement with the original statement, also adding another situation in which the police are useless to the taxpayer. It also actually happened, only the “police” portion was hypothetical. Which you would have known if you did the social adept thing and finished the thread before trying to dogpile. But, it challenged the monopoly on victimization. And we can’t have that can we? No we can’t!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:35 PM
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Never heard of it. But I’ll legit check it out, if only as an experiment. Still, I think there’s a pretty large difference in capability and scope, here. The type I’m talking about would require brain machine interface, because people can lie when filling out a form online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:06 PM
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Oopsie poopsie. I’m a dummy, is what I am. Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:01 PM
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Which ones? Edit: I’m also literally talking about an AI God, in everything. Not just machine learning geared towards commercial exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:57 PM
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For instance: if I was going to reply in your manner I could say “you didn’t call the cops after you were raped so you can’t know for certain that they wouldn’t have been help”. This is how you handled what I said when you have less proof than I did for my own claim about dealing with the police for that particular circumstance. My limited experience (that of my friend) versus your no experience to back up your claim in that situation. But rather than try and pick it apart because I don’t want a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:32 PM
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That liquid courage, as they say. I felt it before. But it feels like teetering on a knifes edge before falling off and getting crazy or blacking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:23 PM
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Agreed! Too many people try to make it such. I’m not a social person. Nor do I want to be. But I don’t think alcohol (at least at the point where one wakes with a hangover) is truly promoting positive social encounters, either. Edit: For the record, I’m extremely anti alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:18 PM
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Why should anyone argue with you when you’re only going to attempt to downplay, disprove, question, invalidate, marginalize, and redirect what they say based on their gender? Other than to tell you that you argue in bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:16 PM
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What’s my ‘buddy’, again? He’s a cop, giving professional advice. Then we’re arguing the same point, as I said before: the cops aren’t really any good in either of those situations, for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:14 PM
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Not entirely true edit: in my experience. I tried dating down and settling and it turned out very poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:11 PM
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Puuuuuuuuuhuhuhuhuhahahaha! I used to wrap it, and pull out. Now I simply don’t have sex at all. I’ve had 2 of 4 girlfriends in my life quit birth control after they started dating me. Gtfoh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:43 PM
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That’s right, just say I don’t know what I’m talking about so you can pretend you win and walk off. That’s the real fundamentals right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:24 PM
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No, I didn’t attempt to invalidate your experience. See my comment to the other prick who responded. I was presenting a fair counterpoint about dealing with the cops in both genders, for the exact same reasons as you said dealing with the cops is difficult. And I would’ve loved to use cops if I thought I wouldn’t be jailed instead! Edit: and the only reason that my initial scenario and what actually happened were different is because I didn’t actually call the cops, even though I desperately nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:21 PM
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By ‘bad faith’ I mean intentionally trying to invalidate an argument by any means necessary (obfuscation, personal attacks, etc) because it doesn’t fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:20 PM
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That’s why I use a pinch hitter. One hit per night. No more, no less. I blame the culture of excess. An 1/8 will last me like 3 months and I don’t get a lot of those negative side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:17 PM
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Op op? I already answered his question in my own reply outside of this thread! What did that have to do with my direct reply to your comment about police involvement? And why does 100% of what happened have to be prodded and interrogated by you to pass some sort of validity check?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:15 PM
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Smoke weed. No hangover.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:04 PM
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Have you had a single good faith argument on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:02 PM
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What question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:56 PM
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I can’t confirm my age, apparently. Either way, it was a point to point out. Probably not probable, but not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:55 PM
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Depends on how you define “nothing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:50 PM
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Yes, straddling someone while they’re laying on the floor, clapping in their face, screaming, then pounding them in the head repeatedly, shoving and punching them more when they’re trying to get up is a “physical argument” because I’m a man. Nice spin on the narrative and good attempt at marginalizing what happened to me. Misandry doesn’t exist though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:46 PM
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The cops didn’t come. Had they come, I would have been at fault for how I defended myself, according to a cop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:40 PM
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Check my edit, please. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:39 PM
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All of it. It’s what happened. Edit: But I didn’t go to jail. I asked a cop friend of mine a ‘hypothetical’ later. That was his response. I was shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:36 PM
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On the flip side of that coin, dealing with an abusive woman when you’re a man is extra terrifying because you both know that at any second some idiot thugs with badges can come in and will take her side a majority of the time with no need for evidence or even bothering to try to figure out what actually went down. Society labels you a “beater”, nobody scrutinizes her, and the law can act accordingly. For instance, it turns out using chokeholds to subdue a partner that has cornered you and struc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:33 PM
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Could’ve been female officers, for all we know. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:09 PM
