Plenty_Patience_5491 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men?	Question For Women	Plenty_Patience_5491	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:16 PM

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6	"Misandry doesn't kill men" Also, they wanna do this "empowerment" stance, yet, they go after the same douches that their "Unempowered" counterparts go after. You know THAT'S the dude committing the sexual assault right? Regular Blue Collar dudes ain't doin that, besides certain serial killers. No though, if the killer or rapist is conventionally attractive, fuck it, caution to the wind.	/r/MensRights	29/12/24 12:13 AM
6	"Misandry doesn't kill men" Never said he couldn't. I meant women shouldn't comment on Misandrists shit because they've never suffered at the hands of one, so they won't be speaking from a place of experience.	/r/MensRights	29/12/24 12:11 AM
40	"Misandry doesn't kill men" Yeah, that's BS, come on now man. Some people need to not comment on issues they don't experience and learn to listen a little better. Pro-Man IS NOT anti-Woman.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 11:43 PM
11	"Believe all women" Yeah Third and Fourth wave is complete trash. It's "Barbie" Feminism. It's not really Feminism, it's female supremacy. I find it stupid that women are surprised Trump got in, to be clear I'm not a Right Winger and never will be, but when men get constantly shit on, there will be a response. How can you say "Vote to help us." Out of one side and then say "I'm a strong empowered woman that DOESN'T NEED YOU AT ALL." Which one is it? I'm still waiting on that answer.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 10:54 PM
3	I don't know what have I become Fuck them folks. I also have toxic (not abusive, not physically anyway) parents. Dumb fucks. Get a good job and....really "The Gym?" What a douche. That won't make you feel that much better in the immediate, for the long term sure, but lord of hosts you can tell some of these folks don't have shit going on in their lives. You do have to navigate mentally and search for an interest that you find just awesome and bury yourelf in it, gym for long term, and be confident. The "I don't give a fuck" en…	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 08:25 PM
11	I feel gaslighted by feminism Whack take, pure BS. An excuse and basically "Rules for thee, but not for me." I shortened it.	/r/MensRights	28/12/24 07:54 PM
3	Changing the genders in the stories gives you different answers from women I.....was agreeing though, the knee jerk reaction of "female right at all times" is a slippery slope towards the death of critical thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/24 02:50 AM
2	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias I think my saving grace is that my Mother keeps our children a good bit of the time, I'm having to live at my Mothers, fucking maddening because I had retirement money that I drew out that I could have gotten my own place with, but she took it, but I can't control that now. So I don't think my ex wife wants to piss my Mother off, she just wants things to go with the flow, I just mention it because she's an asshole who tried to argue with me at Christmas when I went to see my babies and I'm like …	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 09:19 AM
1	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Just make it more fair, like I'm scared my ex wife will try to put me on child support even though I've only lived away from my children since June. They've been around me their whole lives, I've provided for them, I play with them (like down on the floor, not no bullshit) and I just don't wanna be taken to the cleaners again. She already fooled me into using my retirement money as down payment for the house she's in now and she kicked me out after I lost my job due to an injury. Even though she…	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 08:55 AM
1	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Yeah, but, goddamnit I have to fight back against it. I get in mad moods, and I get the sentiment. I think one thing that would help us is forming a group/movement, similar to what Feminism did for women. See, we have to be a united front, and tell women "It's not okay to have bias towards us." I get in my feelings and my moods sometimes, but I'd never hate women or girls. I have 2 beautiful daughters that I want to have just as many rights as my son. And I don't want my son belittled or told hi…	/r/MensRights	27/12/24 08:37 AM
2	Changing the genders in the stories gives you different answers from women Hey, I like your name, no war but class war, nice, you seem like my type of people. N E way, I never think I'm more intelligent than anyone who hasn't proved themselves to be an utter idiot. If they've just had brain dead takes the entire time I've known them, well, I think I'm smarter than that person. I'm a Progressive though from bumfuck Tennessee, so I get the urge to be SUPER opposite of these people down here, they're not all like that and bad, but most are. A social prison, a mental cage.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 08:16 AM
4	Changing the genders in the stories gives you different answers from women Yeah, but knee jerk reactions are something we must evolve from. Because there are some women who, whew, they are just TERRIBLE mothers. I'm not talking about my ex wife in this particular case, but her sister. CPS has been called on that woman like 5 times. She is just the worse example of a mother I can think of, besides their mother. My mother is the best example I think of, she raised me by herself for 7 years, no CPS, no mistreatment, and literally cried herself to sleep because she couldn'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 08:07 AM
18	Changing the genders in the stories gives you different answers from women I always switch the genders in the story. Makes people reveal who they truly are. It's a narrative that all men are responsible for problems in the relationships when that is so far away from real life. I mean think about it? If we did that in ANY other area, this group of people class, race, neighborhood, or country was ALWAYS responsible for any wrongdoing, that would be seen as clear bias. There's societal reasons, but us pointing it out is the important thing so that people can get out of th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 08:02 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail As usual another racist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 01:34 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail Lord, you were just determined to have a narrative, nice try, I'm Mixed Race, you honestly just said I hate half of my family. Blocked, you're nuts and YOU are part of the problem. 48 years old and you still think like this? Pitiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 01:34 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail And you think I am? If so, there's nothing left to say to each other, you can't approach a problem constructively under the framing, "You're the problem." At least without recognizing our society as a whole has a fundamental problem. Class warfare, race warfare, and gender warfare, all pushed to keep us at each others throats. Are there violent women, sure. Are there violent men? Sure, but I think one group is using it as a blanket excuse to hate, while the other gets chastised if they do that. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 01:23 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail No, but she's definitely raised issues with how what the modern iteration of Feminism has lead to is an alienation and ostracization of Men. You can't be a public figure and say that, because it'll illicit a response similar to whats happening now. I can't change how you think, and I wouldn't want to, but if you keep treating potential allies as enemies because of wording and terminology (Only a mental shortcut to give simple understanding to a problem that requires complex understanding) you lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 01:15 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail Married and not hating men aren't the same thing. If you wanna point to someone in a Leftist space, Krystal Ball from Breaking Points is a great example. She doesn't hate her husband Kyle or unfairly pigeon hole men. She is a fair and balanced Leftist who I respect because she tells it like it is. I don't do any sort of influencers because they are grifters, straight up. It's in the title, influencer, you're trying to influence someone else on how to think. It's manipulation, not just of genders…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 01:00 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail Neither does anyone masking their hatred for men with the word "Feminism" absolve them of their narrative pushing. It's the same as Andrew Tate. You've seriously conflated what Feminism used to be with the toxic Feminism of today's age. It's used as a buzzword to make you think you're winning or that men are against you. When it's really only rich men, lawmakers, and Right wingers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 12:37 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail hoeflation, I don't think we're having the same conversation. How old are you? I'm not patronizing, it'll guide me in our conversation. I'm 35.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 12:33 AM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail Don't, you're conflating past Feminism, that actually helped, with today's Feminism, which pits us against each other. I have daughters, I am not the type of man that, just to save myself, would strip them of their rights. Again, loyalty to a word, just because you've assigned value to it, is how people manipulate you into turning that word into anything they want. I'm not your enemy, despite what you believe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 12:32 AM
3	It's pure BS that some Feminists make it a big deal when it comes to men trying to interact with women less because of false allegations. I wouldn't post in this group for impartial commentary. You said something against Feminists, they'll ban you for stuff like that. Female control. Not cool or conducive to helpful dialogue between the two genders. Modern Feminism is a grift JUST like Andrew Tate's grift, same crowd, different genders. Hate on me or remove this comment, doesn't stop time from proving me right. LET THE DOWNVOTES FLOW THROUGH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The truth is often not popular. Now go on good dogs, remove my post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 11:41 PM
3	Woman chops off her boyfriend's genitals with a knife as his marriage was with another woman Yeah, a woman cheats on me I'll cut.....her out of my life. Not her genitals, Jesus what's wrong with people? Why would this goddamn thought even cross someones sick ass mind.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 11:39 PM
5	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias Fucking bingo. They'll be the problem in 25 straight relationships, but then be like "Where have all the good men gone?" Apparently avoiding you like the human plague you are lady.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 10:39 PM
4	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias And these women, they make me go against my own politics, I HATE Trump, but I hope he cleans up this anti-male bs, and it's sad, I hate that man more than anything, but SOMEONE has to do SOMETHING for men. Seriously, it's just sad at this point.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 10:29 PM
5	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias There are women like that, the problem is, it's 1 out of every 10,000 women, hell maybe 1 out of 10,000,000 women and the women who are like that ARE NOT poor. Women get self indulgent and when they have to struggle at all and their princess facade is broken, they INSTANTLY turn bitter. Only the rich ones aren't like that because they don't struggle, women in this culture just naturally can't fathom struggle. It's anti-thetical to who they are.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 10:28 PM
0	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias "I am recently engaged to the most beautiful kind soul i have ever known after a 7 year relationship. I literally do not deserve her." STOP, wait until a few years later and she takes everything from you, then come back and comment on here. You're still in that "believing" place, give it a few years, and I'd bet money you're not gonna still feel that way. Women know how to manipulate men, and you're no exception.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 10:24 PM
2	Romantic relationships with women in a world full of anti-male bias It's real pathetic, it's like women all got together and were like "Let's be slick, keep screaming about being oppressed and use the simps to take over and let us basically become the rulers of the free world." They're simultaneously victims yet empowered at the same time, whichever is most convenient for their narrative at the time. The main pushback and where the pain will come for them? Is people just denying it or acting like it doesn't happen, THAT is where they'll get shocked at the level …	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 10:20 PM
1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail The previous iterations of Feminism were equality, modern Feminism is a marketing strategy that targets vulnerable women. Just like Andrew Tate targets vulnerable young men. Please quit having a "side" and listen to an argument on it's merit and don't just hear "Feminism bad" and stop listening. Having loyalty to any one word is not a way to live your life and I see half of you Reddit people do it and it's not gonna do you any favors. You don't have to believe me, keep having loyalty to a word, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 10:02 PM
1	The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong. It's pushback (and sure not all forms of pushback are healthy, but action/reaction) because I'm all about being fair about gender relations, but there are some people on subreddits that see a certain name of a user who has posted something they haven't liked or they've disagreed with in the past and they'll downvote it just because of a vendetta. It's pushback against modern Feminism, I don't have a problem with the overall doctrine of Feminism in general, but the modern Barbie Feminism is unhea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 09:12 PM
4	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail I'm not getting down on myself because a bunch of dumbass entitled princesses can't use me, I already had an entitled princess use me up, she's called my ex wife, never again. As innocuous as that statement I just made is, people would take issue with it, and that's the problem. EDIT (Because reverse the genders, "Oh a dumbass entitled man child can't use me, I already had one use me up, he was called my ex husband, never again." I bet NO ONE would find issue with that, so why find issue with my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 11:11 AM
-1	The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to fail I hate the shit too, because there are legitimate grievances. I feel like Feminism has mastered that grift to where it's ingrained in female culture now, but it's just as much of a grift as Andrew Tate, the modern iteration anyway, ya know the "Pop Feminism." That has no real logic, Barbie movie Feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 11:05 AM
-7	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Look at the name, don't argue, it's a Feminist. No logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 11:01 AM
–	The idea of "Enthusiastic Consent" and "Yes doesn't always mean Yes" by Feminists is wrong. If a Woman says Yes towards Sex then she has Consented. Oh this is gonna get removed super quickly, just cause of the name. Why comment on this? It's not gonna end well. If I question any intent, I'm walking away, but, because I'm a guy and the bullshit is real, I'm recording the moment I tell you no and me walking away, so no bullshit is made up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 10:53 AM
2	The Actual Laws of Attraction It kinda went off the deep end didn't it?	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 04:06 AM
2	Male feminist ally gets a taste of "believe all women" Similar to my comment, cheers mate.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 04:02 AM
3	Male feminist ally gets a taste of "believe all women" More Ironic than if Iron-Man and the Iron Giant boned and had a purely Iron baby.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 04:00 AM
10	Male feminist ally gets a taste of "believe all women" I see he's getting the Johnathon Majors treatment. I see working at Marvel will have to be crossed off of my bucket list.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 03:54 AM
2	Male feminist ally gets a taste of "believe all women" BWA HA HA HA HA HA HA (Breathes deep, tear falls down eye) AAAA HA HA HAH HA HA HA HA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 03:51 AM
1	The Actual Laws of Attraction Yep, as is life, but I learned something from it so it isn't a total loss.	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 02:48 AM
17	Men are constantly harped on to do better and improve all for what exactly? Yeah dude, seriously. I've done nothing but improved for a straight year and I went to my ex wife's house for Christmas (It's my son's first Christmas so I wasn't missing that) and all she did was get bitchy about her having "to watch" the kids. Bruv what? YOU'RE THE FUCKING MOM!!!!!!!!!! A little background, my Mother is a sweet and loving soul, but she's an enabler, and has enabled my ex wife to the moon and back (Literally keeps the kids through the week and the weekend, the only time she's a…	/r/MensRights	26/12/24 01:57 AM
2	The Actual Laws of Attraction That comment right there, that's the Patriarchy ;D LOL	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 07:46 AM
4	The Actual Laws of Attraction BS, my ex wife don't make near that much and (after stealing my home in the divorce with the help of the court system) she "owns" a home.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 06:36 AM
1	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? I'm glad, I'm very medium, a woman won't pursue me because I'm so damn hot, but won't avoid me if I show interest, so I can just have women leave me alone and be fine with it. I have to seek for me to find.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 04:01 AM
1	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? I hope the situation works out for you man because it affects your work, maybe time for some new friends, I had to do that move in 2022. They heard I was moving away from our small town, and were jealous so the hating on me began. One of them tried to wave to me the other day, I ignored it. The other saw me in one of my ex wife's stores (It's in the same town we're from) and tried to talk to me, I looked at that motherfucker like he was crazy and asked "Do I know you dude?" he was like "So it's …	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 03:50 AM
1	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? It's anger, it's a mood, this young man needs to exorcise some demons from his personality in order to grow in a healthy and functional way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 03:30 AM
1	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? Heck yeah, Nashville does have some beautiful historical homes that have been around since the 1800s, but I'll check this link out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 02:40 AM
1	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? Is that on Reddit or somewhere else? Message me the link, cause I don't think they let you share it in the group comments. I'd be VERY interested in joining that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 02:26 AM
2	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? I'm sure you already know this but those people marrying right out of high school aren't gonna end up happy or well adjusted. I prefer a woman with an extensive dating history (they've learned from their experiences, not all, but some, and those are the women I appreciate as they aren't with that shitty young person attitude of "It's all the males fault." "It's all the females fault." Dude, that's just comfort food to hide behind, you've met the wrong people or you have issues you've yet to addr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 02:23 AM
2	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? I started with the Russian Revolution in my school Library in 7th grade, then I read a World War 2 book, and then it snowballed from there. I don't really know that much about my own country's history, I mean the bullet points, American Revolution, Civil War, Spanish-American War, World War 1, Great Depression, World War 2, and Cold War history, but other cultures history has always amazed me. I think that's my hard area, if I could find a single woman (I'm not trying to hit on you, I'm just sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 02:16 AM
5	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? That's their only trick though, can't do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 02:11 AM
1	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? FUCKING SUPERMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 02:10 AM
4	Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women? Oh my god hell yeah, history, fuck yeah. I'm something of a (light level, not professional) historian myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 02:09 AM
