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Question For MenPleasant-Speed2003/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:52 PM
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DebatePleasant-Speed2003/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:24 PM
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Nothin i say will change your mind or make you think differently. If dating makes you this dissmisive, hopeless and angry then give it up and waste your time on something that makes u happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:09 AM
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Almost every relationship and couple ik irl (including people who come to my wprkplace) split finances, are generally on a level and most take it in turns to pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:56 AM
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To start with, weather a woman is in active combat roles or not they take part in the war effort. There work was extremely important during the world wars in manufactoring, medical care and other areas. That does matter. And it does change their lives and did put them at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:47 AM
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Tbh id have made my intentions more clear before ever kissing someone but idk this just seems like you worked with a bunch of dicks, especially the main girl. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:17 PM
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Its not victim blaming to say that the way men were raised contributes to this issue. Thats not the victims fault if there were a victim? And a lot of women ask for help too. There are more male only spaces popping up in the uk though to help ease presure on the lifeline resources that are really just a stop gap, and to get men long term help. Last time i looked at the statistics and possibly they were out of date showed a different picture of men asking for help, im glad thats getting better. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:04 PM
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Ive never been good at a job that harmed my body. And in general there are fewer and fewer jobs that do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:00 PM
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Good for you, i truly hope you give up on dating if this is how hopeless you are going to veiw it. Theres no point me trying to reason with crazy. Good luck in life ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:54 PM
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I literally am judged on that, by the same people who judge men on that. Equally ive noticed male coworkers in equally shitty jobs actually still get more respect than me from others. So i really am not believing this is worse for men in terms.of actual experience. In terms of how we are made to worry about that by social pressure and influencers, thats where the difference is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:51 PM
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I am aware the phenomenon is not new but part of why its got worse is male focussed influencers particalarly right leaning. Also men and women are scrutinised for not acheiving. As someone whos done badly most their life my lack of a penis hasnt stopped others looking down on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:47 PM
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I believe the way society is set up causes a lot of people in general to comit suicide. But that this is worse in men due to a lot of negative talk from male aimed influencers (ex: if you arent ritch and strong no one likes you and your a loser) and also that only recently has mens mental health been taken seriously. As well as body image not being talked about for men and unrealistic standards being set. Also more vetrans are men, and vetrans have a suicide issue too due to lack of support afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:41 PM
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I can agree in some ways but i do see issues men face that just arent covered in womens or non gendered issues. Like mens abuse survivor shelters, and also the general mens spaces and mental health support is in its infancy so theres likely a lot more things men could see as benefitial that arent yet being done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:39 PM
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All i can say is i was an attractive teen, still 90% of dudes would turn me down. You gotta meat someone you match with in more than one way. Also weight and looks and all that in terms of what someone wants will be different person to person. For example i dont like Brad pitt, but hes still attractive to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:37 PM
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Okay i can support this, but what about tasteful mirror pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:33 PM
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I think in general this is one of thos areas where women online talk a lot and irl say very lkttle as its a sorta taboo topic. But honestly almost every girl/women ive known had "this is my unatainable hot guy internet crush" guy, like f1 drivers and bands and singers. But also have different and realistic crishes on boys they know, or friends. I do believe in terms of sexual relationships between too people that in general media can get in the way a lot (espexially when people are inexperienced…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:32 PM
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Health coverage isnt somerhing i look into not being from the usa so having public healthcare. I agree there needs to be more abuse shelters for men, but that is changing and i know it is as ive seen two places change their rules on this to have male safe places too. Doctors, therapists and support agencys are taking mens abuse seriously, i am connected to this feild and its something i have taken note to check about. Why do men need more painkillers than women? this explains part of why i also …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:25 PM
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Ok believe what you want, dont try if its what you want, at the end of the day its your choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:18 PM
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For women to stop lying about the fact that they would rather be an exceptional man's side chick, than their equal's wife If you truly think this you are honestly beyond trying to talk to about this. Many many many people are in averagge long term relationships with average people. Just as those people with money gaslight you about their privilege, is the same way women gaslight men about their privilege, with you, and this post being the perfect example Explain how?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:17 PM
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Firstly, women also take part in the military during war, in fact its how women earned the right to vote. Also voting especially in western countries often has very little to do with how war is handled or drafts. Its been a long time since there even was a draft. Also avergae men are, unsurprisingly, in relationships with other average people. This whole 10-20% thing has just made men who believe they arent good enough stop trying. But then again if you aim for the top 10-20% of women only, mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:15 PM
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Yeah i agree, the language is the bit that needs removed from the likes of sa campeigns ect. The language being removed will likely also mean most of the sentiment being removed, tho it will take longer to get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:11 PM
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Can you explain further, list some experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:10 PM
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I mean everyone is expendable to someone. This is about changes or projects you believe could make mens lives better. I agree making good friends will always help! But thats more personal level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:10 PM
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So your saying theres no actionable change to make mens lives better? Is this because you believe that someones view of men is the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:09 PM
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Dating isnt over for men in america as far as i can tell you just consume too much reddit, and other social media. Generally women want you to: - accept a no when your told no - aproach and be nice - not put presure on them (ex: buying a drink and being anoyed because you bought them a drink and didnt get some action) - be a decent human to everyone, and not treat women different or worse because they are women. Incels, and those with low social skills ect arent necessarily bad, but if thats a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:08 PM