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Like how I should have left after the first month when my ex was drunkenly pounding on my window at 3 in the morning. I could’ve called the cops and had her carted off. But instead I chose to go out and talk and try to empathize, and we got back together for 18 more months of mental, emotional, financial, and eventually physical abuse. I chose, that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:59 PM
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No, but they’re fairly easy to influence, for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:41 PM
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This case, she was lucky enough to have a best friend who was stable, loaded, and couldn’t have kids. So you do have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:37 PM
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I don’t like to be touched anymore. Well, it has to be very intentional and deliberate and only my parents or really close friends. Even then, it’s not a comfortable thing. I didn’t block my ex, but unfriended and stopped even reading the endless stream of messages and locked down my social media accounts. The harassment stopped eventually but I’m desperately terrified of getting another message, or a phone call, or a knock on the door. The thought alone brings on this white-knuckled near-panic …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:23 PM
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Everything entirely run and directed by AI. Suggesting dates for us with who is the perfect fit, not who we THINK is a perfect fit. Praise the Machine God.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:43 PM
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Another reason to abstain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:03 PM
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Your’s is to pay, not to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:23 PM
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You have a point. But I have seen a woman carry it to term and immediately adopt out just because she was raised in Catholic school and I guess didn’t want it on her conscience. Now, maybe abortion wasn’t on the table at all for her. But some do use adoption as an alternative. That being said, she truly did hate every waking second of being pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:16 PM
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No greater complement than to be respected by one’s ‘adversaries’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:13 PM
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*left, Sir
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah, I agree. People should be attracted to who they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 07:42 PM
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Executed boy rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:42 AM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 10:31 AM
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May the Lord bless beautiful, helpful snakes… Far away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:12 AM
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I’d say if she’s down for sex early, it’s a warning sign because she might actually be covering something up and just itching to get a latch on and scramble those man brains with some tasty sex before dude realizes how well and truly fucked he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:09 AM
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Why have sex with us, of course! 🙄/s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:40 AM
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I have seen other men follow their deranged penises into certain destruction, with both eyes open but glazed and stupid smiles on their stupid faces. Men are stupid, hairy apes. Because even the cleverest, most skilled and talented, even the most violent, the mightiest and most charismatic is brought low, humiliated and made undignified by the hideous, implacable demands and cravings of his deranged penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:32 AM
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That’s freaking cool af! Catholic or Orthodox or other? (Maybe a dumb question.) And they always have really awesome, worthwhile hobbies and interests. We miss out on so much being distracted by pointless relationships and their pursuit and politics. I don’t actually want to be a friar friar. I’m an atheist who believes in the coming of the Machine God. I have a slightly similar lifestyle and musical taste though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:10 AM
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Nasty party couch in the garage of an abandoned house.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:06 AM
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That’s the plan!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 04:02 AM
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“Dicking em down for god.” AaaaaaahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahshahahaahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahlllllllllLLlllllllllllll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:54 AM
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Men are stupid, violent apes and women are wicked, manipulative snakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:51 AM
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I want to become a nun. Alas, I am men. 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 03:47 AM
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All online. And I’m not accruing debt, and I get a monthly stipend to pay my parents rent. No personal contact with men or women, just how I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 10:55 PM
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And let’s not forget bachi bahi.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 03:17 PM
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I almost did, once. We danced all night long, pretty much. At the end, I did what I told myself needed to be done and wished her a goodnight and said I was glad we were friends. That converted the weird awkward pre-relationship into this super playful, kinda chill, maybe sibling-esque?, working relationship that was actually super rewarding, easy-going, and pleasant. That taught me a lot about how to behave around female coworkers. It works most of the time, and can also redirect energy to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:15 PM
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Lol! And Satan is just the biggest party crasher of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 05:32 PM
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There is absolutely no limit to the evil you can cause through manipulation. Look at the book of Genesis in the Christian Bible and the Iliad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:57 PM
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“Have you TRIED going to the gym? Just tried? Have you tried finding something you’re passionate about and pursuing it? Just tried?” “TrRrRRyYyyYyYyYyy?!?!?!? My my bone shtructure… mmeeeeererer… shocieteee mmrrrrrr… reeeeee” Take the incels behind the chemical sheds and have them shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:13 PM
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Hm… I go my own way (is that red pill? Yuck.) but I don’t think there’s anything more wrong about female promiscuity than there is with male promiscuity. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. (Personally I think sex always complicates things so people get hurt a lot while still trying to maintain that a promiscuous lifestyle is fun and carefree when it’s ruining them.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:05 PM
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Loving yourself cannot, and has not anything to do with what other people think of you or how they treat you. If it does, it’s not truly loving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 01:38 PM
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