1	Doing things for women makes them less attracted to you. Dude, HERE FUCKING HERE, I had my ex wife live with me for 5 years, and the contract was, you do the house work, dishes, and all that, I'll work. I lived up to my end of the bargain, the bills got paid, but low and behold, the house STAYED nasty. And then, we separate in 2020, her camper she lived in was DISGUSTING, because there she didn't even need the pretext of trying to clean. Dishes piled up, dog crap everywhere, gross. I paid her money all the time, and I paid a down payment of $10,000 fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 01:37 AM
1	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? The zero tolerance thing I learned in my divorce, once I started seeing how my ex wife manipulated me, and now her current boyfriend, yeah, put a full stop to that once you see it forming because then women will see "Oh, he ain't playin, I can't play his ass like a fiddle."	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 01:23 AM
6	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? Sound like some suck ass dudes. The ONE thing about the friend group I used to be around, they were on drugs too much though so I had to ditch them, I have kids, I'm not about that, but the ONE GOOD THING about them was, when a woman came around talking that bullshit (because we've all experienced it) we told her to kick rocks. We wouldn't even let her in the group hang out house, our favorite saying while they were pounding on the door was "Take that bullshit on somewhere." I only miss one pers…	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 01:09 AM
1	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? Yeah, it sounds like she's trying to work her magic on someone to wedge between her and that abusive ex, like she's trying to have somebody save her. Let me quote a rapper from Memphis Tn (Where I'm from) Project Pat "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved, don't save her." That's what comes to mind with this.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 12:27 AM
2	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? Yeah the internet is dogshit, most people just use it to bitch about things that people in real life would tell them to go kick rocks about.	/r/MensRights	25/12/24 12:23 AM
1	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? Oh my ex wife caught me in a stupid moment because I thought we were turning a page and I put a $10,000 down payment out of my retirement money on our (now her) home. Yeah, when she didn't put my name on the lease, I should have fucking put my foot down and said "No, WTF." That's why you never trust people. Ya know that woman lived with me for 5 years before that and didn't pay a bill? All of a sudden in 2020, she gets a good job and all of a sudden I'M the bum cause I get in an 18 wheeler wreck…	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 11:02 AM
1	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? Yeah, my ex girlfriend (From 2011-2013) tried that shit and I'm like, her, her Dad, her Mom, her cousin (OOOOh her cousin was SO SO thick and the one I actually wanted to fuck, but she already had a boyfriend so I went with her instead), and her fucking sister all heard me and her in that bedroom and with all the "Yesses" coming out of her mouth and other sounds, that's not like any rape I've ever heard of. Her Mom was like "Oh if he held your hands down, then yea it was Rape." Da fuck? I held h…	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 10:53 AM
4	“But what about the patriarchy?” That always happens. I don't trust new girls, within the context of being introduced to the macro group. Now a woman, I discover and bring to the group, that's different. WTF are they 30 and 40 and droning on about the Patriarchy, don't they know no one wanna hear that shit.	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 10:36 AM
1	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? And the thing about the Tik Tok girl, god SHE WAS SO FUCKING FINE, like I WANTED to have something in common with her, but it was just, no, there was no "There" there to work with. Tried for 15 minutes and then I made my exit. Next time I'm gonna have some fun with a date I know isn't going well and I'm gonna just say some off the wall shit, "Yeah, this date has to be quick, My Mommy has to pick me up in a bit." "Did you say you're 'Mommy'?" "Yes. Don't you call your Mother Mommy and drink hot c…	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 10:31 AM
16	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? I literally had to do that to this one girl the other day, she had NO FUCKING personality and would only talk about Tik Tok shit, no football, no current events, no Tyson/Paul fight, no Christmas talk, no hey hows your job, JUST Tik Tok shit. So....well, you saw my comment above. Then I ghosted, no thanks. I'm VERY clear though, I'm just in it to fuck, on the up front, my heart is too cold from the divorce to be fuckin around with anything else. I had an ex girlfriend I dated for 5 and a half mo…	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 10:23 AM
3	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? Bruv, really? If you said she's pretty, they're all wanting some of that ass, so yeah, the abusive ex is just the enforcer, and really hit people up outside of your friends circle for dates cause the "I've known one of them for 20 years!" Oooooh, I know it's only because I have kids, but I don't let ANYONE know where I live, because I keep that thang, and if someone is knocking who isn't my Mother or the Police, they're gonna meet it face to face, I live in the South I don't play bullshit about …	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 10:20 AM
82	When are men going to stop being hateful to other men because of a woman? When you heard about the abusive ex, you should have cut your losses with a "Oh, I have to go to the bathroom, miscuzzi." and dipped like Tostitos.	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 10:15 AM
14	I never get used to the insane double standards in movies/TV I see what you did there, top notch bruv.	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 09:53 AM
9	“But what about the patriarchy?” I mean not all women act like that, but I get your comment, there's always one, or in this case two, there's always one.	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 09:20 AM
6	“But what about the patriarchy?” That answer you gave, that's the Patriarchy. LOL, someone had to comment it. ;D	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 09:18 AM
2	“But what about the patriarchy?” How old are these women? Because, I notice this gets a lot of play from women who have JUST become politically activated within the last 2-3 years. Women who have been political longer than that know how to find the balance between being informed, knowing a system needs to change, but not blaming regular working class joes for it. I mean, what fucking policy do we control am I right? If I could tell Congress anything, bitch (not the women, Congress, calm down now) UP MY PAY!!!!!!!! I think they'…	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 09:15 AM
7	When People Say Dating Sucks It Usually Means They Are The Problem I'd like to say, modern dating does suck, and I haven't dated in 10 years dude, but I have eyes. Da fuck is this post? Your glean from your experience what you will, and others will what they will. I'm not trying to change your mind, so express your idea, but everyone lives a different reality brother. No Hope, no future, and no mercy. LET THE DOWNVOTES FLOW THROUGH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:47 AM
-2	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays Yeah, but that goes into the meat and potatoes of the essence of WHY it's a saying in the first place right? Because, well, you know I can't say it man, I'll get the banhammer, but come on, you know. Internet be really really toilet paper sensitive in todays age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:44 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) Something about exceptions not being rules ya know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:38 AM
-1	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays Cliches are cliches for a reason, because there is truth to them. LET THE DOWNVOTES FLOW THROUGH ME!!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:29 AM
-1	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays Look, I'm not trying to hate on some of you people, but the world is cold and cruel, if it weren't wars and all that nasty stuff wouldn't exist. JUST BECAUSE it's a cruel world where everyone is selfish 95% of the time, doesn't mean it's hopeless, it just means that for relationships because they involve not just you and the other person, society, media, your families, too many influences of our modern world tip the scales one way or another. I think some of ya'll HAVE to have hope in relationsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:26 AM
-1	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays Sure, hey man, leave $1 million dollars in bearer bonds somewhere someone KNOWS they can get away with it if they steal it and see them be gone ONE HUNDRED PERCENT OF THE TIME. FACTS. LET THE DOWNVOTES FLOW THROUGH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:21 AM
0	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays Lord, so "I'm happily married, thus anyone who doubts marriage is not in good faith." For people who always use the "Oh that's only anecdotal evidence" argument, that's sure some anecdotal evidence logic you're using there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:18 AM
0	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays With due diligence, dude, you're saying basically you can control another persons thoughts and desires. A relationship involves a whole other person who you don't live in their head. No you can't control another persons thoughts and emotions, a person has to choose every day to wake up and feel the same love they felt for you consistently for 20-60 plus years, how many people have that level of dedication? HONESTLY, not the "Oh I want to believe in humanity" version. Like dude, didn't this elect…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:17 AM
2	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays I didn't say most, I said ALL. Now, this isn't ALWAYS the man, but most times it is the man. I know because my Mom is the doormat in her marriage and so is my aunt in hers. My uncles, they're the doormat in theirs, my best friend (the dude one) is the doormat in his. "Oh that's just your life." Really? Feel free to search it up on Google, in a newspaper, ask people on the streets. I know life isn't sensitive to fee fees, poor babies, sorry, life is cruel and unfair, and so why would marriage be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:12 AM
2	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays No, I'm straight up saying it, fuck that, all married people are doormats, the men who stand up to the tyranny are the divorcees, even if you don't realize it, you are, period. Cope. LET THE DOWNVOTES FLOW THROUGH ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:09 AM
-1	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays Yeah, but what is the saying "Happy wife, happy life." meaning most of these dudes have had their soul crushed and their will dominated just to appease the other party, that's not a relationship, that's slavery. How would people feel if the saying was reversed "Happy Husband, Happy Life." Oh no we couldn't have that now could we? Ask yourselves, why not?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:07 AM
0	Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays Exactly, all women are narcissists, point blank period. There is no thing that they do that isn't some exercise in self indulgence and look at me behavior. People in general are like that, but the thing about women in this society, they are catered to when they act like this, validated, and encouraged to be a nag and in general be difficult people and it's everyone else's problem if they point it out. Case in point? This post WILL be removed, I guarantee it, because people can't handle the truth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:04 AM
7	Toxic Gym Girls Still a Thing in 2024 "Hello, yes 911." She can go ahead and say the cops are harassing her.	/r/MensRights	24/12/24 01:02 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) No one is getting that. I really don't care that she was a Pornstar either, Riley Reid is so freakin cute, but I like brunettes so, they always get to me. Anywayz, both men and women need to take those stupid ass lists they make of "A guy needs to be this" "A girl needs to be that" and realize, having rigid standards that you MUST stick to (Other than someone not abusing you and them treating you with basic human decency and respect) is ludicrous. It's for young or overly hot people, and even th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 12:59 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) "Todd!!!! Are you not aware that I get farty and bloated with a foamy latte!?" "My mistake Jacobim." "YOUR MISTAKE INDEED!" Goddamn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 12:54 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) I remember that movie, when he spills the coffee on dude, it was back when I was a pothead and buddy, I almost died laughing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 12:51 AM
–	Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it) A balance between not sleeping with everyone you meet and not avoiding sex at all costs, a man should be like that too really. I'm not a Red Piller though. I am 35, and in my older age (relative to aggregate or average age of the internet) I value a woman who makes you wait for it far more. Not that I would judge if a woman wanted to sleep with me on the first date, I wouldn't think lesser of you, I'm just gonna take a hard pass, I did this with my ex girlfriend, hell I never ended up sleeping w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 12:49 AM
1	Has this world gone insane? This is where I'm gonna hurt some Right Wing feelings. Who is the bigger killer, the man who kills one or the health insurance CEO whose signed a piece of paper and led to the deaths of thousands? Whose the fucking real terrorist? I bet these same people don't have a fucking care about the citizen who did a killing of the homeless person on the subway with a chokehold. Jesus. This world has gone insane and takes like that are why.	/r/MensRights	23/12/24 10:19 PM
1	Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates. I gotta agree, I've never seen it, but then again I only have my meager experiences and there's 168 million women in the US, so I assume there's gotta be some. I just haven't seen it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 08:27 PM
9	Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates. I'm from the Southern USA, and people from my country are idiots. It's not their faults, the Puritan culture morphed into something that both tries to live up to purity and also has closeted decadence (not Gay people, I don't have a problem with that, I'm talking about people acting like they aren't freaks behind closed doors and aren't assholes behind closed doors to everyone they know), and they act like they're normal and everything is fine. The word of the day for my country is, unsustainabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 08:24 PM
1	Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates. That's why I don't have a type (within reason, someone with a completely different, lifestyle, upbringing, and values set is obviously not gonna work out so I wouldn't waste my time, I mean this more for looks, weight, and race as those things I feel for me personally, you shouldn't be judged on). People are people, in a lot of ways, if you've dated one guy, you've dated them all, if you've dated one girl, you've dated them all. Not in the micro sense, but in the macro generalized sense, some th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/24 08:09 PM
1	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? I understand the point of everyone wants companionship and love, and you can still go after that, but be realistic about the fact that, someone CAN and sometimes DO wake up and just decide "I don't love this person anymore." To say that's never happened is bias in itself and not having a good faith discussion about the subject. The "Gamble" people refer to are things along those lines, the chance of you finding that good person is MUCH lower than the chance of you not. Echoes about being hurt ar…	/r/MensRights	23/12/24 05:16 PM
3	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? That and, I'm sorry I don't mean to rant and bitch, but her and the "Good Mom" thing, yeah sure, a good Mom sits there and just stays on her phone and fakes the times she gets off work so she can hang out and drive around to avoid being around her kids. My mother worked a lot too, but when she came home SHE SPENT TIME WITH ME!!!!!!!!! Hell, my mother felt bad about how much she had to work, my ex wife is glad she works so much so she doesn't have to be a Mom, I honestly think she didn't want to …	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 03:49 PM
6	Men who pay for sex are unfairly demonized and independent escorts are overly portrayed as victims Exactly, you gotta be careful. I have....my ways, but none I'd be willing to discuss on here. I have my trusted peoples. No shame in it, fuck you mean, at least for me, but I killed shame in myself years ago when I realized ALL people are hypocrites in some form or another.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 09:09 AM
4	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? I hope your marriage lasts the rest of your life and you and your wife and family are happy. I begrudge no one for their happiness, but I hate to be anecdotal; however, Compare the amount of negative stories, just on this subReddit page, and compare how many people have your experience. I guarantee the divorces outweigh them, just not a worthwhile gamble for a young man to take looking at it like that.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 05:37 AM
3	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? Good on you, hope you stay that way bruv. I got reeled in and fucked over, so I'm called the walking cautionary tale. The only thing worthwhile from my marriage was my 3 kids, but as soon as I had them, I should have just left her ass.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 05:34 AM
13	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? This is gospel. Seriously, you and GDACK, if I could upvote you a million times I would. Was married for 9 years, I know the business, the house I put money in? Hers. The VERY nice car I had. Hers. My kids. Only not hers *****because she knew I would fight her tooth and nail and my kids wouldn't stand for not seeing me, my oldest daughter especially because her siblings are younger, but she was my only child for 6 years and so me and her have a special connection, she's old enough to choose and …	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 05:32 AM
17	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? 50%, Uh 95%, I don't care what someone says, oh and the 3% is rich people (where both man and woman are rich) and the 2% are people who have given up and don't wanna die lonely so they just take it.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 05:18 AM
45	Serious question: is it still worth it getting married as a man? Im one time divorced and nah, the 1 is fine for me, I've learned pretty much my entire ass lesson from that first one. Tons of reason for a woman, once the man makes you mad or deviates from your perceived supremacy, leave him and you get all of his shit, rinse, and repeat. Ew, these women are nasty.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 05:14 AM
3	Men Always to Blame? Yeah, I always had a problem with that, especially because me right, I'm not falling for that, I'd be like, peace out, but he really was indeed punished for the fantasy when his wife was having a whole ass affair. Only the 2nd example, where petite women take down the big dudes, that's just movies dude, sex sells and they have to have female characters or else someone will complain, because they do the same thing with little dudes like me being able to take down a 6'8 300 pound guy, films are fa…	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 04:55 AM
1	UK: Woman, 30, who knifed her 19-year-old 'friend with benefits' in the back with scissors is jailed for a year. She claimed it was self defence. The only excuse I accepted when that happened was this guy in Russia caught up with some guy who touched on his daughter, and that guy just so happened to run into the Russian fathers blade 24 times, Now that I accept, child touchers should watch where they're going. Putin only jailed the guy for a year, public outcry led to him being released early. Which is still criminal, if I'm a world leader, I'm throwing a parade for that guy.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 01:01 AM
4	UK: Woman, 30, who knifed her 19-year-old 'friend with benefits' in the back with scissors is jailed for a year. She claimed it was self defence. Yeah, ok, they won't escape my justice, that's for sure, courts can say what they want. Not my baby. Kinda set me off, because I'm holding my 11 month old son right now.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 12:59 AM
4	UK: Woman, 30, who knifed her 19-year-old 'friend with benefits' in the back with scissors is jailed for a year. She claimed it was self defence. America that will happen too, it depends on where you are though, if in Florida or any other state with a "Stand your ground" laws, you'll be good, but other than that.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 12:58 AM
1	Now they hate babies Yeah, it's also until they realize, "Oh these women think I'm one of the good ones." And then they realize, to them there are no "Good ones." Alright guys, I'm about to get ready to watch Tennessee THRASH the Buckeyes.	/r/MensRights	22/12/24 12:57 AM