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Thats a fair comment to me, i guess also could fit in what i said not to do, but i agree removing that language is necessary and its something i get anoyed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:05 PM
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People had to put up with things in the past they dont have to now. Id love an example of where you think the man was being reasonable in persuing a girlfriend and that was actually concidered harassment? Okay, it may be in decline but from what ive seen people are mostly, if there family was religious in the same church or maybe a slightly less strict version of the same religion, christianity is still big enough that there are 5 churches in my small town. But there are still PLENTY of people g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:04 PM
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My last paragraph simply means dont start saying stuff like "theres no hope becuase no one even cares" or "well ppl of colour get x thing so men should have it too" but more like "men need x thing to do better" i just wanted it to be more positive and focussed ig
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:59 PM
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Its not harassment if you can be a normal person and just meet someone, if its against policy thats different, but also that policy probably has been the same for a long time. Its not a new thing to not have couples work at the same company. People are deffinately still religious, im 21 and quater of my year at school went to and still go to church for the most part. Again, it wont be considered harassment if your normal about it. There are also: pubs, clubs, cafes, shops, events, actual nights …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:58 PM
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I agree people can hide it well. And i dont think this post is just about people in PPD. But there are things that slip out, beliefs that people dont think they need to hide ect. As well as bitterness and anger often being hardest to hide. Ive made mistakes and dated people when i was a teen who i thought might think misogynistic things, and i wouldnt do it again. That thought is echod by a lot of other women ik. Women ik who have settled down are not with those sorts of men, including myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:10 AM
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Yes but if someone gives of the impression they dont respect women, and they are a woman, a very high percentage will choose not to be around that person anymore. Also morality is different, but its generally a very easy thing to be a decent person, specific morals are outside that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:07 AM
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If the way you speak and your first impressions come of bad to others they will not want to date you. Thats why its pointed out. The way you speak can tell people about the things you think (to a degree) and getting dates isnt about your true self, its about first impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:22 AM
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Masculine men tend to not actually cause these issues if brought up and taught correctly? Like the competetiveness in my family and the men in it doesnt make them nasty to women ect. I also know way more wussy/short/high voised men who like to be nasty to women and others and get themselves locked up. I dont think either is a marker of a bad person, and hormones effect people but if u cant controll it and be normal thats probably an overproduction and u should go to doc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:21 PM
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Lol cool beans dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:49 AM
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How explain it to me. My point is dont trust men not dont trust a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:34 PM
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Jokes are fine and good coping mechanisms if youve been through things and it works for you. The dudes still part of my life are honestly great people, or at least good enough for the level of trust i have in them haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:43 PM
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I made this post because ive worked through my ptsd and anxiety and see theres actual logical reasons not to trust men. And in dif ways to women because of the streagnth ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:43 AM
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I know couples of all ages whove been together for very long periods of time who are very commited. And i do believe my relationship is one that could last a lifetime tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:37 PM
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Coz im typing on my phone on reddit and ngl i cant spell for shit. And i gave up caring about that unless anyone important reads it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:32 PM
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Deffinately not ive been with one chad and he was so bad i decided to stop in 2 mins, he didnt even finish i just had enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:28 PM
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I agree that others damage our self image but the point is to try your best to build yourself back up and admire the good qualities you have and build on that thing you do good by adding other things your good at. Part of making yourself feel confident can also be working on the way you look/ hobbies or something else. Also self confidence and self love doesnt mean "im so pretty and skinny" but accepting what you look like and being comfortable building on yourself, trying new styles and ways of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:26 PM
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It is but im a brit so its dd/mm/yy instead of mm/dd/yy like the usa. So every time i read 9/11 i think 9th of november as the other option haha. Crap boring joke but ugm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:22 PM
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Brooklyn 99 was pretty good imo as it didnt freak me out and just sorta funny, movie id suggest princess bride if you dont know it, documentaries id suggest.just looking up something ur into on netflix if you can or even youtube and you will find something good. These just my no anxcious choices tho so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:21 PM
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I feel that theres a local group where a man just blasts consipracy and trump.to the point its just a group where ppl go to laugh at him and hes clearly not all there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:19 PM
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You mean the 9th of november?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:17 PM
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Its not just the pretty or popular ones getting dates but equally id say there shouldnt be presure to rush it as an immature silly relationship doesnt always teach good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:12 PM
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Nah this my main im the op. I mean yes laws exist but generally with r pe and sa and things they dont actually do the time for the crime very often and even if they do they have minimal sentances. For example a "banned from working with kids for 5 years" or "18month in jail" ect ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:00 PM
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I said his job and money do not prove hes interesting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:00 PM
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How can a polyamorous person tolerate being in a monogamous relationship that doesn't make sense to me. Im mostly open to my partners doing things also my bf and me have the same wants and he doesnt want an open relationship anyways so it works perfectly for monogamy. And i dont think poly has changed my veiw of monogamy coz i never was polly i was just in open relationship. Which is different and i was aware what was changed for that. My bf always been monogamous and i went with exactly what hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:00 PM
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This doesn't erase the fact people with open boundaries often feel like they are superior to closed boundaries. And how people are pressured to open up or tolerate open relationships Okay, cool, but ive said nothing like that and the opposite in the fact that i am in a amonogomous relationship? Idk if ive worded something poorly here but i am not better than OP? I am not sure being in same page is enough, a poly person dating monogamy even with agreed terms sounds like a bad idea to me Why not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:44 PM
