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| 1 | Pulling girls in the clubI feel like it's gaslighting to pretend that's not a factor... | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 03:31 PM |
| 1 | 100% serious: should I give up?appreciated this post cuz honestly? feeling the same way. im only at maybe 3-400 over 3 years or so, but the results have been pretty abysmal; 50 numbers or so, 25 or so text threads, 2 dates. so youre probably doing better than me. i think you (and i) should take a page out of sales and try to convert, convert, convert in the moment. ive seen guys here say you should basically pretend you dont have a phone to text her later. how would you act then if a semi interested woman was in front of you?… | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach might be Keyappreciate the honesty because yeah i see naive posts like this reflecting how i thought about cold approach early on. Namely, i thought id be swimming in punang cuz 1/4 girls would be down. 2-300 approaches in and same results as you, 1-2 dates, 30 text buddies i never met again, and no lays. might be cuz im black but yeah. at least like you said i have no fomo and no regrets. | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 08:30 AM |
| 5 | I hear dating is hard now? Why is that?good for you bro. the number of "she/we/i dont owe you anything"s i got in america is truly incredible. do we not at least owe each other common decency? ive never been pushy either. | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 08:57 AM |
| 6 | I hear dating is hard now? Why is that?the rejections from american women in groups these days are mean girls level. even just pleasant conversation. its really gross culture tbh. norway has been mostly the opposite | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 08:42 AM |
| 4 | I hear dating is hard now? Why is that?No one is mentioning obesity. It has effectively shadowbanned up to 40% of women in the dating market depending on where in the us you are. Yet 90% of guys are still going for the remaining 60%. So their egos are inflated. Try asking out obese girls irl, you can tell they don't get it often. | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 08:40 AM |
| 2 | How much does race mattercant believe its still the case in 2026 but yep. online dating stats reflect womens preferences irl. ive seen it w my white friends getting chosen at bars. (as a muscular confident successful black man for everyone saying race whiner). We're the consolation or "settling" choice. I think im just going to move abroad honestly. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Can't make it passed talkingim similar even down to race. I think it starts with physical compliments. Like you start high level just fun stuff. Then you go down to " you wear those jeans well." *pause* look her in the eyes. You should start to feel a little tension. Back off. Then do it again (different compliment) this time with an arm touch. Throw in compliments that are more about personality every once in a while. Increase touch. But honestly im trash at it too and trying to figure it out as well | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 06:55 PM |
| 10 | Went to a bar last night, panicked, and immediately foldeddude, he just told you for beginners like yourself, you should start at places where talking to strangers is expected and encouraged. not the bar where your fragile ego will get squished the moment you try to open a group of girls and get the "ick" stare. But if you must start at bars, I'd suggest posting up somewhere, trying to at least look comfortable, and just chat to anyone who will entertain it. Look like you're having fun. Girls will start gravitating to that energy and you try to rope th… | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 06:25 PM |
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