3	Men Always to Blame? It's sad dude, I wouldn't have used American Beauty as an example.	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 10:52 PM
27	Men Always to Blame? Yeah dude, hell yeah, this is crazy, it's ALWAYS to blame the male, that's it, point blank. They're so entitled in this day and age it's absolutely crazy	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 10:51 PM
27	USA: Tennessee teacher Alissa McCommon, 38, who got pregnant after raping boy, 12, sentenced to 25 years behind bars Yeah, it's nuts, the other way around, the dude would already be dead. Why isn't this the same on both sides? I hate all forms of child rapists, period.	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 08:02 PM
2	USA: Tennessee teacher Alissa McCommon, 38, who got pregnant after raping boy, 12, sentenced to 25 years behind bars Ew, I would have kicked that ladies ass if she'd touched my son! Sicko.	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 08:01 PM
4	Why would an attractive pornstar, an attractive model or a beautiful and attractive woman have trouble to get dates and serious relationships? Hey dude, who were those 919 dudes? I wouldn't sign up for that and imagine being the dude who went last LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:52 PM
2	How and when did the west become so much man hating ? The no accountability and not admitting to mistakes is SOOOOO them.	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 07:47 PM
5	How and when did the west become so much man hating ? Yeah, and the blatant double standard my ex wife was about. She knee jerk just always believed women, unless it was a man she wanted to fuck, like the Amber Heard Johnny Depp situation, Oh THEN it's okay to believe the man. How about when the guy is working class? Hmm? I never forget the moment I knew my ex wife was lost in the sauce, she commented on a story I told her about this young 21 year old girl not getting ANY jail time for accusing this 51 year old man (for which he lost his job) of ra…	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 07:43 PM
3	How and when did the west become so much man hating ? Yeah, to be with these women is to try and find sanity in the insane asylum.	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 07:37 PM
1	How and when did the west become so much man hating ? I don't know, but these people on here will delete this comment and think "They're bias, I'm deleting this." completely oblivious to the fact, they're proving our point right there. Would anyone even think to delete a post saying "Why has the west become so Anti-Woman?" No. Fuck no they wouldn't, so that's the bias right there. Bias by "Well you're in power." Not me? the RICH men, I've never been rich so I'm getting all of the grief with none of the benefit. "I can't walk around at night and jog…	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 07:33 PM
1	Modern Dating is a Patch For a Disconnected and Far Less Social World Classic, "My situation represents all situations." Come on man, I am able to stay pretty fit despite eating what I want and working out very little, besides Dad gut that only built up in the last year, does that represent everyone? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:29 PM
1	If Cinderella is the fairytale of a low SMV woman capturing a top 20% man. Then what is male equivalent fairytale for men's struggles? Cheers mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 05:53 PM
-1	If Cinderella is the fairytale of a low SMV woman capturing a top 20% man. Then what is male equivalent fairytale for men's struggles? Aw your feelings hurt? It's the internet. HIVE mind baby, go outside of Reddit and learn everyone isn't gonna be exactly like you. You can't accept that, it makes life very difficult indeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 05:52 PM
–	What would actually make a positive change for you men? They never will bruv. That would involved accountability, when is the last time they displayed that. Nice try, I said they, could have been talking about anybody, so try to report this, it'll go nowhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:28 AM
–	What would actually make a positive change for you men? Yo yep, but there are still those odd little ducks. Like the women I worked with, my ex wife, her sister, her Mom, My aunt, my sisters aren't like that so that's 2, The women I worked with at my previous job, my ex best friend, my one life long friend girl isn't like that so that's 1. I think it's also a more prevalent thing in poorer communities, if you're all Middle Class then, the anger just isn't as palpable because you have a lot of palette cleanser activities to get you socially lubricated…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:27 AM
–	What would actually make a positive change for you men? Most people aren't nuanced dawg, I think the platform we're on speaks volumes about that. I made a post on r slash rant simply stating that this woman couldn't effectively speak about mens issues, because she was not in fact a man, a pretty innocent and just matter of fact statement right (flip the genders and you'd get a million "YAAASSSS QUEEEENNNSSSS"), but I was banned for 3 days. I've come out in support of women in more male based communities and only got downvoted severely, not straight u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:24 AM
2	If Cinderella is the fairytale of a low SMV woman capturing a top 20% man. Then what is male equivalent fairytale for men's struggles? w00tsauce. LOLLOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:21 AM
-5	If Cinderella is the fairytale of a low SMV woman capturing a top 20% man. Then what is male equivalent fairytale for men's struggles? The Barbie model with a big butt (I personally would prefer a Latina or A Filipina, or a White girl with dark hair, I'm not into Blondes), loves to cook, doesn't mind staying in (so you save money), doesn't shop, doesn't complain, and let's you hang with the guys as much as you want (and you don't have to worry about her straying), and looks at other women's asses with you. Knows when to be assertive (in defense of you and our children), and knows when to be submissive (the bedroom) Sorry to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:20 AM
1	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Again downvoted for? Seriously, an opinion ya'll don't like and ya'll run from it, you know you can't run from real life right? It catches up with you every time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:14 AM
–	Marriage is a substitute for love. Yeah, the traditional definition, not "Hey we're equal, but actually, I'm in charge." All the modern western woman wants is a man to just say "Yes Dear" to EVERYTHING, that's not a partner, that's a servant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:11 AM
1	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Twas a joke. These literal "fuckers" as in fornicators. If I had to explain it, it just wasn't funny LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 07:07 AM
1	Are we now just basically useless to society and hated because of feminism? Will it ever change and if not are we just now destined to die alone? I get that one mate, I mean, I made a comment on R slash rant where, I simply said this woman couldn't chime in and have any experienced apparatus because she was talking as if she knew what it was like to live as a man, she didn't, and my perfectly reasonable post got me banned for 3 days. So needless to say, this is my last day on this site, that's just unacceptable no matter what the reason. Like this post, removed, why? What did anyone say that was SUCH a slight that it had to be removed? Gr…	/r/MensRights	21/12/24 06:57 AM
1	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. It's sad that people on this platform seem to not have a middle ground. Look at the comment below, was there ANYTHING unreasonable I said to warrant that? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/24 06:50 AM
1	Marriage is a substitute for love. Yeah, this is gonna be the most unmarried generation, I feel sorry for the people in the wedding business because they'll have to rely on (Not saying this offensively) immigrants and heavily religious people who push marriage because the rest of us have wised up to the industries act. Those "Oh I wanna get married" movies will bomb and I hope the entire industry crumbles. It's dumb, and add to that it's just not practical or logical thinking. You're gonna change as a person, grow over the course…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:59 AM
5	Different take on the SA debate No....I'm not touching this one.	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 09:46 AM
1	Main problem of promiscuity is not even the n-count itself I mean, there's a hoe phase (for guys and girls) and a time to get serious, this time is based on where you are in your particular life and development. I'm really not sure what you're saying man, I'm not understanding the gist of the debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:34 AM
–	Marriage is a substitute for love. Shit, good on you. It's really not hard, you wanna feel "grown" and have your relationship doomed to fail, get married. Sure fire way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:22 AM
2	Marriage is a substitute for love. And have it's corpse set on fire and dipped in acid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:21 AM
–	Marriage is a substitute for love. Thank you, goddamn, that's why I don't want a western woman, I shouldn't have to slap a diamond on your fucking finger and make it basically be a contract of pain for me to love you. If I love you, I love you, I'm NEVER doing that shit again. 9 years and all it did was trap me and my ex wife until we couldn't stand it anymore. I mean we were so opposite, besides when it comes to our kids, I haven't spoken to her in a conversation not involving that, since.....July. So yeah, waste of fucking time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:20 AM
7	Are we now just basically useless to society and hated because of feminism? Will it ever change and if not are we just now destined to die alone? I can't the internet is too sensitive, I miss the old 2005 internet, I could say the joke I'm thinking of then, but I don't wanna get canceled so I'll stand down.	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 09:10 AM
-8	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Anger? It's the internet, why get angry about shit that happens on here, it literally doesn't kill or hurt me, and those are the only things I waste emotions on. And you kinda did my buddy, Or someone else did and I replied to them and the comment got deleted so it made it seem like it was towards you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 08:23 AM
15	Are we now just basically useless to society and hated because of feminism? Will it ever change and if not are we just now destined to die alone? You mean the battle box. Get it right. GOD. and guys please stop. I've followed politics for 20 years and let me tell you something, no politician gives a shit about your social situation, it's all a show. Democrats, Republicans, they're all rich. Let me give you 1 billion dollars and see how quickly your care of what goes on with us poors fades into a bitter memory. Just cause you like him, that doesn't change that. Obama, Trump, Vance, DeSantis, Biden, Harris, it's no different. Trump walks on…	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 08:19 AM
12	Are we now just basically useless to society and hated because of feminism? Will it ever change and if not are we just now destined to die alone? I'm not for either. Ick, religion of any kind. I'm not following arbitrary rules set forth by some ancient book years ago. Like fucking why?	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 08:15 AM
4	Are we now just basically useless to society and hated because of feminism? Will it ever change and if not are we just now destined to die alone? Um.....dude, you know there's more countries than just the one you're in, there's hope, but it ain't in the Western world sir. Any women on here feel free to hate, but it's just objective reality. Their so used to hearing society blow their heads up they can't fathom someone wanting to escape their bullshit.	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 08:14 AM
2	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? I'm.....I'm not jacking off though. I mean, not all the time, but every 2 weeks or so what evs. I'm having sex with women, I'm addicted to the full package, not just the feeling, and I hate that because, I'm where women are with men right now, I can't stand their asses. The duplicity of dating, I hate ya'll, but I like fucking you. The eternal paradox continues.	/r/MensRights	17/12/24 07:49 AM
0	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Yeah, I get that, you have to find the needles in the haystack, and whilst doing so, maybe have some fun playing in the hay while looking. I know it sucks, but it's called the game, and it's not liked for a reason. I'm not engaging right now, but I have kids to raise so, even if I didn't I was married for 9 years and I have to do some deep soul searching to not find someone who is at all like my ex wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:46 AM
1	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Sorry about the misunderstanding on my part about you not saying it was guaranteed. It's the internet, a lot gets lost in translation. Yeah, I don't think you listened (viewed, but not read, really since it's the internet), you heard, but didn't listen, it's a good thing the lessened libido, I didn't mean it in the way of I completely don't want sex, I'm just not jonesing for it all the time anymore. It means I'm not so ready to go with the sex that I make stupid judgements. I meant it as, I see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:43 AM
–	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Or you can be a sarcastic bitch your whole life. Seriously, so, I try to give positive advice, not projecting, just trying to help and your answer to that, is to comment this. Right? A lot of you are angry ain't ya? I thought that weed was supposed to calm ya down?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:33 AM
-9	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Oh, I get it, we're in self pity mode got it. The down voting isn't gonna help your self esteem, I don't give a shit what some self assholes who wanna wallow in self pity think of me trying to help them. Don't want the help then by all means, be a depressed bitch your whole life and continue not getting anywhere socially. Recognize an ally when someone reaches out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:32 AM
-2	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Wow, people aren't in touch with reality, self-esteem, self-confidence it's in the name, down vote me all you want, but you can't down vote reality, you have to live in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:30 AM
4	Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men. Yeah, but, you're like my ex girlfriend from years ago, she preferred a slightly more feminine man, or rather, a man who wasn't afraid to be feminine. She also wanted me to make out with a dude too and I straight wasn't doing that. My two friends ended up doing that to impress their girlfriends in the middle of Hot Topic, and I'm like, that's some straight up White people shit right there. Was funny though cause one of my friends really really homophobic friends looked at dude like he was dead t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:28 AM
3	Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men. Yeah, my son is 1 and he plays with a Princess Peach doll, I don't make a big deal, he has mostly girl toys because he's just now old enough to start enjoying different varieties. WTF cares, he's 1. Most of his toys are hand me downs from his older sisters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:24 AM
1	Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men. FEMBOY ARMY!!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:23 AM
3	Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men. Shit, give me a million dollars and I'd rock that dress cause I know people would perform mental gymnastics just to say "That's a man right there!." Like, if Beyonce or Taylor Swift wore mens clothes, WTF cares, they're still Taylor Swift and Beyonce so their femininity isn't in question. Have the common woman do that though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:23 AM
9	Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men. That's a certain opinion though, Harry Styles can do that because he has money and options of who to fuck, I mean who's turning down an attractive millionaire just because he wore a dress? Give me that dress and have me wear it and post it on Instagram and see me get nothing. The confidence isn't what shines you, it's the fact it's Harry Styles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:21 AM
8	Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men. I wouldn't go as far as that last sentence, but definitely it's a needed balance, you don't have to go full trad, but like my ex wife, she was too assertive and tried to take over too much, she never tried to take a passive role and neither did I, so we always butted heads, you need someone who complements you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:19 AM
19	Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men. Yeah the balance is definitely needed, but you're right, everyone is kind of a mix of both. Men are much more sensitive and about their feelings than they let on, and women aren't the little doves society pretends them to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 07:18 AM
2	Would you want to continue a relationship with your partner, if they expressed a desire to sleep with someone else? Life is about balance, and learning and growing, what you don't see when you're a child and the adults you knew were well adjusted were the experiences and failed relationships it took for them to become well adjusted. I don't judge brother, I never would. Life is what we make it, and as long as we evolve beyond what we were, we always can turn into something better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:33 AM
2	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average You are younger though, your libido is still going, my assumption based on, oh, well, I thought you were the OP, well, anyway, I already have it in my mind so I'm gonna finish, based on the OP. I'm older, the last girl I dated for 5 and a half months and I didn't even sleep with her, though she wanted to (No, it's not that "I'm so hot" or "I'm so attractive" she saw I wasn't dying in the desert from being thirsty as fuck like most of the dudes on the apps, I had patience because I'm older and I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:27 AM
1	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average That's not always a guarantee though, you were talking about it as if a promiscuous woman is GUARANTEED to treat you better, and it's really the same as anyone 50/50 their upbringing, how they view life, and their past relationship experiences are much better indicators of that. All I was saying. I'd rather deal with a prude only because, look, I get women are gonna sleep around at a greater rate then Men because when they have a single phase, there is no barrier between them and the sex they wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:23 AM
1	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. Yeah, I have to agree. My ex wife used to LIVE on those type of Tik Toks, oh but she's talking to dudes on Tinder, bet she shelves that bullshit when she's trying to get them to fuck her, LOL, so they know the behavior is toxic, but just can't help the self indulgence, which is basically the name of the game with majority of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:15 AM
6	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average "Just marry anyone who will sleep with you?" HEY! I didn't marry the first person who would sleep with me, the first person who got pregnant with my kids, get it right LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:13 AM
2	Would you want to continue a relationship with your partner, if they expressed a desire to sleep with someone else? Yeah the movie he is referencing is shit, Stanley Kubricks shittiest film IMO. Just about wanting to fuck, I mean he was older so he was probably really feeling this emotion, but since I cheated 2 years ago it taught me, if you don't wanna be with someone, just break up. And even "Just wanting to fuck" someone, is a form of not wanting to be with your partner. I had to think about this one a lot, why did I cheat on my girl, I guess the deep seated answer is, I knew deep down, she wasn't my perso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:07 AM
1	Would you want to continue a relationship with your partner, if they expressed a desire to sleep with someone else? I'm sorry, that movie is some deep cut White people shit. "I would do anything, give up you or the kids, just to be with him." Yeah, that's some Whitey White people shit man. NYC White people shit. I'm sorry you picked a movie I abhor. I mean sure, if you two have a clearly stated expectation and boundary clearly set, and this next part is important, you two are MATURE PEOPLE and stick STRICTLY to those guidelines. A lot of people just can't bother to be loyal and think of it as a lifestyle hack…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 01:04 AM
1	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Well thank you, you said it in an intelligent way. I value sounding like a know it all over actual substance. "With all that being said, her being promiscuous or not really has no correlation with her moral character or the kind of partner she would be" Hell if anything the negative experiences and consequences of her lifestyle (As there are negative consequences for men who engage in such, STD's and missed potential relationships and all that) would make her be a more understanding partner, not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:47 AM