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I wasnt dictating shit my point is it is up to the two people in the relationship whats healthy for them? And im in a monogamous relationship because i am in love and i dont want anyone other than him and he doesnt want us to be open and we discussed and agreed to this before dating officially so we both are on the same page, thats what i feel is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:33 PM
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My first point tho probably badly explained is i think op is entirely right about what they want. But that other people want other things. That was my reason for tryna explain my POV with "personally" and stuff. Also i know im not within the normal thoughts of a monogamous person but i am also on a manogamous relationship, where my partner is very not comfy with the more "open" things i think but is okay with minor stuff like me doing things myself when hes not in the mood or watching a vid or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:23 PM
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Most the comments i see are "agreeing with your partner matters but the agreement shouldnt be dictated by others"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:13 PM
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I think the real veiw change is you know what you need. Ops partner should only see them as a source of fulfilment or move onto someone more aligned with what they want. For me, im pretty open, i want my partner to enjoy life, and if they want to try something, i would even be okay with them finding someone to get that sort of experience. I also believe mastorbating separately is healthy as it means there's never someone who really wants it and is totally unable to do anything if the other partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:10 PM
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I can get that given the stats and things shes seen, your a strong person for understanding and apreciating through that and managing the odd feelings. I can imagine how odd it would be to confront.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:53 PM
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Firstly i also dont intervene in husband and wife fights its fair enough and a personal choice. But also i dont get how my pov even changes your decision there? And also how would my pov be an incentive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:50 PM
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I can agree with the first parts and really tried to keep thinking that as i do with other forms of comedy im not into but then it just doesnt seem to add up that way ig? I will say its maybe just something i havent thought too much into, but ill have to look into it and think and talk to people about the women just touching, i can actually think a couole examples without that so ur pos right tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:45 PM
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I mean i dont know if theyd ac enjoy it but when youve not experienced and only imagined you think youll be fine. Even i used to think id be fine before it happened and i wasnt touch starved or anything. Its kinda complex to wrap your head around even in the aftermath of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:42 PM
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Bro money and being a surgeon meen sweet f all to me? You could be a billionair so could others here. No matter what job or amount of money someone has it really doesnt tell me if your a decent person or an interesting person. And im in a commited relationship, and have been in some form of relationship w someone since 13 so you missed the mark with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:40 PM
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Sooo if a man doesn't consider himself a potential rapist or abuser he is the problem? Okay dude. Not whats being said. Except that you just made it gendered I need to be wary of men as they are bigger, stronger and in general usually more powerful than me, so i shouldnt trust men in general to be good, i need to aproach it with more causion for my physical safety as imo i could hold my own against most women. But not many men. If i trust a woman the same the chances of her physically overpoweri…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:33 PM
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I agree that gold digging isnt good, and most the time they either get half or child support (which they deserve) and being real its not going to be enough to bankrupt a guy. Also money issues can cause suicide i agree but its not murder or rap and survival of those things also can cause suicide attempts. Equally i kmow divorce baytles them selves can cause poverty ect but tbh it can happen to either side depending on what happens and its mostly coz a relationship breakdown that bads always goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:37 PM
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In my oppinion bias due to past experiences is just either ptsd or survival instinct or something along those lines, im scared of ginger beards (dumbest shit ever) doesnt mean i hate or actually percieve gingers as worse. And for the example here of me not trusting men is that i used to believe i could trust men in general to be okay and the more ive learned the research, numbers and other behaviour has shown me i cant and need to be more careful because of the biological differences and develop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:09 AM
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Me not trusting men doesnt mean i wont trust a man. I trust my bf and i trust some exs and some friends and some family too! I just dont trust men idk or who give me a bad vibe. Im still willing to give people a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:06 AM
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A sense of security doesn't necessarily mean greater security objectively. I mean this is obvious its like house locks to stop break ins, a determind theif will still find a way. it's because of statements like yours that people like me won't defend you if your boyfriend ends up abusing you. What statement exactly and what makes you feel like this is an okay way to behave? What do you mean by "not support" tho? What do you even mean by lose lose game? I just want to understand why you are saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:05 AM
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I agree they can still be nasty but with women i am actually not able to seperate my personal distrust from whats logical where as with men ive realised i am being logical to be distrusting of them. And i know both cause harm but honestly ive seen far less violent and scary from women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:00 AM
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Legit not what i said or what i do sorry to disapoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:58 AM
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Exactly tbh, my bf is probably the best man ive met (protective of everyone, caring and outright lovely) and the thing that helped me trust him was his understanding of me being nervouse. First time i visited his he hung out with me and his sister then made me sleep in the guest room (disapointing considering what i expected haha but one of the sweetest quiet gestures to make sure i felt safe ive had)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:58 PM
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I mean my reason for posting is figuring out this wasnt just teauma or some bs that iw as actually being pretty logical about men tho im still not sure enoigh on the women side.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:55 PM
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I critiscised your ability to read not write bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:53 PM
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U unblocked me too, proud of you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:28 PM
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I can do both indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:28 PM
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Fair, also that many elipses was not necesary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:19 PM
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Im not in a wormhole or doing that n think ur advice lines up with what i mean by my post ty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:16 PM
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Hows it back pedaling? I do not trust women including my own mother, i trust men more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:12 PM
