Plenty-Piece897 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
37	My wife		Plenty-Piece897	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 06:04 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	3 years removed from divorce, it’s like the woman I knew died. I feel terrible still, and am sad, but I am also teying to look at dating.... is it the right thing? I don't know... ill b Never replace my wife, hut i hope I can build somethjng new a d wonderful with someone else while I continue to become the best version of me.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/26 05:10 PM
3	3 years removed from divorce, it’s like the woman I knew died. I am going through the divorce now... my wofe was going to give me another chance, hut when I announced i was going to get sober, she said I had been hiding too much and changed her mind... lots more to story. She has mentioned her biological clock. People react differently to stress and will change how they treat their ex to avoid giving into their regret or guilt if part of them thinks leaving is the right thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/26 05:08 PM
1	My wife If you sit in a therapist office discussing divorce and agree on something, then she says that doesn't wven have a desire to see anyone til things are finalized while she had a bag packed with sexual items from our marriage, I would consider that a massive betrayal at the least.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/26 03:23 AM
1	My wife She ended up not sleeping with him... she says she wanted to. I am talking with a lady in tinder and may invite her for a coffee. My wife just knows i installed tinder after finding out and reached out to me to badger me that I paid for my app and she didnt pay for hers, soni am going farther. I am not even interested in scewing someone else. I told my wife if she wants to work on our marriage, I will gladly delete the app and go to therapy with her. Crickets. Her choice.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 07:28 PM
3	My wife I am trying. I find that a lot of meet new people activities involve alcohol, and I am 2.5 months sober. I think I would be fine, but aging to dinners and bars with new people and booze flowing is jot something I want to be around yet. I do ski, run, and bike. Need to meet more people.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/26 12:20 AM
2	My wife I see it as cheating now, especially since she said she wanted to wait until the divorce isnt finalized. It always "felt" like cheating, that pain in your chest. She announced she wants a divorce and we are separated, so she says she is free and can do what she wants. She was always faithful before. Seeing this is like getting stabbed. I am trying to move on now, but damn it hurts. Can't say I was the best husband, but I have owned everything and done what I can to better myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 04:56 PM
6	My wife I have a lawyer, sponsor, and therapist. No one has filed, but we are getting mediation set up. She is moving out soni can have my personal space.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 02:44 PM
6	My wife They were just some butt plugs and a dildobfor her.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 12:51 PM
4	The shift that changed everything for me You have to channel empathy. See from the other's perspective, even if you don't agree. This and accept you can only control yourself. Realize that anger is a secondary emotion, usually to sadness. Sit with it. Sadness hurts, but anger eats you alive.easier said than done. I have literally used chat gpt as a therapist and to analyze how other people are thinking or why they do what they do. It can be so accurate and it actually helps me cope and reach empathy.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/26 06:08 AM