2	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average I wanna disagree with you, but my DNA and objective reality just won't let me. Oh, I can disagree in this aspect, OUTSIDE of America, ha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:42 AM
5	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average I mean sure, but you'd have to win the lottery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:41 AM
0	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Oh God, The Chad. Whenever I hear that I think of the Charlie's Angels 2000 when Tom Green was like "It's the Chad."	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:41 AM
2	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Vote No Sex on the ballot initiative petition I'm signing, these literal fuckers are gonna get what comincg to them LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:40 AM
5	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average In what universe? It's a very narrow understanding of gender relations. It's stereotyping in a way that's not helpful. There's stereotypes that help you for sure, I mean, they exist for a reason am I right? However, this one ain't helpful, it's flawed in it's premise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:39 AM
-1	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average Quit the weed my friend, it's blinding you, go straight edge, I didn't start seeing life in actual terms and working on myself until I did. Then again, I'm Me, and you're you. I can't be productive and smoke, it blinds me to too many things. Hell, nvm, wasn't trying to tell you what to do, I just know if I had stopped smoking earlier, my dumbass could have seen my marriage for what it was, and not had to wait 9 years to see it was a foolish endeavor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:38 AM
4	A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're average It's not that simple, just really not. Most women have had 10 or more sexual partners in their adult life AT LEAST, so depending on who you ask that's "Used up" or "Ran through". "Cooking with Kya" Yeah, I didn't buy into it when rich folks tried to make me care about their lives via celebrities and I'm not feeding in when formerly poor influencers do it either, I am too old to know who that is. I'm so so very confused because in your one statement "It's unfair to lump them all into the stereoty…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:35 AM
-14	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Why focus on what others have, and not what you possess?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:27 AM
-4	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. If self-confidence is not controlled by you, than why is it called SELF-confidence. You make your of your reality what you want it to be (within the terms of self esteem that is, obviously not macro, micro).	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:26 AM
1	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. "LOL Your delusional" ***You're*** "men will also be delusional if they think women are gonna be interested in them in unfamiliar environments like bars, grocery stores, etc- those days are over." Those days never existed, people who met that way are the exception not the rule. They always were. "Now that men have realized most women are not interested in you should be freeing and all the weight should be lifted off your shoulders because you can’t impress them at all - they have way to many…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:23 AM
0	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. I mean you're in Gen-Z so you're still somewhat young. People, men and women, are immature as fuck at ya'lls age. And it's not really ONLY an age thing, if people don't mature and grow as they age, that's the people like my ex wife's sister, who are 31, married, and yet stalking the club for people to sleep with. Why do you think my 35 year old ass never goes to the club, i didn't when I was 20. If I was rich MAYBE I'd go, but that's a HARD maybe. The club has never offered me anything I've ever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:17 AM
-1	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Try hitting on a completely different set of women. It's what I had to do, if the thing you're doing is not working, it won't work. It's like a war, the strategy you're employing is a losing strategy, time to implement another and field test the results. I get it gets fucking discouraging, but I try not to have a type, I go for personality (within reason), so that's how I go about it. I try to go for more independent loner women as well, that clique mentality girls ain't for me, others can have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:12 AM
-2	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. "To me, the key to dating success is undying belief. You cannot stop believing that you are worthy enough and that you will overcome your hurdles. If you give up and live a life of pessimism, then everything just becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and that’ll really turn women off." Very positive, that's how I feel about it, I'd be jumping back out there if I didn't have a bunch of real deal heavy lifting work to do on myself, therapy, getting my career started, and raising my kids. Getting down…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:07 AM
8	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Yeah, I feel for you my dude, A LOT of things have to go right for people to look past your initial appearance. The only thing I can tell you to feel better is, my ex wife, let's just say, the macro of most dudes wouldn't even look twice at her, but she found me, and I'm a LITTLE below average (my pug ass face, but my body is hot and I'm not 6'0 I'm 5'10), but still people were surprised when her husband didn't look like a swamp monster (Just using the terminology she used to describe what her c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:00 AM
2	Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances. Women get discouraged and jaded because all the macro basic bitch man wants is sex. Men get discouraged because the macro basic bitch women don't give fuck about mens feelings at all. I agree in the sense that, come on guys, there is a good bit of people sad posting on here, but one must remember, negative emotions HAVE to be worked out. The thing I don't like is, a woman works her negative emotions out, men understand, I mean, I've never heard a guy say to a woman "You got your ass beat by your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:57 PM
2	Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they are That's great man, I don't begrudge anybody for their happiness working out. I like to quote a Green Day song "When I Come Around." when talking about my former marriage, "You can't go forcing something, if it's just not right." And that pretty much sums it up. Backyard wedding that sounds cool, I bet your Mom hated that she missed that. Have you ever thought of renewing your vows so she could be there next time? I had to go to the courthouse because I really didn't have money to do all that. I h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 12:08 PM
1	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? Um...You lost me? I mean, as in the same feeling, yeah, but it's with actual women, so.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 11:50 AM
3	Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they are I'm from the South so, I'm shooting my guns. I just can't and won't be married again, but good for you brother. I didn't get married the right way anyway, didn't choose someone for who they were, me and her just didn't wanna be lonely, you know how it is. How long ya been married bruv?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:49 AM
28	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. It's intentional, I do believe in their heads and as an understood policy of all Western White women (and some Black and Latino women in the clique) to AVIDLY hate all men and try to fuck them over on some female supremacy game, but don't say anything out loud because they know if they make the war known and vocal, they'd lose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:47 AM
4	Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they are I mean, humans are walking contradictions, so, I mean no one is "different" macro, but under a microscope, you see all sorts of differences and contradictions. This one lady I knew, Mexican lady, had an alcoholic husband (I knew this lady since I've been 9) and for literally 20 years she swore off men, and actually was a lesbian with her former best girl friend, well that lady went to jail for theft, and when the new neighbor, young latino dude, moved in next to her, she got pregnant with his ki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 11:09 AM
3	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? Good for you, I didn't pick a good wife, she was from an abused home and didn't deal with that baggage before we got married. And fate pretty much fucked me the rest of the way to kill that marriage. We made it 9 good years, but that was for the kids and we had not shit in common. You also have to have a partner willing to grow and change together, me and my wife outgrew each other and changed in completely opposite ways to one another.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 10:14 AM
3	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? That's the ticket dude, as someone who has to deal with an asshole of an ex wife to see my wonderful kids, yeah, not worth it. My kids are, but if you already don't have any, best to keep it that way.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 10:11 AM
4	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? Well, don't, you're not missing much. If it wasn't for my 3 kiddos, I would have wished I would have stayed a virgin. Cause now, I got addicted to the orgasm feeling and so I have to hook up with women (once a certain amount of time passes, I'm fine right now, but in 4 months I'll get antsy). It's a fucking curse really and I wish I had stayed a virgin, if not for my babies.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 10:10 AM
19	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? What do they say, ah yes, "The juice ain't worth the squeeze." I love that saying, perfectly encapsulates modern gender relations.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 10:08 AM
4	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? Good man, good on you, that's the ticket. You don't need another person to make you happy, only you can do that. I mainly am a type who doesn't like to be alone, that's why I'm giving myself 3-5 years to heal and not just swearing it off altogether, but I'm gonna be like these women are with my standards when I jump back out there, one little thing is off, nah you gots to go.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 10:07 AM
1	Have you stopped dating? If so, why? Eh....yeah, not because of anything having to do with anyone else though. I gotta work on me, raise my kids, and get my job training going. Once I'm there (in about 3-5 years) then I may gently dip my toe in again, but not before. I have too much growing up to do and healing from my 9 year marriage.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 10:05 AM
9	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. THIS, the "main character syndrome brain rot" good man, good on you. That's whats plaguing our society now. People think they can't get jumped, shot, or stabbed. This ain't an Avengers flick, you can be taken out. I'm from Memphis, let me tell you something, I'VE ALMOST been shot and stabbed being in the wrong place at the wrong corner store, so yeah, you can get got just as easily as people you read about on the news.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:03 AM
61	Men understand the concept of aggression significantly better than women. Hey man, if it ain't the 50's for you women, which it ain't, then it ain't the 50's for us, the police state is looking for a reason to lock you up, and I'd rather not have that on my record, so stop picking shit with people. Granted, I'm not going to a whole ass other subReddit to get a full comprehension of the situation, but the only time I'm fighting is if someone has punched me or looks like they're going to, or they're going near my kids, in which case, no mercy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:00 AM
2	I hate cheaters True that, weird, Reddit has actually been surprisingly helpful today, bravo for the actually mature comments. I mean, judge away, that's the consequence of sharing that I made mistakes like that, but you're right the self sabotage and punishing myself doesn't do any good. And I'm always honest about it, like I told the girl I dated just recently about it and she was cool with it, because she could tell I felt bad and it was in the past.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 05:43 AM
3	Do liberal women dress more modestly than conservative women ? I mean what? Like the woman above said, you never heard of Daisy Dukes? You must be college aged, that's your age group of women buddy, not so much their political affiliation. When that weight starts gaining on both men and women as you get older, they get less revealing with the clothes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 04:46 AM
1	I hate cheaters I cheated 2 years ago, my ex wife, divorced me in June. I had an ex girlfriend for 5 and a half months, but broke up with her 3 days ago, I couldn't, we built up a lot of non sexual intimacy and she wanted to have sex, and I couldn't do it. I'm not over this, and it's unfair to put someone through just going through the motions. Truth is I'm still working through it, but I also have my kids so, it's gonna be a minute until that pops back up on my radar again. I'm trying to get some therapy lined…	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 04:41 AM
3	I hate cheaters Hey man, real big of you to admit that. I didn't at first when I was on here, but you gotta come clean with yourself, then you gotta come clean with others. I'm torn, I can't say I wish I'd never done it because I'd never have been put on this path to self improvement, even though it cost me everything I loved (except my kids thank God) and more, what would have been the alternative? Me walking around thinking that was justified? No, it's better this way.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 04:27 AM
3	I hate cheaters Whats that gonna do for us? Huh? Making excuses, justifying the bullshit, just gonna hurt us more in the end. You make a mistake you own it, that's what being a man is about.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 04:25 AM
4	I hate cheaters It's not, I've cheated before, and I still learn from that dumb shit every day. People aren't perfect, and it's cost me more than you know, but the last thing I'd ever do is make an excuse for myself like a punk. I own what I did, and it's why I'm a much better person today than I was 2 years ago.	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 04:24 AM
7	I hate cheaters Yeah, it's fucked up. I cheated on my ex wife, and it's not something that I'm proud of or is cool or fun or hip to do, it's pathetic. I used to view the world in such a different way, I'll admit a little misogynisticly because I had thought "Well, I can cheat, and she better not because she's the woman, and I'm the man, I need sex all the time, and she doesn't." Just real dark and stupid shit. People are people, I'll admit I'm a bit slow when it comes to human interaction and wasn't in a real r…	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 04:23 AM
1	F*** You This comment above Thats-bk, thank you, I didn't have the necessary experienced trauma to let him know, it will be okay. That's why I asked him to DM someone with similar experiences. I just know I want to save someone if I can, because every one is worth it, worthy of love, worthy of life, and worthy of a second chance. I'm glad you got yours. As a fellow 35 year old recently divorced person to another, glad you're doing good dog. And I hope the OP is doing good. Thank you for commenting, becau…	/r/MensRights	16/12/24 12:42 AM
2	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies I don't see how you stand it, and the cream on top is, they get so butt hurt when i MENTION COMICS AND NOT MOVIES AND TV. You ever heard of fucking source material jackasses? So, I love comic books still, but I can see, maybe the online community surrounding it isn't for me. I go in slap a bitch mode when someone acts stupid to me, so yeah, just not for me. Anyway, yes too many men use "being honest" as an excuse to be an asshole. Like you can't "Protect someone" from the experience of getting s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 12:08 AM
3	F*** You Ok, let's try a different approach, let's say, you got everything you ever wanted in this world, you were living your perfect life, what would that look like to you? Describe it for me if you wouldn't mind. It's just an exercise, I'm trying to let you know you're not alone, but also talking with someone who is in the same head space you are through DM's can help too. I'm not your enemy friend, I'm your ally. Describe your perfect life.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 11:33 PM
8	Cheating double standards, woman cheats and is validated in the comments. True that. I feel ya brother. Look people get confused about me because I push RIGHT BACK against the Red pill or incel behavior, that costs us allies being with that. What women don't get is siding with the Instagram Man Hate Brigade, makes them lose allies. I mean, how do you think Trump won the election? Men were fed up. I'm no Right Winger, but I recognize objective reality.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 11:28 PM
1	I condemn cheating whenever it is, but whats your opinion on the ideology that men cheat with their body, while women cheat with their feelings? Yeah, I mean my ex wife's a good woman, who, may not have looked the best and is a bigger girl, but she didn't deserve that, no one does. Unfortunately, she has her own mental issues that I think she's just trying to dodge by dating this dude and it won't work out if she's trying to rebound and skip steps. That's why I'm not dating anyone seriously for a while. I think I traumatized her so much that she just wanted to move and and learn what a healthy relationship could look like. I did the same…	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 11:00 PM
3	F*** You Sure, and listen, I know as a guy who felt like this almost all throughout his 20s. "Why was I born? This world sucks so much I just wanna not be part of the hatred. What even IS this life?" You have to, well let me rephrase that, you don't "have" to do anything, it's to your benefit to work through those emotions in any way you can. Don't be afraid to feel those emotions, let the anger out, it'll make you feel better. I'm sorry you're going through this, I promise you it gets better, how? I can…	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 10:48 PM
5	F*** You Damn right.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 10:45 PM
4	F*** You "I will always be this insecure absolute train wreck and never do what I wanted." Look man, life is too short to be pissed off all the time (not just a line off of American History X, it's real shit). I get it, I was young, and maybe didn't have the home life you did based on what you said, but it gets better. What brought this whole speech on if you don't mind me asking? This hate is something I had to work out as well my friend. Sometimes it's realizing, albeit through a lot of misery and expe…	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 10:40 PM
46	F*** You Hey man, you might wanna relax and understand, once you get away from these toxic people and decide to cut them out, that's when the healing can truly begin, just please don't do anything permanent that you can't come back from. Life has a way of making us think our daunting and impossible situations are forever, when they aren't, you just can't see it because you're in it right now. You're not alone.	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 10:37 PM
0	I condemn cheating whenever it is, but whats your opinion on the ideology that men cheat with their body, while women cheat with their feelings? Yeah, I most definitely agree with that. Because I cheated on my ex wife, physically, and when she kicked me out (2 years after I cheated), she was so cold and emotionless that I knew she already had another dude in her mind and heart and that's what gave her the strength to do it. It's hilarious, because, for some reason she tries to act like she's not completely in love with this new dude, she is. I don't care, I lead to it so whatever, but I think she's hesitant to tell me cause she thinks I'…	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 10:26 PM
16	Cheating double standards, woman cheats and is validated in the comments. Yeah, and more general in life, they're given excuses to engage in whatever behavior they do because of how they feel at the time. I feel the problem is other women, a singular woman is smart and knows it's wrong, but the plethora and plurality of women usually will "Rally around the flag" because they know they're mostly toxic and want to defend the toxicity because they know it's an action their toxic little selves would take and then try to run to others to validate. Cheating is wrong across …	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 09:53 PM