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It entirely happened with a bunch if guys but okkk And child domestic violence being that way i expected but w no kids and no want for them its not really an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:11 PM
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Good for you buddy, u want patted on the head?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:05 PM
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I trust women even less thanks to my personal experiences..... so not really sure why yr saying all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:01 PM
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I dont think its sexist to realise i shouldnt trust men in general? Espexially as i already really dont trust women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:30 PM
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I mean yes women lie and put people in jail as do men especially considering last time i checked false arrests were pretty even across the board of crimes. But ive not seen that lead to death. And especially where i live there isnt mob justice so not that way either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:29 PM
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Okay well i trust black people the same i trust any other race so. And im talking about how ive figured out that i trust men too much and shouldnt trust them. I dont talk to many women and any i do are at arms leagnth even in my family.. so yeah, i really dont trust women. But this post isnt about that as ive het to figure out if its ptsd, ansiety, bad experiences or reality. So i wont comment on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:23 PM
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What do you even mean that literally says men are also more likely to be the ones giving out abuse online???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:18 PM
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Black women have no distinct physical advantage or hormonal/brain/development differences to me. Men do. Also my point of this post is ive finally figured out why i shouldnt trust men not that i trust men less than women or anything like that as im the opposite in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:16 PM
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Wdym why the downvotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:14 PM
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You must live one boring as life to comment on debate posts you dont want to debate just for funzies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:13 PM
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Oh i do regularaly, thanks for ignoring the rest of my explination just to make your argument easy, wont convince me of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:03 PM
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Social media isnt harming my mental health. I can agree if i was just following crazy ass men id not make head nor tail of anything useful. However ive been watching these nasty people on socials and what they interact w vs the people i know with some level of respect and who arent violent a holes. And seeing the number of people liking the AH stuff and posting it was a wakeup call to how many abusers are around that ppl dont know. I dont need to agree with someone to see they are a good person.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:03 PM
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Ive said so many times if your a decent guy ill trust you. My other point of if youd rap me just coz i dont trust you then you werent a trustable person should be clear by this point too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:59 PM
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Yeah, even dummer is the "Well im bad for not trusting women coz they gold digging hoes while your here judging us" like... gold diggers aint going to kill you? Or rap ? Like bro? And the worst ones saying well if you dont trust us anyway why not do it... proving my point ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:57 PM
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1 in 4 women are victims of ex crimes, the stats are equally worrying for male victims. The percentage of victims who were abused by men is also very high. Theres a local incentive to stop abuse that has also shown me how many men i dont yet know are creeps. Yes we live in a world of crimes and my whole point of not trusting men is exactly this they commit certain types of crimes i dont want to be victim of and the fact the tells for the creeps ik are shared and liked so much was a wake up call …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:55 PM
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Dude me not truating someone blindly isnt causing negative social credit hahaha. Disaproval also only comes into the picture once i know the mans not a safe person. Theres not incentive to be an abusive pos because i dont trust men unless you already really wanted to be an abusive pos and just want an excuse no matter how stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:50 PM
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Well you were comenting on soemthing about the meaning of my post on my post, on a debate where im encouraged to try reply to comments ect, so im gunna scroll through and if i see something i feel i can answer.or reply to ill do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:46 PM
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I dont trust men, doesnt mean i wont trust a man or its really hard for a man to get me to trust them. But it means im not just blindly trusting men. Also if me not trusting you is enough to make you commit violent crimes on women its kinda proved i was right about you. Good people dont act decently because they dont want ot be in jail, they do it because they are decent people and hurting someone isnt something they enjoy. Literally just be a decent person and people will trust you, if your hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:44 PM
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The thing is tho i acknowledge it could be a shoddy joke attempt from the op but that the ridiculous number of likes for it is weird. I get dark humour and i get people saying stuff that is outlandishly wrong and it being funny, but some just arent even objectively funny without any thought abiut my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:40 PM
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Exactly what "time" are they even doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:38 PM
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"Peoples bosses" means i know some bosses whoa ct like this and their behaviour from talking to people "Peoples bosses" ≠ "my boss" "peoples bosses" ≠ "every boss" Also my boss, and her boss and her boss are all women so... Equally "i dont trust men" ≠ "i dont trust any man"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:38 PM
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I can get that style of humour too! But theres a defo line that being real i cant explain between that being kinda funny and it just seeming very suspicious and i think its got more to do with context, tone and usual reactions. Also what your actually willing tos ay ur like with your whole face attached is a dif level too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:35 PM
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Maybe because."dont trust men" is dif to "dont trust a man" like i see why i shouldnt trust men now, still there are plenty men i trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:32 PM
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I mean its not the stories or headline stuff that freaks me out for one. But also i dont trust men but i do trust the men ik and have vetted to be trustable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:30 PM
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I dont think women are morally superior. Im also not afraid of men because of social media, im not trusting of men in general because of the way the proven creeps act on social and how many more faceless people react like that who could be anyone. And its shown me just how many creepy dudes i dont know of. Equally the number of people ik victims of and agressors of sex crimes caused by men are so ridiculously high compared to literally every other crime so... Even a lot of male victims are victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:27 PM
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So is this how your boss and ALL of the men around you currently behave? When did i ever say this? You just said that the guy who tried to kill his ex and the man who assaulted you both wound up in jail, as they should. Those two did, but ive had those things happen and not see jail, infacy most perpeatrators of sex crimes dont go to jail... luckily guys lawyer and him were streight up stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:24 PM
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I do in choose to be around better people from job choice to friends. Doesnt change the fact ik those people and many of them and find out about new ones at least once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:22 PM
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What on earth is this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:21 PM
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Black people and jews dont tend to actually have a different physical advantage over me. They also are no different from my pasty mayo coloured boring breed self. But men and women actually have different hormones and development. So they actually are kinda different and from being around both men and women id say socially act differently too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:11 PM
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My point ig is theres different levels to worry about and worrying about someone bitching or taking my money or something seems far less scary than being rapd again lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:07 PM
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Fucked U16yo girls usually, the guy who is in jail for rapn me, the man who went to jail for tryna kill his ex ect ect. I could list more but i dont feel its useful. These mean have commeited acts that should have landed them in jail. Theres also a small sub group of men i see as "mid level creep" who wolf whistle at young girls, tried groping me, ect ect. This group are comitting crimes or just being extremely odd with their behavior with no benefit to either person. Creepy doesnt mean awkward …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:05 PM
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Ive joked about worse than the mentioned comemnt and others ive seen and posts, but the way its joked about and the fact half the time its just a dull af statement thats nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:00 PM
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Lol i have a bf who i totally tust, i have friends and aquantances i believe to be great men. But my point is i very much understand why people are weirded out by men, where i didnt before. And i also see the paterns of what social media things relate to the awful men, and then ive noticed how popular that stuff is. Its honestly made me safer and happier having my own way to keep myself safe so its not a problem at all for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:59 PM
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Oh sure coz i dont interact with weird men every day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:57 PM
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I mean being real i have ptsd and honestly due to it trust women way less than men, and in general i can spot the difference between creeps and good guys, because of all the thinking researching and watching creeps ik ofs socials. But in doing this ive discovered how many more faceless men are out there doing this. And hiding it. And also most the womens stuff is about them being crappy people, the mens stuff is mostly about them being violent creeps. So i think theres a difference there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:57 PM
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Yes very funny indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:54 PM
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I get shock dark humour stuff isnt an indicator of good person or bad person. But the people i actually know are abusive or creepy like and share the stuff i couldnt quite figure out why it was "so funny" where as my bf makes some of the wildest jokes, and so do i about abuse, pedos and ect but there has to be a punchline or a funny thing to it. Not just a sort of steatement u get me? And same goes for most the edgy/cancelled comedians ive watched.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:54 PM
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Well how many seperate people? Any people you know irl like that? Do they actually interact with the content? What about the way they speak irl does it reflect that? And i mean its something to think about if you are going to marry a woman ig? But sadly none are interested in me. If im homest with u i trust women less than men due to experiences. But also im seeing mroe clearly why women dont trust men without it being due to ptsd or anxiety i have. Also id rather half my money taken that to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:52 PM
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I agree with this entirely! And my point also is that theres reason not to trust men, personally i find women harder to trust most of the time. Because due to all the stuff ive read, watched, seen online and thought about i can usually spot a decent man vs a not decent man and ur right about the differences at least in part. But i used to be convinced there was no reason it was all in my head and ptsd but like? I dont think it is now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:49 PM
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Ive met horrible women, ive met horrible men, but my point is the way men act facelessly online or on socials they think are safe or in comments they think no one will see and the abusive and threatening behavior they tend to lead towards is a huge safety issue. Theough women arent necessarily better in every way they are much less likely to pose physical risk. And in general online arent the ones being threatening, the worst they get is snarky n bitchy most the time. Plus the way people i know …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:44 PM
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A few reasons: Men i know are creepy tend to be the ones ik irl who like, post and regurgetate the stuff i see online that creeps me the f out. But theres many many more faceless online than who are willing to share stuff w face attached. The good men ik dont agree with this but are also like 1 in maybe 20? Which not terrible but its alright. The effect these online behaviours have irl from peoples bosses to exs to everything else. The fact that men tend to know good humour from bad, i mean they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:40 PM
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Lol its not ruining my relationship at all. Comments and likes arent effecting my real life at all but it has made me more aware of how untrustable men are. The thing is a lot of stuff im not mentioning in detail here also comes from people ik and many many ppl ik of online behaviour. And mixing the fact people ik of or actually know and the stuff i see online and the mix of those two is whats effected it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:36 PM
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Morbid humour is still humour and i totally agree, but most the comments arent funny or at least not funny enough for the response they get. Im not saying im offended my point is the comedy is so crap that i doubt even the dudes upvoting or liking dont find it funny just because its a good joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:31 PM
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My irl experiences back my pov up. And its not content i choose to watch but largely what changed my mind is the comments ect and the things people i actively know have posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:30 PM
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Making a lifelong comitment that only works if another person doesnt pass away/ become seriously ill or leave you is deffo a bad idea and marriage protects you from only someone leaving and even then its not necessarily going to be much more of a help than being single and having a kid with a random guy (child support). Half a guys assets or pension isnt needed if you first work on being in a good position to support you and your kids seperately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:23 PM
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Well if i was going to have kids i wouldnt rely on a sole person for money for any number of reasons including early death or illnesses. And you can have planning about who raises a child and the relationships and have family without marriage...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:17 PM
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And how exactly does being married beforehand stop the guy running away and not paying the money you are owed? My point is commitment doesn't mean marriage, and marriage doesn't mean commitment. I know comitted couples who raised kids and are growing old together who never married. I also know serial devorces with kids. Marriage is just an honestly quite flimsy contract, a party, and a money hole. Sure, I'd like to do it one day, but i know my partner and I are committed because i got to know hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:00 PM