19	Cheating double standards, woman cheats and is validated in the comments. Cheating is never right, take it from me, who cheated on his ex wife. I was driven by my douche bag friends and thought it would make me "Cool" (no excuse for cheating, I was just letting ya'll know what was going through my head). It won't, it'll just make you feel like shit afterward, yeah, you'll feel good during, but afterward, it's just a mistake you don't wanna make no matter what. Have a female partner that cheated? Just break up, don't get revenge, a relationship should never devolve int…	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 09:49 PM
7	Either Both or None Yeah, my ex wife didn't like me, because all the dudes she dated before me would just take it, not me. I don't do that, I'm gonna be equal, let you do what you do, won't harp about traditional gender roles or any of that shit, but if we're gonna be egalitarian, let's truly be egalitarian, not you get to "make up" for women being oppressed for so long. Hey dawg, I ain't have shit to do with the 50's---70's I'm in a relationship with you now in 2024. Da fuck?	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 09:30 AM
5	Either Both or None Yeah, sounds like a toxic and unhealthy person. My ex wife was like this, she thought men shouldn't stand up for themselves when females do shit to them. She would get loud and then when I would try to talk to her calmly "Oh well you're trying to be higher than mighty" or "Holier than thou" and it was just deflection. Look, I wasn't perfect, but I didn't say she was unreasonable if I got loud and she got loud back. Some women want the 21st century pleasures, but with the 1950's "Hey I should get…	/r/MensRights	15/12/24 09:27 AM
5	Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously. Ok, well agree to disagree my friend. That's just psycho talk IMO, but to each their own, this is the problem when people lump all MRA's together. We've had a good talk, but I'll see myself out the door. Have a nice day my friend, hope you see things with a little more nuance in the future. You'll need to if you ever want to grow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:54 AM
4	Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously. Okay sir, you seem to have an issue with "Feminists" as you've clearly been using it as a pejorative. Perhaps you should work out that bias in your head like I had to years ago. Look, the "Hey men don't have anything to complain about" argument, no, there's plenty, but I think the thing you're failing to understand is, women can be assaulted just for jogging or if a date goes badly. They don't have any Reproductive Rights and a lot of men voted to insure that. On the flip side, there's a lot of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:47 AM
17	Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously. I mean, you mentioned the outcome of the 2024 election, I think that jumping off point is kinda effectively what you said. I'm really not understanding what you're saying. Actionable steps HAVE been taken against women's rights, they don't have a right to choose what happens to their own bodies. So I'm just trying to get the picture you're trying to paint. I'm unclear as to what "Actionable steps against women's rights" entails?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:37 AM
19	Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously. I'm not gonna tell my story again, I've told it too many times, but I have EVERY reason to be sore at women, and women have EVERY reason to be sore at men, and men have EVERY reason to be sore at women, but I don't think that's gonna solve anything do you? Just produce more of the same we're seeing in this generation, a bunch of negativity and hate. I think you've lumped all Feminists in with the Man Hate Brigade, them and Feminists are different. I think we need to sort out bad actors on both s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:29 AM
32	Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously. I don't think the best answer to build allies is "Hey, let's actively try to oppress the other side." I feel like if you searched your mind, instead of using your feelings, which are obviously kinda in a sensitive place by the unfolding of the above post, then you'd realize that. PRO-MAN IS NOT ANTI-WOMAN. What you're talking about is EXTREMELY counter intuitive brother.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 08:26 AM
4	What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life? Yeah, and also, you never know, she seems like she had been "touched" by a family member of hers and she saw sex as absolutely repulsive. I can't get near that type of trauma. See, that's why I'm very cautious about who is around my kids, because I will fuckin hurt someone over them, those aren't just words, it's a fucking guarantee.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:55 AM
3	What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life? I meant the communities where these people are SUPER mentally annihilated. Example? I live in Tennessee, and this one girl told me whenever she thought about sex, she would cut herself, to purge the "Impure thoughts" from her brain, yeah, stopped hanging out with them after she told me that. I get what you mean, but there are some people who are really mentally put through the ringer and ACTUALLY live that shit, though it is a SMALL minority. Most are just fakes as you said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:46 AM
2	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies Look, I'm a nice comic book nerd, but I'm the exception, a lot of those dudes have fucking problems, deep seated problems. Like seriously, learn to relax and enjoy life and comics, it ain't that serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:30 AM
1	What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life? Yeah, take it from me, don't go into a long term relationship period. It's shit. If you wanna have kids, one night stand that shit and keep it truckin. No one gets along that well over the course of 20 years, if you do know people, they're the exception not the rule, and if you don't think so, I can pull several examples off the top of my head (Famous people, people in my life, people in others lives) of people who didn't work out. It's just too much hassle and in the end, you're only happy mayb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:21 AM
6	What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life? And really, it's not like that crap pops up over her head in a digital read out so, you'd never know if she had a high body count if she doesn't tell you. Women will always beat men in sleeping around, ALWAYS. Facts. If we weren't marrying women who slept around, no woman in this world would be married, but those couples who met in high school or Christians raised in the church.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 07:17 AM
2	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies Yeah, a lot of these morons are the problem yet see women and everyone else as the problem. Nah, ya'lls dickhead culture of male fragility is one meant to die, that's why it's thrashing around like a dinosaur in the tar pit now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 05:19 AM
3	Too many men use ‘being honest’ as an excuse to be bullies A lot of these fucking morons on here don't deserve to breath air. Sorry, but the amount of toxic pieces of shit on the internet, and especially on Reddit who get on here just to funnel their neckbeard hatred makes the internet a shitty place. Seriously, some of you need the absolute fuck beat out of you. Especially the comic book communities on here. Literally the r/superman and r/batman communities opened up my eyes to why women should just avoid the comic book dorks. They're irrational dumb f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 05:18 AM
1	The Lily Phillips situation is yet another hit to how men perceive women. If you're an absolute idiot yes. If you have a nuanced view of the world you realize that's her, I just don't want to be told about it, She can do what she wants, but why broadcast it? Not that I judge her, because I don't give a shit enough about the situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/24 05:09 AM
-1	People, especially men, should not be condemned for being insecure. It's a socially acceptable thing to stigmatize and we should not stigmatize people for it. Look man, I get it, every dude goes through that awkward point every now and again in his personality, but one must overcome that. I was insecure, and lemme tell you now, life and reality fixes that shit over time. Not that you have to be a dog, but find that sweet spot between being a dog and being confident. I'm not just talking about with women, with friends and people at work too. Everyone does have insecurities, but people are hypocritical liars, not a downer debbie thing just a fact, and s…	/r/MensRights	14/12/24 09:31 AM
–	The common dating advice for men to 'just keep asking questions to get women talking' is counterproductive Who watched 40 Year Old Virgin and was like "Yeah, that sounds solid." What? No. "Plus I think this advice is overblown" Yeah, people will think they're getting punked or you're the most uninteresting person on the planet. I do the opposite, I ONLY talk, I don't have time for you to interrupt my greatness. Follow the common thread dude, anyone saying "I've got this surefire way" to do...name a thing is bullshitting you. All men don't know shit about women except for the fact once you stop acting…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:27 AM
–	What is a nice guy anyway? Yeah, there is no "Nice guy" because everyone has the propensity to at least 2 or 3 times in their life be a raging dick bag.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 09:23 AM
1	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing Also, the problem is, when you just lead with "Feminists say...." That's automatically sounding like a tipped perception just to push a narrative. I'm not hating on you dude, I'm just sharing everyone's perspective. Now, the random hatred of men, no no, I don't play that, don't take a single negative experience out on a whole gender. On the flip side bruv, that study is like from 2005--2009, when I was 16--19. I still had hope in the world that's how long ago that was LOL. I mean, it would have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:56 AM
6	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing It's kinda tipped narrative wise, but I agree, just because of disagreement, the down voting is weird, I always ask another question and if it's clear narrative humping, then I downvote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:52 AM
13	Women are simply lying about this pretty consequential thing I simply don't call myself a Feminist because, I think there is a knee jerk reaction by males and females when a male calls himself a "Feminist" he's just trying to get laid. And dawg, for perspective, 2005 was 20 years ago. I was 16 in 2005, I'm 35 now. Look man, we have to come to an understanding between genders that, we don't know each others lived experiences, thus why spaces such as this are so valuable. I think most reasonable people look at the situation per situation basis. Like there's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:51 AM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? Thank you, you're too kind and I truly don't deserve it, I'm not saying that in a self pity way, I'm just saying it. I just don't get it, I've been wracking my brain trying to ask myself "Why?" I had someone good at home and I just did it without thinking, what the hell is wrong with me? When I answer that question, I think I'll be able to forgive myself, not before. Truly thank you, anyone else who wants to think lesser of me, feel free to, comment what you want, I hate me right now, but I'm ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:39 AM
1	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards I'm not there yet. I can't be, if I'm too easy on myself, then I feel like it's me mentally saying "Oh it's okay." And I gave myself a pass like that for far too long. Any of ya'll out there lemme give you a piece of advice older people learned from experience, you set the standard for how you're treated, that's what my ex wife finally realized, so if a partner cheats, just leave, because if you stay, the partner thinks it's okay to treat you like that. Thank you guys, as silly and as weird as i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:22 AM
1	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards Yeah, but one thing we must consider brother, our experience is our experience, a lot of women have to put up with violence and worrying if they are gonna make it home if a date feels rejected. I know, we have our struggles, but I know I'm coming back after a bad date. I'm not saying that means we have no issues to complain about, but we need to keep everything in perspective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:17 AM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? I'm on here because I HAVE to change the way I think, not just about relationships, but about life in general. I used to be really negative, and the truth is I'm fighting that with every fiber of my being. I'm just now realizing in real time I've seen relationships and shit like that in the completely wrong light. Excusing my past behavior because it's me who suffers for it's fallout. My ex wife did me a favor by kicking me out, I'd have continued being that shitty person my whole life if not. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:15 AM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? I also think that the women having to deal with the safety aspect and having to "always be put together" makes them think that men see them as meat and it numbs the emotions, thus why people seem cold to men. I'm slowly learning, but there ARE just some poison pills that hate men for being men, and women for being women. I had to cut off my ex best friend because he saw women that same way. I can't do that, not only because I just can't be vile like that, I also have daughters, and how can I see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:10 AM
0	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? And, a thing my ex wife got me wise to is, what trash scum class of man is running around here not letting their partner, let's just say "get there" during sex? I always assumed, that's how I get more sex from you later, if I disappoint you in that area, you have options to go elsewhere so I'm playin for keeps. Come on guys, we're better than that, just in that particular discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:05 AM
0	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? I think you think I'm coming into this with a narrative, I'm not, it's a question. Thank you for answering it. I was married for 9 years, so this is just to get a feel on the pulse. I am talking about in general dating standards, because if I count "worrying about safety" then women win that hands down. I never have to worry about a woman trying to kill me, unless you get lured to the old country road, and I'm not going anywhere like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 02:02 AM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? It's all in how you view things. Me and my ex wife had a toxic as fuck relationship at the end, but my 3 kids came out of it, and I wouldn't change a thing. I'm not even a dude who particularly cared about being a Dad that much when I was younger before they were born, but as soon as I heard about my daughter, I loved her. She's 9 now and I couldn't imagine my life without her or her siblings. They're the reason I want to improve myself and become a healthy minded person, otherwise, I'd just giv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:56 AM
0	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? That's true and the nail on the head of what you posted was "I think the former is worse, because that's the stuff I've had to deal with. A guy might think the latter is worse, because that's what he's had to deal with." Definitely its sounding harder for women, because of the safety aspect. Sure, not EVERY dude is irrationally violent, but some are, and it only takes you finding the one psycho to fuck your life up completely. See, my ex wife, before we met, had to get dentures because a dude ti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:53 AM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? It's a catch all because it's dialogue meant to start a broader conversation. For some reason the only flair it would allow me to post this in was "Questions for Women"	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:49 AM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? It's not as bad as people make it seem. What I learned as an older man is, it liberates you, and makes you feel like, when you do eventually meet someone, you're doing it for the right reasons, you're not doing it out of loneliness or desperation, you're actually feeling for that person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:47 AM
1	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards Cause he's the one asking the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:44 AM
2	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards Yeah, but I had to be honest dawg, I cheated on my wife twice, so the fact she even stayed with me as long as she did meant she was an angel. I won't lie about that anymore, if I'm gonna change, let's change. So, that's why my marriage in particular broke down. I still agree with you though man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:43 AM
2	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? Look, time for full transparency, I've been dishonest before because I wanted to hide over a screen, but that only serves to fuck me over in the future. Yes, my wife and I were married 9 years, and yes, she did live with me for 5 years having no job, and yes, after my 18 wheeler wreck, she did basically abandon me. However, the part I was dishonest on was, "my role" in it, in 2017 (when we had only dated for 2 years) I cheated on her with a neighbor who threw herself at me. Then in 2022 (Right a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:38 AM
1	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? Get you a more mature guy, not age, I'm 35 and I just recently pulled my head out of my ass. People have to have experiences to get them to grow. Because women can get a little further dating when they put themselves out there, usually, they get their experiences in a little earlier. Men take things personally and because we're supposed to be "strong" and a relationship takes a good bit of vulnerability and when you get burned, it makes you not wanna be vulnerable anymore. I was angry at my ex w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:23 AM
3	Who has it rougher when it comes to dating women or men? I just went out with my latest girlfriend for 6 months, I had to break up with her, I'm 35 so my sex drive isn't on crack like it used to be, I never had sex with her though she wanted to. I was with my ex wife for 9 years, and I'm an all in or all out sorta dude, so I didn't want to get attached like that or have her be attached to me unless I knew for sure. I moved on too quick (2 months after my divorce), I'm not hung up on my ex wife, but I'm not ready emotionally to take a gamble on somethi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 01:10 AM
1	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards And, I was just gonna drop it and leave it at that, some people though, like me, have to take a good hard look in the mirror and ask "Since my relationships don't always work out, what am I doing wrong?" Or "Do I really want that?" I'm real with people I played my part in my marriage dying, but also, there wasn't much I could do. We were both potheads when the relationship began, and so, once we stopped, we looked at each other and tried to converse with each other and I guess both of us in our …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:32 PM
0	Most people don’t understand what a ‘traditional relationship’ actually means I tried to post my own debate, and the auto mod kept taking it down. WTF? I wasn't offensive or anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:21 PM
1	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards I'm happy for you, that's the difference between me and all the other little neckbeards. I TRULY hope your marriage is the exception not the rule and you sit in your rocking chair and say "That Plenty Patience guy didn't know shit." I truly do. The other guy was just angry about standards and stuff like that. See I know I can get laid any time any place. Treat a woman like a human and you'll get further. My ex wife surprisingly, told me this bit of advice too, if you're looking just to fuck, be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 12:03 PM
2	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards They SEEM happy. I'll tell you a little anecdote, it won't mean shit to you and your particular life, but hey, a little perspective never hurt anyone. My uncle, he was married to my aunt for 30 years. One day, he's going to work, and her sister comes by and says "Hey, are you gonna throw my sister out?" My uncle was like "Um...no WTF." "Well, she knows that you know your children aren't yours, so are you gonna throw her out cause if not i'm gonna leave." My uncle was floored and almost fell out,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:58 AM
2	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards I'm raising my 3 kids and writing my novels I've always wanted to write. Getting me another job skill, and gotta start going outside more, I'm like a goddamned couch potato now. I hope you ladies find your happiness, whether that's with or without someone. Certain guys need to learn this too. I wasn't playin with dude earlier, if he just wants to get his rocks off so he won't be so angry....I know places. That's all I'm gonna say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:53 AM
2	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards Um...Dude, I could point you to some places, just saying. I'm not posting it on here, but....yeah. Why do you think I have the full throated confidence to say, fuck relationships. Both men and women are wanting companionship, intimacy, and sex. Not really something required in a relationship. People are just told that because it's a "Rite of passage." Fuck straight off with that, every one of the married couples I knew ended up just like me and my ex wife. I've been through the bullshit youngins…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:49 AM
2	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards Shoot my friend, you haven't gotten this guy is trolling you? I'm on your tip "We know single women are happier than married women." Men as well, no one REALLY likes being with anyone, it's societal bullshit pressure carried over from the church. I don't go to church anymore, thus why should it dictate my life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:46 AM
2	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards HA HA HA HA HA, I don't need shit from anybody. I don't owe anyone anything, my friend, I can feel your anger from here. Let it go, fuck that shit, you know how much unnecessary bullshit we as humans have put each other through? And for what? A random shot of someone waking up and it's a coin toss whether or not they're gonna decide to abandon you? Does that seem worth it to you? I mean you can say "Anyone I'd get with wouldn't do that." But you can't read someones mind though. Now if I could re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:45 AM
1	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards I mean, I think it's obvious he's trolling you at this point. I'm not trolling, I'm just trying to wise up some of you young people. GIVE UP ON THAT SHIT. Put your few precious moments on this Earth following pursuits that will actually yield something worth while. I can feel free to think that way, as I already have my 3 kids, so procreation is out for me, so I don't really need any of it anymore. I'm not gonna be one of those people who tells you how good it makes me feel. If you were around m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:41 AM
5	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards I mean, ain't no one happy in no damn relationship anyway. People always want more, or different. Those who are single, wanna be hooked up, those who are hooked up, wanna be single. People are hypocrites, I don't say that in a hateful or negative way, but a matter of fact way, learn this now and you'll save yourself A LOT of trouble in the end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:36 AM
0	Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards At some point you young folk gotta stop. Both genders are setting themselves up for failure. I'm just having sex the rest of my life, I've had my 3 children and that's really all I wanted was my kids anyway. Why can't you just skip to the part, "Fuck it, I'll be alone." That's basically what you're saying, unless the female is rich or the male is rich, no one is finding anyone besides these normie ass folk out here. You have to be rich to find people that have the Capitalism weight lifted off of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 11:34 AM
1	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. Yeah, the text wall, LOL. Hey, you know me, I talk a LOT. They're lucky the wall wasn't bigger, LMAO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 10:54 AM
–	Men are a big part of the problem. It's financial exploitation then exploit them back. Sir, understand, I'm not saying a normie point of "Oh true love exists" that's for children and people who need to huff copium everyday. I'm just saying, everyone has a need to not be alone, in the end, finding a partner isn't based on love. It's based on shared values, shared interests, seeing the world the same way (which ties into shared values), not getting bored with the person after 12 seconds (although that one is UNAVOIDABLE, honestly, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/24 02:34 AM
2	Modern Dating Truths: Why Men Should Reconsider Loyalty and Investment in One Woman I think people do it in today's world to guard their heart from being broken. Take it from me, guard and be cautious all you want, I was before i met my ex wife, you get in the box, you're gonna get your heart broken, it's how you recover that matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 10:22 PM
1	Which is typically more attractive? Yeah, on initial vibes, like a small one off comment on it, like I'll drop a "I'm no Right Winger." in a conversation just to let them know where I stand, but I'm not gonna elaborate on it. I wouldn't want a highly political women, I was highly political for over 10 years and it's a fucking headache.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 10:03 PM
1	Which is typically more attractive? I think he was going for "Which political party is hotter?" Don't think like that my friend. I had a vain friend in my 20s who thought "All Conservative women are hotter." and he got with a girl he kept calling "Mid level" then, they had kids and she got bigger, and he was not pleased with her after that. All that's to say, don't base who's hot who's not on political affiliation, that's silly. There are some, not so good looking, people on both sides.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 10:02 PM
1	Which is typically more attractive? Thank you, that last part you said. Now, I'm not dating a Trumper woman, that can screw straight off, but when I meet someone and I'm vibing, my first question isn't "Hey, who did you vote for and what kind of media diet do you consume?" Sllleeewwp. What was that sound? The vag drying right up. No one wants to hear that stuff when they're trying to have a nice laidback vibe time on a date, politics is too divisive on that front for a conversation in that arena. I kinda get what the OP was going …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 09:51 PM
1	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. Oh I will, it's an important message. I just need to hit up some local men that have been screwed over like me by their ex wives, excuse me while I go outside and throw a stone 2 feet and find them instantly (with how common an occurrence it is).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 08:19 PM
1	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. Don't think I'm joking around either, I'm a serious person, I will start something called "M.A.R. or Men's Advocacy Revolution" and print shirts with our slogan "Pro Man IS NOT Anti-Woman." It would be a bi-partisan group as this problem transcends political affiliation, obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 10:11 AM
2	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. Well, I think the solution is fairly obvious for us. If we are all experiencing the same thing, become a monolith, use our suffering to be our bond, band together, and let some people know our struggles. Let women as a whole see us stand together, and say "Hey, we feel neglected." And see what can be gained from there. Women aren't afraid to band together and fight for their rights, why should we be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 10:09 AM
–	Men are a big part of the problem. But an emotion nonetheless. I'm not saying you're wrong, but it's really an opinion, as what's right for you may not be right for someone else. You can choose to engage or choose not to. I see it like this, love/dating/marriage is a game tipped heavily towards the favor of females. Every other game, jobs, society, art, and other things are tipped in males favor. You have to learn to exist within the confines of meeting people where they're at. We speak out, and we try to equal out things in both…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 09:02 AM
1	Men are a big part of the problem. I mean sure, but overall at the end of the day, humans are social creatures, and that includes men. Negative experiences happen to everyone. Hell I'm 35, and sex to me is just sex now. No big deal. About 2 years ago is when my sex drive took a noticable slide towards being calm. That's why I've been dating the woman I'm dating now for 6 months and no sex, it's no big deal to postpone it because, I know we'll both enjoy it. Unheard of in my 20s. I'm trying to gauge if I could genuinely see myself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:27 AM
1	Many Men Struggle in Dating because they are Not Very Interesting. It's a sad transaction when I could turn that argument on it's head. How many of these young women just face down in their phone all day and talk about TikTok and don't really have a personality, yet want a man to be this and that and this and that? That's crazy to me how that happens. The entitlement is showing with some of these little princesses in our society. I find it ironic that above average list of BS you put up, I say BS not as a dig, but because these women who want "Interesting" have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 04:16 AM
1	The only real form of love is unconditional love. That usual loan person is a bright ray of sunshine huh? Isn't one of the rules no personal attacks? Hmm. I'm not a wuss though, so what some random person on the internet says really doesn't affect me when they don't know my situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:20 PM
1	The only real form of love is unconditional love. That's a condition by traditional definition. I'm not trying to be a jerk, I'm just pointing out why people say "Unconditional love is only for children" because it's a consensus. I get it man, a lot of people have notions about things, I had to dispel a lot of those notions in myself the past 2 years. I used to think "Well some people are basic bitch thinking, like you know, the normie thinking way" but most people are basic b, and the stereotypes we fight vehemently, except for some gross over…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:54 AM
4	The only real form of love is unconditional love. That's why it's so precious, because it's so fleeting. You gotta enjoy things while they last, the capricious and unpredictable nature of love is what makes it so devastating, yet wonderful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:48 AM
2	The only real form of love is unconditional love. Like your "More healthy alternative" edit. Yeah, look man. Me and my ex wife used to smoke the tree, and that, sex (You know how it goes, once you're used to someone, you get lazy, and don't wanna go through the trouble of finding anyone else), and wanting to stay together for our kids is what kept that whole situation going for 9 years. I'm glad she's the one who came to her senses, I would have probably kept up with the misery if not. I think it's better to find a partner when you're older lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:46 AM
1	The only real form of love is unconditional love. Shoot, if the flavor goes out of the marriage she's gone, I know from experience. I mean, my situation is unique to me, we had NOTHING in common. Weird how people can ignore they until that actually look at each other and can't have a 5 minute conversation without breaking down, then you realize, "Oh....I fucking hate you. Like not a little either, A LOT. GTFO." And nothing wrong with it, we only live once, why waste your time being unhappy living up to an idealistic notion of love no rational h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:42 AM
0	The only real form of love is unconditional love. I hear you my friend, I don't trust unconditional anything. Someone saying that about an adult relationship is fairly deluded in my book. Unconditional truth isn't a thing either, everyone lies, everyone says they don't, but if everyone lies, how can you believe them? Some people have it in them, mainly because some are shitty liars, ut there are some honest people out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:39 AM
0	The only real form of love is unconditional love. Yeah, I love my children, I'd take a bullet for them, get my fingernails ripped out, and get tortured for 50 years straight and never sell out my kids. My ex wife? "We are gonna rip out your..." "I'll talk I'll tell you where she is, screw her." I mean, now of course, woulda held on a little longer had I still been with her. They are innocent and that innocence is something to be preserved and nurtured, because it doesn't last long. Adults will survive whatever emotional pain. I was with my wife…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:37 AM
-1	The only real form of love is unconditional love. When people say unconditional love for children, I mean there's not a parameter or bar set for me to take that love away. With grown adult couples there is, like he said above, abuse, you find out some F'ed up stuff about them, you lose your job (my ex wife), you cheat on them, or you become a drug addict, that will scrap most marriages out there even if they're on the strongest foundation. The relationship I have with my kids does not involve any of that crap and it's just different. I fell in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:33 AM
2	The only real form of love is unconditional love. Hold up, I'd disagree with "I keep seeing people saying 'unconditional love is only reserved for children' which makes no sense." Oh it does, I have 3 children and the reason is because they didn't ask to be born and they're innocent. An innocent child only wants to be loved and love you back. With grown adults, you can SAY unconditional, but let's test that shall we? What if your wife, came up to you and said "I just slept with 50 guys, and 2 of them I plan on going on a full fledged date with,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:27 AM
1	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? You seem well adjusted, I'm just postulating based on something a good friend said to me. That's good because a lot of people out here aren't, female or male. I feel the same way (which is a MUCH less popular proposition as a guy). I didn't use to, I use to chase women and pine for attention. I stopped all that because I tried to fight for my ex wife's attention and it didn't work at all, she just retreated into herself. She has mental issues though, and I hope she gets help. I'm a touchy feely,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 11:18 AM
3	Sexist Double Standards Also, like myself, I am dating a woman right now, lovely woman, doesn't hate men (despite her ex husband being legit a**sive, I'll take it with a grain of salt because I'm sure if you asked my ex wife she'd say the same thing, so), but it's been 5 and a half months and she is getting ancy for sex. I am not too quick with that now, I'm honestly wanting to hold off until I get a vasectomy, as I already have 3 kids. She's not pressuring me, but I can tell it's getting to her. I wish I could say "He…	/r/MensRights	11/12/24 02:52 AM
5	Sexist Double Standards Yeah, well if we are creating a more "equal" society where Women can work and do all that jazz, then yes, if were are eschewing traditional gender roles (thank you Archer) then let's do away with the "We must protect women and be gentlemen" aspect of it. Oh no, that double standard benefits them though, they wouldn't want that. Ugh. Men though? How dare you call out me being an empowered woman and a simultaneous victim all at once! Like the person below said, you want to be traditional, be tradi…	/r/MensRights	11/12/24 02:40 AM
2	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? You seem like a positive person as well mam, that's a good thing. Never lose that, that's what makes life worth living. I LOVE that in my daughter, she is 9, and she is always sunny and positive, but I mean, she's 9, unless you're in a messed up situation at that age, you're gonna be bright and sunny. I reacted VERY poorly when all this first happened to me in June, and now with the hindsight of 6 months, I find it's a very good thing it did. So sad, when my ex found out I had a new girlfriend, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:26 AM
2	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? Thank you mam, I don't let it affect me. The thing I found odd about my ex was she claimed that she "Soft hated all men." Yet as soon as the papers were signed and I moved out, she starts dating someone, like she had that person lined up already. I'm like, "Okay, apparently you just hated me." Or men like me. Hope you're having a Merry Christmas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:23 AM
2	Women have more Ick’s than men I'm like a woman now in the sense, if a woman straight up starts talking about sex or trying to have sex with me on the first night, red flag, I'm gone. It makes me feel dirty, I can't explain what it is. "Icks" are real, but a lot of people create unnecessary barriers because they are hiding from something. People are people, they'll be "Ick" heavy until they wanna bang or be with someone and they'll kinda lower that guard a little bit to a reasonable level. We all have our thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:20 AM
2	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? I almost hate sex now, it complicates things, it's dirty, and that's why me and my current girlfriend have held off on it. I think she was appreciative of it at first (because most dudes on the dating site we met on, that was the first thing they asked for), but I can tell she's kinda getting irked. I hope I'm not afraid of it now, because that's what it's feeling like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:17 AM
0	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? What the heck is "good in bed" anyway? Dude, everyone likes sex. Like, my ex wife told me I was the best she ever had (I almost laughed because EVERY WOMAN SAYS THAT WITHOUT FAIL, so I'll never believe that coming out of a womans mouth, because of our male ego). She told me it was because I actually care if a woman gets there a lot before I do. Like to me, that's standard. If any men are out here being selfish like that, don't be surprised when your options dry up. Like, even if I were completel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:15 AM
1	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? One of my long standing female friends broke it down for me like this, It's not being a straight up A hole they're attracted to, it's the having to work for his attention, we as humans, LOVE to earn people's attention and feel like we had to work for it. An overly eager man doesn't get much play because women are like "Well, I already have all of his attention and interest, there's no mystery there." And, at least at first, there needs to be SOME mystery. I'm not saying you're wrong (I couldn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:08 AM
1	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? Ok, let me shorten all that beeswax I said below, sometimes people fool you and lead you on, making you think you two are compatible, and then, when they reveal their true selves, you aren't. You two aren't even on the same planet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:03 AM
1	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? Yep, like my ex wife who masked herself to copy my personality the first 3 years. See our situation was that she went out with a dude before me, that (because of how she looked) would have sex with her, but not commit (despite in every way she was his girlfriend), and in fact wouldn't even admit to having sex with her to his friends. So she stopped getting hung up about it, and "broke up" with him, and started dating me 2 months later (Looking back on it now, she didn't give herself enough time …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 02:01 AM
2	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? Yep, what happened with me and my ex wife man, we didn't see life the same. I always try to find a way to make something work, and with her, she LOVES negativity and getting down. I just can't be like that, life is depressing enough without me feeding into it. Positivity, that's the key, it's also why the old friend group I had, I had to dump in 2021, they weren't good people, and were overly negative and judgemental.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:56 AM
2	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? That’s why the stoic male and “I’m just gonna live my life” things among men have taken off so much. We gotta stop living and dying by what these females think. Females en masse don’t care about our expectations so I think it’s high time we stop caring about theirs. In our culture we have to stop saying “Oh a dude is alone and stuff, I guess he can’t get a date.” No, maybe he doesn’t want one of these entitled princesses like my ex wife who thinks a mans sole existence should be to cater and bow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:54 AM
1	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? The reason the stoic and "Hey I'm just living my life" thing among men is so popular now is because you can't live and die by others expectations, women en masse don't care about our expectations, I think it's high time we stop caring about theirs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:50 AM
2	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? Oh yeah, I felt like I did everything right and am now left in the cold. I feel like the barometer is so much easier for men to be left out too because 1) Our culture has a "Men must protect women" attitude and 2) "Men are tough, so I can just treat him any way and he shouldn't complain or he's a sissy." Like men's feelings are non-existent. I had my ex wifes EVERYTHING paid for, for 5 straight years (until the first time we separated in 2020 and she moved out and she HAD to get a job), then wel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:48 AM