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Imo marriage isn't a marker on if a relationships going to last, and although its difficult, single mums dont have to give up their career. often if they pick a decent guy, then time share is option. Also, any father has to pay child support just as an ex-husband would. Marriage seems to have a ridiculous amount of belief in it in this post. And alimony ect is not an option but id rather not make a choice about love and family come down to getting money if the person leaves...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:41 PM
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No people can prove it other ways, its hard to see something you dont have when you never had it tho. But if you break up with a good person with reasonable understanding of boundaries they will accept the breakup and heal from heartbreak without dragging you into it, begging, love bombing, or throwing a fit about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:02 AM
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When did i ever say exemptions make the rule? And when did i deny there being some correlation. My point is don't throw the baby out with the bath water. Also correlating this to lung cancer instead of any other relationship thing is just plane silly, they are different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:20 PM
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Yes actions do speak louder than words, but this is like saying if someone disagrees with your point of view often they are gaslighting you, sure it can be a sign to just keep an eye out, but it doesn't mean its certain. I know men who've slept with one woman and have very womanising and non LTR friendly views. I know men who've slept with many and made amazing partners long term. My point isn't to ignore it or change personal preferences but to point out that discrediting people on the basis th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:32 PM
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Yeah i cant name someone i wanted to stay with less than the first guy i did stuff with. It seems an odd thought to have imo but its always more difficult to understand someone elses pov i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:19 PM
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The way a person thinks about and views both their sexual partners and a long term relationship is a much better indicator of if their good to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:49 PM
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Honestly I think it's more the individual views a person holds on the other sex rather than how many people. I think people with less LTR compatible views are just.more likely to have casual sex, rather than that being the red flag, it's just that it csn be the first sign of a real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:54 PM
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I know amazing couples that got together at 60+ or in their 50s or 40s or 30s. A LTR with a guy who can only value youth isn't worth it as they will just cheat if you get too old. And this whole "it's difficult so don't do it" bs (I don't even think it's that difficult) is the worst way to think about life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:19 AM
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And from what I know local community was more of a thing in the past so being jealous of friendships like that probs isn't very traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:56 AM
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In terms of the "common view" or media view or whatever I'd say women are expected to be keeping themselves pretty, and to be some form of mother/house maker. There also is still expectations to clean and cook. Much like the men's one is doing the outside chores and working and doing DIY. That view hasn't really changed that much it's just that more people are also vocal about how that's not really right. Personally I'd say it should be personal choice, and when it comes down to it it is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:58 AM
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Yeah because firstly if your choosing ones you prefer you will likely do a better job (like my partner loves to cook and I don't so much, so I'm worse at it). Also if you both feel it's a fair split you are less likely to be annoyed by chores you hate. And in general if you are working together for both of you to be happy, your relationship will be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:40 AM
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Well when there's two people the effort of the chores doubles so that's not really true. Equally people have different health issues ect and different things they wanna do at home that leads to different levels of mess. And different responsibilities depending on strength, knowledge and preferences. I cook everything one pan or pot that I can. My partner is a chef and cooks using all the pots, I can't deal with that many dishes so they do it then. They also prefer to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:58 AM
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Yeah that is good for you and your relationship but this is about general advice about relationships. Like communication is most important and having roughly equal responsibilities is also good, but it isn't always possible and isn't always even fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:40 AM
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I mean that really depends on the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:35 AM
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As with any gender or side of the spectrums in any relationship make sure the partner is a match in terms of rough life plans and can communicate effectively with you learn what makes your partner feel loved and be sure to show them that, as well as loving them the way you want to give love Ensure you encourage and support your partner in the ways they need and that you ask what that is. Emotionally, in terms of chores or money ect agree to chores each with you and your partner make sure not to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:34 AM
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My advice from knowing people who've been in those situations is firstly to accept that there's 100s of thousands of people who would not date insert any person. Maybe you are having bad luck, maybe you don't fit in where you are trying, maybe it's time to evaluate who and why you want someone. Maybe there's things you can work on yourself (like building muscle or starting hobbies ect ect). If you start to feel very defeated and hopeless switch up focus for a while, try focus on maybe a game, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:22 AM
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I don't think I'm entirely unique there's plenty of women and girls like me. But in general most of them were picked on in school. Although most had other girls in there year considered similar and I didn't because I was purely unlucky. But still a majority and a majority of those.people don't change as much as everyone would hope in adulthood because no one really does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:16 AM
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That's a stupid thing to say, personal preference is different and mine certainly isn't bigger than average, I infact would avoid dating someone over 4-5 inches. I know it's a common joke and insult, and some people do also prefer bigger. But I know from trying it that bigger is not for me. And I'm 100% sure I'm not alone in that. There's plenty of different bodies and needs. There's even an entire fetish for micro penis'. So no matter the size you have someone will really really want what you'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:52 PM
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Well you were complaining about women being with other people first if it's such an issue surely that's the fix!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:58 AM
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Just coz your insecure doesn't mean that's actually an issue. It's just something you need to figure out your issues with. And if no sex before marriage is your jam because of personal preference and not insecurity join a church and meet someone there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:54 AM
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You guys are just so determined to ignore personal preference and to go after only the girls you actively complain about I swear. If your kind and yourself you'll get someone you actually value. If your a dick to everyone and think you've got to be X y and z to get a partner you will attract the people who like that. But don't complain when you can't be yourself with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:05 AM
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Most women have a personal preference and just because someone's had bigger penis' does not mean they preferred it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:04 AM