1	Is there anyone here who feel like they did everything right but their relationship failed regardless? Exactly what happened to my marriage, I got hit by 2 18 wheelers and my back was injured and I just now am getting healed enough to work. She couldn't even last 2 years, dude, for perspective, my ex wife didn't have a job the first 5 years of our marriage and didn't even try to look for a job. Someone like that? Relationships don't work when one person prioritizes their own needs above everyone else's, that's a one way street. I used to say, after cutting grass in the hot sun and needing to show…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 01:38 AM
2	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Thank you my friend. I want to be a lesson for everyone, don't discount yourself, believe in yourself, even if you don't see the reason yet for doing so. If you feel you're not in a situation that's mentally unhealthy for you, no matter what the reason, get out of it. I'm the lucky one, my ex wife's sisters husband, he ended up in a mental health facility. I hate that for him, because he'll realize in the end, she wasn't worth that. To be honest, no one is worth decimating your mental health jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 10:01 PM
1	Men are a big part of the problem. Sure, but if you knew she was on the level? It's called honesty, and most of us aren't honest until confronted with the reality of the situation. Like most of these women, at least in my life, "I wouldn't take that ab**e." or "Just cause he has money I'm not impressed by that." But always take it and are always "impressed by that" despite their hypothetical situation in their mind where they yell from the roof tops they wouldn't take that. Same with men "I wouldn't take that from this woman." "I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:40 PM
1	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Well, you're not missing anything. Most people in this country don't know what true Communism or Marxism even is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:29 PM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I agree, it's not so much Andrew Tate as the guys opposite Andrew Tate abandoned seeing men as human beings thus left Andrew Tate and the Manosphere a WIDE OPEN LANE to swoop in and recruit disenfranchised young men. The Left never sees theres a reason, when one side says "Oh your concerns aren't really concerns." And the other side, Andrew Tate and others, simply acknowledge you're a human, these things tend to happen. It's the same with the Democrats, Biden may have been pro labor, but his par…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:15 PM
1	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". The thing about it is, BOTH GENDERS GET IN THEIR FEELINGS. Like dude, you can look up when I first got on here, I WAS PISSED at all women everywhere because of my ex wife. Women, when they go through a situation where they had a negative experience with a man, vice versa. It seems like though, when the common woman goes through it, her echochamber is much more supportive of that mood continuing and morphing into a bias. When men go through the mood, we aren't. Both genders should learn, okay you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:17 AM
1	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". All pills are dumb, LOL, I like that. It's so weird, "Red pill, purple pill, Blue pill, bleh" Dude, I miss when the only time I heard of blue pills or red is when I watched the Matrix. There's just a tipped attitude whichever side you go on. I judge based on situation, not Woman good man bad or Man good, woman bad. That'll just lead you into trouble one day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:10 AM
2	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". I mean, who wants to work at HuffingtonPost?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:08 AM
1	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". I'm gonna split the difference here, Leftists don't want to harm men, they just give in to the framing of "Hey a woman has every right to be upset, and she's justified. You man? You're not allowed to be angry and your anger means you're a right winger." Confucius say what? No sir, I'm no Right Winger and resent the very notion, but men have EVERY EVERY EVERY right to be angry at our current situation in society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:07 AM
3	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". I mean, what almighty person said "Hey you HAVE to be with someone and have sex to be happy." I was married for 9 years and had sex with my wife constantly, it's how we had 3 babies, and I wasn't happy, around her anyway. I also chose the wrong person, we both did, we had shared interests but not values. She lied when she got with me because she likes masking to fit other peoples personalities and took my personality on for a while, but then, as she started honestly being herself, it was abundan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:05 AM
3	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Ah, but my friend, here is the rub. How is Milo, Nick Adams, Andrew Tate, or any of them any different from TYT, Majority Report, or any other Leftist platform? "Subscribe to my substack, pay me, and I'll sell you all the comfort food you can stomach and stroke your hair and tell you it's ok." I used to be a paid member of TYT, and then Cenk got caught Union busting. Anyone who makes televised content for subs, GRIFTER, period in my book. I do find Jordan Petersons Kermit voice most amusing thou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 09:00 AM
1	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Birth rate? Dude, developed nations always have a lower birth rate as people pursue other avenues of life. We will NEVER touch the birthrate of the Global South, there's not as much education and thus starting large families is the only way of life for a lot of those places. That's a narrative others have pushed that has no basis once you look at the actual numbers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:57 AM
3	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Yeah I don't support Trump in any way shape or form. The man is morally bankrupt. Kamala Harris isn't much better, but at least she doesn't support Right Wing groups that clearly have little care for Democracy. They both serve corporate overlords anyway. I don't give a care who you vote for (Voting for Trump doesn't make you a Nazi, it means you clicked one button over the other in the booth), but don't come to me saying "Trump's a genius." Woah there pilgrim, how did his first term go? You know…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:54 AM
3	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Yeah, I never give in to Right Wing framing, the border wasn't "open" (Biden copied Trump's immigration policies) and Trans people aren't invading your bathroom (Heck throughout the nation the amount of Trans people is not as numerous as people think), but the hatred of men aspect DEFINITELY hurt the Left this time. Like I said above, I was a Progressive, and then my ex wife turned on me, and it completely broke me of being political in any one direction anymore. I thank her though, she set me f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:40 AM
2	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". The big thing about this particular topic is. Yeah, You treat someone like an enemy, they will become your enemy. Like a self-fufilling prophecy you speak into existence. Like someone below said, two things are true here at the same time. PRO MAN IS NOT ANTI-WOMAN, period. Turning to Andrew Tate, the Man-o-Sphere, and others like it however, will not make your life better. It's a rabbit hole. Progressive ideology is good for things like labor, but a lot of people don't know how to practice this …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:27 AM
3	Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media". Socialism? Of which America has never implemented. Perhaps a bit of Democratic Socialism is what this country needs. I just don't vibe with a political ideology that has never been implemented in our country's history being the enemy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 08:05 AM
1	Men are a big part of the problem. And we as people need to understand, we're not perfect, like me. Me and my ex wife I can tell will be FAR more suited and better aligned to any one else besides ourselves for relationships. We grow and we realize through trial and error where we need to change and adjust our priorities and things we put up with. Men overall are adjusting to the fact that people are trying to have it all. NO ONE can have it all, when you try, you make yourself insane and unhappy. Men do have to adjust our standar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 01:28 AM
1	Men are a big part of the problem. Sure, that's what happened between me and my ex wife. Really we weren't honest with each other throughout and we were NEVER alike, and all time passing did was make the chasm wider. We started 6 feet apart, and we ended up wider than the Grand Canyon. I think that when you find someone you're actually meant to be with (Or both people are willing to put the work in) than unconditional love is a possibility, albeit rare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 01:20 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so I think that's the sad thing that goes on with the Progressive political ideology in today's age, like it's all good to want a more equal society, but then don't take how another group acts unequal and tell men "Oh that's just not happening." No, if there are some who hate women JUST for being women, then logic dictates there is a group of people who hate men just for being men. The latter is given complete understanding for doing so even. This isn't a particular individuals fault, it's our grou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 01:16 AM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Who cares what you believe? I shared the story to let people know, don't get down on yourself. That was the point, I don't get down on myself when it comes to people. No one owes us attraction, all you can do is keep plugging until you find someone you vibe with. LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 01:09 AM
5	Men are a big part of the problem. America for ya bruv. Everything is transactional, unconditional love is reserved only for children, everyone else, there's conditions attached to why I spend time with you. I'm not like that, but my country overall is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 09:35 AM
15	Men are a big part of the problem. It takes maturity to recognize, problem is most of us aren't mature. And we can act all high and mighty over a screen, but if one of those instagram models ran up on me, and I didn't have my girlfriend I had right now, oh I'd go. No one is different, no one is better, we just pretend to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 07:40 AM
2	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? What do you mean? I like helping people, how specifically did I show you a new perspective?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 07:31 AM
1	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? Um...What is a Pink Pill? If you don't mind me asking. I've never heard of that, I'm old, LOL, comparatively, online wise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/24 07:27 AM
2	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? Yeah, my daughter was born at a time where I was heavily nihilistic, thought nothing mattered, and thought I couldn't have kids, because I had a good bit of sex with other women and no condom and thought "If it hasn't happened by now, then it never will." Then, met a girl on OkCupid, my ex wife, talked for 3 weeks, came up to my house, had hands down what is still today the best sex I've ever had in my life all weekend, nothing but in the bed, and then she calls me and says "I'm pregnant." I'm n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:56 PM
3	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? It's not natural homie, it's practiced. This reaction to my trauma and pain took time, and I didn't respond with strength or understanding at first, but what is crying and whining about how unfair my life is gonna do for my kids, or myself? Nothing. My family, Mom and such are not naturally strong people, and I saw what it did to them. I'm the only source of strength my children have, so I can't let life break me. I can take it, so they don't have to, if I fold now it would all mean nothing, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:46 PM
2	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I created two sayings for myself, an exercise I do is to pretend I'm a life coach hired SPECIFICALLY just to life coach myself and wonder what a life coach would say to me (driving home the point, we all know what needs to be done to improve our lives, we just don't go through with the action), "Change the way you think, about everything." And "Reach out, and you'll find what you're looking for, but you HAVE to reach OUT." an addendum to that second one "You're hand may be reaching out until it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:40 PM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women I've apparently not understood what high maintenance fees meant until now, so no. LOL. Takes a real big boy to admit when he was wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:32 PM
1	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? I'd say, interests and common talking ground sure, similar, also shared values and what it takes to make a relationship work similarity is a must, but that's about it. Besides that they could be opposite from me, I also have a very particular personality so, hard to match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:30 PM
1	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? I feel like, as long as we could both grow together, I don't need someone exactly like me, I like a little difference because sometimes I get too pessimistic and I need someone to reign me in and say "Babe, it's gonna be ok. It's not the end of the world." Why I am so enamored with the girlfriend I have now, NOT AT ALL like my ex wife, she's positive, doesn't complain (unless it's an overt violation), and always wants to find a way to make positive happen instead of despairing that something can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:25 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. To be honest there is no "I've changed." I'm still in the process of changing because it's an every day choice you have to make to be better, I say for my kids, but I also ultimately did it for myself. I was a SUPER negative and downer person 5 years ago, I couldn't continue to be that guy, that's not a life worth living.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:16 PM
3	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Okay, I didn't explain it well enough, because every one has past trauma from a relationship and most of us take away the wrong lessons from our trauma. I can't tell you how many times I've heard in real life and social media "Oh, every dude/girl is an asshole/bitch so I might as well chase the ones who are the most sexy so I'm at least getting the best looking person out of the toxicity." The push and pull of trauma, EVERYBODY has some form of relationship trauma, means you chose the wrong pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:15 PM
2	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? That's great, people always take their bitterness, men and women, and honestly, you'll find some reddit posts by I myself (Not proper Grammar, but moving on) being sore on women, it's just the moods you go through sometimes, and having their past dictate their future. I had to look at myself and say, hey all of my past relationships haven't worked out, you know the common denominator? Me. So I had to work on myself, I was attracting or settling for women who weren't my peace. I also used to smok…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:02 PM
2	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? My friend, I get it, especially with what I went through, but do you think that will enrich your life to think like that? Or is it just safe mode to guard your heart? In subtle ways yes, you can think like this, to guard yourself as all humans do naturally. I'd never let anyone, even my ex wife, cost me my sunlight, I shine on, forget her, she can't take my light, no one can, it's too valuable to me. That's why I have nothing currently, besides my kids, my car, and my new girlfriend and I'm happ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:52 PM
3	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? Hey appreciated, yeah, I only had my 2 girls at the time and I saw nothing, but them right after I got hit, their lives flashing before my eyes, not my own, and was spinning around, fortunately I got knocked into another 18 wheeler that pushed my car off of the road. Psychopath 18 wheeler just kept going. Those folks need SO MUCH more regulations for damn near killing someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:48 PM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Like I used to watch a lot of Progressive content, and I stopped because literally ONLY ONE of those women actually appreciates the view of a man and doesn't outright hate them, Krystal Ball off of Breaking Points, she actually appreciates her husband and doesn't bash men constantly like the others. I agree, I've also had to quite recently, de-politicize my views, because politics shits everything up, better to know a person as a person and not by their politic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:17 PM
0	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Yeah, they saddle FAR quicker into the, "Well I'll just use my body for money." aspect because they can, they don't want to sit there and be like my sisters, yes, they were raised in poverty, but they worked hard, got college degrees, and have their own money. Some people just take the lazy way out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:14 PM
2	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? How long ya'll been together though? I'm just saying, I had NOTHING in common with my ex wife and we had 3 kids and were together 9 years. To each their own. Plus, you don't know me, I'm kind of A LOT as a person to deal with, so two of us would be A LOT to deal with for people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:04 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I will say, though I'm not the best looking guy, my body looks HOT AS FECK when I work out and keep it up over 2 months.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:44 PM
2	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I get, some non confident men do. Like, look, I did around the time I got with my ex wife. With regards to standards of myself, my ex wife was not conventionally attractive, let's just put it like that. I'm not trying to bash her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:43 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Yeah, an important thing my current girlfriend, God I guess she is my girlfriend now, never thought that would happen so quick after my ex wife, but she told me after I came out of my shell about a month in and she saw me actually laugh and smile hardily, she said "You have an attractive positive energy, don't let your ex wife or anyone for that matter take that from you." And yeah, it's funny, as much as I've been through, I keep my head up because, hell I choose to. I would say it's because of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:41 PM
5	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I think both genders have pushed and pulled each other, trauma wise, to have UNREALISTIC AS FUCK expectations. My dudes, you ain't finding a freak in the bed, absolutely stunning, good mother, good cook, keeps the house up, and so on. My uncle had that woman and guess what? She cheated on him the ENTIRE marriage. Everyone has a flaw. Ladies, you ain't finding a six pack abs, rich as fuck, feminist as fuck, hungry for commitment, manly, tatted up, soft guy around you but hard guy around everyone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:34 PM
3	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women What I gleaned from your response is complete fairness, although, I'm older and rely on unconditional love ONLY from my children, seeking it from a woman is a losing battle as grown men ARE NOT loved unconditionally, and I've known a freaky girl (I don't hit her up now as I've been dating this good one for a good six months, so I don't need to) for quite a while that all I have to do is pick up a phone and I'm guaranteed sex, so no pressure there if I get rejected at a bar or online. Problem is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:28 PM
4	Being raped is being oppressed... But only until men are raped of course. Foo said, "Twatter" and we laughed. And it was good.	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 12:30 PM
1	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous No, and then you run the risk of getting a completely selfish person like I did. Where she lived with me for 5 years no job, and she didn't care. As soon as the tables were turned though, and SHE had to pay for everything, for not even 2 years, I was a bum, loser, (despite just having come off of 7 years at the same job), and no good. So yeah, I'd NEVER let a woman do that to me again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 12:29 PM
1	CMV: Women dropping out of the workforce to embrace the "soft life" is dangerous Men. Women. DON'T EVER, AND I MEAN, EVER, EVER, EVER RELY ON SOMEONE ELSE FOR YOUR LIFESTYLE BECAUSE YOU ARE COMPLETELY AT THEIR MERCY. I know from experience, both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 12:27 PM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I now see it as, "Hey whats up, I'm gonna spit game, you in? No? Move on." Now I'll add the finesse if I sense it's a woman with my same genuine interests and values, but mostly the same thing. Don't be afraid of rejection and realize sometimes rejection is neither quick nor obvious. Women have their reasons, some of these dudes be psychos yo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:52 AM