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The thing your not listening to is people have different wants and needs, I couldn't have too big as it physically hurts for little enjoyment. Generally I've had more fun with those self conscious of size, I don't get why they are coz to me it feels waaaay better. Also "the motion of the ocean" is basically saying you can either be bad or good at sex with whatever size penis. The specific motion is what your partner you are doing stuff with likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:58 AM
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I don't think they are myself I just think it's a very common thought to think they kinda of are or at least stick out as being odd, and that becomes the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:13 PM
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Honestly I think it's the same reason women bullied me more than men. Please don't call me a "pick me" or whatever this is from personal experience and I'll just count you as proving my point if you won't hear me out. But all my life I've been bullied by girls, included and stood up for by men. I was bullied by girls and women because I didn't fit in. I didn't do makeup or spend my free time playing "girl sports". Most women now days want to be working and earning and living for themselves, so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:08 PM
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Tell that to the single 60plus year olds ik.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:56 AM
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What makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:44 AM
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Yeah neither of us truly liked the way the other looked but I love the way my current partner looks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:44 AM
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He doesn't think of me as his pet, he's successful and I am still working anyway. I work hard on other things and even if I did stop working I'd be persuing other things that may turn into jobs. He doesn't think I'm incapable of handling stress and unhappiness at all and doesn't seem me as immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:35 PM
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You can be unaware of what you want when younger tho because your following social "norms" instead of what you truly find attractive and desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:19 PM
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Idk I mean I felt it was the opposite. During my youth I saw whatever was considered "sexy" in my social groups and area as sexy. Then as I matured i figured out what I really liked isn't that typical standard, and that I liked bigger guys and kindness and tbh I wasn't ever really into the guys who I was saying I liked at the time. Both me and my ex felt this as we've spoken since and said we just went with what we were "supposed" to find attractive and not what we actually liked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:17 PM
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I wanted a guitarist at 15 to 17 from a band who had tattoos. Then as I matured I stopped following what I thought was correct and started following what I actually like and then I just wanted strong but heavier men and for them to be loving kind people. People would say I "lowered my standards" but I personally feel my standards were lower before as I didn't actually like what I was going for I just thought that's what "being sexy" was so I went for it. I was basically not aware of myself enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:13 PM
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I don't really think this is true, it obviously can be that in some cases but ik it was offered to me purely because he loves me and his job and I was struggling to cope with working
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:02 PM
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My bf has offered to be the only one working, he says it's because I bring him joy, and so does work. So if work makes.me.sad that's only a negative to him, and him being able to take more hours and still spend the rest of the time with me is a bonus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:59 PM
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This kinda depends on age and if the child lives with you tbh, any under 16 living with you I'd say couldn't have done anything where they aren't owed affection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:50 PM
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Following me, trying to get my name by ways other than just talking to me (for example iding someone just for a name), adding on socials without even a convo or without them knowing your name, too many sex comments rather than a normal chat, staring obsessively (I can understand zoning out ect, but if you do it too many times or look at different areas during) trying to hit on girls i feel look young or are very young compared to you (like over 10years or the girls under 16 and you're over 18) g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:52 PM
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Yeah in this case. Honestly the reason I used to hold off on certain people was mostly due to me suspecting they weren't that nice, where as people I got good vibes from the begining I was just more relaxed around and enough to therefore move to the next stage quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:34 PM
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There was this guy, body building and weights were his passion he was working a decent job, and he had been speaking to me for a while. I just didn't really like him that much and saw him more as a friend, and a bit full of himself but wasnt sure. It took him a long time for us to end up doing stuff and my gut feeling was right he was not very nice, we never spoke again. There was another guy working in a takeaway, I had a huge crush and actually chased, we are still together and he's perfect. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:27 PM
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Sometimes, but honestly I've never really noticed people treat the highest functioning ones any different to normal, at least when it comes to dating? Infact they were and probs still are pretty successful. I know there's an inbuilt ability to tell there's something different when you meet someone with autism, but equally when you don't know what that is it's really hard to tell. And in terms of dating them there's no difference to a nt
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:17 PM
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The people I know who say "I can't coz the wife" that much just don't like that friend and have an excuse of someone who doesn't care about you at all, and is happy to help their partner say no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:10 PM
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I don't think so, and if they do they are idiots as I know millionaires and drug addicts with no job who live with mum, with autism. And almost no one would register that half of them are different at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:26 AM
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Honestly I don't know as it's not something I feel. I think it's the fact that when they don't know they like the way the person acts, but when they find out a name decide that that's not for them. I don't think it's to do with lower status as honestly the autistic people I've met have the same spread of successful and rich to being in poverty and doing drug as nts do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:03 AM
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Autistic people honestly aren't that different to being with a neuro typical. I'd say the low functioning that may need a carer like someone with dementia are different tho, as I'd feel uncomfortable dating someone who's not very aware of anything as they'd easily be tricked. But your average person with a job who's autistic? They are just a person with roughly the same individual difference everyone else has, people like and dislike different things including autistic people, and I never had to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:55 AM
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trp men - sexust, generally think that women are bad, talk about SMV or whatever, and, generally have a very negative view on everything including themselves A guy with basic respect for himself is nothing like the views of red pill movement, or exactly like it (which would make him a bit of an ass). The thing is having "basic respect for yourself" looks different for everyone. If you don't date someone who's nasty, authoritative and rude, as well as thinks he knows what your thinking more, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:27 PM
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Firstly you need better people around you every man I've known closely has had achievements they are proud of and got to a level they wanted with what they were doing and stayed there. Heck my ex's are doing good enough to them friends and family living at home and not working, at least to not get shit for it. Everyone gets pressured by idiots for different reasons depending on how they look/act/what responsibility they have. Your gender won't exclude or include you in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:15 PM
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Some women absolutely could change their face with facial hair, they just don't because it's not a social norm so would to most and them make them feel bad and less pretty so they shave/wax/tweeze. Also I agree something being old doesn't make it good! But also think your point is silly. Firstly ive actually had cow shit on my face more than makeup and I've had no issues from either. The issue with cow shit tho is it's dangerous to have in your mouth or on hands if you touch your mouth/eyes etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 07:04 PM
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Firstly I've never seen someone with or without makeup I'm used to seeing the other way and not recognised them. I didn't recognise my cousin when he grew a beard and my bfs less commonly seen friends didn't recognise him when he grew a beard so that's just not even true. Well if most people dislike it why's makeup and facepaint been around thousands of years? For both men and women. Also, no, most people couldn't care less because get, this everything is made up of chemicals! Also for thousands…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:48 PM
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So is shaving when you've got bald patches or sculpting it with unnaturally metal blades which is unnatural anyway also disgusting? And I hope they don't oil their beard or use anything to keep it healthy and uniform shape! Coz absolutely noooo men with a beard so that. Also way to derail the convo about the post if you just keep talking only about "chimcals icky" which is frankly a strange point to make I just won't respond so don't waste out time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:29 PM
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Well yes you are correct but it doesn't really make a difference to you if someone wears a mask, a fake beard, a real beard, chemicals or clay on their face when it comes to that. The post is about how women hide physical features, my point with saying men grow beards is that often times it's to hide a physical feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:24 PM
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Makeup : yes enhances how someone looks but it's not really that different from a dude growing a beard coz he's got no chin and feels self conscious. People often do it to make themselves look better for their own confidence some do it for the creative outlet and a lot more than you seem to think don't wear any. Also the people you may think aren't who are online are.likely wearing "light makeup" or heavy "natural look" make up. Bras: people wear bras for comfort ? And to stop their tids being m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:16 PM
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15 to 18st, stone, a measurement of weight. Wdym by 'try out' weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:56 AM
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Honestly it was far easier to persue someone than have to choose who's good from dif guys approaching after so many issues. And now looks effect nothing. If your letting the way you look effects you that's a bigger problem for you. And if your going after people who care that much based knowing looks, your choosing shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:55 AM
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What I'm saying is from my experience what you seem to think is true has been wrong mostly, and honestly from what I know most women would agree with me. As I said I'm dating an amazing man I persued. I don't think all men are bad, I don't think any specific look effects how kind someone is. And I don't think that persuing makes someone bad. But I also do not agree it's easier just because more people persued you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:06 AM
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You'd only class two of them as hot in terms of what I understand, and being honest the one who was best looking in these terms during that time was actually the kindest and i had a good time.the other just wasn't a good fit for me, but otherwise fine. In fact some of the worst looking by typical standards were the worst, certainly the one I find personally least attractive. So, no, it wasn't that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:33 PM
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I think you might be right but my thoughts on this is women have had longer to get to the stage they are. To begin with women fought against feminism and what it mean too. Also with men being told they arent to have emotions but women being "emotional" it was probably easier for them to express problems even when negative things were passed down through generations. Men are doing well at making spaces for themselves and lifting eachother than ever before and that's important to remember. And alt…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 06:39 PM
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So when I was trying to date guys, I'd indeed have lots of interest. When I was younger I said yes a lot and I got used, abused and hurt. Either that or end up in extremely awkward and uncomfortable situations. It wasn't fun and the guys after me were not good for me for varying reasons. I don't want to waste either person's time, and I don't want to put myself at risk. The person I chose I persued and he's amazing. If I'd have not been chased by all those men or said yes to them I'd be happier …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:20 PM
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Trying to find a good person is hard, weather you are looking for a grain of sand on a concrete floor or a beach it's equally difficult. Just settling for anyone isn't a safe choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:13 PM
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Being honest weight doesn't really effect it that much until you get to a certain stage. Ive been 15 to 18st and had plenty interest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:11 PM
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My partner went to work and home and not much else, he'd stopped going out or meeting people. I fell for him and then persued him. His kindness he showed to others that I'd seen going to the business convinced me. I've approached a few guys, the ones I approached or told I liked first have been the ones I've been serious about tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:08 PM
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From experience they have to be good. Nothing bleaker than sitting in a guy's flat while he struggles through a guns and roses song on his electric guitar. Being fair he succeeded on his conquest and got money off me, but he also never saw me again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:03 PM
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Not necessarily and sex doesn't have to be with a perfect looking person to be enjoyable either way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:41 PM
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Firstly: this entirely depends on both people in the relationships and their personal strengths and weaknesses. Personal: I bring a lot of emotional intelligence and help thanks to being in therapy for years, I make sure things stay stable and my partner looks after themselves, currently I'm earning most of the money and I also bring the house. I register pets and ect in my name and do the main shopping plans. He brings cooking, cleaning, has also been the main earner and most importantly brings…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:40 PM
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No, just people want different things to eachother and the main "talked about" body image changes as we stop talking about past things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:31 PM
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Dude I had sex with a hairless slimy man who tried strangle me, we all make dumb choices when we beggin dating. TBF tho a sex worker probs knows some tricks of the trade and also maybe the guy just likes larger women it's not like that's unheard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:30 PM
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Why not ask or speak to her about it? Instead of getting insecure and nervouse about your ability. People can also be compatible as Feb and not as a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:23 PM
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