4	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. MOTHAJUGGIN wOOt!!!!!! So true, I'm older and dating a woman I would have only dreamed of dating in my 20s. I hit on her while she was at work and actually got the digits, it's all about the energy you exude. Closed mouths don't get fed and little dick energy gets little dick results, not meaning to be crude, but it's as plain as I can state it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:50 AM
7	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. Preach my sister, this is the reason me and my ex wife didn't work. I had no standards and was treated like I had no standards, thus the confidence I now exude. Gotta stand up for yourself because no one else is gonna.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:48 AM
5	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. I think it's more of a reference to men who are high maintenance and complain that they never find what they're looking for from the women they pursue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:47 AM
1	Why is it that every time someone suggests men raise their standards or communicate their desires early to avoid relationship pitfalls, there’s always pushback? Instead of taking the advice, it seems like there’s an endless list of excuses not to do it. WTF, dude don't downplay yourself. I've been in a bar, and literally got rejected by 37 women. I didn't despair, guess what happened with 38? Went home with her. It was mostly a pity thing because she saw me getting shot down over and over and even referred to me as "The Little Engine that Could." Not a reference to my junk as she said this before we had sex. Man, that was before I was married when that happened. Geez, I'm old. I'm short with an ugly face, but ONLY on reddit will I ever say that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:46 AM
5	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Yeah, but my middle daughter is really starting to notice the lack of attention from her mother. It sucks, but I don't live with her anymore so I can't do anything about it. Though, NOTHING compares to the feeling of when my 2 year old sees me and shouts "Hi Daddy." almost makes me cry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:33 AM
9	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? The reducing your relationship to a transaction is a good point. My past relationships broke down that way. When you start seeing it as that, keeping tit for tat, you're not viewing the person as someone you love, you're viewing them as something to be used. That's not love, that's mutual benefit, not a healthy relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:31 AM
5	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? Yeah, I'm dating a girl right now and this is the LONGEST I've went without sex, about 6 months now. I'm in no rush, I'm older so sex really isn't the be all, end all when you get right down to it. I will have sex with her eventually, but I'm still in the cuddle and stare into each others eyes phase. As an olde man, I LOVE building intimacy outside of sex, makes the sex that much more passionate. I get that super youthful feeling, like when you dated in 7th grade and weren't looking for sex, GOD…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:25 AM
-1	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? Agree, and disagree. Agree with respect to enjoying each others company is key. Women will get with some guy they say all the time "I can't stand him." but mostly for fleeting sex or a non serious relationship. Disagree with respect to, there are people who expect you to do stuff for them, not in an unhealthy abusive way, but in a relationship yin and yang kinda way. You cook, I'll do the dishes type shit. You do the laundry, I'll cut the grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:17 AM
1	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? It depends on whether the woman can even have kids or even wants them. There are some of those people around, that ship sailed away for me 10 years ago with the birth of my daughter, but there are those people around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:15 AM
2	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? Eh, I understand how you would come to that conclusion, but it's flawed. I want companionship (cuddles, and hand holding and shit), to be appreciated, to be excited, to be mesmerized by a womans inner self (I'm attracted to very selfless women, recent development as my ex wife was anything but), to be understood, and to have my values matched (values, not exact personality, I don't want to be with a female copy of myself). The excitement, appreciation, and matched values are key for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:14 AM
6	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? The interesting thing is a must. Because that's a challenge to keep up once you've heard each others stories over the course of the years, so you have to keep having new experiences, separate and together, to keep that conversation flow up and keep the marriage alive. Having a 9 year failed marriage, I know about these sorts of things. Don't do what I did in mine and you'll be fine. I think it's too personable a question, some men don't really care if she brings nothing but booty. Some men need …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:11 AM
3	What can men genuinely expect from women in a relationship? Well, good for you, my ex wife didn't do that. I had the job the first 7 years of my marriage and then when an 18 wheeler hit me, and she was the one paying the bills, she dropped me like a bad habit. I'm honestly for the first time in my life, jealous. I got my three kiddos so it wasn't all bad. She just wasn't the person for me. Hope you and your husband stay happy and healthy, good on you. See, you're a woman who is appreciative of the yin and yang of a relationship. You realize, "My good yea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 11:09 AM
6	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Woah dude, though I may be the exception, I do FAR more with our kids and spend far more time with them than my ex wife does. She on the slick seems like she DID NOT WANT KIDS AT ALL. Like dude, why keep having sex with me then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:59 AM
3	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women I concur. My ex wife was NOT attractive, but she had maintenance fees out the yang. She didn't start out that way, but she became elitist once she got a regional manager job and started making that money. I hate when that happens to poor folks, I've lost so many friends and an ex wife to that crap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:57 AM
5	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women I concur, life is too short bruv.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:55 AM
2	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women The sites are good if you have patience for bullshit, I'm not on that shit right now because I can't. The one thing that's true, any one, males or females, LOOK FOR SOMEONE THE OPPOSITE OF YOUR EX.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:54 AM
3	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Maybe not 5, but definitely 1 or 2, maybe 3. With the countless bounty of options for women now, it's like fish in a barrel. "Oh I can get sex easy, but not a relationship." Still though, "Courting her" can mean for sex as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:53 AM
4	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women I met my ex wife on OkCupid 10 years ago. Don't regret it, got my 3 kiddos out of it. She's a psychopath though so you really have to watch and be vigilant of who you are meeting on there. Guys, I'll warn you, she's on Tinder now, avoid this woman at all costs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:51 AM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Oh the P word, so goddamn immature. Don't care if a woman said it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:49 AM
0	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Not necessarily bruv, you could be chasing a THOTiana.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:49 AM
4	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Yeah, look, I'll do some things to attract you, but again, if we are all honest with ourselves, men or women, we know, 5 to 10 minutes into the interaction if we are digging each other. Now if it's REAL brutal, like this one time with a woman, I talked to her on OkCupid and we got along gangbusters, we met in real life? Nothing. That was such a miss I HAD to bounce in the middle of that date and leave her with the tab, sorry bruv.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:48 AM
3	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women I see what he's saying. Yeah, kinda can't comment on that aspect if you're a woman. Just like there's certain things I can't comment on as a man, can't comment on pregnancy or periods, because I'm a man, don't have the necessary parts for an experienced apparatus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:46 AM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Other continents? We're done here, I'm one of the poors, I have not the cash flow for all that. Good on you and enjoy your life with that one. If I go to another continent, it will be to stay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:44 AM
2	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Also being older is a plus. I'll do the crap to attract you, but I don't live and die by if you stay or go anymore like in my 20's. You're gonna ride the carousel or not, so why jump through hoops for someone who just wants a free dinner anyway? If I'm natural with the person and they respond, cool, if not, cool too. I got options, and I am pretty fuckin ugly, but you'd never hear me say that out loud outside of this post and I'm confident (not cocky) as fuck. I mean, I'd hope most of us are mat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:43 AM
6	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Yeah, the stoic leader thing I can vouch for because I started losing my ex wife once I lost my supervisor job. I stay working out and performing in bed so that wasn't the problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:38 AM
0	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Word, keeping up with these women in the modern world is like trying to make sense out of the ramblings of a mental patient, better just to not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:37 AM
-1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women HOLLA FOR THE DIVORCED DADS UP IN THIS PIECE!!!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:36 AM
0	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Hey man, just a question, you notice a lot of the women in poverty have more of the mental issues right? My ex wife ESPECIALLY.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:35 AM
4	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Yep. Sorry some of these women, especially in the South where I live, don't understand, you can be poor without being trashy. MOST PEOPLE, men and women, don't understand the difference down here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:34 AM
9	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Ah, an older gentlemen I see. Yeah, I'm not with that "Hey let's fuck" in lue of an actual date idea, to me that makes you seem easy and lazy. I just got out of a 9 year marriage where the glue was sex, I'm looking for something much more this time round. Women with no personality resort to that, I know, that's my ex wife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:32 AM
16	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Exactly, my ex wife used to TRIP ME OUT when she said "Put me in your body, I'd get with so many women so easily." I always thought "No, you wouldn't because you're thinking about how you would hit on them as a woman, which they'd be much more receptive to, than you hitting on them as me a man, with which their defenses would automatically shoot up." I'd LOVE to see a woman get transported into a mans body for a day, they would be traumatized, but I bet they'd have a SHIT load more appreciation …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:30 AM
5	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Yeah, and she won't appreciate it because our culture has told her, no, you SHOULD be doing that for me anyway. Okay man, but our culture has said if she cooks or does something nice for me she's becoming a "slave" for me and I'm stealing her thunder or wind or some shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:27 AM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women Yo dude, I'd have to concur. My ex wife moved on like it wasn't a thing to do. I was real broke up about it for 2 months, while she couldn't have cared less. Recently I realized, she set me free bruv. That woman is toxicity incarnate. I can only speak from my perspective on the matter. I mean, the thing that was amazing was, 3 weeks ago I was like "What am I mourning?" We had 3 kids together, but really, nothing amazing happened, besides our children, during that relationship. We stopped taking …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:25 AM
0	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so To steal a page from the Feminist playbook. You don't have the perspective to speak on this. Sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:14 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so "This type of behavior only creates the enemy they're fighting in their head" Well said sir, well said. The problem with "Hey I just knee jerk always believe the woman." when you're a man is, eventually, you'll be the guy on the other side of that, and then everyone will believe the woman over you. My mother did the same thing with my ex wife and now she's starting to see my ex wife for the true psychopath narcissist that she is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:12 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so Shoutoutstomywrist, Bruv YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD. My ex wife and her sister did that to me, would hate me for about a week because of a video they saw on Tik Tok. Dude, chill, I don't see a woman wrongly accuse a man of R word and think "You know, this is ALL women's fault." That's not reality, that's lunacy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:10 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so Thank you. Dude, I don't blame my ex wife, she's a psycho who really needs to get some therapy, but I thank her for divorcing me, I'm relatively young enough to find a non crazy Latina or Filipina woman now. First though, I gotta work on myself and my negative attitude, I don't blame myself either, not purely, we both had a hand in it. We were two desperate and lonely people when we met and as things progressed we realized, we had NOT JACK $h1t in common with the other. Like it's amazing I had a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:08 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so You're proving our point. We were on the topic of women hating men, stay on topic. Geez.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:04 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so Yeah, having dated mostly these type of women, I can attest, you can do anything in the world for them and they'll still come up with a way to think "All this pain and anguish I'm feeling because of myself, it's men's fault." Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:03 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so The natural impulse in our Western society is to protect women, but then these modern Feminazi's are like "I don't need your protection." Then when voting time comes "Hey we need you to help vote for our rights." I thought you were independent and didn't require my protection, victim or empowered woman, which is it? It can't be both simultaneously. And the Bizarro World aspect of such a statement is, someone would call me an Andrew Tate loving Red Piller for making that very nuanced and based in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 10:01 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so The whole thing about life is, it's not a zero sum game. You look absolutely ridiculous in either lane saying "All women's fault" or "All Men's fault." Makes you look like a jackass devoid of any critical thinking skills. Especially when it becomes a knee jerk reaction that you fall back on without any evidence being presented in either direction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:59 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so Yeah, so, getting a Filipina women and moving over there is sounding better and better each day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:57 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so They're addicted to the toxic personality of the female celebrity that everyone just has to suck up and deal with. They WISH SO BADLY, they could be that because no one is telling that lady how toxic she is. Why the modern woman doesn't have a developed personality because "She's perfect JUST the way she is." Like my ex wife, nothing but anger, yelling, and eyes locked on phone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:55 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so Yeah, the rabbit hole women fall down in those spaces 90% eats them alive (including my ex wife). Then they are THE SAME WOMEN who wonder "Where have all the good men gone?" They didn't wanna be called Groomers, or r words, or misogynists. A LOT of masking and LARPing is taking place among these women as well. Most of them have deep seeded mental disorders or personality disorders and instead of addressing them, they blame men. I guess that's easier, but by far not healthier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:53 AM
2	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so It's kind of sad. Let me be clear, I WAS Progressive, until my ex wife took me through the ringer, and then I had to drop political affiliations because it taught me just how foolish I was for having it. Being non political, gives you the freedom to see reality for reality. Like women who try to hate men or think it's cool to hate men all of the time, but then the same men who exude "Toxic Masculinity" are who they go for every time. Like, the double standard and hypocrisy is so great that I won…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:49 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so See, that's part of how Trump won, I'm not Conservative and have no political affiliation, but you can't just say "Hey, men are the people responsible for all of our woes." And then in the next breath ask "Hey men, please stand up for our rights in solidarity." Bruv, where was the solidarity at when I was your devil? Reality is reality. Problem is, people are so tribal and with the cliques that if it's a Conservative crowd, men are always right. If it's a Progressive/Democrat crowd women are alw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:45 AM
0	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so People becoming more "Pro-man" now, is a revolution of thought against the previous misconception that "Men are to blame for all female woes." I'm a reality guy, it's not a viable reality to hate half of the population of this country and coddle the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:41 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so No, if you wanna have that discussion, everyone in this country knows, the Democrats suck. They're soulless and rudderless. Not me, but if most people have a choice between Republican, and Republican Lite, they're going Republican. Been true for quite a while. Both are beholden to Billionaires, and won't change a dang thing for your life in the grand scheme. Social movements and revolutions of thought change things, not politics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:39 AM
1	Hating men is perfectly permitted on Reddit and the converse less so Woah woah woah slow down there pilgrim. Quit with the political labels, I'm not political, waste of time if you ask me they all serve the rich, no matter what locality, state, or country, the end. I'm not Conservative bruv. I just don't think it's living in reality to say "Things are all men's fault" or "This is all women's fault." I believe a narrative of hating men was cool to push in the 90s in a tongue in cheek sort of way and slowly, more and more it became less tongue in cheek and a seriou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:33 AM
1	Have you noticed Reddit is very anti-men? Yeah it's real idiocy. The thing that gets me is, they treat you like a Right Winger, and like dude, what? I'm not a Right Winger, I don't ascribe to political ideology, I did for 14 years and nothing could be a bigger waste of someone's time than that, but to say that "All women are innocent." just because they're women, hold up, that's just biased. That's why these young women walk around in todays world thinking they can treat a man like trash and we just have to take it.	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 09:28 AM
1	Why is Reddit particularly anti-men, are there just more women and therefore more feminists here? wOOt LEGOvikings, I like your style good sir.	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 09:22 AM
1	Why is Reddit particularly anti-men, are there just more women and therefore more feminists here? My ex wife trolls all forms of social media so I concur, and she had the absolute gaul and nerve to call ME a narcissist, like WTAF?	/r/MensRights	08/12/24 09:21 AM